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'Counselor Your interactive orientation, emotional strength, and acceptance of others make you the Counselor. You are the kind of person that friends and strangers alike turn to in times of need -...|||OP, as you might have guessed from what was said in another thread, there is nothing that makes me feel more alive than dancing. In fact, since beginning my learning journey with it I have begun to...|||Hired thungs? Oh, you must mean the police... or the feds.|||I am.. I mean, I was even crazier about it when I was young. One of my best friends started teaching me Korean when we were in high school. Now, after college, we live in a house together and speak...|||I did too! That was such a great movie. OP, it' silly for someone to assume that thinkers don't have feelings.. Everyone has feelings. Thinkers may seem to deal with them better, but in the end...|||This is pretty much my assessment of government in general. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xbp6umQT58A|||Definitely more productive at night myself. I love working on myself at night by dancing. I generally clean my house at night as well.|||I taught myself how to play the guitar, but I tried lessons a few years into it and picked up all sorts of things I wished I had known before. It was usually a bit of technique here and there that...|||No, I'm not. I'm trying to make a point; that the stereotype in no way restricts or defines any of us. That's exactly why I wanted people to post things that wouldn't fit it.|||I'll be there for a few days, but my cousin and I seem to like quite a few of the same things and she just feels more open to getting to know me. I'm going too spend a couple of days traveling around...|||I would want to be born in the early 60s so that I would spend my young adulthood in the 80s. New technology and such doesn't matter as much to me as my physical hobbies and interests. I love to...|||You're definitely right about INTPs talking too much about their own interests.. I know I can be bad about it if we hit something I'm really interested in. I always try to find things she's...|||I would especially like input from the women on this forum. I am a 26 year old guy and have a 20 year old female cousin cousin who is ISTJ. She and I just recently met after I searched for my dad's...|||OMG.. get out of my head! haha|||What happened to Nadjasix?|||Yes, in mass doses. I went to gollege in the Dallas area of Texas and experienced things like this plenty of times.|||Okay, I really liked your post so I haven't replied to it yet because I wanted to take a little time think about what I was going to say. First, I'm glad you liked the outfit! Dancers often use...|||Haha, I'm going to take a stab at this and say.... no.. that's not very abnormal at all.|||Definitely understand the issue of stage fright. I used to do dance battles in college, but couldn't do them unless I was kind of intoxicated. The idea of dancing in front of other people was...|||Haha, I completely get that!|||Yes! Absolutely! Singing especially seems out of the box for anyone who is suppose to fit a stereotype of the socially nervous wreck. haha.I love hearing about others being able to use hobby...|||This is literally a copy/paste of the MBTI that was administered to me by a university psychologist. I had to use their computer so all I could do was copy and paste. It wouldn't let me take a screen...|||That's a very interesting perspective. I think that some of the things INTP do when they step out of their comfort zone and realize they don't have to be restricted socially by the thoughts or...|||?? Too seriously? I was trying to answer your question so that you could answer mine.. I thought we were communicating. haha I don't believe in the stereotype either. That's why I want to hear...|||I'm interested to know what exactly you mean by a physical braindump? haha. Is it meant to imply that dubstep is an outward display of the INTP mind? Yes, that's fine with me. None of my...|||Like I mentioned in the OP, You guys have any hobbies or anything that you do for fun that is really far out of the stereotypical realm for the INTP?|||I have an abnormal hobby for someone who is really introverted. I dance, and usually not in public. Mostly I dance for myself. A lot of people know I can dance because they've seen my videos, but...|||And this time it wasn't. You should decide for yourself, regardless of the majority. As I've stated before, being part of the majority does not make one correct.|||Indeed they do. I do not deny that.|||No, it sounds to me like too many people have insecurities. And I would add that a good direction, to me, would not be in a direction that suggests people should be censored from speaking in a...|||Being part of a majority does not automatically make one less ignorant.|||I agree. I believe that the subject matter becomes distasteful because people are hyper sensitive to others talking about them. It is an unfortunate side effect of victim mentality within the minds...|||I always try to give the benefit of a doubt. Sometimes people have ideas that they just don't express precisely well at first. If the OP is genuine I would be curious to see what he has to say,...|||I certainly hope not, but I can't really tell where he was going. Honestly the post seemed a bit vague.|||Well OP, I will say that I agree with the term hijacked to the extent that I observe people in positions of authority using euphemisms and rhetoric in order to divide the people up into groups so...|||I reiterate what I said before in the thread about how we build our principles. In my experience, in order to build real principles one must start thinking for their own self. I believe that...|||I base all of my philosophical views, ethics, etc. on the idea of nonviolence. A such, I am an anarchist and believe that every individual is responsible for his or her own self. I base my work ethic...|||I absolutely refuse to watch (or keep up with) anything that the media spits out. I'm not a sheep and I won't allow myself to be herded by that. Ask me what politician is in what position.. I don't...|||Agree: 2,4,5,6,7,9,12,13,16,19,20,22,23,26,33,39,41,42,43,45,46: 1 point Disagree: 1,3,8,10,11,15,24,25,27,28,32,36,37,47,49,50: 1 point Score: 37|||Honestly, this is a topic that is... well, I haven't fully made up my mind how I feel about it. I haven't been diagnosed with Autism, as I was diagnosed with Social Anxiety during college (had a real...|||Yup. That would be me. I'm glad to see I was of enough interest to be remembered! Sometimes forums can get so jumbled, but I always pick out a few in each site I visit that are interesting enough to...|||Sometimes when I read the things you say I think I wish I knew this person in real life.|||I'm just going to be honest and say that I didn't even finish this test, as it made absolutely no sense to me after about the 6th question and I got bored with it.|||I agree that this is an issue and has been for quite some time. I am American and live in a conservative state (for whatever that's worth). From what I see, the state itself (as in the government,...|||Who says I haven't read it? There you go assuming again. And anyway, nothing in that conversation has anything to do with what you and I were initially trying to clarify.|||Wow.. just wow.. I love how you tell everyone what they think, what their intentions are, and how they intemperate what they read.|||You have got to be kidding me. You're right. I'm done.|||See, there you go again. What did she say that was paranoid? There is nothing in this thread that I've seen to confirm this statement. Stop making assumptions about what others are saying and you...|||Because it's either trolling, willful ignorance, or something between the two that would lead someone to tell me what I implied in my own post. I implied nothing except exactly what I said and you...|||Thanks for the input. I can see from the post below yours that you are right.'

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'Laura Roslin from Battlestar Galactica is a classic ENTJ. I loved her character so much. And Adama was an INFJ, no wonder they were an unstoppable power couple.|||I remember thinking I didn't have enough information about what had happened to process it very well and then put it in context.|||ENTJs respond well to facts so Google fat shaming leads to weight gain and a bunch of results will show up. I would link the article but I'm still trying to figure out how to use this site on my...|||I don't either. It's so draining to deal with it. I'll pass. But I'm also intuitive enough to know if I can get along with someone within about 5 mins so it doesn't take much time.|||If the goal is to graduate then there's no need to reinvent the wheel. You'll run out of steam trying to correct everyone. Be yourself and don't worry about other students. I also have a hard...|||So you have one example, one that involves Donald Fucking Trump and you expect that to be compelling? Really? Even if Donald Trump is an ENTJ he certainly isn't representative of them. So it...|||An edited Taylor Swift bad blood, with no freaking rap getting in the way of the music...|||There's very few people in terms of friends that I have a deep connection with. It's hard to find for me. I've just accepted that it will probably be more difficult to find a intimate partner. I also...|||The only thing that really ever motivated me to study (in college) was getting a good grade and graduating. So maybe try focusing on that?|||Wut? Next for what!?? Also.... I CAN TEXT GIFS!!!!! AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH! I DON'T NEED THIS WEBSITE ANYMORE! JK love you all.... No but really. :P And My birthday was June 14th and no one...|||Dear lord.. I just found this gif and I had to post it some where!! https://i.chzbgr.com/maxW500/7130102272/hD53E7A93/|||HA! Wow, maybe this is the one thing that binds all ENTJs together. :P|||Damn it! I always hated hide and seek as a kid. I would give up and then go climb some trees. Maybe my dream guy is stuck in a tree like a little kitty and I have to save him!!! ERMERGERD!!!|||Hey she can't control where in space and time she is in! That wibbly wobbly timy wimy shit is cray!|||at last!!!!!!!!|||Hey I can dream can't I! http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_ljt7ceQPEK1qiqs2no1_500.gif ^Don't judge!|||DAMN IT! You beat me to it!|||NOOOOOOO! I still don't know what you look like! After three years of priceless witty banter and virtual tag team bitchslaps!|||Eh go buy a strap on. Good enough. :D http://www.beccahamiltonbooks.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/09/hell-yeah.gif|||Two things. http://25.media.tumblr.com/4e90b0e01d4dc637473c28045bd8b4bd/tumblr_mk95tk2go91qaitmuo1_400.gif And ME TOO! Spread the word! YOU CAN'T STOP THE SIGNAL!!!|||Is it seriously asking to much to find a guy that's smart, funny, attractive, educated, can get it up, isn't a jack ass, atheist, and a vegetarian?!? Apparently so. :(|||Aww shucks :D Lol it's okay I already have my own copy of Tom Hardy. :D|||The mighty morphin Tom Hardy specialty coming right up. :)|||Why don't I just clone a Tom Hardy for you instead? That way you won't need pants OR panties. ;P|||Maybe you're overthinking his overthinking about overthinking about ideal thinking...... http://anakegoodall.files.wordpress.com/2012/10/dsa-overthinking-3.jpg BOOM SCIENCE!!!!!^^^|||Bwahahahah! Do you want panties too? :P|||I have missed derailing threads with overly sexual content with you. :D|||http://gif-reactions.tumblr.com/post/26963837172|||LOL no. But I would find you more attractive. Though I guess it might work that way for some.|||Some women maybe way more turned on than you know. http://yeshub.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/sapio.jpg ^ I am one of them.|||http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lo8n81vz7m1qi93foo1_500.gif Sadly it's true :( Maybe my spoon can fit in your bowl bionic ...|||http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m7jmc5qCMy1r3zat8.gif ^^To all the assclowns We are coming for you!!! :P|||I did this for May the 4th this year! Yeah Its basically a holiday for me. That an Sept 20th brown coat day!!! ...|||Or with a spoon in them.... like my coffee. :p|||Yeah and I plan to stick around for more than just a few days this time!|||I'm so glad to know that the topics in this forum have stayed so classy..... I'm fairly certain that all of that was to either brag or lie about how much sex you have had. In any case when...|||I missed you too! http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_ll4lb6vw1f1qk46kqo1_500.gif|||Oh how I have missed you guys!|||I'm not sure if you ever watched Fosters Home for Imaginary Friends... http://i273.photobucket.com/albums/jj216/lilpimpendth/cheese.gif But everyone loves cheese ^^|||Got it! I will upload the edited one soon! :D|||I went through something like this about two years ago. Same thing, didn't know her well, we would randomly run into each other, we got along and I would have loved to of have more consistent...|||NOOO! It says that I am forbidden! :(|||I didn't read it on the onion... But that makes so much more sense :)|||Hmmm... I can. I'll send them to you via PM.|||Gah! I read that Kim Jong-Un article yesterday..... Just.. like what? So not helpful bro...|||I just want to punch them all with FIRE!!|||Well you know about the Supreme Court hearing te case to overturn DOMA? Facebook is basically I giant gay party right now. Expect for a few that... Well... You know rednecks and hicks, how I love...|||Is anyone else getting pissed off about all of the bigots on facebook?|||https://www.facebook.com/ajax/messaging/attachment.php?attach_id=dcf345848e90d211bf858c3db0dc7845&mid=mid.1364425828560%3Ae1db86db8505e08102&hash=AQAicE9w-A3MElat ...|||LOL!! Very nice! :D'

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'17 years old INTJ reporting.|||In the beginning of the friendship I'm usually kinda cold, then getting warmer as the relationships proceeds and then getting cold again. I think it's because I have really high standards on people...|||I procrastinate usually to the last chance before the deadline hits unless the task/project is really riveting or I have something to motivate me that makes me start doing it on time and maybe add...|||I do this all the time and when I'm watching with my friends/family, I'm usually talking about my thoughts, and it's completely fine to me since I can easily focus on the movie and the conversation...|||INTJ personality can be quite hard to communicate with sometimes, so I'm pretty sure many INTJs have some kind of shell around them to alter their personality around other people. They can also be...|||I think ability of thinking makes humans unique from other animals but isn't that pretty much about it? And it depends on a person too, some people think very little and their animal side is...|||I'm not rude nor arrogant, like most INTJ stereotypes show, I actually try to make the counterpart feel comfortable in conversation instead of being super blunt etc.|||Pretty much nothing. It's actually all about how you put your mind into it. Yes, there are lots of arrogant stupid people, annoying repetitive situations etc but if you think that's just how the...|||Yes, I think so. I only lie in situations where it's absolutely needed, like getting away with something. In normal conversations I'm 100% honest all the time. If the person is really sensitive about...|||Flirting in movies and series makes me feel somewhat uncomfortable and usually laugh because I see no meaning in it. I think it's some kind of play? Saying puzzling stuff that makes you seem more...|||I guess? Adults probably considered me more stupid that I was since I asked about every little thing even when I might have known the basic concept. I've always been perfectionist about knowing...|||I think I'm still as childlish as I was at age of 5. Asking about every little thing, questioning everything and being overall curious about everything in life. I've always been pretty much like...|||I thought the reasons come first, then the feels. I've never come across that kind of situation, first I go through the reasons and thoughts, should I feel this or that concerning this thing? and...|||I think I'm most certainly asexual since sex doesn't fascinate me, make me feel anything but discomfort and I don't see a need for it. Human sex really just reminds me of any other kind of animal sex...|||Hi Nesty, nice to meet you! : D I hope you have a great time and that you find new people to talk to.|||Haha, I had the same thing, stalking the forum first for awhile before joining. Hope you enjoy your time here!|||Welcome to the forum, I hope you find it as nice as it seems and that you get to know more people and find out more about personality types :)|||If this is the same thing that has been happening for me, I'm really happy. I don't know anyone else with these experiences about periods of understanding life and I'm really glad you shared your...|||When I'm upset or stressed, I hide it until I get to be alone and then I try to do something to end that uncomfortable feeling or mood. And I'm usually long time by myself, just thinking about that...|||I don't think many people are gifted starting from birth, they make themselves talented by trusting themselves and practicing endlessly. You can become gifted too, if you really want to. At least...|||Wow, I really know the feeling. In my family I never really learned how to show love or attachment. I like my family very much but my parents were never really anything lovey-dovey and if something...|||Haha, to me it might be the vice versa. I usually suggest things to my friends but things that they suggest are usually something that I just don't understand/like. I would like to like their...|||I know the feeling. But usually when this happens to me, I just ask something like so we are friends, aren't we?. I'm not too shy about it since I already think that the other person is my friend...|||I can relate so much to this. I value my friends but hanging out with them feels as important as watching a new episode of some series or playing a videogame. It's just another fun thing to do. And...|||If you want someone to care, you have to care yourself. I mean if you want friends just because you are feeling selfish and want to have person who finds you before you die in your apartment,...|||After I found out my type, I felt relieved since I could finally accept that there are people like me, people who think and act the same way. It has made some things more simple since you can view...|||I'm currently playing LoZ: Skyward Sword. I have liked it so far, the controls are smooth and scenery is colorful yet a little bit repetitive. Though it could never beat Twilight Princess.|||Currently reading Bernard Cornwell's The Pale Horseman. It's the second book of the series; it's alright but the narrative is somehow unreachable, there's not enough depiction and characters are...|||Have you tried to look for your goal through other things? I mean, tried some (new) things and found out that you enjoy them? If you really want passion in your life, you shouldn't just keep worrying...|||I know the feeling. You could try to motivate yourself to study those things by your own etc. or if that feels impossible, can't you just quit? I mean, what's the point being there if it's not worth...|||I agree with this. Whenever I feel overall really confused and stressed, little moment just calming down with breathing helps a lot! It makes everything feel more clear and simple and affects the...|||School always felt like a duty to me, nothing fun with that. I liked some classes like English and arts but rest was boring and felt unnecessary; I was just thinking where do I need this...|||Hi. I can identify with this a lot, and to me there's nothing wrong for asking support on a forum from the same type of people, especially if there's no that kind of people around you. I too feel...|||Ronanne; it's a great thing that I'm not alone with this, hope you begin to understand better other INTJ's and have a great time at the forum with them and with other people too!|||Haha that music video will play in my head next ten hours, it was quite awesome. Thanks both of you! o/|||Studio Ghibli's movies are truly great masterpieces! I have watched their movies my whole life and I have a bunch DVDs that I have collected through the years. I still don't have Nausicaä though,...|||Hello! I decided to join this forum after reading threads unregularly for couple weeks because I'd like to share my opinions with others and read and comment what other people say. I'm also...'

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637178 Web of Lies 637186 Waterfall of Truth|||637178 Web of Lies 637186 Waterfall of Truth|||635378 I'll just whore myself out a little bit more :tongue: Shirt's a little big for me, which you can tell around the arms though. Oh well, it was free so...|||633786 Turns out that lightpainting yourself is hard. But I'm super proud of this picture, even if it is blurry because I didn't have any help lol|||ENTJ's enjoy learning for a specific goal. They will try to bend the world to what they desire. ENTP's enjoy learning simply for its own sake. They try to understand the world to satisfy their...|||I made my new years resolutions back in August and have been following them well so far lol. Workout more, and now that I've gained back my stamina for running I'm going to concentrate on...|||Ha that's hilarious! Another doppleganger! Got any pictures? I never got to see my other supposed doppleganger :sad:|||617865 I finally cut off all of my hair lol|||Practicing with some light painting tools: 606698 606706 606714 Really starting to fall in love with light painting, and when I see what some other people are doing :blushed:|||Practicing with some light painting tools: 606698 606706 606714 Really starting to fall in love with light painting, and when I see what some other people are doing :blushed:|||A few more: Bruh Dafuq? What the devil is that noise??|||I'm not actually sure where it comes from or even when I started using it to tell ya the truth|||Haha hell ya! I'm right there with ya, I've got way too many. Thanks to my teenage years including anime, I've started using some of their phrases: Yoush [spelling?] when excited Yari yari ...|||Why is it so adorable??|||Oh you :blushed:|||Thanks man! And I won't lie, it is pretty lame. I got some headshots today and sent the top 4 to a couple of my women friends to ask about their favorite one for Tinder. The one I actually...|||Glad you think I'm hot enough to be in a generic dating site picture :blushed:|||Still looks pretty nice though|||It's actually in Missouri :shocked:|||Basic Questions: 1) Age or Age Range? -Mid twenties 2) City, Country and/or Region? Tennessee 3) Tell us something about your social life? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uuL6cJPz3Nk|||This is me :happy: 600018 And a few that I've taken: First day of experimenting with long exposure and I nudged the camera :crying: 600026 600034|||This is me:happy: 599978 599986|||This. So much this. Between my younger cousin and I, I was the idea guy and my cousin was always the fall guy. Poor dude. We used to get into quite a bit and I wouldn't ever get into...|||Here are some of my first attempts at Long Exposure Photography: Favorite one, even though I accidentally nudged the camera a little bit :/ 595322 595314 595330|||https://cdn.meme.am/instances/500x/27173488.jpg http://thumbpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/Hilariously-Adorable-Owl-Memes-15.jpg|||Well hello there https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/236x/3f/43/57/3f4357e03be19e3d4c5c6a3aa77a929b.jpg|||How about SF users? NFP's and even INFJ's I typically enjoy. Never met a confirmed ENFJ....|||Fe dom/aux users*|||You NF's are so friggin adorable :blushed:|||That's true. If I remember right, ENTP's are given the title of best bullshitters. But I don't think it has anything to do with lying, I think it's just because ENTP's can be so charming. And that's...|||Telling lies has nothing to do with being ENTP... I'm an ENTP and I'm about as blunt/honest as a hammer in real life.|||I think I'm pretty emotionally intelligent. Because I think it's a skill that can be worked on and learned. I started out in life in a bad way, my childhood was awful and statistically speaking, I...|||I agree with this, I don't think love ever stops either. The only woman I've ever fallen in love with broke up with me well over a year in a half ago and while the pain is gone, I still have...|||Here are a few of my favorites! :happy: 591242 591250 591258 591266|||I'm an amateur photographer getting better everyday as well as a writer. Once I get good enough with the camera, I'll be opening my second business in photography! :happy:|||italix Desthro The Enneagram tripped me up a little bit too. I'm a 5w4 which made me think INTP and have always tested as an INTP, even on the official test I took in college. But after...|||Sadly I can only speak English at the moment, and some very basic Spanish. Though I do plan on learning more languages as I get started on my flag theory plans! If anyone wants to learn...|||Aww you're so sweet:blushed:|||That sounds exactly like something a kidnapper would say https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/564x/dd/ba/c2/ddbac21d3edc73e18bbde8cf77b17268.jpg|||Lmao I love you guys https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VMDkpfJLt6o|||How did you know!?:shocked: I'm against drugs myself. But I use the drugs to hook into the hookers more easily. And use it to hook into politician's families. Once they're hooked, they belong...|||When you spend serious time contemplating on how to take over the US Government, come up with an overall strategy on how to do it and then find a squirrel to occupy your time instead and what was I...|||I spent a month coming up with an interesting and completely soulless plan to takeover the United States. I still think it has some merits to it too! But then I remembered that I'd rather take...|||I'd have to go with: Captain Jack Sparrow Patrick Jane and L|||Aladdin Sane is correct, you have to look at the functions. And to answer the question, we will need to borrow this image of a tree: i.dailymail.co.uk/ i/pix/2012/10/31/...|||I'm glad that my journey can help you =) It's one of those interesting things that you never realize you've made any progress until you look back at where you were before, even a year ago. I feel...|||This was a post I wrote a few years back, though I no longer have the blog I felt like it could be of help to some people here: In a post about understanding depression's many coping...

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'people spend too much money on weddings. some of the dresses can be pretty and some of the proposals can be comical. i don't appreciate any religious or traditional women are property aspects.|||i love dogs, particularly big dogs. german shepherds are the best. dogs have the ability to comfort you without being annoying about it or needing to say anything at all. they are useful and...|||Are you untidy? no. Do you like to act/perform? it would be nifty, if i ever had the chance. Do you apparently listen very intently to what someone is saying, then wander off onto a completely...|||what makes you think N over S? do you follow steps, see big picture, what? are you here and now or future oriented? how do you reach decisions? and since i'm being lazy, can you take the functions...|||you do seem more INTP than INTJ. i knew an ENTP that was rather laid back, though, so i didn't want to rule it out. you could always be introspective or going through a spell. what about your ti,...|||something about the way you came across suggested ENTP. plus ENTP is ne, ti, fe, si while INTP is ti, ne, si, fe. [note: INTJ is ni, te, fi, se.] it's probably not worthy of investigating, yet...|||i am going to have to throw in ENFP as an option.|||did you ever figure out your personality type? anyway, taking a leaf out of another post since it went unused: INTPs are more afraid of failure - INTJs are more confident. i've seen a negative(?)...|||hello and welcome.|||i was being sarcastic. oh well.|||i prefer a challenge. you know, with my bad winds. world is negative. i accept the world.|||no. if i wasn't a realist, i wouldn't have referred to myself a realist. i always consider various outcomes, i merely hound in on the negative. i do not expect much, get my hopes up or concoct grand...|||realistic. it usually entails being more of a pessimist.|||hello and welcome.|||hello and welcome.|||well, i see it here under a thread about qualities INTJs have that not very INTJ.. and i keep seeing a lot about how INTJs are serious all the time. i'm almost never serious. i think someone should...|||oh! i forgot this one. i guess it's such a trait of mine that i don't even realize it's not very INTJ.|||yeah, i put the don't get offended part to try and deter this. i mean, i could go on about all the help and great times my INFJ has been. it would more than likely have people start to question if...|||oh, i guess i should inform you that i did not make that, i just remembered having seen it awhile back so i went on a search and found it again. it can represent either, i was purposely leaving it...|||okay, i wasn't going to respond as i thought my deer-tiger-laser spoke volumes. but now it's share a story time. the ENTP i knew was my BFF for the longest time. we would have battle of wits or...|||it's too bad your INTJ friend didn't work out. i find INFJs to be wise. at least, i think wise is a good word. i'm usually able to learn something from them. this INFJ's solid ground is (sadly?) also...|||i love strategy games. i love most games. games are great. yes, my post is full of depth.|||i do well on tests yet there is always at least one question that starts to mysteriously talk to me when i go back over it, telling me there is a possibility i have been misled.. that it may not be...|||i've learned that if an INFJ wants space, give them space. they are probably stressed. my one thing i can add is that if you just move on and act like nothing went down, they usually will too and all...|||my name is jess. (or jessica, if you want to get fancy.)|||i couldn't find any other threads specifically regarding criticism or critique. oh, the joy. supposedly, INTJs and criticism are not the best of friends, but definitely more than acquaintances....|||http://27.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_l3xu3fqEiL1qzracxo1_500.gif|||hello and welcome.|||i actually really enjoy facts along with being abstract. they don't bore me so much and i think to back up an argument, you will need some facts along for the ride. i'm well qualified in observing...|||to reiterate what has already been mentioned: extraversion and introversion is determined by how you energize. and you can not ever switch types or parts of types or types of parts.|||i get energized internally by being alone. for me, it's harder to be internal and such when you have a lot going on at once, such as a lot of people talking in a large group. have to keep up, be...|||i do not think anyone was saying every introvert or extravert would fit the same mold. introverts and extraverts and how they deal with silence isn't a new concept. extraverted people are are...|||we're more apt to embrace the silence. probably in order to think, no doubt. i've noticed it as well. and if the ENFJ, ESTJ, etc. do ever get a pause in conversation, they generally can not not be...|||the earlier episodes of smallville were better, in my opinion. it gradually got worse and i had to quit forcing myself to watch. it became way too dull - or either my not being a big TV person got in...|||i'm an atheist. how fascinating.|||hello and welcome.|||to have feelings.. that would be tragic. i must be getting over the initial shock of everyone on this forum not being extremely sensitive. though, while still hijacking this thread (sorry, thread...|||really? insisting someone can't pick up on sarcasm has always been a serious retort, in my experience. it must be the way you type. it's so nice and proper and i fear i will never be able to master...|||why are you getting defensive? i was being sarcastic in return. no need to get any panties in a twist.|||as i mentioned, i have been caught. i mean, really, how ever could i be so blind?|||i'm trying to be secretive. i am really a man. you have made me give myself away. oh, the rage.|||top 5 characteristics dumb silly acting emotional and bitchy talkative and bitchy upon meeting, must be virgin top 5 physical features incurable acne cellulite and stretch marks|||i lived in florida most of my life before suffering through two southern states. first southern state was memphis, tn (yes, i love violence!!) though i'd been going to memphis forever anyway.. it is...|||a brain?? wow, guess all the zombie threads are getting to me. the forum already has symbols though.. we have that science icon. unless you aren't satisfied with what was chosen and/or want...|||remorse. for some reason, it just seems better to do than not.|||i'm a huge harry potter nerd, so i have to go with harry potter.. or hermione. maybe someone from the lord of the rings, like aragorn. he always seemed badass. possibly gandalf. honestly, for me,...|||oh, the joy of scenarios that will never happen! i think it would heavily depend on the other people you are associated with. you know, the group of people you end up with when this all goes...|||if your friend is really an INTJ, then yeah, they probably mean it. you could always return the favor however and take another trip later on with them and whoever else.. you could then be the one...|||knowledge is power, so i probably would.|||i will never be able to get over kristen stewart's arms. they are not proportionate to the rest of her body and it's as if all her fat goes to them. anyway, regarding ISTP: i have an ISTP friend. i...'

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'My father had a walk-in closet in the apartment we lived in for a few years after my siblings moved out. One of my dreams involved me walking in there and finding a jar with my brother's severed head...|||Aisle|||Everyone's a little bit weird. Therefore, to be weird is the norm. Were anyone truly, completely normal, then they would be the strangest person on the planet.|||I think my personal view on the subject was best described by Terry Pratchett: Death: You need to believe in things that aren't true. How else can they become? - Hogfather Technically, the...|||Elate|||Root: under-active (-25%) Sacral: under-active (-38%)|||I'd recommend the Discworld series if you haven't read it already, particularly Small Gods. Also of interest might be The Sandman, although it's a graphic novel, so I'm not sure if that's the kind...|||Father: INTJ Mother: ENFP (divorced) ------ Brother: ENTP Sister: ISFP I'm pretty sure we all drive my father a bit mad with all our perceiving-ness.|||You know, it's weird, but even though I'm aromantic, I really don't like the idea of treating love as something imaginary... I mean, yes, it's imaginary - neither tangible nor quantifiable - but just...|||1) Albert Eugene Machiavelli Richardson the Third and His Totally Bitchin' Crew / Albert Eugene Machiavelli Richardson the Third's 2nd Cantata: The Quest for Mo' Dough (Not to be Confused with...|||Here's one from when I was in my sophomore year in high school: I used to really like drawing and coming up with stories, often leading me to draw characters from those stories. In addition, I had...|||Well, I think that this will be my... fifth? sixth? time saying this, but I love me a good rpg. The Black Isle games*, Squaresoft's classics, Nintendo's few forays into the genre, etc. However, I...|||Amnesia! No, seriously, just think about all the badass amnesiacs out there: Wolverine, Geralt, The Nameless One, and we're one of the most forgetful types of all! It's just a matter of time...|||Well if you're looking for NPs who are youngest siblings, then I definitely qualify. Youngest of three by a span of four years. Mind you, I'm fairly certain my brother, the eldest of us, is an NP as...|||Some of the most intellectually taxing things I can think of off the top of my head: - Learn a language - Write a book - Branch off into a field of science you've never studied before - Try to...|||I considered that as well, but it becomes difficult to decide whether that's caused by bad intuition, or by his dyspraxia: In addition to the physical impairments, developmental coordination...|||I think that Totalbiscuit is an ENTJ. He is very outspoken, has a vision of the future which he is constantly trying to fulfill, and thinks critically about everything. ...|||To be fair, INTPs are too. We're just quieter about it.:proud:|||Judson Joist Really, I just chose retriever and lab because I grew up with a mix between the two and some of my fondest childhood memories involve me as a toddler sneaking up on her and wrapping...|||To own: Cat To watch: Raven To listen to: Also raven To study: Humans To snuggle :kitteh:: Large dog (Golden Retriever, Black Lab, etc.) Honorable mentions: Coyote, Fox, Wolf, Bat, Spider,...|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fvbXiOvWFp0 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JXGIkv6paY4 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FYCfzf3BpTk|||Focusing more on charisma and intelligence while more or less dumping strength and constitution (or their equivalents). I've occasionally heard the play-style referred to as the Social Rogue....|||I'd akin the MBTI to more of stereotyping than astrology. Stereotypically, there are some activities which one gender is better at than the other; however, that may not always hold true and...|||48% Intellectual 33% Creative 19% Visionary|||Seconded. It's a very entertaining watch/read, especially if you understand or wish to understand some of the core principles of Game Theory.|||Take a fruit from the box labeled apples and oranges. You will then know for sure which label belongs on that box because there is no way it was actually the box with apples and oranges in it. Then...|||Top 5: Game of Thrones Firefly Avatar the Last Airbender Doctor Who Baccano! Honorable Mentions: My Little Pony (G4) Legend of Korra|||... I'm going to need a more reliable source than yahoo news, especially given all the evidence to the contrary: Rising Scores on Intelligence Tests » American Scientist For the record, IQ tests...|||I would live in the Dreaming from Neil Gaiman's The Sandman series as one of the various dreams. I'd have access to an infinite library, every person's slumbering mind, every mythological world...|||Interesting. The way I understand it is that introverts actually produce just as many endorphins, and actually require less stimulus in order to do so. A typical introvert may be at their happiest...|||I typically go for squishy wizards or diplomatic rogues; I prefer characters that - assuming they can't avoid fighting altogether - can deal massive amounts of damage but can't take much themselves,...|||Team 1: Six Wobbuffets Team 2: Golem, Electrode, Wheezing, Forretress, Claydol, Genesect (all know Self Destruct) Team 3: A single Missing No. :crazy:|||Considering what my mind is sometimes capable of coming up with when sober, I have no interest in experimenting with drugs of any sort.|||I would be verbose if I ever actually talked. :P Also considered trying to be simultaneously terse-sesquipedalian. Most entertaining. Recommend attempting at some juncture.|||I feel as though this is relevant: Glass Half Empty|||Kyon from the Haruhi Suzumiya series.|||2fast4u2 Even from a Christian viewpoint, your behavior in this thread has been truly appalling. All you're doing is going around starting fights with people and threatening them with damnation...|||My imagination is extremely INFP.|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2rjbtsX7twc&feature=c4-overview&list=UUTev4RNBiu6lqtx8z1e87fQ|||Everyone knows that's just what John wrote to get his editor off of his back.|||Torment: Tides of Numenera Wasteland 2 Project Eternity Watch Dogs Thief (if only to see whether or not it lives down to expectations) [The Next Monolith Soft Title] Fire Emblem x Shin Megami...|||It isn't really. This has all just been an experiment to see how long a discussion about religion could be dragged out on the INTP forums. Pretty long, apparently. I guess a lot of people've been...|||Character Strength # 1 Creativity Thinking of new ways to do things is a crucial part of who you are. You are never content with doing something the conventional way if a better way is possible. ...|||- Granny Weatherwax (Discworld) - Malcolm Reynolds (Firefly) - Morpheus (The Sandman) - Garrett (Thief) - The Nameless One (Planescape: Torment) - Jyu Viole Grace (Tower of God) - Tarvek (Girl...|||Well you know what they say, Give a man a fire and he'll be warm for a day. But set a man on fire and he'll be warm for the rest of his life. ... I think that's how it went...|||According to the responses to the thread, Great ways to stifle young creativity - and, you know, personal experience - most INTPs (and probably most NTs in general) have a very negative opinion about...|||Well there are plenty of things you could try: 1) Don't write for a little while. Just let the writing sit for a while, maybe a week, and come back to it later. Similar to how sometimes, if you...|||Heh, I used to do this all the time. I would unintentionally listen in on conversations happening around me, sometimes while in the middle of one myself, which means I would often really confuse the...|||Unfortunately, I missed the part about the poll being multiple choice until after I voted. :unsure: Had i noticed it beforehand, I would've voted for Post-Apocalyptic Sci-Fi (for example:...|||Yes, but not by much. Even as a child, I was pretty uneasy around strangers and had only one or two friends I considered close. My increased introverted tendencies could probably be somewhat...'

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'It seems sara from tegan and sara is an infp|||I've been thinking about pulleys all god damn day and it feels so right like it is the answer to something magical. I also have been day dreaming about being a mad scientist. Not sure if the two are...|||I can only do it for 45 minutes or so and if i know i won't be able to connect with that person(s) and strike up an interesting conversation then i just withdraw. I usually just end up sitting with a...|||Have you ever felt like your body was on auto-pilot when talking to someone? For me it is when i just go with the flow and copy the tone movement and other mannerisms of the person i am interacting...|||I blame it on the chameleon aspect of INTP's but instead of reflecting or mimicking the person that we are directly with we partly reflect the typical girl.|||life not difficult where did you get that impression|||Elementary Use to play outside alot but games that did not require talking (4 square, freeze tag,ect) Close to being mute. Was messy,skinny, and unprepared (dispite my moms best efforts) to the...|||Your anwer to number 4 was awesome-sauce.:tongue:|||Paranoid: when in the dark, when people go into my room without asking, and around petty people Private: No, just discouraged. Most people find what i am thinking about to be boring so when asked i...|||Being one: All the MISSCOMMUNICATIONs (especially on open ended test questions and with loved ones):confused: and the tension I can cause by the above but trying to resolve it causes more of the...|||I am not sure as to why but people feel very comfortable telling me there deep dark secrets. some are people i don't considered to be close friends so just wondering if this is a common phenomenon if...|||Why would an intp want to be famous and submerse in HollyWierd culture anyway i think KStew is the closest were goning to get|||Wow I wondered in hear thinking you wanted out come out the closet|||Had expectations oh and saw twilight with my sister|||Yes... wait... no nevermind no one has ever said that to me.|||For me I have a tendency to mess up sayings/words and what not All-timers...alzheimer Escape code...scape goat scoth free...scot free No one has ever correted me did not figure it out till a read...|||I could work if you had 3 things or more or think of it this way... 3 and 8 they have the same absolute diference of 5. Either way it is a popular saying and like most poppular things it is...|||The worst thing i have done was set an alarm on my sisters phone that went off in class very loudedly and it played the whisper song by the ying yang twins. She got her phone taken yelled at and...|||I don't get it when people are like You're disrespecting ME and then they get in to fist fights and go to prison for asult for nothing. The people don't even repest themselves acting like...|||I look in the mirror... no but seriously just play the game what thing is not like the rest socially and bingo you have a suspect.|||Only if no one else says it.|||I walk on my tipy toes. My calfs are huge.|||I'm not going to call an ambulance this time because if I do you won't learn anything.|||What is this SLEEP you speak of and where can I get some???|||Wow. You cleaned you room without me telling you to. Holy S**T you have to teach me how to dance. You finally talked to that girl you liked. ( ^ Only in an alternate universe)|||Yes I think it is because my facial expression is usually poker face or WTF|||1. Friend 2. Snake 3. Runs away 4. Small 5. No 6. Window, Flowers 7.Plastic 8. Leave it 9. Lake 10. Swim|||Why I am Pro Choice 1) An abortion is cheaper for society then one child growing up with gov assistance 2) There are enough people on this planet 3) A baby should be brought into this world with...|||Also mad a comic book about jesus (as a pot head) and michael jacksons.|||i would make a lot of magic tricks witch involved crap tons of paper and glue. Also built alot of forts that i would decorate. not sure if that is artsy or not|||Hell yes. That is why i hate having to write lab reports for phyics. I can never figure out where to start i usually have to do alot of back tracking in my explination.|||You're Pretty Good Looking( For a Girl) - The White Stripes. :proud:|||You're Pretty Good Looking (For a Girl)- The White Stripes:proud:|||Why would my MOM call me a SON of a B**CH The insult really is directed at her then.|||My GUY freind got sucker punched in the stomach and started to cry. I asked are you ok and he said Very seriously I think I broke my UTERUS Funny as hell but still|||Intp and i am a MOLE and hear me ROAR pretty sadly spot on. ( Don't be confused i am not a snitch)|||You say thank you.|||1. Stop asking why (it is not important) 2. Remember the formulas 3. And sub in the numbers as needed|||In my AP Calculus class the airhead that shall not be named asked What do you mean by fraction? My teacher wanted to facepalm.|||Well if it is not a bs class I would not suggest it because by the time your final comes around you will wish you did your homework.|||I was only taught sex ed in middle school, for a day. In high school you can get sex ed if you take PE or parent child development and i heard they go balls out with information and photos.|||My mom is a first grade teacher. She has trouble getting her kids under control because she is a push over. So if you are a push over I would suggest something different but if your not summers off...|||28 on ACT the sciece/graphs section messed me up felt to rushed and got flustered still waiting on my SAT to be mailed|||Hall pass funny as hell|||smart but not complex my needs are simple and I am straight forward about them|||mom is an esfp dad is an intp but shows it by being an arrogant a-hole|||When a stranger approaches you and you say What do you want instead of Hello|||just saw a comercial for the new season of jersey shore I am disappaionted that industrialization has made survival of the fittest obsolete|||Loved math still do Hated English mostly because each year started out with the teacher telling me to forget everything the last teacher taught me and you have to remember 50 million diffrent...|||I also remember having to go to the school counselor in first grade because I would not talk I was really skinny and seemed scared to raise my hand to go to the bathroom and alway had messy hair... I...'

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'Bear in mind that Jungian typology was never prescriptive but descriptive in its approach - it's based on observations made by Jung himself during his consultations with his patients. So, of course...|||All I can say is: don't try to change, that's impossible. Evolve! Above all else, take risks. Judging from my own experience, a childlike mentality, as you call it, is not a given, i. e. it's not an...|||Hey, from just registered to banned in three posts - are you trying to set a record or something? No, seriously: Maybe you should have a look at the forum rules. And keep in mind - the MBTI,...|||OMG, that's uncanny - same here, down to the last detail (e.g. dislike of surrealism and dreamlike settings - I had such a hard time watching 'Inception'!). Thanks for putting it into words! ...|||By doing away with hierarchical thinking. Even though you may be mediocre, you're still one of a kind.|||I do. In case everything goes down the tubes and there's no more electricity. Just to be on the safe side...*swish and flick* :tongue:|||Couldn't agree more. We're all works in progress - everything we thought, said and did yesterday is a piece of the puzzle that is us, a step on our way, maybe even a stepping stone. Even if it feels...|||Lucky you! Happy thoughts is not something I'd immediately associate with my being an INFP (absentmindedness IS, though)...|||Very well put! :happy:|||Perhaps - and I mean this in the most positive and non-abusive of ways - you are, in fact, gay? As far as the vagina being an opening into someone's body, so is the mouth. And it's wet and fleshy...|||Perhaps - and I mean this in the most positive and non-abusive of ways - you're, in fact, gay? As far as the vagina being an opening into someone's body, so is the mouth. And it's wet and fleshy as...|||Hey, that IS true, now that you mention it!|||Well, four, actually...does that make me a loser as far as INFPs go? :shocked: :tongue:|||Are you being serious? Harsh criticism is nothing but destructive, it smothers talent and kills creative expression. It's the domain of gutless, narrow-minded non-doers and arrogant, pathologically...|||As a musician who actually IS in his forties (and singing and playing and looking like he's in his late teens ...nah, not looking, alas!) I couldn't agree more! If what you want out of music is fame...|||I don't think reality is to blame here. What the entertainment industry is really built on is the fact that most people are too lazy and timid and looking for satisfaction in the wrong places. The...|||No offense, but isn't this more of an INTJ thing?|||Sad but very true. In fact that's what used to put me off religion, and I encountered that kind of thing everywhere I looked, even with Buddhists, even regarding OTHER Buddhists of different...|||...when you're satisfied with what you've written only if it's not just true and well put but if the line breaks are beautiful as well, so you adjust your choice of words accordingly even though the...|||Same here. A psychologist once told me this might have something to do with my day not feeling complete to me yet. But I suspect it's merely due to the fact that by then everybody else in the...|||No, but you can stop trying, once and for all, and focus on who you really are. That helps. We're not broken or dysfunctional, all of us here - although comparing ourselves to the majority of society...|||As I said, usually - perhaps Hendrix watched a lot of TV while practicising as well? :tongue: Having said that, Hendrix strikes me as a typical ISFP, not an INFP, at least according to Thomson's...|||I'm a musician myself with a degree in musicology, and yet practice always used to feel like a chore to me, until I found out that I have to do something else while practicing to simultaneously...|||What you describe is actually very much in accordance with what Jung himself had to say about Fi-doms. Apparently despite our best intentions we can tolerate the problems of others only as long as...|||OMG, you're 17? That's incredible - when I was seventeen I was about as self-aware as a tapeworm. Anyway, I don't think ignorance is bliss, definitely not! Ignorance has had me groping around like a...|||I know exactly what you mean. I used to be a Literature major, and I'm actually rather good at critiquing and criticizing others - sometimes I feel that it brings out the best in me intellectually,...|||I really hate it when people on this forum ask for advice and I take the time to answer them, sometimes at length, and I put a lot of effort into doing so, and then I get zero response from them - no...|||Hmm...not sure about that. When you realize we can't stop that suffering no matter what we do or how much we're trying to hide - I think that's the actual turning point. Not believing in the ultimate...|||Who can? :wink: But seriously: In my experience (and according to established INFP typology), sticking to schedules is not exactly our strong point. As a matter of fact it can actually drain our...|||Hear, hear! You're gonna make one hell of a therapist.|||So what? Public image is a waaaay overrated concept. Besides, we're INFPs - whining and obsessing is what we do... :wink:|||Respect for what? For your adult and well-adjusted demeanor or your innate infallibility? Ah, screw this. Life will teach you a lesson sooner or later, and then you won't be able to say you'd rather...|||Whoa, hold your horses! As ATLeow correctly pointed out, a public forum is not exactly the right place if you want to be left alone. And why the condescending attitude? Oh yes, I forgot: You always...|||It doesn't. It's your life, and you're entitled to your opinion, of course. But why bring it up here if you don't care to discuss it?|||A pity that you erased your post. Made a great deal of sense to me.|||Do you truly believe that? Because if you do, this is exactly the kind of thing I was talking about. Everyone makes mistakes, including you. If you keep insisting on what you said, you can either...|||So sorry, but wouldn't that mean you'll have failed as well, in a way? Needless to say, being an INFP myself, I know exactly what you're talking about, and I totally agree that we should remain true...|||JaySH: Sorry, couldn't reply via private message because of some technical error. Anyway: I see now what you were getting at. And yeah, of course we're good.|||I'm beginning to suspect that my English is not good enough for this conversation... :frustrating: The cold shower reference relates to my trying to expose myself to as many emotionally...|||Please don't. Sorry about yet another generalisation, but AFAIK most INFPs tend to avoid controversy for obvious reasons when maybe they shouldn't. I can't say it was fun for me, but arguments such...|||Agreed. I just wanted to let you know that I wasn't implying your statements weren't genuine. What I meant was, I'm trying to accept that what you say (and how you said it) is valid and true from...|||Well, I admit I'm rather taken aback by the tone of your reply. First of all I never said that you or other ENFPs had it easy, quite the contrary. I tried to suggest very cautiously that perhaps...|||You're right, of course - that's what I'm trying to do all the time. But maybe the situation is a bit different for ENFPs, anyway. I'm not suggesting that you all have got it easy, but perhaps (and...|||According to David Keirsey, your parents are an ideal combination - same perceiving function (S), everything else is complementary. Do they get along well, if you don't mind my asking?|||Problem is, most of us are pretty much glued to the glass, aren't we? You can't simply DECIDE to let go.|||I don't know if this is a viable alternative, but a couple of weeks ago I took part in a Fire ritual. Went into the woods, cut down a small tree, made it into a stick and spent half the night...|||I'd recommend 'Fight Club', basically. Really, I'm not kidding. Whatever you do, make sure it's challenging and hurts you physically, in one way or another. We're guys, after all, we're not made to...|||Perfect - now start afresh. And don't wait any longer. If you're utterly broken, you've got nothing to lose. Accept that it's all hopeless, then do whatever the hell you like.|||Granted, if that's what you've experienced, you had some pretty nasty things to deal with. Still, I don't think that gives you the right to tell others that their life must be an easy one compared to...|||Amen! (assuming you don't mean physically attack people as well) I think - no, actually I KNOW - that all the typical Fi-dom attempts to protect their values and their emotional well-being are...'

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'Note: as far as the homosexuality thing goes in nature, I advise you to look at the paper that I posted earlier in the thread marked Can animals be gay?.|||Anyway, back to the thread. I have two things to say as far as homosexuality goes, and how peoples' perceptions have been presented to me. First, whenever I hear that homosexuality is wrong on...|||Weren't you saying that you wanted to marry your hamster?|||I feel like we're playing 21 questions. Can I marry something that can fit in a breadbox?|||Oh, I'm sorry. Here I was thinking that human beings were different from potato salad. My mistake. I'm so glad that you could enlighten me.|||Well obviously it's their lack of moral code, inappropriate behavior, and their tendancy to eat little Christian babies.|||Watch the movie And the Band Marches On. Aside from clawing you eyes out, it's pretty informative.|||Lol. ANY excuse to go to California. And I don't want you to think that I voted for Hitler. Oh I mean Jan Brewer, I'm sorry. We aren't all racist pigs. But seriously, stay away from Tucson, most of...|||See, I do not agree. The more I talk about type, the I see that people think that this is a nurture type of thing and don't give the nature side any attention. If we evolved from monkeys, at which...|||I am such a weird INTP. I don't think that praise is my driving force, but I want people to think that I know what I am talking about. That's why I am going to school to get my doctorate, because I...|||On a related subject... WHERE CAN YOU FIND ENTP's IN THE REAL WORLD? As an INTP, you guys seem like my best friends ever. But I think that I have only ever met one of you. Do you guys avoid Tuscon? I...|||Evolution and MBTI. This can include, but is not limited to: Which types are better at different time periods. Historical types and how society dealt with them. Why sensors are more abundant than...|||Well. I think that is my cue to exit stage. Thanks for the data guys!|||I don't see a video...of course, I could just be an idiot.|||Yeah a baseball player gave it to her. Oh you and you're judging facet. I'm pretty idealistic. I liked the idea, but everyone got it. Too easy.|||Do any of you like languages not including those that were immersed in them early? IT seems to me that they are VERY sensing and I hate them. That could just be how people have tried to teach it to...|||Lol. I don't know how I feel about you guys. My best friend is dating an INTJ and I love the idea of him; I have yet to meet him. I feel like we would absolutely love talking to each other, or I...|||I think they call it Communism.|||Everytime I see Jessica Alba I think two immediate things: Damn. She is super hot. Then, just after that, oh right she has herpes. I liked V for Vendetta, but they gave you WAY too much. It was...|||Tell people you don't have a facebook. They'll look at you like you're a poor, impoverished, depressed introvert who should probably be in an insane asylum :)|||My b. Your way makes more sense. Sorry, the world of feeling is very strange to me. I'm probably like a 5% on feeling.|||chimeric that totally makes sense; even as an intp, i live in a world of ideas and possibilities, and often reality does not quite translate. My ENFP friend is the same way, where she cares most...|||I don't listen to my F side. It is undeveloped, and is most often wrong; it manifests as red herring arguments and ad hominem statements. I work best on an IT EN level.|||I know I tell you guys in about EVERY ENTJ thread that I visit, but I love you ENTJ's. YOU MAKE SO MUCH SENSE. n2freedom, if I EVER need insight into something that I don't understand, I'm going to...|||@ENTJam I think that it's funny that you have qualms about the idea of sexuality because of religious preferences, and a FLAMING homosexual is your profile picture. Irony's hysterical!|||THat is a nice way to put that. THanks! I have that problem. I feel like NF types will be people that empathize the strongest to such types of feelings from others, although I know almost no INFP or...|||The nature and homosexuality idea cannot therefore be reduced to such simple components.|||With the bible thing, it's more of a man shall not sleep with a man like how they do with a woman. Personally, it seems that it explicitly says hey guys, no homos, pedophilic or not. But...|||Got to be careful with almond milk. I have yet to encounter a brand that doesn't use carrageenan as a texturizer, although it begins a process that leads to colon cancer. IF you want the research,...|||Are you sure you're not a sensor? I have yet to meet someone that is developed intuitively that is very religious. It is an interesting idea if you are; from my knowledge set, it seems that religion...|||I like ENFP's. They make sense.|||Absolutely. Count me in. So long as I can have a thinking framework to say why :tongue:|||Sorry guys, I was totally kidding about the idea people thing. I guess that's one of the disadvantages about a computer; sarcasm is not always too clear. As for the extraverted thing, I agree with...|||I know exactly what you mean. I got in a fight with my ex best-friend's mom because I didn't say hi to her when I thought that she was asleep. I think that the people who are going to notice the...|||I realized today that I don't filter myself around my INTJ friend, and that is a problem because I'm at work and I'm a thinking asshole at heart. I realize that about 99% of everyone in there now...|||I've been obsessing about MBTI for like a year now.|||Definitely an interesting line of research.|||IF anything, (askide from the guys, I don't know why) it seems almost all of you are at least up for it. Makes sense.|||That idea thing? STORY OF MY LIFE. Why can't others be ideas? And I totally agree with the Facebook thing. I think it represents everything I hate about society.|||You are hysterical. As for the issue at hand, I kind of have an advantage talking to girls because ENFP's have always tried to develop me extravertedly and I connect with girls better, but to...|||joellr17 I think you're my INTP role model.|||I'm pretty extraverted for an INTP I am finding the more I read. But I think sensors have the biggest problem with me when I look deadish because they see my features and lack of enthusiasm and think...|||Are you an ENFP? Am I allowed to ask that?|||It depends. If I am EXTREMELY interested in a topic, I will be motivated enough to learn it by myself. Usually however, that does not happen. Otherwise, lectures are useful to me but only if it is...|||Lol I love INTP's. Along with what Haldir siad though, who is to say that personality type is not genetic? Has there been evidence either way? Yeah Rift I sometimes forget that my thoughts might...|||ugh. definitely not a yin yang. But, I do like what you said at the end Graficcha. I definitely need to think about it more.|||Interesting. Maybe it's because ENFP's have been my bread and butter since I was born. I'm kind of an abnormal INTP.|||Oh my b. From the ENFP's I know, ENTJ's could very easily come off as controlling. And the second that you come off as controlling, ENFP's disappear, in my experience. At any rate, they would...|||Don't lie to me. Feelings have nothing to do with this. Unfortunately, I have yet to find one of you in Tucson. :crying: Except my aunt. But I think that I shouldn't count her.|||Alright INTP's. Something that I have been mulling over for about a month is what tattoo I should get, and where it should go. I want it to represent equilibrium because I think that as science is...'

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'My favorite album Ultraviolence- Lana Del Rey|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vGfvHdXbttI|||I don't know if other ISFP's struggle with this or if it's a social anxiety thing, but I am so scared of change, even if it is for the better. For example, I have put off telling my family that I...|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8D1Zn-Ij6Mw|||In no particular order: Ultraviolence- Lana Del Rey Butterfly- Mariah Carey True Romance- Charli XCX The Emancipation of Mimi- Mariah Carey Crybaby- Melanie Martinez|||I agree with your statement. It did get a little draggy in the middle somewhere. While I was listening to it the first time, I found myself zoning out at times. As a whole, I enjoyed this album....|||wrote|||Wonder Woman. :onthego:|||Warmth1.6 Warmth is how nice to people you are. [more] Reasoning1.9 Reasoning is how good at abstract thinking you are. [more] Emotional stability1.4 Emotional stability is how in...|||Weirdly enough, I think I feel good about myself at parties or other gatherings that allow me to have a good time but not necessarily be in the spotlight. The loud music and talking distracts me of...|||my biggest fear is that my constant paranoia will cause me to become suspicious of my partner at all times. This is never a good quality to have, in my opinion. Also, I just think that my...|||oops sorry, I didn't know how else to accurately introduce myself.|||676642 I'm ugly but whatever XD|||They still themselves can't make those[/QUOTE] Well not with each other no, but at least there are ways of procreating for them.|||Well thank god that we live in the 21st century and there are multiple ways for same-sex couples to have children of their own now.|||Hey guys! In my English class, we just finished reading A Seperate Peace by John Knowles. The entire time, I was trying to figure out the main character's mbti type (Gene). I swear he is an ISFP, but...|||I do the same thing with the 1990's. I am totally obsessed with that decade; the music, politics, and fashion can all entertain me forever. Probably because I was born towards the end of that decade,...|||i've only seen four of the best picture nominees so far, but I definitely think La La Land is slightly better than Moonlight. Both were amazing films, but I didn't feel anything after watching...|||A Little Life by Hanya Yanagihara Highly recommend!! Like, read it now.|||lunaticrabbits I just want to say that I love that album very much. That is all.|||Whether it is actually happening or not, I frequently get the feeling that my friends/family are not listening to me, or just geniunely don't care about what I have to say. It frustrates me so much,...|||i'm pretty sure that I have a phobia of speaking in public. It is literally one of the hardest things for me to do. Whenever I have to give a presentation, it will give me anxiety for weeks leading...|||I am very shy. Public speaking, and meeting new people, in particular, are the times when I get the most shy. I am constantly afraid of judgement, and this causes me to pick my friends carefully. ...|||i'm a proud gemini|||Robes|||pears|||vaper|||10/10 I just love the overall sound of that song. It gives me chills. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=viimfQi_pUw|||peace|||sears|||I would say Jack, or Kate. Let's be honest, Jack is dad goals.|||pores|||Well I'm 6'5, so people usually notice me when I walk into a room. But despite that, I normally try to get a feel of the people and atmosphere before I start to talk. Even after I do that, you would...|||Who is your favorite character?? I have been obsessed with this show!! It's so good.|||I'll just pretend that the s isn't there lol. trade|||2/10 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zGTnrUJZVbU|||Clueless rollin with the homies|||stale|||I'm not really into cars or technology, but I do love to research and dive into the background of music artists, movies, etc. Once I love an artist, I learn everything there is to know, and then I...|||leash|||The Martian My family raved to me about this movie, so I reluctantly watched it and I was very disappointed. I found it to be incredibly boring, although Matt Damon was a little comical. Other...|||salty|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wl9tcrIeJ48|||Yes, I relate to that description very much.|||sloth|||I would love to have a buddy! that sounds like fun|||dopes|||sheer|||stout|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nMO5Ko_77Hk'

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'Jewl Yes I was getting pretty frustrated, mostly with the Fe and Fi stereotypes. It's not the people's fault, it's the damn sites that give very general and shallow descriptions of the types.|||I completley didn't relate to the entire list, too bad I was hoping for some new enlightment, INFJ type 1w2 btw.|||It's funny to see how many are heading towards freelancer and specifically graphics design, I sincerly hope everyone can become independently stable but happy.|||It's funny but I just noticed that most people seem to think the Fe function is like Agreeableness from the Big Five test.|||I just want to copy and paste this post into every Fe related thread, seriously this is explained so good, thank you for taking the time for writing this.|||It's like you said, when I try to put it into words it's pretty hard. I remember being asked the same question a couple of times, but saying what I value most through words just didn't quite...|||If anything where I got lucky is with friends. I have two extreamly close friends in an era where most people don't even have one, apart from them I have another group of friends who I enjoy being...|||Your only role as a friend is to emotionally support her in my opinion. After going through one depression crisis and currently living through another I've learned that it's best to leave any kind of...|||I am a freelancer, working on mostly graphics design, I'm learning coding and can work with music and lots of other stuff in all of those realms. I'm only 19 so I've got time to build myself from the...|||I'm not sure myself, you see Fe is not always that sacrificing is it might seem, it highly depends on the value system the Fe created, Ne-Fi and the ENFP is deffently more understanding towards...|||Marry: ISFP Bed: INTP Kiss: ISTP ESFJ, ENTP, ENFJ|||INFJ. I had a film I directed being a shown at this big fesitval and people clapped when the credits roled. I was wearing the most genuine smile I ever wore. So I'd say at least in my exprience...|||A perfect leader is one that can be rational, stratigic and have high organization skills but also needs to be able to understand the group he's leading and balance his goals with the group goals....|||They're both hurt when you clash with their value systems, and their value systems can be anything regardless of type, so there's really no absolute when it comes to which type is more sensitive than...|||That was the most Ne thing I read this year, thank you.|||I was going to write a big paragraphe about how you shouldn't compare functions like that, but *** it. Fe users are attractive because they don't make me go through a 20 year long journey in...|||INFJ -Struggle to sit down and be productive, then judging myself for it. -Bored with most people (Luckily not all, have some really good friends). -Hard to deal with imperfect systems such as...|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h_L4Rixya64|||When did you have your first relationship (<20, 20-25, 26-30, >30)? Never :( I'm 19 currently. What do you look for in a partner? I'm only attracted to people that seem mysterious to me or...|||I'm also dealing with a close INFP friend stuck in a Fi-Si loop or at least stuck with Mental/Feelings problems. To be honest we clash quite a lot in terms of values and I think it's also why we're...|||Marry: INFJ Bed: INFP Kiss: ESTJ ENTJ, ESFP, ENFP|||Welcome my Ni dominant brother, I hope you enjoy your stay.|||Even if they knew my type is the INFJ, they'd still wouldn't understand me, and probably they wouldn't understand the type lol.|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CyKeFcUyclc|||I just shaved and it is deffently hot, I want ice cream and a board game. 713233|||My enneagram type is: 1w2, and I know my tritype is 146 (Can't remember wings). Top 3 MBTI types: 90% INFJ 3% INFP 2% INTJ|||He explains very asbtractly but I managed to understand a lot of things from him. Even if he's INFJ I really feel like all of his videos are Ne based because his videos are all over the place so it...|||I'm happy to stumble upon this thread and reading these passages. I have no idea why any type should a hated type and I'm even more clueless as to why the INFP is one of the most hated types (Can...|||I haven't really understood the connection between MBTI and enneagram, but my main type is: 1w2 and my tritype is: 1-4-6|||It's interesting for sure, but it was pretty tiring for me.|||INFJ: To be understood.|||You go into sleep paralysis, and from there it's pretty natrual, it took some time to develop the ability though and sleep paralysis is scary at first.|||Father: ENFJ Mother: ENFJ Sister: ExFP I've no complaints.|||I used to lucid dream a lot on purpose and I stopped because it was tiring me. Now days I barley remember any dreams I have, which is a shame though because dreams really intrigue me.|||Never been in love like lavendersnow although when I thought about how I will act I figured the most romantic thing in my eyes is cuddeling in bed, with two cups of tea with milk left on the side.|||I doubt it has much to do with J/P, I like almost any kind of humor.|||Most people enjoy talking about themselves anyway, so if you text someone with an interest in them, if they're not in a shitty mood they'll most likely respond happily.|||In my eyes a REAL emotional connection starts when you can sit in silence with another person and it will feel natrual.|||If you want to get to know INFJs the best way is probably through here, just PM some and they'll be happy to answer your questions (Including myself).|||Wait is this literally a thread with 125 pages dedicated to understanding Taylor Swift?|||INFP/INTJ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V4QMZsh6zIE|||If he's an INFJ something really serious is happening in his life that's distracting him from this relationship, if not I highly doubt he's an INFJ. I literally cannot do these kind of things, even...|||Can you explain in what ways he helped change you for the good? I'm interested, if you don't mind.|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mjgm3xHr96Q|||Yes exactly, while Ne and Ni both analzye in abstract ways that are mostly based around patterns, Ne is a little more free and just likes to focus on everything which leads to I'd say: more ideas &...|||I had to take a moment to comment on how stupidly good these drawings are, seriously this is amazing.|||I can only say I'm confident in Ni and that's: What will happen?|||Best friend is ENFP, two other really really close friends are INFP and ISFP.|||I absolutley love dark humor, really I like all kinds of humor. I mostly though use dark humor with people I feel more open with because it can sometimes hurt people who feel oppressed by the world...|||Well for starters, you can ask for help here :) Other than that what helped me is exploding and expriencing things that are worse then what the bad response I might get is. I mean if you're...'

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I have an IQ of 134. I'm not a genius, but I'm above average.|||Couldn't you just let me move on? Why did you have to gift me that at the time when i really, really just wanted to get over you?|||I haven't posted in this thread or in this site because I knew that most of the advice said by INFP members here made sense - that I had no chance in hell with the INFP I liked. So I tried to do the...|||Just an update. So I've tried to forget about her and just move on with my life, when she's again stuck a dagger to my heart by painting me a picture of my favorite character without any provocation...|||So how do you guys suggest I address this predicament? I laid my cards out on the table. I said that I honestly did not receive any of her messages, and that I sent her three messages in a week that...|||I made some posts regarding an INFP I was heavily interested with more than half a year ago. I believed she had a falling-out with me, although I didn't know why, and thought that she hated me for...|||I'm single at 24. And I still consider myself young. :)|||Academically speaking, I'm probably superior to a lot of people judging from my track record. But I suck in most forms of physical sports, and am not doing to well in the things I have little...|||I like posting in INFP threads because I seem to be attracted to INFPs and have first-hand experience with rejection from them. I find INFPs to be attractive because of their unique, geeky, and often...|||Not an INFP, but I've had the misfortune of falling in love with an INFP and only realizing it was unrequited in the first place. I realize that the lady I liked was an emotional chameleon: she was...|||I am in no way rich. I would also never brag about what I've done, because while I have my pride, I am not proud. It's not Sean, as well. But I may be led on. I don't know. I guess that's that. :) ...|||Jesus, no! I knew she would hate that. Because they had issues within their group I just asked for his phone number that I could give it to her. But yes, that was quite stupid of me. And she...|||I didn't check her out behind her back. It was posted on her Facebook. I just tried to act accordingly so that I didn't step on any mines. I asked her directly what she wanted in life and where she...|||Lad She doesn't tell me anything. She neither compliments nor says bad about me. I actually have plans of just saying it to her straight because I don't ask her for anything, and just try to be...|||@Sily @Hammerhand I tend to overthink things a lot. Sometimes it's hard for me to stand back. She took an exam that approximated her MBTI on her FB. I'm floored. Four years, huh? I'm not...|||I tried to do a lot in three months and three months is a good amount of time. I'm really sorry if you weren't able to read it, but I tried to be exhaustive enough.|||I have had been afraid of taking the plunge and risking my heart for nearly 24 years, because I didn't want to be hurt. I didn't want to risk going out of my mental experiments, because while it...|||It's hard, not only for INFPs, for I think for most people. But sometimes they've got to be done despite the possibility of failure. Like, for example, yesterday I sang in front of a crowd for the...|||I am an INTP guy but I have been told by most of my friends to be quite effeminate even though I'm fully convinced of my orientation and my desires for women. I don't think it's solely limited to...|||It's me again. Despite my being hurt, I took your suggestions and waited. Yesterday was a major exam for her, because it was something she was very sensitive against (dissection). I just asked her if...|||I learned to stop being an asshole after I was one my entire high school life. I've excelled in the hard sciences and math, and am an avid writer, so that fits me. Somehow, however, I feel that I've...|||Exactly. Thank you for the succor. I wanted to let her know that I cared beyond the little chats and the small messages, and I tried it anyway. It's my first time putting my heart out there, so yes,...|||I guess I failed today. It hurts like hell, too. Well, she said she drank some tea, so I came by with a warm cup in the preparation she preferred. She didn't receive the cup. I think she was just...|||I prefer to die alone than to be with somebody I don't love. At least I won't be dragging anyone along with me, and my conscience will be clear that I tried to look for that one love without...|||I think that INFPs are guarded for the most part precisely because they are afraid of that rejection. I don't take that against them. As an INTP (hanging around INFP threads because I want to know...|||Good luck. God, I hope she's like you! haha Her text messages have this warmth to it recently that even someone as relatively insensitive as me could feel. She does send me a message after some time...|||I am an INTP, and I'm also interested in an INFP. I can't speak for most of my kind, but I can speak for myself. I think it's important that you find out what he's passionate about, and broach him on...|||I like a shy INFP but I'll take my time getting to know her bit by bit. I think I've sent enough signs that I like her, and she's been warming up to me for the past few weeks, but I don't know if...|||I should stop. But ironically, it's what I lack in that's telling me not to. You guys have all wonderful points, but my gut is telling me not to stop. Recently, she just messaged me out of the blue...|||Thank you for your replies. I guess I just didn't want to admit it. I could honestly say I'm not clingy or obsessive, however. I message her, and if she doesn't reply, I don't pursue the matter. I...|||It sometimes disturbs me not being replied to ... but then I try to think that there are other things that these people deal with that may disallow them from replying with speed. It still doesn't...|||After all this time, I'm still confused. So it's been more than a month now and I've already drank a bit of beer just to kill all expectation, as it's what really kills the hope of budding...|||Don't worry, I have had no doubts of being an INTP. I have had been atheist and gone through the stages of rebellion, but I have foremost discovered that parents need to be respected despite their...|||I would like to be her girlfriend, but I would like to be her friend first. I think they're different goals, but yes, it can be considered as an ulterior motive, I guess. It didn't come out as a joke...|||I have faith that I have been raised well, and raised never to toy with women. I am honestly confident that if I exerted myself, just getting into women's pants really wouldn't be difficult - but...|||Um ... getting into her pants seem so ... far away. I'm not even thinking about that, frankly. That's until after marriage. And yes, these are my values. I'd try my best to be a good friend, and...|||I like you knowing that you're not the traditional girl. I like you knowing that you eschew most of society, that you prefer tea to coffee, that you like sitting alone watching movies instead of...|||So I wanted to set things straight with her and asked her if I offended her, after wanting to talk to her alone. She said that she was sorry that she was uncomfortable, but she wasn't offended. Then...|||I wish I knew where I stood with you. I think you already know I like you, but you've moved away so quickly; I simply would like to know if I still have a chance, because you'll miss out on a great...|||You got me. I keep on thinking of different ways of failure and it's really bothering me. Yes, I've become really anxious with myself. Thank you very much. It's something that's really quite...|||I know that I am pitiful, but I've thought about it and I'd like to keep on chasing her despite her shying away from me. I know I have little hope, but the fact that she still talks intermittently...|||People have told me that I'd make a wonderful partner. I think it's because I often take note of what I feel I need to and remember them, although I seriously doubt that I have the ability of being a...|||You guys were right. I asked her how she was, and she said she was a bit miffed with the chocolates. I asked sorry from her, but she's replied to my messages again, so ... even if I'll probably end...|||Thank you for your advice. I think it's over. You guys are right, I think I moved too awkwardly, not having experience in this field, and she no longer replies to my messages. I won't disturb her...|||Reading through these posts, I guess we're quite similar with INFPs. I enjoy being alone most of the time, and while I love talking about complex topics that I enjoy, I'm often silent and don't...|||I have a question: sorry for the bump. What goes into your heads whenever someone who seems to be interested in you asks a question? She's gone once again into that state of not replying ... although...|||Yeah, I tried to write her good luck a week ago with a poem. I'm not sure whether she took it the wrong way, but I tried that, heh. I'll try to look for a good gift with butterflies. Thank you. It's...|||I'm not sure whether I've laid all my cards on the table as yet, but how do you create mystery? I admit that being forthright about myself has removed a part of that, but how can I re-awaken this...|||Thank you! I will most definitely try, even if I seem to have butterflies in my stomach from a lack of confidence! Well, she broached the idea that she was boring and weird. I replied that I...|||Thank you. I'll try to change it up a bit once in a while, probably if she doesn't reply to a text of mine. We don't usually chat for long periods of time, because I only catch her after classes. I'm...

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It's not like I panic if I have a crush on someone...I just have a minor heart attack :unsure: It's not something people would expect of me because I look cool, confident and powerful, and I'm...|||At first glance, people usually think I'm really dumb because of my looks/image...I got stereotyped against a bunch at my hipster-ish uni because of this. It's nothing I really mind though, and...|||Wait, who's the ENFJ here, the old pal? In any case, I don't see much of a problem here...just enjoy the clicking and see where it takes you, you'll know when and if the time is right to leave your...|||Gee, you do seem to have it tough, I pity you :D In all seriousness, mate, at least telling someone that you're only interested in fucking should be an easy thing in the 21st century. Just make...|||I am able to provide: - an optimistic attitude that lightens the mood - wacky jokes and wisecracks to put a positive spin on any situation - a thorough and detailed analysis of any situation...|||Beards are nice but long hair is what really gets me going! In any case, hair is cool :)|||You scored 83.333 out of 100 masculine points, 56.667 out of 100 feminine points, and 63.158 out of 100 androgynous (neutral) points. ENFJ female|||My sister is 11 years younger but she's an ENFJ 7w8 just like me...whenever I send her some other kind of personality test for fun she scores exactly like me, too :) We're almost carbon copies when...|||I'm like that too! :) As soon as I see some random stranger being upset - anybody, anywhere - I would sooo much like to run over and lend a helping hand. Sometimes I might do just that, but other...|||Nice description, thanks! ˝Playful gentleness˝ describes well what I find so attractive about INFPs :) I had this experience with an ENFP...he was nagging me all the time to tell him how I...|||Which type are you asking about here? :D I'm not like this at all, I prefer to give people space to express themselves and try to accept everyone as they are...my Fe helps me adapt to all kinds...|||Oh yes, totally! This is why I need a lot of ˝me time˝...I can get completely swept up by the thoughts, feelings and energies of others. When I watch a film, I can feel what everybody around me...|||INTJ father (tested) + ESFP mother (such an obvious example she doesn't need to be tested, and I doubt she would care or have the patience for that anyway) = two ENFJ sisters who, I like to believe,...|||Emeraude - horrible J in the sense that tidiness doesn't come naturally to me, that I procrastinate all the time, act chaotically and spontaneously...most people would never say I was a J just by...|||My socionics results are all over the place, mostly ENFp and ENFj :)|||True, you can't make somebody like you...but, luckily for you, many ENFJs have a natural tendency to fall for INFPs! In my case, it's enough for INFPs to just exist, and I'm smitten...ok, I'm...|||Yes, because it's hot, just like us :P|||I can also be horrendously chaotic, unorganised, procrastinating, hyperactive and simply all over the place...I always test high P and you would never guess I was a J by looking at me :D Also, I'm an...|||Don't mind the haters, dear! You probably have a special spiritual energy that your bf can pick up visually...or something like that. It doesn't really matter what it is, the important thing is how...|||Not yet...thanks for the tip :wink:|||Well, at least it made somebody laugh :D I think he was an experimental ENFP in every way :D|||Gosh, I had this problem a loooot when I was younger! I didn't want to talk too much about myself because I wanted to keep the conversation interesting for the other person...so this mostly meant...|||White and gold...no matter what I do it won't appear otherwise :)|||Lions all the way! :) Though maybe that's not my proper spirit animal as it might be influenced by the fact that I'm a Leo...but I identify with lions (and other wild cats) a whole lot :)|||Count me curious too! :) Would it be pure awesomeness, or would the similarity mean a lack of ˝excitement˝? Hmmmm...|||Never was really partial to elephants, though I think it's sooo adorable when a big elephant holds a little one by the trunk!! http://atma.hr/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/parenting-30.jpg ...|||Hehehe, I totally understand, I never felt safe with my problematic ENFP too :D He understood me like nobody else, but all the rest was very...turbulent! Now I'm finding myself attracted to more...|||Hmmm, me and my ENFP ex were totally opposite to this - he was all about feelings and creativity, I was more about logic, philosophy and analysis...being with him really opened up my heart and right...|||Exercise, meditation and dancing, just like everybody else :D Pampering also works great...a hot bath, sauna or massage :) If I'm really angry too, I'll put on some punk music and go crazy!|||Haahha, that pic of Spock made me laugh :) Put together like that, the images are very vivid....nice work! :) The Ni and Se pics spoke the most to me :)|||For me, sex can be a deeply spiritual and transformative experience... ...or it can be just plain physical fun, no strings attached. I can swing both ways ;) For a long time I experienced sex...|||I'm lucky to have never have any heroin addicts as friends, otherwise I most likely wouldn't be typing this today... 'nuff said :confused:|||We have a huge talent for ˝selling˝ things, packaging them in a way that will be exactly what someone wants to hear...our strength is that we always adapt the message to the listener :) For...|||Awww Kramer's technicolour coat, I would totally wear that!|||Awwww I like it a lot, especially the peace sign and flower! And it's in my favourite colour, too :)|||Anything as long as it's not ˝Giver˝! I find that such a horrendous name, makes us seem like doormats, sluts or both! :D Many good proposals here :)|||My favourite look is hippy/boho/gypsy/psychedelic...bright colours, ethnic prints and a lot of paisley :D I also collect vintage clothes from the 60s and 70s...have an entire wardrobe dedicated...|||You definitely sound like an ENFJ :)|||The abstract of my master's thesis is a strong INTP (99% I, N and T), while one of my random posts here is an ESFJ, it seems. So, do I have a case of split personality, or does academic writing...|||Eat, Pray, Love?|||I agree with Happy about Nothing. ...my advice is to keep it genuine :) Personally, I don't think there's anything creepy about messaging an unknown person on Facebook...and, hey, we all like to...|||I dated an ENFP for a long time and, even though I'm usually a great listener, sometimes he would really test my patience. My J-ness makes me prefer communication that is succinct, to the point...|||ENFJ, as many as I'm allowed or until the browser crashes...|||I love the way INTPs mumble on and on about metaphysics with their heads down, too shy to even meet my eye...sooo cute! Or maybe it's just the INTPs I met :D I don't think I've ever met a boring...|||We are profoundly shallow :D Seriously, now, if I were to generalise, I'd say that ENFJs are often very profound people that hide behind a mask of shallowness on occasion...they are among the...|||No need to apologise cmooon, it came at the right moment...clearing up things from the past year and opening myself up to a happy new year and all that :) What I learned? Above all, to trust...|||Well usually I feel I don't have much to hide anyway...I most often feel bubbly and positive, without any strong emotions :) If I feel something and I'm aware of it (this can be a problem) I...|||I think...I think...I think that I'm in love :kitteh: I have this huuuuge instant attraction to stereotypically INFP-ish men...but now, after a long and troubled relationship with a very sensitive...|||Before: it was very tough Now: with the right people at the right moment, very easy As an Eight with a strong Seven wing (or the other way around, who knows), I've always had this need to keep...|||Thanks for replying to my ancient post...we broke up a while ago, all this seems like another life now whoooaaa :) It was a very difficult relationship, but I learnt a whole lot :)

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'I am through with always being a listening ear, and then being talked down to/disrespected because this person is delusional and always expecting the worst in people.|||- Watching my favorite holiday flicks alone in my room at night, and with a hot cappuccino in hand. - When it's actually cold outside for a change. (Unfortunately, this year it's gonna be another...|||The INTJ I know I simply try to avoid whenever possible. The other is either ENFP or ENFJ. (I think). All I know is that they are constantly, and by that I mean 24/7, talking to me about how...|||In my sleep, peacefully.|||I'll likely edit/shorten the heck out of this later, but for now.... - I am so exhausted with people. - Christmas would be such a lovely holiday is you just take the presents and people out of...|||https://c2.staticflickr.com/6/5715/30696892985_54a02dc382_b.jpg|||Ix92ve heard of Starseeds, but as someone else said the term itself can make quite a lot of people immediately skeptical of the idea. (Which is also how I feel about the term x93Twin Flamex94). Stillx85...|||I am so tired of drama, hypocrisy and ignorant behavior. It is really beginning to affect me even more. My stomach hurts and I am tired of hearing the same complaints by this person. I get it. I...|||I can absolutely understand. Pretty much every night one of my dreams is about me rescuing animals in distress; sometimes my own pets. It is exhausting! It isn't any wonder INFJ's are called...|||This was one of my strangest dreams: There were these fancy, graceful birds that were pretty large. They were very elegant in the way they flew, and in the wind their wings would flow like...|||Starbucks Frappuccino! The heat index is currently 97 degrees and the nearest Starbucks is over an hour away. (I live in the country). I love how cold their frappuccinos are. Of course, a...|||Well just the other day she was frustrated with me. She was on defense - as always - and said that I was naive about my father. (I get so tired of her saying that because it simply isn't true. I...|||I haven't gotten that angry yet - although I have come close - but that might change sooner rather than later. I'm older now and things seem to really ANNOY me rather easily. It's a lack of...|||Well she said it wasn't politics (although technically it was). I think I know my niece's motives and personality better than anyone here. I know exactly why she deleted it. I respect your...|||My brother is INTJ. I can absolutely see our similarities, but there's one BIG difference between us and that is that he does not care about hurting anyone's feelings and he refuses to see a...|||Mine will sound strange and rambling, so here it goes: In high school get out more.... when it comes to that perm, just say no!... finish college even though you have no idea what you want to be...|||I'm a definite homebody, but today I did interact with the outside world. If speaking to the neighbor's new donkeys from across the fence-line counts. :wink: Donkeys are people, too!|||Wow. My college-aged niece posted a video on FB yesterday. She said she doesn't post about politics - and that she isn't - but for everyone to please watch this video and remember that love is...|||Become successfully published/work from home... confident... not become so annoyed with people that possess no common sense. I'd think of more but my sweet dog is snuggled at my side like a...|||Sorry, what I meant with the writing is that back when I was writing my books I used to dream about writing in my dreams. All these passages would just be coming to me at lightning speed. Rarely...|||Ooh, now this is my kind of discussion! I have all kinds of dreams: ghosts, parallel universesx85 past livesx85 precognitivex85 writingx85 spirit visitations (those are rare, but they do happen. ...|||http://youtu.be/erFoLBcNyKI|||I live in a house where one of the people vents and complains and whines to me practically 24/7, yet when it comes to ME wanting to share my feelings for just one second... I'm told that I'm being...|||- I am so tired of drama. A person CAN get a point across without losing their temper. Even if they're right in what they say, they don't have to shout it and then complain when the other person...|||Obsessed with Pinterest, that's me. But remember - Obsessed is what lazy people call dedicated people. :tongue: https://www.pinterest.com/kristin_tx/|||- I wish my part of Texas had actual seasons. The fall would be my favorite time. - Our neighbor sold his calves today, and all day the Mama cows have been calling for them. It's painful to...|||The human mind is not capable of grasping the Universe. We are like a little child entering a huge library. The walls are covered to the ceilings with books in many different tongues. The child...|||http://youtu.be/xUcT__6WlIU Such a fantastic movie. Seeing it in the theater was quite an experience. People crying... laughing... grown men masking their crying through abrupt coughs. :tongue:...|||Northern Exposure! http://youtu.be/V6zmMWfzv38|||Don't people ever grow tired of hearing themselves talk only about themselves and how other people have disappointed them and don't treat them right? I do see their point, and it is valid, but that...|||ATTENTION PARENTS TO KIDS OF ANY AGE: It's wrong to demean your kid's parent/your spouse when your kid - even a grown one - is in the room. Example: Just now I was in the kitchen making a cup...|||I am SO TIRED of being SO FRUSTRATED with the SAME PERSON all the time. Grow up, already! Why are you so clueless over your behavior? And yes, you DO play the victim. All the time. I love you,...|||I would love to visit Ireland and Scotland. Goodness I would looove it! I would also like to see the Northern Lights in Alaska in person. Still... Scotland and Ireland are my first choices. As for...|||http://youtu.be/UC00ecnHoTs|||Here's my Fairy Tree that I made months ago: http://i1086.photobucket.com/albums/j441/creative_txgal/pics%20-%20blog/tree_zps39v8g00i.jpg Details of it (and a few others) are on my Pinterest...|||- There are probably some folks out there who're saying, 'I'm never going to have a rush like that. Earth's a parking lot and outer space is just too pricey.' Well, let me tell you, there are lots...|||- When you're feeling restless and sad, knowing from experience that you just have to keep it to yourself... NOT necessarily wanting to keep it to yourself... but definitely also WANTING to keep it...|||I'd say B and J is a tie for me. Love them both.|||http://i1086.photobucket.com/albums/j441/creative_txgal/pics%20-%20blog/sulamith%20wulfing_zps4f7q52im.jpg|||Just remembered one more. Dreamy lyrics here! http://youtu.be/4GHw1Cl8-KY|||http://youtu.be/pMGfkOaJ6zw :tongue:|||http://youtu.be/ZwGWRrIlz68 http://youtu.be/3G4NKzmfC-Q http://youtu.be/vQqmNInEnnI http://youtu.be/El9eCRisbDo|||I’ve tried writing short stories, but every single time they turn into novels. I no longer write, but when I did it was exhausting. It completely took over my life. I’ve tried my hand at 8 books,...|||http://youtu.be/GusLypfx7OQ|||You might call this a little vent about a big pet peeve: This morning I made a small pile of stuff to take back to our craft building. (It was only two short strings of ribbon and a fabric rose)....|||That's the thing. I can't even vent about the teensy tiniest things for even one minute with this person. At least my dogs listen to me. :dry:|||- When everyone can dump THEIR emotions/anger/sadness on you, yet you have to keep YOUR emotions and anger and sadness to yourself. An INFJ must suffer in silence and internalize their emotions...|||My father brought the test home from work. (It was loooong). Over the years I've taken it again and again, as well as ones I've found online. (I had to be 100% positive the results were accurate)....|||A complete lack of COMMON SENSE is probably my #1 annoyance. It's not only annoying, but can be destructive.|||I'm pretty in love with them. They are very territorial though. :tongue: They're adorable, but are vicious with each other. Here's vid I took of them a month or so ago. ...'

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'Would you lie to someone to spare their feelings?|||Daily Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk|||I still get carded everywhere I go... I'm 30 yo [emoji58] Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk|||Drive Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk|||Bubble gum... (I have no clue as to why) Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk|||2001: a space Odyssey (although Keislowski comes in close second to Kubrick.) Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk|||Lasts Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk|||Fiery|||Water|||Thigh|||Reign|||Sour|||So is it a yes or a no in the matter of video games?|||Mangos|||Stern|||Caper yo racer|||Thanks for the tip. And now to go make some money! Don't worry, you'll get royalties. The good Earth x97 we could have saved it, but we were too damn cheap and lazy|||Are you this guy? [emoji15] https://www.google.ca/amp/www.avclub.com/amp/253957 The good Earth x97 we could have saved it, but we were too damn cheap and lazy|||Nothing beats Szechuan sauce! The good Earth x97 we could have saved it, but we were too damn cheap and lazy|||Those people are weird -_- The good Earth x97 we could have saved it, but we were too damn cheap and lazy|||Cases to Cease We could have saved the Earth but we were too damned cheap.|||Bases We could have saved the Earth but we were too damned cheap.|||Boats We could have saved the Earth but we were too damned cheap.|||No such thing as trigger warning on the internet. Although I wouldn't want you to go to your safe place on my account. We'll figure something out. We could have saved the Earth but we...|||What did 10% of the population ever do to you? We could have saved the Earth but we were too damned cheap.|||Let's say you met someone new and started to have some interest in them. What is the biggest deal breaker? We could have saved the Earth but we were too damned cheap.|||Hahaha Horses have feelings too you know. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk|||Let's say you met someone new and started to have some interest in them. What is the biggest deal breaker? Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk|||Absolutely right.|||http://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20161107/9b1e94fb01cca158e73b49e6138744c4.jpg|||LookS and sounds like early 90s pop. I'm going to say 2010 though (just to make things interesting)|||Hey talon235. Thanks for the tip. Now for take two. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MkA3sLyEWdU|||https://www.youtube.com/shared?ci=DNIOpQgeFQw|||http://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20161102/0400e6954322512bf261c75aeb5fa2c8.png Female ISFP|||https://www.youtube.com/shared?ci=EFsCOC3mB_Y|||Witch. Roast. Witches used to be burned alive. You're pretty sarcastic from what I've read. One would expect you to catch on.|||It's an expression to announce an inappropriate statement.|||What is this, (pardon my french) a witch roast?|||Assylum has to be my favourite. A lot of homages to some great cinema. The story unravels slowly with mind blowing plot twists and an eerie sense of what actually went down with multiple experiments...|||That's awesome. Get back to drawing that Missy :tongue:|||http://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20161029/834ff2acc28ae2fe15afed17b0cc8076.jpg http://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20161029/e3a1ff1fcb4678ccdb44dfbd1a14383f.png ...|||Too weird to live, too rare to die Fear and loathing in Las Vegas. - This is it, Joel. It's going to be gone soon. - I know. - What do we do? - Enjoy it. Eternal sunshine of the...|||Just finished binge watching all 3 seasons. I'm in love with the fresh approach to script writing and the dark twists that this show provides its audience. It is very socially and politically charged...|||Well it's time for an adventure to new places, said the ISTP. He started munging because munging sounded deep but tastier than cardboard|||It all makes sense now :smileys-sunbathing-|||You know you're an ISFP when..... ooouuuuhhhhh a butterfly :lovekitty:|||Very nice artwork guys.|||Hello Stacham :) Thanks for the info. Really opened my eyes on INFJs. As you mentioned about ISFJs, as an ISFP, I tend to be very loyal to people I love. Maybe it's an ISFx thing. I'm also a type...|||Hello redeemofself :) I do believe the middle ground notion gives me more flexibility and the ability not to feel trapped. But I'll keep that in mind next time I'm dealing with sensitive issues....|||Hi booklover :) . I'm not sure I can say this because I'm fairly new myself and am enjoying this site too, but here it goes, Welcome :)'

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'Ur comment's really relevant, 'coz that's what I love doing most. Not the open her up at any cost per se, but I like to ask questions like are you the machete or crossbow type during a zombie...|||Hey you :) I'm a male ENFP, met this reaaaal cute looking ISFJ at a dance showcase. Walked up to her and straight up told her how she was the cutest looking at the whole event and how I'd love to...|||ISFJ they just want u to be happy :) Type most likely to dress up in a suit to meet his newborn nephew, because first impressions matter.|||50 Quotes That Every ENFP Will Instantly Relate To | Thought Catalog|||18, currently studying in Hamburg. Where you at? :laughing:|||Why does it not surprise me that this line has been written by an ENTJ|||It's not unusual https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wZLNggsTcHg|||Can't connect to you for some reason. Pretty self-deprecating which can get unconfortable sometimes. You're very private people and for some reason don't seem to have much to say about yourself which...|||ranted.. unbeautifully,|||Jesus FUCK, u really trust NOTHING. N O T H I N G. Any idea/theory that stems from empirism/experience is worthless to you, no matter how big the sample size was. You only care about the scientific,...|||Oh that can't be generalized I think. I've known my INTJ for 4 years now and I don't think I'd ever get bored from him. ENFPs generally don't see friendship as a value kind of thing. We don't...|||Yeh, too fucken good mate. I love me some INTJ. Best friend is INTJ (surpries supplies)|||Awesome :laughing: You forgot to suggest the next theme :D|||Have an example for this? I hear this a lot from INFPs, but I can't put my finger on what it is that's going on|||Can we get a bump on this one? This is so fun, but so complex that some topics bring this thread to a stalemate which is really sad. How about 16 types of medievel personas? e.g. The King - ENFJ;...|||That's a lot of best friends. Didn't expect anything else from here though :laughing:|||The rules are simple: If Kanye West was an ENFP, he would've taken away Taylor Swift's microphone at the VMAs 2009 just to congratulate her, give a big thanks to everyone who supported her and...|||That was the cutest criticism I've received so far. Shouldn't you burn a bit stronger?|||Hip-hop/Rap is definitely my favorite. Kanye West favorite artist of all time. GOOD STUFF! Love all his stuff ranging from the melodical, soundgood-feelgood & chill Late Registration, the I-AM-A-GOD...|||Wait a minute. I firstly named my qualifications on why I have such a strong opinion on ENTJs and then I explained why I have it by bringing multiple arguments up. That's not blabbering a non-sense...|||Got an ENTJ in my friend circle that I definitely don't get along with very well. Got a brother ENTJ. Know a few others as well. Always challenging other people, refusing to back off during an...|||Are you kidding me. This is me. wtf Well, almost. ISTP => INTP => ISFP => ESFP => Now ENFP. Full-on ENFP|||Warning: Talks vulnerably about his feelings and values & expects the same from you!|||Nothing serves me better than just a bit of time. The perfect crime a written letter send outright to my life Nothing you haven seen thus far will bring your heart alive Yet time fleets...|||You INFJs are just too good listeners...feels good to say stuff and have the other person genuinely be interested in it and agree on our values hahaha:wink: Source: 2 out of my 3 best friends are...|||Choosing between my best friend who's an INTJ and myself. 1. Who of you is the most talkactive when it is just you two? No idea. 50/50. We have some good conversations goin', and conversations tend...|||Mind is blown right now. The 3 people I have fun with the most are an INTJ and 2 INFJs. Woop woop!|||Istp|||..when you're saying something inside a group of people, but directed at only 1 person (maybe even an inside joke) and still try to keep eye contact with everyone, resulting in you looking like a...|||Become a talk show moderator? Hahaha come on let's be real here, you'll never be able to become something like that.|||This is a link, which leads to a link, which leads to another link, which leads to the test :D Here is the test...|||Did those words just come out of an INFP? XD U guys oughta live in the present and forget about setting too high expectations for the future. Dealing with ur never ending frustration may become...|||Come on dude what's the big deal, it's gonna be fun for sure!!|||Intp|||ESFJ Type most likely to catch a firefly for 2 days, because [insert reason] and then let it go, because [insert reason here] Type up to 2-3 types if you can :)|||INTP Type most likely to eat a shoe|||I'll start out, list as many as you can. ESFP: amusement park ENTJ: strategy meeting for a business ISTP: studio or dojo INTJ: laboratory ISFP: art exhibition ENFP: bar|||Entj|||ESFP I turned from DOTA 2 to LoL. Used to be Master in DOTA 2 (5.7k MMR), in LoL I'm still leveling. I mostly play #1ADC and #2top. I know, it's the scrubby steal-the-spotlight roles, but hey!...|||Isfp|||Enfp very beautiful ava :)|||INTJ definitely|||ENFP Type most likely to trip in front of his buddies and act like nothing happened. Optional: When laughed at, he/she answer What happened?|||Know that feel :( Hung around with introverts for most of my life and now my social circle is lacking|||I'm ESFP. My best friends' types are INTJ, INFJ and ESTJ. I've always been more drawn to introverts, I can't put my finger on what it is that makes them so awesome buddies though. But I guess it's...|||ESFP here. I don't have the ordinary stutter-stutter, but rather a stutter that occurs when the words in my head stop coming. The word I'm looking for suddenly disappears and it's a huge problem....|||People don't give a shit about ESFPs http://puu.sh/hib6r.png I guess we are too awesome for anyone to try and understand us. *shed a single tear* It's like we don't exist :D Apparently...|||In a nutshell: why do humans flirt|||If my child was to be identified as disabled, I'd rather file in an abortion. Many reasons for that, but in the end it amounts to multiple lives being pulled into an extremly stressful, most probably...|||Intj'

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'If you go, take a battle buddy.|||I wish I could have the chance to do it again.|||KneeSeekerArrow Your T blinds you to the feelings of others. You're in a Forum for NF's and more specifically F's. You're comments are out of place and insensitive. If you would like to share your...|||An associates in applied science is all I currently have. But I'm actually going to college for Marine Biology.|||Your avatar is cute|||I am an INFP but I am a Type 2. I rely on public opinion to form my self image. So yes the way I perceive the world is INFP but the way I interact with the world is very outgoing, and importantly so....|||Thank you for sharing. And thank you for giving such a wonderful complement to an individual who sounds amazing. It sounds to me like you still really want to help people so possibly a big...|||Manamana -- 'cause I can't help but sing the little jingle after. Fishy -- 'cause if I say it five times fast it makes me smile.|||As infpblog said above, I've chosen a Life style Design path. I work as a Master Control Op at a TV station, it allows me to be creative both written and with photography, videographer and graphic...|||:kitteh: I've shared with all of you so many times when I was drinched in negetive emotions. I feel it only right to share with you now that I am at such an incredible high. I feel like my wings...|||473434734247342 47343 BAH! I can't get the Gifs up right right now :angry: so it will have to wait til later.|||Yoga makes me feel good. It is sorta like a chance to meditate and work out a bit at the same time. Throw in push ups, sit ups, and other things you can do in a small space to get a bit of a work out...|||I sorta had the same feelings. So I went into journalism. There is a lot of enteraction with people who need help, and plenty of ways for you to help them. But it gives you enough you time to be...|||GenericUser is right. You should go to the employer and talk to them. Tell them that the job is not right for you. If there is something else they have open you would love to stay with the company...|||Always, I have an ENFP friend that has taken it upon himself though to piss me off when I'm like this. He can sense that I'm hiding something and he knows I won't share willingly. So instead he...|||:laughing: Welcome to PerC. It is always fun to see new ENFP around. I hope you post often. :happy:|||I'd like to add that the MBTI is not a full description of who you are as a person. This site has a section for Ennegram because where the MBTI may help you understand how you view the world the...|||Perhaps giving the lovely peeps who stalk the What's my personality type? forum a chance to reevaluate your type. Sometimes when people aren’t feeling healthy their test results are a bit...|||Welcome to the world of PerC. :laughing: We're happy to assimilate you.|||My low self-esteem has many causes, but I'd say my inability to manifest my imagination would be a good starting point.|||Perhaps a very merry unbirthday is in order then. A very merry unbirthday to you TaleofMisunderstood 45905|||Social drug use is a very hard behavior to overcome. It is possible though. A very large part of helping someone who is using drugs is to replace the negative behavior with a positive. This could be...|||I have a live and let live policy. I've been bitten a few times now though... so my opinion may change if it happens again.|||First: note that it is best to be honest and outwardly real with him. ENFPx92s have this intuition that is very creepy. If you lie to him or try to hide something he is going to distrust you, so just...|||Welcome Flippy :laughing: Hope you enjoy your occasional visits.|||Could you tell us more about her?|||I find eyes to be very attractive, so I at least look long enough to see how beautiful they are. (male or female)|||Bago I'd also like to add, that I now see how absolutely selfish I've been. I see what you mean when you say I used her for my own means. I don't know how yet, but I hope I can make amends for this...|||Bago I'm sorry but a few misunderstandings were in your post. For #2: The lady who was horrified at me being gay was someone I had never met before, but was present at a party my friend had...|||So Ix92ve messed up. Again. July of 2011 I came out to a very small group of family and friends. I did it one person at a time and as each person was receptive to the idea I moved on to the next...|||Not but air?! Sounds like a boring diet. If I was made to live on only air I believe I would explode too.|||You should give the awesome people who stalk the What type am I forum a chance. Fill out the form: http://personalitycafe.com/whats-my-personality-type/42375-whats-my-type-form.html and see...|||If this is about astrology then it might be worth noting that MBTI shows how you interpret the world around you, not necessarily how you interact with the world around you. I know plenty of...|||I wish for a good check up for the lady next to me at work. Cancer sorta sucks. I wish for the kids next door to have a kitten. Mine sits in the window sometimes just to taunt them. I wish...|||I'm a Buddhist so you'll have to adjust this statement to be relevant to your own ideals. Sometimes I know I'm coming back as a cockroach in my next life.|||the black bar above the thread has an option for Thread Tools click on that and click Unsubscribe to this thread|||I would say you need to separate yourself from the cause, but since you are living with her, I'm thinking this is not an option. So you need to start defending yourself against the attacks. But...|||Yoga is my #1, but aside from that I love Frisbee Golf and Kite Flying. ... well Kite Flying really isn't that difficult, but Frisbee Golf courses are usually a few miles long. I'm a bit...|||I don't believe I've ever posted the first thing I've written. Even this post will take too long and be edited too many times. I believe this is a chronic INFP affliction.|||When I find myself too close to a situation I usually turn to an objective third party. That is to say that I even realize it is a bad situation in the first place. However, if an objective...|||http://youtu.be/ghb6eDopW8I|||Always a pleasure to greet another INFP :proud: Great to have you here.|||Welcome to PerC. I love it when ENFP's join. They always bring good vibes with them :proud:|||I assure you, the magic is not lost. It is just tucked away in a box, and it is waiting for you to find it again. Sometimes life happens. And when it does, INFP's are diverse enough, and more...|||I sorta skip over Sundays. I usually work 12-20 hours Saturday and that usually brings me into Sunday afternoon. So really I go to work on Saturday, when i get off work, I go to bed and I wake up on...|||Welcome to PerC. I know you'll fit right in :laughing:|||Tincan Everyones going to think I'm insane when I burst out laughing at work when this starts playing.|||I believe if anyone has the right to, it would be you. But that would sort of be anti-productive to the course this thread was supposed to take. I've already asked Vin in a PM if I could do...|||I humbly reject your request, but thank you for the response.|||This is only one of many reasons, simplifying this down to just one debate item is not possible. Attention. Good or bad. At some point the individuals have found that the only way they can attain...'

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'of course :laughing: yea if you stick around I'm sure you'll get used to the forum posting and all that haha|||I consider myself outgoing, but I'm an introvert. I'm pretty sure of it. I got real good social skills, can make a friend easily, not embarassed by being the center of attention, large groups don't...|||Yea.. I'm really good at making someone feel horrible at their self even if it's just for a second, or making someone seem like the most disgusting thing on the Earth. Of course using Fi like that is...|||Sup? I completely get your random yet clever is funny genre. (Check my avatar it just screams that haha) What type of art do you do?|||Yea I'll talk out loud to myself from time to time... I was talking to my alarm clock and telling it to be quiet or my reflection in the mirror will hear it|||the world spins a little bit too fast sometimes tell her slow down sometimes... dang...|||Broke up with my gf tonite... I feel horrible beyond words just thinking what she must be feeling :sad: Even though I know it was for the best... I feel like I just murdered someone. This sucks|||Science... because as it gets more and more advanced it seems we answer more and more questions we thought were unanswerable. Yea it's helped us improve as a species,(and some would say even that is...|||try a couple hours|||I just go with the flow... I'm very free spirited and hope to find a way to make enough money to have just enough to have a decent home and enough food, and then just live my days like each day was...|||Who would I wanna go out and have fun with... friends... Who do I know that will love me no matter what.... family... more specifically my mom, grandma, other grandma, sister.. I can truly say I...|||I think in situations where I'm really overwhelmed or really anxious I can seem like a real bad ESTJ... it's not really that I'm insecure with my personality it just comes out. I don't think there's...|||They always used to tell me at school but I didn't believe them|||Someone should change the title of this topic to Retype izzie haha|||Money, family problems, the future, are probably the 3 biggest ones... But sometimes I'll get instantly overly stressed about the oddest things that most people wouldn't think twice and a half about.|||I was born December 30th also...|||That's really interesting... I think I'll give it a try I'm already doubting myself though lol|||I'm gonna do this as soon as I get some way to make a vid... haha|||I think that has more to do with the fact that it's in the city. People in a large city act a lot different than people in a smaller town. Try walking down the street in a city and saying hi to...|||I'd say you're leaning more toward INTP... I always consider the people in any situation. Not only would I think of friends arguing as stupid (moreso pointless), but I'd feel bad for them even though...|||1. Keak Da Sneak 2. Tupac 3. Mac Dre 4. Too Short 5. Messy Marv 6. J. Stalin All are local, it's hard for me to listen to rappers who aren't from my area since a lot of times it sounds really...|||When I don't think about it my posture is normal I'd say..I forget to keep my chin high from time to time when I start to go in my head. I played a lot of sports growing up so I think that's helped...|||introverted Feeling (Fi)(47.6) extraverted Intuiting (Ne)(44.6) introverted Intuiting (Ni)(39.4) introverted Thinking (Ti)(30.5) extraverted Feeling (Fe)(27.1) extraverted Thinking (Te)(20.2)...|||You're probably like me... I'm an introvert, but I'm definitely not shy. I expel energy when I socialize... and I feel most comfortable alone to regain my energy than having a conversation just for...|||There wouldn't be as much fighting and wars, but when one happens, oh boy... we'd never forgive each other.|||I'ma only do the ones I think I know enough about, a pro and con for each ENTP - Never boring, a lot of good laughs, but can be hard headed ISTP - Really good at solving physical problems, can be...|||Lol yea I get that a lot :happy:|||I'm only 17, but worst to up to this point probably was when I was 14...still kinda cleaning up from that point, I'm sorta in a point right now where things can get really bad or really good, but I...|||Wow... sometimes I'll just sit on the floor with my dog for minutes and minutes... and just not even pet her just sit there with her and be alive.|||I'm the same way with people most times, I feel like if I were 100% myself I'd scare people away with how intense I am about everything.|||I can see grey skies and choked souls... unfilled bowls-- countless unloved minds thousands.... in borrowed clothes they line up, in rows Broken--- No tomorrow...|||I'll sometimes have dreams like that... but it's not too common for me. The last one I remembered someone I was very close to died and the way they died I realized couldn't be true and I figured this...|||Eh... that's kinda like saying the majority of mindless assholes are ESTJ... (which I don't believe at all, just saying)|||I think if you're truly passionate about what you're learning than that's the reward in itself. A lot of people take college for granted these days since it seems expected of everyone, but really...|||I'm no ENFP but I'm pretty good friends with one and I don't think she's annoying at all... I think she's the least annoying person I know actually... more like the one of the most interesting. One...|||I think the real question would be, what personality type should they make the first A.I.'s be haha|||I kinda wana get spikes in my ears people tell me all the time I'd probably really rock them... right now I got no type of piercing or tattoo or any other kind of body modification except for a few...|||If I find them entertaining and they only do it because that's just them, then I don't mind... but if it's unhealthy ways to get attention, like starting fights, creating drama, pulling really mean...|||Yea but then again a Thinker can never feel what a feeler can feel, good or bad.|||He's a great director... Unbreakable is one of my faves. But a some of his movies seem to waste really great ideas... The Village, Lady in the Water, The Happening all had a lot of potential I think...|||My family keeps me going, without them I don't know where I'd be... most likely dead or in jail.|||I usually will pretend to be looking at something else and occasionally look them in the eyes when I feel it's appropriate... but I can't the whole conversation because I just feel I'm intruding on...|||Thanks to typology I feel 90% less of a martian invading the planet on a secret mission.|||I like to make people happy so I guess I cover myself up with humor a lot of times, sometimes even a false arrogance it all depends on how I'm feeling at that moment though and how my relationships...|||Yea I'm just starting to realize it's gonna be next year already and I still haven't made any goals really|||Yea but at the same time, in a split second, it can turn into the worst..|||I swear I could hear this song playing as soon as I walked out my jobs door|||just got the can from my job today... I don't know if I should be dancing around or pissed off|||I don't know much about INFJ's never talked with one in real life, but immediately you can tell the difference in how they use and direct their energies... when the INFP was talking then when the...|||I'm real close to them in the sense I know the current family happenings and all that. Most of my entire family (aunts, uncles cousins nephews all that etc) contact each other often that's just how...'

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'You probably wouldn't recognize me as an INTP until you talked with me quite a bit, so I don't have anything useful to say about that. I also tend to get freaked out if someone approaches me out of...|||Why does she want feedback or validation if she hates the idea? Is there some part of her that wants it? I guess I would advice her to contact a sexual therapist. Unless the relationship is just...|||It's just a personal experience, but I've found that xNxP types are the most self-ironic. We are types that spend a lot of time observing ourselves and we typically have quirky, black sense of humour.|||Yeah, I do that with my illnesses. It usually starts when I have to explain why I can't eat this or that. Then people get all sympathetic and I try to lighten the mood by telling something related...|||MsBossyPants I want to lube your bike chains and pedal together towards the sunrise until our exhausted bodies are dripping with sweat and the hardness of the saddle has made your ass scream from...|||It sounds like you just lack experience and knowledge about the methods that would suit your style. I enjoyed writing my theses. For me the key was to start with a rough sketch on topics that...|||Maybe just say really casually something like I'm here if you want to talk about it and then continue with something completely mundane, like a silly video or some question that does need to be...|||Is it representative that I had my previous job interview (cleaning hallways, didn't get it perhaps due to lack of enthusiasm :shocked:) about 15 years ago and have been a student / self-employed...|||I'd add to Eryngo's good post that you are allowed to expect some level of maturity from her. Communicate with her, tell her (calmly) if there's anything that bothers you and explain why it's making...|||Sorry, but I would need a written and signed promise. Don't feel too bad about it though. Life isn't supposed to be fair. *hug* Oh sorry, meant *shrug*|||I'm an INTP woman on a dating site. Come and find me :wink: Unless you're an idiot.|||That's interesting. Why would you feel very hurt if someone told you you are being in their opinion unfair? It happens to everyone. Sometimes we just can't take other people into consideration as...|||Depending on situation, that doesn't sound very constructive to me :wink: Wouldn't you tell the person that he / she is acting like an ass? In a neutral way preferably (e.g. Don't you think you're...|||It sounds to me that you are not as much sexually inhibited as awkward / shy. What is it more precisely that prevents you from taking action? I'm guessing at least three things: a) fear of rejection,...|||Sillyasuarus and islandlight don't you think it's possible to learn how to express emotions in a more constructive way? It takes practicing, but if you never do it, having outbursts like that is a...|||Well, I'm waiting. Bring it on.|||I actually started a thread about a related issue some time ago. It's not about sex, but relationships in general.|||Eryngo and Nell, interesting discussion. I couldn't concentrate on it very well since I'm (eh) supposed to work, but read it through. I think I'm the same and have to say it's exhausting. In...|||I tend to value mastery more, or at least I believe that it's easier to achieve something worthwhile in life if you can truly concentrate on something. That being said, I have personally realized a...|||I've seen Arrival, Hell or High Water, La La Land and Manchester by the Sea. I thought La La Land was horrendous, but I'm not in general a friend of overacting or musicals. I liked all the other...|||So? Women can be idiots too, I never argued against that. I would have wanted to see more detailed statistics on the matter (results for both men and women separately, as well as if the victim was a...|||How did the kissing go? What happened afterwards and when was it?|||Oh sure, I agree about that.|||I can't do either very well. When I'm reading what someone I know has written I can't hear their actual voice at all. I'm not even sure what kind of a voice I am hearing even though I've tried to...|||I was talking about misogynist lewd pricks (I've met plenty during my life), so no, I wouldn't be kind with them. Obviously there's no excuse for being rude when the other person is being nice, and...|||I wouldn't know. I honestly don't see very much that kind of feminism, but I do see statistics that say about 27 % of EU citizens think rape is okay under certain circumstances.|||I think I can tell pretty well when a man is into another girl, but when / if I'm the target I'm in too much self doubt to see what's really going on. I could of course be wrong when it comes to...|||I had to recently visit a workplace where I didn't know anyone. When I was just finished with eating my lunch in their kitchen, two women showed up and started complaining how the dishwasher always...|||How did I not see that you already explained it :rolleyes:|||Why is this only for women?|||No, I only notice when someone is being obnoxiously lewd about it. Otherwise I'm blind, or at least I'll say to myself that I'm just imagining (which might true).|||I don't, and choosing clothes isn't really what's the problem (I'm an artist and believe that I have a somewhat good aesthetic sense). It's that I feel weird / fake when I try to make an effort. As...|||I forgot to answer this sooner. He did reply almost right after I wrote here and was apologetic. I don't think he realized that I had gotten that upset, but we talked things through and everything is...|||What's the disconnect? I just saw your picture in the photo thread and you look pretty attractive to me.|||Ha, that's funny. I always just picture everyone as their avatars, even if it's a cat. I like Winona Ryder's appearance even though she seems to wear black all the time (I had to google some images...|||I've never paid that much attention to what people (especially celebrities etc.) wear, and even if someone looks in my opinion nice I'm not sure I would feel comfortable looking the same way. Usually...|||Getting divorced has made me think about this. Apparently I could look pretty good if I made an effort, but I rarely bother. Wearing even a little makeup (lipstick, mascara), especially when combined...|||Yes, Bach is among my favourite composers. I love his cellos solos.|||Exactly. I lose interest in most things when I know I'm be able to do them.|||I'll try not to sound to banal, but... At one point I thought I'd made a lot of wrong decisions during my life, but I've been able to slowly steer things into the direction that seems meaningful....|||I wonder if this is a question every INTP posts here at some point. I'm pretty sure I've asked about it too and I still don't have a proper answer. (This comes from someone who is supposed be working...|||Yes. We spent a week together. I've felt offended by him too and without any particularly good reason. Our sense of humour is very extreme as you put it and at first neither of us took...|||If it were possible to recognize psychopaths without a doubt, would you be ready to ban them from any political (or other, which?) positions? I imagine the world might be a better place if that could...|||This isn't really about dating, but perhaps someday potentially dating someone who might be a fellow INTP, though he's not very introverted and shows more S and J than I do (many imponderables). ...|||No song would make me cry per se, but if I'm already sad I can cry while listening to certain music. It's easier to cry when listening to music or watching a sad movie. I see it as a way of...|||I don't think everyone fits the 16 personality. You can probably be an INTP with more developed sensing capabilities or vice versa. I know someone who sounds a lot like you and I haven't been able to...|||I recently got hugged by a random person (I know, wtf) who felt emotionally touched by my work (again, wtf). I'm pretty sure I did D. But I do secretly fantasize about being touched by someone whose...|||People typically struggle to make a living in the creative fields, so it would be dumb on her part not to charge. You must know how it is; you don't ask this one guy to pay and soon you have a line...|||What is it with all these people who come here to complain that being an INTP sucks? I don't understand it and I'm not even being sarcastic here. Finding a proper niche can be a little or even very...|||I had to necro some old book thread just so I could share a book recommendation: J.M. Coetzee - Diary of a Bad Year. It doesn't have any distinctively INTP characters, but other than that it's about...'

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'So, those arms of yours are nice. In that they're useful, I mean. I, too, find small talk annoying, so I often end up just quietly observing people until I notice something useful to remark on....|||Are you sure this person is an INTJ? That is HIGHLY suspect. The INTJs I know hardly EVER check in on things as in asking, are you okay? etc, and in fact, are usually totally oblivious if I'm about...|||Question! INTJs, do you often use the vocabulary: I love _______! to describe things you enjoy doing, interests you have, or favorite foods? In other words, do you often use passionate language...|||I'm kinda stressed out because I'm moving to another state to begin grad school and my mom is incapable of doing anything in a way that is not the hardest way possible, but I'll probably ride in the...|||INFJs INFPs INTPs INTJs ENTPs other ENFJs I've never hit it off with Ss. I get along with them fine, but it's never been the sort of thing where I meet an S and we're both like, Hey! It's...|||I've skimmed this thread, and it seems like those with the biggest beefs are: Ps NTs Is Which is actually a lot of ppl lol. And the most common beef, by far, is that ESFJs are too...|||Oh, come on! That was like the greatest movie. Not the new one, but the old one. I'll start that thread at some point. You might have fun here, though:...|||So kind of you to say :) I may end up demanding more INFP guys, too... I have another date with him (we'll call him K) tomorrow. Weeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee god, I seem to have a special skill for falling in...|||But how would you know what you like via your gut if you haven't tried out many kinds of relationships and witnessed your partner's behavior (and your own) in many scenarios? Developing gut...|||Right on, my friend. The more I've dated, the more I've realized that there are very few rules, and the only reason that men and women buy into any of this crap is because they lack personal...|||What's sad is that I think this isn't intuitive for many women for a few reasons: - Many women have been hurt by men who initially ply them with attention only to later win sex/emotional control...|||Crushes, trauma... same for me. I still have many of the things I wrote during the end of my 5-year relationship and a nasty time of my life, and I intend to keep them. It's tough reading, but every...|||I've already done a little research on this, and it seems like most people peg Jaime for an: ISTJ INTJ and Adam for an: ENTP ESTP|||I don't think I began consistently journaling until I was in middle or high school (when life starts to have the capacity to suck, lol) but ever since then it's been solid. Do you still have most...|||That's what I meant; INFPs... okay, according to Wikipedia, 1-5% of the population. So yeah, that's pretty rare. I understand what you mean about women not usually appreciating warm/sensitive men....|||I'm a writer, and that's one of the big reasons I write. After a period of going out in the world, having new experiences, and engaging my Se, I must come home, sit down, and write about it. It makes...|||Well, I'm just now discovering the magical land of the INFP, so we'll see what happens. It's interesting, I've always been very fond on INTPs, but never though to try an F, or could find one... are...|||Dude, Crono. Get selfish. I'm serious. It's probably the smartest thing I learned how to do. Note: selfish doesn't = thoughtless. But if you're in the middle of writing your next novel/testing...|||Oh, I just ask. Actually, it's a pretty good litmus; if they're N, they'll be interested in talking about MBTI, and if they're S they won't and I probably won't want to date them. Lol. My N is...|||I'm not sure if this is the same thing, but sometimes I go on sensing binges, where I'll just want to immerse myself in physically sensual activites. For example, if I've just spent a glorious...|||I just got back from a date with INFP guy... and let me say, you guys rock my socks. Just letting you know.|||@ kiwigirl: Yay for natural childbirth! I'm years from this (haven't even been married, although I just went on a date that went pretty fantastically, if I do say so myself) but I really want to...|||A cursory search isn't turning up a 5-numbered set of values, but the Greeks do like their 5s: Classical element - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia Platonic solid - Wikipedia, the free...|||Oh man, right there with you on that. Or stepping on a Lego block. WORST pain imaginable, right in the fleshy arch of my foot. Zowie!|||This is a lovely analogy. I've always thought of love as two people not needing each other for survival, but choosing to be with each other because it makes survival more fun. I think love is a...|||Career: Nah, I don't think I could hurt people for a living. I get really squeamish getting shots, and while administering them might not make me squeamish, I'd feel guilty, knowing how much anxiety...|||Meh, it's the cost of keeping oneself safe. Maybe I used to be more open, but I was also way more vulnerable and volatile, like a big, delicate, squishy jellyfish that easily stings when mishandled. ...|||Caution... *lets NT-self out of cage* It's like this: A long time ago, I also used to get my feelings hurt/confused by hot-and-cold. Then I realized my hyper-sensitivity was making everyone act...|||duh duh duhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!|||Does this exclude casual dates? Hook-ups? Or everything? If it's cold-turkey, I'm not sure I could do it... 0.o I just love men.|||Yup. The perks of a relationship without actually engaging in a relationship... I mean, assuming the end goal is to live in a the same house with someone for 50+ years and spend the majority of your...|||Crono may have been playing a game himself with that one :) But in all seriousness, there's nothing wrong with creating intrigue. In fact, telling a person everything about yourself the first time...|||I think we covered the being-so-stubborn-that-they're-unable-to-see-any-other-side issue? For my ex, it was when he admitted he'd been battling depression but refused to seek help, claiming it was...|||A significant number of men who've had unmitigated infatuations for me have been ENFPs... so maybe try an ENFJ? I find the J/P contrast enjoyable; he spontaneously decides we should take a weekend...|||No, you're right, I wouldn't particularly find that offensive. In fact, it seems wise to me to consider many possibilities before deciding on the best course of action. I think it can be problematic...|||How have your recent relationships turned out when you were in close proximity to the person?|||Okay! I'll give it a shot. For me, these were healthy kinds of love. Healthy meaning that they didn't make me feel unhappy, and that they enriched my life more than complicated it: - The love...|||I think the lack of respect for each other's personal strengths is the biggest barrier to a healthy ENFJ/INTJ relationship. Although my INTJ ex and I were able to tackle projects successfully...|||I can't speak for Crono, but for myself personally, I think MANY types of people are guilty of disregarding the context of another person's life. Because we can't ever really know what someone else...|||Yes, I think that would really erode their defenses...|||This happens to me all the time! It's like... I just get flashes of insight. Ex 1: I'm haunting Salvation Armies for a coffee table. I see a pretty nice one, pretty cheap, but don't buy it. I...|||You said it, sister!|||I totally wanted to do this once. I was so pissed off! He was like I will NOT apologize for something I did in your dream... or didn't do, dammit! Ex 1: I dreamt that I was looking through a...|||Hm. My dad is INTP and my mom is ESFJ, and I've spent forever trying to figure out what he sees in her... they seem to be opposites in every way (and ARE in MBTI Land). They care for each other and...|||LOL. If only that would sandblast the irrationality out of my ESFJ mom and not her physical body... because I love her, still. Here are my best coping tactics. These are terrible and make me seem...|||Dad- INTP Mom- ESFJ Me- ENFJ Now, I think it's worth pointing out that I'm fairly balanced in I/E, J/P, and even F/T... I've tested ENFP and INTP before, although mostly ENFJ. Something I have...|||Yes! Actually, I just thought about this-- maybe because ENFJs pride themselves so much on their ability to build people up, it really offends us to see others who seem to pride themselves on their...|||I think the greatest hallmark of an ENFJ is that they make you feel immediately at ease and appreciated for being exactly who you are, and seemingly with no great effort on their part. I'm an ENFJ...|||I'm the same. And I, too, like thinking that I'm not easily defined. It seems paradoxical, because I have a very strong sense of who I am, but if someone asked me to explain it, I wouldn't have...|||I noticed this with my old INTJ boyfriend. If I wanted to try something new, like adding paprika to our scrambled eggs or trying out swing dancing lessons, he acted like I was asking him to dismember...'

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If I had to guess I'd wager ENTP :)|||As an INFJ I was wondering, does the fact that I enjoy eating roast cat poo for my lunch relate to my cognitive functions? EDIT : This is what happens when your ENFP friend gets hold of your...|||INFJ's like to say they're mysterious, INFP's are great idealist, INTP's/INTJ's are geniuses, ISTJ's are the only sensible ones, ESFP's are bubbly and fun... it's called stereotyping. And a human...|||[WARNING: This poem is one about death. Not a personal one; no-one close to me has died. So this is less skewered by grief or pain, or any of the other sundry emotions that follow such a...|||Wow, looking at the polls it seems as if INFJ's seem to have similar 'opened chakras.' That's interesting.|||I avoid getting my picture taken at whatever cost. But if the inevitable has to happen, I usually act a lot more extraverted, putting my arm around people and acting a lot more group-orientated...|||(More beach & sea related poetry... I've been writing really thematically recently :)) Lying on the tranquil beach with you, Connected hand in hand, Spirit to spirit, spectators of theway, The...|||As said before, definitely the SJ's, though I think N types would get some of the higher-level stuff more easily.|||The wave generates the starting tide, Above the twilight-lit shore, A tentative winter wind, And you forever more. If I could count the stars, I see three, maybe four, More million stars right...|||School is getting too much. So much homework, so little time, wah ._. It doesn't help, it just gives me so much stress.|||I'd say modern day 'Libertarians' don't even promote liberty; I agree that the state has no right to tell people if they can take drugs or not, what gender we should marry and what a woman can do...|||Yes, but I'm not much of an extravert. Therefore I'm an introvert, simples.|||I tested as INFP initially. Looked up a type description and was like 'OMG THAT'S SOOOO ME' ... and thought I could never be an INFJ (because I'm so disorganised). And then when I look into the...|||nickvold -- lovely talking to you, would love to do it again :)|||INFJ type 5... with wing 4, so here are my results :) : Major Depression: Slight-Moderate Dysthymia: Slight|||ESFP. Sorry to give you E :')|||Ooops *shifty eyes*|||Dad: INTJ, Mother: ESTP (I have it hard, I know x() Siblings: ISFP and ESFP.|||Atheist INFJ here. Would I say I'm spiritual though? In a way; I always feel in my heart that something out there exists... not a god... but something somewhat divine that we don't know about, and...|||INFJ 5w4 here :-D|||Hey everyone, To put it bluntly, I want to be a forensic psychologist when I'm older. This year I'll be taking psychology in Uni, so that's the first step, but what do I do after that? Any advice...|||I think @pneumoceptor nailed MBTI and stereotypes (or MBTI and using it to predict or judge behaviour) perfectly in her video: ...|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7Xf-Lesrkuc|||I think American Horror Story lost it after series 1, really. For me it seemed to just go over the top.|||I'm sure these people are frustrating, but I'm sure some SJ's on here will be perfectly happy to explain things to you and to make things interesting for you -- you can't generalise to all SJ's, some...|||The ocean is an ever flowing abyss; green and blue, with the light from the sun dancing and skipping along the surface. It is like a mirror, at first glance you only see yourself, though it you dare...|||Education should be done out of passion, and thirst for knowledge. But unfortunately it's some rigid-competition system set up by the government. So studying for the sake of wanting to study is...|||tangosthenes I'd be happy to :)|||Bump, just to see if anyone else will chip in :)|||*Sighs and glances at ISTJ's* I know how you are all feeling. My intuition has told me how you all feel and it's so accurate it deceives me into thinking I have a psychic power. *Scribbles on...|||I resent people on PersonalityCafe who insult me directly in a debate and take it too personally. And I kick myself for it. A lot >.<|||This is like a Rocky Horror Picture Show sequel. And I'm strangely cool with that.|||I'm ill. (EDIT: I just thought you guys needed that sexy piece of info).|||Of course you're allowed your own opinions dear! (P.S When they're stupid and ignorant, you'll tend to get a lot of hatred. Because everyone else is entitled to an opinion too. When you express an...|||I think anybody who has the temerity to pull off a 'Straight Pride' parade would be incredibly ignorant. It would look like some Neo-Nazi meet up, and less rainbow-y. Straight people don't need a...|||Eurgh, people on the debating forum take the debates a little bit too personally. It isn't nice when they resort to cursing or just saying derogatory things about you :/|||Hey, I'm an INFJ too, so it looks like we're in the same boat *hugs.* I'm studying my A-Levels right now, so I don't have an interesting life story. I actually found your life story interesting,...|||*Hugs fellow INFJ*|||1. School ending. 2. Sunshine. 3. Good music.|||pneumoceptor -- I love your videos a lot! They give me a great glimpse into types and how they interact :) It's nice to see an existing INFJ too ... I have never met a fellow INFJ before, they're so...|||I actually thought I was an INFP until recently. I don't know many INFP's personally (although I thought I was one myself) -- but I have been around the forum enough to know the pros and cons of an...|||I had to grow up in a military home. I hated it. All the patriotism I was raised with has always left a bad taste in my mouth and I constantly felt as if life was too systematic and conformist. I...|||I honestly don't know. I guess it's like a subconscious person in my head that often tells me to hurt people, and if I consciously don't it can often be very painful.|||Perhaps instead of asking people to ask you questions, you should reach out for general help, not interrogation?|||I am an Ni-INFJ ... I kind of assumed most INFJ's would be, seeing as it's their dominant function? That aside, my Fe is strong. I suppose I can be quite diplomatic when the time calls for it :)|||I like to write ... anything ...|||Struggled over this question recently :) Luckily I found out, had I seen this before, the inner debate would've been a lot less chronic.|||Michelle Pfeiffer just seems to have a perfectly symmetrical face, it's ridiculous. Rose McGowan before plastic surgery has always been my dominant crush, though >_<|||Intricate.|||Thanks INFJ's for giving me a lot of songs to listen to :) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2PhOfJhJKZk

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'You said nearest book, right?|||Make love, not war.|||I had to excise my INFJ ex-best friend from my life about four months ago for similar reasons. It sucked for a little while, but ultimately, I'm so much happier for it. Like me, you also deserve to...|||That was astoundingly accurate.|||Coincidentally, Bjork is an INFP.|||I grew up in a very conservative Christian household. My family and I worshipped Baptist churches every weekend, although we did not commit to a congregation until I was in ninth grade. I also...|||You need better friends. And the ending to this movie was just... perfect.|||This film is so, so, so good.|||Last year, I had a nasty falling out with one of my (ex-)best friends. I was actually the one who initiated it. It sucked. I was actually so devastated that I couldn't cry; I could only tremble. I...|||I find this statement rather offensive. If normal is synonymous with heterosexual, does that make anything but heterosexuality abnormal? Such a binary approach is too limited. There are various...|||6. I can definitely relate to the story about the sensitive boy, never forgetting a moment of your past, and seeking an escape from suffering. Musically, however, the song is just so-so. I like the...|||Jekyll and Hyde, Les Miserables, Matilda, Spring Awakening, Ragtimeu200b, the list goes on.|||For whatever reason, all I can think about while reading this thread is Wrecking Ball.|||83. I feel like this is more of an S-versus-N test, though. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk|||I would encourage your child to report what he is experiencing to the authorities. The number for the Domestic Violence Hotline is (800) 799-7233. Child protective services will not ignore your son's...|||I'm 21. Two years ago, a stranger asked me if I went to her son's middle school. I rest my case.|||INFPs aren't sexually aggressive because we don't like objectifying people. We're also not the type to express our desires, especially if they conflict with yours. Based on those two observations,...|||Yes, I would have been quite offended. My sex life - or lack thereof - is my business. It is irrelevant to my masculinity, my social success, and, most importantly, who I am as a person. Your...|||I'd definitely cut down on the ellipses and change some names. Fred is fine, but Spacestrong is too much. World Decisions Towers and Glazed Duck Restaurant are also dreadfully cheesy. ...|||Never dated or married an SP but have dealt with a few ESFPs and an ISTP. The ESFPs are nice people. A little extroverted and chatty for my taste, but fine people. The ISTP, on the other hand -...|||My life is not a sad story. - Charlie, Perks of Being a Wallflower|||1. I am exceptionally intelligent. I mean, who else uses tutelage and zeitgeist in their writing assignments? 2. I'm quite charismatic. 3. I'm exceptionally nice. 4. I'm also a great singer....|||Hmm, this is a toughie. You purchased the house, so it is technically your own; however, for the sake of your family ties, I urge you to be respectful. Maybe Grandma has good taste! If not, then you...|||I've become really good at hiding it.|||Mother, ISFJ. Father, ESTJ.|||Hmm... Perks of Being a Wallflower (the book and the movie) Charlotte's Web (good grief, I bawled after that one in fourth grade) Les Miserables (like, duh, doesn't everyone cry in this...|||I'm a vocalist, so I don't smoke anything. I'm also on scholarship at university, so enjoying illegal substances isn't the smartest idea.|||I am so awkward on the phone. #infpproblems|||Psychologist Number 5 recently suggested I might have Asperger's Syndrome. I've done some research on the condition, and some of the symptoms do seem to fit me (though it's supposedly an INTP...|||My reaction will just spring forward spontaneously. I'll gleefully say, Thank you! or You've made my day! If I'm speaking to a friend, then there will likely be hugs and I love you or I'm glad...|||I would share everything that is worth knowing. My best friends pretty much know me inside out. I like it that way.|||Yes, as I said earlier, the lying behavior is astoundingly unusual for an INFP. How could he sleep at night without a nagging conscience? Most of us would be tormented by the thought of putting up...|||Aw, stop it, you. @Sun Lips, you and ToxicatedRose are quite right - we INFPs are not exactly quick to say how we feel about anything. It's often very difficult for us to just say how we feel...|||Greetings from the INFP Empire. I have many high-quality friendships with INFJs. I care for them deeply, and the feeling is reciprocated. Nonetheless, I've read many complaints about the INFP-INFJ...|||I used to retreat to an imaginarium where I'd care and be cared for by all the inanimate objects in my life. I imagine them as benevolent to a degree I don't see in humans.|||As much as I like the exhilaration, I think I do need the woman who will give me rest.|||Yes, Peter knew. Peter also knew about Sam's mental state; he knew everything. Not exactly. I have a lot of friends who are sexually active and am not bothered by that. And did you read the...|||Thank you much. The situation is so fucked up I can't even describe it. Peter called Sam right before he had sex to ask how to use a condom. Let me repeat that Sam struggles with depression and...|||I don't harbor anger for extended periods of time. There are too many other stimuli craving my attention. I suppose, in some regards, I forget and do not forgive. There has been a recent incident...|||This is spot-on for me. My secondary schools placed a huge emphasis on debate, and, with a lot of Ne and a lot less Te, I would make speculations that could be readily be destroyed. Even outside...|||C&P'ed this from the INFP Vent Thread. I honestly just need to get this off my chest. Just respond in any way you feel appropriate.|||Pain from a stab in the back.|||I regret to inform you that this is a true story. Everything hurts right now. I post frequently about my two best friends from university, an INFJ (Peter) and an INTJ (Sam). To say these...|||Functions aren't dichotomic, my friend. For example, Introverted Feeling (Fi) seeks virtue, justice, and internal harmony, whereas Fe seeks affection, expression, and external harmony. These two...|||You must know that there is nothing higher and stronger and more wholesome and good for life in the future than some good memory, especially a memory of childhood, of home. People talk to you a...|||The bookstore will lead me to bankruptcy. #infpproblems This misogynist homophobe at work is driving me nuts. #infpproblems|||Absolutely! I think a purebred INFP (Fi-Ne-Si-Te-Fe-Ni-Se-Ti) is a very, very rare creature. My functional stack is Fi-Fe-Ni-Ne-Si-Ti-Te-Se, which essentially makes me an INFP/ENFJ/INFJ mutt. All of...|||Since we have an INFP Problems thread, let's start a more optimistic INFP Solutions thread! Remember, complete each answer with #infpsolutions. When your friend says you're one of the most...|||Who Else Feels Really Appreciated at Work? Anyone Want a Free Barnes and Noble Gift Card? I'll Never Use It! How to Exploit Charities 101 BE A MAN - Why America is Full of Wussies and Gay People...|||Yes! INFPs love random acts of kindness. @I destroy life I also adore my INTJ friend; you remind me of him. In fact, your username even sounds like something he'd choose! As INFPs, we're...'

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'When you have this conversation with your also-intuitive sister: Hey, do you... No, I don't know. Ok. That's not what I was going to ask though.|||Seeley Booth - ENFJ (ESFJ?) Dr. Temperance Brennan - INTJ Dr. Jack Hodgins - ENTP (INTP?) Angela Montenegro - ISFP Dr. Lance Sweets - INFJ Dr. Camille Saroyan - ESTJ Zach - INTP I miss Zach...|||Temperament is a really horrible way to type someone. Temperaments are all Keirsey, and Keirsey... well, I don't believe half the things out of his mouth. He just wants to make a profit from...|||So, I had a really clear idea of their types a few days ago, and then I stepped into this forum and it's like... I forgot everything about what I thought and why. You people have confused me! So,...|||That's fair. He is indeed a well-balanced character if ever there was one.|||So since it's become a thing, and as I am almost done with The Complete Sherlock Holmes now, I feel obliged to announce that there is absolutely no way in the universe Sherlock Holmes is...|||5'0 I really dislike being as short as I am. I like to dress in clothing that makes me feel kick-ass, whether it's fashionable or not. Usually I consider myself a real-life example of Awesome...|||This. EXACTLY. There are no better words.|||Yeah, I hate the dating game. Seriously. I'm not interesting in ANYTHING that begins in flirtation. I suspect my first boyfriend (for I have not had one yet) will be a very close friend who I've...|||This is a true story: I was in an extemporaneous speaking competition at the college level. (Extemp speaking is set up to where you must gather articles from the news through the whole season, then...|||INTJ. Is that even a question? Lol. I love 'em though, I really do. Whereas the ones I would consider second coldest (ENTJs)... well I *tend* to not like them. Quite decidedly.|||Sheldon - INTJ. CLEARLY not extroverted, and though it seems he's often seriously lacking in intuition, the INTJ profile fits better than ISTJ. Leonard - ENFJ. He craves acceptance and...|||1. Facebook 2. Twitter 3. Youtube 4. Personality Cafe 5. NaNoWriMo 6. Gmail 7. SideReel 8. IMDB 9. FailBlog (and associates) 10. Wikipedia|||This is a thread for I'm so ENTP jokes. They're like yo mama jokes, but instead of being about yo mama, it's about ENTPs. And instead of being about fatness, it's about awesomeness. Exempli...|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5JRKDF8ui3E|||Dad - ISTJ Mom - ESFJ or ENFJ Me - ENTP Sister - INFJ Sister - ISFP Brother - ESTP Brother - too young to tell for sure, xSFx|||It's hard to tell with half his brain missing. I feel like he's an ENTP lobotomized into... whatever he is now. But he seems to get a lot of his thinking energy from working with people - he needs...|||For a very long time, I have assumed that my ideal guy was a nerd, and that's still true to an extent. But the I've just had a chance to go out with a properly charming, nerdy guy and I realized I...|||My brother is ESTP and we tend to get on each other's nerves a lot. I often feel like he's being intentionally ignorant; he's loud, temperamental, close-minded, and has a rude sense of humor. ...|||Yeah, that'd be a big ol' NO for me. Now, I can sometimes be quite the romantic, but love at first sight is something I don't buy.|||There's actually a funny little progression for me. From under lowest stress to under highest stress, I will act like a: ...|||Yes, I know, but I'm still curious as to which ones switch most easily.|||Personality type describes you, but we all know we aren't always ourselves. When you are melancholy, stressed, or otherwise not yourself, which of the four letters is the first to go? For...|||No, that's the truth. Honestly, people mistype themselves as iNtuitives ALL THE TIME. It's because people have this ridiculous misconception about iNtuitives being the smart ones and sensors as...|||ENTP, I'm sure, lol. S would at least keep you rooted in reality F would make you empathetic and more sociable J would make you professional and reasonable So the extrovert with none of these...|||Haha glad I'm not the only one who thinks like that! I started wondering about the type of certain cultures watching Lord of the Rings (because the Shire is totally ISTJ). Then I started expanding...|||Something else I considered briefly. But he's much more sporadic than a J (absolutely no schedule, completely listless and spontaneous unless a case has his attention), and he's completely...|||That's sooooooooooo Feelery lol|||Having read most of the original Conan Doyle books, seen the latest movie, and the BBC series (which, by the way, is BRILLIANT), I think I've managed a fairly accurate insight. Watson is a...|||Lol well I don't know yet. I don't drink (or at least, get drunk and party and such). But I do plan on getting drunk once, because I myself am very curious about the question you posed. Sometime...|||Two slightly different questions I'd like to hear your answers to. For me the answer is yes to both. For instance, I work part time at a retirement home where I help serve meals and do dishes. ...|||This: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T6a_1R3w5i4 or this: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O5ZwnmJgC-g|||Kung Fu Panda. Pretty good :) it was enjoyable, but nothing that would make my top ten.|||Well, Doctor Who is the best TV show of all time. Bar none. Hands down. No contest. Miles cooler than anything else ever produced in serial. But I also watch House, Monk, Bones, Fringe, Psych,...|||I don't mind a significant other being younger than me, as long as it's close. Within a few years at most. Shorter on the other hand... well it wouldn't be such a big deal except that I'm only...|||I just... wow... I mean... seriously! That stream of stutters is about the only thing that can accurately illustrate how perfectly this applies. Words cannot describe. I feel that pain. I...|||You weren't explaining it poorly at all, I know exactly what you mean. ENTPs have a tendency to believe people are generally unintelligent and shallow, and we aren't always willing to give them a...|||It's a complicated question for ENTPs, who value rational thinking but also have that gut iNutition that so often manifests as an inexplicable feeling as our primary function. I think I could best...|||I'm a Christian. And not even in the ambiguous, well it's what works for me, but whatever sense. I believe there's a God that created the universe, that he's personally involved in the affairs of...|||1) Be intelligent. Seriously, if you can't grasp the concept of common sense, it probably won't be pretty. But you said you're pretty well rounded so that shouldn't be an issue :) 2) Take...|||Yup, proudly. Nerdpower FTW.|||There are two kinds of people in the world: yourself and everyone else.|||How is that different? Lol, I kid, I kid. And yet now you know I'm a Republican :P|||The reason you're misunderstood and lonely is because you think you're generally smarter than other people, apparently.|||You know you're an INTJ if you don't actually believe the Myer Briggs theory is worth its salt - but you still can't keep away for PerC because it's such a fascinating social dynamic. (I myself am...|||sitiachun ====== hick|||Yes, I have never had a problem with any kind of public speaking presentation. From the time I was a little kid, I've had no problem with the attention of crowds, and have even thrived on it. ...|||Well, if it was personal, who wouldn't be sympathetic? Being a thinker doesn't make you soulless :-/|||I love him. He has an accent, and he got a Doctor Who interview on network American television. What more could I need? The fact that he's ENTP is just the icing on the cake!:cool:|||You've gotten in trouble more often for accusing your parents of being senseless than for anything you've actually *done*'

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'Oh you know, I'd be a total badass with nerves of steel wielding a machete and guns and a bow and arrow and I would sit atop treetops and pick off zombies when I'm not in the fray battling them all...|||I haven't taken any IQ tests but I guess I'm somewhere between average to above average intelligence. Nothing special though, I just know how to put forth enough effort to get A's on everything I do....|||Spiders, crowds, most bugs, and talking on the damn phone. That's the worst one. Lately I've started developing claustrophobia though, like when I went to see As Above, So Below and the guy gets...|||Somewhat. Relationships I tend to get along better with thinkers and healthy feelers. I've been with an unhealthy feeler and yeah never making that mistake again. But as for friendships, it just...|||There's nothing like a random band you never thought you liked very much that makes you remember why you're doing what you're doing and studying what you're studying. I don't know why but it did...|||Gravity Rush: Weird steampunk-esque universe with the ability to manipulate gravity and a cat that looks like it's made out of the universe? Sign. Me. Up! Pokemon: This doesn't need an...|||I think I'm gonna die :( I think this presentation is gonna kill me.|||It's late in the evening, and I'm watching the fog bank roll up from the west, from the thin line between the sky and sea that defines what it means to be a horizon. The sky grows darker with the...|||I worried for awhile that I had BPD, and I think that some people can definitely show some of that emotional intensity/instability if they let themselves go there. I personally am emotionally intense...|||I'm a Sagittarius sun sign and a Cancer ascendant/rising which pretty much sums me up. (Even though that Cancer side of me gives me fits and irritates the hell out of me more often than not. I prefer...|||This is hilarious because my boyfriend is an ESTP xD Supposedly INFPs get along really well with INFJs, but I swear some of the only people I ever come into conflict with are INFJs. I don't know...|||Where Are You Going? - Dave Matthews Band|||We had this hand soap awhile ago that smelled like something from my childhood and I have no idea why. I can't really even remember the smell now, but if I smelled it again, I'd be transported back...|||I consider myself pretty spiritually open O: I guess I've kind of made up my own philosophy/belief system/ritual behaviors to match what my inner values are? (Like I even really know what my inner...|||Okay rant time because I'm pissed and stressed out. I've spent all day with a migraine expecting to get shit done but NO OF COURSE NOT. I was only able to eat anything and feel like I could keep...|||Good I'm glad you got out of that relationship. Definitely keep an eye out for red flags like that, and those definitely sound like things controlling people say. I've heard all of those things...|||Bahaha those results didn't surprise me xD I'm sanguine-melancholic/melancholic-sanguine but this one told me I was melancholic and that's about where I'm at nowadays. On my good days I'm a strong...|||Hon, I know exactly how it is. Trust me. 90% of the guys I attract are borderline abusive and controlling assholes. The other 10% is a mishmash of forever aloners, misguided friends/coworkers, and...|||I actually said this earlier in a conversation: I wish happiness was the currency rather than money. And I honestly can't understand why it isn't. Those who are rich in happiness should be rich...|||This pineal gland activation sound is amazing~ Not that I'm trying to open my third eye or anything, I just like the sound. It's kind of helping my headache go away too to be honest. Some chick in...|||It's kind of funny when you have your music up really loud and then you take your headphones off and you realize exactly how quiet the house is. And then you wonder momentarily if you're now deaf.|||Incoherent rant/stream of consciousness alert. I have those times when I realize so much about myself, but I can never put it into words. Like... I like change. Change is great as long as it...|||I made my boyfriend take a test and he's supposedly an ESTP. But he was borderline on the E and S I think. The other two were pretty strong T and P.|||It's funny that you said touchdowned in the title because one of mine is The Blind Side. I cry every time. EVERY. TIME. Others are: Dead Poets Society (I only watched it once but I cried in...|||You can beat the robot for awhile and make it think it's been a day, but then it starts asking you about your mood levels and things each day. I haven't gotten a personality type yet, and I'm...|||I've also heard that ENFPs are the most introverted extrovert type, so there's that as well. I can have those identity crises as well, but I'm pretty sure I'm definitely an INFP. I vastly prefer...|||90% of the time I attract these extremely unhealthy feeler types. Like... borderline abusive unhealthy. My last two relationships were like that. My boyfriend now jokes about how he used to be like...|||I'm a dog~ I don't remember exactly what kind of dog. I think it was wood but I'm not so sure. I identify with the loyalty/selfishness dilemma that I always read on the Chinese restaurant...|||Sometimes I like to think that my mother gets a little bit proud of me whenever I come home and say something like I did really well talking on the phone today! The person said I was really helpful,...|||Knew it. I wanna try and read American Gods again, so whenever you're finished borrowing them let me know~|||As of late: Cowardice/Bravery (and why bravery is supposedly a top five strength of mine out of many), Future, school, work, life, Rapture/Apocalypse/Armageddon and I don't know why, war, peace,...|||Animal Crossing. Everything is Animal Crossing in my life right now. Why? Coz it's a cute and fun game and I'm desperately trying to make a super cute town this time around... but I'm not doing so...|||I keep telling myself that I'm brave, that there's just a super fine line between bravery and stupidity. But do I value bravery more than I do perfection in other people's eyes? So many things I...|||Honestly I feel like I'm on the fringe of something. It's not society, it's more closer to... reality? I don't know. I distance myself from people but I never really know why. It might be because I...|||I'm only really making this post because it'll be my 900th post and I'll feel accomplished enough to focus on my homework.|||Pacing myself is important. If I get the next two online quizzes done in the next two days then I'm not going to stress out so much. I'll read my other shit on Sunday and Monday.|||I would so dearly love to no longer be bitter about the past and present. It's bad for your face to be angry about things. Resting bitch face is one thing, actually being angry will give you wrinkles...|||I don't know if it's 100% an INFP thing, but I know I get pretty harsh whenever someone betrays me. I get really bitter and heartless, and some of the things I end up saying are things like Just...|||D'aww thanks friend~|||If I can get to 900 posts tonight I'll feel accomplished in something.|||Oh I used to have a constant favorite band. Jamie's Elsewhere. And then their lead singer left for Of Mice & Men and now Jamie's Elsewhere is still good, but not my favorite kind of good, and I've...|||I like kind of gothic sounding names. Ava Jett (if I ever have a daughter, which isn't likely I'll ever have a kid even, I'd name her that), Viktorya (that's the weirdest for spelling I'll go),...|||I'm not a happy INFP let's put it that way. My Enneagram is most likely a 4w3. It best describes me, I think, but I've been typed as both a 5 and a 7 and a counterphobic 6 and so on. At my very...|||I kind of get the feeling that people think we're whiny, woe-is-me kind of individuals who think they're so unique and tragic that no one in the WORLD could ever be as unique and tragic as us. ...|||185490 First day of sophomore year in college the other day. But first... let me take a selfie. Argh it's so small though. *sigh Edit: I guess just click on it if you wanna see the full size....|||Okay frankly I'd be pissed. Like Excuse you, no you don't. The thing with me is that I hide a lot about myself, even though people like to think they know me well, they actually don't. They like to...|||I can't explain it really :/ It's partially because I've recently discovered I'm surrounded by mainly thinking types, and they don't understand my emotional intensity or mood swings very well....|||This was a literal conversation earlier between me and my mother. Mom: Well at least your [foster] brother's doing so well! He even called us, how sweet was that? Me: Yeah he'll be a part of our...|||I just found out I've been raised by two INTJs. Well one's a possible INTP most likely INTJ, but still not one, but TWO INTJs. My God I knew my parents were perfect for each other but jfc they bred...|||Oh God I need sleep. I need it, I need it, I NEED IT. And sheezus computer get your shit together. We have two different modems now and two different wifis SO WE DON'T HAVE TO LEECH OFF OF THE...'

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'I enjoy RPGs and got so used to being able to save the game and loading to a previous progress point if the game doesn't turn out the way I want it. Imagine my horror the first time I made a major...|||Not an INFJ but I feel like jumping in anyway! I ruminate on this a great deal. However, I failed to find any satisfactory answer to this question (on my own life meaning and purpose), that I sort...|||I reckon Superman stumbled over a hot chick. Can't wait to watch this!|||Noooo! I refuse to believe that.|||Talk to your family|||Make up some silly excuse for not going to church in that particular week. Repeat that week after week after week.|||What is the duration of this program? If it's just for a year or two, it isn't that bad. Plus a 5-hour (drive?) - you could still return to see your family if you miss them. I know somebody who drove...|||Agreed. But not having the grades would also mean that one's trajectory to achieve one's goal would be impeded, at least at the early stages of one's career. Oh right. I was responding to this:...|||It does sound like the school syllabus is not suited to people with your learning inclinations. Could you perhaps elaborate on what you mean by the bolded - how are you defining the word smart and...|||Any idea why they said what they said? And were their parents well-off, which indicates that they didn't need to rely on those grades anyways?|||Based on the responses so far, it seems to me that the camp that voted no (that they do not regret not studying harder in school) are either already relatively well-accomplished academically and have...|||I don't know you so forgive my skepticism. But assuming you are being serious and are in a position to take advantage of a concrete undercover plan which will propel you to a position of influence...|||Haha! I'm relatively similar to you in this regard. My only contention here is I think it is possible for academic excellence to help improve an individual's life circumstances and possibly,...|||Is this a serious question?|||Spoke to a friend regarding this today and he said he regretted being lazy and not studying harder to get better results in school exams as it's currently affecting his career prospects. I suspect...|||In my previous job, I was very job-orientated. In my current job, I have a stronger calling orientation. So perhaps one's work orientation may not be static?|||Thanks Entropic, this is very informative. I do not fear being disconnected and alone without guidance and support. For me, it's more a concern for the physical consequences of old age, and...|||Got it, thanks!!|||scowls and scowls|||Purgation|||Summer pasta|||The Death of Money: The Coming Collapse of the International Monetary System|||Cool! I actually typed myself as ENTJ based on one PerC test, so I'm not sure how accurate that typing is (though it sounds about right)! At the moment I'm just trying to hit that 15 posts...|||Is there a way for me to view this? Or am I not seeing this feature because I lack the minimum number of posts?|||Thanks!|||I'm very curious about the distinction between the two. I've done two enneagram tests and both showed 8w7, but I can't fully discount 6w7cp either. My friends tell me that I seem hardy in the...|||Hey everyone. I just wanna get started with posting so here i am. I've always been curious about personality typology and would like to type people better. I think I'm ENTJ 8w7, but I'm still...'

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'Yes, indeed. Bi with hella gay leaning now. Oh my.|||Yes, indeed. Bi with hella gay leaning now. Oh my.|||That's amazing! This thread too, wow. :D I'm happy for you both! I also met my girlfriend online and I'm actually here visiting her for the first time right now! I'm from California and she is from...|||I've been listening to a lot of Halsey lately. Anyone feel me?|||After 3 seasons, I'm pretty sure Cosima is an ENFP.|||What makes you think he isn't? Honestly I don't know. He seems to be good at making calls in the moment based on what he sees, good with handling people, but meh. I'm going to watch every episode...|||I absolutely love this show as well. I'm not so great at typing, but then it can be difficult with fictional characters anyways. I'll give it a shot. I do think Cosima is very much an NP type -...|||Someone type Beth! She's becoming more and more of a main character, as evidenced by episodes like Still (Just her and Daryl all throughout) and Alone. I'm inclined to think she is INFP.|||Sx as an instinct preference doesn't necessarily equal energy or excitement or connection; it's how much it guides you. You seem to have a lack of energy/excitement in your life. I would highly...|||Eh, honestly he's tough to type for me. Definitely picking up on Se-Ni/Ni-Se usage. Hmmm. My guess is ISTP? Lord, I don't know. XD Any SP would work for me, I think. He's a tough one.|||In general, I am actually quite envious of SO people. I just feel a hell of a lot dumber than quite a few of them. XD Then again, I know some very intelligent, well learned people. I honestly wish...|||You and I would be very much alike on this front. I am also closer to the van. XD I'm living in a living room converted into a bedroom. I would love to have a nice comfortable - even luxurious -...|||I'm an SP dom and a lot of this applies to me. However, I wouldn't say I'm exactly content with it. I want to be healthier, be more efficient with my money, be more structured in general, but I don't...|||One of the bubbliest people I know are So/Sp. My mother I think is Sp/So and she is not stoic at all. XD Or maybe she's So/Sp? Instincts are just a matter of where we focus our energy. Stoicism isn't...|||I have only been personally involved with younger Sx/So's (meaning my age or younger than myself) and they are a handful, if anything. XD Draining as hell, but supremely charming - the ones I've met...|||Meh, it all depends. SP cares a great deal about what they do with their energy and it's just not worth it to connect in every given situation or with any given person. I have a bit less boundaries...|||Any person can become obsessed with certain subjects and learning. Some people are more prone to it, but it's not Sx. It's not any sort of intensity. Think merging, bonding, animalistic/impulsive...|||Sometimes the last instinct isn't all that blind if you've worked on it enough or are just a balanced person. Still, I think you're more likely So/Sp. People don't like to jump to that one...|||The last few posts describe Sx from a very Id standpoint, though still Sx nonetheless. I'm quite glad not to be an SX dom, even if there are moments I almost think I am... I look at these and think,...|||Hmmmm... probably 8. Although, even that I relate to a bit. An xSTP 8 sx/so.|||Get some sleep. It will help. Think about what good you do have in your life. Just think of a few positive things. Don't shut them out. Breathe. Inhale and exhale deeply. You seem like someone who...|||85989|||Please vote for Hannibal for favorite horror TV show! Voting ends Oct 30 11 PM EST and it's unlimited voting so go nuts in support of Hannibal! Favorite Horror TV Show? | The Geekiary You can vote...|||7 probably gets done in by its gluttony more, yes, but SX across the board does seek intensity. It doesn't have to be the intensity of drugs or extreme and dangerous activities. I think the...|||I was actually thinking about this the other day. Of course, it doesn't matter so much in the world we live in now, but, yes, SX is most likely to have the shortest life expectancy due to its habit...|||Lol, it is, but some of my best friends throughout my life were of the type. XD The thing is I can be extremely hyper and flail and one of the most enthusiastic people I know sometimes. The thing is...|||I stumbled upon his videos and have found them useful for motivational purposes, even though I don't really fit his demographic. ^^; Anyways, you can find him on Youtube. Pretty cool dude. What do...|||I keep up with world news and politics through my Sp/So friend. As for scandalous, juicy gossip type stuff, I do not seek it out, but it comes to my attention through news commentary shows that I...|||Eh, I'm an Sp/Sx and thought I was So/Sx for a little before I knew about the instincts in depth. I'd kill to have more strength in So. The thing is I'm friendly as hell, like having different people...|||Quite a bit of Sx/sp. Quite the abundance of Sx in general. Hmmmmm...|||3w4 7w8 1w9 sp/sx ? http://i1.wp.com/nerdbastards.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/06/hannibal-recap.jpg ...|||I don't think Sx/So is necessarily larger-than-life, but a a lot tend to be. Anyways, ignore those. There are Sx/So's who aren't so charismatic or charming. Hell, I'm Sp/Sx and I'm known for my love...|||I agree he is Sx dom - I think Sx/Sp, although his So isn't out of shape at all. He sort of just lives in his own little world and values comfort and self-sufficiency, even though he has a high level...|||I am Sp/Sx, but my best friend is an Sp/So and he is also dating an Sp/Sx. There aren't many problems because of the shared Self-pres instinct. Where we do differ, he finds it cute and interesting. I...|||Aren't there two of these threads going on at the same time right now? :tongue:|||I used to think he was ENTP, even when he revealed he was self-identified as an INTP. He definitely has *a ton* of Ne and Ti, and the Ne shows in his videos, but there's also the fact that outside of...|||6 http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-cLx76EE29eA/UeLMBjM4kpI/AAAAAAAADlE/FCqZvWZYWuo/s1600/Grey-Wolf.jpg http://cache.desktopnexus.com/thumbnails/1165487-bigthumbnail.jpg|||I've known CP6s who were far better children than I was. They are more inclined to talk back, speak their mind. They aren't automatically problem children. There are PLENTY of problem children and...|||I remember always finding myself into some kind of trouble growing up, especially during my teenage years. I wasn't a problem child. I had good grades for the most part, very well behaved throughout...|||He's self typed as an INTP and I'd have to agree.|||What The Flick?! - YouTube|||There's a lot of spiritual terminology and concepts in the Enneagram, but for the sake of self-improvement - spiritual person or not - I quite like the self-realization it aims for, mostly because...|||I'm glad you like my post. XD I also feel there are many misconceptions about Sx-lasters and Sp in general, but I think there are just many surrounding all the instincts in general. Sx-last does not...|||I am currently disqualified from receiving financial aid because of insufficient completed units out of attempted units. My GPA is fine. My community college requires 67% completion of attempted...|||Why does it feel wrong? I don't think it's so much an instinctual variant thing anymore. I'm sure it does contribute, but mutual pleasure is generally an ideal goal during sex within a...|||Well, okay. Your lack of Sx would make sense there. I'm just saying there are Sx-lasters out there who have intense sex lives. Also, your wanting to please her isn't exclusive to type. I understand...|||6 http://tribalinsight.files.wordpress.com/2010/06/i-want-to-believe.jpg|||I don't think how one is during sex has much to do with their instincts. It just has to do with caring and selflessness and the trait that makes one turned on by someone else's pleasure. An Sx/Sp,...|||Any type can be a reporter. If she were an ENFP, she'd want to push a cause of some kind. Her only cause is to excel in her field. Maaaaaybe a case could be made for ENTP. She is definitely no...|||http://youtu.be/UxxajLWwzqY Sx/So'

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'Oh, yes! The first one. I think she wasn't that bright either, I felt really weird... Anyway, most of the people notice my odd humour right away.|||Rivalry sounds like something more personal, but I am willing to oppose anyone who is on my way to the goal.|||I am skeptical when it comes to everyone. I think this is why it's easier for me to detect manipulation. I am pretty extroverted as well, I just roll along with what people say, at the same time I...|||I hate when people are complaining about useless stuff. What's the need to complain about something that can't be changed?|||I love sci-fi books, my favourite author from this genre must be Philip K. Dick. I am mostly into dystopian content, but I alternate it with philosophy books.|||As an assertive I don't really care about what other people see me as or what they do, I am just watching my own goal and not comparing myself with anyone. I think assertiveness and turbulence is a...|||Thank you for your answer. If you think I hate STJs, I'm pretty disappointed.|||What do you mean?|||Hmm... I've had my problems with unhealthy ISTJs. What I've noticed is that they become more irrational and their statements contradict each other. I wouldn't say he's a xxFP. What I would say it's...|||IMO it's ISTJ.|||Well, I can tell you people are willing to read the questionnaire as it's very helpful and specific. :)|||For me it's about what I am doing. If I need to get an essay done and I have side homework that's obviously easier. I'd start with the essay, write the introduction and quickly get bored and turn to...|||aurorarogersskywalker I am still not 100% sure, but now I'd say INFJ. It's a bit confusing, but as I've seen people don't need Fi to hold onto their beliefs. My third function is Fe, when I am around...|||I'm thinking about ISFJ too.|||Haha that's why I am torn between INFP and INFJ. Both Ti and Te can love math. As you said, it's not clearly for me if it's Fe or Fi. This is only my opinion. Now I'm thinking more about INFJ. If...|||Haha, I must say I saw Fi. You said you're basically taking everything and filtering it with your set of moral values. Next to Fi I saw the Ne that's giving you a lot of ideas. You can probably...|||I've thought about this too. She says she has some ideas and she isn't that observant of details. Now it makes me think more of INFP.|||I don't know, I'd say INFJ, but my gut tells me you'd lean more into INFP. So INFP>INFJ for my guess.|||When you ask him something let's say more personal, is he direct or is he trying to put it in a way that would be less harsher?|||Thinking about it... It might be stand-up comedy. Jokes aside, I think it will be something like concentrating on finding ways to entertain or work with people, it can be self damaging when you reach...|||I think that ISFJ might fit you :)|||4.29 - Logic/Math 4.29 - Self 4 - Social|||I'm an ENTP and I can say I don't enjoy going out or partying so much. I'd rather be with a person that I have something to discuss with rather than simply party with someone I can speak freely too....|||I wouldn't say anxiety, but when one of my ideas is shut down without a rational answer I tend to think like wow, they didn't even bother to explain, I have nothing to discuss with them and I shut...|||Maybe ESTP? I'm nowhere near a professional, but I've seen Se and Ti which made me believe this.|||When you are quirky and people naturally assume you must be a dumb airhead. When you show them you're smart and they actually get surprised. (NOTE: I have a big list) When you get called a...|||617762 7w8, sums up how I work|||Me: ENTP Father: ESTJ Mother: ISTJ I don't spend so much time with my grandparents to know :unsure:|||Te is focusing on the application of that idea while Ti is focused on the design of that idea. Ti: What logical relationships necessitate this system working the way it does, and how can I make...|||If you had another other idea in mind ( ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°) ) while romantically feeding them, I guess so.|||I don't think they're as rare as you might think, but they're certainly not a high number. You might not recognize many of them because it seems that they choose to be flexible around people, at...|||When you're wearing a shirt once and you're thinking of how you can wear it again and get unnoticed. (How as in you have a full image of all the scenarios and excuses you can make if you get caught)|||Are you too? Now I'm curious. Apart from my ISTJ and ENTP friends I don't know anyone else.|||Of course it can happen to anyone, but I think we're trying to find out if ENTPs are more likely to be suffering of misophonia.|||I too have read some police books as I might say. I love solving things, but I hate that as for the police there is a procedure that must be follow and you need to take it step by step. Instead there...|||Nope. I can't stand when I hear repetitive noises on a rather quiet background. Chewing noises or some people have that habit of clapping their lips, I just get so angry and I start being passive...|||I would say ESFJ or ISFJ on the first thought.|||I usually wouldn't discuss some topics with people that wouldn't appreciate them. I bend to the individual, so I tend to start a conversation according to what I know I can discuss with that person....|||As an ENTP I'd say I believe in everything and nothing at the same time. I'd say there's a grain of truth in each religion, but saying one is better than the other seems a bit off for me. I am most...|||Why are you so seriously cute?|||Ok so I took the test and I am feeling weird about it. I got Ne>Ni>Ti>Te :0|||Have you ever pretended to not care about something? I did several times. I think it's because I don't want to show people I've been hurt or I can be hurt by it. Or maybe I am trying to get some...|||About the same. It's that I try to find balance in my life and SJ's are bringing me that. I especially like how ISFJs are caring and genuine (well some of them at least), while I am pretty much...|||bahaha, i have a lot of history with my isfp. She helps me a lot with some of my impulses, but she finds me too blunt. I hope you two will have a great time!|||Infj isfj intj istj infp|||Ok, I bet this is a weird combination. ISFP, INFP, ISTJ|||What makes me tick is when I have someone to discuss abstract ideas with. It's pretty simple, but it's hard to find someone who is willing to listen, respect and contribute to the conversation...|||I've been riding horses for 7 years when I had to give up due to my circumstances. I still am a very passionate fan of this sport and I hope I can compete again in the future. Other than this nothing...|||I am currently all in studying, so I am alone most of the weekends. I'd say that as long as the task keeps me focused I don't really mind being alone, I'd rather be alone than with someone that...|||Do you sometimes feel like you're tiring people? If so, how do you react? I have some ideas, but I want opinions from my brothers :frustrating:'

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'I'm the humblest person on Earth, I'm so humble that I make the Dalai Lama look like Kanye West by comparison.|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NGFSNE18Ywc I've always had a weakness for old Avril. And all goddamn music purists and elitists can just kiss my beautiful, firm ass.|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SjJHH6IL3Nc|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E9fZrMIJLXY|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qv96yJYhk3M Oh boy, I listened to this like zillion times but I gotta say it again and again: Man was motherfucking genius. And now I need to get some buzz. And...|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qmt4pwjGXgQ|||http://i.imgur.com/PU2MO.jpg|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SMokVzZ3xyw|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1jM2WA2WbDc Movie with no dialogues or speech at all.|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rncWDaH1zIE|||Dubstep is like the shittiest shit of all shits that've been ever shat.|||All you need is love, dam dam da da dam!|||http://fwallpapers.com/files/images/drowning.png|||Fucky.|||Died? That ain't happening. http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m4jzbd2p8V1roz4np.gif|||You clearly don't know where the bounds are.|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s4JlVC0dOIs|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c98JtSW7-QA|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jEsOww93NM0|||Taxation is still just a f'ing theft, no matter how many logical fallacies you employ. Edit: And Axl Rose is indeed the biggest dickwad in the rock universe.|||Peace, fellow ENFP. :c) http://images.wikia.com/adventuretimewithfinnandjake/images/7/7d/Chuck_Norris_salute.gif|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HwYzzN1AIqw|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_DboMAghWcA|||http://i.imgur.com/sUe0o5C.jpg|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gRtAO-nffz0|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UThKn_TmfmM|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s8QYxmpuyxg Maybe as a die-hard grunge fan I should be ashamed, but I've always had weakness for her. And all goddamn purists and elitists can just kiss my ass.|||Blood is less than blood Until you bleed Joy is less than joy Until you need Stains are less than stains Until you clean Words are less than words|||Accept finite disappointment, yet never lose infinite hope.|||I was walking down the street when I met this girl I know from elementary. Without any large use of words we hugged, kissed, met my father on the way back to my place and then made love. These...|||Most of the time while doing MBTI tests I hit E/I borderline (like literally 1% difference), so the results oscillate between INFP and ENFP. On Enneagram and Instinctual Variants I steadily hit 9w1...|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DY6dl8_E_ko|||http://jperspective95.files.wordpress.com/2013/05/skurktur.jpg|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dhZUsNJ-LQU|||Secretly I'm a lesbian.|||Raped|||I've played chess less than 8-10 times in my whole life so...|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LBBni_-tMNs|||http://i.imgur.com/AhlWrfo.png Hi res: http://i.imgur.com/AhlWrfo.png|||Whole patriotism thing is one of the most idiotic concepts that man has ever created.|||- dreamy - lazy - liberal - thoughtful - loyal - headstrong - masked - rebelious - passionate - musical|||I'll do my best, I promise! :happy: Yeah, ecstasy makes you depressed for a day (or more, depends on how often you do it) after the effect is gone. It's somewhat of a sacrifice, you must live...|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qmt4pwjGXgQ|||Thank you buddy, I hope things will get better too, despite that it's been over a year and still can't see any positive shift yet. But hey, you know what Martin Luther King Jr. once said, We must...|||Most likely, I spent more money on drugs than everything else.|||http://i.imgur.com/cmI0wih.jpg|||http://fc01.deviantart.net/fs71/i/2012/274/d/0/lennon_by_wosush-d5gi9p1.jpg|||INFP, agnostic atheist.|||Does Pope shit in the woods?|||Oh, what a beautifulx96 Remember that time when wex96 I'll never forget thex96 We had the mostx96 My God, that was so incrediblyx96 over'

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'All of you guys saying Just cut them out of your life! It comes from a good place, but it also makes me wince. Like, yeah, I've been waiting to do that for years. Not everyone in a bad/abusive...|||Rhode Island, which doesn't make a lot of sense to me. Then again, I don't quite understand quizzes like that where you're supposed to rate your personality on a strange scale.|||I just want to point out that I'm not worried about typism for my own health. Like I said, I know myself. Baseless internet hate doesn't bother me because I know it's just someone trying to rattle...|||So I've noticed that the INFP is often reduced to a blubbering, blindly optimistic fool by others. I'm at the point where I expect to be disappointed by these two-dimensional, condescending...|||Also, left-brain right-brain theory isn't really a thing. [Source]|||Eh. I don't like to attribute things like most creative, most logical, kindest, etc. to any one type. Not only is it a matter of opinion, it might make some people feel inferior to others,...|||I'm sorry about the struggles you're having, friend. I can definitely relate. UnicornRainbowLove You could be down because you're having a hard time trying to cope with what you've learned,...|||I may not have accomplished anything, but let me tell you all about my participation ribbons and trophies!|||In the words of SwooZie, If there's a jealous bone in your body, BREAK it and never let it heal. I hate being swept up by jealously. It's unkind to people who excel. It's ugly in others, but...|||Generally, NFs and SJs don't get along very well. :3 It's rare to see them in a happy relationship. But not impossible! NF x NF is typically the best match for INFPs, and although happy NF x SJ...|||I don't like the implication that her gender and her incompetence as a therapist are somehow connected. telepariah Seems to me you're better off talking to yourself in the mirror than to her, if...|||INFPs, I think we can all agree that too many people are too ignorant and intolerant in this world, and a lot of those ignorant, intolerable people own us. We can't expect compassion, respect,...|||Hello, Callaendia! I'm interested in seeing how other INFPs respond to this question, too. Let's see what I've got for you. I write and read often. I have a Goodreads and Wattpad for this. I...|||I've been to a school counselor weekly for a while, which is basically only group counseling. Like teenagers should automatically have the same struggles, like alcoholics or people suffering from...|||Laeona Your response made me chuckle. You make all introverts sound like Sherlock. Personally, I like the comparison and can see the connection. >:) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LxZ1fPr9FJg...|||Mender I theorize some teachers return to high school because they never really left, mentally speaking. You can also tell which teachers belonged to which cliques based on whom they show the most...|||In my experience, natural talent only gets you a head start. Art, film, photography, and philosophy are skills. You weren't born with a set intelligence or skill in anything, as much as the education...|||I answered maybe marriage, maybe kids. I can't decide what I may want in the future because I'm always changing, my understanding of my self is always changing, the world is changing, and people...|||I'm in high school right now, struggling the hardest I've ever struggled in school. Not with understanding the subject, really, just struggling with not throwing my desk across the room. Sometimes,...|||You know what my APUSH teacher would and has said to that? Do you think that's an excuse for [the non-fitting student] not to succeed? (╯°□°）╯︵ ┻━┻ AND WE WERE TALKING ABOUT PEOPLE WITH...|||Ugh. Too often. I have a hatred for time because it won't obey me. :tongue: Sometimes, I'll be studying a material for class that I don't really understand, and I decide I want to understand it...|||TyTy Good idea! How come I never thought of that...? >_< I know exactly what you're talking about. Some people can lose themselves in experiences, emotions, ideas, motions... etc. Others cannot....|||My INTJ best friend is helping me the most right now in my struggle with mental sickness. I'm grateful to have her in my life. Although sometimes she says calculated, hurtful things, I know she...|||I'm sorry you're in the grips of the INFP dark side, Niennna. Good luck to you. Also, videos. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2G8sfMU17XM https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i2xJ1CnVfsk...|||kittypuppy Book recommendations are always wonderful, in my opinion. :) It's important for the writer, artist, etc., to keep in mind that no piece of writing is perfect entirely, and that while...|||I need love, attention, and understanding, and yet the people around me don't provide the (albeit selfish) brand of attention I crave. So I'm alone, sort of from necessity but mostly from feelings of...|||Eh. I feel like this video does my post better justice than writing something. This is TheGothicAlice on Youtube, if you can ignore the audio problem. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uEUsPEfPpZE|||I think that perhaps you should spend some time talking out your feelings with your husband. Set aside time to explain the way you feel. He might be able to provide refreshing insight, help boost...|||TW: Some graphic content. Usually, running full-speed into the wall works. If not, well, I have a trusty Brain-Quieting Hammer. Works like a charm. >:) Ah, but seriously. I try to redirect my...|||PaperAndColours I'm in mixed agreeance with what you're saying. You're definitely right in that people are actually way easier to topple than the typical INFP believes. I agree that if they react...|||I'm a 50-50. On the one hand, I'll speak up in a polite, suggestive matter. Rather than, Step aside, you're in front of the door, I'll say, Excuse me and hope they get the hint. I sure don't have...|||Watching this video, oh my gosh. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JOCtdw9FG-s|||Haha, yeah. Pretty much anything that makes you feel extremely superior or extremely inferior to other people shouldn't be trusted.|||I love my INTJ friend to pieces. Yes, she does boss me around, correct me, and get tired of my dewy-eyed idealism, while I'm annoyed by her somewhat inflexible views. However, I like that she is...|||*Double take.* Th-the what??? I'm the shit? Gee, I wonder why I don't find that statement as flattering as you seem to intend it to be. Listen, straight men looking to hook up with an...|||kittypuppy Rune Hello there. I've been struggling with producing a story (I'm a writer, you see) for about... Wow, just about four years now. Most days, I go without a single drop of inspiration...|||Hmm. I don't personally agree with Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs to begin with, and I'm not sure I agree with how this article describes self-actualization, either. It seems less like a true analysis...|||beetwick Ah, parents. It only takes the meeting of two gametes to qualify two people for parenthood. I have yet to meet someone who wasn't damaged in some way by their upbringing. Some much more...|||You're so shallow. About as deep as a kiddie pool.|||Shit INFPs Don't Usually Say. Pretty much every invention has already been discovered already. Also, Pretty much every story has already been written already. There's nothing new out there. ...|||From a young age, you will be taught that your worth as a human being is dependent on so many factors outside of your control. Genetics, for example. They try to make you believe that intelligence,...|||This post makes me rethink some stuff. Firstly, whether hypocrisy is an avoidable thing. Secondly, whether I'm a hypocrite for hating hypocrites.|||It's your right to walk out of a movie for whatever reason and to refrain from using certain words in your vocabulary. Know I don't mean to offend you in saying the following. But it makes me...|||Wow. That sums me up so well. Especially that I am idealistically loving yet by nature am forced to hate. I remember telling my dad I tried to not to judge others, and I hated people who do for...|||Yes. And I will stand up for that person if I have the means to. Before now, I've never really had to stand up against anyone, but my AP US History teacher has changed things. My teacher must have...|||Aheheh... Let's all forget that in a 50/50 between two keyboards, I ended up buying the solar-powered one... *Cough, shuffle.* :blushed: Yeah, the first time I tested, I got INTJ. My friend also...|||LOL! I can imagine this threat firing up quite a few INFPs. It's okay, Stone Drum. The freedom of speech argument is actually helpful to the INFP because the person is basically saying The only...|||Get Home - Bastille The birds are mocking me... They call to be heard. The birds are mocking me.... They curse my return.|||When I was little, I thought friendship was everything. I put so much importance on having a best friend. This is likely due to the fact that my father is an extremely conscientious ESTJ, my mother...|||I think the only time I ever misuse facts and logic is when I'm stressed out. In a calm, encouraging discussion, I feel I can think through the logic, pair it with my instinctive feeling, and make my...'

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'https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OEqgcKGECaw|||Those poor crayons:sad:|||YOU ARE NOT TAKING THE FIRST STEP TOWARDS THE PADDED ROOM! That's something our great grandparents used to say and its not true. As long as when you talk to yourself voices that aren't there don't...|||YOU ARE NOT TAKING THE FIRST STEP TOWARDS THE PADDED ROOM! That's something our great grandparents used to say and its not true. As long as when you talk to yourself voices that aren't there don't...|||AWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW I get that too v.v|||I do not have any tattoos, I want some though! I'm a yoga teacher so its expected XD To the poster below me, do you do Yoga? if so what kind do you like & how often do you do it? and do you have...|||I would have to stay up way too late... like till the sun came up XD but I'll try it some time|||my chemical romance, Ingrid Michelson and Lenka... weird combo I know XD|||no, the only reason I would end a friendship is if they betray me... even then I'm pretty forgiving... BUT BORING?! never, people are never boring... at least I have never run into the problem /:|||I just got back from Yoga teacher training and I'm lost... I never thought coming home to all of my friends could feel so lonely. While I was there I got really close to some girls (it was mainly...|||yes. Unless I have the obvious upper hand or I'm on my home turf and feeling invincible.|||That sounds like a beautiful friendship ;-;|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jOnI5GGpXck|||Really the only problem I have in romantic relationships is finding a girl I like enough... because I'm afraid that if I don't like them enough Ill break up with them and they'll get hurt... I've...|||I hung out with my EX girlfriend last night. Its kind of funny, usually when a guy breaks up with a girl they're like we can still be friends but it really doesn't happen like that. With my Ex and...|||WE LOVE YOUUUUUU! but we don't want to be near you right now... Sometimes when my friends ask me to do something with them I'm like Nah I'm kinda busy... when in reality I have nothing I have to...|||ok, I said about a week (more like 5 days at most), that's because I have practice and I have to be able to do it... after that week I wont answer my phone, wont text, wont go out and if anybody...|||*adds all to background slideshow|||http://thechive.com/2012/08/31/the-biological-advantage-of-being-awestruck-video/ The chive is generally awesome but I stumbled upon this and I thought of you guys :3|||I feel ya brother '-'|||my situation is the same but I have 3 older sisters that are a lot older than me and one younger that I'm close to|||Every damn day >.< I hang out with a girl right now that doesn't understand how its possible for a man to be emotional... but I still mostly keep them inside... v.v|||that's the spirit! Do you post what you write online somewhere?|||INFP gone wrong = the pyro http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WUhOnX8qt3I|||I want to be a yoga teacher... when I'm teaching yoga I don't have to talk to anybody or help them carry baggage they all have to shut up, listen to me and communicate with themselves for an hour......|||Usually when I want something I usually obsess about it. I think about all the ways I can get it and I get really driven to do it... especially when I'm supposed to be doing something I don't want to...|||everybody! but I hate being around girls that like to talk about their exes... even if I don't want to get with them XD|||- Say one thing to someone and not suffer the (negative) consequences, what would you say? I would tell them to do whatever they wanted to him and I wouldn't stop them... and that I'm going to join...|||I recently got a new job and my new co workers were going to a club. I was invited by the boss so I decided to join and try to make a name for myself. My roommate got 7 phone numbers that night, I...|||Well its defiantly possible for an INFP to be intimidating, but I should think you would have to try... or someone else would have to try for you. I don't look intimidating at all but sometimes my...|||I remember on the playground I would walk around with my hands in my pockets and kick rocks... personally I was ok with it XD|||I find that whenever I read somebody it ends up badly... so I just pretend I can't until I really need to. People don't like the idea that I can know things about them without them telling me XD|||Come here... but I agree with the manatee, I really don't get bored I just default to daydreaming.|||So beautiful D':|||;-; I don't know...|||uuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuum, well it definitively exists... but if you want to be friends with a girl you're immune to the friend-zone, but if you like her and she just wants to be friends (or you're...|||butter, lots and lots of butter. I slather it all over my skin every morning but seriously idk /: when I started working out a lot girls wanted to be my friend... shallow bitches >.> I've also...|||how'd you know I felt like that? are you avoiding me? being around you makes me happy you're not even listening to me are you? me yes I am! *repeats what they said|||driving, kungfu, wantingtobealoneness.... lol Is there a word for wanting to be alone :blushed:|||gurrlll set your expectations as high as you want and never settle! I have high expectations and I have met 2 girls that meet them so far... I cant be with either right now unfortunately :c but I can...|||I have a lot of female friends and lots of them end up liking me... but I'm too picky... its so hard to find a girl that I like and when I do find a girl I like there's always something that makes it...|||hehe, so well organized :}|||Nooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo(imagines what it would be like if all the O's came to life and had a battle for my amusement... Eventually entire essays are fighting...|||every once in a while I go onto my back porch and do Kung Fu late at night to blow off steam. When I found out my best friend started dating one of my other friends (that's a whole other mess lol) I...|||I want to make sweet love to those pancakes... with my mouth o.o|||my best friend was an ESTP... we became very close very fast.. and defused very fast...|||You are in a perpetual quest to find the new, the exciting. Emotionally volatile, you are known for sudden changes of opinion, of appreciation, and behavior. Following rules and established methods...|||sounds like you could use some best friend armor :} 47792 we all need somebody to protect us when were feeling vulnerable. For some its a person, others an animal and others its their god. Find...|||I think I narrowed down what type of girl I want. So far I know of two that exist and I can't really have either, but knowing that there is more than one just makes me happy :}|||I wouldn't say timid as much as reserved, but I'm mostly not bold or daring (as you said) unless something or someone important to me is threatened or insulted. After highschool things got better and...'

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'I used to hate talking on the phone and was rather anxious about it. But I found the cure: I work in a call centre (inbound!) since July this year. And I never had a problem with the phone since...|||I second that. I don't want to sound elitist or something, but I couldn't imagine learning the violin all by myself. With other instruments it seems possible (guitar/ukulele for example or harmonica...|||I want to be an instrument maker, especially of violins. I could even study it at an university. Music instruments are, for me, the most important invention of humanity. I couldn't imagine a more...|||Most happy: To be alive! I am so glad to be alive! Seriously, I am an INFP who just recently cried in awe before the beauty and wonders of life. I am alive. And what a wonder that is! Even suffering...|||Thanks for the link. Sounds pretty much like my view. :wink: I think, any step in that direction is good. So yes, if we have to go through a form of large-scale socialism that isn't totalitarian we...|||Maybe I am missing something, where did he write about running away from his problems? Actually, living in a commune would be a sensible response. It shows the people in the future that there are...|||I know of two really great books concerning this topic: The Moneyless Manifesto (which can be legally read for free !) - the author actually lives completely or almost without any money. and How...|||Yes of course it does, but so does socialism (at least no attempt to establish socialism was free of totalitarianism). If you get that working without some state or politicians fucking things up it...|||I wouldn't count on that. Industrialization also was intended to give us shorter working hours, since machines are taking our workload. But the opposite happened and we became more and more like the...|||@Dawn of the Light Socialism is the other side of the same coin as capitalism. I say toss that coin, which is work, into a well and wish for an -ism that isn't focused on work but on living well. ...|||Simply amazing! And true. Melancholy is a part of me I wouldn't miss for any money or whatnot. I once thought it was depression and has to be cured, but no. But of course it shouldn't get out...|||Anarchism !|||@ficsci : Now don't make me question my choice. :tongue: Actually some women like beards and some don't. (And some like babyfaces.) C'est la vie. If I listened to everyone's opinion, neglecting...|||You are welcome. I probably could go on and on about this. But you know what? That doesn't do much to fix it. It raises some awareness here and there, but that's it. It is likely that I will talk...|||Charl D. Source. I think it is fine for this thread, since your post made me quite happy. :)|||For some time I was sincerely pissed because every meter of land, be it arable or other, seems to be owed by companies or by state (and the state even owns the land that is in private ownership,...|||I believe you don't find love and maybe you don't even find a task in life. Love is something you do to and for yourself and than to/for others. So, first, be more loving to yourself...|||Can relate. Everyone guesses me younger than I am (I'm 26). A fellow student once guessed that I'm 20 or younger... Once an older woman and her child drove by with their bikes and she told her son to...|||I think I am pretty self-loving right now. It isn't always like that, though. It is somewhat easy to love myself. Just do something good for me. For me this is meditating, playing violin/ukulele,...|||I'm 26, now. Early 20's I had my melt down and questioned my existence, since then it is years and years of 'finding' my way of life and restructuring myself. I declined a job offer and went back...|||Sei gegrüßt flo. Have you contacted the Kassenärztliche Vereinigung of your federal state? They have lists of therapists who are currently free or have a short waiting list. I contacted my KV...|||Thank you @attic ! I was looking for nutrients of eggs but couldn't find it. Two to four eggs a day sounds a bit much for me, practically. Even as a former omnivore and someone who liked eggs I...|||Lost count when I started, but must be almost two years ago, when I became vegetarian. That was an easy transition as I never really ate much meat and never ate fish. Going for vegan was (and is) a...|||I wrote a classmate some relatively simple eMails and he later said Man... you can write! (In German, though, so don't judge me on my English :tongue:). At school I had very good grades in German...|||Bought an ukulele yesterday. My fingers hurt like hell (even though I play violin for two years) but I can't stop playing. :)|||I love you :unsure:|||Would just need around 10-30.000 (maybe even just a 1000, depending on what house to build) to build a low-cost zero-energy house large enough to keep some books (from donations?) and offer some...|||I only know of the Donald Duck Anti-Nazi film. (search youtube for Der Fuehrer's Face; Der by the way is the wrong article, it should be Das)|||I was bad at maths till my 10th grade. Years later I went back to school to get my Abitur (which are another three years, in my case). That years I was best in class and best in maths with a straight...|||I guess Philosophical, even though I recently found my love for music. 1) What is your current profession/career/job? Unemployed but I am trained as a software developer. 2) On a scale of 1 -...|||As for the facts: Money is just pieces of paper or different round metals with numbers and little pictures printed on (or for worse: 1s and 0s in some computers) and money is a meme. This are the...|||In 3rd grade I set a goal which stuck for maybe 10 years. Than I had a major crisis, deep depression, feelings of emptiness as I questioned and finally abandoned that goal. I for myself have...|||I never described myself as a feminist (and I probably never will). Although I have been 'accused' (actually I was called brainwashed) to be one on the internet.|||*how long have you been single? 26 years (which also is my age...) *are you choosing to be single? Sometimes yes, sometimes no. Currently no. *how do you feel about being single? At first...|||âx80x98The fallacy of decreasing global povertyâx80x99 according to Lehmann The dollar loses worth, therefore the definition of poverty at $1.25 seems rather unappealing. Also I don't know if I can trust...|||That is true. Regardless whom you are talking to.|||Poverty is the worst form of violence. (Gandhi) and as the gap between rich and poor is - according to media coverage or 'common' sense - getting bigger by the minute I would rather deny your...|||@cardinalfire: I believe you have understood what my question is (or was). And I think you may very likely be right in that I over analyse this. And this question may seem very stupid but that is...|||@cruka & @yippy: I am trying to get more into contact with my intuition. I am more or less an active meditator. @Mike75: I also like that quote. Thanks for sharing. @Draumande Romvesen: This...|||@CosmicYeti: I can understand what you say and it likely is very true. But as always with matters of truth it is only part of it. Of course there is an evolutionary explanation for everything we do....|||I really thank you all for replying. @yippy: My intuition is a funny thing if it tells me what to do without explanation. :tongue: Maybe I am just afraid to be hurt or to waste my energy again....|||Thanks for your reply :) I am kind of certain that it is worth it. I once had a friend that I loved like a brother (I would have given my life if I had to save his), so deep down I know it is...|||Hey there! I am very deep in hermit mode right now. A few months ago I had the chance to befriend a lot of people, given the setting, but I had no interest in that. I still have no friends right...|||I want to throw in the books Your Money or your Life and The Richest Man in Babylon as they really helped me with my mindset about money. Money on itself has only the meaning of life-energy:...|||I like maths and physics to the point of going to university and studying maths first then switching to physics later. But I seem to be unable to grasp structured learning. It is like my first...|||Well, isn't this entire site build on stereotypes? The MBTI, Enneagram and even the Big 5 (I suppose) are all about 'stereotypes'. If I remember correctly Jung said that typing isn't about pushing...|||Just to be sure: You don't want to say that light years are a value of time? (Because it isn't) And just to be even more sure: trillions of light years is metaphorical right? (Because the size...|||I can relate a lot. I once pursued a path for almost my entire life (which means like 15 years or something) to see no use to it in the end. I 'quitted' my promising beginning career and went...|||Ich liebe meine Muttersprache - die Sprache Goethes, Hesses, Heines, Freuds, Jungs, Frankls und vieler anderer. But strangely I'm reading in and listening to English more often. Must be because the...|||[German and member of the EU] I am not against 'conservative' morals but I am strictly against any conservative party here in Germany. Pseudo-Conservatives like the Christian Democratic Union...'

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'ponyjoyride Thankyou, Im not sure how I shoudl say it, but i almost made nf land seem like heaven XD ill remember to put good and bad people in there|||How does your desire to make others lives better err...manifest?|||Like the title says, im making a game where this girl gets a magic music score that transports her to another world full of nfs. The specific place will be either a town or kingdom (like in the...|||Dangit you people should stop being smart AND not socially awkward. I guess you make up for it by being incredibly disorganised and terrible at finishing things.|||Thanks for all the replies, guys. If you know all these flaws about people, how do you choose who to be friends with? I can't imagine being friends with someone who'd just know my bad qualities (we...|||Intps because inferior Fe, and introverts tend to have less practice at socialising. Also, ne and ti often make a person hard to talk to imo (for sensors) and their interests are unusual. Of course,...|||QUESTIONNAIRE ONE 1. Click on this link: Flickr: Explore! Look at the random photo for about 30 seconds. Copy and paste it here, and write about your impression of it. 331378 I liked the way the...|||Most: infj, isfj, enfj Least: estp, istp|||According to various infj descriptions, infjs have uncanny insight into people and understand them better than they can. Can you explain how you do this, and why other types may not have this...|||*cringe* I was so convinced id gotten it right with xnfp. Only now do I realise my strengths lie in Se stuff. Heck, I don't even know if I'm isfp, but the only othe option is esfp,|||I really don't think I have Fe...when I answered the questionnaire I was actually an unhealthy type and going through depression. Also, rejection has been a major theme throughout my life, and I'm...|||Zee Bee sorry, what?|||This was a long time ago, at the time I had a huge crush on this boy and decided to confess to him. I never showed it to him but... *shudder* Dear xxxxx, I think you're awesome because you're...|||Hmmm, I got infp, but I feel like I could be isfp. I do like typical Se activities - personal grooming, going out etc - but I'm also into intuitive pursuits. I don't know...the two are so similar and...|||The Shark I don't know if what you said about being unacceptable is true...I thought that mbti was just about how your mind worked and not about behaviour (I'm not talking about actions, I mean your...|||Er I'd say that genetics and circumstance is a factor, but a person's personality definitely matters. Overall, I think idealistic people are less happy because the world is so low, and the things...|||The Shark to be honest, there are a lot more nf females than males, so it's easier for you guys to find girls with NF qualities. I also think that NF males are choosier than their female counterparts...|||Most marriages I see end in divorce, and if they don't, it's only because the parents don't want to upset their kids. Even NF marriages don't last that much more than other marriages. They are such...|||Bahaha Raawx if you're reading this, I don't know what to say. I guess I'll just talk about what I hate? I hate the idea of hierarchies, the idea that someone or group is better than another. I...|||Darn this thread is too popular :'( no chance of me getting typed. Waah|||wums I agree with part of what you're saying, but there are some parts that I think don't apply to me. I'm apparently a very annoying person to be around (socially awkward), so I think that my...|||Im not an isfp, but isnt being offended just feeling some degree of hurt over something that has happened or been said? I believe that the more self-conscious someone is, the more easily they take...|||wums sorry, I have an off-topic question. My brother has told me he hates 'stupid people', and that I'm not smart (this was in two separate occasions) repeatedly. Also, when I tell him about my...|||wums mind= blown. You should be a therapist/counsellor... Nah I get that you weren't trying to offend me, it's cool.|||wums Huh. Does it last with the intjs because they're can't be bothered to cheat? To me, they seem like very dispassionate people, the type to passionately propose in a fit of...obligation ._. ...|||Ahah it kinda makes me wonder if there'll be a project for women to be more logical. I can't imagine the name of it, but I can see it happening.|||Let's start a social revolution :')|||I think I might agree with you. For a long time, I've had this idea that judgers are less likely to cheat than perceivers. Of course my idea is very judgemental as I haven't actually tested the...|||Curiously, it appears that female Idealists are able to sustain the roman- ticism invested in a relationship longer than male Idealists. But for the male NF, anticipation can be more attractive than...|||I do. I dislike items given to me by people who aren't in my good books and love gifts given by loved ones. The closer I feel to the person the item came from, the more attached I am to it. It is...|||1- Ni doms 2 - Fe dom or aux 3 - i dunno 4 - Fi doms or ni doms 5 - ti doms or ni doms (infj less likely) 6 - si dom or aux 7 - se or ne dom 8 - te doms 9 - fi doms|||I do wish I was less sensitive and needed people less. Does that count as thinking over feeling? I don't know good ways to develop si and te, but I know a way: hang around xstjs, live with them and...|||I like easy games that make me feel happy but have something special :) like socrates jones, pokemon, narrative flash games, ah i cant remember them all, but they've given me great joy|||Is there a way to achieve the energising effect of social interaction, but without having to talk to anyone?|||aHumanRenaisance being weird even among other infjs, huh :laughing:|||*in a debate* Other person: Your argument is invalid because x=y, therefore z. Me: ...you're wrong because ur face is ugly! *flees*|||I think i can make an exception ;D go on, use 6 words.|||I relate, but I blame it on my add and genetics. It seems like no one really enjoys my company, except for animals, and even then there are exceptions. It is depressing, but I guess this is nature's...|||Ziggurat I've been around a lot of sensors and so I usually make small-talk about what's happening (not politics). I heard that intps really dont like ordinary talk and get bored by it so I'm...|||If someone wanted to have a conversation with you, how should they approach it and what should they talk about?|||Fe-doms for sure are friendly, and exfp are next up. It's really a matter of fe vs se vs ne, and I don't know enough to tell which would be considered the 'friendliest' function. Friendly as in warm?...|||Bored|||Dominant fe doesnt mean a person is insincere :happy:|||Welcome!|||Sheesh stop trying to rescue that baby when it's with its mum. Not everyone needs to be rescued.|||Sure sure. Remember warren buffet? He created lots of moneys|||Unhealthy Intj...theyre 3 smart 5 you.|||Fi comes to bite them in the butt...I'm somewhat new to mbti theory. Can you explain what you mean by that? And yep I guess it does even out because we develop our functions more with age...|||Holy mother f*** this is so cute! I love almost unreal love stories like these that actually have happened! This made me tear up and squeal like a little girl. Yay for necromancing posts up!|||You know infps will always accept fellow infps :) although I don't really have a right to say that because I'm unsure of my infp-ness.'

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You posted this in the wrong place. I do think that you're either an ISFJ or an INFP though, you seem to relate equally to both of these types.|||Good shit http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1aRUhwJ9Upw Please don't report me|||You don't. Your will to live is crap right now, you have to find something else to live for, another goal, or just keep trying to reach your actual goal. Hard work is the best way to reach your goal....|||From the ridiculous amount of emoticons that you use i would say you're an ENFJ. Every ENFJ i met seem to do that.|||Your Total: 14 Authority: 3.00 Self-Sufficiency: 4.00 Superiority: 2.00 Exhibitionism: 1.00 Exploitativeness: 2.00 Vanity: 0.00 Entitlement: 2.00|||Me - INFJ Mom - INFP Dad - INxx (not sure about his type) Grandfather - ISTP Grandmother - ESFJ|||I do enjoy cleaning my stuff, but for some reason i don't, except for my personal hygiene which i began to take care of more since i had people tell me that i look like a hobo.|||I talked with my cousin about this and he was pretty interested for the first time, but that interest faded away. Other than that i got my mom to take the test but she only did it because i insisted...|||Here are my results: Based on your cognitive functions, your type is most likely: Most Likely: ENFP or Second Possibility: INFJ or Third Possibility: INFP Your cognitive functions are, in...|||I usually tested as INTP, ENTP, ENFP, INFJ. There were also some rare times were i scored as ISTP, ESTP and ISTJ. The ESTP result got me confused as i also tested as an INFJ, which shows how...|||Why do you think i'm an NF? Also, if you're typing me based on the letters (which i assume you do based on your questions) it's not a very reliable way of typing yourself or others. You should...|||0. Is there anything that may affect the way you answer the questions? For example, a stressful time, mental illness, medications, special life circumstances? Other useful information includes sex,...|||Red Dog is the only movie that really made me cry. If you consider yourself a tough nut i challenge you to watch that movie. I bet that it will make you cry or at least upset you, especially if...|||I'm tied between black and pink, both of them seem very useful.|||INFJ Orchestral Theme Songs (i don't know for sure if this is a genre but i like theme songs/soundtracks from movies, anime's, games) Classical Rock|||I like fantasizing about being a hero, not a superhero. People who help others without any superpowers is alot more awesome and respectable, except maybe some little extra ability there and there.|||Vanity, taking my stuff without asking, insulting or doing something bad to someone i really care about, someone violating my rights, snobs.|||Enthusiasm is the only emotion i can't control, i'm usually the most cheerful and energetic of the group.|||I just found it funny, there's no deep stuff about this creepy fuck. I found this by googling ''small face''.|||I really need you advice on this thing that's bugging me for some time. So there are this two guys at school that keep physically bullying everybody, which includes me too. They usually just punch...|||I worry that choking so many times on my own saliva is going to kill me one day.|||I am one of them, i'm very positive about the future and i like to find humor in any bad situation that gets in my way. It used to be the opposite but i got over that and now i'm a very optimistic...|||I don't know if i'm allowed to post this but... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7g34hcsHAqU|||exuberant|||Definetely Fe.|||I can be very blunt and harsh, but it's true that my Fe keeps me from sounding like a complete dick. I don't know if it's a 8 thing as i'm not completely sure about my enneagram.|||Always. It's because i'm usually a very impulsive speaker and i say things that i might regret later, though i can control those impulses from time to time when the time calls. I also do this when my...|||I am aware when someone has feelings for me because i'm a genius when it comes to reading people, even when they fake disinterest. I don't want to brag but some of my girl classmates seem to have at...|||It's the same for me too. I love being in nature of any kind, be it forests, mountains, fields, literally anything. And i take any opportunity that i get to visit those kind of places.|||butthurt|||I am spiritual and like to believe that there's a divine power somewhere which i use to keep me on the right path (doing good things, helping people and stuff like that). But i strongly dislike the...|||I get lost in supermarkets.|||My libido is kinda meh...though sex would be very nice to have, i can live my whole life just by jerking off. It's the same end result after all.|||Both of them are very important, there must be a balance between these two. If justice wouldn't exist the whole world would be in chaos, people would have nothing to fear and there wouldn't be any...|||I used to be very clumsy, when i was in forth grade i tripped over my feet and i hit my head on a table and i cracked my head. But as i got older my clumsiness reduced at some degree. though i still...|||I'm usually pretty tolerant and it's pretty hard to bother me. But i can speak up rather easily if something or someone bothers me enough.|||It was this dream that i had recently where i was chased by a dog because i had a little cat in my arms and the dog wanted to eat it, and then i went in a garden full of tree's and plants and after...|||I have no idea about their type, i tried to type them but it's really hard. But if i had to guess i'll say: Mom: xSFP Dad: INTx I could be totally wrong about it though.|||It's the opposite with me actually. I can't stand people looking or staring at me with no reason.|||What do you think an INFJ would be like if he would have developed Se? I'm saying this because i might be one of those INFJ or i might just be another type, or my understanding about Se is just plain...|||Actually, examples are usually the only way i can express my ideas to other people as i'm horrible at explaining things to others. This depends on the complexity of the idea that i'm talking about.|||This is pure gold. I love it.|||50% Male http://www.bbc.co.uk/science/humanbody/images/sex/results_scale_arrow.gifhttp://www.bbc.co.uk/science/humanbody/images/sex/results_head_your_score.gif ...|||Did you take this idea from Vsauce? Anyway, yes, it's pretty crazy if you think about it.|||1. Patient 2. Goofy 3. Principled 4. Stubborn 5. Honest 6. Strong willed 7. Sensitive 8. Stoic 9. Loyal 10. Compassionate|||It only grows my determination, and it strenghtens my desire to prove them wrong. The feeling that i get after i finish that goal when everyone just gave up is priceless. It makes me feel powerful...|||That's my life's dream. I absolutely love traveling and seeing new places. Adventure is the best thing in life, and it's something that motivates me.|||It kinda is. People misunderstand me alot, which leads to alot of frustration. But i learned to deal with it and move on.|||I'm being called like that by my classmates everyday. But not because i'm dumb, it's because i act silly and goofy. Even tough i know they're just joking, it hurts me a little bit :(|||Birthday: 14 November Sign: Scorpio Sun Scorpio Rising Aquarius Moon In my opinion INFJ and Scorpio have alot of similarities.

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'Dear Associates, thanks for bashing my ISFP-ness. Noot. We've known eachother for several years, and now suddenly everything comes out. I thought things were cool. But no. All of a sudden everyone...|||I connect being manipulative with being selfish/taking advantage of people for personal gain. I do not see myself doing that. My consience gets too bad. I find myself apologizing a lot instead....|||Yeah, I'm very disorgainized, but now when I have a steady income I'm trying to get rid of stuff/buy necessary stuff/ be more organized. I feel like I get so stuck in the moment that I don't...|||Yes I'm the same way. It's pretty exhausting. Did you draw that btw? It is nice!|||I work with mentally unhealthy people, so it'd be good if I'm somewhat healthy. Which I consider myself to be. I feel calm. When I was younger and more unemployed I was prone to be more...|||I think I'm acting more cold and uninterested. I might stop contacting the person I'm interested in. I might distance myself from them. If I'm forced to be around the person I'm jelous of/the...|||I think that I've dated an ESTP. He was fun. I liked that a lot. I don't know what else to say? :P He liked me too but we wanted different things from the beginning. So I disappeared out in the...|||As many have said, I don't wanna fight about petty things. Sometimes I just lay low to see who'll take advantage of you and who will not. Why would you take advantage of someone? ¤%¤#&¤##¤#¤W|||Yes. If something happened between you and him three years ago...and he truly had feelings for you, he might be over it now. If I truly like someone it's either all or nothing, now or never. It...|||Sweet!|||Dear whatever-your-type-is, we haven't known eachother for that long. You seem to think that we should hang out every time we're both free. It isn't like that for me though. It seems like you...|||I always date younger men! I'm 29. The last two I dated was 4 years younger than me :tongue: When I was younger I always found guys 1-2 years younger than me more interesting than older guys. Maybe...|||Why is she with you if she doesn't want to be with you? For fun? I'd never do that. Because I would not have the patience to be with someone I didn't like so much. Yelling is probably one of the...|||If someone does something that really goes against my values, then I'd drop them. I just remember when I was a child, there was this girl that could not accept no for an answer when it came to...|||Dear ESTJ, sorry my thinking is interfering with your talking!! Me sitting there quiet trying to read something does not mean I want to listen to you talk for another 15 minutes. The hardest part...|||left|||:( I'm going through the same thing.... It is hard to know what to do. So I've been dragging it out. Until it gets to the point where you have to see your friend's new partner. So you can either...|||How often do you stay up? If I have not been forced to get up at 6-7 am several days in a row, which means I'll hopefully fall asleep around 00 am, then I'll stay up. I never go to bed by...|||Yes, songs. Not so much the other two.|||Yesterday I had the chance to run into a person I really like and haven't seen in moths. But I intentionally left work early so that I wouldn't run into him :/ That's how I deal with people sometimes.|||With passer-by's, I keep my distance. With people I have to meet regularly: try to get along with everyone. I categorize them: interesting/unintersting. Easy to talk to/not easy to talk to. People...|||You sound exactly like an ISTJ I know :proud:|||Thanks for the replies to my vague question. Sorry for not quoting you all. I've figured that if I think it's a betrayal, then it's a betrayal. What is most annoying is that the ISTJ doesn't think...|||:laughing: I'm going to sleep on it. Thanks for the replies!|||What is a big deal? Replying? Yeah, it always feels like he's the one setting the emotional pace. I've had a couple of conflicts with this one. And.. objectively speaking I'd say that I've had...|||Dear ISTJ, Though our relationship went from good to bad and weird, you always text me in at least an hour after you've gotten mine. (I sound like a 14-year-old.) You're probably the only one I...|||ISTJs: Do you think keeping information from a person is the same thing as lying? Maybe that question is too unspecific :bored:|||My mom is easy to figure out: ISFJ. She's taken the test also. My dad is harder. He loves to talk to people, and always know someone wherever he goes. But on most nights he's usually just home...|||I think it could be an awesome match if the two individuals knew how to communicate. A lot of couples don't know how to do that. And I also want to say that it's not your responsibility to fix...|||Good thread :happy:|||Look- Casual looking. Not snobbish. Or, he can also be you know, artsy looking. Taller than me. Bigger than me. Speak- He should speak the truth :P I'm not up for a philosofical discussion after...|||Dear ISTJ, I don't know if I'm in love with you or not. I think about you every day, and I usually go through our convesations for myself after we've had them. I can kinda understand what you...|||Can't remember! Why would I be mean to somebody? I talk badly about people behind their backs. But I'd say it to their face too, if they'd ever show it. I feel good about it.|||Now I'm also thinking that. Because, in a certain relationship, we've established that we're just friends, even though we were going somewhere completely different with it in the beginning. And I've...|||I wish I could hire someone who could decide everything for me. I know nothing right now. Don't know what I'm gonna do with my job, living situation and some relationships. Or maybe I do...|||I love you. I don't like you. Whoa, let's take some pictures of my face and put them on Instagram!|||For extended periods in my life I have not had a desire to be in a relationship. I think that's what's stopped me more, rather than fear. Well sure, it also means that I've taken distance from people...|||No thanks.:proud: Don't like plane rides and don't like rollercoasters.|||Dear people I hung out with tonight, I keep my distance because you're not like my close friends. And yes, I feel a bit disconnected. And yes, I'm lying awake for hours having an Fi-spree. Now...|||Yey, I found this thread. Dear extremely extraverted ADHD-person, :dry: I couldn't even be bothered to mask my feelings.|||Dear ISTJ, You've randomly invited me over when I randomly had a time in need. The thing is, I have a lot of feelings and thoughts concerning this. It feels like you're only booty calling me. And...|||I am crap at varying my hair style. I often get too self concious if I try something new. :frustrating: Wish I wasn't.|||Too tired to do 10.:kitteh: What are your top ten songs, artists, films and places to go? songs: Sultans of Swing - Dire Straits artists:|||Touché :P I will look into all this later. Good night.|||You should do a thread like that :wink:|||I usually have a hard time falling asleep and I have a hard time waking up. Of course it helps to have good routines.. like getting up at 8 am when you have a free day. Which I try to do, sometimes....|||Dear ISTJ, I hope my silence speak pretty loud!!!!!!! Kidding, I know you don't care about things like that. We both know what'll happen. /ISFP|||Haha, sweet!:) I saw some youtube-video of a girl with ADD. Everything got better for her once she started with meds... the only downside was that she got suicidal. It was a pretty comical...|||Ok! How does the meds help you, if I may ask? Do you recognize yourself in what I've written? :P|||It depends on what it is I'm gonna do. When it comes to exersice I don't dwell about it, just do it. And when I'm doing it, I mostly focus on what I'm doing. I like that. Because I can be quite a...'

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'This got a little bit off-topic but I don't mind because I love typing Disney characters and I feel kind of silly posting this to begin with. I agree that I am an INFP, but I was doing this thing...|||Oh, I didn't leave out the main princesses. I just referred to them as the 6 main princesses so I didn't have to write their names out individually. I was under the impression that Belle was an...|||Before I begin, I feel I should point out that I realise this probably doesn't belong here because it is not really about the MBTI or Enneagram or psychological personality typing systems. But this...|||Yeah. After that little brain loopy I went on, I got like eight books on the subject and was reading through them last night. After a thorough investigation and A LOT of reading, I agree that I am...|||I swear to God, I hate being a perceiver. I can never settle on any damn thing. Just when I was convinced about my type, a bunch of things came up that started to make me question it again. For...|||Well, like I said, when it comes to paying attention to the external world, I am sort of in between. Again, it is like Belle's stroll through her village where she is engrossed in her thoughts, but...|||Thanks so much LiquidLight. This was unbelievably helpful. I am pretty certain I am an INFP now after out discussion. I definitely lean more towards Ne and Si than Se and Ni. And I definitely know...|||Another thing I thought would be worth mentioning is that I read somewhere the Se functions sees and remembers objects as they are while Si functions sees objects but touches it up slightly,...|||Okay, I think I get it. Just one more thing. How would one perceive their inner mental world. I'm slightly confused on that point because the very nature of perception (at least the way I...|||Okay, so I tend to do this thing where I am watching a film or tv show and every so often, I will pause and let my mind imagine different ways the scene could have gone or will go. I insert other...|||I'm starting to see the difference now. Out of curiosity and clarity, what is the difference between Se and Ne. I know the INFPs have and auxiliary Ne function and ISFPs have an auxiliary Se...|||I just thought I might also mention another intuitive thing I tend to do. Usually when I read something I can tell the gender of the person who wrote it (obviously without looking at the name and...|||Well, I definitely think that I tend to posit all the possibilities and move on from there. I'm very much a what if kind of person. I tend to look at all possible ways a scenario might go so I am...|||I wouldn't say I prefer common sense to intuition or fantasy. I appreciate them both. As for experiencing intuitive feelings, I have experienced like that quite often. For instance, usually when I...|||Okay, so I type as an INFP when taking tests (both Myers-Briggs and Cognitive Functions), but I am starting to have doubts about whether I am really an N or an S. I definitely value common sense...|||I don't really mean to turn this into a discussion of type, but I have been questioning whether I am an INFP or an ISFP and am having trouble telling the difference between N and S. From what I am...|||I think that is the perfect way to describe how I see the world too. I don't suffer from the illusion that humanity is all wonderful and honourable, but I do hold some flickering hope that they can...|||I read on numerous occasions that the NFs are very idealistic and optimistic in their view of people and the world. They think that the world is an innately good place and people are all good and...|||I was just thinking today how many superheroes usually have powers that fit their personality. Not always, but sometimes. Then it got me thinking what types of powers would each of the MBTI types...|||I was just thinking today how many superheroes usually have powers that fit their personality. Not always, but sometimes. Then it got me thinking what types of powers would each of the nine enneagram...|||I feel like when it comes to the concept of Batman, he is very much a 5w6. He is known in the DC verse as being a spectacular detective and is is described as remarkably intelligent. He is quite a...|||Kiki's Delivery Service is one of my favourite films because I feel it is a movie about myself. I identify so much with Kiki. There is not one aspect of her that does not apply to me (except of...|||I'm not sure, but I don't even know if the two types are compatible. I recently got into the enneagram and was debating on whether I was a 5w4, 4w5, or 9w1. I was having difficulty however and so I...|||Thank you. :proud: It is at least comforting to know that some people can relate to these problems and I am not alone in that regard. It already helps me feel less isolated. I can't tell you how...|||Well, that is true. My INFP friend is my best friend (though she is currently far away from me in Israel), and it took us all of 15 minutes to become super close. I honestly only found out she was an...|||Although I am grateful for all of you guys for making me feel less alone, I totally agree that internet relationships aren't enough to satisfy a desire for connection and friendship. I think the...|||I am currently in the middle of my second year in college and I am sorting out a whole host of complicated emotions about my friend, both old and new, and my ability (or lack thereof) to make...|||I sometimes wish that someone would physically attack me so I would know what it felt like. On the same note, that would also give me a reason to attack the person back. Then I would also know what...|||When you feel very antsy and uncomfortable riding in anything that is pulled/carried by an animal/person because you don't think that animal/person should have to carry your weight. You would much...|||You too?! :crazy: I cried at the end of Prince Caspian as well. How on Earth could they voluntarily leave Narnia. :crying: I could never do it. And it doesn't help when the music really drives home...|||Why would someone try to ban free hugs?! If you ask me, I think everyone should go around hugging random strangers. What a great world that would be. :laughing:|||Why on earth wear people cheering?! I was practically in tears. I knew he would become Darth Vader no matter what, but I couldn't help but hope against hope that he would change his mind. Kudos to...|||Oh boy. This reminded me of a show I watched yesterday. Do you know those times when your friends find out that there is this person (most likely it is you or another INFP) who firmly believes in...|||Lol! Wrong place to post that question. If anyone on this forum has an answer I too would be grateful for some insight into this foreign practice. Why on earth do so many people enjoy getting drunk...|||When you cry at the end of Prince Caspian because you don't understand why they have to leave. :sad: (Just watched it recently and those 4 kids must have the willpower of gods because I don't think I...|||I do this ALL the time. I don't know if it's only the INFP's who do this. If it is, that is really sad. Some of my best moments are spent walking somewhere completely enveloped in my own thoughts....|||In true INFP fashion, the sympathetic idealist emerges. :happy: I'm right there with you. Sometimes I wonder what these corporate executives are thinking when they... I don't know... abandon a...|||I honestly don't think there is anything wrong with this. I don't really understand the stigma of porn or why people think it is disgusting because, lets face it, serious romantic relationships...|||I'm not sure if people notice, and if they do, I'm not sure how many really appreciate it. For example, I love those times when a strong rain is coming and you can kind of sense it coming hours...|||You know you are an INFP when... * You love art but you cannot suffer through a formal art class because you prefer to draw the things from your imagination instead of something that is already...|||So absolutely true! Mine gets longer before it gets shorter.|||This is a personal peeve of mine. I totally respect gay relationships and if two characters on a show turn out to be gay lovers, I am absolutely fine with that (we need a more diverse representation...|||OH GOD! Thank the Lord I'm not the only one like this. I don't drink at all, and my friends are constantly trying to get me to have some kind of alcoholic beverage. I always tell them it's...|||I don't think there is anything wrong with that. I used to be the same way before. But eventually I did meet someone (my best friend) who I love to death. Admittedly, as an INFP I still need my alone...|||Oh boy. I know both of these situations SO well. My mom likes to move around. She can never sit still for too long, which is why she makes a bad movie-going buddy. So she used to come into my room...|||I am totally fascinated by anti-heroes too. I think its because INFPs are all about redemption, second chances, and seeing past the exterior evil to the interior good of people. This is why Beauty...|||When your fantasies are so real that you aren't sure how much of your memories actually happened and how much you imagined and/or edited to make better.|||This one might just be me being weird, but I'll post anyway. When you were a child and had a huge identity crisis over your gender because you were wondering what exactly makes a boy a boy and a...|||I saw a clip of this movie and I couldn't stop crying. This song is so hauntingly beautiful. Its these small acts of complete and utter kindness and love that convince me the world can be a beautiful...|||My aunt got really worried about me once because my eating and sleeping schedule isn't really a schedule. I had to tell her that I eat and sleep when it's most convenient (a.k.a. whenever I want...'

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'1) Don't suck at what you do. 2) Don't die before you finish it.|||It seems more like you need a girlfriend to keep you warm at night.|||It depends on the situation. Common sense is important to solving any problem! :exterminate:|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_CZniTgDFe0|||Good luck.|||Oh boy, this is not gonna work...:laughing:|||Second question is: Are men smarter than women? :shocked:|||Free hugs, selling free hugs!|||Did you know that some people like the smell of their own farts?|||What makes you think only dumb people work at McDonalds?|||And another one.... Wife: I look fat. Can you give me a compliment? Husband: You have perfect eyesight.|||A teacher is teaching a class and she sees that Johnny isn't paying attention, so she asks him, If there are three ducks sitting on a fence, and you shoot one, how many are left? Johnny says,...|||471586 471594 471602 471610|||¡Ay, caramba!|||Easy. Call her before she calls you! :laughing:|||Have you ever thought that maybe you were born the wrong gender? I don't know if an ISTJ would like to be admired by another guy.|||I'm an 1w9 and my INFP girlfriend is a 9w1. I tried to look online to see what might be different between us and this is what I found. https://www.enneagraminstitute.com/enneagram-type-1-type-8/ ...|||When you said that you were hoping for this thread to die, I had a feeling that you did not want things to go out of control. Could this be true? My Fi is telling me to say this to you: We think...|||Ok, sorry. I didn't try to make a war or something. I think we all agree that it is sometimes difficult for us to relate to how an NT is thinking. I was hoping they could give me a proper explanation...|||Allow me to fuel this conversation to its former glory. Basically, the STJs are saying that the NTs can't answer a simple question without going off track. Is there anything you wish to add or did...|||Hi Vitamin! I would like to know what do you want to do with your life? I think ISTJ parents don't want their children to regret later in life. What do you think?|||tl;dr People are wonderful. :wink:|||If you ever find yourself in a stressful situation where nothing, nothing and nothing is working for you, then after a certain period of time, you will be able to experience it (aka you become...|||This is very sad. I am afraid no one but himself is able to change his mind. I think the best thing you could do is to remind him that everyone is worrying about what could happen to his health...|||At one point in my life, I have come to realize that my Si and Te functions were not as good as I thought they should be. I firmly believe that people who wish to perfect themselves should discard as...|||It's a beautiful day and I can't stop myself from smiling! :laughing:. Very interesting topic for once, and I hope it won't stop here.|||Douchebags over the nice guys? What's wrong with being nice to people? Do you even need a reason to help people? Aren't you a little bit too emotional?|||I have an ISFJ father and I also have tons of problems dealing with him. No offense to anybody, but I think it's worse to have an ISFJ father than an iSFJ mom... However, there is no doubt in my mind...|||The big picture is people hate what they are not. Why are you trying to act like you're the perfect child?|||What are you doing today? Can I know? :cool:|||But I love you King Yamol... You have definitely hurt my feelings... :unsure:|||Have you guys seen the movie Maleficent? I recommend it.|||Excited!|||Everyone is awesome in their own way! Coincidence, but about a week ago or something I posted the same topic in the ENFP forum! :happy:|||Surprise me with something I don't know! :rolleyes:|||YESYESYYESYES you deserve it! :exterminate:|||Say what you mean and mean what you say. Thus, I hate to fail and I hate to lose!|||I love the fact that you guys are always able to see good when thing seems bad! Keep it up! :cool:|||Me too! Me too! I had a dream during which I realized that I was dreaming, and guess what happened? Well. my consciousness told me it was time to wake up because my dream didn't make any sense!!...|||It's not about arrogance. I'm sure most of the XXTJ (and quite possibly the others too) can relate to this massive irritation when someone talks and it doesn't make sense at all. For most of us...|||Not at all, but it is an interesting theory. Lemon juice on the face ftw!|||Do you think that we tend to overestimate ourselves and judge people too quickly based on little things we know about them? I mean rational thinking does not always lead to the best outcome. Do you...|||To the world you may be just one person, but to one person you may be the world. I've been with my INFP girlfriend for 10 years and she means the world to me :laughing:. Just be yourself because you...|||What is the best thing that could happen to you if you talk to new people?|||What is the worst thing that you could happen if you talk to new people?|||My girlfriend is an INFP and she is always having so much fun dreaming that she doesn't want to wake up just to continue her dream. In some of her dreams, she explained to me that she kills all the...|||Why, you ask? Because I love you. Oh, can I hug you? They're everywhere. The waves of goosebumps over all parts of your bodies! YESYESYESYESYES! :crazy:|||Nope, you guessed wrong. Glad to know that the name and the picture is misleading people because that was my intention! :kitteh:|||Just for fun really. I was genuinely interested to know if any of you had a good buddy to talk to.|||Do you feel lonely?'

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'As much as I wish I could, I really don't.|||Hey everyone so I know I've been gone forever but I was thinking about this thing I do and it sparked my curiosity as to whether anyone else does it as well. Here it is... before I talk to anyone, I...|||65035 You guys what's wrong with me|||I've finally confirmed that I do in fact want to change my major. I am quite interested in psychology, the study of it at least, but I can't see myself making a career that I enjoy out of it. My...|||56736 Merry Christmas or whatever. Why does this holiday have to come u200bevery year?|||1. Happy are you? 5. It varies from day to day. 2. Socially skilled are you? 5. Not the best, not awful. 3. Lazy are you? 8. Pretty damn lazy. 4. Emotional are you?|||What do you think of advice? Do you ask for advice? Do you take that advice? Do you give advice? I am curious because I tend to ask for advice but never actually take it. I just like asking for...|||Off the top of my head: hula-hoops, paint pens, tarot cards... books?|||Picked up a compiled book of all Poe this morning. I'll be reading it for a while.|||I am not sure why this happens... but I have the same problem every time I purposefully try to meditate. Throughout the day, I am very calm and calculating. I have a decent attention span and focus....|||I used to use marijuana regularly, and I still associate with friends who do, but I don't see it in the same light anymore. I initially quit because I am applying for a job with the county who tests,...|||1. What is your sexual orientation? Heterosexual. 2. Do you regularly do drugs? (For the purposes of this survey, I'll include alcohol.) Alcohol is the only drug I use. I'd say I use it regularly,...|||I squirrel walks up to a tree and says I forgot to store acorns for winter and now I am dead. It's funny because the squirrel gets dead. 55793|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OwKXggW7naI|||First five syllables Yes then seven syllables And then back to five|||I try to appear busy, and when they ask how I am doing I emphasize that I am busy. If that doesn't work and they still stick around, be engaged in something else while they are talking to you.|||3-3-11 pattern? I kind of like it, it has a nice ring to it wake up late so my fate is to forget important things while rushing|||I usually ask for money or gift cards. I don't even know what I want, might as well have options. However this year in particular I asked for a car wash and new brake pads.|||I agree with Narcotic, don't write a letter. This sort of discussion is much more effective in person. If part of your incentive to write a letter (I'm not sure if it is, I'm just making a connection...|||The last one before bed My love Clint Eastwood Soon we will be together In my dreams tonight|||When you have to pee Be a civilized person Go to the toilet Unrelated... Homework incomplete At least I will get a B High test scores are key|||Yes! She's my spirit animal!|||I recommend finding a chair at a party that you can station yourself in because it's also a very powerful move at any social function to be the one that stays in one place that people come to. It...|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zAcS40DNt40 I enjoy her style of humor. She is relatively relaxed and speaks in a neutral tone, unlike a lot of other comedians who are too loud and chaotic for my...|||I said the same thing before I read your post. I'm picking up on a pattern here...|||I never really was associated with any stereotype, to my knowledge. People usually just perceived me as the sarcastic girl who could help you out in math class. I only really hung out with one...|||In elementary school I wasn't out for good grades, I just didn't have many other interests so I had a lot of time to devote to school. I never really participated in any extra-curricular activities,...|||Procrastination 60 paragraphs I have to write By midnight tonight|||You are unaware One usually leads to two Or more, ask Richard|||Anything can be unisex... I think. Except those boots in particular were a little big on me.|||Well the boots actually belong to the guy to the left of me, so I'm not sure where to get them. I know the brand is Demonia though. Thank you though. :) Ermahgerd fershern!|||Haikus I have missed Of our INTP-ness Look I made a joke|||Naive and anxious Damn extroverted feeling Please just go away I tried to write once Everything distracted me And that is the end|||Precisely. Although 2 is leaning toward please don't take a pic at all, do I have a choice, oh well, shit they took it.|||How fantastic! They're a lot of fun with the zippers. Yeah, some lady on the street stopped and asked if she could take a picture of us haha. Thank you.|||So I was torn between whether to post this in the art section or the health and fitness section but I ultimately decided on here as flow arts involve expression through creative movement. I was...|||ENTJ So one time, my best friend who happens to be an ENTJ and happened to be drunk at the time walked up to a pool table, moved his arm across it quickly to scatter the balls everywhere, and yelled...|||55566 So I thought this was interesting... ISFP, INTP(self), ESFJ, ESFP, INFP. Note the ISFP attempting to look sophisticated, the INTP not knowing how to smile, the ESFJ looking bored, the ESFP...|||55561|||Super profound.|||I'm moving to the San Francisco bay area with an ENTJ friend this summer. Hooray for getting out of the area I've lived all my life.|||INTP Aries with moon in Aquarius. Not the same sun sign, but still a fire sign.|||I am an INTP Aries. BOOM!|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3U8pAM4VXvI When I up, down and touch the ground It puts me in the mood Up, down and touch the ground In the mood for food I am stout, round and I have found...|||On a weekday... School, homework, shower, sleep. On a weekend... homework, drink, sleep.|||I read the Tao Te Ching every day. It reminds me to keep it simple.|||I am independent and private. If a person cannot understand that I need space it will never work. I shudder at clingy, over-involved people...|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3zbXDRpCNaM I find most of what she says witty and amusing. I'm not sure if she would be an INTP or INTJ though.|||I am perfectly accepting of varied opinions, but if you insult my taste in music, literature, art, or anything really... be prepared. It's not even that I value my opinion above others, it's that I...|||This is really bad, but I crush hard on Harry Styles. I'm generally not even involved in pop culture, but for some reason I find him irresistible. Perhaps it's the seemingly blissful and carefree...'

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'*Sigh* That comes under nature, yo. Attraction to the same gender can be hardwired. Acting on it isn't.|||Also, I feel this quote is relevant to the discussion in general:|||She's human isn't she? There are three defining elements to the human consciousness: Nature (the Flesh, in biblical parlance), Nurture, and Mind (biblically, the Spirit). Nature deals with...|||AlteredReality: Ever heard of a Pareto Analysis? The 80/20 rule? Basically, it usually follows that 20% of the work causes 80% of the problems, 20% of the machines have 80% of the faults, etc....|||Allow me to share an excerpt from a recent interaction with an athiest: Him: How can you be so clever as to be able to use a word like Qua... Quar... Me: Quadruped? Him: Yeah, that......|||Anita Blake from Laurell K. Hamilton's series of the same name. Goes through the same emotional shit every book, screws some more guys, gets preachy about it, powers up, rinse and repeat. It...|||I actually make efforts not to do it when in company, unless the company desires it. I usually enjoy poking holes in films and nitpicking errors for fun - however, I am aware that many people do not...|||This. The government should have no business one way or the other in marriage, in whatever flavour.|||Just to stir the pot a little, I don't read the logic flow there as typist at all. Typist would be: Dad interrupts; Dad is an ENTJ; Therefore, all ENTJs Interrupt. Was it a naive and...|||Politeness has nothing to do with either cynicism nor skepticism. Indeed, it is perfectly possible to be both, whilst simultaneously being polite about it.|||1.) This is a hard position to imagine myself in. Trivial things are trivial, and I'm more interested in the textbooks... but in the interest of playing along... I'd tell her. Honesty can be painful,...|||I have recently discovered that my emotions directly affect my ability to concentrate and work efficiently. When I'm happy (but calm), I am most effective and efficient. When distressed, frustrated,...|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vh5HdPM_QuE http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-EKkbCPKXpA I was there and it was awesome.|||Even then, the issue becomes not whether the glass is half full or half empty, but that it is 50% too big...|||Technically, the glass is always full - unless you're in a vacuum...|||http://i308.photobucket.com/albums/kk337/SplodgeOfDoom/communism-1.jpg ...Seriously, BAD idea. Charm does have it's uses - convincing someone to take your side is awesome and all, but if you...|||I've seen some awesome tattoos. I've also seen some really awful ones, and even the good ones are a major hindrance in many professions. Whilst I'm generally open the concept, I cannot think of...|||I believe the argument follows that altruism ultimately leads to self satisfaction in how helpful you've been... or somesuch. Generally, I don't really worry about it too much. Whilst it may be an...|||Truly Epic - but still wrong. XD|||I like to talk about possibilities, ideas and plans. I also love exchanging facts and trivia about stuff, how things work, why such-and-such failed, etc. Any subject I don't know much about is...|||One of my flatmates is an ESFJ. We get on pretty well, generally... Though I think it's fair to say we really don't understand each other very well. She bases an awful lot of her decisions and...|||I'm not unsociable. I enjoy the company of others a great deal - especially when they are willing to commit to conversation. On the other hand I'm only willing to put up with small talk for so long...|||Pfft. am·bi·tion/amˈbiSHən/ Noun:|||It shows. Do yourself a favour - read up on the other types, and stop obsessing about what is/isn't ENTJ.|||Intensity Squared = Intensity^2 = Intensity * Intensity Intensity+Intensity = 2(Intensity) 'Tis different.|||Ran across this on Snorg Tees. Seems fitting, somehow. :ninja: http://i308.photobucket.com/albums/kk337/SplodgeOfDoom/mmaac_fullpic_artwork.jpg|||Yay ambiversion! It seems to be pretty well documented that ENTJs are semi-introverted, especially if they feel there's nothing to be gained by hanging out with someone. Actually, I ran across...|||... Whaaaaaaat??? *___* ENTJ's too serious for love, bro. You mean that whole being a romantic thing is just in my head? Aw, crap!|||I already offered over on the other thread, but if you're sorted, that's cool. Have fun. :)|||Do you guys still want ENTJ help?|||An anecdote that is somewhat relevant: Not so long ago, to drive home a point about materials selection and fatigue, one of my professors showed the class a documentary. It was a documentary on...|||I don't think they're flavours of ENTJ so much as aspects... or so I gather from the site, anyway.|||I will be 23 next month. I also happen to feel similarly. Perhaps 'tis not an ENTJ thing so much as a young ENTX thing?|||I only know the one INTP, and he's not the healthiest of people. Nice guy. Quiet. Mildly hypochondriac (that's annoying as heck). Really hard working - also not good at letting perceived slights go....|||Math is awesome... Scratch that. Applied Math is awesome! I used to hate it. Wasn't 'til I started learning about what it's actually used for that I started to understand what was actually...|||http://i308.photobucket.com/albums/kk337/SplodgeOfDoom/Adorifying.jpg|||Hmm. Never been in the INFJ forum before. You guys are kinda cute...|||People who can't think objectively. People don't deal with their issues. People with no motivation. People who bug me about table manners when I'm eating pizza.|||OH HELL NO! That would be BORING!u200b|||On an online test I was given an Extrovert response with a certainty of 1%. Does that count? I've been at university for the past year. I'm surrounded by sex-obsessed, alcohol abusing morons, and...|||Heh. I've spent a lot of time emulating the big snail recently. :/|||Gah... Best get it over with. As per rule 7: Ironically, I'm an extrovert. I'm totally comfortable with strangers, I'm outgoing and talkative. I like being around people. I don't have...|||What could it mean? Simple. He feels affection for you beyond lust. I can't speak for everyone, of course, but when I feel strongly affectionate towards someone, there is a childish, playful...|||Learning for me holds excitement because knowledge is a tool - and I love to build. I hated maths in school, because although I've always been fairly good at it, it was just numbers on a page and...|||I've been considering this. Now, I can't speak for all ENTJs, but speaking personally: If you want me to think an idea was mine in the first place, it is going to have to fit with my personal...|||Dear Lab Report, Why? Why do you hate me so much? These experiments are freakin' Primary School stuff! I mean, really? This is supposed to be a University! (Secondary complaint - if...|||THIS. So often I have found value in hearing out someone who I would otherwise consider a fool. If they may have relevant experience, I will ask, usually without regard to my personal opinion of...|||That's an unusual definition of Genius. In the everyday sense, Jobs was certainly a genius. In the fashion you mean...? Purely from the viewpoint of the world of technology, he had or was...|||Pfeh. Assuming the purpose of the glass is to hold liquid, then at present it is neither half full nor half empty. It's just extremely inefficient - may I suggest you use one 50% smaller?|||Regarding the chess/debate/sports: I have a confession. I like them, but... My INFP little sister consistently wins 3/5 games of chess (Arg!), and I'm not actually great at debate, either. It's...'

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Unsure what type I am at the moment. Was ISFP last time when I took the myersbriggs tests in around 2014 HumanMetrics - online relationships, personality and entrepreneur tests, personal solution...|||nooo thanks to you and to everyone else on here who commented, has been eye opening.|||thankyou. I do have a group of friends now that I think is better for me to hang out with, and they do talk to me when I'm down. and the funny thing is, I'm sort of prepared and accepted that we may...|||it's possible. But they weren't actually sure he had cancer. I don't know what her story is but I've come to realise that it would be vastly different from the one I see.|||yeah move on is what I did. The manipulation thing did pop into my head but thought it was me being paranoid. Basically about a year ago this guy who was in my class turned really psycho to me and...|||that the thing. I thought I was there for her. I was always asking about him, if he was ok. Maybe I needed to give her space or I don't know, maybe I shouldn't have asked about a touchy subject.|||Yeah I take it she's moved on and so have I, although it still hurts to think about it. I have a close group of friends now, which I think is healthier than just one person.|||I'm not sure. It's still a mystery to this day. Perhaps I am just a terrible friend and bad at communicating. I don't know.|||I agree with you. I really messed up.|||thankyou so much! I got some counselling,although I do still have frequent depressed episodes. Thankyou so much for caring!|||Thankyou. Yeah I guess I just have to move on. I really want closure at least to know why she did it, but can't have a conversation with her if she doesn't respond.|||Other people suggested that, but I don't think she had feelings for me. And as for her dad, Idk what happened there. She told me he was going to hospital to get scans a bit before she started talking...|||I agree with you about the emotional blackmail part. But that was the only txt I ever sent her like that. I just wanted her to response in that moment. I know I shouldn't have done it, made things...|||No, no idea sorry.|||We'd been friends for over a year. And we became close friends fast, talked every day, try help each other through difficult times. A fairly balanced friendship I thought. She was a lesbian, and...|||You're very welcome <3|||Social Justice is for people who want to feel special|||as someone who isn't a marvel fan, I enjoyed it to my surprise.|||I'd say, touch. I'm very touchy when I like someone, i.e. playfully slapping them, or just patting their knee or something. Obviously don't do this to someone you don't know very well.|||I'm really enjoying Orphan Black at the moment. I rarely watch tv series or tv in general, but I found it exciting and it kept my interest, and I really appreciate how the actress is having to play...|||Ask him out on a one on one date for some coffee or something similar maybe?|||I think you should just say to him, when you're there with him, that you need to talk about the relationship. Or if in person is not comfortable for you, then write it down in a message to him. If he...|||He doesn't sound like a terribly good boyfriend/partner Either sit down and try to have a talk with him as best as you can about the relationship, as all you guys could need is just to break down...|||maybe take some time out once in a while to chill and watch a movie, listen to music etc?|||As a messy person, for me, organization is key. A clean, clear surroundings help me to work better as well.|||Take it as a compliment. I would. The things you like don't actually belong to you, and you should be happy that someone else you know is appreciating those things. Heck, I know I'd be happy if...|||If I was you I'd drag him to help. But sometimes, sadly, you can try and help a person as much as you want, but in the end they should be the ones to actually want to change. Doesn't he care that...|||I get exactly that as well!|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oKFfSl-EBfI tutorials are very helpful remember art is a skill. It just takes lots of practice :)|||Idk, it's like this thing, it's real. I can feel it, and I know it exists. I actually feel like it's a very personal thing to me, and sometimes it's hard for me to talk about it, because I feel so...|||I can be lazy, but mostly I make myself do things or I'd go crazy from not doing anything. I get depressed if I'm being lazy|||It's tiring for me because it's too slow for me to have a good conversation. I much prefer either talking in person, or typing on a computer, much faster.|||greeennnnn|||yes cox and crendor!|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1PUCzDgaUjs da fuck is wrong with this bitch???|||Flynn Rider too. And as much as I'm not even into superhero stuff, I watched the first two episodes of Supergirl and I feel really attached to Winn at the moment.|||Hello! Gimme a watch and I'll watch ya back Forest-Paix (Bethany K.G.) - DeviantArt I'm an ISFP|||Only concert I went to was OneRepublic when I was just 17. I loved it so much, once they were onstage, playing the music, you realised how awful and mediocre the opening act was. I loved too how they...|||you are so lucky!|||Yeah I usually hurt myself or hit other people. It's more connected with depression and anxiety attacks rather than anger.|||I'm a girl and I'm scared of girls too lol due to the fact most girls seem to be snobs I'm sorry I can't help. I get on much better with boys.|||My online personality is pretty much the same as my at home one or when I'm with very close friends, I'm more peaceful, quieter, and I think alot and talk less. Normally I'm abit louder and more...|||I have an awful temper. It takes a lot to make me that angry, and yes, it's usually when I've been wronged by a loved one. If I see someone who is acting like a selfish idiot that annoys me too.|||k. You're getting too hung up on the details kiddo. Since when do you own a song, a tv show, or a sport? :/ Why are you horrified that your friend is loving one of your favourite anime? You should be...|||I'm an artist, because, I like to create. I like to make. I want to make people feel the things I do when I create and make these things.|||Often, I've tried to forgive and forget, and set my anger and pain aside. It would always resurface. It still resurfaces to some extent today. I've been doing my best however, to just learn from the...|||yes it was my first Ngaio Marsh, it made quite an impression on me :P quite enjoyable|||wow all of them? hard out xD See, I remember the first Ngaio Marsh book I read, it was the one where Mrs Alleyn goes on a little river boat cruise, but I can't remember the outcome. You must have an...|||Don't worry too much about finding a girlfriend at the moment, you're still young. Love has a habit of surprising you when you're least expecting it, rather than if you chase it. Obviously you gotta...|||Maybe break your routine up and do random, spontaneous stuff. Maybe take up a new hobby? Go exploring somewhere near where you live that you've never been before?

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'I love the way you put that. :laughing:|||I know exactly what you're going through. I've gone through it several times. I don't get how you can form a relationship with someone, then drop it like nothing at the drop of a hat. How can you...|||Yes! It's like that at my job! My asshole boss never seems to notice what I'm doing right (the bigger picture), but nags nags nags on insignificant things. He also assume too much for the worse. I...|||About my frustrations, mostly. They come out as metaphors a lot, even though I don't consciencely try. I write poetry without trying :laughing:|||This.|||I love the honesty here. I was in kind of the opposite situation you're in. I always wanted the NT-like people to notice me for my wits. I just didn't want them to think of me as another sheep....|||I work with juveniles and I use mind games all the time with them.. But it's for good. It's to help them. Works like a charm too. As for doing them in the dating game, why would you do that to...|||could you give me an example on how she makes you feel stupid?|||Oh. Well, I've heard INTJ's say their Fi sneeks up on them, and it makes them feel (no pun intended) like a child. I haven't fully developed an opinion on that. It sounds interesting though. I agree...|||If you're a male that doesn't look like a Calvin Klein model, good luck.|||You'd pobably have better luck posting this in the INTJ thread.|||Response to 1: Well, malpractice and sweeping it under the rug. They didn't want the county to know about it, they did end up filing an incident report, after somone said something. but left out the...|||Agreed, but I think I need to clarify: when someone administers meds to the wrong people on multiple occasions, and instead of calling the doctor, the clients are instructed to puke, and nothing gets...|||And that's what still baffles me about working in the non-profit sector. There shouldn't be a nature of business. We are here to help people! And that's the only reason I'm continuing my education:...|||The party incident, could you send me a link about that? I never heard about that. And the killing, are you talking about Euronymous? That was... Kinda planned. Not very well though...|||The whole concept of being dominant is really silly. Don't strive to be that all power guy. There is no guy. We all need each other. Just be yourself. I'm more outspoken than most people I know,...|||Sounds like this kind of thing is common in group homes. Thanks for sharing. It definitely adds perspective.|||Good to hear that you found a better job! I don't mind incompetence, just as long as it's not coupled with unwarranted confidence (arrogance). That's my boss, basically. It's like, How can you be...|||Something tells me your supervisor got the message. Sorry about your grandfather and uncle. :sad:|||I tend to get along with ESFJ's very well, It's the ESFP's I end up butting heads with. I live with two ESFPs, and an ESFJ, so I gotta a pretty good idea when I spot them, not that I consciously type...|||Things are very seldom, if ever, what they seem in the work place. And I have yet to see anyone in a management position that is truely competent, and is actually fair. It's even worse in the...|||The only season I don't care for is summer-- too hot. Fall only last for like two weeks where I live, so I would definitely want to have a longer fall.|||I'm surprised that no one mentioned how horrible the music is... Because it is.|||This, basically. Emo is insincere and exaggerated at best. No one wants to be an outcast, it's just happens, and leads you wondering how you got there.|||Ditto.|||Kind of. I know I imagine long, detailed coversations, but when I try to remember them, it's like reading the summary at the end of the chapter in a textbook... Only, it's not boring.|||No worries. I think it's cute that you two are relating so well. :wink:|||I used to go through zombie apocalypse scenerios, where I was my crushes 'night in shining armor'. I would plan out/daydream how I would save her, get weapons, etc.|||I know whatcha mean.|||Haha I get those too!|||Good luck with that. :wink:|||57276|||I tend to go through scenerios in my head, like getting into a serious relationship with them, getting married, having kids, living together in a crystal castle in the sky, etc. I can't help it....|||I'm stealing this.|||... Like carrying a thousand pounds on your back, up a mountain, in a foreign country where you don't speak the language, yet you can still understand everyone, but they can't understand you.|||Resident Evil 6|||That's such an INFP response. :laughing:|||Bullying, lying, fakeness. All these stupid social/dating games people play, like when they purposely ignore you just to see what happends, or pretend to like you, then stand you up. I'm past the...|||Freshly brewed coffee.|||Stoner!|||We also like to speak for ourselves, thank you very much. >:(|||Mom- ESFJ; we get along well for the most part. She's the only one who truely understands me. Younger sister(17)- ESFP; I hate her 95% of the time. She makes me face palm... A lot. Older...|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5a5fHMlb4V0|||Agreed. He's not saying anything new. I think he was trying very hard, perhaps too hard, to get your attention by sounding vaguely insulting, then keep it by forcing in humor. Whenever you take the...|||What do you mean?|||Speaking of sensationalism... Morgan Freeman's brilliant take on what happened yesterday: TURN OFF THE NEWS - Democratic Underground And the lowest of the low... Amid Newtown tragedy,...|||something good post. I'm totally with you. I first heard what happened on an online artical. My heart sank. I like what you said about having a shut off button. I couldn't watch the news about it...|||Pretty sure this man is INTJ http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VFxN00yRvcI If you imagine a thing happening in your head, you will make it happen - that is, if your willpower is strong...|||Awwww I'm sorry. The reason I ask is because You could really stare into someone's soul.|||I'm good at math, but not the hard kind.'

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'Yeah, that's sort of what I'm thinking too and that's what's making me feel like I need to keep my distance a bit because it's messing with my head (and heart)...but I also have this nagging thought...|||To not want what I want so badly|||avoiding having to go to sleep even though I'm exhausted|||Your personality type is: INFJ Preference Clarity Categories: (Slight, Moderate, Clear, Very Clear) Very Clear Introversion: 20/21 Very Clear Intuition: 26/26 Clear Feeling: 21/24 Very...|||I don't think I've ever tested as something other than INFJ, but when I was a teenager I was definitely drawn more to the INFP type because that's how I wanted to see myself at the time. Didn't take...|||I think I've come to terms with alot of quirks in my personality because of mbti and I've come to appreciate things that used to make me feel like an wierdo. Now that I understand myself better I can...|||So I'm in this complicated impossible love situation with an ENTP who is very close and dear to me. He's in a relationship so we've decided to keep things on a friendship level only between us even...|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p62rfWxs6a8|||INFJ Reading, music and concerts, netflix, politics and international relations, discussing interesting topics, healthy food and excercise, geocaching|||bellybuttons freak me out! I get the creeps right now just thinking about it...|||I don’t wanna worry bout nothin for a while, I just wanna play around livin’ like a child With old tunes jammin on my Walkman, and some Sour Patch Kids and a Coke can.|||*Hugs for anyone who's not feeling their best today* <3 I feel hungover and a bit tired, but generally at peace and relaxed today.|||mystikro :Kent! Are you from sweden? Jens Lekman - Black cab https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UpgkG4TIyvE|||My best friend is an ESFP and I really like how she's always able to draw me out of my shell and make me feel comfortable around others and with being myself. I think I tend to gravitade towards...|||In both real life and online I tend to be very reserved until I feel I've gotten a good enough read on the other person to judge weather it's OK to open up more. I don't know if it's accurate or not,...|||ESTP? The Doctor 370506 Hermione Granger 370522 Amelie Poulain 370530|||INFJ 1: James vincent mcmorrow 2: Devendra Banhart 3: The Lumineers 4: The head and the heart 5: Beach house 6: Sharon Van Etten 7: Edward sharpe & the magnetic zeros 8: Youngblood hawke|||I'm an INFJ and I work with vegan foods and retail. I would say my occupation is almost too perfectly matched with my type, I almost feel like a cliché. For me, it's the perfect combination of ideals...|||Yes! Being misunderstood like that is my least favorite thing ever! I know I come across as cold to people who don't really know me, and it's such a shame because that's always the opposite from the...|||I think as INFJs we're so used to seeing through people quickly and intuitively understanding them so easily that we sometimes assume that they also have the same understanding of us. I'm definitely...|||I would like to say that I don't really have any limits (except of course for a lower limit of 18), because I don't really want to limit myself by setting a specific number. I so think it's important...|||I can definitely act and come across very differently in certain situations compared to others, but to me that's just on the surface and I feel like that's mostly just different expressions of my...|||Wow, I'm also into stuff I like! We have so much in common! :tongue:|||Hi there! This is random, I like it! :th_woot:|||I don't care about what you think!|||I've been thinking alot about the feeling function lately and I've been trying to make sense of my own relation to Fe and Fi. One of the things that I find really interesting is how INFJs and INFPs...|||INFJ female Most: ENFJ, ENTP, ISFJ Least: ESTP, INFP, ESTJ Completely arbitrary, of course!|||vision|||I feel sad for them. Everybody were children once and I tend to think alot about the awful things that must have happened to certain people in their lives to shape them into the people they are and...|||Type: INFJ Religious beliefs: Atheist I went through a period of spirituality and agnosticism when I was younger and I definitely understand the allure of faith and belief. I settled surely...|||Maker of helmets I really appreciate that you took the time to formulate such a well thought out answer, so thank you! Alot of what you say really resonates with me and I think you have some good...|||Bored and restless. I feel like I need to do something to make this day count and I come up with nothing.|||Not a romantic question here, but I would like to know if anyone can give me som tips or insights in how to deal with INFJ/ENTP personality clashes? I have a colleague (ENTP) who I've been...|||1Q84 by Haruki Murakami. It is LONG, you guys (but good).|||Hi! Thats great, I'm glad you've had good experiences. I definitely try my best to be a good person, but I don't know how much of that is related to type rather than person. I guess the definition...|||Meeting new people: 5. I can often come across as extroverted with people who doesn't know me and I can share personal things without backlash. With people you know but well: 9. I'm really careful...|||It's very unusual so whenever it happens I get really excited and want to dig deeper and know everything about the other person to see if we're compatible on other levels too. And it feels like we're...|||Based on your posts, what do you believe are some of your most common go-to words or phrases? > I haven't made that many posts yet, but I guess 'definitely' is a word I tend to over use Assuming...|||I definitely think you're right about everything your saying here and I also think it's key to really try to figure out what it is YOU really want from life rather than what society says is the...|||well, as an INFJ I've struggled alot with feeling misunderstood and like noone really gets me so reading discussions from people who think like me and relate to situations in similar ways to me etc...|||Yeah, I definitely feel like alot of my main issues with my own personality is often related to things that are very specific to the INFJ type. Maybe thats the reason why they're such issues to begin...|||It's been great! It's cool to see people asking the same questions that's been on my mind for years and I'm really excited for more discussions in a context of deeper understanding :) Thanks!...|||Elusive, curious, diplomatic, loyal, silly|||I don't like how extremely difficult it is for me to let people in and I wish I didn't always hold back so much when someone is trying to get to know the real me. I don't like that I often come...|||We are what we pretend to be, so we must be careful about what we pretend to be. - Vonnegut|||My moms home made cinnamon buns :)|||Nice to meet you too!|||Yes, I know. I'm sure one of these days the olives and I will reach an understanding. But today is not that day!|||Thank you, and yes, it's absolutely fantastic!|||Thanks, I will check it out!'

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So on a slightly lighter note|||I'm curious what was this statement in regards to?|||I use vanilla chrome with no ad-block or anything like that and besides from the ad up near the top of each page I get no ads. I have no idea what's happening on your end.|||*Sigh* It's already 38 in Melbourne and it's meant to hit 43 and over night it is going to be 25. Thank god I'm not in Adelaide though.|||Damn bloody medication is expensive|||WirelessSleep My opinion on this in a quick one liner is that it is not worth trying to get back together, at least not yet. A bunch of ramblings below, proceed at own risk. First as a pet...|||Yeah I noticed that. It's also the only symbol on her which makes it even stranger. As for the tropes well its not like they have a lot of experience making anime and for such a short clip I didn't...|||I honestly have no idea what their marketing team is thinking. That being said it actually looks pretty decent (the anime clip that is not I.E. although I have heard that it has improved..)|||It's going to take a lot longer than that. I was born here* and I still don't get all of the fuss. Although from what I have learnt the fuss isn't so much about the race, more that the race is an...|||..I'm more confused as to how you think he doesn't like you.|||Holy crap that is brilliant.|||So apparently they're making a crowd funded phone. It actually looks really good..:shocked: It also looks quite ascetically pleasing.|||Took the car for a service, but before I did I emptied out all of the gold coins ($1 and $2) that I had be stockpiling in the ash tray. I knew that I had around $40 in the car, but when I took them...|||Oh I have been waiting for this episode for quite a while. Good to see all of the fangirls reactions didn't disappoint.|||God damn it, just finished the last book in a series (Cycle/Saga/Epic names get confusing when a series has several trilogies in it) that I have been reading for years. So many memories. Hopefully...|||Gah what is this sickness. I can't even remember the last time I was sick it's been so long.|||So marvel has released a a fair few big movies in it's time, Avengers, X-Men, Hulk and what have you. But the first movie they ever decided to make they got George Lucus to do it, you know the guy...|||Yeah once you understand what things they're looking for it's pretty easy to get any result you want. (Also no clue as to the arcade machines you mentioned).|||Kinect app can detect depression Heh I actully feel tempted to try this out and see what it makes of me. Although that would first require me to purchase an actual kinect..|||I got a text saying I have won 500,000 pounds* and a Toyota car from a Microsoft lottery. Sounds legit. *I live in Australia.|||http://sphotos-h.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-ash4/318248_217281108417853_1799766256_n.jpg|||My hotmail account has been suspended due to unusual activity. I wouldn't really care if it wasn't for the fact that 1. I was in the process of migrating everything of importance from that email...|||Either way free publicity. Also congrats.|||Super computer to simulate brain.|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=ojYK6CW8gdw#!|||Now that is pretty cool. https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-TAJPr2hmEtM/UQor7YSR13I/AAAAAAACd10/-T6VJ1LyWw8/s640/312364_539184739435875_183775161_n.jpg|||I'm up for it. I used to frequent the PerC chat room quite a lot That is when it used to have a chatroom.|||What the fuck is this. This goes on for 15 pages (as of the time of posting this). Edit: NSFW|||Ref: 9 Int: 5 Vis: 1 Glo: 9 I found that several of the answers were equally valid for me, especially for graphs vs written explanations.|||They way I figure it is that people try to fix problems the way that they would need them to be fixed if it was their own problem. This rarely (at least from my experience) equates to actually...|||I didn't know it was meant to be a secret.. *Goes and destroys all of the evidence.* I think that every one is nice to those they care about, just INTJ's don't care about many people.|||Found this on Facebook. special fluoride free resevoire. Seriously? Let alone all of the other stupidities in that statement. Further more this came from a post that was asking if water...|||'Brighter than a full moon': The biggest star of 2013... could be Ison - the comet of the century - Science - News - The Independent|||Arma 3 delayed because two of the lead developers have been accused of espionage in Greece. What? :confused: Edit: Apparently this happened in September O.o Note to self do not film/photograph...|||There was one girl who I ignored because she was really, really annoying (Drunk calls at night every second weekend gets old fast). She then sent me an FB message a couple of months later which went...|||Honestly that sounds like great fun to me, although that is coming from a on summer break university student who doesn't have a job atm and who has had barely any time in the snow.|||Honestly I don't pay too much attention to the exact temperature when cooking, to be fair a lot of that has to do with the fact that our oven sucks. In terms of ovening I find that I often use 180,...|||While you have good points and for weather it is probably a better system for countries that experience massive differences (I.e One part its snowing and the other part is too hot to live) there is a...|||Well not in terms of weather, but cooking it's pretty handy, I mean 100c is the boiling point of water which is a pretty common occurrence and you can measure how hot something is (I.e an oven) by...|||I dunno does it snow for you? Otherwise I think I might take a pass and just stay in front of the fan all day. I never got why people use Fahrenheit, as a temperature system for every day...|||Today was 27 degrees today, hot but tolerable. Tomorrow is going to be 38. I am not looking forward to that. For all of you Fahrenheit-ers out there that is a change from 80.6 to 100.4.|||Well I just got my first phone call concerning a 'problem with my windows 7 computer'. They couldn't even answer my first question. Man and here I was prepared to waste some time. Scammers just...|||Yeah its one of the main reasons I changed by gender shown to Neutral, even with my small participation I noticed people treating me slightly different (More warmly on average) then they did...|||I usually find it quite handy to have some fruit in the house, great to eat when your hungry.. Or bored. Nothing like going to the market and buying 10 kgs of a given fruit for 1/4 the price in...|||For memory MissJordan was originally called MisterJordan but changed it. I think it was to see if people treated a female esfp (or some type like that) differently. Although that was ages ago...|||History transformed in VCE exam Oh dear god. VCE is the final two years of high school in the state I am in. The results of this is used to get into university.|||And instead it became awesome. :cool:|||Looking up Lana Del Ray on wikipedia, I see all of her known aliases: Lizzy Grant Lana Del Ray Lana Rey Del Mar May Jailer Sparkle Jump Rope Queen Sparkle Jump Rope Queen How. Why. Who...|||I use chrome, youtube is fine for me, although I don't have it on auto play on page load up so thats probably why.|||Google 28 days later.

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'Politely, I'll say it's about working towards building structures that support women's specific health needs. Anything beyond that is just more information than I care to post here at this time. ...|||In short: I don't. Something I have worked on is to simply experience feelings without judging myself for them, and without judging them as good or bad, or as something to be overcome. When I...|||Recently I completed a major undertaking in my life. I pursued this undertaking partly for personal reasons and partly for greater reasons. While this undertaking lead to enormous personal...|||I wish people could grow up to be the people they had the potential to be and not the people they are. I put so much of myself into you, and all I uncovered was selfishness and hate. I feel so sad...|||Not so much this. (And not an effort to be dodgy either so much as wishing to retain a certain degree of privacy.) It's a rather hard thing to explain in a generalized context. To use the race...|||I apologize if this is a bit of a ridiculous thing to ask. I'm interested in thoughts or ideas on what happens when an individual experiences collective issues as personal emotions. This can be...|||Food: Historically I've had terrible eating habits because I was so disconnected from the need for physical health. This seems like an irony considering that I'm fascinated with the body as a...|||It took me a long time, but eventually I figured out that I have sort of an internal compass, which basically just means that I generally do my best in life when I sort of trust my gut. There...|||Ramble-riffic! Not really. Usually if I'm not sure, I'll state that what I'm saying is my best current knowledge and to certainly go with the word anyone who knows better than I do. Generally when...|||I think it's very interesting to read what people have posted here. What is your avatar? It's a ball with a squiggly line. What's the story behind your avatar? I opened Paint and made shapes!...|||http://youtu.be/5L8-FTvSVxs|||I can think of few things more rewarding than holding the materialized culmination of an inwardly held vision in one's hand.|||I do experience a strong desire to connect deeply with others and yet I'm also aware of how that can feel like an intrusion on my internal space after a while. I'm also aware that in that space where...|||No worries. :) I'm actually frustrated with myself because I feel like I can't get my thoughts and language clear right now. I find I'm also really having comprehension problems which I'm still...|||I don't disagree with what you've said overall. I do think that the overall cultural system is dysfunctional, that people are set up to compete to have value, but I admit that I'm confused by a...|||People who are hypocrites. People who are more invested in their biases than in seeing other perspectives or on becoming educated about issues. People who put ego ahead of education. Enough. Enough....|||I think I can understand some people's frustration with this issue, but there seems to be a lot to reflect on regarding this matter of special snowflake syndrome. Something that might be...|||I would be more than happy to share. :) I'll make it a reward goal for getting my work done for this month. Yes. I know my energy around the relationship right now feels and comes off as very...|||Hey there, yellow car. Here's the thing . . . if other people have to pull off the road to prevent a head-on collision, you didn't have time to pass. In fact, passing a line of multiple cars on a...|||One of my favourite ways to meet people in college and university has been to participate in activities I'm interested in. The benefit is that there's already the base of a shared interest in the...|||Hey itchaskitch, that sounds like a really exhausting and frustrating situation you're involved in. I can only imagine how difficult it could be to be experiencing these events in relationships with...|||Marvelous. I'll definitely have to look into this when I'm done my work for the week. It very much was. It intersected well with an area of experience. This is a question with a...|||Hm. I'm not sure I would necessarily define my experience with my girlfriend as not staying on topic, but more as conducting herself in a direction not conducive to the completion of her task. She...|||Today I was helping my girlfriend (ENFP) with something, and I started to feel the difference in her way of processing ideas as opposed to my own. This came about as I was trying to explain something...|||I'm not sure I really ever remember being a child much. I know that I very much was when I was very, very young -- about 3 or 4 years old -- but I don't really remember that lasting for very long. We...|||I felt kind of lost in regards to understanding and knowing myself when I was in my 20s. At 30 I found that's not so much the case. Some things I still work to try to understand better, but not...|||Assuming that what I'm thinking of refers to Fe and Ti, then no, I don't see those things as conflicting, but rather as balancing. For some reason I'm picturing the idea of a covalent bond (as a...|||I think that Gatsby would be a difficult character to type generally because a significant aspect of Gatsby is surrounded by the question, who is Gatsby? Gatsby is a character of masks and...|||Hey. I thought I'd just drop a link to a website here. There is a section about mono/poly relationships. More Than Two | Polyamory Resources and Guidelines by Franklin Veaux. I've also found some...|||I'm trying to think of how I understand this. I don't guarantee this will be in any way correct or necessarily coherent. I think the way I see it is more building with things that come from Ni or...|||You sound so much like my partner. I've referenced him in the past as ISTP based on an MBTI assessment he did a few years ago in a career development program, but it always felt wrong and, having...|||First of all, I want to say congratulations. I've been proposed to, but it's not a particularly romantic story by any conventional standards, and was rather reflective of the entire pattern of our...|||I think this is a very interesting idea. I write a lot of poetry, though now I've reached a point where I find I'm able to sustain and complete prose writing, and I've started completing short...|||As much as I try to learn about relationships and communication, as much as I try to learn about people, I am always failing horribly because of how impossibly complicated relationships and people...|||It depends on who I'm around. I think a hypothetical conversation with my partner illustrates this well. Me: *says something to a clerk really quietly and shyly* Partner: What was that? Me: What...|||I secretly love performance metrics. (I used to get excited little tingles at my old job from tracking our hour by hour sales goals, and our daily and weekly performance targets. Currently, I get...|||I think the idea of looking at loops is interesting. I think I understand the general idea of the difference between Ni/Fe interplay and Fi/Ne interplay, but I seem to be seeing it sort of this way:...|||I have totally not done this none of the time. (Because I do this every time to every one.) *** Not sure if this can be generalized to INFJ, but this is basically every conversation I have. ...|||In my head, I associate people to colours and objects.|||I think of grief as being full and depression as being empty. Grief is a visitor who comes uninvited and who can't be turned away at the door. It must be fed, and cared for, made comfortable....|||Lumielisa, I admit, sometimes thorough is all I can offer. :blushed: lol What I mean is that I don't have any real wisdom, or insight, or assistance to share; I just have my experiences, and...|||@Lumielisa, I want to say that I appreciate your openness here. I find myself feeling so much understanding and experiencing so many similarities, and they bring a bubble of thoughts and feelings to...|||After a period of stress or difficulty, what things do you like to do to heal and recharge? What is the effectiveness? Any reflections on how or why these work for you? Does it take a long time to...|||I . . . don't know how I feel. I'm not always great at returning messages. I know sometimes I'm just in my private space and don't want to be bothered, so I turn off my cell/computer/etc. in order...|||As an expression of emotion, intimacy, and trust? Yes. For its own sake? Can't do it without emotions, which contradicts with the actual drive. There's also the bashfulness to consider. (Though...|||1.) Is there something that you've always wanted to do or have been interested in? Broadly, specifically, a journey, creation, vocation, etc? I think the two things that have been with me longest...|||Hm. I personally think a lot of people struggle with emotions, generally, especially difficult ones. I don't see the world as a place where there is a high enough regard for emotional intelligence or...|||I want to say thank you for the responses here. The input has given me some things to reflect on. Yes. I apologize for being vague. I can't go into much detail as some things here are quite...|||Seeking some input. I'm in a situation right now where, after some careful examination, I find I need to loosen my emotional attachment to someone I've cared for deeply. I understand the...|||Hm. In terms of my family? I don't have the best relationship with my family, and the mood at home can be unpredictable, so I only really get in touch on special days (birthdays, holidays) or when...'

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'I once tried an onion sandwich--just bread and sliced onion--under the assumption that it was something people actually eat, rather than something the creators of the Onion did because they had no...|||I've recently been writing a blog (link here) about topics related to future studies--for example, the singularity, though I will probably argue against this at some point--though, more broadly it is...|||This chart is actually useless, because they don't teach people how to actually do statistics-- this annoys me to no end. This chart provides average salaries but not the standard deviation! There's...|||I always feel the need to clarify this when people start talking about phobias. Actual phobias cause severe anxiety. Here is a personal example-- I suffered from acrophobia when I was younger. I...|||Everyone would always be arguing-- however, most people would just take weird positions to see where things went, so there wouldn't really be much enmity. Also, not much would get done, but there...|||I think one of the reasons that people say that art is subjective, is because art can't be given a definition that creates a strict wall between art and non-art. Part of this may be the modern...|||I consider myself mostly amoral, but I'm still mostly opposed to the use of violence. More for the second reason-- there are usually more beneficial (for both parties) methods to resolving conflicts...|||If we're not limited to the three traditional starters, I'd go for Abra-- hard to train, but very worth it. In game, I'd go for Bulbasaur, because the first two gyms are weak to grass-types, but...|||I think there is more to it than that. To be a philosopher, like being a scientist, means contributing to an academic discipline. A degree is just proof that you've completed a given university's...|||Personally, I don't think type has much to do with it-- all academic fields require one thing: effort. In science, you need to do experimentation, and a lot of it. In philosophy, you have to do a lot...|||I'm not sure I'd want to be any anime character-- most of them have really tragic back stories. That being said, I'm going to go with Izaya Orihara.|||Steven Pinker wrote: The thing is, that the concept of a singularity implies that our collective creative abilities don't have some kind of carrying capacity. Only so many humans can exist in...|||A friend once made an interesting statement: If you think about it, everything that has happened up until now is necessary. Would the same conditions have existed that contributed to your...|||Why don't we put this into practice? Actually put some teams together and play kriegspiel. Personally, my money would be on INTP/ENTJ.|||The brain is no longer believed to be an immutable organ that just stops changing after a certain point. In my opinion, this type of therapy is a really good idea, given how over-medicated we are.|||If that's the case, this way of collecting data has some methodological issues (e.g. maybe there's something about Aries that makes them more likely to self-report). At the same time, everyone talks...|||I think people are too quick to equate introversion with social anxiety-- there are probably quite a few social INTPs out there.|||I once told a friend that MBTI is the thinking person's horoscope. MBTI is less mystic about itself, but conformity to the standards of a particular type is found in both. On that note, I came...|||I enjoy meeting with friends for various reasons-- even in moderately sized groups. However, too much of it starts to put me in a bad mood. I'd say about 25% of my time is spent in a social...|||This would actually make an interesting longitudinal study. My hypothesis would be that INTPs acquire most of their characteristics as they grow up-- particularly in adolescence.|||Your dominant function is Te, which suggests ExTJ. Now, your tied between Ni and Si, so it seems a bit difficult to guess between ENTJ or ESTJ. However, in this case you also seem to prefer Ne to Se,...|||I'm kind of surprised the article didn't mention the Jefferson bible. How interesting you might think it is, is up to you. But, Jefferson took a copy of his Bible, and cut out (literally) all of the...|||Might I draw your attention to this; it's a book by Isaac ben Abraham entitled Faith Strengthened. Though it's quite old, it provides a fairly compelling (biblical) argument against the idea that the...|||One way of looking at it is that at one point, Christians were a small minority-- but they were still right, despite the great plurality of people who disagreed with them. On a more...|||2.5 billion people can be wrong. 2.5 billion people are be wrong-- as a matter of fact, 7 billion people are wrong, in some sense. From our limited perspective, we only have a limited understanding...|||I've heard various descriptions like this before-- however, this sounds exactly like thinking with ones emotions. That is, you say it's something that is felt, that can't be explained. I find this...|||Technically, you're not supposed to cite encyclopedias in academic papers. It's not so much the validity of the article, but the fact that you should be using primary (e.g. historical documents) or...|||You sound a bit like an ENFJ. I'm not the best at this, but it seems like you use Fe which puts you in ExFJ territory (or possible IxFJ).|||I think these things are associated with childhood, only because adults take themselves too seriously. Picasso said: Every child is born an artist, the problem is to remain one once they grow up....|||A better question would be when did I start. Jokes aside, I've never been particularly childlike. However, I stopped acting anything like a kid when I was around 12, after moving to a new city. At...|||ESFJ-- it's the reverse of my current type, and I think it would be interesting to make such a drastic change.|||I suppose this is worth a try; mine is jayhill84.|||I wouldn't limit things to maturity in Fe-- you will become more mature in every respect. One tends to get better at making all kinds of decisions. In my case at least, I tend to look back on myself...|||Same. Getting angry is usually counterproductive; it's better to just keep a level head, and hope that they take the hint.|||What about the way we inspire creativity? Creative activities are those that bring about something new, and it seems that the only reason we do so is out of some internal desire to just do something...|||I would try to create something that would deinstitutionalize education-- there are some necessary aspects of schools that need to be kept, but a lot that need to be discarded. First (and foremost)...|||So, I've looked around for other opinions on Gandalf's type, but I'm still unconvinced. So, I want to see what others type Gandalf as, but I also want to know the reasons why you give that type. In...|||Given that he's essentially an animated version of Robin Williams (who is also ENFP), that seems about right.|||Technically, this doesn't answer the question, as you've left it ambiguous-- one could be an agnostic atheist or an agnostic theist. To answer the actual question, I consider myself a non-atheist.|||Because then there would only be one book, and J.K. Rowling wouldn't have made billions of dollars.|||Sounds like someone is trying to curry favor... and doing quite a good job at it.|||I feel that this is a huge problem for wizards-- in fact if you think about it, the wizarding society is pretty much on the verge of ruin. First of all, they have no exposure to modern academics. I'm...|||People have private aspects of their lives and public aspects of their lives. Discussing how a person acts in public isn't gossip, because they are sharing that information with others. Plus, you...|||I think of gossip as talking about a person's private business, that you are not involved in yourself. There are some aspects of a person's life that are more public. So for example, saying something...|||I'm interested in hearing others' opinion of gossip. Do you think gossip is ever a worthwhile activity? And what is your opinion of gossipers? Do you yourself engage in gossip?|||What's wrong with trying to think critically about something that is a very important part of life? Some people never ask this question-- are they bright and perceptive for not doing so? As...|||There is a page at Oddly Developed Types (sorry can't provide a link yet...) that explains about how type dynamics may not be the best way to go about MBTI-- for my part, I think that one can still...|||It is also possible that, if you are INTP, you just don't have a strong preference for P over J (likewise for INTJ)-- I find, in myself at least, that because I don't have such a strong preference (P...|||In general, I'm interested in anything people can have an opinion on: philosophy (itself a broad category), literature, etc. But also sciences, mathematics, and languages-- also, I like learning...|||Hello everyone-- obviously I'm new here (as I'm posting here) and am an averred INTP (per the topic). A few years ago, I discovered MBTI and other psychometrics, and thought the idea was pretty...'

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'Not surprised since I get along with INTP guys pretty well, but I never let it progressed to anything more than friendships though...|||Been obsessed with this song for months now. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3IEMnWhT_7c|||Are ESFJ males flirty with everyone? It was my second time hanging out with a ESFJ classmate who I met 2 weeks ago and I was shocked how comfortable and flirty he was with me already.|||lol interesting. You know, sometimes I wondered if this INFP guy I like have ever slightly stalked me since we would always bump into each other.|||Thanks! =) Yeah, it's the same with me. Once I am attracted, I would always want to bug them and do thoughtful things for them xD|||Yeah, that has happened with me before without really being aware of it.|||lol that's a cute video. Have you ever been stalked by an ENFJ?|||That's pretty considerate of you to let people know. Some people wouldn't even bother and would just let the conversation die.|||I feel like I fit the ENFJ description and my friends even agree with most of it when they read it. I care for people and I like motivating and helping them reach their full potential. Upon reading...|||I feel like I fit the ENFJ description and my friends even agree with most of it when they read it. I care for people and I like motivating and helping them reach their full potential. Upon reading...|||No worries, I'm 20 :P|||I can totally relate to this. I feel like I was more extroverted when I was younger and now I feel more introverted as I am getting older. I realized last week that for once in my life, I was...|||I think I would be more shocked than annoyed. If I realized the friend is trolling, I'll probably laugh it off. If the friend was serious, I'll ask what's all this fuss about.|||I love ESFJs. I love how they are caring, loving, kind and fun to hang out with. I seem to click with them very well compared to other types probably because i am a ENFJ which makes us quite similar...|||No way, all of the ESFJs I know are actually quite smart, efficient and organized.|||Not really. I usually only think and care about those who are the most memorable to me. For instance, people who I find interesting, inspiring, nice, outgoing, and easy to talk to. I don't really...|||I don't know about other ENFJs but I always reply back to messages, especially if I said I would, otherwise I would feel bad.|||I can't give you a clear answer, but when I am around someone I am attracted to, I tend to get very nervous to the point where I can't say the right words and become a little ditzy. Have you ever...|||I get tired after talking or hanging with friends for a long period of time. I need to have time to myself to reflect on things and to recharge. However, being alone for too long can make me feel...|||I think I am just nervous due to the crush. Sometimes I hesitate to speak my mind because I am scared of what he thinks. Unlike others, he seems disinterested or emotionless sometimes which makes it...|||Whoops double post. Wish there was a delete button somewhere...|||Yes, I agree with everything you wrote. It's almost as if you're me! :O|||Lol that's what I thought too when I saw your post. We're both in the same situation :laughing:|||What do you guys think of people who gets nervous around you? Ever since I became really attracted to this INFP guy, I went from being really sociable to being really quiet towards him. I get really...|||Wow, this is all pretty true for me too.|||I don't think ENFJ women gets ignored. From my experience, I've dated the guys I liked.|||Yes, that sounds exactly like her. Some of the tendencies I have that she would not have are: -When I am upset about something, it would not take me long to discuss about it -If people were to...|||I used to have a INFJ best friend and I would notice the main differences between us is: -she's a perfectionist and would claim she has OCD tendencies -Like what Iamken said about his friend, my...|||I'm a 6w7 (The loyal friend) 4w6 1w9|||I can relate to how you feel as I've just recently been through the same thing. I think us ENFJs tend to think a lot too and that our feelings can really mess us up to the point where we would have...|||haha even though I am not a INFP, I tend to edit my posts a lot too. Thank goodness there's a edit button!|||Congrats! I am so happy and excited for you! Now if only I can find myself a INFP guy... Anyways, hope you will update more about this as I would love to read more about how compatible these 2 are :)|||Finished with an exam today and now I got to try to stop slacking off. Haha, I'm not surprised because personality type is such an interesting topic =)|||Same goes for me when it comes to falling in love quickly and falling out of love slowly. Infact, I still miss him right now and it sucks that he doesn't talk to me like he used to anymore....|||Same goes for me. Infact, I still miss him right now and it sucks that he doesn't talk to me like he used to anymore. Sometimes, it just sucks how it is so hard for us to move on. :(|||I hope you will one day! It would be nice to know someone who can understand and relate to you =)|||3 pieces of pizza (vegetarian, mozzarella, and the other one was full of meat), pickle and sour cream chips, and fruits (pieces of honey dew, oranges, and slices of banana). Talk about unhealthy...|||Yep, I agree because it feels good to get stuff off your mind and confronting problems will lead to a better understanding of each other too. However, depending on the situation, it can be hard to...|||Haha I wouldn't mind being your friend too on PerC ^^|||I guess it's because there are misunderstandings and that we don't really talk it out with each other. By the way, I am pretty sure my really best friend is an ENTJ. He's just awesome even though...|||Haha I love researching about topics too! Currently, interested in personality, as you can see :) As for fitness, it has been such a huge for me since last year. I exercise like almost everyday and...|||I wouldn't mind being friends :D|||My best friends so far are ISFP, ISFJ, ISTP, INTJ and either ENTJ or ENTP... (I can't tell), but we all get along really well with each other and can talk about anything for hours. As for love...|||I would say 5 or 6, I need my alone time to think and recharge lol.|||After reading a lot of these, I got to say, you guys sound so nice and interesting! Too bad I don't know any INFPs in real life, I wouldn't mind being friends :)|||The bolded part is true. I have a male ENFJ friend and I can't imagine dating him because conversations becomes tiring....|||Hmm...This is a hard question since I really want both, but I think I would rather be accomplished as in accomplishing my life goals because I will probably be proud and happy afterwards. =)|||1) When you're afraid that you have annoyed someone after talking so much 2) When you feel surprised every time someone compliments you|||Yeah, I agree which is why i always wonder how my friends linked me to Rukia because she just doesn't seem like the happy and positive type. I guess it's because back then, I used to have an hair...|||I agree, there's no holding back once our mind is set and from my experiences, it's hard to stay friends with the person that I've been in a relationship with.'

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'I actually don't even remember what this link was about anymore. ;) and I can't access the page either. so I can't help you, sorry.|||Oh, haha... innovati , your whole mannerism actually reminds me a LOT of my brother-in-law who I THOUGHT must be an ENTP. Well... I could be wrong. hmm... this made me think... But just for your...|||lol... I completely forgot about this post. xD ...wow... I must have been really pissed, kinda... maybe... xD...at least it sounds like it. x) But I'm glad it resonated with you in a way. ;D|||Oh, haha... one of my first posts on here. lol :laughing: How cute.... :dry:|||to cats?|||@HeartOfTheWind You two don't talk about cognitive functions here. That's why I'd advise you to read into them before deciding what personality type you really are. Based on the I/E N/S F/T...|||Or white people! :D :ninja:|||http://personalitycafe.com/myers-briggs-forum/78200-who-does-not-hate-intuitives.html There you are... it's almost as old as this thread and linked to in here quite often. Yeah... I'm a spammer....|||uhm... wrong thread... lol|||Well... I personally voted no one since everybody can hate everybody so also a Sensor can hate a Sensor and an intuitive can hate an intuitive. Who hates whom is not only determined by their MBTI...|||Hm... can I be the minister of Health and Earth then? The huge Environmentalist population is underrepresented in this forum's government... and then I could also be the minister of WATER...which is...|||I don't like coffee! I want a different covernment!!! :shocked: :ninja::tongue:|||I think it's GEMA who don't allow certain music in Germany cause YouTube (or Germany?) doesn't want to pay for it... or something like that.|||EMI-music-content blah not available in Germany blah GEMA blahblah music publishing rights blahblah....:angry:!!!|||wow! O_O I can barely see any age difference... 10 years at max!|||:shocked::confused: DAUGHTER?!! :shocked: How old are you two? :shocked:|||I've had best friends in the past. And there was a time when I even had two of them. However, that was in kindergarden. And I'm not sure if I was THEIR best friend as well... but it's possible......|||Well... everybody on here seems to forget - or doesn't know what it means - that Arclight is an Enneagram type 5. While everybody thinks it's SUCH a common Etype for an INFJ I don't believe it. Many...|||[ENFJ] & Sanguine, Choleric, Melancholy, or Phlegmatic? Please vote on that one! xD|||It's blocked for me (in Germany) because of the music. :dry:|||No, not natural...I was horrible...sometimes I tried... but it just felt strange and if people tried to push me to do it it was even worse... but during my job training I learned how to let go and...|||Very interesting interview. Only available for a short time! (something like tomorrow...) Pamala Oslie @ Love Your Path Show|||I think I'm going a bit off topic in this post, but: For some reason there seems to be somewhat of a negative bias towards ESFJs on here. And I think there are quite a few more ESFJs on PerC than...|||sorry for double posting... I can (maybe) see some Ne in your picture descriptions... which - again - means ESFJ.|||To be honest, this is a really bad questionnair... sorry to the author. Your anxiety is very much dominating this whole thing again. But the dominant Fe shows quite a lot too, which already means...|||nathdep uhm... I know you don't like change. But what exactly is the reason why you don't change your signature and labels? Just curious. O:)|||I wouldn't tell her. That way she's happy and I'm happy because I bought the other stuff (with a minor feeling of guilt), plus textbooks aren't THAT interesting a topic to talk about all the time. So...|||I didn't. :wink: I rather considered your cognitive functions and if you use more Fe or Si and if you use more Ne or Ti. Don't ask me how exactly, but I concluded that you're probably using more Fe...|||did... xD Additional input is welcome since I kinda couldn't come up with a whole Etype. x)|||MBTI - or rather cognitive function - wise I'm saying ESFJ. I think I can tell that you don't have a 8 in your tritype. And I also strongly doubt you have a 4 fix. Plus also don't see 5......|||I think you should fill in the http://personalitycafe.com/whats-my-enneagram-type/84019-enneagram-questionnaire.html in a new thread in the What's my Enneagram type? forum and put the link here. Then...|||Oh well.. I mean... I'm a wonderfully stereotypical 6w7. lol ...which is awful. :laughing: EDIT: lol... yeah... uhm... me too... a few times too often, I guess. :angry:[/COLOR]|||:laughing: Thanks. :happy: And seriously: I'm an awful 6w7. :mellow:|||Oh... and to spread some more doubt: The fact that our questionning you doesn't make you question your own and your mom's types a lot might also mean that you're not even a 6w7. :laughing: ...just...|||So.. since you were probably wondering what's so ISFJish about you... : The bolded parts are very Si-heavy. INFJs do not use Si (introverted Sensing)! I for example will be annoyed if someone...|||It's really hard to make up your own mind if you don't even know the facts. We don't know if a photograph has been tempered with. Nobody tells us that this perfectly shaped woman actually has...|||First: I didn't read the article. :wink: I can totally see how the artist himself can think what they do with photoshop is art. And I can also see how it IS art. But then again, for me the line...|||nathdep hm... so we're already three people who think you sound a LOT more ISFJ than your mom. Should be enough to make you reconsider your types. :wink: What makes her so confident she's an ISFJ?...|||He doesn't move his eyes even once... INFJs are known to have lots of eye movement... so I don't think so.|||Haha... never tested as high on Se before... not sure why it's suddenly like this...dunno...my subconscious made me give exactly the answers that would lead to a result that suggests I might be the...|||Hm... while I'm not 100% sure about my own type (probably xNFJ), I'm 98% sure my husband is an ISFJ (sometimes wondering if he might still be ISTJ). And everybody else thinks that too. And to be...|||I have another question: How to survive a job after surviving that interview... ...not that I know how to survive interviews... I only ever survived because I was either motivated and...|||https://encrypted-tbn2.google.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcTvLb2x8v9vS9qal3nxw0P1IbS8hAynWTNP9bFgaBfz8TDpq_4c0A :kitteh:|||haha... no... x) I wasn't able to see YOUR post and the thread wouldn't disappear from my list. xD And when I posted, everything was fixed. :D On topic: I wonder where Vexed is... :unsure:|||wtf... TEST! EDIT: HA! worked...|||Oh, yeah, right! No vaccinations!...completely forgot about that one... :crazy:|||I'd be learning how to see auras (and similar things) and how to heal effectively with my hands... too realistic? I'd want to have some fancy light effects that are visible to everybody as well......|||He also doesn't want to feel while he does... I don't think it's the right way even if he says that's what he wants. I'm still voting for support group.|||Self-defense...otherwise he'd consider himself a piece of shit (or whatever)... I don't think that's better. It's easier to get down a bit again than to drag yourself up...just considering the amount...|||If it's not only out of some feeling of pity but real love (or whatever you might call it), yes, it does help...'

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'Haha, you have no idea how many times I have made this face, especially at work. Hmm, lets say for a moment that population data on personality types is completely correct. INFJs would make...|||Haha, I agree, though I was thinking something more like this for the last one... 639018|||I see what you did there, your profile picture being Sapphire and all, haha. Can a dark side INFJ be manipulating? Absolutely. Does this have anything to do with this post? None, whatsoever....|||This was hyperbole for both ISFJ and INFJ meant for comedic value and not to be taken seriously. I am glad some people found it funny, but alas, ISFJ sense of humor usually escapes people.|||When you ask someone to do something, and they do it... ISFJ: Aww, that was nice of them. INFJ: I COMMAND PEOPLE!!! ...and when they don't... ISFJ: Sigh, I can do it myself.|||ISFJ's definitely find beauty in simplicity and have and eye for what is aesthetically pleasing. It also gives us an instinct into things (whether something is or is not aesthetic and a general...|||I have even noticed types(notice that is plural) of faces for each personality. Your cognitive functions most certainly plays into your expression and facial features. Of course there are other...|||I have spoken about this topic in length, many times on this forum. It honestly does come down to perception, in more ways than one. Firstly, you are right in posing the question of, what is...|||Many times. Due to our primary Si, we can be incredibly insightful as we are constantly taking in information passively. People do not realize how much we have absorbed until a situation presents...|||I have know a lot of people who have struggled with this issue, especially an INFP. It doesn't really have anything to do with type, but how we perceive ourselves and where our value is at. I have...|||Wow, I am thankful this thread is still alive after all these years. I will go over some of the responses individually, but I wanted to touch on something first. Typing characters that have mental or...|||With Si, we pick up on the details that others might miss, and because it takes sensation and internalizes it, to a degree, its as if we are physically experiencing it ourselves. Fe is not the reason...|||Humanity is a bee hive, buzzing to and fro. It dances an unseen dance, the rhythm: an eternal flow. To the outside chaos ensues, never hinting of it clues. But where there are footprints,...|||ISFJ's are a lot more discerning then they let on. If they do not do something, they usually have good reason for it. A lot of ISFJ's do not seek higher education. This does not mean they are less...|||This is understood, as they are both perceiving functions. What I was expressing here was the difference between Si and Fe, which you amalgamate. Yes, they work together, but to define Si by its Fe...|||I have actually used FPSs to describe similar concepts as well! XD You got it backwards. Si would simply note that the objects are soft or aesthetic. Fe would deem whether those objects make...|||^ That one sentence is an example of Si, perfectly. Introverted Sensing is an abstract function that creates an impression from sensory information. To say that things are soft and pretty make you...|||It might be my post here that you thanked a while back. Though, I must say I find Friend B's internal monolog quite daft. Yes, allergens can be treated with small, consistent exposure, but they...|||Because of our inferior Ne, it is difficult to externalize the difference and instill the necessary framework for understanding. Any off the cuff attempt usually goes poorly, and can make the...|||Want(desire) is not the same as Need(necessity). Any one can desire to be understood, it is not inherient to ISFJ's, but that does not mean it is necessary for them to be understood. It is our...|||We are good communicators when we are understood. Its when we are not understood thats the issue. ISFJ's have very fluid minds, being our dominate function is introverted perception, but we have...|||Long have I said that the Need to be Needed was a misconception. Though there are those who put their self-value in being of use to others, this is not healthy nor the norm, but a reflection of...|||I agree with this for the most part. However, ISFJ will have a general understanding of the character as well, but due to our fluid minds yet concrete nature, will not trust our perception until...|||You have once before seen me approach someone in a manner you think is similar. With that individual, I was in philosophical opposition. Because of that bad situation, you assumed my tone with this...|||In what route do you refer? I calmly and rationally explained my disagreement with the person's post in regard to the subject of the thread and did not believe they were being purposefully spiteful...|||I need not another comparison as I am quite aware of the differences in our respective types. My desire was to show you are misguided in your observations, in other words, to express that you are...|||The issue with your observation is that it is surface level(the perceived, not the defined), from your perspective(mental framework), without understanding of the subject(your cousin). What is the...|||Everyone needs social interaction in some form, we are human after all. When you do not get healthy social interaction(small, close groups or 1 on 1 time for us), it will effect you negatively, both...|||I do not find this survey to accurately represent critical thinking, it fact, it seems to force very narrow logic paths. Take the first question about the jail: The answers either disagree...|||ISFJs definitly have an natural optimistic side, but it often goes unseen as it usually remains a part of our rich inner worlds. Healthy ISFJs have a balance of optimism and realism, that only...|||Gender: Male Hair Color: Brown Hair Style: Short, Ceaser cut. Eye Shape: Large, Round Anime-like eyes. Eye Color: (Pure) Blue Glasses: No, I am near sighted in one eye, and should wear glasses,...|||I tend to lean towards gish characters and unusual builds, prefering balance to min/maxing, as I am often a more solo player. However I tend to take up a somewhat supportive role most the time. In...|||Structuring my external enviroment seems to be the most helpful. Not becoming over-burdern or worn out helps me as well, and finding motivation outside myself when things go arye is crutial in not...|||I was not trying to undermind his efforts, yet he was self-satisfided after the fact, without actually putting forth more than what should be common in healthy friendships, thinking it was somehting...|||My actions were not understood, and so they sought a reason and placed upon it that which seemed most likely to them, which by definition is assumption. Its a common misunderstanding between NFs and...|||Its a solid article, not without bais, though. Its more focusing on unhealthy behavior, yet there is another concept that often gets blurred in with this. When ISFJs do something particularly, they...|||This is usually caused by people misunderstanding our perception being subjective as bais and unwilling to allow addittional information in. Its not that our perceptions a horribly skewed, its that...|||Letting it go, and seeing it for what it is. Not validating other's stupidity at your own expense. It says be angry, and do not sin. Anger is fine, anger is healthy, vengence is not. Take time to...|||I was over at an ENFP friend's house, after a few people had stayed the night. At the time, I did not have transportation, and her brother had to go to class, so her fiance was going to take me home....|||Its easy to forget things we have posted, and to misinterpt what someone else said. What else would you call this, though? Personal information used in a condecending way inorder to win an argument;...|||This was one of the first threads I ever wrote on here: Interactions Between NFs and ISFJs Issues descibed in the above thread are occuring in this conversation. There are key details in what I...|||Let me me make my motivation clear; I must stand in truth. I value harmony and hate conflict, but I can not idly watch as falsehood is presented. I have to overcome myself, because though harmony is...|||Dribble, shallow, and unwarranted. You simply provided a relevent data path for which to continue the conversation. You did nothing for him besides prolong an artificial conversation. So you had...|||I was speaking conceptionally here, because it depends on the subject, but I think I can give you an example. ISFJs tend to avoid conflict, which is a good thing, until it gets in the way of...|||Yep, ISFJs do not actively seek to help all the time like most people believe. We passively notice needs/wants(due to a Intorverted Perciving function), and act externally acorrding to our values...|||I have long and tiresomely defended against the misconception that ISFJs have a desire to be of value beyond that which common to man. A seemingly vast majority of ISFJs enjoy helping people, yet...|||You assume that you can withhold all information. They slightest tick is a seed of discovery to an ISFJ. No one really understands the rich inner world of an ISFJ either, its a trait shared among...|||You are the more dangerous of those who wonder into this forum. Those who outwardly spout type bias are seen as the trolls they are are, but those, as yourself, who have good intentions, leave an...|||Just because someone is not willing to show something, does not mean it can not be perceived. Emotion has nothing to do with this. You are telling me I am not seeing the big picture, I am telling you...|||This is exactly why I no longer frequent the forums. This statement is so utterly false, it is repugnant. Its just a narrative that is constantly perpetuated by people who misunderstand personality...'

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'664946 664954 664962 664986 665002|||I think it's sort of similar to M83 or something electronic. It doesn't have many (less than usual) lyrics. I think the song has the word true in the name. I'm not sure if it is true love. I...|||This is not a psychological question. I just heard a song and forgot its name and the artist and the only thing I remember is the cover of the album. It has two slightly transparent people (guy and...|||i know. what i mean is what action?|||i think it does. maybe it doesn't. What does it mean? What I mean is something that makes me make decisions. Something that has an impact in my life. Something that puts me in new situations|||Anything that makes me react inevitably and interact and get off my routine.|||I don't have a theory. Or do you mean like if I had a theory? Sorry, I thought it was. Why was this thread started then?|||I'm not sure what you are referring to exactly. Anyways, that's a belief.|||I don't know. I just do. I'm not happy.|||That was funny but it doesn't invalidate my arguments. We have been here for a tiny period of time compared to the history of life on earth. Plus, I really hope our scientific discoveries haven't...|||Appeal to probability Affirming a disjunct - wind exists and other forms of transportation too Appeal to consequences I'm not sure if I'm not repeating the fallacies. I think there are too many...|||It's inductive reasoning with a lot of fallacies....|||The moral decision for you. You can't tell what other people should do based on beliefs. It's like with religion.|||This is what I said:Truth is we can never be sure about anything. All our sentences that appear to be rational are a product of beliefs. The best we can do is what we believe will have the better...|||What do you mean KNOW? You know nothing. Nobody does. Experience is a very subjective and indirect method to know reality. It doesn't prove anything.|||that last sentence is a belief.|||what if plants have some sort of nervous system we aren't aware of? Truth is we can never be sure about anything. All our sentences that appear to be rational are a product of beliefs. The best we...|||I actually meant how to make something happen to me externally but thank you :)|||Next year as in the Fall of 2017 :)|||Nothing is going on. I don't know what to do. I need something to happen before I move out and go to college next year. Any tips?|||Is it very weird that I don't feel a connection with people from my family that I don't speak to on a regular basis or even at all? Is it weird that I don't feel they are family? Is it weird that I...|||I don't know. I wish I didn't need them. But I feel really useless if I am not doing something to reach a goal. I know we don't live to be useful but that's what I rationally know. What I feel is a...|||I don't know how to get off my routine... I don't know what I can do to find friends... I don't have any goals... I feel very inferior in the matter of activities and social life outside of school in...|||Please don't give up and believe you will stay this way forever. Try taking care of you (mentally), think about going to a psychologist and only then think about being productive. 608770|||Yes, but isn't there anything they have done that would make it clearer for us who to vote for? Otherwise, everyone is voting based on nothing! They can say whatever they want to convince us! ...|||I would have to disagree with your second statement. Anyway, are there any reliable reasons, based on actions rather than sayings that would make you vote for Trump over Hillary?|||Is that the only reason why you would vote for Trump over Hillary?|||God I hate this. I always forget to quote. Does anybody know how to delete a post?|||Can you tell me why? I'm not american either and it was very hard to search for reasons to vote for either Hillary or Trump. Most of what I found was videos making fun of them or non-relevant...|||.|||I said that I was ok and asked her why she asked me that. She said she thought I looked sad the day she came to pick up the computer. I'm pretty sure I didn't because I had smoked hash two hours...|||Great, now she saw rather depressing quotes and asked me very subtly if I'm okay... No, I just sing for fun. I'm too embarassed to have classes where the teacher will be focused on me singing. 5th...|||I know! Sometimes that happens to me too, but it is usually negative. I start thinking about how everyone just doesn't really feel you know? They just go through life and do things and it is all so...|||Hello! How do you plan to start a conversation? Do you know how to do it? Cause I don't but I would like to make a new friend here :)|||I haven't found out yet...|||Yes, I think so. Too much stress just blocks me and I stop thinking like I usually do. I once took 30min to answer a question of a test just because I was stressed for taking too long to answer the...|||When you believe you can make a pair of socks in ten days even though it took you a whole summer to make a scarf.|||Are you answering what I wrote between your quotes or the sentence where I say I don't know how to work with quotes?|||Sorry I don't know how to work with this quote thing yet.|||Sorry about the Game of Thrones reference. The God of Death is someone who decides who dies. His servants kill people in his name and if they let someone live, someone else must die. So when you...|||Sorry about the Game of Thrones reference. The God of Death is someone who decides who dies. His servants kill people in his name and if they let someone live, someone else must die. So when you...|||Thank you for answering! I smoke weekly and I didn't smoke a lot... I am afraid I will have another bad experience if I smoke weed because the first time this happened was with weed...|||A week ago I smoked half a spliff with originally a 1cmx1cm square of hash. Fifteen minutes later I started to feel the need to walk and my legs started cracking but it didn't hurt, it was just the...|||Vengeance=life debt,You're going to pay for it! is said in case of vengeance. Plus you have been seeing too much Game of Thrones. There is no Many-Faced God or God of Death. There is no debt. You...|||They are people! There are more important things than money!|||I know! I live in Portugal! I was surprised too! I agree with you but I still can't agree with death penalty, even in that situation. I know it seems like there wouldn't be another option but I...|||.|||Killing doesn't bring back the dead either. The purpose is not to clean the criminal's conscience, the purpose is to eliminate the wish to kill. This isn't about forgiving. That's too personal. We...|||Today I discovered 90% of my class supports death penalty. Those who don't support it, think death is not enough punishment and that criminals should suffer. I think that if everyone could be happy...|||I was wondering if I was the only one who has problems with authority. My friends are conformists and accept everything as it is. I can't stand it when someone has more rights than me, or when...'

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'What does Enigma mean? xNFJ // Enneagram 6 // Virgo // Generation X // Me|||I'm afraid of not ever meeting my potential. xNFJ // Enneagram 6 // Virgo // Generation X // Me|||I agree sin_alas.|||This sounds like me sometimes and no, for myself I would disagree with not being assertive. I am quite assertive for what I want at work but sometimes I just get overwhelmed with emotions and...|||I agree with you statement and perception of suicide Crossover.|||ronnie, this makes me hopeful but I really want to take my own life and succeed.|||NeemNeem: I'm the same way, especially with coworkers asking me about my personal life. How about they just fuck right off?|||I seem to be experiencing this loop right now.......|||ivory919, totally! Ok, so in my experience, these two types balance each other out. Where the ENTP (the one that I've known in my own life) can be an extreme on one end tending toward ADD...|||[Duplicate Post]|||[Duplicate Post]|||Definitely observing their argumentativeness with other people and general outgoingness.|||Which types have you found to click with in your personal experiences and what type is your latest/current partner (taking timing, chemistry, shared goals, etc. out of the picture for a moment)... ?|||That is so creepy and I regret to say that it actually made me look twice and laugh.|||This post is a little more positive and hopeful than I'm currently feeling (which is ahem, temporary <~ yeah fucking right...). Being an N in everyday life is exhausting. I feel like an alien...|||Couldn't agree with this more Ecoas. Could NOT agree with this MORE. Fml, I hate being this way, thinking this way. I wish I wasn't here anymore to be honest.|||6w5 hey? Are the following posts really commonalities that can be shared between us... inability to stay in the present moment, paranoia, anxiety? Do any of you work out using vigorous exercise,...|||Amore: I can relate to this when in an unhealthy state... What do YOU want or need when you get a chance to calm down all that inner turmoil of yours?|||Haha, I would never revisit these relationships in person (actually for one... never say never if we happened to be at the same place as the same time. Catastrophizing about other life situations and...|||Ok, I know dating and relationships include far more factors than just MBTI, but for INFJs out there... Which MBTI types have you... 1) dated most often 2) have you dated throughout your...|||Dear ENTJ men I meet (especially those older than me): Why are you so sexy?! From a playful INFJ|||Something to add to this thread about being an introverted intuitive, I often seem to (mentally) need more time, desire for more fulfilling work, in fact, always seem to desire more than what I have...|||GurrenZero: you believe this??|||I ADORE my ESFP mom. ISTP, ISFP, ENFP best friends. Get along superbly well with ENTP and ESTP... and by-far favourite coworker is an ESFJ.|||ISTPs, ENFJs, ESFJs and ISFJs. Work best with ESFJs for sure!|||I don't believe the Nelson Mandela celebration of life would be all over tv and the media........... if, in fact, Mandela was an NF as some sources suggest.|||Here goes nothin'! 1) I can speak 3 languages - 2 of these fluently as of right now. 2) I have a little mole on a hidden part of my body. 3) I'm US or Canadian-born, you guess :) 4) I'm full...|||[Deleted by Poster]|||26 female and currently maintaining-developing sensing function.|||Have to state that I don't like the way this question is presented because all INFJs are NOT the same. We are all shaped by our experiences, etc. and I find that some posts and lists make it...|||For those of you who are already out of the home and living independent lives from your parents-childhood families, do you ever find yourself idolizing or idealizing those closest to you? Such as...|||The trade is such a great idea @all_in_twilight!|||Thank you digitalroses and Marlowe. These inspired me to continue with my list of goals and also have this list serve as a visible reminder to help me out of major depressive episode(s) should I...|||Emerald_Legend: Totally. I'm in that boat with 'ya!|||thismustbetheplace: inspiring!|||RandomNote: be professionally certified and to settle down/buy a home.|||Senshu_Ben_Gone: thank you Senshu. I relate to this. All I see is work... work work work (that I hate). Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday... everything is the same right now.|||angelcat: the word, usefulness popped out at me when I read your reply. I woke up this morning thinking, F***, I'm freaking useless. Mixed with this constant need for completion in my brain,...|||laurelwren: have you considered stopping in and seeing a career or vocational counselor at a local college?|||TreasureTower:: I can relate to this. Sometimes I just blab away... in the heat of the moment without consideration of who may be listening. Rarely the case now, however.|||Can any of you describe or relate to experiences with depression followed by extreme introversion or vice versa?|||Oh, and ADD... ;)|||How I seem to have a mindgasm evvvvvvvvvery time I meet one in real life........!!!!|||Success to me, means overcoming the obstacles (whether within the self or external) to achieve a tangible goal. Success can also be defined by the intangible for me, such as a relationship with a SO,...|||@B.Toast: I grew up with an ESTJ father as well, but instead of disagreeing with him, I took his values as my own (without really realizing over the years). I work a corporate job that I can't say I...|||mutton: I know your post is old but thank you for posting. I agree that nutrition plays a huge part in onset or continuing depressed episodes..|||mbean1: can I ever relate to your post! Meditation truly seems to make a difference for this IMO.|||foxhead128: it's not a all-thinkers do this type of thing but if I am having a conversation with my INTP friend it could go something like this.. INTP: why the hell would old people choose to come...|||user87, I'm the same age too :)|||Welcome to the forum, Yorisen!'

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'I'm agnostic. I dont believe in the God that religions believe. But I do believe that others things can exist, things that we still can't understand (and it may never do). I'm studying...|||I hope I dont look like that in clubs (hope is the last thing you lost *Ni says in my head* that's what you say yourself when dancing like a drunk duck? *Ti says* FIGHT FIGHT FIGHT! *Se yells , who...|||So... I'm very into mbti and the cognitive functions and I'm also very interested in the Enneagram...but every time I take the test I have a new result :'D I usually score like 6w5, sometimes 1, and...|||Actualized type: INFJ (who you are) Introverted (I) 58.33% Extroverted (E) 41.67% Intuitive (N) 68.75% Sensing (S) 31.25% Feeling (F) 62.86% Thinking (T) 37.14% Judging (J) 60% Perceiving (P)...|||When you are discussing about a topic which you're passionate about and someone tells you okay but dont be angry or relax... and that's when I become the lost sister of a calmer Hulk 709266|||Me: INFJ Mother: ESFJ There are moments when I love her with all my heart. She's a little crazy, awkward and naive (my father say that I inherited that from her :'D) BUT then she has moments...|||Every INFJ (or everybody in general xd) SHOULD watch the film About time. It's not about romance, I would say that it's just a little part. This film is much more than just a typical romantic...|||I am so...angry and dissapointed right now and I just want to vent VENT VENT Well. I'm doing a new painting and yesterday I was searching a good quote to write. I chose FIND OUT WHO YOU ARE AND BE...|||I'm so so so sorry. I know exactly what you are feeling. The past holy week I lost my pet, she had cancer . I still remember the morning I woke up suddenly, hearing a strange breathing...my dog was...|||WOOOOOOhooooo, I become vegetarian a month ago :'D (Well, a vegetarian friend tells me to do it slowly so I still eat some fish) I did it for ethical reasons too. I had always wanted to be...|||This year I have had a ENFP roommate and it has been fucking great so...ENFP! I had almost the perfect balance of time alone and socializing. Like... I spent my year between university, cinema,...|||This year I have had a ENFP roommate and it has been fucking great so...ENFP! I had almost the perfect balance of time alone and socializing. Like... I spent my year between university, cinema,...|||1. An Ember in the ashes 2. Isla and Happily ever after 3. Éxodo (by Anissa B. Damon) 4. Obsidian 5. Just one day :hampster: Top 5 favourite films|||Last night I washed my hair three times cause the second I didnt remember to have washed before and the third one...welll...It was like... 654690|||Spain dsjkflhsj:puffer:|||Probably leave side. Maybe I would try to hear his version, try to understand it cause...well...we're humans, maybe he just made a mistake...But I probably couldn't trust in him ever again....|||Can exist in this world someone as cute, amazing and funny and crazyand EVERYTHING as ENFPs? NO. My roommate and one of the people I know will be my friend forever is ENFP. She's crazy. No,...|||I just wanna say that I FUCKING LOVE YOU SO FUCKING MUCH! Seriously. I have just had an amazing day with my ENFP friend and my (i thinks) ESTP friend and I'M SO FUCKING HAPPY. Like, we have been...|||What I want: Hear the love stories of all of you, infjs (or people who date with infjs, FEEL FREE TO SPEAK MY LITTLE GRASSHOPPERS!:hampster:) Why I want: sit down and prepare popcorns cause I like...|||Absolutely xd Moreover, I CANT write anything without love. Every story that I have written (and never finished xd :'D) has its part of love. I mean, I have to write a separate plot cause I dont...|||AMAZING. Your poem couldnt be more true and more beautiful and more inspiring and more perfect and yes, I LOVE IT! THANKS, This part will remain in my mind forever: THANKS!...|||I would say...1 book in 10 years, cause If I write a book, that book must be fucking incredible. And I dont care the time I use to write it. Also, I hate the pressure to write a book within a...|||Wow, I have lived these mistyping crisis quite times. I always want to prove I'm INFJ because of the many mistyped INFJ that there are. But then I look at the cognitive functions, how I thought...|||I feel quite idiot cause I havent read many classic or philosophical books :hopelessness: but I'm just 19 so...I have time xd I usually love to read YA, distopic, fictional books etc. I really...|||This song is so fucking beautiful :hampster: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g1C3RW1ztvc|||I just wanted to thank you. Your post is SO powerful. I was quite depressed reading the INFJ 6w5 descriptions, 'cause I dont see myself SO SO PARANOIC and depressing ... and when I read your post...|||I dont know if it's the same case but I'm INFJ and sometimes, even when I LOVE the person who I talk to, I simply stop talking them in a while. simply cause I just need time to me or I'm just doing...|||(I'm not venting about infj problem in it...but :frustrating:) Well, people who say that about male problems are sexist, and it's not okay but that doesnt mean female problems are less important...|||This explain quite well how Ni works: I observe everythings (even without noticing I do) and I gather every little detail I see and make a conclusion of it. So predict isnt the word exactly...|||Well, then be careful, someone may come to call you imposter because of that :whoa:|||And...why? :Smilies3:|||this. T.H.I.S. I do this a lot of times. I'm listening to music and suddenly hit me a HAPPY FEELING and I begin to run around my house xd Also, with books...yes...I DO THAT A LOT. With tv series...|||Well, I relate with almost all. Not in are you okay? only if I notice the person isnt okay at all. I mean, (and here come the part of i know you better than you know yourself) sometimes I see...|||OMG...I havent read the book but when I read the quotes was like...SHE.IS.INFJ. ABSOLUTELY. she could be me xd|||I agree. Most of my friends are ENTP (some who in the past had a crush on me). One of them was my last crush. He is soooo fucking crazy. His Ne is everywhere and I had a moment when I liked him a...|||Absolutely. Lux series is the perfect example of ENTP male/infj female relationship. ABSOLUTELY. Now there is a book from the boy perspective(It's called Oblivion) , and while I was reading it It was...|||I'm not that really good in typing real people, but if he was INFJ...wow, I'm absolutely terrified xd I, as INFJ, cant imagine to murder MILLIONS people due to a fantasy or whatever which hitler...|||I'm 19 but I could imagine myself (ABSOLUTELY) like you six year later :ball: SERIOUSLY. I feel the same cause all my cousins and my sister have boyfriend and my ESFJ mom is like why havent you...|||Uf...oh...wait...I'm still shocked... Wow, You almost made me cry. Seriosuly. In a few lines you almost made me cry. You have captured my fears in a relationship GOD and it's so hard to read them...|||The first two songs make me feel so so infj vibes and I can relate a lot https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h_uzF-Tdw0g (I read that the singers (or at least one) were infp what makes sense too...|||Te (Extroverted Thinking) (65%) your valuation of / adherence to logic of external systems / hierarchies / methods Ti (Introverted Thinking) (45%) your valuation of / adherence to your own...|||- Decorate my new room. I LOVE it . - See my dirty room and to clean it, organizing all. I feel so fulfilled :hampster: - Libraries or bookshop. To see books that I have read being published. It...|||this part give me so many vibes from Batman vs Superman. :hopelessness: You are so Batman at first of the movie xd Buuuut yes, I understand your point. VERY VERY MUCH. I try not to judge....|||I'm not native english so It would be a little difficult to me but...Your story is absolutely cute and beautiful. I dont know why, I feel that way sometimes (like Joe xd :') ) and the hope who is...|||wow...I just can applaud you.|||Well, this depend a lot of the development of each type. I mean, maybe an INFJ cant support an unhealthy ENTP . Also, it depend the time of your life. I mean, if you dont meet the ENTP in their good...|||Wow, I'm sure there are other types of INFJs but (again) WOW this is a good classification. I would say I am more type 1. Very type one. But how more people have said here It depends the time of my...|||This was the first test I took xd OHHH THE MEMORIES! :puffer: My percentage changes every time I take the test (cause yeah...I have repeated this one quite times xd) butttt INFJ-T Introverted...|||OMG, i wouldnt have baby dogs NEVER. like...having sex with a strange? MMHMMM EXCUSEEE MEEE? xd And ...DONT YOU DARE TO SMELL MY FUCKING ASS all day :hampster: Calmed sometimes...BUT ABSOLUTELY...|||I see your point but...wow...this is so stereotype (about women) xd It depend the girl you meet. Yes, maybe you met quite girls who were that way but...that...there are like many other personalities...'

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'I don't hate commitment, I just don't like people who are clingy. Being committed to someone don't necessarily mean that you're forever in shackles. It just depends on the person and whether or not I...|||Sloths are my favorite.|||I've been reading Brom Stoker's Dracula and I'm loving it. It is getting a little slow near the end but it's pretty good.|||How do you fit and differ from ISTP stereotypes? I think so. I remember one thing I didn't agree was the one about loving outdoor activities. I like them, but I am too lazy.. haha Also, have...|||I only seems to figure out who's not the one.|||I don't like the thin and sleek designs of today's electronic devices :( I like sturdy, rugged, tank-like stuff... Oh, and Instagram, I don't like that. I actually like my (white) iPhone better...|||Any types and forms of lying, Beating around the bush, Whining without making any effort, Asking/snooping around me to see what I'm up to, Sore losers. People who can't mind their own...|||Assuming the other person knows is dangerous not only when you're dealing with ISTPs but all other people. I would definitely think of the situation as cheating and it's probably a good thing to...|||I think I'm pretty much always happy. Not the sort of giddy, filled with excitement type of happy but happy nonetheless. I do get annoyed and stuff but that doesn't really make me sad or anything. I...|||I internet stalk for two reasons. 1) I know things will never work out ever but I'm just curious what he's up to. I don't care or expect to talk to him or anything, it's just meaningless...|||Well, I personally wouldn't want anyone's help. I'd say just give him some space to think things through.|||No. I always believed that if I feel I don't love my partner anymore, it's better for both of us to end it. I don't want to force myself to stay if it's clearly not working and I don't the the other...|||The only time I don't like being an ISTP is when dealing with family. I always say something too direct, aloof and analytical when family members need comforting. It's always like Ah, shit. a...|||I also don't care what consequences my answers will bring. If they have a problem with my answer, it's their problem really. I always forget the question in the middle of answering them...|||You know you're an ISTP when you always want the most durable and rugged design for EVERYTHING.|||I hope things get better for you soon. Hang in there, man.|||Only if they had some sort of impact on me. I think I remember the dreams where I feel something emotional, like fear, excitement etc. But I think I do forget most of them.|||I get really depressed when I'm in a situation where I have nothing to do or can't do anything. The feeling of uselessness gets me down so much :'( I feel depressed until I find something to do, then...|||I never really encountered cops (other than for asking for directions), but I find them attractive cause they emit a sense of toughness. Not sure how many of them could be ISTPs but I'd make a bad...|||Comfort is always a plus but I don't mind as long as I don't have to sleep on dirt or something. (but I'd be fine if I was ready for it.)|||Are you feeling angry and jealous because of something your partner did or does? If that's the case, you should talk to him and try to fix it. Tell him how you feel when certain things happen maybe. ...|||I got a cool looking, cheap clock and its ticking was waay too loud. I was like meh, I'll try to do something and if it breaks, it's not a big deal, I just liked how it looked anyways. So I opened up...|||Well, I guess there are some ISTP ladies here. I actually have the same question, but in finding ISTP guys haha ISTPs are fascinating, I'd like to meet one in real life myself too.|||I did play Pokemon games when I was little but never finished them. I just prefer watching them on tv. Same thing with Yugioh or any other types of games like that. I hate memorizing types and names...|||From Korean to English and vice versa :)|||Hahaha that was hilarious! I would never be that dedicated enough to do that sort of thing though haha|||Recently, I got a job as a freelance translator to translate Youtube videos and it's been super fun even though my pay is pretty pathetic. I'll also be translating a book and that's really exciting...|||You know you're an ISTP when you see an interesting thread in the other subforums, enter it to make a comment, notice things are getting too intense for your liking, leave, then come to ISTP forum...|||That's nice to hear that you're getting sincere support! Wish you the very best in life, sir.|||Oh nooo... just reading this pains me... I don't want to ever go through with something like this unless I REALLY loved them for some reason. I wouldn't handle someone like that if I had the chance...|||You have to talk to him without getting emotional, that's all. I personally don't mind talking about feelings and things that make me uncomfortable, but if someone is getting too emotional (angry,...|||My god that was hilarious.|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NHkr2zDZUiI I just watched this and found it really funny haha This literally happens to me all the time!|||Wytch Well, I don't see the point in complaining if you're not going to do anything about it. xfatalxsnipez I would imagine they want to fix it if they're complaining, but they just seem to think...|||It's too annoying when people complain about a problem to me and they don't want to do anything about it even when I give them pretty good advice that might actually fix it. What's up with that? Why...|||Be honest with him and let him decide whether or not he wants to. You can't make it work just because you want it to.|||Bugs. Big and tiny. The only time I scream and freak out is when there is a bug present... I also hate fish heads, they sort of freak me out too.|||I never want to dance.|||I think I would have fun as a computer engineer (hardware). Or a gem worker. Anything where I can work with cool stuff and use my hands to get somewhat creative and have cool outcomes.|||I think anything can be art. I don't think art has to be something meaningful and serious, or even pleasant. I think art is something that is not natural, but shaped and molded and controlled and...|||I wouldn't know, I never met you! haha|||I don't mind ldr at all as long as they don't get obsessive and possessive with me. As long as they trust me and I trust them, no problem.|||To be honest, I'm not that fond of the idea of traveling. As exciting as it must be, I sort of see no point in it. However, I am very interested in actually living abroad for a while because I...|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lCFJUfXAvXk|||I'm not sure what psychosomatic pain is exactly, but I think I experienced something similar. When I was younger, I used to get a lot of headaches, stomachaches, and chest pains when I felt...|||Noooo hahahaha ew lol what kind of hat is that :laughing: Tennis skirts? yay or nay? https://cdn1.thehunt.com/app/public/system/zine_images/9147660/original/206265396f6af8f007b0bb62f16a5227.jpeg|||554642 This is the face I make when my favorite singer in the world is right there. Can you feel the excitement? lol|||lol well, I hope you get laid this summer too man.|||I think I'm starting to get over my near 10 year old crush and it feels really weird but good. Please move on with your life self, now's your chance!|||I guess it would depend on the context. I don't like using emoticons or emojis but I've gotten complaints from other people that I sound too cold when I text haha So I use them a lot now but I...'

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'I thought everyone may want an update. I met with the therapist today and we have a marriage counseling session set for next Thursday. He said he would end the emotional affair and did want to try...|||He is being a coward. He text me yesterday but didn't mention wanting to meet up and talk about things. He hasn't called at all. I haven't heard from him today. I don't know that he wants to try and...|||I can emphasize with you and I'm sorry for ever hurting you (I certainly didn't mean to). I didn't even know you felt that way. I don't think it's an unforgivable offence but if we are going to work...|||I can't really take a vacation right now. Believe me, I've thought about running home to mom. He just communicated to me that he has been really unhappy for a really long time. He said when he would...|||I am certainly trying to be strong. There has been crying ( a lot of crying) and soul searching. I am really hurt. I can't even wrap my mind around the fact that there IS another woman. Even if they...|||He text me this morning. I'm sorry I kept all that from you. By the time it developed into what it did I just didn't know hwo to explain it. I don't know why I feel the need to be so secretive.. ...|||It did not go well. I asked him to be honest with me and he said okay. I asked him what was going on and he saying nothing. He just lied and lied and lied until I showed him the hard cold facts that...|||Thank you all for the advice and the prayers. I hope he admits his betrayal (regardless of the depth). I'm going to try really really try to talk to him in a calm manner. Give him the option the be...|||I've never had a problem with him having female friends, ever. I have male friends. I have found out that he has been talking to her for over a year and several hours a week. Tons of text and picture...|||1) Why are we together? 2) Do we want to stay together? 3) Why do we want to stay together? 4) What will our lives look like in 5 years if we stay together? I'm going to do this, I need...|||Cinnamon83 So now I've taken the Enneagram test and scored a 3. It said that often, people in leadership or management (me) score an 8 but are really a 3 (the achiever). So I tried to compare the 3...|||There is certainly emotional issues, as discussed multiple times on the thread. Again, he is not showing any signs of depression although he is stressed out with work. He is still touchy feely,...|||I told him two weeks ago that if we wanted out now was the time. He doesn't want out. He isn't showing signs of depression. I've let him be several time over the past 15 months but I don't know...|||You are correct and I can sum that all up in one word communication.|||Sorry, that came out wrong. What I meant to say is, we have identified which love language we each need. I know he seeks quality time like you mentioned. He also likes gift so I pick him up little...|||Spoken like a true ENTP (this is what I would have asked too). Yes, there was pressure to get married and he even admitted to having commitment issues from his father leaving his family when he was...|||I have read it and we do have different love languages. I think we both fulfill most of them, just not the physical one (besides cuddling).|||Alles_Paletti It's not unfixable probably but you need to restore trust. The question is not what should you do but what should you stop doing. And what you should stop doing is trying to...|||I'm not fat. I'm tiny. If that was the problem, I could fix it.|||I figured that question out. Sensitive Doers are ISFP and that fits him. But so does the ISTP - The Individualistic Doer. Could he be both? Individualistic Doers are self-assured and very...|||Cinnamon83 I don't know enough about all of this but can an ISTP be the The Sensitive Doer ? Sensitive Doers are gentle, modest and reserved persons. They cope well with everyday life and like...|||Well he is kind of an odd ball. The artist fits him in a lot of ways. This is a guy who called himself a hippie and a conservative at the same time. He procrastinates all the time and has been...|||It does look like I threw up all over it! Wasn't my fault - promise!|||Redhotpengy The description I found did and he would point that out but regardless... Cinnamon83- you may disagree with this... Okay, go with me on this Windmill Slam this may be up your ally. ...|||I think he actually may be ISFP, a good bit more so than ISTP, although he would disagree and say I'm not sensitive.|||I think I figured out part of what he doesn't like about me...wow. (cross-posted). ESTJ Relationships The ESTJ is outspoken, a person of principles, which are readily and directly...|||I think I figured out part of what he doesn't like about me...wow. ESTJ Relationships The ESTJ is outspoken, a person of principles, which are readily and directly expressed. ESTJs are not...|||I agree and I have, that is why he is seeking professional help. It blows my mind though that he won't even try anymore. He isn't selfish so I can't fathom why he doesn't want to at least try and...|||Or text.|||CanisLycaon He would hate that and tell me I'm not 50 shades of Gray.|||You sort of lost me on this. I am not flirting with other men now and I wouldn't do that to intentionally try to make him jealous. I was totally kidding about being kidnapped.|||Ha! If I wasn't a ESTJ I would do just that! I'm a workaholic so it's kind of like I'm not here a lot. Does that count? And I never commanded that he see a shrink, that was his idea. :-)|||CanisLycaon Bahahaha I love it. I actually thought of this the other day but I don't know if he would go for it. Roll-play date night - I go to the bar and tell him to meet me there and hit on...|||Windmill Slam Wow, thank you for all of that! I agree with you that he has developed J and also think he borders T and F. I like ISTJ Strengths and Weaknesses | 16Personalities too. It's very...|||Windmill Slam Wow, thank you for all of that! I agree with you that he has developed J and also think he borders T and F. I like ISTJ Strengths and Weaknesses | 16Personalities too. It's very...|||@ Eikichi Yes, that was kind of my norm. I would dress up cute/themed for his birthday, Christmas, Valentine's day, etc. Wear his favorite short skirt around the house or suggest we run by the adult...|||In fact, I loved it because it is so true but it doesn't help me fix the sex thing. I'm only 30 and I want to have sex with my husband. It's not a crazy thought. It's not just the act of sex but the...|||Ik3 Thank you for that! :-) I do want it to work and that is why I joined the group. Since he and his therapist think we may have a personality conflict, I thought what better place to seek advice.|||Also, you never answered my previous suggestion. Has he been tested for low testosterone levels? That would've been my first guess as to why someone would suddenly stop being interested in sex with...|||Perhaps. I don't think so though.|||I looked into the Socionics and I think you may be right about the Mirrors. Any good links you can share?|||I've tried that. I have the list, spreadsheets, etc. :-(|||It is an Italian opera but it also is a spin off of my last name so I'm using it as my alter ego. :-)|||Thanks for the reply. That is basically what we do every night though. Last night was chill; we cooked out, had a few drinks, talked about our day, the upcoming holiday, the news and watched a show....|||Seamaid It is cross-posted on the ISTP forum. He does certainly value his freedom and I have known that from the start. I also value mine and we don't do everything together. He is paying attention...|||Done. Sorry.|||He is a healthy 31 year old. I cook dinner most nights and cook healthy. We get out and about on the weekends. He isn't the gym type but he likes to sail and bike.|||Thanks for all of that and yes, if anyone else has insight, please help. Thanks!|||Forte No, not even close.|||Lord Fudgingsley The difference is, you were able to communicate that to him and my husband can't communicate anything to me. If it's not a ISTP trait, it is passive-aggressiveness that we are...'

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'I'll post this one again: Interested but we haven't connected on a deeper than superficial level: I'm listening and smiling a lot. There's hope. Interested: I'm watching you a lot - intensely....|||Life can be very difficult. I've had trouble with friendships all of my adult life. My perception is that most people just don't value friendship the way INFJs do. Choose carefully those you allow...|||You're quite welcome. One thing I do to make tough decisions is to ask myself if I will regret the decision later. How will you feel about it if you do? or if you don't? Just get some rest and...|||Sure, I'll tell you what I do. To feed my bank account, I'm the business manager for an engineering company (water/wastewater). I work with a great group of guys; I love engineers! Previously, I...|||Wooing a shy woman of amy personality type will necessarily be different than wooing a woman who is not shy. My mate pursued elusive me, with no luck, until he asked for and took advice from my good...|||Wow, guys. We're all human with instinctual drives, wants and needs. So long as you don't act on it... It's what you do that matters. Thinking that someone is sexually attractive has nothing to do...|||snort. Interested but we haven't connected on a deeper than superficial level: I'm listening and smiling a lot. There's hope. Interested: I'm watching you a lot - intensely. Or I'm looking at...|||There are many things an INFJ can do for a living. You'll probably find that you have an occupation that feeds your bank account and other occupations that feed your soul. Just try to make the bank...|||I scored 10 violet, 10 blue, 9 indigo, 8 crystal. Seems to fit quite well.|||Always INFJ, to varying degrees. But always INFJ. Since I came out of my cave last summer, and just let myself be who I am, my I and N functions have increased.|||The MBTI test result of INFJ was a life changing revelation for me. Hey, I'm not weird; I'm a lot like about 2% of the rest of the population! Yes, I go AWOL rather often. I'm around people all day...|||[QUOTE=PlushWitch;1009462]I have hypoglycaemia. After trying many different things from simply eating healthy to eating no carbs at all, I have found out for myself that a low-carb and high protein...|||lack of sleep would warp anyone's opinion, perhaps even time itself. Get some sleep - it'll be better tomorrow.|||My first introduction to personality tests was when the HSP book grabbed me from the bookshelf at the natural food store. Click - the light went on! I cope by limiting the degree of noise, wearing...|||Procrastination ALWAYS costs a lot - generally, money. That's incentive enough for me. I tell myself to get it done and over with, or else it hangs over my head like a cannon ball. And then I make...|||LOVE this series! Taking me to see Serenity was my (ex)husband's birthday gift to me. He scored big brownie points on that one! I love Mal's absolute loyalty to his crew, his willingness to do...|||You put this so well. I'm INFJ with a bit of bashfulness, but I can organize anything. I like to get right down to it and get it done, and actually enjoy doing it. I LOVE telling people what to do!!...|||Now that I live alone, I find that I am more outgoing and willing to interact in social situations. For example, I love to go out and dance. I can interact with strangers - it's very superficial. But...|||When you're talking, I'm watching you intently, listening to everything you say, seeing everything you're saying, evaluating everything I see and hear. In other words, whatever you're saying is...|||quoted from XXXDesire. OR 4. We are peering inside your mind, summing up every little thing you say to get to the core of your soul, your dreams, your motivations, what made you yourself and why you...|||I grew up in S TX and moved to Colo as a young adult. AND LOST MY ACCENT. My sisters are twins who as children spoke 'twin-speak' compounded with an R lisp, which they still have. When I return to...|||From what I've been reading in this forum, this seems to be INFJ behavior - too many people, let's get the business done and over with so I can get out of here. My feelings exactly! (INFJ business...|||After reading all these responses, which were very interesting!!, it brings to mind a brief moment in the company of a stranger. He asked the usual questions, such as name, where do you live, where...|||the cigarette is not a turn-on.|||Vel - Very well said.|||I recently entered the dating scene. Divorce was final almost a year ago, so I guess that's long enough. I'm somewhat bashful around people I don't know. I can meet new people and talk to them in a...|||Been there, done that... be careful of wishing you would get sick and die. The getting sick part is really bad. And it might not kill you, just leave you as a broken husk of what you once were. What...|||onigosh. I'm so sorry. My heart bleeds for you.|||I'm an INFJ. I LOVE to pull pranks and jokes on my co-workers. I laugh and smile a lot, though I am serious when necessary.|||You think she's boring?? You just haven't followed the right path.... If she's anything like me, she has a lot of different interests and loves to learn about or hear something new. Maybe it's not...|||I love the term ambivert. Very expressive!|||I went through a period when my intuition was blocked. It was after I attended a 10 month training course that caused a lot of change, where I learned a lot. Too much input. Had to shut down for my...|||11 or 37% acts of service (Love is an action, not just a spoken word) 10 or 33% quality time 6 or 20% physical touch 2 or 7% receiving gifts 1 or 3% words of affirmation (Love is an action,...|||Ever heard of Reiki? Take a class. Or Shiatsu or Jin Shin. You'll learn a bit about how to manage energy.|||I like tats and usually I like piercings. Tattos can be very beautiful - another way of appreciating art. Piercings - I think that depends on location, quantity and what's stuck through them. Again -...|||It's a mistake to interpret quiet and reserved with door mat - they get their ankles and toes bitten.|||yep, see all the way through to their souls with my INFJ eyes.|||-The INFJ will need support and verbal support from their mate. Donx92t we all?? I like talking things over with a mate. It helps to have feedback and differing perspective. - Criticism is death to...|||Read the book, The Highly Sensitive Person. Changed my life. There is an author's website devoted to this subject. I manage my energy by keeping my interaction with other people to a level I can...|||Think of it as training: give them the tools and let them be. I raised my teenagers as adults in training. Which was a good thing because the youngest is one of those who must make her own mistakes...|||I would much rather have a conversation with another intuitive type. Verbal words just don't seem to flow well from my mouth, but I do have an ENTP friend who gets what I say without all the filler....|||Many years ago when I was laid low by grief and loss, one thing that kept me going is that if I died, I might have to do it all again in my next life. Didn't want to do that, so I held on. My life is...|||Zomboy, eating is good. Food is good. Nourishment is good. Try to see the beauty around you. If it isn't there, make some. There is always SOMETHING to live for.|||I don't hear that much anymore. I smile a lot, listen intently, ask a pertinent question, and listen again. If they ask why I am so quiet, I respond that I love watching people and listening to their...|||I would DANCE!!! and SING!!! WHENEVER I WANT TO! I would use my art materials a lot more often. I would play my musical instruments a lot more often. I would walk in nature and admire all I see.|||Couldn't live without the long silences, the beauty of the trees, wildflowers all summer long, the foxes that live in my neighborhood (I could live without the skunks). Bears, birds, etc. Having the...|||I dont' do guilt trips. People try, so I say, I don't do guilt trips, then they keep trying! They think that if they change the words around, I'll fall for it in a different way. Idiots.|||Perhaps a different definition of the L word? I love my friends dearly and none of them possess me. Some people behave as though love is synonymous with possession. There are plenty of us who don't...|||That was very well said.|||I think you should wear what you want to wear. To heck with them! One of the things you can do to be who you really are is to wear whatever expresses the way you feel on that day or that time or for...'

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'The Zeitgeist Movement is not affiliated with the Zeitgeist movies, although I heavily support those as well. This is the Movement's position on Conspiracy Theories: SOURCE:...|||I think people feel easy around me, as I make fun of myself and entertain them. It depends though, some people I am serious around. It really depends if I feel comfortable around THEM. Don't...|||Hey guys, I don't know if anyone here remembers me, but I used to post here quite a bit. I have moved to the Zeitgeist Movement forums and as a result, have become much more calm and stable. I don't...|||Haha, I'm pretty static nowadays. :happy:|||It has been a LONG time since I was last into MBTI. The interest just died for me. Judging from my recent posts, do you think I am an INTP or something else?|||http://www.ocf.berkeley.edu/~jskong/orly.gif|||I go with the BMI, although it isn't perfect. I consider overweight or greater to be the equivalent of fat. My BMI is 24.1 and I consider myself fat, so I guess it is subjective. :P ...|||I don't see how people could get addicted to weed. :confused: I'm not saying that people don't get addicted as my sister has bong parties every weekend (and today! What the fuck? People are over...|||I've done it twice with my friends. The strange thing is... the feeling was already familiar to me the first time I smoked. That is the only non-medical drug I have ever consumed. :mellow: ...|||Or you can do what Grish did. :proud: I updated the OP with that link example.|||Guys, the hot-link pictures (the girl in the door and the woman on the piano) keeps reappearing. My first link works. I'm not sure why yours don't.|||Aerorobyn, for some reason when you actually post pictures from that site it always shows that girl in the door. I have no idea why. :mellow: Just post the link. :tongue: EDIT: Your post just...|||Hah. Post it. :tongue:|||Post the photograph on the chart that most closely resembles your own height and weight. http://www.cockeyed.com/photos/bodies/heightweight.shtml ...|||To be completely honest, I am trying to stop coming here. I don't understand why I keep coming back. Nostalgia, I suppose. :frustrating:|||INTP Naturalistic Pantheist This is false. Atheism is simply lack of a belief in gods and goddesses. The term says absolutely nothing about other supernatural phenomena. The term that is used...|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sA8PaIw5gcE I have been suicidal for much more life as well. I only have one piece of advice: FUCK what others think you should do. What is the most important thing...|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AM5C8Azltno http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=erGwnIkSA_I http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=leyKvqKKLOU&feature=channel zday2010.org thezeitgeistmovement.com...|||Guten Morgen! Wie geht's? Ich bin sehr gut warum heute ist ZDAY! :laughing: zday2010.org Ich bin in New York! :happy:|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g5GqmUrnarY Neither. Liberal / Conservative is a false dichotomy.|||http://earthship.net/images/stories/1home_slides.jpg http://earthship.org/|||Haha wanna, you made it too easy to know who you are talking about. :crazy: (I agree with you that the person is ignorant, but no one has made me be ashamed to be the same as them, not even...|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GxNuIUFF-1k&feature=channel http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=leyKvqKKLOU http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=erGwnIkSA_I&feature=channel Videos made by myself. :happy:|||I would declare the Earth the common heritage of all the world's people in a global resource based economy, applying the Scientific Method for social concern. ...|||I beg to disagree with that statement, but I won't. You know what I mean. :happy: As for me, yeah, I had a pet rock once, but I got angry at it and threw it into the forrest. Yep. That was the end...|||Not enough people post in this thread. :crying: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4F-CpE73o2M|||I wouldn't take the mark/implantable chip and I would not follow him. My reason has absolutely nothing to do with the Bible as it is fiction, but more with skepticism of leaders in general.|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o9LwhdXGQFg|||Planning to major in Design for Sustainability (Eco Design) and minor in Environmental Science. I want to be an independent activist documentary filmmaker on the side, in other words: NOT FOR PROFIT.|||Beware of Quantum Mysticism. What the Bleep Do We Know? is a steaming pile of shit, to put it lightly. :happy:|||YouTube - Explosions In The Sky- Your Hand In Mine|||YouTube - IAMX - Kiss & Swallow|||Closed mouth. Open mouth seems extremely unnatural to me. :confused:|||I used to listen to this band and I didn't even know they were a religious band. Oh well. :crazy: YouTube - Relient K- When I Go Down|||And why I am an apersonalityist. :p Posted via Mobile Device|||http://www.youtube.com/watch#v=y0s7ycdUcHk&feature=related|||It depends on the evidence of the particular theory.|||I used to repress my emotions. I'm pretty sure that if I held them in a bit longer I would kill someone. Yeah, whether or not you like it, we are emotional creatures and we need to find ways to...|||My current muse - YouTube - The never-ending why-Placebo lyrics|||Also, there are many music recommendations at this thread.|||I'm not sure what genres of music you are into, but: Last.fm - Listen to free music with internet radio and the largest music catalogue online Pandora Radio - Listen to Free Internet Radio, Find...|||If someone wants to make a signature for me, go ahead. Please don't make this request a priority though. :happy:|||Behavior is emergent, it is based on the current environment that the organism, you, are in. There is no static self that has a static personality. Yes, I am on Personality Cafe and I don't...|||Tbh, all I usually check is Critical Thinking and Philosophy. :mellow:|||http://blog.flecksoflife.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/12/God-King-Obama.jpg I do not hate, I love all, but Obama is severely misguided.|||I'm not cold or insensitive, I just have trouble proving otherwise. :3|||Congrats K! :proud:|||http://pix.motivatedphotos.com/2008/11/13/633621505224922594-chaoticgood.jpg http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u6KXgjLqSTg|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e-CWXagX8MM|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T01Q7dXZEWs'

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'Brother: 76538 Sister: 76539 Mom: 76540 Dad:|||I love you because you were among the first to welcome me here and offered nice, intellectually stimulating conversation. You're intelligent, kind, and what the heck?- I love you just cuz.|||I've been in a sort of long-distance relationship since 2011 and he and I just recently met on the 10th of this month. We spent one (incredible) week together. Now that he is back home, I am left...|||Marry me.|||Fiona Apple, Mother Mother, Gorillaz, Pink Floyd.|||Butts4life|||Thank you very much! You are too sweet. :)|||75159 Poofy haired fool.|||I do this with just about everything. I can't say that it is an INFP thing, though I will say that I have taken the nickname thing to a whole new level.|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4FDcTyyXQb8 Even though we ain't got money, I'm so in love with you honey...|||I'm actually pretty good about keeping up with stuff, but in the event that I do misplace something- I u200brage.|||Absolutely. It is at times overwhelming, and I am left unable to do anything but smile like a fool. I would liken its intensity to a psychedelic experience. Sometimes too profound an experience to be...|||1. Frustrated with all that is going on at home right now. The conflict is never ending. The children deserve some peace. 2. Lonely. Missing a special someone. <3 Wondering what he's up to, and...|||I used to be very opposed to the use of violence, no matter the reason. ...Until one day I had just had enough of my father's drunken bullshit that I could think only of harming him, and acted on...|||I used to spend a great deal of my time here. Lately I've not given this site much attention, and I miss you guys.|||So many beautiful colors out there... too indecisive to choose just one. I think I'm going to go with: All of them.|||I'm awful at rejecting anyone... I have been called a 'tease', and I've been accused of leading others on because I am nice, and don't know how to say no. I also have a bad habit of returning to...|||-INFP -Scorpio -Pig -Water What a combination.|||I could understand how one could come under the impression that I am indifferent, or do not care, but this is absolutely not the case. I am, more often than not, far more focused on the well-being...|||I do, I do. I'm always singing. I used to be shy about it, but I've become more open about it as of late.|||I like it all... Sometimes it is one more than the other, but generally, I am accepting of and capable of attraction to people of all gender identities.|||36045<3 <3 <3 <3 <3|||Cheer up, buttercup.|||Oh man, where have I been? I want in on this...|||I am too empathetic for my own good. I've said before that it is as if I don't possess any feelings of my own, and that I just take on the general attitude of those around me.|||Come and get it.|||Well, I'm open minded. Throw em at me. :)|||Algebra is my favorite. I despise geometry, but that could have more to do with my dislike of the teacher I had. Math is relatively simple, in my opinion. It isn't something I find...|||I've recently lost my closest friend to a new significant other, and drugs. I've had quite a difficult time with the realization of this loss. We still talk, on occasion, but I am certain things...|||I agree with this. I desire a lasting relationship more than most things. Commitment does not scare me. In fact, it excites me.|||This. This... What.. the hell? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hfhF1thmPeg|||Right! How can anyone listen to this? YAK.|||Whoa whoa. It took me a minute to figure out what you were talking about. We look alike, ay?|||I suppose I like my name. It isn't as unique as I'd like it to be, but I'm not complaining. If and when I have a child or children, I will be sure to give them/him/her something more creative. I...|||He hadn't thought himself to be any particular type. He was not very familiar with MBTI before I suggested he take a test. I thought he was an ESTP, but I suppose I was wrong.|||I would really want to have a child with my partner, but it would not be mandatory, especially if the desire to have a child wasn't mutual. There is a huge part of me that wants to be a mother, but...|||Strange. In my experience, I've attracted a great deal of INTJs, which I thought to be odd. I was convinced that the fellow I'm currently pursuing was an ESTP, but he tested INTJ. I can't help...|||I suck at looking normal and inconspicuous in a store. I'm constantly looking around, imagining that other people think that I'm stealing. I'm careful to remove my phone from my pocket, and even...|||Yes. In September of 2010, I created a Facebook account. This is going to sound ridiculous, but please bear with me: There was a fellow I lurked on regularly, in hopes that he would...|||I love you for this.|||34599 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3|||I was in this situation last weekend, with an ENTP, except it didn't go so well. Damn you, cheap liquor.|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Libs49a0k5w&ob=av2e http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ts48QokyYao http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1d9WBgPgnbI http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C4D1HSL7P98|||Why did I cry?|||I could not agree more... with every bit of this.|||I'm a scaredy cat. Maybe when I get a new acoustic. :)|||It's not easy, my friend. I start each day with a breakfast of champions, and still, I struggle.|||I love to sing, and am in the midst of learning guitar. I'd like to someday get acquainted with the piano, but with my lack of motivation, who knows whether or not that will happen. I can air...|||34506Meet this bitch. Her name is Slapchop. I hate animals. Even little wookie here. Pictures of the kitty cat to come...|||34426 I wish you were her... Was supposed to be HERE.'

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'What exactly am I doing? I asked a question... I left this open for discussion, I did not take a position before asking the question...it is and was open to discussion with no intention on...|||Nell Jamaia I have actually thought about this situation for years. Not being crass but I have previously considered everything you've both just said. I am Pro-Life for some of these very...|||This exact comment is why I said I was done a long time ago...ill suffice it to say that this is the one situation in America where people are okay denying what should be a constitutional right to an...|||There are numerous situations in which two people find themselves at odds over life altering decisions capable of affecting them financially, physically, and/or emotionally. In all other cases...i.e....|||I can appreciate your concern, but we cannot limit a persons civil liberties based on our fear of what happens when we let them exercise said liberties. You do realize that all of those situations...|||You aren't the one I was saying deals the punishment...I am saying that society in general stereotypes men (somewhat justifiably) and the laws reflect an attitude supportive of the stereotypes, much...|||I understand. I beg to differ in a few ways, but for the most part I will agree and say this needs to change. In the case of what I was suggesting, once a father says I want this child, he would be...|||I find one of my pet peeves in part of what you said...Most men. I get it...I genuinely do. But is it fair to punish those of us who strive to be different and break the mold, because of the...|||Nell, I do not intend to take the implications of pregnancy too lightly. However, I do hold the value of a child's life in a position of higher importance. (this is typically where the disagreements...|||I know...firsthand. I am not going to divulge details, but suffice to say that I have been the shoulder the tears of a not-present-by...|||Schrodinger Slacker ArmchairCommie You have both missed the point...let's say the cake is already in the oven because a man and a woman decided to have sex. There was no conscious decision to have...|||I pretty much do islandlight...I pretty much do. I have watched his mother lose him with her terrible decisions...he has pulled away from her in recent years. And YES I have talked to him and I have...|||The actual fuck is that most people see the problem with the taking away of freedom of choice (based on factors (skin color) beyond their control) from people of African American descent...but yet do...|||So since Michael Jackson's skin bleaching went so well, we should advise that those of African American descent should drop the civil rights movement, and either bleach their skin or exercise their...|||As a matter of fact, you already know I do...conversing about it is rather pointless, as we will inevitably agree to disagree.|||Again, I will agree to disagree. I would not buy into the pro-abortion propaganda campaign simply because of statements such as it is her body, her choice. I refuse buy into a theory that discounts...|||Schrodinger Slacker...I have to disagree with you here. I am a father, and that is my credentials for speaking on this...Not that it gives any more/less weight to my opinion, but hear me out...We...|||http://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20160618/a3b25acc2d51efa13c99a313984ca8a6.jpg My bathroom reading material... How about the one thing you would save in the event of a house fire... Sent...|||in this case...handguns|||Me either lol. No seriously, what I'm getting at is a shotgun and a pistol are not defined by the round they fire...hard to get away with carrying a true to definition shotgun, regardless of what...|||Can I borrow your spot when no one is using it...please? It's just so damn serene Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk|||I'm not a shotgun guy...but I'd guess the 20 gauge slug is a bit more powerful...but the 357 is a pistol round. It's apples to oranges from an application/ feasibility/ concealable stand point ...|||The super mag and the maximum are the exact same other than one thing...the casing length is like .005 shorter on the maximum...today the terms may be used interchangeably but there is a slight...|||357 Remington Maximum was also around this time...I'm guessing 357 SuperMag Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk|||My replica of a AR-15 Airsoft Replica http://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20160618/3232639b68e195bad67c3755cfa83df5.jpg Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk|||I'll tackle this since I'm standing here impatiently...http://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20160618/2455d1df7562f2023905c96ae991fbce.jpg your actual vehicle Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk|||I was trying to put an end to this madness [emoji13]...ok truth be told I'm absent minded! How about...the view from your favorite spot to hide from everyone else?? Eryngo..I also used the past...|||Anyway to veto the requested pic? I'm only doing this so you can get passed this DarkBarlowhttp://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20160618/e42b353560f160ec1487a6e96b422452.jpg Sent from my iPhone using...|||Share some of their best and I'll take a listen. It may be after I sleep but I'll check them out! If you've never seen them live...you should. I'd invite you along with me...but yes Sweden is a long...|||I noticed you liked the Tool videos Ibe shared...not sure if you live close to any venues but they have another tour firing up later this year...going! Saw them in January but Confucius say you can...|||That actually exists? It has a good sound to it...not my usual flavor, as I like harder rock usually Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk|||Reminds me of something from a porn scene [emoji12] Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk|||Yea probably funnier than the knock off...but still...I mean who names their son Ashtray?|||Just read over (most of) the wikipedia article on House of Mirth. Sounds like (if well written) could be a great literary work!|||I'm going to need you to return my pressure cooked, oily, salted maize...I'm still watching|||I like his focus on deep character development. He can get silly with it sometimes, but for the most part he does a great job of making his fictional characters seem not so fictional...or maybe, just...|||538834|||welcome back kaleidoscope|||Grisham-A Time to Kill. I am drawn to the duality of what is just vs what is lawfully just..I suppose. I also admire the character/ struggle of Jake Brigance as he really finds out what he is all...|||That awkward moment...|||good eye! easily one of the funniest movies...EVER|||thought I was the only one who noticed that. LOL U....S....S..........R???? <<< and the look on their faces...blahahahahahahahahahahahaaa|||Willful retardation at it's finest indeed it is!! Great stuff|||Hey, wassup...I said do we have a problem, huh, Toothpick???|||smokeafish...you can answer whatever question you think I asked...because I pretty much wanted to know opinions on this from whatever angle people choose to take...the question was vague so as to not...|||Are you serious right now? 538233 And if someone else were armed and took a stand against the gunmen/gunman...I imagine several of these would have been saved ...|||you would give one of those away?? in that case.. Grandmaster Yoda...I don't really play games, and would like to be introduced...would you help show me the ropes please?|||I was thinking FF 7...especially with a remake coming :)|||xSFJ parents interact with their NT children? to what degree or on what level?|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EyXL2rCFyqA reminds me of someone...more specifically, what comes to mind when I read between their words. Incubus kick day...repeat until ears bleed :( ...'

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'Actually, i was not willing to discuss your points, i was much more concerned about understanding what were you talking about... Fe is not necessarily ethical objectivism. You defined ethical...|||Could you please elaborate more? What do you exactly mean as ethical objectivism? Why do you believe in it? And how do you know about it's existence-validity (which reasons can you express...|||Speaking about bubbleboy advice, i personally think that the best thing is a direct confrontation, rather than a letter. A letter can be disregarded, or be perceived as an attempt to have the last...|||I would just ignore that person, and just dissuade him if and when he is too vocal or aggressive about his expectations. EDIT:On which basis is a person entitled to have expectations about you,...|||I agree with the person who posted the second post. Life in itself is a fact, that has no explaination or justification outside and inside you. It simply exists, and this is enough. What you...|||It happened to me sometimes, in general i tried to discourage it, because in general it's not healthy for the person who does it.|||The process that leads from core values to morals might be probably somewhat logical and linear in most of the individuals, but i'd be careful about describing morals as logical.|||I'm used to play a very similar exercise with my thoughts when i sense that i am in a rut, and it usually helps. If, however, the situation is so serious that both Meow's advice and Lady Nuture's...|||I considered only the idea, not your personal stance about it. I realize i was wrong in quoting you, and asking my questions to you, as they were, in fact, general... I connected only the dots i...|||Wish you a nice time here.|||Reading this thread made me think about the you are so sensitive statement, and related self-fulfilling prophecy... Since it is generally meant with negative implications, or perceived as such,...|||Congratulations, 3Konan!|||Can you please describe how this idea can be implemented? The explaination of how functions can work on a day to day basis will be more than likely end up being built on (more or less) subjective...|||Point. I was feeling quite strange in reading about music overlooked by intelligent people ..., lol. In the end it is all a matter of personal tastes and tolerance, or lack of it. Maybe...|||http://www.talknerdytomelover.com/storage/double-facepalm.jpg sigh.|||I believe there are two things that greatly contribute to the problem, but they aren't easy to fix. The forum are organized in INFJ ESTJ, etc...and this automatically leads to clannish trends,...|||Welcome.I hope you will have a nice time here.|||This might be a sign of your possible INTJ-ness :tongue:. Welcome to the forum!|||ENTJ - Napoleon. EDIT:the INFP warrior has one surplus letter somewhere :wink:.|||Group work? Give me some prozac, please... Cynism and detachment might help, not in getting a good result, but at least in preserving your stability...once you realize that something is not right...|||Not an INTJ, and maybe not even an NT, but anyway... I find both of those experiments very interesting, especially the second one.I will try to learn more about it.|||Lol, i realize how idiotical my words sounded... Haste makes waste, i suppose.I wanted to say that your words were not to be taken as anything but a stereotype, after seeing that there was a...|||I'm afraid that Justi said that the statement that say that introverts do not usually choose to be social workers might be a stereotypical one. Personally, i think that the fact that you focus...|||Actually, judging from your post, it looked like you were concerned about the lack of precision, not details...maye it might be helpful to re-read what you wrote back then... If we consider...|||Thanks for having taken your time to read our ramblings, azzurra :).You have also provided some really interesting elements in your recent posts. Obsidian, i don't think that precision in language...|||Can you please elaborate your point about why NTs are supposed to be idea people while other intuitives aren't? Intuition is linked with the abstract, regardless about wheter the individual's...|||NFs aren't the only ones who are people-oriented, or who seeks fullfillment in helping people, even if they're stereotypically linked with that behaviour and interest. May I ask if there were...|||Where do you see the N?|||My mother is an INTJ. I guess that my father is an ESFP. My mother's mother (who is the only of my grandparents i know)...not sure actually...sensing preference, not objective,...|||Some of your answers might suggest that you might be more sensing than intuitive... Or, to put it better, it looks like your main perceiving function (the function with which you perceive the...|||My guess is that you're more likely estp than esfp. You might have a strong sensing preference, and your main function might be turned outward, rather than inward (making you an ESXX). What you...|||I got much of my understanding about Ti from this source. I must admit that i did re-read it after your answers, because i realized i had no clear idea about Ti...but now, looking at it, i doubt...|||I get your point about Ti, and i admit that i failed to recognize it's subjectivity. What i called as my subjective stance is a mix of impressions, perceptions and gut feelings.I need to sort...|||Thank you for your guesses! Walkingtourist, do i have such a strong NF vibe:P? Knittigan, thanks for your suggestions. I have some basic knowledge about the function, and this helped me to get...|||I'd like to ask an external perspective about my possible type. ...20 question form: 1) What aspect of your personality made you unsure of your type? My still strong ignorance of cognitive...|||I began to classify people in order to spare them from the unpleasant situation of an interaction where one of the two parts doesn't trust and doesn't respect the other. I believed it was right to...|||Question first, confession later. The question is, have you ever used your observation skills to classify people, judge them and then, eventually, “redline” them? This would be my...|||I am definitely a cat person. A dog might be a nice presence, but a cat will always be the companion of my journey.|||Some nice thoughts had been expressed there... My two cents would be about re-considering your thoughts. You once or twice questioned the validity of them... they are the subjective reaction...|||Welcome.Wish you a nice time here.|||Thanks! And may I ask what was the result :p?|||Oh, don't mind. Judging from the elements i currently have (i.e. some knowledge of the cognitive functions and about myself) i'd say that i am probably an INFP. May I ask what is your hair...|||Good luck with your search within this site, and with your zoology degree.|||Can you please explain me the meaning of thingidy thing? English is not my native language, and i must admit that it's the first time i've ever red this expression. Thanks :).|||Strenghts: Independent, intelligent, intuitive, curious, strong willed, caring, honest, compassionate, empathetic, generally fair, critical, open-minded. Weaknesses: Not accomodating, might be...|||Nice description.Wish you a good time here.|||Nice intro, welcome to personality cafe.|||Me: probably INFP My mom:INTJ My dad:My guess ESFP My grandma: My guess ISFJ|||Welcome to the site! Best of luck with your experience there!|||Personal Name: Call me Francis. Gender: Male Age:I'm 21.Sometimes people tell me that i act older than that. Location: I live somewhere in europe.That's all i'd like to say.'

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Thank you for acknowledging the ESFP persona…. People seem to automatically type every pop star as some kind of ESXX, but so much is just for image/career/etc.|||I remember thinking she was an ENFJ 7 after watching that documentary movie of hers, but then again that film's a product and whatever she wants us to believe….|||I think she's probably a 7w6…maybe a 9?|||I agree that she's an ENFJ and probably 6w7, but I don't know enough about her to agree to the rest.|||Yeah, I think that's it.|||Yes, I am a synesthete! :)|||I don't think I've watched the show as much as you probably have, but from what I've seen, your typings seem accurate.|||I always thought Lana was an ISFP 4w3. I love her and her work, she's great.|||I also always thought he was INFP.|||That's what I've always thought too.|||My guess is ENFJ.|||I've heard INTP for him, but that's as much as I know. Sorry.|||I'm an INFJ and an attention seeker, but I've always thought that was just because I'm a Type 3.|||Actually, I learned this in my college psychology course.... It was in our textbook, which I no longer have. Sorry! I am sure you can find out about it online though.|||I personally just always assumed it was because those two types were most often interested in this kind of psychology and/or more likely to be online reading about it. LOL.|||Which do you think are most often mistyped by others and/or by themselves, or more likely to appear different from their type's stereotype? Or do you think there's no correlation at all?|||It's actually scientifically proven that some general personality traits (i.e., open-mindedness, etc.) correlate with music tastes.|||I agree with the above poster, although I think Tiffany was more likely introverted.|||I really love INFPs and their capacity for emotion. It really takes my breath away. You can see what they're feeling in their eyes; so much feeling is pooled in their eyes. They just seem closer to...|||I'm pretty sure that Matilda is an INFJ. And Trunchbull does sound like an ESTJ now that I think about it.|||If I had to guess, I'd say ISFP. Not sure though.|||I still think she's an INFP 7w6. Just thought I'd add this. Besides the quotes I posted on the first page of this thread, they asked her in this interview if she'd like to be a hermit, and she said...|||PM'ed you guys too :)|||Thank you all! I PM'd. :)|||Hi guys! I'm currently writing a book in which a main character is an ENFP 7w6. Now, I usually don't attribute Myers-Briggs types to characters, but this character is based off an ENFP 7w6 girl that...|||Alright, @Scootaloo – this is the gist of it. Here are some quotes first: In the December 2009 issue of InStyle, she said about how she writes her songs:|||The last three were PR.|||I don't want to clog up this thread, so I'll PM you.|||@theorycraft Yep, Taylor Swift is an INFJ. I've been a huge fan for years. @tiredsighs Unfortunately the media (and her PR team, which has screwed up) has made it seem like she's dated tons of...|||I promise you she's an INFJ, I've been a fan for years. I think she seems like an ESFJ because she's a Type 3. I'm also an INFJ 3w4, and people never believe me when I tell them I'm an introvert. ...|||I know, I'm just saying.|||Taylor Swift is definitely an INFJ, but I know she's also a 3, which sometimes makes her look like other types. Cobain is an INFP. Einstein is INTP. I don't know enough about the others to say. ...|||This is definitely true. She gets really nervous in front of crowds (which she says is why she begins to talk non-stop and without thinking, but that's also why she often is tipsy interviews (she...|||Wait, I change my mind about her enneagram. She seems like a 7. I don't see how people see Se in her; she's said countless times that she couldn't care less about aesthetics or clothes or any of...|||I think Jennifer is a Type 3 enneagram. She's always talked about how driven she was to be successful in acting and how competitive she is. Thoughts?|||I don't think this really means anything. I also don't like shy people and am usually way too talkative, but I'm still introverted....|||Gosh, I used to be a huge fangirl for her, LOL. I had her typed in my mind as an ESFP, but I could be wrong; it's been a long time since I've read anything about her.|||She's an INFP. We proved this in the Hunger Games thread that's stickied. I'll bring some stuff over:|||The difference is that your soulmate is your soulmate and is perfect for you, whereas the other person you like and get along with but...it just ain't the same.|||I would rather get caught in the rain on a cold night without an umbrella. That sounds rather fun and romantic. Haha. Would you rather 1) meet your soulmate in your 20s but only get to spend 7...|||Dan - INFP - Josh Schwartz basically put himself in Dan, and Schwartz himself is an INFP (and he did the same with Seth Cohen in The O.C., who's also an INFP.) Blair - ENFJ Rufus - ENFP Lily -...|||This is a song Taylor wrote when she was about twelve: Isn't that Ni?|||Wow, that's almost exactly what I was going to post, although I think you worded it better than I could have. I'm under very deep stress right now, which has worsened my insecurities, and at this...|||Considering that J.K. Rowling is an INFJ, and that J.K. Rowling based Hermione off herself as a child, I'm going to say that Hermione is INFJ. Not to mention, she's also exactly like how I was at her...|||I really have no idea what I'm going to do. I still have no idea what I'm going to choose as a major in college. And I need to decide rather soon. :sad: I don't like feeling so directionless, not one...|||mistakenforstranger Taylor has actually said she doesn't want people to know who she's singing about. She says she loves reading people's guesses and laughs to herself when they're wrong, because...|||The enneagram tests are rarely right. I wouldn't put much (if any) weight on them. The best thing to do is to read the descriptions of the enneagrams and see which fits you best. That might take a...|||Yeah, haha, Perks of Being a Wallflower made me cry, too! What else.... I cried in Titanic, The Notebook, and the last Harry Potter. Those are the ones I can think of right now.|||You're welcome! Go by the cognitive functions. They aren't as clean to work with as plain I or J and etc., but they are most accurate. I do think INFP also fits you. There are Ps who learn to be...|||I'm in the U.S. I would celebrate Christmas if it weren't for the fact that Christmas is basically what separates my religion from Christianity. So it just would be a betrayal of my own religion,...

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'The troop-worship that this country engages in is disgusting. I really have no sympathy for a person who voluntarily signs up to kill people overseas in the name of freedom. If they were drafted,...|||All my opinions are correct until further notice. If you disagree with my opinions, then you are wrong.|||Dan Savage is a bigot and a hypocrite who is doing civil rights a disservice. He only cares about the G in LGBT and doesn't give two meeps about bisexual or transgender issues. In fact, he's stated...|||I like this song. Certain parts sound 1-ish, but I can't put my finger on it. (Warning: some lyrics NSFW) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9t__VXOW1CU Reaper, Reaper, that's what people call...|||... Twos. Fives. My mother is a compulsive martyr two and my father is a narcissistic and arrogant five. Neither of them are healthy in any sense of the word.|||Twilight is almost unreadable. It's that bad. Thankfully, there's a blog called Reasoning With Vampires, which helps satiate my inner critic for a while.|||Since I was 12 or so I would have thoughts about kidnapping and killing people. Nothing serious.|||- You do not deserve anything. You do not deserve your car. You do not deserve your house. You do not deserve to die. You do not deserve to live. You do not deserve to be happy. You do not deserve...|||- All drugs should be legalized. - All our moral systems are ultimately baseless. (What an odd statement for a 1!) - The Pledge of Allegiance has no place in our government or our schools. -...|||Just kidding. Hi. I'm a 1w9 INTJ. I like languages a lot. I hope to meet some nice people here. Sincerely, Angel'

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'Oh thank you very much for the advice !!|||I feel like I am close to glory.|||Well well.. No answer for this dilemma|||I sense INFP, I don't see how the last person deduced the ESFP thing.|||Pretty much reminded me of ISxPs I know, give off a *I don't give a fuck* facade, added to the typical *I am so weird I don't fit in*. I also noticed a lot of Se use based on your answers, you're...|||You strike me as an INTP, you mentioned some pretty stereotypical traits.|||A little bird told that you are either ISFP or ISTP.|||ENTP, seems like the perfect background music for it. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y8PE-wP0Dno|||Hi everyone ! So after years of trying to build a solid idea of who I am, I am again left naked, vulnerable and clueless in front of this MBTI testing thing. Here it goes: 0. Is there anything...|||5'7 Girl|||Oh you got me interested. I hope that you would share it with us :)|||Moroccan Hello - salam / wa feyn Goodbye - beslama Yes - ah / wayeh No - lla Please - aafak Thank you - chukran Sorry - smeh lia|||Hmm yeah I guess that's what it's like being a 7 ! Seems fun. Life is much more exciting with intensity. But doesn't it worn you out? And 4 books ! Good luck with it. Hope you are not experiencing...|||prude|||Just find another obsession :D a healthy one tho. But then it's the unhealthy things that we r often unconsciously attracted to.. I wonder why. Maybe it's because we shouldn't be doing it that it...|||I feel you. Meditating feels like I am lying to myself, right know its just like I need to do something to make myself feel better, but instead I'm lingering on this comfortable numb feeling. What...|||when the hardest question that somebody would ask you is: Describe who you are, tell me about yourself?|||I feel empty.|||Oh, thought he was an ENFJ first|||I was expecting some really long intro lol. Honestly the title was quite catchy, i mean the combo of intj and wild.. Hmm :cool:|||So far I can say that I am pretty good when FLIRTEXTING, and it's fun, haha. But IRL I never really thought about it much. But basically that is me when flirting: -Manga-like, hopeful eye stare...|||Interesting analysis, never thought of myself as a sensor. I will consider this again ! :) Rare ISFP..hmm|||Wouldn't trying to alter it to suit needs make me an Fe user?|||What makes you say so?|||Set your mind free. No boundaries, let the thoughts flow along with the words. Most of the time, when I write, I experience that -mindblock- kind of state, just because I limit myself and therefore,...|||Allright. That would be the challenge of today :tongue: PM me if you figured out anything, I am interested.|||Hmm, based on what I saw/read: I have the same friends I've had for years and the same family. Unless you love rock n' roll and Hollywood parties and having your photo taken, I don't think...|||I do not know.. He does not seem like an ESFJ to me, I surely have been trying to type him, but he is a hard one. I guess that is the reason why I like him so much. :happy:|||Dear INTP ex: I love and hate you. Dear dad, I wish you were still with us. Dear me, Get out of your fucking coccon.|||I liked Theo James, he is just funny in this interviews. I wish i could know him more cuz i relate to him most. 383329|||I just want to say, I love your avatar picture. Warms up my heart.|||Hello, Hello ! The same boring routine again ! Hope I made it, at least, a bit enjoyable ha. 0. Is there anything that may affect the way you answer the questions? For example, a stressful time,...|||336378|||I don't know why but this is the first thing that came to my mind: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hhz8v_SN4ZA|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7qrRzNidzIc|||I've recently figured out that I'm an INFJ, so here is my list: -when you feel like a profiler, always analyzing people's reactions, body language, and interpreting them (&often right about it)....|||when you don't know why the heck people love you.. And sometimes think of asking them, but then..it'll seem like you're lacking self-esteem so you end up saying nothing as always.|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sfPCuHefYEU|||I tend to value my independence and individuality too much.. Also intimate relationships tend to drain me emotionally when people get TOO close. I don't know if it's just me but I lost a few friends...|||Sun:Scorpio Moon:Leo Rising: Scorpio :kitteh:|||INTP, always challenging my views and trying to prove that they know the truth about everything :angry:.|||Michael Ford I like the music in your signature, I think i'll add it to my favourites even :happy: nice writing btw, makes me feel in the moment with what's happening. Thanks for taking the time to...|||Morfinyon well that's something else to think about ;)|||I admit this part made me kinda sad :c ! Otherwise WOW just WOW, I loved your scenarios, nice writing; I'm proud of you :blushed: There is a remark btw, why you can always find melancholy in NF...|||Hello everyone! I thought that before I go to sleep I shall post this new thread. Create the first short or long scenario that pops in your head right now! GO! Non-INFPs are welcome to participate,...|||Hmm well if you're confused about being an ISFP or an INFP, here's this to help you: How to tell the difference? And as I've read, ISFP are more into the here-and-now and interested in...|||AWW :blushed: That just made me smile the whole time I was reading it. I really hope that those spectacular things would come often -for me and for whoever feels the same- and last a bit longer!...|||Thank you for your support, sweet Meepers <3! I can almost feel your warm and fuzzy hugs *kisses gently on the cheek and hugs tight*|||Aha well not fully recovered ^^ Doesn't matter anyway. Do you feel like INFP is the closed thing to who you are? If not, try to check out the cognitive functions so you can understand more about the...|||OH YEAAH , philosophical subjects are my thing; Not only I tend to think a lot about things, but also feel everything, like deeply. I do come across as shy/innocent too(even tho inside my head I'm...'

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'I'm an electrician, considering studying for EE. Although we're smart I'm not sure there are a lot of really good jobs for intps outside of academia. IT seems popular but I'm confused by the...|||srs. I kinda like having someone there to listen to me rant on about my feelings tho. intps will do this if they decide they like you enough. they seem to enjoy it, it's part of their let's...|||stuart murdoch and sufjan stevens are both infjs. stevens I wavered on a bit but I think I'm gonna hold on infj. leslie feist as well. thom yorke strikes me as more inxp, probs intp, but it's a...|||^my entp friend is always like what the fuck where did that come from but at least he catches my outrageous, baldfaced lies, which is a relief. someone has to! I don't get to meet a lot of...|||infj applied math no complaints|||smith's ideas always struck me of being of a different flavor, implicating the greater good of society, while rand seems to imply that the individual is an end to himself. I think that both are...|||I agree 100% jane eyre is probably the most infj character in the history of literature. to me the most telling sign is the love/hate relationship with sexuality, but also that recurring...|||always understood that randian argument as underscoring the futility of putting a square peg in a round hole like people know what they need best most because they spend the most time knowing...|||there's only one way to find out for sure: kiss him|||they're actually more like 5% on the 5 year plans for like 5k, so pretty generous. the trouble is living on it while waiting for the fund to mature. but yes, I could turn a profit.|||infj here, I've an intp parent and have dated a number of them am a BIG FAN of the intp's take on people-pleasing, I like having smart people in my life who are willing to research problems in a...|||I'm a really serious person who thinks and cares too much.|||yeah, the CD rates at the credit union I'm a part of are pretty good. it's not exactly rocket science.|||carrie bradshaw puts her face on a bus omegle is usually pretty busy, can't speak for the quality of the user base tho.|||bumping this thread cos it's interesting. without jumping into too much special snowflake bullshit, I'm able to be completely shallow and sociable in the right (read: not hostile) environment. ...|||fireplace is going hot atm but all I gotta do is step outside, and voila -- freezing.|||1 person likes to put fish sticks in his mouth|||are you a vulcan? or a school counselor. 414010|||I have to agree, college is totally fucked. total waste of time and money.|||are the ones discussing politics. it's great that people are so informed! it's less great that we have nothing else to talk about! let's talk about something else PerC.|||hi infj!!|||discuss|||I'm open to being the wrong type if anyone wants to correct me.|||what happened to my toothpicks plz?|||it annoys me that people use actors and such as avatars as if embodying such a person were some great aspiration of theirs. the thing is, beautiful, photoshopped people are totally boring to look at.|||no way dude it sounds like things are really not going well for you right now. no way that is being dramatic. I haven't yet looked at how other people have responded, but my guess is the...|||I had serious health issues during college and plan on just explaining this to the admissions committee. I couldn't get a dx for years so I wasn't able to get help from the disability office and...|||if a woman knows a man is dating her only because he finds her aesthetically pleasing, how can she be sexually satisfied? seriously, it's a huge turnoff.|||I'm an infj but I would say my interests insofar as academic disciplines are really more intp/j. my practical concerns for a career include that it is challenging enough and gives me time to work on...|||people choose to work where they can get hired. unfortunately, due to the state of our social safety net, working is compulsory. in my experience, freedom to fire workers on whim just leads to...|||like the right to intimidate and propagandize and underpay and otherwise abuse their employees? yeah it's the business owners who are the victims here. I am more important than some stupid...|||thank you I thoroughly agree|||private property rights are so overstated in america, you wouldn't believe the number of cops who threatened to arrest me for standing in a walmart parking lot and decrying their labor practices; I...|||I once got pulled over by a cop for riding my bike at night without a light. he pulled me over and asked for my ID, I laughed in his face, who carries an id to bike?? other cool experiences include...|||no, I think emotional intelligence is incompatible with lack of insight into human psychology.|||oh this is true marx is terrible. but he was also right about a lot of things. rand was right about some things too but not enough and people take her way out of context most of the time. I haven't...|||no I think this is true, my sensitivity to other people makes me a leftist. I was much more conservative in my youth before I developed my Fe, more susceptible to silly explanations such as...|||mine are. and that's not a political statement so much as an observation of the correlation between emotional intelligence, tolerance for outrageous hyperbole & type. albeit, I think the...|||atlas shrugged is a great novel|||I have a question about dating intps (& later we can discuss intp dating) who on this subforum will be my internet boyfriend? thanks.|||Glad to have ya here! It's a really great site with some amazing people just like me!|||I'm a bit of a recluse, but when I do come out of the woodwork I see people my age actually doing thing and having jobs and family and shit. it's v disorienting, as my life seems more of the same:...|||resisting the urge to not hit on intp newbie but sorry dude your whole 'tude is totally hot. sorry it didn't work out with the last chick I'm sure you'll find someone who digs your shit tho, I do.|||I have a few suppositories leftover from my last yeast infection if you ever have any serious bowel impaction problems. I like 2 recycle|||ANOTHER QUESTIONNAIRE part a of a, b, and c 1. Is there anything that may affect the way you answer the questions? For example, a stressful time, mental illness, medications, special life ...|||I've been subject to this kind of manipulation before, and I didn't like it. not sure if meant well, but clearly ulterior motives at stake. infjs tend to be distrustful, one thing we like about...|||infj is correct. I actually had the chance to meet him like twice? and he's actually a functional politician with a good dollop of Fe. politics is an Fe game anyhow. you can get the wrong...|||I want to create an infj/intp compare and contrast thread, which subforum do I choose?|||maybe you are too conscientious and that is why you are wearing out so fast. or maybe you need a job with less sustained human contact.|||when I have an intimate experience, I want to be intimate. it's an excuse to get out of my head inasmuch as I can get into someone else's.'

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'I would describe u as a mix of mew2 and gyarados. I guess I would call u myaradew 2|||Cetanu Ahaa, but what about the percentage of the male population that don't know their mbti personality type?|||Well I have hard time wrapping my head around my boyfriends inconsistent emotions. I don't know if its a waste of time or if I should be more patient|||My boyfriends emotional inconsistency used to confuse me and make me think he is just playing around with me. But then I noticed his feelings would stress him out more than they stressed me. :( he's...|||Well for all three reasons, although #2 was the core reason why I asked but then again I didn't expect to get an answer so I guess it was more of an experiment to see how stupid intjs would think a...|||I'm such a fighter especially when i know there are feelings still lingering :p. I think u should because when my entj broke up with me, I fought for him and now he appreciates it. When I say...|||Haa, have u seen a number of entj penises to come to that conclusion?|||I'm dating an entj but would I be better off with an intj and why?|||Well what do you do for a job?|||I am a philanthrope. I look past actions and behavior and I feel that people have pure intentions until they are soiled by society or their experiences. A dog that always bites or attacks isn't bad,...|||Ahahah I love reading the way you are using the scientific method to put two and two together. It's cute and humorous :p. Hipster? I am what I what I consider me. I don't care if something is...|||I don't like to party too much... Just once in a while. And I don't mind being alone just to think. I like to take solo walks by the beach or in a pretty park...|||Soo I am dating an entj which is somewhat similar an intj except he is sooo bossy :p hopefully I will give you some good advice. 1. My boyfriend was attracted to me at first because of how happy...|||What I'm guessing is that prior to learning about mbti, your friend probably had identity issues and didn't really appreciate or embrace her emotional side and she would let things go. Once she got...|||Does he try to change you like he thinks its possible? :p I think anyone could only take so much of us enfp's|||aww ahah i dont see red ogre anywhere|||now silly selfiess 79741 79742 79743|||You wanna find a potential enfp mate huhhh :p|||Well because you are still in high school you haven't fully developed your identity and sense of self yet. I'm 21 and I'm surprised how much I've changed throughout the years even though I believed...|||Thanks sirrr|||What I do is just look in between their eyes or at their nose so I make it casual and to show that I'm not phased by their stare. The problem is sometimes I give others intense stares while i try to...|||ready for the sillyness? 79559 79561 79560|||You're rude|||Well when you say not forget, what are you implying? If you mean physically forgetting, it is psychologically impossible for someone to completely delete a memory from his/her psyche. ...|||You're so right! My best friend who's an estj has a hard time following me and will sometimes give in just because I'm so enthusiastic about my ideas and she just assumes that they makes sense. My...|||You can't forgive if you can't forget...|||I'm the least vengeful person in the sense that I never feel to wish harm upon anyone. Neither am I revengeful. However I despise hypocrites and inconsiderate people who purposely take unfair...|||Ahah that's your total opposite.. Opposites attract!! Mine's an entj and we still have a long way to go. He's getting there though, especially when he misses me :p sometimes I want to shake him...|||ahahah that's the same conversation ill have with my boyfriend :p|||You said you'd be here an hour ago You would lose your head if it wasnt attached to you ma'am have you been drinking tonight? Nooo are u sure ur ok? U just walked into a glass door... I...|||Actually I sound a bit cocky. What I meant to say is that my boyfriend always makes me feel that he offers a lot more to the relationship than I do and that bothers me because I want to feel...|||Well I think it all depends on the social and societal representation and construction of men and women as well as estrogen vs testosterone|||Aww thank you for that. I do offer a lot of support, patience, understanding, and compassion that he is in thirst for but rarely admits it.|||I guess it's as simple as that... You're right, I just need to be more patient thanks|||There is a lot more to it Mr. Canis. I've accepted that he is not as passionate as I am but he does have his sudden but rare bursts of emotion that he spills out to me. I've tweaked him open a lot...|||Actually yes he has been emotionally harmed which probably plays a big part on why he's so closed. See some days he will tell me he loves me and other days he feelings won't be as strong. When I ask...|||ahhaha i hope i dont scare you guys away|||how can i make my entj boyfriend happy?? i know im something very special to him compared to his past girlfriends but i just want to help him embrace his feelings for me and open his heart to let me...|||Hmmm, what kind of student was I in high school.. Well I was very curious and loved to learn new things. I was also very cooperative in class disscusions and always loved to challenge the teacher...'

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'HAL, im gel. This one is of the 'Blood Moon' taken with my phone at 4am, me and the Mrs woke up just for this event. I forgot to turn on the plug when I put the camera on charge, I know it was a...|||The music is pretty good too, if you're into it.... SAN HOLO - They Just Haven't Seen It https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YQbjisWixoU THYLACINE - Closing ...|||Back in my promiscuous days when I would be in and out of a relation with a lady as quick as reading a 300 page novel, I used this exact tactic. I usually took them to a local bar which had various...|||I am sorry that stuff happened to you, hope never happens to anyone else ever. Toast to that* I dated a girl for a month or two, she was shiny to look at but she thought it was ok to control what...|||Im sorry but merely admitting to a mistake but still carrying on with the distastfull behaviour by creating 'parody threads' is still an infraction, be it obvious or covert. That kind of...|||The top point scorers/winners of Eurovision are a good indication of where the general populaces sympathies/political stances lie within Europe. Not only does it show who people like, it also shows...|||Great picture everyone 530937 Im not as good as everyone one else but this is a 'shiny' wonky picture by me.|||I dont understand what all the fuss is about but from all the glimpses I have gotten around the sub forum, it seems the poison being spewed about has begun to infect/derail the threads. As a...|||Thanks for the invite, I may take a gander. If I may cultivate further... I do not aim with my hand.... I do not shoot with my hand.... I do not kill with my gun.....|||I do 'do excercise'. As a teen I use to play football (soccer for the misinformed) everyday after school and get home late, to my mothers exasperation but i always listened and never heeded =D....|||- Watching people dodging rain from shop alcove to alcove, while I walk past with an umbrella. - Drinking a perfectly made Earl Grey - Watching the Mrs concentrate on her writing, as her ear pokes...|||Her blade glowed with anticipation|||You can't be hijacking 'our' story like that but Mindbot David Bowie really? o_O|||You can't be hijacking 'our' story like that but Mindbot David Bowie really? o_O|||But he suddenly died, BOOOOOM!!|||'Sure' 'Fundamentalist' 'How are you' 'You dont understand' 'Dank'|||If im up this late (usually am), I have found a new connection in something I have been contemplating about opening up new theories and possibilities to varying degrees of how the world functions, be...|||This post|||I never directly intervened in insects lives for no reason but under the guise of science and curiosity. - I use to trap various insects in glass jars and move them into a smaller jar to see how...|||I not sure if this qualifies as spontaneous but... I get this message from my phone telling me Your GF birthday in T-minus 7days - thank you last year ME for the godlike foresight. I has a...|||Someone still may value your insight in the matter, even though the OP doesnt require help anymore. To be honest, this ENFP maybe is afraid of close relations as they are a serial 'heart breaker'.|||I try to keep all my belonging in good working order and easily accessible but this doesnt mean completely dust free unless the dust will effect performance and how much I use/value it. For example...|||I dont think this is relavent to lucid dreaming as being concious and unable to move is not dreaming. I thought lucid dreaming is being aware within a dream or in other words concious within your...|||I think i am good at manipulating only because I do not want to be manipulated myself, so i am able to recognise it. Its like recognizing a problem within a system and taking precautions, for it...|||Most likely we extinguish ourselves. sadly Greed is rife at this moment in time and the people with the most are blind to there own lust for everything (capitalism, especially resource hogging)...|||Something Interesting happened accompanied by shenanigans|||I usually get lucid dreams on weekends when I sleep in and/or take a nap during the week (bloody work). Only really happening right before i wake up, during the dream I find myself in a situation...|||Dear INTP, So we meet again..... You should of just spoken your mind or even taken action, thats what the feels was telling you but nooo, that boring guy 'logic' had him set straight in...|||Nonjudgmental (harmless) enough for most people, allowing them to open up to us fairly easily as long they have dont lie which we see right through. I can feel like a walking confessions booth|||I agree with you that we do miss certain sides, maybe situations in which require a certain lvl of empathy but as the the disclaimers suggested this could be individualised to the specific persons...|||Madness is not statisical - everyone in the world could be crazy and you the only sane person left, does that make you the crazy one becuase you differ from the rest? I think conforming to the...|||- The higher you climb, the more you see the truth that you know nothing at all. - Never accept someone elses definition of 'life' make your own. - Read. - Ignore the blinders of which society...|||I love eating!! Tasting the food savouring the taste in my mouth as i pick out each flavour and try to figure out how it was cooked and what ingredients were used, if i didnt cook it myself ofc....|||I got INFP..... so pretty close to my current SO who is an ENFP, I find she has forced me to grow by having to deal with her hundereds of friends and all the 'feels' that comes as a package.|||When i have conversation with my 'N' friends i can use vague explenations or descriptions to quickly pass over the foam of the conversation and get to the cake of my point. If you get my drift..........|||we may be blurring the lines of what is electronic but as akiyama said genre's are defined by individual (paraphrase) and i also find soundcloud an amazing place to discover new music. I like...|||can we not do it here?|||OMW singing, hope there is a loud mouth and just mime but if you can sing let that do the talking for you. During the eating process sit in a strategic position - not too close to the chatty...|||It will have to be a place with seasons first of all, as i doing like see time pass i find its a good indicator for time possibly canada or a scandinavian country but I havent been too 'all' places...|||I don't drink alot of coffee but when i do...... * look at selection, check prices and hope i dont get the super pretty barista while in line. Me: Hello * force eye contact and smile,...|||Things I love/like: Moments eg. strokes of pure insight or just holding the umbrella as my SO grabs the keys from my pocket... Games any sort really be it sports, computer, board, or even...|||I think the lack of resources will eventually force our INTP hands to take over and fix everything or atleast advice a ENTP to do it for us.... Like squeasing a lemon pip with your thumb and index...|||I actually thought this too ^^. Advanced chat AI have come far enough and have vast amounts of responses that each chat can be indistinguishable from humans epsecially outsourced service industry who...|||ME: . Comparing the specs to the steam machines £579 vs £699 ME: hello Agent (Mujahid_Ali): Welcome to Dell Sales Chat, this is Ali, your Online Chat Sales Advisor, Hope you are...|||Book smarts - is the inferior, you maybe able to read about and memorize a situation but this does not mean you can act upon the given situation. Every situation has not been written down and every...|||I picked red and I prefer dark colours. But red is not accurate enough, I like MAROON.|||There are some pretty long posts on here.... BUT Poeple die and poeple live. Does it matter where in the world a terrorist attacks? One mans terrorists is another mans freedom fighter, as they say...|||- I feel sad when nobody hears what i have to say, then someone else says what i just said and is heard. - Breaks my heart when the mrs says to me You dont understand. - I want to save the...|||Try photography, it combines walking and observing. There is alot to learn with post editing, so you can spend hours just fine tuning your image. If you are not into software like me, the hardware...|||1. What are your house's colours? Most likely maroon, as its intense and deep like us INTP. I think thats representative 2. What is the animal symbol? I would say the Owl, as it represents...'

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'Wow! You are obviously her muse... Be flattered. They are quite well written, but honestly, who cares what she thinks of you now? I had a friend like that, although she didnt post anything, but the...|||I admit, I used to have friends who were more like acquaintences. I didn't have the deep and interesting friendships I have now. I had to leave some people behind to find friends worth having. I felt...|||I am the eldest of five children. both my parents are also eldest children. serious perfectionism issues!|||I like to help. But I've sometimes gone ahead when I should have held back. I let people too close when I should be more circumspect. I don't listen when those closest to me warn about the dangers. I...|||I wish I didn't doubt mine... there have been many painful lessons because I didn't listen to it and let my compassion rule my head. Is gut instinct a highly evolved survival instinct?|||yup! sure do.|||definitely. animals have no choice but to rely upon our kindnesses. its inexcusable to mistreat them. people who deliberately enjoy tormenting, half killing, torturing and maiming animals should be...|||wow, sorry to hear your night is crap. but you do have some very good points and we appreciate that here on the forum! you're safe here with us, no matter what 'arguments' and misunderstandings seem...|||I'm a bit confused about what is happening here and more importantly, why it is happening. but I guess its just illustratng the point perfectly, about what pisses us off about people...:confused:|||there's a saying, 'what other people think of you is none or you business' who the hell cares f they're talking about you? The people whose opinions really count won't be swayed by malicious lies....|||perhaps lying to yourself, self delusion, is the worst lie. it hurts others as well as yourself. no good can come from it. but keeping certain things from those you love, for their own sake, now that...|||I find myself giggling at your list, goodewitch. so many a-hah's from me!|||I like that idea of team work... being on the same wavelength. Hm. sounds good. I have to admit!|||Excellent point! A little bit of mothering goes a long way when you're used to being the one doing the mothering...|||I love the idea of a man undersandng me intuitively, but I also like the contrast of different perspectives. Its weird, but in some relationshps, I become the quirky, try anything person and the...|||oooh.... I like the way you put that!|||OK, I haven't strictly answered the orginal question of this tread - oops! There are so many interesting tangents here... I like: tall men, (6ft) dark haired and masculine-looking, somewhere...|||Me too. Can't stand extroverts! All that loud, attention seeking behaviour... ugh!|||Wow, Blueheart, you are talking about my life! My man is ISTJ and although we have found each other confusing, we're figuring out how to communicate. I have always said we compliment each other,...|||Do INFJ men find us INFJ women too intense or do we connect on a deep and satisfying level? Are we not funny/outgoing/quirky enough?:blushed:|||I take in everything and I think some days it makes me physically ill. Is there a cure? Is there an INFJ's EA - Empathy Anonymous?|||I have great difficulty blocking other people's emotions, even actors on TV and films. I know, its pathetic! I feel what they are feelng, even when I know its not real. I am there, in their body, in...|||I know this is a little out of character for me, being this blunt, but hey, sometimes people just.... argh! I feel it goes against my tolerant, supportive and lovng nature to say this, but some...|||I'm just wondering how much heredity plays a part in developing an INFJ personality. I seem to be becoming more introverted the older I get. I've had the corners knocked off so many times its changed...|||I just thought of something else that has defintely helped - I copied the 'How NOT to win over and INFJ' thread and the How to win over an INFJ' thread and gave them to him, (after some judicious...|||I agree. Attraction comes not just from a physical, chemical process and unconscious interpretation of body language, it comes form a FEELING of connecting with the person. When I meet someone for...|||Insightful, Tyrael. thank you. Perhaps females are hardwired to look for the perceived 'strongest' male. Although, persoanlly, I may find them physically appealing, there is a hollowness about them i...|||You're onto something here, Dr M. I find myself nodding as I read your response. We can get waaaaaay too wound up about definitions. Let's look at practicalities for a second. If guys are more F,...|||Sound advice! I work myself up to it, but sometimes the hammering in my chest is so loud I worry others will actually hear it. When you're on the verge of hyperventilating, its difficult to think...|||I guess initially its about hunkering down to ride out the storm. With time comes the confidence and distance to reconfigure how you feel about it. I have learned, int he last twelve months in fact,...|||Thanks SLN! You are wise for one so young, Glasshoppa...|||You are precisely ON the point, Damaged. I feel for you! Please accept my virtual hug... :happy: Its hard as the child caught in the middle of divorce not to feel somehow responsible, especially if...|||Thanks for your comments, TransparentMe. I think the hardesnt thing sometimes is to stand by and watch someone you love go through those fires. Sometimes it is necessary, a cleansing, purifying...|||Thanks Duke. And no, you are not self-indulgant, just expressing something complicated. You're safe here with us INFJs! :proud: I do take your point about making sorrow a noun. That is kinda what...|||I have always felt like aliens dropped me into my family! They just don't get me. I used to tell people I was adopted. I have four siblings. Two full sisters who are like Mum, and a half brother and...|||So true! i find the connection between deeper thoughts/understand on the subject and formulating sentences which could be uttered out loud is jiggered in a social setting or when I am under pressure....|||I am interested to know if this strikes a chord with any of you. I've survived the usual childhood traumas of divorced parents etc but have also had a lot of chronic physical pain in my life. I...|||thanks Rouge! btw my new fave perfume is called 'rouge' by christian lacroix.|||I agree Rouge, that dressing for work has to fit the job. I want to be taken seriously in my work. I am a sort of authority figure in my field. I wear lots of different things, depending on my mood,...|||I agree Rouge, that dressing for work has to fit the job. I want to be taken seriously in my work. I am a sort of authority figure in my field. I wear lots of different things, depending on my mood,...|||[quote=avalanche183;83285]All of these are true of course; 1.) Have no trouble getting guys/girls, true. never had a problem there. Its been a case of the oppostie and still is. Have lost friends...|||I like you already! No wonder we feel safe with you guys. And that is a big compliment, coming from the wildly independant INFJ clan. :laughing:|||Hi there dreaming panda. I have been married to an ISTJ for half my life ( I know, I can't believe it myself) He has been a bit of a mystery to me too LOL! He is the big guardian inspector type (see...|||Hubby (I suspect ISTJ) has read the 'HOW NOT TO WIN OVER AND INFJ and started putting it into practice. Bless him! He would like a list for the opposite. HOW TO WIN OVER AN INFJ. I thought there was...|||[quote=Amittai;44833]Hey internet INFJs, I was wondering if other INFJs share my problem. It seems obvious that many (if not all) INFJs suffer from some kind of mental illness, generally...|||Thanks! we are pretty much cats ourselves, which is why many of us have them as pets. I understand cats and they understand me. Its uncanny, that they know when to play fight with you and when to...|||Wow, you sure know how to romance us INFJ girls! I'd be all over you too. :blushed: I don't have any male INFJ friends. I seem to attract ISTJ's and INFP's. I wonder why that is?|||Tridentus, perhaps asking yourself why you are attracted to these types would be a good place to start. As an INFJ I go with my gut feeling and that is pretty much immediate when i meet someone. I...|||I feel for you, empatheticsoul! Its hard enough being an INFJ woman, let alone an INFJ man! I can only imagine what you must be feeling. All I can say is that love, no matter who you find it with,...|||LOL! Yeah, as INFJs we can't really switch off feeling stuff. Very hard to block it. But negative people can suck you dry of positivity, if you let them. I try to imagine a forcefield around myself....'

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'How to become a hacker? :) Thank you for the insights on the benefits of learning those languages. I'm really still in the beginning stages of immersing myself in learning again. I just finished...|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a0Q7e9Q6DlI|||I started studying again for the first time in over a decade. I decided I wanted to acquire a skillset in computer programming to give myself some real opportunities in the workforce. In the...|||After you moved your rook to a5, the position is not easy to win. I was saying if you had captured the knight on c3 with your queen (or bishop) on move 17, you would have been winning by a lot. ...|||17...Qxc3 was the best move here. It would have forced a queen swap, since the black queen forks the bishop on a3 and the white queen on d3. After the queens are gone, you are up a full piece, even...|||Embracing change is essential to growing and moving forward in life. If you don't get what you want, you suffer; if you get what you don't want, you suffer; even when you get exactly what...|||I'm going through such a chaotic and confusing time in my life right now. I'm trying my very best to undo some toxic patterns that have plagued me for many, many years. I just feel helpless...|||Nice to see you brownpanda. I'm sorry I didn't post in your second thread, but I felt I didn't have anything to add when it comes to leadership. I've never lead anyone in my life! I've changed...|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7nBWweQHEH8|||Drum & Bass (I think?) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dD40VXFkusw https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=svW2KL-9KQI https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3kblNz93qWk|||Sunday|||For most of my life, i've been told I look sad, upset, or troubled, when i'm really feeling just fine. If I don't smile, I guess I give off that vibe. My whole face lights up when i'm actually...|||Sneeze|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XsW4FoRzhQw|||My first language is English, but I also speak and understand French perfectly. It's kind of mandatory in Quebec to be able to communicate in both languages. I learned it in elementary school...|||Haha... Ok, it's times like this that I get really scared that I live so close to the American border (1.5 hour drive from Vermont). Sure, I don't live in the USA, but i'm terrified at the idea of...|||Failure.|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A-3VF4hQAkU|||Umbrella|||My upper back is hurting me pretty badly right now, and it's freaking me out a bit. This last Saturday, I decided to take the plunge and start the process of quitting smoking. I didn't expect there...|||Riven Click on the username above his avatar, and then click View Blog Entries. It's actually a very interesting read, well done Stelliferous|||Sometimes, I feel like i'm not relating to people properly. When I want to console someone or offer advice, I subconsciously (or sometimes, consciously) imagine that I am the other person who I am...|||Oh dear Leictreon, a lot of what you wrote are the very things I am struggling with right now in my life. It's probably a good thing that you're thinking things over now at your age, because when I...|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P5r-TG8cCeE In all seriousness, i'm superstitious about a lot of things. For example, it really bugs me that the staircase in my house has exactly 13 steps. ...|||I need to quit smoking cigarettes. I want to quit smoking cigarettes. I'm finding it difficult to bring myself to draw a line in the sand and say: enough is enough, i'm doing this. It's been on...|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fNB8r6zttDw|||Ok, I completely forgot this song existed. When I was a teenager, I had a mix tape of songs I recorded off the radio with this song on it. I remember listening to this on a loop when I went on a...|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q10-jHmXr9I|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7QU1nvuxaMA 2:57 - 3:32 < -- :)|||I love being an INFP. I really hate standing out in a crowd, but the fact that i'm so different from everyone else makes me do just that. Individualistic/idealist? Fine, that's me. So...|||Random songs that I liked from various mixes: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U33HBe148N4 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y9PfgnxtBeA https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DzNwsCDClgc|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S9ctdyTB8o0 https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Deez_Nuts_(politician)|||I haven't spoken to my mother since she got re-married. I don't even remember the year it happened, but it was somewhere around 2004-5. I actually got into a fight with her a few months beforehand,...|||Yellow. Subtle and pure, enigmatic and humble Like golden rays of sunlight, The source of all life, the essence of innocence, or peace and love in all living things. Yellow is surrender...|||I'm feeling overly optimistic today, so much so that I feel like I can accomplish anything I put my mind to. Therein lies the problem: I want to do everything, and yet i'm having a hard time...|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rtbkz8jKKew|||Solemn Oath Love Eschew Minute (mai-knute) Neophyte Opulent Arcane Temperance Hope|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qw4EdN9B4sA Made me think of this song again. I guess Karleken means love in Swedish.|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qOC_ig7ezp8|||Meditation has changed me a lot in the last little while. It's been three weeks now, and here are the differences that i've noticed: I'm much calmer overall. When I speak to people, i'm much...|||A few days ago, I discovered some of the most amazing and original music i've ever heard on youtube. I randomly saw a composer called Adrian Von Ziegler in my recommended videos , and after...|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C1NlbYL3ySs|||When someone becomes angry with me, I tend to become incredibly docile and apologetic towards them. I suppose I also respond with fear, to an extent. It takes some pretty extreme anger directed...|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KKAoSY5bhSw lol! :p|||It's difficult to put into words for me, but i'll try. To me, beauty is anything that makes me think and feel something strongly; to realize that there might be more underneath the surface. I...|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Pz66_RJCQyI|||I'm feeling upset with myself today, moreso than I have been in several weeks. I had a bad bout of endless ruminating thoughts last night when I went to bed - I couldn't sleep for 3-4 hours. I just...|||brownpanda While i've never been responsible for leading a group of people in my career, I can definitely understand how that would be rough for you, because I am 100% sure I would have difficulty...|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a0vk5SGmw3w|||Hi, I'm not familiar enough with cognitive functions to accurately assess your type, but i'll give some of my opinions in brief. Have you taken the socionics, enneagram, and cognitive functions...'

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'One of my major dislikes is snobs...I meet way too many people who believe their tastes and preferences are of an elite set and go about rejecting others without any qualms. And so due to my dislike...|||It's interesting that the OP mentioned having attracted a couple of INFP males and I don't think this happened from random chance. I mean if you think about what it's like from the POV of an average...|||I am definitely an artistic type and enneagram 4. But what's strange is that others don't see me that way because I am not scattered and messy enough to fit their stereotype of an artist. My...|||this is funny, but I'm in the same odd predicament. People have always told me what not to try, that I shouldn't try something too difficult. My talents and skills seem to be almost completely...|||People seem to dislike that I am very conscientious. Sometimes people will like me a lot until they see how self disciplined I am which leads them to compare themselves unfavorably. I don't know...|||Finding real best friends is very difficult, not because there aren't enough nice, good people in the world, but because in order to be at a best friend level there has to be major compatibility on a...|||It's funny because most of the replies on this thread are an attempt to reassure the OP that this girl is most likely not ignoring her deliberately. And this is what I've found in real life too with...|||ESTJs that I've known outside my family (my sister and father are ESTJs) are A-okay in my book. I guess I know they will never be my best friends, but I respect and like them for the role they play...|||I've found that extraverts are like this the most. They love new people OR people they haven't seen in a while so when they see them they are new again. Introverts are the opposite. They are quiet...|||There definitely is some connection between traditional, simpler societies and having a beautiful natural kindness. Gardening, wooden items and greener options are becoming more popular as people...|||Most ESTJs are 3s, there was a poll about this on the forum. Oh, oops, my mistake. I don't know why I thought a lot of ESTJs were 8s.|||I think INFJs and INTJs probably look pretty identical to one another. Many people have mistaken me for INTJ or even INTP even after getting to know me. I believe the J creates a sort of careful...|||Maybe this is a trait of ESTJs, but only the unhealthy ones. In the case of my sister, she really really values competency and success. Like I would say those are her top values, very different...|||I know what you're saying WickedQueen and I could even see myself giving the same advice to somebody else, but I don't see why it's so bad to alter yourself a little to keep the peace. I don't know...|||She would deny it; There is no point in bringing it up. I have asked her to give our cousin another chance, but she won't really even talk about it. She just says that she doesn't like how our...|||My big sister's an ESTJ and I've found that the best way to get along with her is to follow her lead. I also make sure not to 'show her up,' meaning even if I know something she doesn't I'll keep my...|||When I am lucky enough to find another INFP I always try and overcome my shyness to get to know them. But oddly enough I don't think they like meeting somebody who is so much like them, who is...|||I discovered that I love to learn only after I graduated from college..Somehow being told when and what to study made the whole thing very unenjoyable. I often wonder if I could have accomplished...|||My sister is an ESTJ/enneagram 8 and she has a good heart deep down, but one of her issues is that she has great hatred for people who seem to demonstrate a more natural ability in certain areas that...|||Some ESTJs are terrible conversationalists--it is strange because they are extroverted, but at the same time will want to talk of only their interests I find the ones who listen to my...|||This is something I see done all the time, but most probably don't even realize they are doing it. What I've seen is that the person will at first realize that they did something wrong and this...|||I've noticed tendencies in groups of women. The tall and or heavier ones dominate and the slim ones are quieter, more agreeable. My theory is that the differences are from underlying hormone...|||Sounds just like an old INFP best friend I had once upon a time. Our friendship ended when she started to think of herself as victimized by me. Looking back, when we were on good terms she did the...|||Jealousy comes from a false belief that other peoples' lives are easier. Life is hard for everyone, but in different ways..So someone who appears to have it all or has something that you would like...|||It's so hard to see ourselves accurately...Your type is a generalization and the problem is that we know too much about ourselves. We can always see an exception that breaks the rule. I've known...|||Not all leaders are the charismatic type though. I think most are just really well integrated into the external world and get a natural 'high' off getting others to do what they tell them to. It's...|||Other societies have a niche for spiritual/impractical types of people. But our western society really doesn't have a place for us, so we are always forced to 'learn' how to be something we're not. ...|||I don't know if this would qualify as an outburst, but when people are acting 'difficult' I can only ignore it for so long. The problem with calling people out on their behavior problems/ meanness...|||When I've been in leadership positions I've been pretty good at getting a successful project completed, in fact very good. The problem I've had is that there is always somebody who does't want to be...|||Some may call what I do holding a grudge, but actually it's that I learn somebody's basic nature and then respond accordingly. I think a lot of people get away with terrible behavior because most...|||I hope I didn't give the impression that I'm forcing myself to be some kind of extrovert with 5000 friends...My becoming more social has been a natural process and I certainly don't try to force...|||My husband is INTJ and my two closest friends are INFJ and INTJ..and it's not like I'm targeting INXJs...So yes, I am attracted to or I am attracting a certain type for sure. But it's all kind of...|||Snail, this is my thoughts on your post. Now you could be right that INFJs are less willing to fight for one side, but I have another take on the situation that might explain things. Open conflict...|||As a child I heard you're too sensitive occasionally. But then in college I heard you're too girly from females as an insult. They of course saw themselves as 'strong' women, the ideal modern...|||They may not openly cry, but they will get depressed and lock themselves in their homes when some tragedy affects them. They don't want people to see them as weak. They will put on a good show of...|||^^Maybe that's my problem...I meet another INFJ/INFP IRL and I think, wow, we are really alike, we should be friends and they are actively trying to avoid people...which I should understand since I...|||What I've worried about is people thinking I'm trying to be deep and intellectual, like some form of elitism that I've chosen. Weirdly I think this makes people think they must have had a harder...|||Growing up as a typical introvert I never had boatloads of friends. I always attributed this to my shyness and lack of friendliness. Content with my best friends I didn't even have much of an urge...|||Since I don't fit neatly into any box and people can't figure me out I get discrimination from both sides. The clique of alternative people think I'm mainstream because I don't care about hipster...|||I almost wish people would say that to me; At least that would clear things up for me. Usually what happens to me is people just don't respond to a comment I make that's a little more insightful...|||The crusader type is how I'd describe the INFJ...which has a tendency to push me away. I don't think the J function has much to do with how clean a person's environment is, but more on how irritated...|||Sensitive people probably do get depressed more, but I don't think we are really more 'unhappy'. I hope that didn't just sound like a total contradiction. What I mean is that many types bury their...|||I'm a mother and one of my best friends is an INFJ and we both believe in teaching children how to have 'down time'. There are too many extroverted parents who keep their kids going non-stop with...|||This is what I was thinking too...I am very much against thinking of myself as being higher than anyone else. I really detest anything hierarchical, but in many ways the INFP does appear to be more...|||My father was more of a narcissist in his younger years (ESTP), but I think with maturity and difficult life experiences he's changed a lot for the better. He even expresses intolerance towards...|||Most people who are making their living in a creative field are often times extremely confident to the point of being borderline egotistical. I think this is almost necessary in a domain where you...|||People who have experienced a near death experience will usually be forever changed after the event. Many of the 'new' traits seem to be traits that INFPs already have to some degree or another. ...|||I really like what you emboldened...The last line almost gave me chills. The line that also stood out to me was The abuser might learn how to acquire these qualities, but that presupposes a modesty...|||Fake eccentrics are different in style mostly, nothing deeper than that. Their behavior is usually completely mainstream. It's really a great social strategy...You're different enough to be...|||It is hard to have self esteem in a society that places so much value on outer, material and communal successes. Many of the skills that INFPs excel at aren't obvious and many find useless or are in...'

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'Jungle Book - timeless, good songs, fun characters, good pacing|||wisdom imho is the *application* of intelligence how often have you said to yourself I wish I hadnt done that or said that - that is being wise after the event...sometimes though you DO manage...|||silence can be utterly destroying - use it wisely. I have found that if people just suddenly close up then they need a lot of time to work things through...you need to be there but dont pressurise...|||intp - every one i have encountered has just not got it - logic vs emotion ...one letter away but may as well be from another planet|||Dont burden any friends - friends are great BUT you need an anonymous and neutral person to handle it - seriously you could wreck friendship and feel even worse|||hi guys - that includes girls as well LOL - I had a very severe period of depression over a year ago - went to see a counsellor first as i was just crying for no reason in public and felt very...|||I hope you are talking about the Swedish original...anyway its is very good|||Brazil - dark twisted, romantic, funny, scary, prophetic, artistic|||give it a little time...sadly many people are ONLY interested in keeping their online life online imho - I rarely go in depth online as it rarely transfers ok to relaity|||5 w 4 which is commonly described as the Investigator or Observer type...the other weekend I had some relative starnger say ....you are just like an observer taking in everything... how accurate|||and I am sharing my perspective that people DO lie...some people here are posting in a holier than thou mode and there is no real depth to the discussion...basically the argument is you lied so you...|||as long as the music is new to you then ANY music is good...its a bit like dismissing a classic novel written 50 years ago... I really struggle with the lack of inventive or left field music...|||when one of my sisters died quite suddenly i was a little tearful at first and had twinges of sadness. at the time of the funeral i was just numb and when the service was over i went past her partner...|||if they are a loved one --- really really try to tell them you love them before they go - they need to hear it and you need to say it. Even if they were cruel to you or whatever the deathbed is the...|||not true - depends on the lie of course but you can eaisly tell ONE giant lie ONCE everything else is true. Why do people assume lying is like some virus. Lies are more self contained than you think...|||Lying is not difficult so you HAVE lied or are you just guessing i am gobsmacked - 3 days at the very start of a relationship and you're upset youre wrong about the lies mean you do not get...|||i guess people have different views but the big picture is the relationship - if everyone walked out or abandoned relationships over 1 little thing then it would be a sad day...to be honest as long...|||You are assuming that lying IS a conscious act...theres so much BS in the world that its hard NOT to lie...one day just make a mental or physical note of all the lies you say to yourself and others...|||sometimes i think the reason behind lies are more important than the lies themselves ask yourself if you are truly honest about everything|||Yes I did apologize and explain the situation by text...then asked to speak to her directly...she rang and there was just silence so I said my piece about being sorry. Later that day I became a bit...|||Monday would have been blissed.fuck.miserable I realised i screwed up big time with someone i liked and seemed to care about me...why why why am i so stupid|||city girl.... the best things to do are make a plan to get him somewhere isolated somewhere you can be intimate - that would be hint 1 then make the first move - yes it maybe gut wrenchingly...|||I have recently totally messed up a starting relationship (told a lie about something and was caught out by it) As I considered the relationship even in its early stages quite strong and intense I...|||I know the last part is well intentioned...but anyone who has been inftuated knows the number one addictive thing is the slim hope that something good will come and suddenly he or she will fall into...|||you are infatuated (its normal you are NOT insane) but with that amount of contact you will find it hard to snap out of it - you may even have to change your job. Just consider infatuation as a trial...|||Having been stuck in a weird infatuation phase just over a year ago i know what you are going through... How to get over him...I did manage to download a script for clinical hypnosis to deal...|||intp and infp - good luck with a relationship but seriously that t and f difference can easily break it...to be honest as an infp I would be wary of committing to someone who puts money before the...|||women are flaky|||Peter Gabriel - Solsbury Hill could be very spiritual and about finding yourself I like the lines When illusion spin her net I'm never where I want to be And liberty she pirouette When...|||remember an interview is your chance to ask questions - be careful what you are getting into|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DnAK1NkAoKs no vid great song I reaised I could probaly post 100 Rundgren songs no problem|||Philip Pullman, Philip K Dick -well its sci-fi, Philip Jose Farmerand not strictly afantasy author but offers enough out and out surreal dream like stuff at times he deserves to be read David Mitchell|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9-ctHzyVDFc no vid but a great song - well Rundgren's Something Anything - is one of the best double albums ever made|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qMxX-QOV9tI Jessie J Price Tag - the lyrics are almost pure INFP...forget about money|||coming from a large family I can hack either...but its great to just have your own space your own privacy...peace and quiet|||IME girls are extremely poor at showing any kind of direct interest - so men have to make the moves and have to face rejection at every 'stage' of a relationship. Guys want to know if the shy girl...|||then you really need to look at WHY you are doing it. Unrealistic high standards are usually the main thing.Power games if you've been rejected in the past - some sort of passed on revenge thing....|||the supposed 'friend zone' which is really just the cowardice of girls (mainly) to be truthful with men. If you are not physically attracted to man/boy ffs girls tell him kindly but dont spin this BS...|||to the OP - quit - you do not have to suffer any abuse I don’t want to receive unemployment benefits or whatever and be a burden on society. Why do you feel that leaving a hostile environment ...|||the truth is that ANY activity can be paid for...finding something enjoyable which pays is really the key|||the PUA route is a way to misery...there ARE some good things but they are basic common sense just get out there and date...it doesnt matter if you dont like them or even 'fancy' them but you must...|||dating is purely about getting your face in front of a girls and seeing what happens - they will either like you or not. Most of this is based on looks and you will be judged worthy or not very...|||i date to see if there is any of the following - friendship, sexual chemistry...if theres none which is a LOT of the time then its best to move on. If theres friendship only thats nice, if theres...|||dystopias? - just read the current news...the world is getting more fucked up each day I recommend Cloud Atlas by David Mitchell - you will probably like the sections An Orison of Sonmi-451 and...|||to the OP the best thing I have read and ALL INFPs will probably struggle with this...The best thing about the past is that it has gone|||my daughter, my netbook, my glasses|||i have trouble with friendships as simply most people seem to be full of BS combined with a show-off attitude also most people seem blatantly un self aware so there is a lot of hypocrisy....this can...|||not a good comparison as the INFP is rejecting the offer and the ENFP is accepting - do the ENFP dialogue for rejecting and do the INFP dialogue for accepting you cannot really compare a YES with a...|||I propose that Factotum is good film for INFPs... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eLwyNvQ_Jn4 Admirable...the reality of drudgery in the world|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nkgcPUipU2s a good cover starts off a bit weak but...'

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'http://www.cartoonstock.com/newscartoons/cartoonists/mba/lowres/mban1510l.jpg -Anna|||Family and friends see: http://shechive.files.wordpress.com/2012/03/jim-carrey-13.jpg?w=500&h=663 People at work see: http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lpwc1wAxBU1qeeqk5o1_500.jpg At social...|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7mBfW-CdgLE&amp;list=PLnbpvtoIoqaAxXeGYZ7mOI6k-l_GLUWvs -Anna|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NirRMrpbCFQ&amp;feature=share&amp;list=PLnbpvtoIoq aC1PeCAHdUuYgTu7p07x1LS -Anna|||No, not necessarily. Any relationship can become problematic, S or N. I have dated two ISTJs, and communication wasn't a problem. Both times I just lost interest. I think its better to have someone...|||Oh Christ, that explains a lot. -Anna|||http://yourownvet.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/funny-pictures-cat-hates-the-vet2.jpg http://www.emmiebee.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/funny-pictures-cat-worries-he-has-broken-jesus.jpg...|||http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m1nw512AOk1rrtcb0o1_400.gif -Anna|||http://static.fjcdn.com/pictures/I+m+going+to+hell+for+this.+I+m+going+to+hell_40e0df_3661392.jpg -Anna|||I barfed a little in my mouth when I saw the thread title. -Anna|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vL6MaEz90x8&amp;list=SP15AD531E3A907CB7&amp;index= 2 -Anna|||I appreciate the compliment, thank you :). And I have to agree with you...balance is essential, especially for people who are more prone to acting on emotions. Being around really strong Feelers can...|||http://i829.photobucket.com/albums/zz215/ScorchedMoose/Forum%20Pics/what-is-this-i-dont-even-spiderman.jpg -Anna|||I too have a ISTJ brother, and he went through a similar phase. I had to approach him in a calm manner and act relaxed about everything he was doing. At first he tried to get a reaction of some sort,...|||I am sandwiched between F and T. I'm able to rationalize my emotions. Not all Feelers are airheads ;) -Anna|||Thats just poor manners. Yeesh. And really it comes down to the Feeler's ability to look at the facts presented to them as just that: facts. There is no hidden message behind them! I am friends with...|||-That a man was swallowed by a great fish and survived the ordeal. -The strong ocean current near the bridges would slice me up into little pieces. -Gremlins lived in large potted plants. -Anna|||Magistrate. -Anna|||1.Blue 2.Green 3.Gold 4.Orange -Anna|||62977 Turned my cat into a Meme. :P -Anna|||I'm on skype right now if anyone wants to talk. :-) -Anna|||You will do fine :). I took Martial Art lessons for a couple of years, it really builds your endurance and confidence. -Anna|||http://static.themetapicture.com/media/funny-Doctor-House-cat-lupus.jpg -Anna|||Everyone is different. It would be nice to put us in categories, at times. For me I am sandwiched between INTJ and INFJ...no one is going to be a perfect score for any type! If there were only...|||http://revolutionfromhome.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/01/where-to-now.jpg -Anna|||Verbal affirmation: Good. No verbal affirmation: BAD. -Anna|||You are very brave. :) I am so happy you are on the road to recovery. -Anna|||I would set up a time to hang out every other week. If they have a date to fall back on, that should lessen their constant badgering. My friend [ENFJ] was just as confused, and started feeling hurt...|||Its quite possible, especially if she is going through something difficult, or the people surrounding her fail to keep up their end of the friendship. Both of those things will make me edgy over...|||Yup. People die. -Anna|||Nearly every inch of us on the line Plucking on the string of everything that could have been Such unrest future Just factors of our lives Tham ja murh ja naseeb. [Minds without Fear] [-The...|||I love that this thread is all about analyzing the My Little Pony MBTIs, roflmao! -Anna|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PgMsACFMIq8 -Anna|||I'm puzzled. The two INFPs I met in person were not the most stable individuals [so, really, typing them is probably moot.] They did initially give me pause as to whether or not I should try...|||I think the being used part is common in anyone afflicted with what I call the, Nice Disease. It happens, and it hurts, but it has made us who we are as individuals. Never forget that. -Anna|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VTT6picaCoQ&amp;feature=share&amp;list=PLnbpvtoIoq aBmsNw-52KsvXVm5xThr0-c -Anna|||http://nerdsontherocks.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/11/deadpool1.jpg -Anna|||To address the first two reasons: Thats why I would prefer to elope or have a wedding with only the immediate family present. Is any of that other stuff really necessary? It would make me incredibly...|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_oqEVTinJb0 -Anna|||Dear ISFP, Are you REALLY as nice as you seem to be? Its a bit unnerving. Stop making me like you. Regards, Anna|||Mood summed up: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FsqJFIJ5lLs&amp;list=PLnbpvtoIoqaAxXeGYZ7mOI6k-l_GLUWvs -Anna|||I am far from being all-knowing. I like to think I am very good at educated guesses ;). There have been times I have been COMPLETELY wrong, everyone has been there. Makes you cringe thinking back....|||I don't really have a type. Everyone has something to bring to the table. My best friend is a INTJ, and I get along with them best. ENFJs are hilarious, at times annoying, but they grow on you...|||http://ih3.redbubble.net/image.3535841.9594/flat,550x550,075,f.jpg -Anna|||I don't hang out on any of those sites, except for twitter. Short, sweet, to the point. -Anna|||-What are 3 things that annoy you? Disrespectful/rowdy children, smacking, walking behind someone who is smoking, and the smoke engulfs your face. Bleh. - Do you exercise regularly? Four to five...|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KxOhc-dfEDY&amp;feature=share&amp;list=PLnbpvtoIoqaBmsNw-52KsvXVm5xThr0-c -Anna|||I want to suspend a harness from the ceiling and paint walls. Bounce back and forth. -Anna|||http://images.betterworldbooks.com/078/Three-Strides-Before-the-Wire-Mitchell-Elizabeth-9780786886227.jpg http://andersonlibrary.files.wordpress.com/2012/07/criminal-karin-slaughter.jpg?w=250&h=250...|||http://youtu.be/v5IeT9ZRiRw -Anna'

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'I am heading into Seoul, South Korea this weekend. If anyone is local there I would love to link up.|||I never understood the name thing. First why can't we name people all sorts of things. Isn't that how names came to be anyways. My name is Christopher which means bearer of Christ. So obviously...|||As others have said perfectionism is not a bat thing. However, what you are experiencing is something different. Unfortunately as an INFP I think we are sometimes too hard on ourselves. ...|||I dont know if people actually like me or if they just tolerate me. It makes me parrinoid. Not because I want them to like me but because I usually just tolerate them and I hate it. I dont want...|||Outbursts of anger. I feel your pain on that one. When I get to that point its usually because I have been offended (usually by being ignored) or someone else is being offended. Normally I do just...|||Another way to go is to blend the two. Make the person an Antagonist who turns into the protagonist at the end. Say a person who is misunderstood and therefore seems to cause problems who in the...|||You know your an INFP when you are pretty sure something happened and when other people deny it you realize it was just you day dreaming.|||I am currently in the Military, and I will tell you the truth it can be hard sometimes for us INFPs. I have been in for almost 10 years and am currently a Warrant Officer. As an INFP most will tell...|||I know exactly how you feel. We live in an society where extroversion is the norm. If you withdraw at any point you must be depressed, right? And as for the constantly trying to reach you, it's...|||There is much more to a relationship than 4 letters. Any type can have a loving relationship. There may be recommended types but if you connect with this person and they connect with you then that...|||Man with a large heart.|||I would say that addiction and dependency is probably more likely to happen in someone who is dealing with intense emotions (I know this is a pretty significant breakthrough but please hold your...|||HAHA! My big thing is I stop an ask other people where I was going with this train of thought. My favorite answer is when they say I lost you a long time ago. My close friends have learned to...|||Deep minded is really the thing. At work people are so quick to make decisions (to the point where a quick decision, even when wrong, is a good decision), but then I come in, late, and have a plan...|||I wish I had kept a journal. I do now and I love it. However, as a child I didn't live in a house where privacy was of very much concern. If I were to have kept a journal my dad probably would...|||I have always known that I act differently at work than I do at home or in private. So I decided to take a personality test based upon how I act at work. The results came to be an ESTJ. Now I feel...|||170258 Something like this.|||Very well said. Being an INFP is something to celebrate. Don't feel that you need to fall into every stereotype that you read on the internet of what INFP's are supposed to be. Not all of us are...|||I don't feel there is one singular meaning to what life is (life is the essence of humanity). As a religious person I feel that one of the meanings of what it is to be human is to praise and honor...|||Well I am a super Alpha with 4 kids.|||I like these portions of your post. I do know that the Alpha male thing isn't actually a thing. However, it does give a visualization of the behavior we are describing. Also culture does have a...|||CAUTION: There is some bad language that is in this video!!! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RD_44xEEDjU This guy is our perfect example.|||I think you hit the nail on the head. I don't think it's who they actually are. I definitely fell that it's an act they put on to be something they are not. This is why the problem compounds when...|||When time gets tight and people demand A poem i write for the man About 30 seconds.|||It's pretty extensive. Have you watched MTV lately.|||I got a good laugh out of the ad that showed up. 165898 Maybe we all just need to boost our testosterone.|||First I am loving the Glee Gif. Second that is some really sound advice. It's about branding masculinity. I haven't ever though of it that way.|||I don't feel bad about it any more. I have spent enough time in the friend zone to know that girls hate guys like this but feel they must date manly men. So they keep on going with the vicious...|||Being called gay can be painful. I learned to get over it. I would rather be seen as gay than a caveman. At least gay people are fun. Cavemen play in their feces and draw pictures on the wall. ...|||I call it proving masculinity. I don't find it necessary to prove that I am a man. I think my wife and 4 kids can vouch for my masculinity. When we have get togethers (like work BBQ's) I seem to...|||1. Why do evil people have a larger impact on the world than good people? 2. Why do we need government? 3. Are there any real truths? It was true once that the earth was flat. It was true once...|||Find a healthy release. Mine is cycling and hiking. I can ride forever and the whole time be alone with myself. Or I go for a hike and when I get to the top I sit down and read a book and enjoy a...|||Study habits are really dependent upon the subject and my professor. If I find the reading to be interesting I usually read the assigned chapters once and I am good to go. If i don't like the...|||I always wondered why I was horrible at giving directions and my wife is great at it. I mean I'm supposed to be the one who is good at giving directions right? Well the reason is I don't navigate...|||Sing, whistle, hum, tap the beat with a pencil you name it and I do it. The only saving grace I have right now is the guy I share an office with loves music and sometimes joins in.|||Well I'm out. Two years ago I was leave a Christmas party. I was backing down a steep driveway in the snow and slid my truck into a parked car on the other side of the road (the roads were...|||They significantly overcharge, says my one good bull, and eat his warm, steamy butter flakes.|||While my schedule really sucks I am an early bird. I am up until about 11 or midnight and up at 5. I prefer mornings but have no problems staying up late. My favorite time is enjoying a cup of...|||I am so ridiculously handsome. I mean really who wouldn't want someone with these stunning good looks. If I were me I would totally do me. (can I throw up now?)|||I saw this video and it really touched me. http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&amp;v=XpaOjMXyJGk#!|||Freakin Sharks with laser beams on their freakin heads.|||What a great thread. Well in 10 years I'll be 37 (yikes that's almost 40). Well I hope to have a couple of things that have changed. 1. I want to be debt free. I really hate the idea of...|||Sorry for party rockin The movie was way better than the book|||I have always bonded better with women than with men. This has caused people to question my masculinity for quite a while. Even when I was a child my dad asked me if I was gay (this was a very sad...|||I am the one with my face in a book. I am quiet and reserved. I am the one who will talk forever if I have something important to say (so if I'm talking you better listen).|||http://youtu.be/4xjPODksI08 Great song with a great cause.|||I love a handwritten letter. Emails are nice. But there is something that is more personal about a handwritten letter. When I was deployed to Iraq my wife and I talked fairly constantly but when...|||Dang I meant to cancel this and come back to it later when I had more time to type. Sorry about the super short answer. But yes unfortunately this is the first controversial topic that came to...|||Gay Marriage|||While I am not super knowledgeable on MBTI I can see how you feel. When I first started learning about MBTI I thought that it was just a big stereotype. I soon realized that it actually is a...'

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'Oh man I need these back please =(|||I know an INTP 1. I actually briefly considered a 2 typing, which would have been more bizarre, but the giving/generosity was basically 1-motivated in nature. Frankly, he's the most INTJish INTP...|||IME it's doable but you need to use Ne to come up with new things external to the relationship to keep things new. If you get too complacent then yeah this relationship gets boring.... Edit: what...|||ENTP 6w7 possibly sp/sx wouldn't mind a pm exchange of questions or something.|||katherine8 I recommend using username-youre-responding-to so people know who you're responding to.|||Ugh I eventually had to stop in the middle of the test. Like many enneagram tests I've taken, I got fed up in the middle with having to choose between two things that poorly describe me. At some...|||On the one hand, you're both pedantic. On the other hand, out of all the types in the world you found the only other one that would understand why someone could be pedantic about such seemingly...|||Animal how does what you're describing apply more to sp/sx than sp/so? (if I relate to the entirety of your sp/sx description can I definitively close the case on my instinct stack, or are...|||What kind of intense?|||Soooo is Japan 1w9 or 9w1?|||Here for my biannual checkup. Still pretty sure I'm a 6 although I've been seeing 7 more lately, for good and for bad (i'm getting so habituated to running from responsibilities I'm starting to...|||If 2s are not the compulsive giver type, what type are those people? Because they definitely exist, and the more warm gushy but with some manipulative streak ones I've always tentatively...|||The instincts are a giant mess. People can't even agree on whether a first instinct is an instinct you're good at or not (or if that's totally irrelevant) I personally find tritype theory to be...|||@orihara some of your observations about this are very interesting/helpful to me (as an ENTP trying to figure out type) I'm sorry if this is a thread derail (and if so could we move it to PM or...|||Well, all my friends are pretty fabulous so it's not really unhealthy with me imo. I don't know why, it's just once I start liking a person a lot I don't really have a button marked stop? I wouldn't...|||Huh. Well, I hate group study with the loathing of a thousand fiery suns.... The reason I'm not sure this is the instinct is the reason I hate it is that groups never get anything done. Ever....|||This might be a good observation across the board. I'm going to object very mildly to your choice of language here. (This is on the assumption that I'm correct on the extent to which...|||As an overly blunt person myself: Do you consciously over balance the negative feedback with positive? Thank him several times a day for stuff you appreciate he did, compliment him several times a...|||What is in the quote are the sections I relate to more or less. Based on the available options, In sx: definitely first In so: Almost certainly middle. When I was young I was much more...|||Home | The 5 Love Languages® | Improving Millions of Relationshipsx85 One Language at a Time. What is your enneagram type, how confident of the typing are you? Of the five love languages, which...|||Interesting idea. Aang: not a 7. He's not an id type- I think he might be a one, but not sure. In any case, he doesn't run from his internal issues, he's at peace with boredom, he's really okay...|||Conformity, and also anti-conformity.|||Yep, that's it! And here I was wondering why they came up with such random sentences. and I actually misread the bedding (It really says myself) so a decent ish translation other than a totally...|||Nines have personalities. Warm, pleasant, self-concealing, slippery doormat is a personality.|||1 - I'm not angry at all! *wineglass stem breaks from crushing pressure of clenched fist* 2 - I've only been smothering you because I love you, you evil, ungrateful bitch. Now grovel before my...|||Yeah the mystic feeling is ruined by having can I offer you some bedding* as one of the magical voodoo phrases. Full translation for the curious: Soul and faith are big thief of guy. Please...|||Not true in my experience. Let's see... Elementary school, fighting teachers who picked on friends, it was mostly us vs them. But I didn't feel like a victim. (I actively refused to) Older...|||Huh. I love the hunt. The process. The step by step wheedling deeper. I love the aaaah feeling of a satisfying 'click' at the end of a slow, piece by piece extraction. Mine. All mine.|||I can't find it now, but reading this thread has reminded me.... Haven't they done studies correlating preference for spicy food and sex drive?|||Those two I really related to, the rest not so much, still not sure if sx first or second. Edit: welp, did not realize how long this thread is.|||haha that's basically the thesis of my thread here http://personalitycafe.com/infp-forum-idealists/194922-infps-field-guide-entp.html|||This is fairly terrible advice. It is particularly inaccurate for sp, whose fixations do not the most interesting topics make. My personal worries are not something I discuss. But it's also...|||I feel like this is just another detour into navel gazing on my part, but I *still* can't settle on whether I'm sx/sp or sp/sx....|||ENTP approved: A Religion for the Nonreligious | Wait But Why|||What's the basis for the six being low on self worth? Am I just a weird exception?|||Perfect description.|||In short: Your blindspot is primarily annoying to other people, not you. If you find yourself very worried about your blindspot, you are probably wrong about it being your blindspot. A possible...|||Go for it. (also I like the title)|||Effort and social success don't really correlate... When you're trying people can sense it, and it's unappealing. There's a lot of insecure people out there who are so-first... And probably rank...|||Instinctual blindspot =/= deficiency. An so-first can be more incapable socially than an so-last. An sx-first can screw up intense relationships worse than an sx-last will. An sp-first isn't...|||Yeah, sure, induction , plus a bit of instinct based on slightly more subconscious processing. I don't think any entp throwing the word around means it literally.|||Get to know a person well enough there's a pattern of how they think and react to stuff. you start to expect what their reaction will be. If you start to be right most of the time, down to saying the...|||What's this relationship like, long term? What does it take to keep it going? What are the problem areas to avoid/overcome, what are the best (type related) bits? All I can tell for now is that...|||ahahahaha that's hilarious and apt|||I considered the possibility of a 4 fix simply because the possibility horrified me. I've since sort of moved on from identifying my fixes with certainty, but I definitely think feeling a strong...|||Well, if I'm sp/sx, I can describe a little bit more about how it works, for me at least - for a long time feeling satisfied with increasing sp, but when sp-need starts being properly filled, looking...|||there are enough 6 fans around where I won't sound like a speshul hipster for saying this, but the only 6 I get along poorly with is the Social 6 (rules/social hierarchy and me do NOT mix). I love...|||I no longer remember exactly what specific insight i was picturing when writing that comment, so all I've got for you is that most real insight comes across as surprising.|||Probably sp/sx, and I doubt it. The weakness for sp doesn't match what the actual weakness for sp is. It's not resources. It's the instinct for self-preservation. An sp last's penalty should be...|||First choice 1, second choice 2. But I think the benefits and detriments are skewed (the negatives of choice 3 are negligible if you choose choice 1 first). Obviously if the group is...'

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'I'm very focused on morals also, and I dislike conflict, but I'm most definitely an ENTJ. She might just not be so stereotypical!|||I'm scared of failure, but also throwing up...take that for what you will.|||I'm an ENTJ, and I've always been torn between slytherin and gryffindor-although they are 2 sides of the same coin. I would say I'm slytherin though-cunning, straight-forward, and annoyingly...|||I'm terrible at remembering people's names! Like, really terrible!|||I would say Chris Colfer. He was severely bullied in high school, and stayed strong because he knew he was better than those who made fun of him. He went on to get a part written for him on a hit TV...|||Something that always makes me admire a person and feel the need to know them better is complete honesty. Like, if someone walked up to me and told me everything they loved, for example, and every...|||Personally, I could quite happily spend an evening on my own; just chilling out and watching TV, etc. Boredom is never that big of a problem. However, if I ever have to spend the day on my own,...|||I rarely cry through sadness anyway; it's very rare that will happen. I mostly cry when I'm angry. If that is the case I'll exclude myself from other people; it makes other people uncomfortable, so...|||I'm much better at talking to a crowd that to a smaller group of people. I actually love talking to large groups; I feel empowered!|||This is absolutely fantastic and so useful-thankyou so much!|||I agree! Some of us (especially me! :S) also like to be the center of attention! (I think a pineapple is very attention-grabbing...in the fruit-world at least!)|||This may have been done before; if so, we can try it again! I was wondering if certain personality types are more likely to be religious than others; are you religious? I am an ENTJ and I am...|||I'm not sure about my functions, but generally; At my best... I'm happy, optimistic, confident (that's a big one for me!) At my worst... I'm closed off, grumpy, pessimistic and snappy|||I see someone on another planet looking at the earth from close up...difficult one though!|||When you get infuriated in group projects because nobody is taking charge as well as you could...|||I just find it really interesting...I don't believe in it, but I just find it intriguing-I honestly couldn't explain why!|||Haahaa, I didn't actually write shellfish, I wrote selfish, but you're right, we are not shellfish|||We are not as selfish and stubborn as we are portrayed to be!|||I talk about my plans to other people as I'm always organising and trying to get everything as efficient as possible, and telling someone my plans out loud help me to do that!|||ENTJs normally-same as me!|||I'm an ENTJ and I'm not small small, like you wouldn't look at me and think you're so small! But I have always been one of the smallest in my year at school, etc. It's an interesting theory that I'm...|||I'm the same! Most of my friends (I'm mostly friends with introverts) love to collect things and won't throw anything away, whilst I'm really not sentimental about things and like as little clutter...|||Klaine honestly save the show for me-Ryan Murphy just doesn't seem to care about what the fans want anymore!|||I'm a female ENTJ, and I am so obsessed with the paranormal; I go on ghost tours and the whole shabang!|||I see love as personal gain, but I would choose lover over PG!|||Arrested Development and Curb your Enthusiasm are HILARIOUS!|||I'll try not to sound like a creep too much here! Generally, I just follow all their works, watch every interview, talk about them endlessly to people who do not care, stuff like that!|||When I like something I become obsessed very easily. It can range from a person (especially celebrities!) to food to a TV programme! I think it ties in with an ENTJ personality type because...|||For books, I really like action and dystopia; sort of futuristic worlds and survival. For films I'm quite strange. I love horror and psychological thrillers-I love being scared-but I also like chick...|||It's basically the first found footage horror film. It's about these people who film a documentary in the woods about the blair witch myth. Anyway they got lost and stuff and the witch, although we...|||So I watched the Blair Witch Project for the first time today. It's a really great film and it definitely deserves the recognition it gets. However, it's nowhere near as scary (in my opinion) as...|||Winnie the Pooh's Hefelump movie and Happy Feet. Yep. I'm weird. The Hunger Games too, but that was because I was a huge fan of the books and I had been waiting for the movie for years!|||Under the Sea-The Little Mermaid is my favourite without a doubt. It made me want to be a mermaid so bad! Others I like- Hakuna Matata-The Lion King He's A Pirate-Pirates of the Caribbean Honour...|||I'm currently watching Nanny McPhee on TV, but I have just watched The Blair Witch Project for the first time; an incredible film, but it seems to have impacted me psychologically! :S They're both...|||1. The Hunger Games-my absolute favourite movie of all time. It provides an extremely insightful commentary into humanity's obsession with reality TV and war, and our love of other people's pain. 2....|||Unfortunately mine is neither clever, nor interesting. My username is a combination of two of my names, thus it is easy to remember. My signature is a result of needing a signature and not having a...|||I have never felt the need to do drugs-I'm even teetotal, and I've never smoked a cigarette. I feel I am strong enough to cope without any of these mechanisms.|||Sometimes I just power through it and ignore it; better to just sweat it out! Otherwise I'll watch something funny to take my mind off of it and binge! I also like to be in a dark room and sleep a...|||Hi there! I'm really into Glee. Like, a lot. And I was wondering if there were any Gleeks out there who wanted to discuss the show. My OTP is Klaine if anyone wants to talk about that too! :happy:|||The Hunger Games. Without a doubt. I'm going to be cheeky and say that my second favourite is Cabin in the Woods and my third is The Shining. They're not exactly cheery....|||This is really interesting-not a single Hufflepuff so far! I always thought it would be mostly Gryffindor and Slytherin (because they are so alike), as having natural leadership abilities could be...|||This is definitely me! Especially the bit about society telling ENTJ females to be more feminine; I'm pretty girly, but I always took charge over the boys at school and many of the girls thought this...|||Thankyou very much! Yes, I think clashing of powers can be common-I'd love to friend you though! :)|||I'm an ENTJ and I'm an athiest. I have absolutely nothing against any religion, but I just believe that science did everything, not a higher power. I really like buddhist's ideas though, not in a...|||Deal fully with something before moving on to the next so you don't have to go back to it again-if that makes sense!|||ENTJs are pretty ruthless-we'd probably have no qualms with killing some zombies!|||Thanks! :proud: Why not! Gosh, y'all are spoiling me :blushed:|||Count me in-love the phrase internet generation...|||Well, I've always wanted a twin!|||No, thankYOU! I was a little surprised when I read some of the stereotypical qualities of an ENTJ, as, although I relate very strongly to it, I knew I wasn't a monster!!'

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'Are INFPs/INTPs prone to the I think I'm special syndrome? yeah, I'd say so. but then again, isn't this true for like almost every single human being? I can definately speak for the INFP that...|||Defining selfishness as being more self-oriented, and motivated in that state towards comfort, And defining altruism as selflessness, as being more oriented towards the awareness and comfort of...|||159 last time i checked, which was in middle school i think. but the IQ test is stupid. i bet it wouldn't score too well on itself.|||I'll tell you flat out It hurts so much to think of this So from my thoughts I will exclude The very thing that I hate more than everything is The way I'm powerless To dictate my own moods ...|||I'd definately agree that there is this lurking sense of deficiency and incompetence and, well, helplessness I guess... I don't necessarily think it's restricted to this type, but I do feel that...|||WOW, 1000 posts! I come back after a weeks-long hiatus, and first thing i find: you have become a robot with 1000 posts ...|||Aw, you sound a lot like me. I started out with my violin and I have mixed feelings towards that instrument as a result. Do you like http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-JXT3D7vZWg? He's my catharsis...|||Wow. 3,016 posts now and counting!! congratulations... on teh orange name, teh heart, and that gummi bear army!! :crazy:|||Metal as in.. Amon Amarth..? or Cannibal Corpse..? ;; I can muster up a thrash mood sometimes, but I'm scared to commit to the scene. Metal is like. Haaa. It sucks people in and turns them into...|||Aw, thank you! I've been playing up to three hours a day for the past two days or so and it's been KILLING my fingers. They're already white and blistery-looking. But yeah!! I'll totally look for a...|||I'm EXACTLY like this. And I'm also always editing posts. I also always thought it was the NP. I edit and re-edit posts over and over again, but only as long as as i'm under the convenient...|||I've been playing guitar for about two years now, but it's been on and off. I was barely able to play at all last semester, because life was so friggin tumultuous. The problem is, I have a...|||this is nice, but i'd agree that there are some discrepancies, as was pointed out by some people. the whole frontal lobe - internal stimuli/ back of the brain - external stimuli oriented...|||but you see he's hiding his other foot...so we can NEVER know. :mellow:|||Personally? Yeah, I'd totally go with the Over-soul thing. But religion is a historical, sociocultural phenomenon within whose contexts we may navigate our personal values. So I think it's...|||I have a friend who's like that. He middles on everything in MBTI. He started out with slightly higher INFP, but went through some events that changed him. He's a marvelous all-round confidante...|||would this be considered necro-posting? :( I find that elements of intellectual arrogance can be found in all, if not most, types. SJ intellectual snobbery/misunderstanding of NT-ness can be...|||Yeah, I'd say INFP. No E could have been as mired in himself as he was. No S could have been as nebulous and vague, cloudy to an almost vacuous degree. No T could have... well, he was an F, there's...|||yeah... i even checked under everything. nothing doing. :frustrating: eh, but then that's stupid, cos i could just as easily go to email or an online p2p site. hey.. maybe they monitor all...|||So I'm a summer intern at this government organization that's something to do with Human Rights. And I get my work desk. There is a desktop computer at my work desk. And, get this: MY COMPUTER...|||You and your vainglory are part and parcel of you, and I like you for that, because that's who you are and you are a member of this forum of which I am fond. I can see how you might have likened...|||Miss Aulim drools lazily on a pistachio cookie as she slams books off the shelves. The books collapse in heaps of dust on the thickly carpeted floor. She hears a sound; unfazed, she glances around to...|||i'd posted like, two posts above you! what does this make me? :laughing: but yeah, the enemy thing, i think, really depends on the person... no one is not worth the effort of getting to know....|||Hello, yet another recruit. I'm the in-between. Welcome! Enjoy your stay with us :tongue:|||haha yeah, i know the feeling! it's somewhat akin to spotting patterns in everything, too. feeling like every field of knowledge is a variation of that single unwavering theme i can never get...|||I am my own worst enemy :crazy: I don't know if I could call anyone in the external world an 'enemy' per se. INFP's, INTP's, and ENFP's have hurt me the most, though. (mostly my own type, and my...|||hahahahahahahahahahahahaha, mcdonalds is a loophole|||oh. REALLY..? welcome, good sir. you shall swim in the sea of mint tea i have especially procured for this very occasion. since mcgoogles so specifically insists on your going swimming. it's...|||I dunno if I'm to speak from the INFP or INTP point of view on threads like this... First of all, if I'm to speak on other INTP's from an INTP perspective? Some of the people that have hurt me...|||I am called Miss Aulim, head Ninja of the Bureau of Ninja Powers. No one knows my name. I am the keeper of the secrets of Ninja Stealth. I burn every book I find. I have only to sniff the book's...|||this thread is being immensely kind to my microscopic self-esteem. *hugs you*|||beech nuts are best buttered, salted, and fried over a fire until they turn a succulent golden brown. then you devour them while sitting on the beach. preferably for breakfast. over surreal...|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6HjR6R5ASYo Jeff Buckley|||first thing that came to mind: I'll have nightmares tonight. I wuv you, surrealbreakfast|||I'd like to try being ESTJ for a day, just to see what it's like, but then I think I'd sort of get sick of me, yeah? I'd need some away-time from myself .. No offense to the ESTJ's, you'se sweet...|||they're sexy? :mellow:|||Oh... I'm glad it's not abuse, first of all. Well, if your brother is very young... I suppose you'll have to act as the go-between. ISTJ's and ISFP's can get along fine. MBTI isn't a...|||Yeah, cos she actually WROTE hit songs for Britney and so on. That was her career. Writing for other pop stars. But while she did so, she was forced to fit the narrow categories. Now she's slowly...|||airy, slightly creaky, warm, just right.. :D a sunlit kind of voice! and i love how simple the chord progression is. it's just the most lovely backdrop to highlight her song.|||:( I'm so sorry to hear your mum's unhappy... What type would you say your brother is? Roughly approximating.|||Hi Antonia, welcome to the moon! I'm stuck up here too. :D|||So, is it just me, or do I sense something intuitively remarkable going on here? Lady Gaga is exciting to me in a number of ways. Sure, she has fun with self-adornment, and she's completely open...|||my ears are enjoying this, man. you are GOOD.|||i do some music. and music does me sometimes. i use fruityloops and/or my guitar, which i'm still not too great at. and i sing. generally my ideal song is like some combination of idm, folk,...|||thanks!! i've logged in as Khebi. :D|||aw, thanks! x|||oh god, this post is so embarassing. i'm glad no one replied. ugh, anyways, for those of you that read through this and somehow got your interest piqued, thank you; i snuck him a letter and now we're...|||IRC chat? quakenet server? this is all very new to me. O_o|||*HUG* hi. i like you already, and your name looks lovely|||i was just wondering if people simply don't frequent the chat. or forget that it's there. cos i'd really really love to chat, the main thing being that chat is so much faster, and less restricted...'

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'Happy Chinese New Year!!! ^_^ Just thought I'd share it with all the INFJ's (and asians) :P https://scontent-b-ord.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ash3/t1/1425538_10152156619924330_157902031_n.jpg ...|||8055080551 Two of my favorite things :) Traveling & puppies:crazy: Her name is Cookie btw!|||I'm having second thoughts about my type being INFJ for this one very reason. I thought it was an INFP characteristic to have my faith in God be my driving force, because I judge the rest of the...|||I'm a guy so it's not a gender difference problem. And yes I've usually been the one asked out because I barely ever seem to initiate anything on my own... And that's to my everlasting shame...|||I'm actually quite the opposite on this point. I almost always make a list of why things wouldn't work out between me and the person that asked me out on a date. If I gave you a chance a.k.a...|||I love this last picture of you in the mirror, like you're just another work of art in the gallery ^_^ P.S. I love your avatar, I'm crazy about some of the Korean dramas like Chuno and Queen Seon...|||7608376084I chose these pictures because they aren't directly pointing at my face lol. One's of me kissing the Blarney Stone in Ireland and the other one's me pouring the perfect pint of Guinness at...|||I'm talking about this picture right here. Just behind your left ear is a Pikachu. :crazy:|||Pikachu's the little yellow mouse looking plush toy by your head in that pic :happy: You have a lot of character in your face, very deep I suppose ^_^|||WOOOH Go Pikachu! :proud: P.S. I really like your hair!|||If you're anything like me, changing your body won't make a HUGE difference. I'm still extremely uncomfortable in my own skin, but what my looks have gotten me are the initial interaction with more...|||I wouldn't consider myself having any eating disorder, but if I eat too much food, I tend to make myself throw it back up because I equate it to how much cardio I need to do to burn it off lol. I...|||Like I always say, fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on you. ^_^ But seriously forgiveness is the best thing you can do for yourself first and foremost. Bitterness is like a poison...|||You know you're an INFJ when... * You have times that you want nothing more than to be someone other than yourself because it would be so much easier to not think and act the way you do or be the...|||I do the guy version of this lol. Dousche bag mode, and unfortunately i have the look for it :( Everybody chalks me up for some stupid gym rat... but I'm just REALLY shy...:sad:|||I don't think I am for the most part. Just this unavailable woman. When I noticed I loved most everything about her but knew she was unavailable, I didn't want her, I wanted someone like her. It's...|||This is very true. I have unavailable stamped across my forehead. But I attribute that to knowing that I need not pursue someone based on my initial judgement of whether or not we'd be compatible,...|||This is just what I needed. I have been feeling super anxious and just generally depressed about my life lately. My bouts of anxiety tend to be the norm for me, but for a couple months in the...|||You look very dainty :) Just wondering if you got your name from the cartoon fairytales?|||My enneagram types are 9w1 and 4w5. So I have a 5 wing... if that makes any difference. I can never let them know the depth of my love for them because they've hurt me in the past, especially my mom....|||Haha, just a creative way to say you're stunning :tongue:|||Marry me?! :proud:|||I loled so hard!!! ^_^|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3MqSXmVcEi4 Start the video at 1:16 if you just want to listen to the song. I get tingles every time I listen to this song. (She's 14)|||Lol you're silly. That's the best part about anonymity. :ninja:|||This is the way I think about the friendzone and Nice guys for the most part. *This goes both ways* http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3VXXXX9iVPI If I could ever speak bluntly, I'd tell people...|||You look so happy that it makes me tear up ^_^ I hope you really are that happy, hehe|||I guess I when I was younger I spent my time trying to fit in with the wrong groups of people as well, haha... That and I've always had a kind of social awkwardness about me when surrounded by too...|||I have these pics on a different thread, but I thought it might be appropriate here as well. Many people keep on saying they don't look good but don't realize they can do things to change that....|||I think it's a texture thing for me. If I were to eat slowly, I'd think it was disgusting bouncing chewed up food in my mouth for too long. Plus after the first sec. or two of chewing, I feel as...|||I'm like most people on here, I inhale my food. I also don't have a stop button so I try to portion my meals out on my plate and not go up for seconds... or tensies ^_^ The only thing I really try...|||Kissing my puppy after work :proud:|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ka1JNhprlag I'm not indian, and I don't understand it, but I love the song ^_^ http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sdyC1BrQd6g I understand this song though, its...|||fixed|||I underwent a similar situation like that during my first year of college where I broke up with my high school sweetheart. I gained the freshman 15x3 lol. It took me a good year to get over her and...|||This is exactly how I am as well, I love to workout and eat right since I've left high school. This has led to my former classmates that I run into to not recognize me in the least. Once, I...|||This totally agree with this right here :) I love my family to death and would do anything for them, but I can never let them know that I love them without end. I can only show glimpses of this and...|||I agree. I guess I was trying to ask it in a dysfunctional kind of way. Like in an unhealthy person, but even then, those are not related to any one type.|||lol that's a little embarrassing that I'm linking my childhood with my little pony... BUT i think it was what my sister used to say when she was trying to play with with me or just be cute overall...|||I love your name ^_^ idk why but it reminds me of my childhood :D|||Jeez... I'm getting anxious just reading these posts... I see where all sides are coming from and why they're saying what they're saying, nevertheless, I'm afraid to say that I hate conflict enough...|||Backpacked across Italy for 2 weeks... with almost no money and no real plan. The world is beautiful and the people in it :proud:|||One word. Chuno!!!!!!!!!!!! (If you haven't heard of it, watch it!!!)|||I definitely wasn't always and still am not always comfortable with my own physique, but I've come to the conclusion that the way i viewed my self image was only serving to make me have less...|||You sound like me in female form hehe ^_^ Except I have an ESTJ brother.|||I confess that I'm lonely and yearn for a perfect relationship... One that I'm afraid is unattainable... Even a platonic relationship where someone just gets me. I hate feeling unequally yoked...|||I feel the same way,and my good days are once every month or so lol. Have more confidence riela, you're beautiful! :)|||You're such a cutie ^_^|||Wait, wait, wait! Why's everyone getting depressed? :frustrating:|||What kind of people tend to hit on you guys? I can't imagine someone like me would ever be the initiator of such an occurrence! On another note, I usually know right off the bat if I'm going to...'

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'To Build a Home - Cinematic Orchestra https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qkP6Tf79UrM Not a recent discovery, but I have been absolutely in love with it for years. It's wonderful.|||ESTP Most likely to be a weird mix of really caring and a total asshole at the same time?|||I'm going to be organised and get this assignment done early.|||I actually googled this because I thought it was the exact opposite - I've noticed a lot of intuitives like songs because of the lyrics and a lot of sensors (like myself) like songs just because they...|||Ok so this started off with you being upset with her for saying everything is random (which is kind of weird by the way, not entirely sure why you're offended by that) but then it ended up with you...|||ISFP and have always gotten neutral good|||She probably needs you to be her friend like your friend was to you when you were going through a similar thing. Just try your best to be there for her and talk to her when you can. I would tell your...|||I've always assumed she was INFJ, cause didn't she base Dumbledore off herself?|||I've never known an ISTP to lie just to be nice.|||Just because you didn't go well enough to get your dream career does not mean your life is over. There's always a way in. Haven't you ever heard 'if there's a will, there's a way'? Please don't kill...|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4L_DQKCDgeM|||I'm only 17 so far so I only have 17 numbers to go by but I'll give it a crack: Worst age - 15, what a fucking mess I was. Felt sorry for myself 24/7 and complained too much for my own good, really...|||Mum: ENTJ Dad: ENTJ Me: ISFP|||Enfp|||From what I've gathered from INTJs I've encountered, dishonesty seems to be something they really dislike.|||dream land fantasy: INFP|||I think I saw ENxP back there, so either way - I wish I was an ENFP or ENTP! Both so fantastic, ENFPs are lovely and awesome and I haven't met one I don't like, and there is something really...|||Yes! I swear even if I told someone every detail about my life they would still claim that I'm 'hard to read'.|||You don't have to hate conflict to be an ISFP - I don't hate it and I'm one. So I'm pretty certain Harry Potter is an ISFP! Some more: Lana Lang - Smallville Maxxie - Skins Puss in Boots - Shrek...|||Well you're a bit of a douchebag aren't you. The point of this thread is to get everyone's individual opinion on which types you PERSONALLY think are the most sensitive/insensitive, again I'm not...|||I just meant as in which feeler you think is generally least sensitive towards other people, and which thinker might be the most sensitive towards others. It's a broad question because I'd like to...|||Just curious here, and I swear I am not trying to offend you in any way at all, but are you talking about one or a couple of ENFJs that you may have had bad experiences with, or ENFJs as a whole?|||But seeing as ENFJs are Fe users, wouldn't that mean the opposite? It generally would be the unhealthy Fi users that would only care about themselves wouldn't it?|||Aw, poor guy. I'm the only ISFP in a family full of ENTJs and ESTJs. I feel for him haha.|||I wouldn't say 'obviously' - those sites often get the celebrity types wrong.|||How likely is this combination? One of my friends is most definitely an INTJ, but he got 9 on the enneagram test (can't remember the wing) and it just seemed quite peculiar to me because I'm pretty...|||All good, I like reading peoples opinions anyway :)|||What do you think the types of The Wizard of Oz characters would be?|||I'm a 4w5, close to being a 6. Not sure on the wing.|||I have a very, very love hate relationship with most of them. I'm really close friends with four INTJs, one of which is my best friend, and one of which I had an extremely complicated relationship...|||How about be a good friend and put up with it - he's obviously going through some shit and just because you don't like listening, doesn't mean you shouldn't. However, if it gets out of hand, just be...|||Well that doesn't sound douchey at all|||I think an unhealthy one can be yeah, they might be very selfish with their choices, or they might have some really twisted morals that might lead them to do pretty bad things, although probably with...|||Usually things that I find funny. Sometimes shit that I'm feeling at the time but a few of my friends lurk my tumblr a lot so I have to limit those ones!|||I love the lyrics to this one part of a song called You Be The Anchor that Keeps My Feet on the Ground by Mayday Parade - And I'll be here by the ocean Just waiting for proof that there's sunsets...|||I've always thought that Johnny Depp was beautiful - especially in the 80s.|||Is this an actual question|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-CoOI0zdJms|||Dear INTJ, You're not always right. No, really, you're not. I know, it's shocking. But strangely enough, very true. Sincerely, ISFP.|||Dear INTJ, You're not always right. No, really, you're not. I know, it's shocking. But strangely enough, very true. Sincerely, ISFP. PS. I was not aware this was an ISTP thread. I'll see...|||Jennifer Lawrence, Johnny Depp (I think it's more his attitude towards most things that I like about him, rather than his personality though), Emma Stone, and quite shamefully Zac Efron. Don't judge....|||Definitely a Senser (from what you've said), I would say a thinker most likely, so overall my best guess is ESTJ. Not sure on the Judging function though.|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mS8xDo-qM8w|||These were both already drawings, so I only copied them. And they were in pen so I'm sorry they're pretty dodgy haha, was just bored and this was just a bit of fun for me. 63313 63314 Also...|||I know I played it!! And finished it haha|||The Room! Best worst movie ever. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yCj8sPCWfUw Oh or Birdemic. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P-y53CRSF9Q|||Estj.|||Someone saying I'm a coward or selfish are two of the worst things I think someone could say to me, it would be awful. Or that I'm stupid.|||ISFJ, no doubt about it.|||I've read the first one, it's amazing. I highly recommend you read it. I'm not quite sure on the types of the characters, but here are my best guesses: Tris: ISTP Four: ISTJ? I don't even know....'

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'Now, that's an interesting idea, especially when you tie it together with what lilysocks said about avoiding entanglements and respecting boundaries. I think the basic importance of human...|||I can't make sense of my life experiences without some concept of a mind or soul that is apart from my body. I don't have much background in the philosophy of mind, but Descartes' idea that a...|||Typically INTJ's aren't seen as suitable to any profession where we're supposed to help other humans: we're too robotic or logical to deal with people's vulnerabilities in a sensitive and...|||Right now I'm kind of... between best friends? The last person I considered my best friend was an ISFP. Very moody and needy, but also very kind and passionate. I needed that. I think I still kind...|||I've felt for a while that where most people have a definite answer to this question, mine was rather context-dependent, as well as age-dependent. With babies, my stance is the same as with dogs:...|||I'm really curious about other INTJ's' experiences with having teachers of different types, and how type factored into their style and your learning experiences. I'll share mine to get it started. ...|||I voted no, but the better answer is, I'm working on it. I'm back at mom and dad's place now, with my rather large family, so if I make anything I either have to make it only for myself (which is...|||Communicating is not sugarcoating. The Latin root of the word we use, communicare, literally means to make common. People don't get in your way because you don't sugarcoat whatever you think is the...|||You'll get better results if you say why you're interested. Give us internet INTJ's a reason to commit to this thread.|||I have trouble with this, because I don't really admire other INTJ's. I'm almost too close to them not to see their flaws. Nietsche, for instance: all I can hear as I read him is a very articulate...|||Yeah, that's what I'm like when any number of ESFP's are talking to me: I like it, but I get overwhelmed and I sort of shut off all emotion. Makes sense. Far more important than showing any kind...|||I've had to reflect on the possibility that my life has not just been shaped by big things: goals, values, philosophy, aesthetic experiences, self-identity, etc. I've also been shaped by small...|||I'm very interested to know what kind of girls are chasing after an INTJ... and also what kind of INTJ gets chased by girls? Anyway, your questions. 1) Sometimes. Generally, we don't like to, but...|||Sometimes more than once in a month, but really it's only a few times a year (maybe none at all, some years) that I start on a suicidal train of thought. It's a little bizarre, but I almost feel like...|||INTJ's are passionate people. Sometimes we're dumb that way. I tend to be ambivalent about flirting. It can be very rewarding but dangerous at the same time. What you described sounds to me like...|||This is an actual story element of the Warhammer 40k universe: humanity has literally forgotten how its miraculous technology works, and its manufacture is now done through a cultic liturgy, led by...|||Most of these ideas aren't really religions, just vaguely cult-like trends taken to another level. For a religion, or even a serious cult, to gain serious popularity, it has to present a spiritual...|||I need more time away from certain people, but overall I need time away from everyone. There will be occasions when a relationship is new, or has recently undergone a positive shift, where I'll want...|||I said a combination, but I am biased towards paper. I like having a physical product of my note-taking (I would print out all my class notes if it didn't use so much paper), or a handout where I...|||Glad to hear it. Nothing went wrong with the ENTP. I asked her, Hey, do you want to go on a date? She took 24 hours to think it over, and came back with, I'm not interested, but I value our...|||Pingvin_INTJ 1. Do thoughts of surgery and hormone therapy make you uncomfortable? 2. Are you sexually interested in women? 3. How is transgenderism seen in your country? 4. Do you think about...|||I agree. I think INTJ's are capable of being very socially and emotionally sensitive to others, but the motivation is different for us than it might be for the Feeling types. The fact is that if you...|||Hah! I once hated an ENTP. Then I fell in love with her. Then she let me down bluntly. We're friends now. I don't know what you think you should be waiting for in this relationship before doing...|||You may find this thread helpful. http://personalitycafe.com/intj-forum-scientists/193330-your-ideal-first-first-date.html|||I hadn't really thought about it as teasing before, but I definitely do things like what you described. I really only do it in a playful way, and where I know and like the person, or where the...|||It sounds like your interactions mainly online, which makes it difficult to determine anything about her interest level. Factors that are usually very significant tend to take on different meanings,...|||Blechhhh. :frustrating: Some of the worst tendencies of the INTJ type coming out here. I hate it. And I'm sorry you have to experience it. Dismissiveness; miscommunication; lack of respect. These...|||Don't blame it on his type. Sounds like a pretty awful date, but nothing here makes me want to say, Oh yeah, totally an INTJ thing. I think he was just trying too hard. People of other types are...|||I experienced a little bit of heartbreak in writing this response. At one point in my life, I wanted to be a cartoonist with all of my heart. I spent most of my days in middle school and early...|||It sounds like you're asking two different questions. I'll try to answer both if I can. The title suggests you want to identify INTJ's when you see them. This can be tricky, because on the surface...|||I want to, so bad...|||This is one of the things that I would look forward to the most in a teaching role. Class presentations and one-off lectures to my peers can be fun and rewarding, but I miss some of the power that...|||WhiteIris Wow, sounds like you've had some pretty awesome experiences! I resonate with the idea of setting the example. I view teaching and leading as very similar ideas, and modelling your...|||I've had several recent experiences where I found myself acting as a teacher, nearly all of which were incredibly rewarding, and have sparked in me an interest in a career as a university professor....|||Museum and bar is a pretty good idea, though I would suggest looking for a bar that's not too noisy. The ideal bar for INTJ's is one without TV's. Some other ideas: Parks are really good. Some of...|||No, I'm sure it's not the case with extroverts across the board, just as an introvert may also be capable of keeping a frenemy. The point was more that the ENFP motivation comes from feeling a need...|||Interesting. So it's an extrovert thing. I can't relate at all, but it makes sense now. :tongue:|||Why do you make the effort?|||I agree. What I find with ENFP's and ESFP's is that their expression is so strong, yet I can't tell how strong the underlying feeling actually is. I've noticed that they both have a capacity to be...|||Become very conflicted about what to do next, and hope that said awkward, shy INFP gets over it first. That's what I typically do in that situation. It worked once.|||Yes, coming to terms with a consuming misanthropy is one of the many struggles of the INTJ. This reality reinforces my conception of the INTJ as prophet. Prophets are never the popular guys....|||INTJ's, how long do you take after a relationship has ended before wanting to start a new one? For me it seems to take forever, even if it doesn't end badly -- it's been a year since my last...|||Tell us a story. Honestly, this question is so broad, I don't even know what kind of answer you're hoping for. If you were to explain more of what your dating experiences have been, or why you...|||Romantically? I have no idea. I've never been tempted to go there with an ESTP. In other relationships... it's complicated. My dad is an ESTP. There are things that I enjoy and admire about him,...|||Do you like watching films more than once? This is another thing my INTP friend does. Admittedly he is much more of a cinephile than I am, but I find with my approach there isn't often much of a...|||Nope. I'm a pussy. The common cold knocks me completely off my game. It's a fight against my body to do simple things like keeping my kitchen tidy and staying on top of assignments. It's almost like...|||Thank you... I think it's just you and me. In this thread, and of this opinion.|||A thought began to grow in my mind after watching a film with my INTP friend. Film is something we share often, but I realized, as we were discussing the meaning of the last one we watched together,...|||A thought began to grow in my mind after watching a film with my INTP friend. Film is something we share often, but I realized, as we were discussing the meaning of the last one we watched together,...|||Fair point, and I think it was worth bringing up. I would qualify the part about parenthood, though. A typical thinker alpha dude who has been raised with good values, gone through formative...'

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'Communication with my INTJ can be tricky I realized. It is like we communicate in a totally different way. He is very sensitive to what I say and i feel i walk on eggshells sometimes, but i am also...|||this is tricky. i honestly dont know because the situation (ESFP) wont go away by itself. and you are right, he probably is too proud to be helped by a bunch of females. maybe joke with him...|||78464|||Yeah, totally!! If i have one big task i focus on that only. I just had an exhausting lab course for some weeks, in parallel a bunch of difficult and time intensive protocols and early in the...|||i try to be polite and i dont like to hurt people. but i am often too inconsiderate and hasty in communication to be genuinely nice.|||I agree, INTJs are great but also have the need for personal development. And they can evolve as well to communicate with others. I told him I see his point in being logical about my problems. But...|||ENTP here. I can not help with the INTJ/INTJ thing, but it is an NT/NT thing at least. I am dating an INTJ right now and i could never have imagined it would be that intense just by reading the INTJ...|||holy shit, yes. my own emotions and obsessive need to analyze brain rapes me when i am in love. so, i basicly fuck myself over and destroy what we have by over analyzing and thus acting fucking...|||Jesus fucking christ! i would have torn him a new one, my bf that is. what the fuck is he thinking?? if someone says such a thing about my bf i would tell them what i think! i have a strong need...|||it has been some time since i have let someone get that close. yes, i have been staying in my comfort zone way too long, time to jump out! i am going to cuddle that damn hedgehog, i know he wants it...|||Yeah, i agree on this one. It isnt fair really to the people attracted to us. This guy is really challenging and thats what i like about him. And i know he needs me to challenge him too...just...|||I am generally not easily offended or hurt. And people who are this way in friendships can annoy me somehow, depending on my mood. however, i realized when i am in love i am so vulnerable and all my...|||One of my best friends is a mature ENTP. He has his own business that he works in 10 hours a day. When he is finished in the night, he will sit down and write (movie scripts, books, short stories...|||I am really not sure if I am for abortion or against On one side an innocent child is killed, but on the other side it gives females a choice.|||From the article about ENTPs and love! I can relate like hell. :kitteh: And: Guest article: Detective ENTP and the mystery of Fi * pleasebeniceto.me *|||I look serious, absent or nice.|||:proud: Thanks! Yeah, I am not a game player, but I realized I do some of this stuff subconciously. I did not even know this about myself before. I like to be very honest though, so if I am too...|||I must act or I will go crazy since I cant focus. The alternative is to just dont talk to him until my feelings are gone. Dont know if this works, but that was actually my idea. I can be good at...|||Help me!! I have emotions for an INTJ! :blushed: I met him online and I think we clicked right away. For the last weeks we have been verbally sparring a lot. He is very funny and he told me he finds...|||I AM HERE BITCHES! Look at me look at me look at me look at me look at me look at me look at me look at me look at me look at meeeee!! I am sooo awesome!!! C´mon get up and dance with me, dont...|||Not an INTJ but I want to say mine too, okay?! People who betray me, disrespect, lying, whining and boredom.|||And you are too insecure to openly show your personality type. Cant be a rational.|||Hello ENTP sisters. I found this page (maybe it has been posted here before, I forgot) and it really blew my mind. I can relate to this text like 97%. This IS me! How about you? Don...|||Holy fuck, that is....fucking funny. But I would never be able to do this to someone... :laughing:|||Hehe, I find it funny how people here deal with being different. I personally am known by my whole semester. People here partly like me, the other half thinks I am totally crazy. I get invited...|||No no no INTJ, you arent emphasising this correctly. YOU can only do so much with socks, WE can save the world with them or fly to the moon if we have to!|||Uff, that was a hard strike. But doesnt mascara in a man actually even bring out his male side even more? A bit like if you put a hippo in a dress and it makes it look even more fat... Being a...|||Only jealous friends are good friends! Harmony is for pussies. What are you, a feeler? Also, my Fe would butt rape your Fe any day and besides be able to bake a fine Black Forest cake.|||That is a brave insult coming from an INTP! If people told YOU they didnt like you, they surely would end up in your fridge cut to neat little pieces. Maybe you would keep the eyes in a jar next...|||You are an annoying, arrogant smartarse who is so full of himself that his shit is oozing out of his ears! You can talk about anything, but you dont really have a deeper understanding of one little...|||68418|||Somehow I find this really hot... :unsure:|||They used all kinds of bricks in the so called Backsteingothik (brick gothic). Brick Gothic (German: Backsteingotik, Polish: Gotyk ceglany) is a specific style of Gothic architecture common in...|||I only cry alone, except if I am really overwhelmed. But generally I am quiet sensitive. This video made me cry. I think, I had to think of the inner child and my constant mismatch with society. ...|||I love talking to all kinds of animals when I see them. It makes me feel like they are little persons. :blushed:|||I used to not care about school. I did barely anything for school and often did not even go there. I got bad grades, but I passed my abitur (German A levels) and now go to university. But it took...|||I actually dont know. I think mostly I am not but if I care I might be.|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ql4kaofJ02c Vööööllig losgelöööst!! Von der Eeerde, schwebt das Rauuumschiff! Schweeerelooos!|||I tested as 7w6 plus ENTP. I totally know what you mean. With family I am more caring and dont try to be so witty. Maybe sometimes to cheer someone up, like when my granny feels bad :proud: ...|||It plays definitely an important role for me. Though as some people said a whole person is more important than pure intelligence. Also, a person with a high EQ is in a way fascinating to me. My...|||Okay, let me be more clear then. I mean, do you stand to your believes in a way that you will defend them openly. Say, you are in a meeting with 20 people and one guy makes a joke about whatever...|||I used to be very wild and tomboyish as a child and teenager. I had a baggy pants phase and used to do a lot of sports like skating and martial arts. Now I like to dress feminine though. I like...|||Reading, wanking, stopping to think. I try to force myself to stop thinking a bit and relax. It works, but then again I am not ADD. So, I cant put myself in this situation I think.|||And I love yours! Pls dont kill me with your brain though! :kitteh: Firefly is one of my favorite shows ever!! Kaylee is the best! I think, thats the way it is supposed to be. Saying something if...|||Maaaybeee. I have a high tolerance until I take action though. Just someone talking BS wont do the trick. Yeah, me too! If I meet interesting new people I like to talk to them forever!...|||Definitely when I am drunk. All boundaries are gone and I can just go with the flow. Also, when I am with good friends! But mostly the two things are kinda related I have to say.|||I always found batman too depressing and too cool. The whole series is depressing. I used to loveeee Spiderman! He was witty and used to make fun of his opponents.|||Yeah, it really sounds like she is waiting for you to do something! So nice!|||Okay, so you have a lot of things that actively influence you and that you care about. And the base of your emotional response is a modern (post WW2) morality system? It´s not the worst system that...|||And how do you decide what you will take up as a believe to beta test it? Did you find out some values that did not crumble in the testing phase so far? Haha, I like your little role play...'

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'It sounds like you need to connect with your body (hellooo inferior Se). Fearing touch, personal invasion, invalidation, and feeling better when you can go on the offensive all sound like they might...|||I love this thread, we need more like it. I feel like this is what being an NF is about. The problem is that the material world is limited, and most people never bother to look deeper at...|||I agree with finding the root cause. Being angry is a defense, sensation seeking is a distraction from the restlessness. Ask the angry part of yourself: what are you defending? When you get restless...|||I have both been praised for my child-like wonder and dismissed for my childishness. If someone doubts me though over something important, I simply have to prove them wrong. If it's not...|||Believe me I know how lucky I am, but I would be miserable if I felt trapped. And I would have to give up on some things that I'd been focusing on. I've been looking at teaching abroad programs for...|||Hello ENTJs!! Today I come with a story about something that I could see possibly turning into conflict, and would appreciate your insight on what my dad might possibly be seeing in this situation,...|||Finally a board for me :tongue: What is Passion But a Current That Runs from the head to the heart and out through the fingertips: Electricity needs an outlet, a path and a purpose;...|||It was 95F today and people still came to class dressed in fall boots and scarfs (albeit very light ones). Truly a cultural phenomenon.|||There are so many good poets here! :blushed: My Days, My Nights, My Ruminations At night I live in a bright world, a shifting spectrum of shape and color, blinding me to reality, leaving...|||In a lab class recently I got randomly partnered with a guy who gave off some pretty strong SJ vibes. At first I approached with my normal open, relaxed attitude where I just talk to the person...|||I'm trying to get my life on a healthy schedule. Like waking up at the same time every day, not using technology in bed, making a daily time/place to sit and work, actually carving out the time to...|||YES! In school I ALWAYS got so many points taken off because every paragraph was a run on sentence! Now I over-use periods since I became so conscious of it.|||I think the first thing to consider in the compatibility of any two people would be whether or not those people are steering their lives in the same direction. I mean, if you're going to chain...|||If Dont Ask Me Why by Great Ceasers this isn't the most XNFP song I've ever heard I don't know what could be|||Why not try taking an entrepreneurship class?|||oh man, this is me exactly. The problem is that, as ENFPs, our needs and desires often stem from values we built in our Fi, which is not a function that lends itself well towards expression. I feel...|||I love writing, but hate grammar so much that it basically turned me off from trying to write anything for my academics. I feel like writing is such a good way to lay out my thoughts though, as long...|||maybe we could assign one ENFP per personality :wink: I'm just imagining a huge tsunami of ENFPS, about to crash over the one person who is standing, arms outstretched, willing to be swept...|||All of us at once??? :shocked:|||I have the opposite problem to most people here, I usually come off as really friendly. Sometimes I'm caught off guard when I realize someone considers me a friend when I only think of them as an...|||Sometimes bodies are such a burden. You have to feed it and wash it and rest it and what do you get in return? an obnoxious set of physical rules you have to follow and a means by which people can...|||That sounds like an interesting book! Are you enjoying it? I had a similar thing happen to me too a couple years ago. I guess quite a few of my not-close friends seem to think I do everything I...|||When I first started reading about the differences between Fe and Fi I was sure that I had myself mistyped because I had always recognized in me a strong, sometimes overwhelming, ability to pick up...|||u200bBurn And here is where I must admit to my failings: For all that I have tried to see into myself and past myself my eyes continue to be drawn to this this, this, this thing in my life with...|||We cannot see the future, or change the past. The moment you live in is the only thing you’ll ever know. It may not make sense to love it, but, God, what a waste to do anything less.|||Top 5 Characteristics 1. Sure of themselves 2. calmer than me 3. inspires me to improve myself 4. not beholden to any dogma (but their own) 5. intelligent Top 5 Physical Features|||The guys who live above me have been playing guitar and singing and laughing all afternoon and it's so cute that I don't want to leave and go to class. I'm having too much fun basking in the positive...|||when you turn into a tidying tornado in the minutes before your Judger friend gets there just so that they won't make that face|||Charles Manson is an enfp I believe. Look up some of his videos- they're all very interesting. He's very charming as well, and inspired his followers even after he was jailed. I remember watching a...|||I was wondering why this sandwich tasted so dang good but then I remembered that I haven't eaten anything else in over 24 hours :frustrating:|||Some of the most ENFPish songs I know and relate to: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q5I19hNzDgs https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cQu7udjsins ...|||I'm pretty effected, unless I have time to emotionally prepare for it. It depends on the bond I have with my pet though.... Our last family dog and I had a pretty strong bond, and he died of heart...|||I'd say my sex drive is above average but I don't have sex itself that often because I only like sleeping with people I make a strong connection with, which only happens every once in a blue moon. ...|||Dear ISTPs I've really enjoyed reading this thread for the sheer lack of fucks given. I mean, I almost went back and censored the fuck in that last sentence but then I realized that would be so...|||I always write everything by hand, even if it's in the powerpoint because 1) studies have shown that you remember it way better if you write it down 2) if you get bored or start zoning out...|||I'm not INFJ but I just need internet hugs right now and the ENFP hug thread is too bubbly for how I'm feeling :unsure:|||I think it's pretty common for intuitive's to feel like this. You just have to wait because as you grow into adulthood you really get to choose who you keep close to you, so you can surround yourself...|||From the soles of my feet to the base of my throat I feel myself fill with white snow Not the pure, cold kind The T.V. kind. The static on the screen which I’ve come to recognize as the...|||A rock! No responsibility, can go with you everywhere, and you can paint whatever silly face on it you'd like..... ok, also maybe a rat. I love rats, they're as smart and as social as most dogs,...|||401642 feelings, man. I got too much of 'em.|||helloooo zombie board! Aang from Avatar is the purest ENFP hero I know of. Even his meltdowns fall right in line with Ne/Te overdrive or Fi/Si depression. Denise from The Paradise Mabel from...|||Look for Ne-dom give aways: casual use of hyperbole, generalizing (about concepts -never people), easily side-tracked, able to carry a conversation about anything, able to talk to anyone, and of...|||Thats a harsh situation, and how I would deal with it depends a great deal on just how unbearable it may be. The things that would make it more unbearable are: A) if it's brought up at times when...|||I'm really sorry to hear about your loss. When I lost my grandpa I never wanted to talk about it- people told me I should but it didn't make me feel better to so I avoided it. Definitely became...|||Yup. I used to date people just because they seemed fun/gave me the opportunity to do interesting things but I would get bored of them within a couple of weeks because I never really connected with...|||People already said this in their own way, but I'll say it again: I hate how hard it can be to explain my inner world of ideas to people sometimes. Teach me an over-complicated concept and I can...|||When you're forced to hang out with someone who is being so fake with themselves and everyone else but you A) don't see any reason to start drama and B) don't think you can explain just why they...|||Was walking around my room, play-acting imaginary scenarios while I was supposed to be studying. Realized that my curtains were open and my neighbors sitting on their balcony had been watching me. We...|||Sorry, no bells rung! You've lost me :'T Well I always wake up about 5am (its an insomnia thing) so I usually either watch my shows or play video games until about 7. Then if I have classes...|||Hello lovely ENTJs! I need advice in how to make my ENTJ dad understand that shaming my INFP sister is not a way to get her motivated! She's generally morose and perhaps a bit depressed, and has...'

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'He can't prove that his theory/hypothesis is correct, nor wrong. The debate is based on lack of enough data, both from you as a potential test and from scientific research. Neither one of you know...|||I would choose the place where I could develop better: education, career, networks etc, the things that are important to you and potentially improve you regardless whether you guys stay together or...|||I am not sure how to answer this question, I enjoy having thoughtful conversation with all different people, and find it interesting that people are different. So, in general, I don't find ENFJs...|||I can relate to the Ne-Ni difference between me and my INFP. He throws out many ideas in one conversation, while I try to put them together or try to see how they are connected. When he jumps from...|||Congratulations and good luck!!! That's wonderful! You have to share the experience of ENFJ/INFP couple in parenting in the future :) Thank you for sharing the insights, I can see these, but...|||You should definitely ask your ENFJ! I happend to watch a TED talk yesterday about vulnerability and connection, you can google these two terms. When you show your awkwardness, when you are...|||I am very curious to know what conflicts ENFJ/INFP couple would have after marriage: when facing daily life, many routines/responsibilities, how is the dynamic of the team? I and my partner haven't...|||That's good:happy: . The essential skill that I've learnt in the past three years with my INFP is: other ways to keep myself sane while waiting (for opportunities to communicate). For me, it is my...|||Since you are ISTJ, I am guessing that you asked too many questions without introducing much about yourself. That may make her feel that you are studying her like an experimental animal or...|||I am sorry that you are going through this ... Please be patient and continue to communicate. To communicate, means that you will be frank but exposure your vulnerability to your partner. The...|||really, a mature and content INFP, who endured darkness of the past, who had seen sadness and despair, but still chose to forgive and love and embrace life.... I think this is priceless,...|||This gives you an idea how calming INFP is: http://widdershinsacademy.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/07/mbti-animals.jpg|||Also, one suggestion for career, and this is pretty much my INFP partner's strategy and not from me: if you don't like your current job, but you don't have a better offer, don't quit it and jump...|||It seems to me that the biggest problem of her, is that she didn't know how to say no. This is very very common for ENFJ. We got involved in relationships that we didn't really want, or we are...|||My situation is actually different from relationship textbook, I think. What works for me is the INFP style passive-aggressiveness..., angry and dark, about to retreating to a cave..... It hurts...|||I have an analogy: in an ideal universe, ENFJ wants to build a network, with his/her SO in the center, and everyone else connected with him/her harmoniously, and his/her SO is the most...|||Ahhhh, I need to grab my INFP to read this !!!! But I already know what he would say : hmmm, nice theory! Don't ever think that you can chat with guys like before, no way:laughing:|||i was wondering how your interactions/affection is distinguished with your SO how do you make your SO feel special despite your very outgoing/intimate nature? how do you reassure your SO? how do you...|||We are attracted to broken soul, aren't we? Sounds like her relationship with you is quite new. For an INFP to think through all scenerios and make decision, you probably would expect a time...|||Thank you and I understand what to shoot for now. One more detail: when you say passively, i would picture this scenerio: I bring you a book/story that I internally find interesting to share, ...|||How do you want to be cared for / supported when you are sick? Especially what do I need to pay attention to as a more extravorted partner? Hugs is not an option for us since we are long...|||We really cherish someone who makes the effort. It matters less how much you do, it matters more how much you improve compareing to previous you. If you are shy, but you overcome your shyness to...|||Exactly! I take care of everyone else, and myself. I feel that he is the only peroson in this world who knows how to take care of me, who can tell that I am a little bit upset and immediated tend...|||It is great that you guys had the conversation! I think INFPs need as much interaction with their significant others as we do, if not more. Any cool feeling can be seen as a warning sign, instead...|||Try not to take what they say personally!!! Then everything will be fine :laughing: Once you learn to communicate their way, you will like it: straight forward, frank, direct to the point. They...|||“First of all, to the INFPs, something to consider about ENFJs, is that ENFJs tend to disclose, or at least look like they're disclosing a lot about themselves to a lot of people. Sometimes, they can...|||Being extroverts, we usually need to talk our emotions through. No matter what, I think it will be healthier to shift the focus to your own life. I definitely need to let out the steam, and I...|||Also, for your previous posts, so all of this happened within a couple of days? For INFPs, this is probably a short time... Plus he is still replying your msg, that is not bad... My infp...|||Don't leave him completely alone if you want to continue to try; also, if he is shutting you out, it means he hasn't sort through his emotion with you, anger sad whatever it is. If he can really...|||I will use what I learned from my INFP partner to explain, it may be different in your case, it may be the same. Sometime, working hard means not to do something or not to say...|||In theory, when you love someone, you don't have to reveal it. You make the right choice /do the right things for the benefits of the other party. Even if you are confronted, in every moment, ...|||You may re-examine you criteria and your ability to love unconditionally. whether each one has anything to do with love ? I think, when you are looking for soulmate, you just look at the soul. ...|||How well do you deal with your significant other's close family and friends? For me, when I decide he will be the guy, my goal will be to bring him in my previous harmonious world of...|||I was in a >10 years relationship with an INTJ, we were each other's first partner, both of us learnt our lessons. For any pairs, it is not about how good it can get when communication goes...|||I didn't know you have this layer of intention... I don't know what to suggest... I only know that when my INFP gets to that dark-phase-retreating-back-to-a-cave mode, I always freak out and reach...|||You guys are amazing...! i am really grateful for this forum, how can I imagine......|||Do you then just fall asleep? My INFP explained why he sleeps much more now, seriously......|||I remember reading @lydibug 's story last year... Oh, I can relate to this, only on the other side as ENFJ, also as a female; An important difference may be that my previous relationship was...|||This is an excellent advice! Don't think too much and wait too long, she may enter another relationship while you are still debating with yourself. Either confess directly, or at least try...|||@UtterMess @enigmawrappedinbacon @gestalt Thank you all for pointing out these are different issues. It is lucky that I didn't bring it up the way I thought of...... For smoking, I know he...|||Please help me to see how I can communicate in this situation: Background: I and my lovely INFP guy had been in romantic relationship for one and a half year now. It is great connection, very...|||I noticed similar posts previously : INTPs were attracted to ENFJ, or trying to argue in this forum that their functions match with ENFJs' (which is quite a turn-off...) ; maybe I am biased, but I...|||I don't quite understand your question. I guess both. Though one can argue that ENFJ can find something inspiring in anyone, I do find that when interacting with some people, it is quite...|||I want someone to inspire me to be a better person. But I don't think this needs to be just one person, and it applies to friends, family, colleagues, even strangers...|||That beind said, your post highlights a good point: while I don't think that the lack of time together is automatically indicative of him not being into me (every relationship is unique and doesn't...|||but it sometimes seems like he's not as busy as he makes out to be and I don't understand why he doesn't put in the effort spend time with me. My INFP asked similar question. For me, I feel...|||The reasons that some other need to say to the ENFJ is probably for the sake of your own happiness, this is something an ENFJ may never really be able to put there, it doesn't count as a reason...|||Thinking that she has chosen according to her own will and she is happy about her life, will that make you feel better？ If you really love her, won't that seeing her happy make you in peace? It...|||I am in solid basic science research field... surrounded by thinkers... I think science/engineering careers still need lots of people skills, especially now a days, collaboration is almost...|||I speak for myself, yes!!! I love my teddy bear INFP! Women get turned on easier when they are relaxed, how come that is not attractive :kitteh: INFP is not just calm, it is a sense of...'

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'I am only sadistic towards other sadistic people. When someone gets what they deserve I feel relieve.|||It wasnt my intention to insult anyone with that stereotype about ESFP's and pornstars. It's possible to give every MBTI type a negative stereotype. And I dont think ESFP's like to sit in front...|||http://uploads.tapatalk-cdn.com/20160624/e9886c40f09f8df27cd00002d3029eca.jpg Skickat från min iPad med Tapatalk|||Mispost Skickat från min iPad med Tapatalk|||Does anyone know where I can find the picture of the INTP guy lifting weights while being extremely skinny? Sent from my iPad using Tapatalk|||Unhealthy INTJ = Narcissist.|||Esfp's are louder. Sent from my iPad using Tapatalk|||Angry chicken @ BK. Sent from my iPad using Tapatalk|||Having your head up in the clouds doesn't make you smart. Sent from my iPad using Tapatalk|||I don't envy their social awkwardness. Sent from my iPad using Tapatalk|||I can't. Sent from my iPad using Tapatalk|||When you are more interrested in checking ouy new gadgets on the internet rather than eating. Sent from my iPad using Tapatalk|||You know you are INTP when you think you are good at typing people when you actually arent. Sent from my iPad using Tapatalk|||Like things that are rationally obvious, but not emotionally obvious. Sent from my iPad using Tapatalk|||People who argue to win even if they are wrong. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk|||When you spend your weekend on the internet. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk|||Stop trying to be something you're not Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk - now Free|||I just have to share the stupidest INTJ joke I have ever heard. I know an INTJ who has a sister whos son killed his father. One day when the INTJ's sister and his wife had been out shopping...|||Why does the Socionics relationship chart work so well with the MBTI typing?|||I´ve had this discussion with several people about some MBTI INTP´s being Socionics INTj and the other way around but I know I´m an INTP in both. And I know my dual is ESFP. And the best thing to...|||What should I do if I am a male INTP in a situation like this? I don´t think I´m the only one who has been in this situation. In bad situations, wouldn't ESFps just deal blow after blow to INTps'...|||Liars.|||Enfp- not very practical and clumsy. Softer voice. Dreamy. Esfp. Want to make jokes. Direct.|||Probably the best solution. Or introduce him to an hot esfp and he Will forget all about you.|||...when the library was your haven pre internet.|||...when your biggest interrest is gossip.|||When you have three pair of pants in the same model but in different colours.'

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'I think that it would very difficult to be honest. My father is an ENTJ (i'm an ENFP) and i know a few ENTJ's, so I know what they can be like, both healthy and unhealthy. They place a high...|||@shedreamt I think I know what you're talking about. I agree that guys are socially conditioned to be 'performers' or leaders (even in social situations). I think male confidence is valued way...|||1. I'm saying this to my 15 year old self: You're a likeable, funny and intelligent person and any time you feel like you aren't, you're wrong. In the next few years you are going to feel like...|||I remember when I was about 10 or so I was staying at my uncle's house with my cousins. We were all sitting in a room downstairs and then suddenly a big cockroach scurried across the floor. My cousin...|||@shedreamt Yeah I definitely know that feeling when someone appreciates your talents. I remember that my mother asked me to sing and play guitar at her 50th birthday last year. I initially said...|||Can you give an example? This sounds interesting :P|||Have to agree so much with these two. Especially the good night out one. An amazing night leaves me filled up for days!|||I had an experience the other day that got me thinking about the personal pleasures that ENFP's have. I was put into a group for a college assignment. We decided to have a group 'meeting' to...|||Yeah i was bullied when I first entered highschool (12yrs old). People used to tease me about the length of my hair (it was like this, minus the pussy-slayer staredown...|||Yeah definitely when I was younger. When I was between 11-16 I was very easily manipulated and feared conflict more than anything. I still hate conflict, but dem NF values man.|||Yeah, I have to echo what the others are saying, you were just incompatible with this guy. I'm quite a touchy-feely person in relationships, and the reason I do it comes from a genuine desire for...|||you're welcome! I definitely think this is a good idea. Remind yourself that helping other people with their issues isn't your duty, it's just something that you should do if you feel that you...|||Brilliant post. You summed it up very elegantly. @LostTheMarbles- It seems like you're someone who is significantly empathic, so naturally you are going to feel very drained by people who are...|||I'd just ask them to turn off the lights :P|||Conan O'Brien. I know there's been debate on whether conan is an NF or not. (i think it's a war between him being an ENTP and ENFP), but he's always seemed like an NF to me. I have a lot of...|||Great thread. 1. You have the chance to meet someone with whom you have the most satisfying love imaginable- the stuff of dreams. Sadly, you know that in six months the person will die. Knowing...|||That sounds like a really nice thing to do! But i have to echo what some of the other people are saying about this: If you like him (romantically) and you are trying to use this as a way for him...|||Exactly!|||Sure. Being direct just means making your intentions (wanting to hook up) clear and being unafraid of rejection. It's easy for us to go 80% of the way with a girl by being fun and playful etc and...|||I used to be unsure of how to deal with situations like that too, but I eventually got past it. In situations where hugging *may* be awkward or draw attention, i just dive right into it and almost...|||I'm can be very self-deprecating too, i just hate it when anyone else does it hahah And it's never just me who gets pranked (i actually get fucked with very little by my friends), which is why i...|||This has always been something i've been pretty awful at. I don't know why, but I really struggle to laugh at myself. I'll explain what i mean. The other day i was with a small group of close...|||If it is a person causing the anger towards you, then you need to talk about it imo. The reason you are angry (if someone has done something to you) is that you feel that one of your personal...|||Thanks very much for the posts in this thread, i really appreciate it :happy:|||did you snap out of it one day or did it just slowly fade away until it was completely gone?|||that is exactly what is is like. If you don't mind me asking, what are the thugs that you figured out since that period in your life?|||Hey guys, bit of a personal post here (I know how my fellow enfp's hate that so much) I developed depersonalization disorder about 3 years ago after an experience with smoking weed. Basically I...|||aw don't say that! Of COURSE you will have sex with someone that you love! How old are you?|||Hey man, sorry that you've gotten yourself into this mindset. It sounds like you are feeling pretty shit right about now. :( First of all, it sounds like you are pretty young (i think you...|||Yeah i've had one-night-stands before and they generally leave me feeling pretty empty too. I am also start to fear that they might want more then just sex and then i feel guilty for putting myself...|||I agree with @LostTheMarbles, there's nothing wrong with reaching out to others. Keep in mind, there's a few variables with your situation. How old are you? what are the problems you are going...|||I'm not exactly sure what you're trying to say here?. (and it's okay i'm not gonna take it personally) Thanks for the post though @Mugino Shizuri Thanks a lot! @laurie17I will do...|||@default settings Thanks for the post i like this idea: @Eustache Thanks for your post too, i really appreciate the effort :)|||@ManWithoutHats Holy mother of fuck! Thank you so much for putting so much effort into that post. I'm actually shocked lol (in a good way) I have tried to do this, but he swears that...|||Hey guys, I'm a 21 year old ENFP and i have an 18 year old INTJ brother. We get on quite well and share a lot of the same interests (comedians, video games, movies etc). But my brother is VERY...|||I don't believe in a particular 'religious' notion of God (Allah etc) but i do believe that God, in one form or another, exists. I have no idea if there are 'numbers' of Gods|||Someone asks you something simple like do you think not texting back after a full day is rude? PERECEPTION/DON'T BE A HYPOCRITE INTERNAL DIALOGUE MODE ENGANGED (inside your head) ...|||Like a baby...EVERY FUCKING TIME! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qX9FSZJu448|||Great idea for a thread :) I always listen to ricky gervais laughing when i'm down. It's like ice cream for the soul http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KwvCI6NOFls|||THIS. hahahahahahaha Also, What do you mean you want to wait until next week to skydive?|||A face to call home - John Mayer yehhhhhhhhhhhhhh John Mayer!|||yay!|||hahah|||Why thank you, i knitted it myself :D And in answer to your post, Firstly, he liked you before he started helping you through your troubles, he told you and you didn't reflect those feelings...|||Hey guys, I've been interested in MBTI for quite a while now and lurked for ages. I've never met another ENFP before (well, i've never been certain), and certainly not another ENFP guy. I seem to...|||Cheating is a big no-no for me. If someone cheats on me then they are OUT! I crush and ignore the feeling of giving them a second chance because it's not something i could ever really get over. ...|||-Feeling like you are being controlled by someone or something. -People talking about me negatively and judging me behind my back and then finding out about it later|||Look, this thread is just a waste of time. Simply put, you can only be one way if you want to succeed in the world. I'm not going to waste my time pretending to be someone i'm not just so i can...|||i think nickleback has some good songs|||Some great ones in this thread! Everyone is talking about what an ass you made of yourself last night when you got drunk Apparently you really creeped her out You're such a hypocrite ...'

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'No,empathy and sympathy doesn't have to go together. You are empathetic because you feel their mood and it affects you and like you said,sympathy comes just for the people close to you. You can even...|||Probably you are e very empathetic person,this is a normal thing..Try to surround yourself with things that makes you feel better.|||Before you make up your mind,open it!|||No,unconditional love doesn't exist. Everything is conditioned but that doesn't mean that love doesn't exist. Maybe the question should be: is it worth loving? I feel like love comes with a huge...|||How do you know when you are stressed? i just feel it in my body. I'm nervous and I can't be calm. How does your behaviour change when you are stressed? I avoid doing what I have to do, I do...|||This is like the song of The Script-Fall for anything :) You gotta stand for something or you'll fall for anything |||It annoys me when I'm honest with someone and he/she doesn't believe me.|||I don't like that I'm not that good at multitasking.. I really need to do lots of things in the same time and after I do one thing I don't have enough energy for another thing I have to do....|||You feel like you are bored because the things you should do are not fun and you don't like doing them,in reality I don't think you are bored,you are just avoiding the things you don't like to do and...|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ria37d9mInY Funniest thing from Seinfeld :))|||Aha,so is just about being distracted..I get it :)|||Just a theory.. but you think maybe you are afraid to finish for some reason? I heard another ENTP saying is afraid that won't have anything to do after has accomplished his/her goals,maybe is all...|||I feel like home in your forum,better than in the INTJ forum.. I don't know why.|||Johnny, I think is one thing to have the capacity to do something and other to actually do it.. He definitely has the capacity and I'm sure a lot of ENTPs have it too,just that you loose interest...|||Hello! Aaaa..,I'm not sure how off-topic I am but I need to identify an ENTP (I think he's ENTP but I'm not sure) so I need your help cuz you probably can spot someone like you more easily. So he has...|||The test is not useless,it helps to understand what makes you recognize signs of affection in other people and the type of affection you like to give. The questions are made like this because is easy...|||Don't take the types literally,try to add instead the functions that are characteristic to you. If you want to differentiate between Fi and Fe ask yourself this: It is easy for you to express your...|||I think you have an extrovert thinking,introvert feeling,extrovert sensing and I'm not sure about the intuition... I don't know exactly to what type this characteristics belongs to..|||Aren't ENTPs introvert thinkers? Why ENTPs are considering themselves as extrovert thinkers? On every website I searched it says that ENTPs have an introvert way of thinking..I'm confused:confused:|||I bond better with man. I had over the time very good female friends and very good male friends and the friendship with man were stronger. I don't think is something related to the gender,I just...|||1. If a romantic relationship ends badly, would it be easy for you cut all ties and never talk to your ex again? Yes,I usually don't keep in touch after the breakup but it happen a few times to...|||Thanks for your input. So no one likes easy targets for a long road. Let's say I really like someone and clearly I'm an easy target for him but I don't wanna show that.. what's the right attitude I...|||So I've read somewhere (a book of Louis Corman) that man with introverted thinking fall in love with vulgar woman that are not at their cultural level. Please tell me is not like that.|||I think is nice that man are trying to make an effort in understanding woman but I'm not sure if the tricks work for everyone since every woman has a different personality and a different set of...|||You ENTP's are so funny and naive in the same time... Speaking as a woman,I don't think any man needs a manual to teach them the game. The most attractive thing woman find in a man is confidence...|||Maybe you just didn't find your type. Is ok not to force a relationship with someone you don't find good enough for you. You deserve someone who gets you. Maybe try to change the environment to...|||367130 I didn't took any pictures lately,these are from a few years ago... I think I'm more of an INTFJ though :))|||I do like photography a lot and I used to draw buildings when I was a child but I'm not talented at drawing. I am very visual and I like things that stimulates my eyes. I like pictures with...|||I usually like energetic songs that gets the craziness out of me. I like bands like One Republic or The Script but usually anything energic. I'm now listening songs from Swedish House Mafia even...|||I think that if he tease you,likes to be around you and talk to you,smile at you and look at you he definitely likes you. I think he could open up more is you open up first and give him the...|||Yes I love my mother,she is awesome. I think I could have turned worse if I would have had a bad mother so I'm lucky she is my mother. She's a better mother than I could ever be. Sometimes I wish I...|||So I have a friend who is 2 years and a week older than me and a few months ago I asked him how old he is so I could remember how old I am :)) I do loose track of time,most time I don't know what day...|||I instant smile when I see animals playing or just being cute, babies laughing or genuine acts of kindness.|||I go through some phase when something is happening: I'm pessimistic at first then optimistic then realistic and then either sad or very enthusiastic.|||I really love quotes,I like to read them to motivate me when I need,so this are a few: Everything you want is on the other side of fear. The privilege of a lifetime is to become who you truly...|||I do but I'm not admitting it to myself just yet.|||Injustice, mean people, narrow-minded people,commercials,lies,pressure.|||I think INTJ woman definitely need and and extrovert man. I don't know why but I feel very attracted to both introverts and extroverts and I always do the wrong choice,maybe because extroverts are a...|||I feel I can't bond with any member of my family, no one seems to understand my personality,at least my mother is trying or is accepting me but my father or my siblings don't seem to get me. I have a...|||Hi! I guess this doubt your decisions that you just made could be an INTJ thing. I always have doubts about what I just did and said and I find later better ways I could have done this or that. Maybe...|||I find funny silly things, people that do mistakes,ridiculous things,stupid things and original jokes ...and I like to lough a lot but I have a picky sense of humor.|||Hi! I don't think we can fit everyone in the 16 types,we are more or less one type and the doubt about feeling/thinking dominant I think is because we may be emotional people with a need of being...'

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'What would?|||I'm not sure what you're asking though. How about this person called you trash and worthless. Can that be a limit? if not, can I have an example of one?|||ok then no limit and easy is defined by your example|||It doesn't have to be over-the-top. Enough to say that you can no longer keep the crying out of your voice and you have to wipe something in your eye away. Mood? You and Partner just got in an...|||How easy is it for your partner to make you cry (out of hurt)?|||430922 ??|||Thinkers. Most recent are intps, intjs, and istps.|||Neither option really affects me though, that's why all the focus now shifts to her|||So my intj best friend from high school finally ungave me the cold shoulder and contacted me finally. She said that she regrets thinking poorly of me for so long ( very vague description but I...|||i really need to practice what I preach|||I don't hate INTJs. I was best friends with one all throughout my high school career. I think one big thing I noticed about them is that they have two kinds of faces. I'm saying that because...|||Klaus Mikaelson from the vampire diaries I kinda hurt for that guy. All he wants is family, but every move he makes is judged as wrong.|||You are 22.2% Good. You are 2.6% Chaotic. Alignment: True Neutral|||Honestly, I don't feel like people should have to stay in touch to consider someone a best friend, or even close friend. I recently cleared up a situation where my best friend was under the...|||I'm not sure I know exactly what you mean. If you're talking about an instant connection, and an overwhelming desire and feeling of love towards someone, so strong you'd want it to last for idk...|||Before grabbing dinner with a friend :kitteh: 269890|||I actually do exceptionally well with mathematics, at least right now. I've noticed that I do better with things that emotionally engage me, and starting just recently, the idea of rigidness and...|||I actually brought it up today and that was pretty much his response. How he'll always want the best for me even if things go sour.|||Have you ever told someone something like that before? Or that you even loved them? My intp boyfriend just told me something very similar to the title, and it made me wonder if any of you have ever...|||I bite the skin by my fingernails. Sometimes the nails but rarely.|||I hate to say it but I can identify with your infp.|||Being drunk or at least buzzed is almost the only time I can express how I feel about people. I'm such a poet during those times, or so I feel until the next morning.|||That really was the case. When I told him the story, I didn't blame the alcohol.|||tryna take a good selfie 249762|||a huge motha fudgen mess|||I ended up fixing the issue. Turns out I'm not as good as you guys shutting people out even though I erased her. Turned out she let me in and was hurt that she thought that I wasn't...|||just simply wondering. I've cheated while drunk. So that may say a lot about me and my limitations. I'm just wondering about everyone else|||Late to the party? Guess that makes two of us >.> haha. I wont be using quotes by you so bear with me: For the most part, I'm very pleased/relieved that some things about you said were not the...|||It wasn't just falling out of touch though, she got rid of me. I found out why though. Apparently, she was upset that I didn't try to spend time with her over summer break and that I'd sometimes...|||But to delete them? Mind you, she kept all of our mutual friends, and she sees them less than I do. Why keep everyone but your best friend?|||So I have/had this INTJ friend. We've been friends for four years. We've had our fights, but we made it through high school as best friends the whole way through. We would spend pretty much...|||Blocked my best friend on most social networking sites and deleted all the pictures of her. It's usually really difficult to let go of things, but everything about her in my life is gone. Like...|||neither are particularly great choices. But just to clear things up: He has expressed that these are some things he wants (the physical things), to what extent I don't know. He just gets...|||In my opinion, I thought my intp boyfriend and I did a pretty good job at communicating, but I'm beginning to realize there are things beyond us that there just wont be answers for for awhile I'm...|||One of the people I hold dearest to me is an INTP. Lots of thoughts on stuff, if there's any way to describe them. It's interesting to hear what someone has to say about a certain topic, and the...|||backright profile. I just wanted to post this picture somewhere itp: me and my boyfriend http://tapatalk.imageshack.com/v2/14/12/15/a254efbc2b1d99884e0b5a1b7cfc3500.jpg|||Very transparent. Very vulnerable|||So I ended up just asking him, and he told me. You guys were pretty much spot on for the most part But new question: Would you describe yourselves as insecure? He expressed that he'd...|||He does, actually. He didn't when we first met, but after maybe 2-3 weeks, he would reply almost instantly. And we've spent time together every day this week. Is it bad to only spend a few...|||By no means am I insecure of our relationship. We've only recently slapped on that label (boyfriend/girlfriend) but nothing has really changed, per se, between us. I think you're getting the...|||Sorry, I edited and reedited my original post quite a few times for this. I guess I still didn't word it right >.> I know he feels for me. I'm wondering more about how Much. (scale from 1 to 10...|||Butterflies don't translate into love for me. I just reread my post and I can see how it's kinda unclear. I'm asking how does one know when someone else is in love. Ie le boyfriend and I know...|||To be straightforward, I mean clingy/smothering. I've read generic traits that an enfp might possess but I'm wondering if you personally see your own self that way Sent from my iPhone using...|||Would you consider yourselves stronglovers/extremelyaffectionate?|||just too much|||He once said he thought actions spoke louder than words, and that's why he doesn't express that he cares, in that way. But that's MY love language. Words and touch. Receiving gifts makes me feel a...|||hi. I'm an infp and I've recently started an exclusive relationship with an intp. I'm just wondering how do know when you really like someone? Or rather, what do you do? He goes out of his way to...|||It honestly turns me off when people buy me gifts but that's SO's way of showing he cares|||ISFJ dad. ISTJ mom|||long bony fingers.'

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'[QUOTE=WonderN2Wonder;2453236]Jazz0101 > I have a kitteh that reminds me of Mr. Naughty - Contess de la Kinkitail. You look adorable, btw. :) Aww, do you?! Mr. Naughty is about 9 years old so...|||http://i222.photobucket.com/albums/dd228/franzx7/mrnaughty.gif I have a magical cat...Mr. Naughty|||Would an INFP really want to RULE anything?|||I've had enough of your flappin' jaws...now get in that kitchen and fry me some hog!-unknown hinson http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E7p3xcdcC8k I'm pretty sure unknown is not really a...|||Facebook is pretty interesting. I use it. Daily. I like playing words with friends. and I chat with a couple people on there and occasionally post something. but...i find peoples posts funny...|||http://i222.photobucket.com/albums/dd228/franzx7/cry2.gif|||Taxing doesn't begin to cover it in a romantic relationship. I don't see how INFP and ENFJ are suppose to be good together.|||ESFJ, yes.|||1: How much of said time would you say you need per day and how do you spend it? As much as I can get!!..I'd like to say I spend it doing highly important introspective things but I don't. I goof...|||I get along exceptionally well with ISTJ's.....as friends.....and actually, the two people that i consider to be the most reliable and who I get advice from are ISTJ's..I think that I admire them...|||I don't believe a INTJ would really post this..whats going on??!|||Uhhh..I guess you could be an INFP.though I don't see anything about your description that says INFP to me..Can't see myself ever imagining taking part in any cruel crimes though. I think at some...|||My son is three.. I'm a stay at home mom. Its great, I read somewhere that INFPs are natural parents and I have to agree. The only thing that is hard for me maybe that wouldn't be hard for other...|||well, what is that person doing with their life thats so goddamn great? I have found for myself that I'm a bit of a late bloomer but if someone that claims they love me doesn't have any more faith in...|||Amelie-main character Willow-Buffy the vampire slayer Deanna troy-star trek tng Holly-Breakfast at Tiffanys-except the extroversion Ruth/Rose-She Devil-I LOVE this movie. Julianne Moores...|||I agree this sounds like a respect issue and not related to type. My INTJ husband and I have major communication issues but its mostly getting him TO communicate and not clam up. He generally doesn't...|||This is true of me as well..I spent a lot of time alone as a child. My mother was in school/working and my dad was the stay at home parent but he definitely did not have any type of schedule of...|||I was half expecting something about handcuffs.|||I can't stand people like that and generally try to steer clear of them..If I feel like someone is trying to play that type of game on me I try to go NT on them..Nothing erks those type of people...|||This is really good advice! But......how do you practice it..just not say anything? LOL|||I did not see a sticky thread for personal videos so feel free to link it if it already exists http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j0XgvdEIYho|||I'd love to add to the conversation my spice on Jehovahs Witnesses ......I was raised a Jehovahs Witness..I left several years ago. The 'elder' took the opportunity at my grandmothers funeral to...|||Well, this use to be more the case until I had my own child..then you HAVE to grow up....but, while I was pregnant I use to really enjoy coloring books and my husband got me a great big box with...|||Horrible horrible..I still use my fingers subtracting.|||There's a physical world?|||Yes..some people are more draining than others but I'd have to say just being an introvert makes it more likely to happen. Even people you get along with well, and family that you love, I always need...|||No shit, ESTJs get stuff done! ;)|||Eh....I think it has to do with how you were raised. You said you were raised to have good manners so this is something that's important to you. Thats like saying I have some of the traits of 'J'...|||Drill Sergeant?|||How do you deal with other peoples emotional stress and problems? I find that when I am around someone I tend to absorb their feelings and I will continuously give advice and try to be supportive to...|||I was married to an ESFJ a few years ago and I have nooooo idea how it ever happened..But it was a disaster.for all the reasons people have mentioned. I do, however, have an ESFJ female friend...|||would you say this is just the case with INFP males, not females?|||I find the inter-type relations to be pretty accurate in my experience..the thing I don't get is....I'm an INFP MBTI and when I took the socionics test I was still INFP..So not sure what people mean...|||Welcome! ..I'm not too good with eye contact either. Some of it may be a self conscious thing.|||I can't stand any type of clutter..I went thru a 'minimalist' phase a while ago and while I don't systematically get rid of stuff I just can't handle having a bunch of junk sitting around. I like...|||Well, maybe this will help a little, though I haven't been in a relationship with an ISFJ, My very best friends for YEARS was an ISFJ. and it was a very awesome dynamic. She was always giving me the...|||No. unless you do liposuction.|||Well, thats really simple..I'd probably garnish the dish with skittles or a little rainbow flag.|||Several months ago I would have said no way..chicken stew is a sin-I was vegetarian turned vegan...but then I took a bite of some chicken Tikki Marsala and now all the animals run from me..so I'd...|||Yeah, I don't give a fuck really. Someone will always have a problem/opinion with something that you do. but that's all it is so no, generally I don't take it personally. If its someone I admire or...|||Ok..well..maybe you are a lame INFP but I'm AWESOME.|||I've known two supposedly INFJ's, females..and..well...honestly..they are both a little nuts but Thome yorke right?? FUCK YEAH!..actually, I would love to have a good INFJ friend.|||I find it odd that you use the words 'dark' vrs. 'positive'..instead of each of their opposites, light and negative..Thats a little confusing to me..Darkness is within us all and we all have the...|||Night owl--and life would be much easier as a morning person.|||Addicted to an emotional state..hmm...the only time I would agree with that would be if that emotional state were a 'high' such as how you feel in a new relationship or new love. With each episode of...|||I do feel like this sometimes..but as my INTJ husband has said before, people are just largely self-absorbed..When I was younger, I'm 32 now. When I was younger, in my late teens early 20's this...|||Well...If I sort of like someone I may knock something out of their hands..if I REALLY like you I may kick you in the shin and run off..and if im MADLY in love..well..thats a swift face...|||Yes, I need to know MBTI of EVERYONE. While not everyone fits their type exactly it does help to understand them better I find. Some men especially have a harder time expressing their feelings,...|||http://http://i222.photobucket.com/albums/dd228/franzx7/mrnaughty.gif http://i222.photobucket.com/albums/dd228/franzx7/blonde.gif|||shy-I feel awkward about myself. social anxiety-there's nothing wrong with ME per se all these people are just too much clutter...I find when I am in places with large groups of people I gravitate...'

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'Thanks for the great suggestions. I will definitely take them into consideration. Regarding the layout of the quiz, that is the result of the limitations of the website. I cannot change the way the...|||If I could, I would give a more comprehensive results section but unfortunately I don't have this option within the format. I will be moving the test to another site at some point to fix this issue,...|||WintersFlame Cool name btw. A)6 b)4 c)9 d)3|||What do you mean?|||For anyone interested, I have a revised version here: https://www.qzzr.com/c/quiz/446934/cognitive-functions-based-mbti-test|||Hey thanks for taking the time to give your feedback, I appreciate it. Regarding the true MBTI assessment with the forced choice option, do you think that people are ultimately receiving their...|||Any in particular you had in mind or just in general? I'm definitely open for suggestions and making some changes. This is still a work in progress so all input is good.|||We made a few slight changes to the quiz. Some wording changes and added clarification for the percentages.|||I suggest doing some reading on the cognitive functions. Find out which functions you prefer and see which type that aligns with.|||Thank you everyone who has taken the test so far! So far it seems (from PerC and testing friends of mine) that the test has been off in scoring, some people who are introverted have been scoring...|||In April, I created and posted a cognitive function based MBTI test. Since then, with the help of Pooki, we have revised it and added another set of questions. Please view the previous threads...|||Wrong thread.|||Wow, this is an old one guys! I've pretty much come to the conclusion I'm an INTP since then. There used to be a debate between INFJ and INTP, but after much consideration I'm sticking with INTP for...|||Hey, thanks for your input. I would agree and say that I'm definitely a Ti user. Beyond that, I've realized recently with a fair amount of certainty that I'm an INTP. I type as LII by the way, but...|||One more bump|||Archie: ISFP Betty: ENFJ Jughead: INFP Veronica: ESFJ Cheryl: ENTJ Kevin: ESFP|||1. INxx - 5w4 2. Ravenclaw 3. Yup 4. Female|||I'm curious why you felt the need to post on a thread about a show you have no interest in. It must be so absurd and uninteresting that you had to take time out of your day to write such a passionate...|||Anyone else?|||Pushing myself up a little. Anyone want to have a go?|||In my opinion, there isn't quite enough information to determine your type from this questionnaire. Could you possibly complete another questionnaire and post it here so that we can get a more in...|||G0lde and spaceynyc I'm curious what made you both draw the conclusion of INTJ. To be honest, I haven't been typed as INTJ in quite some time and am usually typed as either an INFJ or INTP. I was...|||I posted this revised 40-question questionnaire on the What's My Socionics Type? forum but since I will likely never get a response to that, I figured I might as well post the questionnaire here to...|||Robotic ForestLII or LSI|||Daiz EII|||Te 1. How do you work? Why do people go to work? Are there any parameters that determine whether you can do work or not? What are they? *I work according to the job that I’m expected to do. I...|||I was going to develop my own reply but I couldn't have said this better myself. As a 5w4, I definitely relate.|||It's highly likely that many members that identify as a type 5 are mistyped, just as many are mistyped in an attempt to place themselves in any of the other personality typing systems. Though I'd...|||Ne|||Endologic ENTP 1. Shikamauru - Naruto 2. Dean Winchester - Supernatural 3. Jimmy McGill - Better Call Saul 4. Kakashi Hatake - Naruto 5. Gray Fullbuster - Fairy Tail|||It seems serious but it's really just a quick assessment.|||I'm a supposed Ni-dom but I'm not sure if my experience is typical. When I'm listening to a song I fall somewhere in the middle between trying to the embrace the song fully with all of it's elements...|||I didn't create this quiz btw, just putting that out there. Your opinion is appreciated though. Also, most quizzes are bullshit any way so I can see the value in attempting other methods for...|||Thanks all for trying out the quiz. I was honestly just curious what you would get. It was accurate for me, and the choices were easy for me to pick from. It's just a quiz like any other so of...|||I posted this in the Personality Test Resources forum but I'm curious what you all get on this quiz. It's rather quick and possibly accurate. Also, if you'd like, please mention how relatable your...|||Ni|||698890 The first thing I thought of was that it looked like the translucent but glowing blue belly of a radioactive and/or alien and/or robotic bug. I thought this beast had fallen over on its...|||I kind of just skimmed over the list, so now that I've read them thoroughly, yeah I could see how most of these could be IxFJ specific. What I'm mostly saying is, I don't think this list adequately...|||I would wander around a lot and just observe everything which meant I had a lot of questions that didn't have any answers. I liked to walk around outside and find interesting things in nature like...|||Does anyone else think that this list can be applied to absolutely anyone?|||2w3|||Haha that's perfect. I probably would have said the same thing ... and annoyed the shit out of my brother lol. Last thing about this and I'm done :eagerness: Have you ever seem the Jim Carrey...|||I've seen Interstellar and actually saw To The Bone recently. Interstellar is a favorite of mine (I think I've seen it about 3 or 4 times), very interesting to ponder. After I saw it for the...|||I like this idea for a thread. You always have good thread ideas :friendly_wink: I recently saw the new Planet of the Apes movie, War for the Planet of the Apes. I would give it: ★ ★ ★ ☆ ☆ I...|||Yes, this exactly. I believe I mentioned this on a previous thread here recently. I can closely relate to what both you and Melancholicbliss have shared. Well except for having no interest in...|||Windblownhair those are hilarious. We seem to have similar parents. My dad is an ISTJ, so not quite the same but they still share Te-Fi. Things he says: The fact of the matter is ... then...|||If you can't find people in person to talk to, there are a bunch of amazing and wonderful people on this site who would love to talk about this weird thing we call life. Particularly in the INFJ...|||I don't live in Denver but have you tried to look for any social meet ups in your area that have discussions about topics you are interested in? I believe there is an app for this but I'm not sure...|||:rolling: What type is your mom? Things my mom has said and done: - starts randomly singing a song about peace and love while we're cooking dinner. The song included a dance which needs the...|||See now you have me thinking about whether or not this is the way I am as well. I have many interests it seems philosophy, psychology, physics (theoretical, astro, and quantum mostly), alchemy,...'

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I'm only lazy when I have nothing to do. I can't do that SJ thing where they are constantly grazing around for jobs to complete. I'll let a bunch of important things build up, destroy them with 100%...|||Chef whites (all my clothing is actually black), lighter, dallas key (used to clock in for work), house key|||I defeated teenage acne, it was on my cheeks, chin, and forehead (clinically diagnosed as 'moderate acne') between the ages of 16 - 21 This is the secret. Drink water, stop being a greedy pig,...|||i'm complicated, it true but I don't smell like poo no, I mean it I've had a monster turd, I've seen it no pungent drama on a panorama view of you my poo I beg of you|||I more or less decided my career at 23 years old, around 7 months ago. I just need freedom of expression, and right now I am pretty much portraying my greatest self through catering. I was...|||ENTJs are interesting people!|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SHoHIL2ABVQ|||I never put myself in a situation of conflict. My episodes are very brief, and promptly dealt with. My anger can sometimes explode if the environment is right for it, but it's so unlike my nature,...|||it's been Awhile - staind|||There aren't rules, it just nice that if you make a comment to somebody's post that you give them a notification...|||I don't recall anybody in this thread making a link between Si & the past, so I just figured unless you pulled an idea out of the blue and it made no sense, that you made a direct reference to my...|||You became very entitled, very quickly. Another INFP trait!|||You bust out your guitar and start serenading them.|||Yep, when I went for an office job (recruitment) I was anxious, and felt small compared to everyone! Then I got a job in a kitchen, and I'm basically the boss' knight in shining armor. Practical jobs...|||Yes, I do.|||ISFPs will explode, dance, and burst into a scene. INFPs will walk onto the scene talking about something that happened in the past.|||We are similar, mind you. We both love to discuss ideas.|||I tried watching a youtube video on gravity, it looked like a University class was being presented, and it just annoyed me. It was not concrete at all, and you basically get a few impressions and...|||Yes, I can tell the difference. ESFPs will break into dance at any random point in the day, for no reason, uninfluenced by external factors. ISFPs either wait till they are home, or until the...|||Ok.|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hy10SsipBaU|||My sister is an ISFJ, too. She is a much better artist than me!|||Just stay Introverted, if you are an Introvert, and don't be embarrassed to express yourself in what way you deem necessary. When you think about it, you already know how to be authentic, embrace...|||ISFPs only need to be more like their true self, in order to explore and develop their Ni. As Ni is a subconscious function (they're all subconscious, but Ni is less explicable), if you strive to be...|||I see some INFPs have arrived in order to scout out any bargains on offer.|||Si is nice.|||So, I really like the female vampire ASMRs. I'm a man but I would love to make one for the audience. I personally do not watch men make ASMR, but I wouldn't shun the idea of doing one.|||In socionics, ISTJ is an ISFPs Benefactor. They are awesome, provide us with Te, and pretty much can't do anything wrong around us. I'm not surprised it worked out well.|||I had an interaction with an ENTJ! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0Ml7A0rH9uo|||May I ask, how do you know she was an ISFP girl?|||Haha, I was trying to be funny and look at Morrisey's style through a sensual view!|||The Greatest Hits 1. I popped a spot and it hurt 2. Let me fix your laptop, Samantha 3. Jennette, you gave me a boner 4. For some reason I bleed 5. Egg, ham and chips, that's tradition 6....|||I accept, thank you, ISTJ.|||What about a month's free trial, like Amazon Prime.|||I can offer you some Fi, I mean... it's not much... but it's still good!|||Leave me alone!|||ISFPs look like they have a laser beam coming from their face, breaking down your soul.|||Together Again - Janet Jackson|||Infp.|||I blame all the (actual) INFJs on youtube. Those animated, tempting eyebrows. That expressive face. Ah!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!|||thinking is the process of reaching a decision. intuition is about recognizing something familiar or interesting.|||Sia - Chandelier|||Be polite, and be supportive.|||Everybody is their own greatest artist. Even the most magnificent Van Gogh collection would only make up 0.01-0.05% of an individuals' character. The greatest opera only makes up a short time period...|||melancholy (for me) is that brief 2 second period after you are appreciated when you realise how all your life came down to this insignificant moment, and nothing more. Then you realise that there's...|||I used to like going to church with my school as a little Greek kid because they sometimes gave you brioche bread as a treat. Otherwise I'd stare at the clock and count the seconds till 11am, then I...|||Ask yourself, which type would you rather be, and why would you rather be that type? When you have answered these questions, then you will truly know.|||I wouldn't be happy at myself for not being able to return such a wonderful gift. If we're going to play a game of sentiments, mark my word, mine be 1000x more emotional and on point than yours. The...|||Not particularly, no.|||no need to tread around eggshells when in conversation with you.

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'Way to go, MonieJ!!!|||Left Brain- 45% Right Brain- 55% Your Left Brain Percentages 42%Symbolic (Your most dominant characteristic) 37%Linear 27%Sequential 20%Reality-based|||I cannot speak for the poster, but I could try taking a shot at it. Perhaps that individual jokingly had took the porn part and decided that an eggs and sperm scene would be funny to post. Most of...|||I don't think so. I'm an INFP and I'm an absolutely awful cook. I can bake, but baking is just following a recipe exactly.|||I scored a point higher on Hufflepuff than I did on Ravenclaw, but I have a feeling that the way I get during the school process would get me put into Ravenclaw. I'm an INFP.|||That's really cool! I love the way they took junk and were able to make awesome images out of it.|||I know this is more of a technical thing because I'm pretty sure the meaning of your question came through... But our type will be doing differently depending on the individual. We are a bunch of...|||http://i.imgur.com/XBd1E.png|||Thank you... I knew how it was supposed to work. I just couldn't get it to actually do it...|||Welcome to Personality Cafe! It's a pleasure to meet you and I hope you'll enjoy your stay here. XD|||http://imgs.xkcd.com/comics/dreams.png I put that in the IMG brackets... And finally gave up because it was frustrating me. xD|||xkcd: Dreams http://imgs.xkcd.com/comics/dreams.png|||It really depends on the activity. If I'm writing for a school assignment, I'm right-handed. If I'm writing for myself and don't mind it being backwards, I'm left-handed. If I'm using sign language,...|||Have you tried logging onto a throw-away messenger and giving them the SMS number?|||Google is making a serious attempt to rule our lives. Let us into your address book, don't worry, we're nice people and put all of your sensitive documents and mail conversations through us and...|||Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us.' We ask ourselves, Who am I to be...|||I find that I always enjoy learning about other cultures. This has resulted in an interest in cultural anthropology, but I think I'd like to actually experience a culture more than just read about it.|||It's does happen, which is why people have to be careful about what they take. For some people, the medication pulls them out of depression just enough that they finally have the energy to act on...|||First of all, I would never want to give birth. I have very strong feelings about not having the freaky-alien-thing inside me. (I know that fetuses are not literally aliens, but that's what I always...|||I'm actually working on that. I think it will be slow progress because I am following a fairly traditional path, but I'm moving 2,000 miles away from my family next fall so that I have space to...|||I'm... a bit strange about this. I don't normally seem to be someone who likes dark things. But I found the book Wuthering Heights to be fascinating and have a fondness for other books that seem to...|||I'd prefer to live alone. I'm pretty territorial and possessive, so sharing a house with other people is a stress factor to me. Plus, I have this habit of really enjoying bright colors that burn the...|||I do this with certain people, and then have to re-explain the situation all over again.. Usually it's not worth the effort.|||I would be a vegetarian, but I currently live with my mother and she buys the food. Once I am supporting myself, I plan to become a vegetarian.|||This happens to me a lot, especially when I don't have obligations like school to worry about... Honestly, it was horrible during middle school. I got 4 hours a sleep a night because any more kept me...|||Pohcahontas. That song Colors of the Wind is a big thing to me, especially this stanza You think the only people who are people Are the people who look and think like you But if you walk...|||I think... I'd like to edit mine so that I could live on an airship... Preferably with a crew of introverted people where we all had our own cabins and could talk about deep, important things......|||Reading, self-discovering, and learning about things I'm interested in. Maybe hike and bike and such.... I'd spend a lot of time thinking with a notebook or laptop on hand so I could record important...|||Sometimes it's books... I pretty much raised myself on books and it's how I'm building my value system, I think... But mostly it's my best friend... I know it's wrong to rely on him so much, but when...|||I've heard that looking at screens before you try to sleep is counter-productive... Something about the way screens light up on computers, TVs, and cell phones is suppose to make it harder to sleep.|||Read, use the Internet, think about things, work on mini-projects.... Basically, night is really the only time where everything around me is settled enough for me to focus. And there are less people...|||This happens to me a lot... It makes it hard to be around people sometimes....|||If I ever decide to procreate, it would have to be the child... I've spent my whole life knowing that I didn't want children because I've raised so many of them... But if I ever did have one, it...|||Honestly, I've wanted to be for over a year now, but I'm a minor and not supporting myself right now. My mother says I can't be a vegetarian until I'm buying my own food, so I'm researching right now...|||Welcome to the forum! It sounds like you have some interesting hobbies. ^_^|||Welcome to the forum. ^_^|||I don't particularly care for sleep, but occassionally I do nap just so I don't have to deal with the real world. I do it most often when I'm depressed or upset.|||You there might put someone in mind of Shrek and leave them expecting you to think-of/call them an ogre. There are huge lists somewhere of where to find INFPs, but I think the best thing you can...|||They're attached to my head, but not attached the way you mean...|||I'm the same way... I drop things, trip on things, bump into things... Basically, if it's there I'll end up damaged by it or damaging it. Life is cruel sometimes. :crazy:|||I guess if it came on really strongly it could be Deja Vu... Mostly I associate that term with things happening in real life that I had dreamed about in the past, but this might count...|||That's really a way I hadn't thought about it before... I guess if we're constantly reliving the moment and the emotions, we have time to think about it and what happened as our view of the world...|||I deal with this problem too... I feel way too strongly about everything, except for when I start shutting things down. Of course, when I boot them back up, I feel twice as strongly... I don't want...|||Honestly, I read a good book, listen to music that makes me happy, and then talk about it with one of my closest friends.. Combined right, I'm sure to at least get to the grit teeth and try again...|||I'm the same ways sometimes. The other day, I started crying before I remembered that I was just imagining it. Sometimes it takes a while for me to remember that it isn't actually happening. ...|||I was wondering if other INFPs experienced emotions from a long time ago just as strongly as they did then. Pain and betrayal are the ones that are most likely to feel the strongest after years, but...|||I'm not sure if I go for soulmates, but I do believe in lifemates... I know that sounds weird, but I keep thinking about how soulmate and reincarnation would mean that unless you found the same...|||Honestly, the harder I'm looking for something, the less likely I am to see it, especially if it's in a cluttered area. If an area is cluttered, I can't see any individual object, which makes looking...|||I love cats... Honestly, it's kind of the reason I want to become independent so bad. I want to have a cat or two.... They make everything better, in my eyes. ^_^|||Do introverts stay in their rooms most of the time at home? Usually. It's suppose to be my stronghold, so gives me some sense of security. I'm more likely to come out if my family isn't home because...'

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'Hugs!!!|||Welcome! I am an ENFP 7w8. sx/so.|||(((Hugs)))|||Hi @ GuitarKat! Love your name! I am looking forward to reading your posts!|||welcome !|||Dear Anon, Come on, just tell like it is. You need to stop this lying. me|||749- The gentle spirit- yes! I have always known I was a healer. I am also in the healing profession (body work as a phyiscl therapist). The 749 is the 7 that is the most elusive, liquid and...|||I like beards. My SO has a beard and most of the men I have dated have had them. I love how they feel and I think they look very sexy. :kitteh:|||It is great that ENFPs are able to pick up and run with Forgetting the MBTI recommendations RULES???? We don't need no stinkin' RULES!!!! LOL misfist, nerdy, weirdos - please apply...|||I am not really fluent yet in my understanding instinctual variant and what is contra flow. Tips please? :kitteh:|||I have been blessed to be surrounded by GOOD FRIENDS! Ones that will look at you and say...I am going to tell you this, because you need to hear it! (and I thought I just had spinach in my...|||Fellow ENFPs and their SOs. Forgetting the MBTI recommendation of who will actually complete us. Who are we really drawn to like a moth to a flame? and WHY??? My SO is an ISFP. I have had longterm...|||I really like how an ENFP posts to thread, their abilty to paint with words. I enjoy spending most of my time in the ENFP forums here on PerC. :proud:|||it is also an ENFP thing. I make break tasks up into smaller parts and make shorter deadlines. I also set frequent reminders on my smart phone and on my calendar. This helps me...even though I...|||I welcome...no crave change :crazy:|||Dear Anon, I am in a very happy place right now. Happy heart. Can you feel it? cuz I am broadcasting higher vibrations! ENFP!|||HA!!!! You ROCK!!!! PumpkinEater:laughing:|||This poem struck a chord with me today... But all was silence. Like everyone in his place he had been neutralized, made grey and anonymous. The scene was for me one of ordered desolation. It was as...|||This poem struck a chord with me today... But all was silence. Like everyone in his place he had been neutralized, made grey and anonymous. The scene was for me one of ordered desolation. It was as...|||Very Observant PumpkinEater It is five guys! LOL I was waiting to pick up our to go order and this was the first time to wear the kyanite. It has since become a all the light blue (glowing) color....|||I was given a blue Kyanite by a caring friend. I wear it everyday. I was told it was a very strong and protective stone. 64626 64627|||I think being ADHD goes hand in hand with ENFP. ADHD tends to run in families. My twin sister and I both have it. Both of my sons have it. only one of us took meds and he was able to take himself off...|||Welcome ComradeINFP Have fun surfing the forums on PerC :happy:|||Dear Anon, I am deep cleaning my house. That says it all ... HA|||HOLY COW!! this feels like the 5th or 6th thread I have seen on cheating, would you cheat, should you cheat, would help someone cheat...OK OK OK so my friend wants to be FWB!!!!! I Confess!!...|||6431164310 Izzy ~:proud:6431264313 Mew :proud:|||remove the distractions! ie phone with text message and facebook notices. I tell persisent friends to STOP texting me when I drive. I am ADHD and feel compelled to look at my phone. The story...|||Congratz!!!:proud:|||Hi Johnny AppleShy It is nice to meet you! I am looking forward to reading some of your posts. I lurk in other MBTI type forums too :proud:|||Hi HuggsX3 Welcome to PerC! One of my best friends is an ENFJ. I am looking forward to reading your posts. :happy:|||Hi! welcome to PerC. :happy:|||welcome TessaVictoria!|||Welcome Jay Innuolo Have FUN surfing the Forums :happy:|||Aqualung I LOVED THIS! Ball Pits are FUN! I watched the video while listening to Howie Day : Collide... It really fit.|||I declare you TOTALLY AWESOME! You make me giggle uncontrollably at my desk and this is a problem, because it gives me away. That I am on PerC, listening to pandora and not actually getting my...|||I declare you TOTALLY AWESOME! You make me giggle uncontrollably at my desk and this is a problem, because it gives me away. That I am on PerC, listening to pandora and not actually getting my...|||Welcome Snoot! I love your avatar! Chocolate is an important part of my day too. As is coffee :tongue: And I love your Signature comic!!!|||As an ENFP, I am very forgiving. I will give 2nd-3rd-4th chances up to a point. I am very conscious of another' feelings. Forgetting birthdays and special events used to hurt me a lot. I would be sad...|||64048 Too Cute not to share :proud:|||Dear anon, I always, always, always have so much FUN when I am with you!!! I think you are amazing!!!! *my heart is dancing, skipping, whistling a lovely tune* HUGS!!! Me|||WOW- That jacket you are wearing is really bright!!! Only YOU can ROCK it like that!|||I love your laugh, other people will politely chuckle at my jokes...but you laugh with all your heart. WHERE have you been all my life You always surprise me. (talking about my vast...|||@yesterlove Just be yourself. Even your avatar is perfect- SPOCK! I am attracted to the stand offish intelligence of an INTJ. I am drawn to you like a moth to a flame. Your introversion will...|||congatz lifeisanillusion!|||Hi DoubleMasked Welcome!|||Cool 15 and yes I saw the gorilla|||My twin sister is ESTJ. I love her! She is my hero. ESTJs are strong, driven, abrasive weed wackers that often don't understand or see how they can affect others. They are also efficient,...|||Dear Anon, I miss you...Glad you are coming home. me|||Kate, I am lifting you, your babies, loved ones, and family up in prayers. I am so happy that you are in rehab. I know that you are getting some of the very best care there. Prayers, good...|||This resonated with me. I am an ENFP, but I have also been guilty of this. Sorry... you do have a right to vent.'

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May I say that this is the most obnoxious piece of music I've heard all day? ESFP https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DU_ggFovJNo|||Maybe he likes it hard...|||The vocals seem like they would appeal to an Fi dominant, and it also sounds a little emo so I'm going with INFP. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J2CCfxiQ5QY|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=scGtAjNYbBc|||This is the weirdest song I like. Mostly weird because of the lyrics, and also a bit funny. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZX06inW2hK4 Lyrics: Are we rolling?A one, a two, a three, a four ...|||I'm not really into racing games but Driver: San Francisco seems like it has an interesting concept.|||IXFX because of the composure and P because of the constant progress in the song. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kB7skYEv_EM|||You smell different when awake. Another variant: Bro, it's a social experiment!|||Stevie Nicks' Fleetwood Mac. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U_aYibUx1B8|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WEWG6kSYqlY|||I think you should try something from the Elder Scrolls series (Morrowind or newer). Although there is a lot of fighting in them, you can't often take breaks, talk to people and find more about the...|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YjRbmtrDJI4|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v1QmhVxyVkc|||20|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tRcPA7Fzebw|||ethylene Why is this funny?|||When you're having a separate conversation in your head while someone's asking you a question and end up offending them by saying yes.|||You only realize how dirty your shoes are when you walk into a shoe shop. One more: If you ever take cyanide, remember to also take a bullet to your head. Just in case. You don't want yourself...|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IWm03wYBTbM|||18|||JustMe I like the joke itself but not the caption.|||20|||19.|||Dyanzo I'll have to thank you for introducing me to this rather interesting subgenre of a subgenre. Any Pink Floyd fans here? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qiaF4kuxJco|||Making threads go bizarre, hurting brains and offending people on accident are all INTP things.|||I can't and it makes me genuinely furious.|||12 headphone jacks will make for some... interesting parties.|||https://imgs.xkcd.com/comics/xkcd_phone_4.png https://imgs.xkcd.com/comics/self_description.png|||You know you're an INTP when you don't speak up in groups because it's so obvious, everyone must already know it. I don't know if this one was posted already and I really can't know, considering...|||I do similar things. I like to run up or down the stairs while singing Beethoven's No. 5 loudly and stepping with every note.|||64|||Memeophilic Patrick is actually just a bully if you think about it, not very likable to me. 128|||256|||135|||Tom Lehrer.|||You know you're an introvert when you say hi to every animal you see but avoid human interaction.|||Personal ~ * My real name is Bogdan but I do not prefer it. * Male Location - Serbia Personal(ity) ~|||nullpost

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'If i've got any weed i'll usually get high in the lounge room while watching tv, then make myself some tasty munchies food, often while smiling/laughing stupidly to myself about funny things that i...|||I look younger than i am. It's annoying because i frequently get asked for i.d when buying alcohol or at a bar. Other than that it has no real impact on my life. But dad assures me that the older i...|||Yea i agree with you on Ray, Frank and Marie. Robert could be an ISFJ but i'm not sure. I was thinking that Debra is too feisty to be an Fe type and might be an Fi type instead.|||55337 That's okay guys. I'm sure i'll figure it out eventually.|||All the other main characters i've found relatively easy to type because they're based on real people. But for these 2 i can't figure out the mbti or enneagram type. So what do you guys think?|||So PerC... to what extent did you get jiggy wit it today? Or if you didn't get jiggy wit it, what are your perspectives on the notion of 'gettin jiggy wit it'? :ninja: Speaking of which:...|||Moar!|||Haha ninja sex party rocked my world. I ALSO enjoy listening to ham!|||I'm bored at home. If anyone wanted to chat or link me to something interesting on the internet it would be greatly appreciated :happy:|||My intp friend is polite but aloof. He'll remain this way until he's observed them enough to figure out whether he likes them or not. If he doesn't like them he'll try to avoid talking to them. Maybe...|||I've changed my mind about don's type again. For a while i thought he was an intj 3w4, then an istp 8w9 but now i've settled on istp 3w4. I think he's an istp because: He's not particularly chatty...|||Maybe we should be getting people to take pictures of themselves in this thread haha. Nothing will make a thread on this site rapidly grow like the power of human narcissism. Actually no let's...|||I'm not saying it's a bad show. I get why people like the character of Barney etc. I just don't think it's as funny as many people claim it is. Anybody else agree? Or am i the only one?|||Any Breaking Bad fans in this thread?|||Yeah? Well, you know, that's just like uh...your opinion, man.|||Well that's just the thing! My disco dancing ways were putting me on a path to destruction! I've given up as a means of 'stayin' alive'!|||Hello good sir and thankyou for your support. Believe me, i've been to boogie wonderland. It's more trouble than it's worth!|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uXlKkzjkheg Maynard is a freak in the most awesome way possible.|||Hahaha, oh i wish i was rad enough to be in this video clip. No it's the song that made me succumb to temptation.|||I apologise for that ugly outburst towards the end there. As you can now see i struggle on a daily basis to kick the habit.|||Hello, my name is gerardio and i am addicted to disco dancing. It's been 7 days since my last disco dance. My dancing once got so intense that i ended up in the kitchen of a restaurant being yelled...|||ENFJ 9w1. He's idealistic/big picture in rhetoric, an effective verbal communicator and seems like an Fe type to me (ruling out enfp) His emphasis on optimism, unity and hope are very type 9 sounding...|||Can somebody tell Jesus to stop stealing my yugioh cards? We played the other day and i beat him. I could tell He was pretty pissed off but being Jesus He was all gracious and shit. So anyways He...|||You're goddamn right we don't want you estp folk in our neighborhood. Get off my lawn! :laughing:|||Well that person didn't answer but this is what i just listened to. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DdPWarbdbYc|||I'll answer the estp-infj scenario because both brother and my cousin are estps. In those kind of situations..short answer- they get on pretty well. infjs are always polite and estps can also be very...|||I think you're really onto something here! Where's the scientific evidence proving that he isn't a newt? I'll tell you where it is. NOWHERE TO BE FOUND BECAUSE HE FUCKING IS ONE!|||I just LOVE bulgarian crayons! There, i've said it! I LOOOOVE THEM!!!|||It's the system maaaaaaaan! It makes me feel all craaazy inside like 'boombita bam bam bam bam boom!'|||Steve Nigel. I know that's 3 but i don't play by nobodies rules! Not even my own. For i am Steve Nigel!|||I'm posting here again because i'm procrastinating. I have really uneven energy levels. I'll be super energetic and determined for like 3 weeks and then go through a phase of feeling really lazy...|||That's funny.... I also like threads! Fancy that! Unfortunately i think this particular thread may be dying.|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b6_oYNjwxU4|||I hope this thread succeeds! While we're waiting for that to happen listen to this song. Even if you don't like this kind of music, it has comic value. It's about facebook. ...|||charlize theron all the way!|||Facebook is an interesting platform for observing human nature in action. I've observed that people who post the most status updates are usually single and looking. These people are the most likely...|||I think we can't help but get depressed sometimes and that it's inherent in human nature. As humans we're just so ridiculously difficult to keep satisfied for long periods of time. Even when...|||arghhh my head is full of pasta!!!|||stop trying to brain wash me you lasagne nazi|||Attracted to: Boobs Not attracted to: Men, specific numbers|||Cheddar is a delightful cheese. Especially when sampled in the summer breeze. I do realise that one and all shall tease... my profound love of cheddar cheese. Once upon a summers day i noticed my...|||So... how about that local sports team!|||Successfully navigating through fear and confusion.|||Everyone in this thread needs to stop trying to be such tangental cheese lords all the time. - Noam Chomsky|||Did you know that Russians are afraid of apricots? They find the concept of vitamin A daunting. dimeeptri meepvedev even said so. and if you don't believe that he said that even ask my mum!|||gerardio is here. he will come to your house and he will eat all of your cheese. all y'all better believe it.|||Just finished watching season 2 so imma give this another try. Don Draper INTJ 3w4 Betty Draper INFP Pete Campbell ESFJ phobic 6w5 Peggy Olson ISFJ 2w1 Joan Holloway ESFJ 3w2 Ken...|||ohh you knooww just a bit of shawty snappin'. and by shawty snappin' i mean going out to a party to fulfill my duty as the pale and socially awkward white guy.|||It's more likely that over time you'll regret the things you didn't do, more than the things you did.|||Personally I tend to go out alot to parties etc, i'm fairly unemotional and like other people have said, i'm messy.'

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'Dear ENFJ Boyfriend: I am SO glad I said to you what I said to you yesterday, because I meant it. You stuck by me during my hectic grad school days, so I can sure as hell stick by you during these...|||Person I Don't Like: Here is my entire life story, and also let me be sure youknow how important I am while I complain about what a burden it is to be smarter than everybody else. (Ok, not a...|||To my significant other after randomly texting him a weird word completely out of the blue and forgetting why I did so upon hitting send: I meant to say 'I love you,' but it came out as...|||Dear Unhuggable INTJ: You realize that only makes us want to hug you more, right? :D Bring it in, buddy, and feel the love, A Huggable INFJ|||Dear Self: You are NOT getting sick. So what if your throat is scratchy, you have to cough, and you can only breathe out of one nostril? YOU ARE NOT GETTING SICK. I FORBID IT. Cough,...|||I don't remember...I was a baby. :) But if family photos are any indication, I was flippin' adorable.|||Dear Heavy D and the Boyz: Seriously, what ARE you going to do with love now that you've found it? Curious, An INFJ With a Nostalgic Love for 90s Hip Hop|||Dear Ghiradelli Dark Chocolate and Sea Salt Caramel Squares: Let's get married. Love, A Typical Woman With a Chocolate Fetish|||That pressure is self-inflicted, I think. In my experience, people in the real world aren't terribly concerned if you match your MBTI type to the T. Here on PerC, yes, a lot of people are hung up on...|||Dear warweasel: Yup, I notice hands on dudes. I can't quite explain my attraction to strong looking hands myself...it's weird. It's not even just the sexual implications...there's just something...|||Dear Desk at Work: I try so hard to keep you neat and tidy. I really do. But somehow by midday you're so covered in stuff that I have to dig to find my computer keyboard/mouse and I have to keep...|||Dear Alarm Clock: One of these mornings I'm going to turn you off via cartoon rubber mallet. Grumble grumble, An INFJ Who Hearts Sleep|||I start worrying that all our periods will synch up.|||My boyfriend of almost 4 years is ENFJ. Known him for 5. He's awesome - extremely empathetic and genuine, very easy with people (which makes me a bit less shy in social situations), loves learning...|||Dear ENFJ Boyfriend: I can't believe I randomly texted you the word nachos out of nowhere. Since you replied with Sand-wedge. See? I can say random words too, I'm assuming you found this...|||I generally interview pretty well, and have been able to find work due to my work ethic and social skills. Being introverted doesn't mean you can't be social. I've had to deal with the public in...|||Emotional? Yes. Emotionally reactive? No. I am not a ticking time bomb of feelings. Emotions are private things to me. I don't take them out and dress them up and display them for all the world....|||Dear Tall, Dark, Extremely Handsome and Muscular Landscaping Dude at My Door: Well, hel-LO. Rawr, An INFJ Who Is Faithful to Her Man, but Certainly Not Dead|||I'm not sure I understand the intention behind a woman playing dumb, to be honest. Where is the self-respect in that? Do they not want respect from others? Do they not care about being taken...|||Don't worry. I'm that idiot who gets stuck in revolving doors. The trick is to laugh at yourself before anyone else does. :)|||I used to work in an office at a college and a student walked in and I swear to you this happened: Me: Hello, can I help you? Her: My advisor told me to talk to some lady in some office. Can you...|||Nah, I tend to see that stuff as none of my business. I know the standard complaint is that INFJs always want to change people to fit into our ideal, but eventually you just have to realize...|||Hrm...one of my best friends I've had since I was 11 years old (holy crap, we've known each other almost 20 years!) tests as ISFJ. I know there are differences between us, but never ones that have...|||Dear Honeybees: Thanks to you and your pollinating prowess, I will have a lot of raspberries this summer. Please continue to help yourselves, A Grateful INFJ Who Likes Raspberries|||Latest love letter text I sent to my boyfriend: Dear ____: Thinking of you naked! Love, Me I never said I was classy.|||VERY cool. I'm an archivist, so I love old shit. Kind of goes with the job. :)|||I betcha Winnie the Pooh poos in the woods.|||I think this love of old homes is a common characteristic of a lot of people...it's not necessarily more or less common to INFJs, and it would be difficult to pin it down. Some people just like the...|||Well, as you all can see by my username, I totally hate books. ;) I was actually the last kid in my class to learn to read at age 6. It was frustrating - I couldn't get it at all. And then one day...|||Dear Cat: Because you opted to nap on your spot (one among several) on the back of the couch, I am now resting my head on your butt. Deal with it. You're fuzzy, Your Sleepy INFJ Mom|||I really doubt you can limit this particular situation as an INFJ thing. It's how you present yourself to other people, and how much confidence you show when you speak. If you seem confident in...|||Dude, when is he going to realize that body glitter is sooooo ten years ago. Seriously, he looks like a stripper from Reno with daddy issues.|||First rule of true/false questions: any question containing the words all, none, always, or never are, more often than not, going to be in the false category. I realize that's a gross...|||Is it just me, or is Meryl Streep freakin' adorable?|||Well, I agree that he's acting douchey. If he's trying to hurt you on purpose, then all you have to do is deny him what he wants. Pay him no attention, and if you are hurt, don't let him see it. ...|||Brains, hair color, sense of humor, sweetness, and , *ahem*...rack. Not sure how to handle compliments on that last one. :-/|||I'm out of the loop on this alleged sub-forum hate (nothin' but love, ENTPs), but I can't stop cracking up at tge use of the word diabeetus. It's the little things, guys. It's the little things....|||I'm the proud mom of an orange tabby. He's currently snuggling with me even though I tripped and accidentally spilled tea on him a few minutes ago. Now that's love!|||Well, aren't you sweet? :D I'm lucky enough to have found an ENFJ man. The world needs more of you guys, in my opinion. Your positivity is infectious. :)|||Dear Cat: Yes, I purposely did not give you the leftover milk in my cereal bowl because it gives you the shits. Get over it, will you?! Jesus, you're acting like I've deprived you of air. Sorry,...|||Five seconds after being introduced to someone: Shit, what was your name? You just told me and I repeated it back to you AND I STILL FORGOT YOUR FREAKIN' NAME! It's ok. I'll just play it cool,...|||I've known people like that, though I never knew their personality types. There was always something just very socially awkward about how keen they were to feel part of the group. They did exactly...|||Dear ENFJ Boyfriend: Ya knooooooow...just because I'm about a foot shorter than you, it doesn't mean I can limbo under a RUG. But if that really is the case, then that means I win, doesn't it?...|||Dear Pre-Made Greek Salad from the Grocery Store: Why are you topped with potato salad? Eating you anyway, A Confused INFJ|||Dear Random Neighborhood Dog That Visited Me While I Was Working Outside Today: You are very cute and friendly, and I'm glad I decided to stop working and throw a stick to you for awhile. You were...|||Dear Dishwasher Repair Guy Who Is Supposed to Be Here Sometime By 10:30: After a rather fiber-licious breakfast and two cups of strong tea, I'm in a bind. Suddenly I fear that you'll knock on the...|||I loved an ENTP once. ONCE.|||Dear Dried Mango Slices: Where did you go, oh sweetened spears of delight?! Longingly, An INFJ Who Just Ate You All in One Sitting|||Dear Best Friend's Sister: Before you start going off on your manifesto on why the Catholic Church is evil, please try to remember that I come from a very Catholic family of good people who see...|||Exact same thing for me. Especially after reading this: Inspiring Images From Boston - Business Insider'

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'https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R-KuAqQE5Ks|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mGtqqt0GgFk|||After 40 years of progress, the new elevator in my apartment carries the same amount of people up and down at roughly half the speed.|||Male: Ambrose, Isaac Female: Ada, Esmée|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5sZCSObL4oU|||I always felt I needed to accomplish something grand to be content, but my lack of dynamism kills my chances and it makes me depressed. My enneagram is 9w1 and I reckon my tri-type is 953, or...|||Giving away your date of birth to some website is just asking for your identity to be hacked...|||Unknown, but brilliant thrashcore (and later on crossover) band. Highly recommended for fans of punk and metal. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1IotWjbMoI0|||http://s30.postimg.org/qhasospr5/10462548_10202874209110975_3493479742124160641_n.jpg|||1-2-3 TECHNO https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RJKLgSmGt_g|||- Understützung von Socket AM3-Prozessoren: AMD Phenom™ II X4 / X3 und Athlon X4 / X3 / X2-Prozessor (außer 920 / 940) - ASRock M3A790GXH/128M Quick Installation Guide I know INTs are often...|||I still see far too little appreciation for Hellenic BM... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hEkZ7BoEN10 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f-Ic4rrKm30 ...|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0cuJOWFfm8w|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Kbquc8Fa2S8|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kITVzkbAJsE|||ENTP http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u80C4ML9CnI|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xT3Vc5xMvX0|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9ux5Sb-_9o4|||I don't believe I've felt love as most people experience it. My feelings have been more like purely sexual attraction in the short term and a sense of responsibility for their well-being in the long...|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9jet1Q3OVXc|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A0bjJt9UV58|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OA8sUxVZ4Bo|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zfNHX5k9N-A|||http://captainsdead.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/bisoneyes.jpg Quest for Fire - s/t (2008)|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fxuWzaq-qTo|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eC-O4-7zALE|||The necessity of politics proves that mankind is despicable, because if we weren't, we wouldn't need it.|||Sludge Metal http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Oq596CEdc78 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FmnRlOAesAA http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UwaWpUcTPMk|||Crust Punk continued... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JpKPrptx96M http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6GCCUveWL_I http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KX0oa46_8Nk|||Crust Punk Not really metal, but related. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lYEcjcvLVXE http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D83mg3t9Aco http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y0MDuXb6xW8|||Grindcore, Deathgrind and Goregrind (Besides the obvious: Napalm Death, Carcass, Terrorizer, Repulsion, Brutal Truth, Nasum, ...) Not really metal, but related. ...|||Death/Doom and Funeral Doom (Besides the obvious: Skepticism, Paradise Lost, diSEMBOWELMENT, Winter, Evoken, ...) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hh3Qr1gM7W0 ...|||Death Metal continued... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vxm0tnwF2oA http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rwZ7ya5X5OU http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3epnOR7nklM|||Death Metal continued... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-6uPv7azyH4 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f9pROgk3J3A http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HA2_xETBxKU|||Death Metal (Besides the obvious: Morbid Angel, Death, Immolation, Obituary, Entombed, Dismember, Suffocation, Autopsy, Possessed, Bolt Thrower, Nile and the ones I mentioned earlier...) ...|||Black Metal continued... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-PNWHoAO3kw http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v10rX_J1xZE http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5u4lRGrtqhM|||Black Metal (Besides the obvious: Bathory, Emperor, Burzum, Darkthrone, Enslaved, Mayhem, Ulver, Beherit, ...) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ynfrT3VYnbE ...|||Thrash Metal continued... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ua8ciSaXKAI http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mLtfJWFZN10 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oiOpvKGN05I|||Thrash Metal (Besides the obvious: Slayer, Sepultura, Kreator, Sodom, Exodus, Dark Angel, ...) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kVrot13vLHw http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V7lXdVtzzpQ ...|||Traditional Doom Metal continued... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x0TRFIhsGsg http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-BFS09jpalI http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n0_LKEeSGsQ|||Traditional Doom Metal (Besides the obvious: Pentagram, Candlemass, Saint Vitus, Witchfinder General, Cathedral, Trouble, Reverend Bizarre, ...) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OaLZb1hc-mE ...|||Heavy Metal continued... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GlNmID78QUw http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7cb5mWQwB9U http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fk_ugx3cvLU|||Here's some of my favourite bands of each kind of metal in no particular order. I didn't see a point in posting videos of the obvious well-known ones, but I mentioned the best among them just in...|||At the Gates were becoming melodic around With Fear... and Slaughter of the Soul is pretty much the quintessential melodeath album (and funnily enough also the quintessential 21st century metalcore...|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ax7qAlSGjIo|||Have you tried any death metal? Since you're a newbie, you probably need some adjustment before you can appreciate it fully, but anyway, here are my 5 favourite dm albums: Demigod - Slumber of...|||There are two prog metal albums that are so far ahead of all the others that there's no point in looking any further: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Dafpf9W4S9o ...|||Ibn Khaldun - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia Came across his name while searching for books to get me started in sociology. Seems like a vastly underrated (in the West at least) great thinker.|||Average contemporary thrash metal; I don't like average and I usually don't like contemporary (as in 21st century) either. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KsPsRQU1iSA|||http://s17.postimg.org/gc157qtfj/Banana_Single.jpg'

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'Perhaps someone already mentioned this, but Keirsey himself made the same link between the temperaments and the seasons. Even making the same matches for the same reasons you did. It's in the book...|||For the advancement of science, please vote and explain your answer.|||Accidentally made this thread. Delete please!|||So the division is as follows, that out of the INTJs about 63% is male and 37% is female. Interesting. Certainly a very different number than you'd expect. Ofcourse this could also just mean that...|||Bah... No-one's taking my poll seriously... Come on people, it's for the sake of Science... SCIENCE I tell you !! *weeps in a little voice*|||I apologize on behalf of all INTJs. :sad:|||Maybe try to develop your Fi? Fi is all about having values and fostering them. Perhaps when you are more certain about the things you find important in life, you'll gain more confidence. The ideas...|||According to Keirsey, INTJs are the most confident type. And he argues along the following line - INTJs can determine quite accurately what they know and what they don't know, and what they can and...|||Sad but true.|||Hey, I didn't imply the world would be off for the worse... We're behind the scenes, watching you... That's right, we still have the ENTPs to take care of the necessary trolling.|||This behavior must be the source of the unusually high number of female spottings here... What's REALLY going on in this place??|||lol. You INTPs should be thankful that we're around. We may be jerks, but consequently you look nice in comparison. Cherish your INTJs! :tongue:|||That's true, but I think we'll get pretty close to the truth this way. I don't think there's a huge difference between online and real life when it comes to gender distribution.|||*inhales cotton puff* *chokes to death* damn you... aargh!|||It's supposed to be 4 males to every 1 female, or so they say... But let's find out for real!|||It's very suspicious... There are supposed be much more males than females in our species, but looking at the numbers here makes one believe otherwise. Not that you're not welcome though, girls...|||That's irrelevant. I want to know what happens to the rest of the world. ...actually, looking from behind a curtain to see what happens :kitteh: Didn't that already happen?|||I snapped my fingers and all INTJs just disappeared?|||I symphatize with you. You're doing it on purpose! MURDERER !!|||Heh... You people are pure souls... You mention all these traits that you consider ''bad'' but are mostly harmful only to yourself... And you feel guilty when other people are affected by your...|||Yes! Yes! Show it to me! This terrible secret... it must be uncovered!!|||Profiles of the NFs tend to be, in my experience, very, very positive. For example, going by Keirsey's description of them, one might get the impression that NFs are angels of innocence, always only...|||Thanks for the comment. I will fix my problem of plurality promptly!|||Care to elaborate?|||Hello ENTJ friends. No, the title is not a rhetorical question - I want your input on this to make the difference between our types more clear for myself. So, yeah, what the title says. Here's your...|||My, I'm surprised to see so many votes going to the INTJ... Gives me hope! By the way, is anybody here on GameKnot? My name is ''awhiteknight'', for those interested.|||Friendship is nice, friendship is lovely... We both have colorful avatars, so we can be friends, hahaha... :tongue:|||I've been wondering: could certain types be at an advantage at playing chess because of their cognitive functions? I'm thinking of the INTP to be specific. They have: Introverted Thinking: a...|||Yes, this is what I mean. I see myself more as an engineer than a scientist. But to answer my own question: I think we should just be called the Directors. Sounds more boss-like, and I like the...|||Anna, hallo en goedenavond! Welkom op PerC. Veel plezier! :)|||Well, sure, I love all kinds of abstract stuff, and that includes theories of course, but I cannot be motivated to study theoretical matters very deeply without the prospect of real-life applications...|||Greetings, fellow INTJs. The reason I ask this question is because I don't feel that science-y at all... When I think of scientists, I picture people in white coats spending long, lonely hours in...|||Are you on youtube? I'd like to see. :happy:|||I put in ALL that effort to type this and you comment only about my avatar!!?! :tongue: By the way, that is rare footage of an INTJ in the wild... You are now under its spell... :confused: ...|||I'd say Grumpy Cat would be a fitting mascot for the INTJ. Captures our general mood quite well I think. :dry: 56810|||That was very helpful. Thank you very much for taking the time to answer all my questions. :happy:|||Alright, can someone explain the enneagram to me? I have to admit that it looks pretty interesting, but I'm highly skeptical towards it. I have some questions: 1. Is there a scientific basis for...|||Thank you. I mean it sincerely. You have given a reply that is genuinely informative. That's what I like to see.|||Guys, guys, come on, no fighting in my thread. We've got private messages for that. Well, a thread like this is just part of my ''study''. And I've become a little wiser because of it. And if...|||Function theory says that your cognitive functions develop as you age. In your case, that would mean Ne was the first to develop, followed by Ti, and at this moment it seems that your Fe is becoming...|||Contradiction. I don't get it, but that must be because I'm just a newbie. Never mind that I've been studying type for years before joining this site. I just wanted to know what people had to say...|||Oh those silly INTJ's with their clever comebacks... :rolleyes: :tongue:|||That's cool. :happy: Do you think your imagination has something to do with strongly developed Ne maybe?|||I think that's slightly exaggerated. And my library is already perfectly organized, thank you. By the way, I was asking SJ's..! You don't look like an SJ to me! :tongue:|||I'd love to believe you, but you'd be more helpful if you could provide examples.|||I'm pleasantly surprised. Is that your own work in your profile pic? I like it.|||I find this to be the most agreeable explanation so far. :proud: Of course, there are those who would like to replace ''awesomeness'' with ''evilness'' but I prefer the former.|||Interesting to hear about that ENTP's approach to work. It looks very chaotic and maybe nonsensical from a J's point of view, but it gets the job done. So it seems that the J-type's A-B-C approach...|||Thank you for sharing this. So Ne is not that much of a help when it comes to concentration? I think it depends on how well you can control it. I'm a Ni person, but I find myself regularly drifting...|||I'm thinking of writing articles on all the types and their contribution to the world. It depends on whether I receive enough feedback so I can really write something substantial.'

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'I trink the triads are very interesting for ohne specific reason: harmonic and hornevian explain why 9 types is the right number. On the other hand, including head/body/heart and...|||Measurin enneatype with questionnaires and random self identification is a lost cause. Nobody actually knows how the enneatypes are distributed in the population, since there is no measurement...|||Resultat:*Tritype 358/583/835 Same result as in other tritype test, i always Come out between 3-58 and 5-38.|||Mh...from an mbti perspective he is IxxP, little else is shown in the movie. But the enneagram perspective is very interesting. I think he is way to nervous and people pleasing to be a 9. When he...|||I think you are making a very very important point about enneagram and mbti but I'm not sure whats the point of it if different definitions are accepted. To me it is important to differentiate...|||I think a common misconception is the question what MBTI means by Extraversion vs. what Psychology means by it. This becomes even more confusing when tests of the MBTI operationalize Extraversion...|||I really like your idea of differentiating between different stages. But I'm afraid that the result are almost always traits. We would have to find a test which analyzes the different perception...|||Mh. My point is not that the types are communicated wrongly but since people seek different things in these theories, they are bound to fail with these myriads of descriptions which all rely on...|||I obsess with Typology for years and I ask myself two questions. Why am I doing this and why will I not get an answer. Probably, the second is the answer for the first. :) I tend to move in these...|||I think there is a general misconception of vices and sins. Sins are actions, vices are personality dispositions. So what you mean on a personality type level is vices. While vice leads to sins, it...|||Sherlock from the us tv series is a sure entp, BBC is intj. I read somewhere colombo is entp too....That seems strange but it makes sense. All of him cries out Si supressant. :D He is also most...|||@ RobynCI'm curious as to your opinions with this Star Trek I. Enterprise|||I know that this is not a ressource. Again: i am not looking for pseudo psychological trait assumptions but for something that allows me to compare answering patterns. To differentiate people from ...|||Hey People, I was wondering if anyone around here knew about sources for enneagram statistics or tests that compare with the same. I was looking at this one: HelloQuizzy.com: Enneagram Test -...|||chaotic neutral, as always.....i think i did 10 of these tests so far, sometimes true neutral, sometimes chaotic evil, bit 80 percent were chaotic neutral.|||i guess i'd just walk into random apartments and sit there for a while, maybe leaving a cryptic message for the owners, imagining their boring lifes, or maybe i'd climb to the roof of the highest...|||hm...why would anyone think jack o'neil is entp? he seems like the classical sensor....down to earth, i mean, and since he's a P it would be hard to explain. Plus, even though he seems rather...|||i single out poeple and discuss, even strangers, mostly female ;) i am not very interested in groupp situations, too complex, so i try to creat a number of smaller connections. and yes, i tend to do...|||indeed, get those fuzzy little intjs ;) i have to say i never met an ENTP before of which i'm sure, but i know one who might be and although she's a bit intimidating, she's very very hot. :)...|||live and let live everything is relative don't try to make people love you try not to hurt people when it happens, make it worth it every moral statement has its limits|||hehe. well, my problem is that i don't have enough fear. I'm too confident until i screw something up. after finishing a preparation test, i think that went ok, no problem for me. well, i have to...|||my intj friend is female and i am not used to beating women. drinking game is an interesting approach, but i'm afraid that would be rather counterproductive|||yes, screwed is the right expression well, thank you for the mantra idea, i thought about it but assumed sports would work better. i will try it, i don't remember when i was in absolute silence...|||welll, i'll have to find a new one, the one i've been learning with was very.....distracting|||well, i have a little problem with my new college course, especially since all my grades are defined by fill in tests without any creativity. i find it hard to do anything that needs routine,...|||i can be good, bad or ugly, depends who i'm talking to....i try to guess what people want to see so i can control them better. well, i think i do all the things above ;) i help people who feel...|||i hate people repeating their stupidity. saying it once, i can accept. repetition makes me mad and i don't mind hurting their feelings, beliefs or concept of life. maybe i'm too impatient, but i...|||yes, when i can convince myself and rationalize, i rock. But actually, i prefer saying nothing with a lot of words, always keeping a backdoor in my statements. I actually prefer not to lie, since i...|||hm....i start off a conversation. when i think she's interesting, i start talking about music or something. problem is to find the perfect moment to ask her to take a walk and maybe kiss her, before...|||eh, never struggeled, easy kill. no seriously, i hate religion always as much as it hates me. As long as it's powerless, i'm fine with it. i used to be a more agrressive atheist, but i calmed the...|||Imperious, choleric, irascible, extreme in everything, with a dissolute imagination the like of which has never been seen, atheistic to the point of fanaticism, there you have me in a nutshell.......|||only rl, but than constantly. people are shocked first, but sometimes i let people with low self esteem win and they get a real ego boost, it's nice to see. but sometimes it's just fun.|||so the conclusion, it's senseless anyway? hey, team pointless won the pointlessness competition|||oh yes. trust issues, oh yes. i trust people not further than i can throw them. i have been disappointed to often and always need some kind of control.|||you know you're an entp when you have read all classic literature .....half|||these types are our temperaments :) of course we age, we make experience, learn to shut up, but basically, entps really love to talk. and although this self confidence can be shaken at some point, in...|||yeah, its the one bullet paradox, when you use power, you lose power.|||well i'd be baffeled if a person with obviously low self esteem would be typed entp.....|||i love amanda palmer but strange that you put it on a entp playlist :) she is so..... F. however, i say modest mouse , the kills and maybe the shins?|||oh, when i was much younger it was jadzia dax....but i am not the crushing type....i really like marla singer, though|||yes, but camus didn't see himself as an existentialist, but as something he called absurdist, but you are right with your interpretation of sysiphus. i don't see myself as an existentialist either...|||hmmm...i am not an anarchist, i just like to blow things up and look what happens (methaphorically). i don't think it would be better for humanity than what we have now and actually i don't care...i...|||i guess you took your pick and it smells like camus. ^^ your defiant hope sounds a lot like sisyphus. i guess i got away from defiance to simply enjoying it. i guess there weren't many real hedonists...|||oh yes -.- i once explained in detail the practice of impaling in school since it was mentioned in some historic source. people got a bit freaked. i am full of strange trivia. last week someone...|||i'd like to have a gun but in germany the restrictions are pretty heavy. plus, they wouldn't give me a gun. well, i guess they shouldn't. on the upside, the chances of being shot in the streets are...|||i would buy all copyrights and destribute the contents over the internet. than pump so much money into the market that inflation destroys all value. in this day all stoxx would collapse, all debt...|||the problem with the chain of reasons is that it either has to end, and would therefore lack reason or is cyclic, therefore exists in it itself. either way, pointless, afterall. but i have to say...|||i thought about giving details about my habits and needs to compare but i don't think the text i wrote was appropriate. let's just say yes and i wouldn't want it any different. when i was younger i...|||Of course, which might be caused by the objective lack of meaning in exsitence. and still we exist....strange, isn't it? well....i used to have that feeling, a life without hope and future. when i...|||Ne is awesome, go for it. i just like looking at a tree in the wind sometimes and see the overall symmetry, focus,unfocus, trying to anticipate the movement of a certain leaf. starting at a detail...'

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'You'll be fine.|||Use a Master Ball. I hear it's guaranteed to catch rare creatures without fail.|||With intellectual competence... I do want to be competent in the areas I am interested in. It just so happens that you can apply critical thinking in those areas. I'm inclined to think about...|||I don't feel like two separate people, but rather a whole person with different... shells, I guess? Who I am when I interact with people and who I am when I'm alone is still the same. I just put...|||I don't tend to share my feelings with anyone recently. Though if I really have to, I would probably approach my two NF friends. They're the ones I'm most comfortable talking to simply because we...|||I chose those that best adapt to change, but I could have also picked other. I think one of the most important skills is being able to recognize and maximize your resources, which include...|||I think relaxed but on our own terms fits me quite well. I tend to be calm and level-headed, and surprisingly patient. I get lost in my work (or game) and just let my thoughts flow. But I don't...|||- Sometimes people just need someone to listen to them, not give them advice. Sitting there silently and not voicing your 'solutions' makes you feel useless though. - Don't assume that people agree...|||Oh we do. And we find you ENTP men utterly fascinating. You have us charmed.|||Oh but you always seem so calm and you achieve things and your life is practically perfect anyway. It's like the world doesn't throw shit at you. ... Uh. Right. Sometimes I think I'm probably...|||I realized that I am strangely drawn to this ENTP(?) friend of mine. He is truly fascinating. I have never wanted to actively be close to someone before. Most people just somehow become friends...|||NTs probably get more credit because the world actively rewards/admires the kind of intelligence NTs pride themselves for. Exactly. Everyone has their strengths and weaknesses, and most of...|||Whiners come from all types anyway. It's a venting thread. What did you expect?|||This happened to me recently, except that instead of being apathetic I played along and flirted back. I mean, we're just kidding around, right? But no, apparently he actually did like me. It's...|||Sometimes it might be easier to tell strangers/acquaintances because they won't judge people as friends. This happens to me too. It's probably because I'm the perfect listener. I listen and ask...|||General rule: if it makes me think, then I'm more than likely to remember it. There was this guy who loved sending letters to me. I never throw them out, but they were so mushy and cliche that...|||Wow, this actually struck me. Thank you very much!|||http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7p_eKV3SzwE Small progress is progress. Don't give up.|||Oh, only got up to MIPS so I guess that's why it was bearable for me.|||It's less of dropping them and more of drifting away. Admittedly, I don't make that much of an effort when we drift apart though. And when people drift apart, it's usually because we're too busy to...|||Unless your first programming language is C. Then Java becomes a hurdle because you're used to using pointers. (Though once I got the hang of it, it does become easy - though I still prefer C by a...|||I have ~feelings~; does that mean I'm not an INTJ?|||Expectations. Whether it's from parents, or teachers, or peers, or that social hierarchy thing. I think it's one of the driving forces of high school; hence why some people feel the need to...|||I'm not saying that you shouldn't strive for excellence. By all means, go ahead. What I meant was that perhaps in trying to prepare a lot, it may hinder you from actually doing what you prepared to...|||Because society operates on the principle that no man is an island.|||I don't really know how to type characters, but I'll take a guess and say that Lelouch Vi Brittania from Code Geass looks like an INTJ. A possibly unhealthy one, though well-intentioned. He exhibits...|||How do you decide what to choose, and how long do you take (both to choose and to realize you already know enough)? I think you will never know enough. Ever. But I don't think that should stop...|||If you have time, mind giving me a spin? I've been playing a lot of Persona lately so the Tarot cards have been on my mind a lot. I think it'd be interesting to see how your readings will match up...|||Perhaps they're not used to the attention? Honestly, I think that's pretty... normal for the type? You'll find a lot saying that it's depressing not to have anyone understand them, but curl up...|||I can't speak for everyone. But in my case, it's not like it's completely everyone else's problem. I still have trouble articulating some of my thoughts to others in such a way that it will be...|||I used to sit in the figure four when I was a kid, but trained myself to sit cross-legged instead because the adults told me I shouldn't sit that way (it wouldn't look good for a girl to sit like...|||58289 58288 58290 58291 ... This honestly makes me think if I am an NF. Hmm.|||Green - Yellow - Blue - Orange. Reminds me of DISC somewhat.|||It bothers me that I don't care 'enough' (at least, according to some people) only when the problem could deeply affect those I care about. Otherwise, I'm not bothered if the problem only concerns...|||Hoo boy. Not this topic again. I think I'm gonna need more popcorn.|||I'm starting to wonder if the reason I don't seemingly 'care' about perceived problems as much as I should is because turning my empathy off is becoming my coping mechanism, or if it's because I...|||Not necessarily legendary, but you'll be thinking that anyway. :wink: Nah, you know how, in Pokemon Yellow at least, you always see an Abra but you can't catch one so easily because it always...|||Some advice that was also given to me before: I think it's less that you should explain that you're an INFJ, and more that you should show who you are. The INFJ title doesn't define you; yes, it may...|||I vote for Ne because of the randomness. But there are different kinds of humor (slapstick, morbid, witty, farcical, etc.) that I think some functions are better at than others. So to say which one...|||Go with 16, 12, or 23. Not guarantees, but they will increase your chances.|||Grades aren't necessarily a measure of intelligence. Some people get by with hard work, or just by following instructions. School isn't there to make you 'smart' either; it's to get you educated....|||Shhh... that's supposed to be a secret. +1 I find homemade stuff romantic. I also think organizing a creative scavenger hunt for your lover, or stargazing on the rooftop, is romantic. But...|||INTJ: We're independent thinkers! Science! INFJ: We've got super abstract powers that makes us understand everyone! ENTP: We're fucking awesome! And you know it! Every subforum has their own...|||I've never really heard of someone losing a friend over not texting back. Honestly, I'm the type of person who hardly checks for new text messages. I barely use my phone. There are other ways of...|||1) I'm usually the calm one, so I have never been told to 'calm down' when I talk. No one has ever told me to 'shut up' either because I'm quite reserved and not that chatty in the first place. You...|||Are you often jealous of people? Nope. It doesn't happen often. In fact, I can't remember the last time it happened. In what way? Usually it has something to do with the mind? Like the way a...|||Funny, 'cause I'm starting to underachieve now that I'm in college. Although I wouldn't say I exerted that much effort in high school in the first place (except in Physics and Chemistry), but I...|||Same. Well, I used to (still am, actually) fall into existential depression. I got into a little bit of psychology and philosophy; you know, just searching around the internet out of curiosity. I...|||Some people find stability and a solid plan 'boring.' They want an adventure; they want to venture into the unknown. It could be that they feel restricted when confronted with a plan. They may want...|||I think it could go either way. Those who subscribe to this theory are either new at cognitive functions and don't understand it, or they have developed their functions a lot to the point where they...'

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'So I've become friendly with an INTP female who's currently in a relationship. We've hung out platonically multiple times, and I get the feeling that she likes me. I also like her, but I'm not sure...|||-------|||The fact that it is, in fact, me.|||This is exactly what I mean! My dad is the same exact way! It's so strange to see some INTJ's who are like this, and others who feel no need to externalize their thoughts - although shouldn't a...|||I'm in med school, and I got one of my professors into MBTI. He had our entire class take the test and share their results. Also, my dad and brother are both INTJ.|||I've noticed that there are a certain subset of INTJ's who will talk your ear off about a topic that involves themselves or something they're interested in, and will have almost ZERO regard for...|||I'm almost exactly inverse to this, and I'm a strong INTP (80%+ in all categories). Never received below a C until High School. I'm in medical school now, and have a C average. I'm also completely...|||Sure it is. I just thought it was interesting that he was making an observation back then that's related to the dissonance between different personality types.|||I guess I have yet to absorb the prevailing standards of political correctness on the forum. Edit: updated OP so as to not offend specific temperaments. I was using a metaphor. For...|||And that's exactly what some libertarians have resorted to. Paypal Founder funds Libertarian Sea Colony|||It is indeed my choice to live in this geographical area. It is not my choice to grant other individuals ownership over my life as a condition of living in this geographical area.|||Talk about ahead of his time.. I've always liked this quote from Einstein, but now having learned a little about these temperaments, I now know why this quote struck me: Great spirits have always...|||Actual quote: Hey, did you know Dave started that company? You wouldn't think it, huh?|||Difference: My army would have to be built without being granted the ability to extract resources from every single individual, without their consent, in a given geographical area (state). ...|||I don't know anyone who would claim that all people are equal in their talents. Is your reasoning: no individual is equal, and therefore some individuals should be granted the right to own the...|||So the solution is to advocate the creation of a group of individuals whose sole purpose is to rule? Q: Is it better if the dorm owner has an army, nuclear weapons, and were granted the right...|||One of my favorite youtube videos of all time. Things become incredibly clear when you start calling things what they are. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EUS1m5MSt9k|||Beautifully put. I'd love to see an attempt to refute the accuracy of this analogy.|||I agree, it is a matter of power. So your proposal to is to arbitrarily create an institution whose entire existence relies on its inherent power over individuals? If the group of individuals...|||Uhm, yes, if you are being coercively forced to be a part of it. And if you claim something benefits more than it harms, do you believe that justifies theft? If a system provides sufficient...|||Please see my sweeper example. It doesn't matter how much benefit is being provided. The principle is the same. If I believe I received adequate benefit from the services rendered, then I would...|||I define society as exactly what it is: A collection of individuals. A society is not a sentient entity, but a collection of sentient entities. When you start to call things what they are, the...|||Which practical results can be achieved if there are no underlying ideals motivating the change? Do the two not go hand-in-hand?|||There you go, putting merit on status, in true INTJ form. That's one major difference between INTJ's and INTP's. INTP's will tend to give all arguments the same degree of consideration regardless...|||Anarchism is the conclusion. It is drawn logically by accepting one condition - self-ownership. A conditional proof can be made, given this definition of self-ownership: A condition where every...|||I have read your criticisms and will address them by pointing out the major mischaracterizations you have made. *I am not claiming that universal morality exists*. Thus, I am not claiming that...|||Well unlike small-government libertarians, I take libertarianism to its logical endpoint, which is anarcho-capitalism. A little bit of theft and coercion is still theft an coercion - and a rejection...|||What you're describing is the equivalent of the following scenario. Tell me if you would agree with this scenario: Every day, without you asking, I walk in front of you and sweep the ground you...|||That's the equivalent of saying that since a prisoner is forced to eat prison food, then he is complicit in his enslavement. Try to boil things down to the principles at work. Things become much...|||I think there is likely a strong correlation between how NT someone is and how likely they are to be atheist / agnostic. I also think that agnostic is an often misused term, as I know many...|||Or not assigned at all. To your life doesn't have a definition pseudo-argument, I assumed it was understood that we are discussing the physical realm. The nature of existence is not pertinent...|||Well then, how do you define theft? Is this fair? Theft - To take someone's property without their consent.|||There is nothing inherently 'wrong' with that. However if people saw it for what it is (an endorsement of institutionalized theft, force, and coercion), then they would reject it. The great...|||You are right, and wrong. You are wrong to assert that an ideology claims to be right or true. You are right to assert that opinions are subjective. On the surface, they are subjective. ...|||In a truly free society, what is stopping individuals from forming enclaves in which they govern themselves however they so choose? This is the only system under which you are NOT forced to...|||I believe we have confusion over the right to property. Do you own yourself? If you believe so, the rest follows. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=muHg86Mys7I|||Please show me where I committed this fallacy. Correct me if I'm wrong, but it seems that I have done nothing but make an argument from principle - not trying to justify a theory based upon the...|||That's exactly the same as saying a robbery at gunpoint is a is a voluntary transaction, because you could still choose not to hand over your wallet. Something is not voluntary if in order to...|||Yes, you must first accept that man has the right to own the product of his work (given that it was acquired free of force or coercion) - whether that be voluntarily inhabiting an area of land /...|||You commit a common non-sequitor, in equating the necessity of society to the necessity of a state / government. Before the slaves were freed, one might ask who will pick the cotton? At the...|||makes me feel like going to the movies!|||I don't belong here.|||Boring? They have a damn E, and they think! ENTJ's are the most interesting people I know!|||My experience with them has always been that they are warm individuals|||ESFP's can love a decorated rock. so yes.|||Nice avatar.. INTP Ron Paul supporter here. No, this is natural, because it's true! Well, not to the alex jones degree.. but to some degree. Globalists exist, and they are trying to create a...|||Personhood is an illusion|||An INFJ made me cry about 4 years ago. Before that, I can't remember. Since then, I've only cried with joy a few times.|||Surprisingly, weezer.. not sure what it is about the hopeless romantic emo-ish lyrics.. I find that nothing very profound can be conveyed via song, so I mostly listen with a musical ear rather...|||you need 15 posts to send a PM? What gives?!'

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'I think I would just watch the fight and care for my safety and the ones I love because I believe that if light wins, some part of light will turn to dark and if dark wins, some part of dark will...|||I also get numb in a very tensioned way on a regular basis. I don't really feel anything then besides tension and pressure. I know something is going on in there, but it's hiding and building up. I...|||Cool, that's interesting! I like that quite a few people here make their pizza from scratch. I also did that a feq times and it was very delicious, but so much work and cleaning afterwards... making...|||To me being shallow is very important because my brain is at a very weird deepness level where everything is pain/fear at core and also subjective/pointless... so I try to be less deep. But who knows...|||Hello, wow this is good thread :) - Which were the worst occasions on which you overslept? I missed an university experiment - How did/does it make you feel? Oh shit - Do you think it is an NF...|||crack|||I'm feeling full and bored, that's why I'm here|||How do you like to eat your pizza? I like to buy pizza kits and then I also buy cheese and corn and that's my favorite pizza. This is a pizza kit: 685762 I don't like to eat pizza in...|||Why do you say therapy is a joke?|||I barely ever feel anger, I suppress it very well. If I feel something similar to anger I either don't express it at all or I express it like a 5 years old girl would do. I hope to cope that feeling...|||You can either continue not wanting to face that problem and stay alone forever or choose to face it. Having friends and being out in the real life always also involves hurting people and getting...|||When I feel bad I just want to watch TV or watch boring youtube videos or do something boring in general, too. Usually it makes me feel even worse so it's important for me to step out of that boring...|||Oh don't worry guys, let's all just eat some delicious cake and be happy. :) Let's share the cake and be positive, I made the cake just for you guys, so please eat it. :) Life is too short to not...|||Haha, it's all about balance in the world! :P|||Hey guys, let's all eat healthy and exercise. Life is so beautiful. :) Love yourself. It is important to stay positive because beauty comes from the inside out, so live to the fullest and focus...|||Don't worry, healthy eating habits and exercise will fix everything. :)|||I feel a weird pressure to make more and more friends because that's what's supposed to be healthy and the right way? I think I just need a few close friends though. New people usually make me feel...|||I usually remember my dreams like ~6 times a month (usually when I wake up and then sleep again), but I forget about them very fast. It's usually nightmares about some social stuff, like being an...|||I was picked on for a lot of things, but also for being too quiet. That's why now I always feel that it's wrong and a flaw to be quiet and in social situations I feel a huge tension of having to talk...|||Forrest Gump, I liked the movie but the end was too boring... so I didn't watch the last 15 minutes yet.|||I have made different experiences with LSD, from wonderful, deep, fun to absolutely horrifying. If you ever want to give it a try take a low dose in a setting that feels 100% safe for you. That way...|||I'm currently healing myself and I hope to heal others in the future from emotional damage. :)|||That's what I typed myself with some months ago, so we have the same thoughts and feelings about my tritype. It makes a lot of sense. Thank you a lot for your time! Some confirmation is nice. And...|||I have thoughts and ideas about my tritype, so I'm excited to read what you think about it. Whatever I put bold is what I feel/think/select. 1.) Select all of your fears. - The fear of...|||593994 Awesome movie! Fun and deep at the same time.|||Euphoric, lazy, relaxing|||Weed is good for me as long as I keep it to smoking twice a week MAXIMUM. Less is better. It helps me to enjoy the moment more/be more creative/think deeper/connect with people/relax. And sometimes,...|||You should perceive those comments as a compliment! Others need drugs to appreciate things and you just do it naturally. That's amazing to me. I've experienced similar situations though and I...|||I had a guy in class who talked about very stupid stuff all the time and he answered questions wrong most of the time. He also took 4x longer for a sentence than other people and he didn't really...|||I just let out anger BEFORE letting it boil up! I commented on something that I believed to be wrong on some other forum and I received thankful messages for saying what I said. So I got positive...|||Hatred|||I'm kinda emotional but not in an outgoing/outside way, I don't like reading books and I usually hate poetry, I know social norms very well, I'm pretty neutral about plans... It's more about...|||Talking about using drugs is pretty safe, but talking about dealing drugs on an online forum is a little risky...|||Maybe you could try becoming a vegan or get into spiritual stuff. Some people say it's very fulfulling.|||Sometimes I go play ranked games on League of Legends only to troll people. I will play support role and instead of supporting I will either afk 50% of the time or steal the gold from my carry....|||I'm not religious at all, but I'm very interested in spirituality at times. It gives me the best results in feeling good about myself and the universe. To me many religions seem spiritual anyway,...|||Many INFPs I know are pretty good at being judgmental while pretending to be super open-minded, especially the more unhealthy ones. Usually because they feel mistreated, misunterstood or their values...|||INFP, Team Mystic! :)|||I'm not sure, I will talk to her about it. It really hurt me but I also didn't really make it clear that I needed to talk right now and not later. Luckily other people were there for me! :)|||I'm always there for that ungrateful fucking bitch and I'm even taking my time at a party (where I want to dance) to be there for her for hours. Okay and now I'm feeling bad for ONCE. And what's her...|||I'm not very good at relationships in general. Cuddling, compliments, feeling love, feeling loved, giving attention... I mean, I do those things, but not enough for most people. So usually I just...|||I prefer sun whenever I'm outside, but if I'm inside or about to sleep or something I prefer rain. It just creates a very nice atmosphere.|||At the moment I love playing Pokemon Go! It's very fun to me. :) You kinda get rewarded for being outside more often and walking around/exploring. I'm sure it's also very fun to play with friends,...|||I love to play Overwatch, not sure if it really counts as a shooter though. Generally I like the online shooters that have a community and stuff, I never really play solo games.|||I'm an INFP and I abolutely love parties! Before the party starts I usually feel a little nervous, but also excited. I generally prefer to dance or to interact with small groups of people. That...|||...|||I'm talking about the world compared to the past (50, 100 or even 500 years ago) generally. To me it seems like things are getting better and better. I wouldn't want to live 100 years ago as a...|||I think compared to the past the world is in a pretty peaceful state right now. :tongue:|||https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xth8UEQvkHI :crazy:|||I'm a night owl, I love darkness. :crazy:'

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'Ditto to the humming thing i jump and make excited noises when happy I also pick my nose quite often (not outdoors tho lol); not sure if this counts but it leaves my family very confused.|||I either obsess over it or dont do it at all. Currently in that no motivation to do it at all state so coincidentally, I actually just forced myself to join a jogging group. Maybe try something...|||I can be. Have to force myself to put things in perspective sometime.|||im in touch my femininity yes, but def not the typical woman...american woman though. maybe the typical woman of another culture|||my avoidance isnt due to fear of criticism though. i just get overwhelmed and tired|||:happy::happy: omg yay!!! this is wonderful! yes lets become friends LOL|||Chamberlain im going to the Institut d'études politiques de Paris (yes theres a shorter name haha) have you heard of it? Thank you for sharing your story. Japan seems like such a cool place to be...|||If we already have an established friendship= going out of the way to hang out. will rarely say no to a favor. can be a bit flirty. If no established relationship= avoidance of all sorts lol....|||double yes to perfection. i can relate. kindness honesty integrity trustworthiness ambition originality humility wisdom strength|||Great thread. Im currently studying econ and international relations...the internships i've had have been very bureaucratic and people based..meh. Basically a junior now, but im thinking of ditching...|||Sorry for this atrociously late response! finally done with the semester :3 Anyway, thank you so much for the tips and advice!! I am actually now very excited about going---only worry is the cost...|||Have any of you studied abroad during college? What was the experience like for you? I am studying abroad in Paris next year and I am so scared--i've always wanted to go to Paris but I'm afraid...|||just 2 and 3. im incredibly silly although those who fall into category 1 would have no idea|||What makes it hard for NFs to be in the business world and does an interest/fitting in with the business personality mean that a person needs to reevaluate whether or not they're really an NF?|||ONCE MORE WITH FEELING Remember a thread like this was made before. I just reblog random things. Feel free to follow, I'll follow back|||Sometimes a simple friendship with a person is so good, that im afraid to ruin it with the complications of a real relationship...sex, unreserved feelings again. Sex complicates friendships...|||Im either very wishy washy and avoidant or extremely blunt...I literally had a guy pour his heart out to me only to hear me reply um...what do you expect me to say? I dont feel that way about you...|||ESFJ. 58% Extroverted, 65% Sensing, 39% Thinking, 41% Perceiving fun i wonder what facial features they're associating with certain types|||My cry for help has fallen on deaf ears :p lol bumping|||of course there are some things in my past that i wish i wouldve done differently, but nothing too drastic that im moping about it now. that just doesnt accomplish anything; life goes on.|||Hello, haven posted in awhile but I remember that this forum gave some of the best advice :) Anyway, I'm in college and I live in a suite with 3 other girls---my roommate (an INTJ), I get along with...|||no you can if you want lol just dont fake it if you want people to take you seriously...nothing is worse than an insecure person trying to be obnoxious and douchey. if its not in your nature, dont...|||In arguments with others, it's pretty much all I value.|||Im an infp who has battled bulimia and anorexia for about 5 years now as well actually.since I was 14. Idk about your girlfriend but I'm a worry-prone perfectionist who doesn't feel alive if I'm not...|||I'm not going to lie, I do shut things like that out. I usually watch CNN everyday but I haven't watched it since the tragedy because that's not something I want to hear about all the time. The...|||Being rushed Passive aggressiveness- really hate when others are Asterisks at the end of sentences in texts, IMs, etc.makes me go into panic mode as I try to figure out what the asterisks...|||back up batteries!! fully charged one for my laptop and phone lol|||haha same here! I can write it to that someone but saying it aloud is just awk awk awk. However, if I do use them it's usually with a humorous tone. not all lovely lovely.|||Love research.|||i cherish the memories...but i cut up the pictures lol|||Oh you sound just like me! Im a sophomore now and I start next week. the first month of freshman year was fucking horrible. I, like you, am in a major that a lot of people in my school arent...|||12. still feel like im in that awkward transition stage from child to teenager...but instead im actually supposed to be transitioning from teenager to adult.|||thank you so much for the tips! your dresses are so flippin great especially that wedding dress. Okay, i planned to be extra dependent on patterns but i'll give making a dress with no pattern a try....|||I've been reading and watching videos about sewing and I finally bought a pretty sturdy sewing machine. So exciting!!!!! Do any of you guys sew as a hobby? Fabric is a bit expensive but here are...|||She sure is enjoying it alright. Perhaps this represents my question a bit better. http://i.qkme.me/35xjsy.jpg|||lol what did i just watch?|||Th best thing would probably be anywhere that's not loud/too chaotic and would allow conversation to be had easily i.e. not a nightclub :P Museums are nice. Or if you are near a nice golf course, you...|||this right here helped me a lot. i really do need to stop saying i dont know...i do know what i want. i just need to have the courage and the confidence to get there. im afraid of failure and i get...|||i think you're def right about Katherine. ENFPs confuse me because they can appear to be introverts. and with Giselle...yea maybe. She seemed under stress in the movie and it's quite hard to...|||Mona Lisa Smile, love the movie! Catherine Watson-- idealistic, seems introverted but not afraid to voice her opinion, visionary, not afraid to question authority, cause-oriented. Was completely...|||extremely loud incredibly close...and other movies about going through the emotions of losing a loved one. makes me way tooo emotional.|||I really dont think you should let the stereotypes of your type psych you out. For my 12th grade English end of year dissertation, I had to write a 10,000 word creative nonfiction piece in about 9...|||has to be one of the coolest places to swim http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rVN9KnWy-H8 night sky in scotland...|||lol thank you so much! I am still very confused but I'm going to just dive right in.|||I am currently a sophomore at a top 15 university and I am having the hardest time finding my passion, picking a major and possible careers. I am either INFJ or INFP (I know there's a big...|||This might be extremely insignificant but doing a backhand spring. My first goal was doing a cartwheel, round off and other beginner tumbling things and I've completed them (it took awhile and a lot...|||INTJ--a lot of challenging but the chemistry is good. INTJ--same as above. love/hate relationship. on and off dating. ENFP--awkward dynamic. not completely comfortable. ENFJ--love/hate ESTJ--...|||Yea I agree. People might show symptoms of a particular disorder but having the full blown disorder is another story entirely and it actually begins to hinder a person's ability to live their life....|||I wouldnt say that lol.|||If I'm motivated by something else (like having a hot body for summer or someone commenting about any jiggles), I will exercise a lot and on schedule. When I get comfortable with me body, I sort of...'

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'Warf from startrek? Get off of this! go nao! :) Counselor Troy from Startrek.|||I've met a couple, by watching them. You may mistake some of them for other types, because some people can be quiet and appear introspective, when they are actually just retarded and totally...|||I'll say something different, than I assume my brothers have, not to speak a certain truth, but to broaden the view. I bet you think he's controlling, yet you are also trying to control the...|||If something tells you it's not working, then it's not. You can trust the feeling, and break up with the person, or do what you are bound to do and dwell on it until you find reasoning behind your...|||Ah.. that's too bad. Now it will look like INFJ's have a specific beef with another personality, and we'll look non accepting.. unusually judgmental, and non empathetic. Good. Herd them like cattle,...|||Train yourself to be able to get hit in the face, by not getting hit in the face.|||Good story, don't block with your face next time. :) I'm sorry that people are so ignorant, and attain meaning in their life by causing battles with our peoples. They have nothing beneficial to offer...|||I said capable... you have the ability.. the capability.. I think you are amazing! Because you have the capability.. and like those who have done.. who are amazing.. in whoever eyes, they are equal...|||Rouge, he got tired of dealing with people with problems perhaps.. or developed naturally into the way he is, avoiding the helping people stage. He strives to better himself still, but not at the...|||Kalina, You are that amazing, because your'e a person capable of acts. Acts similar and considered more worthy of being on film. You can give a better explanation if you explain your feelings in...|||Frustration|||The girls are crazy first of all, and either I'm attracted to them, or they are attracted to me. But hey, I'm only 23.. I'm sure I'll find a non nutter and bone her. And she will be hot, and or very...|||I love you.|||I believe you.|||This movie has too many subtitles. How did it end?|||I confront people too............. online. This constant self exploration..self/world/same all of you are doing.. yeah have fun. It won't stop. It's your coping mechanism to deal with the world....|||who is you?|||I drew a girl a flower once, and left it on her desk I bought a girl a flower once and had it delivered to her at school, when I was in school of course too. Neither of them knew I gave them...|||You INFJ's type too much. I'm allergic to two sentences in a row that aren't my own.|||Evil eh. A frustrated mind would seek to push them totally into the dark side to limit the shades of gray. You struggled against what was, on the quest to achieve ideal situations, one where you can...|||There's a European country full of INFJ's!? Lets go.|||Pearl, describe your problem. Don't beat around the bush with generalities. Sick of that shit. Open up and be done with it. Or I'ma.....!|||We're not rare?! After I take you out... we... mf... lawlsk|||Why are you people still even talking. STFU before you get to arguing with people. I stopped coming here, then I see conflict.. and feel the need to tell you this. Thank you, that is all.|||I love you cbelle :laughing: I r gud INFJ. Even when I cause pain O_O|||How could hitler be an INFJ? You know all those judgements you have.. now think if you were to think you were above others instead of just different because you notice things they don't. And all...|||I do freefall, cause I masterbate strange like, and then just go to sleep in my filth. I mean wha.|||Amazon.com: Higher Observations (9780557241071): Ian Oliver: Books I mean my book does.|||Amazon.com: Higher Observations (9780557241071): Ian Oliver: Books My book does.|||I wear red shirts and haiti bracelets!! Because thought is prayer! and prayer is hope! :laughing:|||Meaning.. I thought I said something about that. Are some people selectively reading to maintain a belief that keeps their fragile minds stable? Answer is yes :) If you prescribe to one belief, and...|||Are you asking me? Should I even reply to this.. I'm thinking not.|||Who's a Columbia, and why should I care. Who's a haiti and why should I care. I see the dog on the street and I stare, because he's there, thin with matted hair. And feel more.. because I can...|||That's like saying I don't give a damn about my mother when I cuss her out, don't give her hugs, and don't say I love you when I hang up on her. House could grow to be apathetic about certain parts...|||Religion is programmed. Convince the wild eagle that a mouse in a field isn't food. I wouldn't try unless testing the eagle.|||I don't care, like when 911 happened, didn't care. They make it out like I should.. but I don't initially. When the news feeds roll in I listen more, and thus care more through exposure. I didn't...|||Someone trying to steal ideas for television show success! O I'm on to you O_o|||Because the tiniest sound can cause large ripples. And for those who live in their minds, shit, has been disrupted. At times I've wished I didn't know English at all.|||I'll take her from you. Don't move at all. :)|||You're dealing with it just fine. How else do you deal with a retard, besides cutting them off, fuckem. They'll get the point in their own way, because they sure as hell don't understand intellect.|||Son 456789|||I must be aware of that which I love, an awareness given through time and contact, not necessarily conscious cognition of the subject, to love, unless I love an aspect.. but an aspect... isn't you,...|||Your titles mean jack to me. Speaking of jack.. I should sleep after I do so.|||This place is far from the rest of the world, and I could tell you a few other things that may ease you into expressing yourself, but you said you're a hypnotherapist amongst other things. So maybe...|||I said she, your mother. Why am I even in this forum topic. Damn.|||Then you must like people lying to you as well.|||There is honesty in the asshole, and that is the attractive quality.|||And Heartly, you're hott. Korvyna, sounds like she took offense and was caught off guard indeed.|||I don't know heartly, I think thems fightin words. Korv, Perhaps your parent chooses to go along with the manipulation, sees it, and accepts it. There are many forms of persuasion. 1, 2, 1, 2,...|||I mean, on here, state your issue. The real issue, without me having to pry it out further. Now, do it.'

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'Dear INFJ Love, Little did I know a year and a half ago that I would meet someone who would redirect and change my life. Little did I know that I would find someone who made me feel incomplete...|||Hon I'm a cheeseball but almost a year ago you asked me to send you a song that reminds me of you and here it was https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1snKFyZ_8-I|||Overall I find it very rewarding.|||I have to sell myself a lot for business purposes, but that's just hustling.|||I like to feel like I can relax. Not feeling like I have to entertain. Also, keep it sexy.|||That's Mr. sassy snasslesass to you pal. http://stream1.gifsoup.com/view/37516/you-talkin-to-me-o.gif GIFSoup|||I swear I was like you at your age. You will be an extremely confident person one day and kick ass; however, we all go through growing pains at different times in our life and come out better because...|||Please don't call me sassy lol|||Overly serious people are fine with me. I'd obviously prefer a balance between someone who can be serious and someone who can joke around. I can be overly serious at times, but then can switch tones...|||You should take pepto bismol when constipated or bloated at the onset of a blumpkin. It's effective 50% of the time in the chance I ever get a blumpkin, which is about 1% of the time I plump.|||You forgot getting a blowjob and shitting or what is otherwise called a blumpkin.|||There's only one way to settle who is more of an expert at everything you listed: dance off|||Withdrawal and Depression Obsessiveness|||Nietzsche's eternal recurrence is supposed to be a life-affirming message to counter the fearful and life-denying gospel that religion preaches. Essentially, these life-denyers have to make up a...|||Yeah, that's all I had in me, and I really had to stretch my point on that one. ha|||Yes, I agree a framework is important; however, we all use words and change definitions to conform to our viewpoints. All words are open to interpretation in various ways. Obviously I can make a...|||Saw American historian David Mccullough speak at my CLE class today. Was really cool.|||suuuuure|||I think it's a hard question to answer. We could explain how our cognitive process affects our decision-making process, but at the same time, I believe environmental factors, how I was raised and the...|||I've heard your trouser snake is a myth. No one's ever been able to locate it:laughing:|||Yes, deciding whether someone deserves your empathy is making a judgment I think. Does this person deserve my empathy or not? It's all based on judgments. And yes it's all semantics and it's all...|||No the way we perceive people is automatically a judgment. Judging people doesn't mean you don't give them a chance. It means you're bringing a certain lens into how you view the world and the people...|||I don't think we're more kind than INTPs. In fact, I would imagine ENTPs way more prone to engage in conflict with people though I don't think that makes ENTP's unkind. ENTPs get away with saying...|||It's important to be judgmental or discriminatory or else you'll waste your time with morons.|||Yeah high school is lame. It gets better. No reason to rush through college. Take your time, learn, be irresponsible, be an idiot, learn from that, get a little better in your decision-making,...|||I don't party much anymore. In my party days, I was always the last man standing, though, and I could drink anyone under the table. I was never a sloppy drunk though. I just get super extroverted and...|||Both.|||I'm both.|||I get along with most types pretty easily though ISTJs can grate on me which isn't to say I don't enjoy their company. My ISTJ friend asked me to be in his wedding. He's been a great friend. Two...|||What you think you're going to be now will be way different when you graduate. You're not supposed to know. Just enjoy the experience of it, whichever college you choose, and take different classes....|||My sense of humor is appreciated by most people I come across. You aren't funny if other people aren't laughing or getting what you're saying. Our talents lie in presentation. How we present ideas or...|||I've always seen myself retiring as a professor in the twilight of my years. I think we would probably be good at a Socratic method teaching style which forces people to be able to formulate as...|||My inner voice is James Earl Jones. If James Earl Jones is an INFJ boy then that just happens to be highly coincidental.|||I bet you masturbate while winking at yourself in the mirror.|||Organization primarily. I've been running my firm for about 8-9 months. I'm operating at a profit and see good things coming; however, it's important to find people to compensate in areas you...|||Being a great person is not about getting the better of people; it's about getting the best of people. Use your talents to motivate and inspire. Being right about something and not knowing when to...|||I'm much better at one to one conversations. I don't think it's that I'm much better actually. I'm good in group dynamics as long as I am enjoying the energy of the group; however, I prefer one to...|||you tell them you rebel you|||yeah right. you're such a serious online flirt. you love it.|||You're welcome. I want to know your opinion on conversations about having conversations.|||Jesus Christ. Clearly I don't consider Italian Americans white and obviously only animals live in New Jersey.|||You have kids?! Fuck. Please, for the sake of humanity, and I'm not being a smartass, stop procreating.|||so we can't talk about how we like INFJs, but we can talk about he we don't like talking about liking INFJs Got it|||BTW….cheating on your wife isn't an ENTP thing. Stop with that stereotype. It's clearly an Italian-American thing.|||Or How an ENTP fucked over an INFP for a decade---Doggy Style|||My cock will poke its way into a heart. And by heart u200bI mean mouth.|||Moral of the story: the ultimate way into a male ENTP's heart is having a mouth over his cock. True story.|||Ever think about grad school? What are you really good at?|||Yeah, I relate to trying to let the other person fuck up so you could have a reason. I suppose that's the scary part in a sense: the need to want something more. It's not that the person did anything...|||Probably because we're awful breaker-uppers. The fade away move doesn't work that well, but it just sort of happens unconsciously. Apparently, people like closure. haha Anyway, I remember...'

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My favorite book is jane eyre by charlotte Bronte, purely on the fact it held a very special place in my heart as a young teen and i always get nostalgic about it whenever i read it again. The...|||gah i am very sensitive, does my head in, even if i know people mean the best by criticism i automatically feel low, probably because i am very critical of myself so any more confirms it in my own...|||yeah large groups can be a big problem, we are introverts, we prefer one on one deep conversations, parties tend to be large groups talking small talk, so we go quiet and shy. im fine if i know...|||aww i have a soft spot for them :-), know 1 enfp, she is humorous, kind, fun, affectionate, enfps are lovely people, i am biased anyway being NF but enfp is the personality i would most want to be...|||i'm an NF atheist a cool new term:-) i was brought up in a catholic family, went to church, went to catholic school etc, never really believed in God wholeheartedly at the time, questioned this in my...|||As a fully fledged romantic idealist who lives in own planet id say true love, much as i would love a career that is awesome, if i had to choose it have to be love of my life for sure, not that love...|||been feeling a bit alien like recently, just surrounded by sensors lol, im off in my own world most of the time, hard to believe i am human :-)|||expressing affection for me is hard even with family and friends, i'm just so reserved, however in a loving relationship i am very happy with lots of hugs and kisses and welcome them with open arms...|||yes, i have a sense whether people like me or not just by what my intuition is saying, tis mostly accurate for the most part, i also know immediately if someone has N function, have immediate...|||i kind of identify with Scarlett johannson's character in lost in translation ( not the looks lol) just generally confused about where i am and what i want to do in life and very observant about...|||NTs are great,they provide a balance for our feelings sometimes and we can learn from each other i have an entp friend who is great, funny and intuitive, NTs also have tons of knowledge which an NF...|||Am intrigued by answers given :-)Personally i like enfjs, they can make me laugh a lot and i appreciate their kindness and generosity with others, they are confident but in an non arrogant way and...|||1. Daniel day lewis in his day was amazing, he can act for sure 2.Johnny Depp brilliant actor and modest, good looking :-) 3.colin firth for the kings speech, singe man and pride and prejudice,...|||scenes that have moved me -in the kings speech when he finally does his speech without stuttering really badly and feels more confident about himself. -Philadelphia with Tom hanks as an AIDS...|||Obsessed as a kid, bought all the cards, played Nintendo game boy game, watched pokemon on tv (very sad) i also cried at an episode where Ash had to let Butterfree go and fly away,*sob* now realize i...|||hey welcome to the forum :-)|||For me i always love a guy when he is really considerate of others and has an NF or NT brain, i always smile when i see it and feel fuzzy even if my attitude is relatively uninterested even when i...|||This is actually one of the hardest things for me to do :blushed: i talk very quietly with unknown people and what i do say is akward to say the least. I do find i open up more when the person as...|||thats nice to hear some enfjs like alone time or small groups, we infps are the master of not seeing people for days on end :-) some of my esfp friends hate being alone for any length of time lol...|||i have childlike wonder unexpectedly, like if the stars are out in a clear night sky im filled with awe at the universe, also listening to certain types of music especially film soundtracks like true...|||enfps bring me out of my introverted shell, i love talking to them :-)|||i like their kindness, caring nature, ability to inspire people, excellent communication skills, generally huggability :blushed: lol, intuitive,silly sense of Humour. Bad points they can be very...|||I'd like someone who viewed the world in a similar way to me so that would probably be a guy with N function because i'd feel understood with all my crazy idealism :-), I cant decide between NT or...|||I'm a bit of a film obsessive, here is a *short* list :-) 1. Lord of the rings ( all of them, one of the best fantasy films series ever, so much going on to comment on, the journey quest, the...|||I have an entj work friend(female) who is intelligent, driven and very different to me but we really click in conversations. I don't sometimes know what to say to people because i'm very shy but she...|||i call people hun generally, i do love endearments from others, i feel very special :proud:|||I have little fears , i can get quite fearful when doing new things, when facing rejection, and some social situations, typical infp lol. My biggest fears are childbirth, and death of a loved one or...|||I'm not very expressive with my emotions sometimes so intps coldness is not a big problem for me, they seem cool:happy:, they have great insights and can rationalize my crazy feelings lol also have...|||im quite happy with my cup of hot chocalate and a film :proud:|||-oh cool you have a wide language skills, thats completely transferable in most careers, great asset to have:happy: - tour the world suggests you like to work not confined and structured, just like...|||margarita pizza and pasta yummy:proud:|||i saw the kings speech, absolutely brilliant film, very moving and inspiring. Always love the underdog stories when they triumph in the end, cant recommend it enough:happy:|||content today, feeling hopeful and inspired :proud:|||1. It really depends on the situation. If i'm feeling depressed i may suppress it and not speak about it as i process it better alone and in my own time. This is only for a short time though as...|||I work in a very sensory field in healthcare where people only talk about the day to day important issues so i kinda learned to talk the language about weather,tv,issues of the day etc. I also live...|||I'd probably feel most comfortable as an ENFP as this is the personality i sometimes switch into if i'm really comfortable with people or oddly on stage acting (tis weird). I love Enfps energy, their...|||Humour that is on the cynical sarcastic side is very funny, i also like crazy comedy's like liar liar, blades of glory where the situation is hilarious as well as the gags. i also love old british...|||While i do like T men because they provide a good balance in my life i voted F men,i just adore the way they understand you and show their care. :blushed:|||i voted cats, i just find them adorable as they just do there own thing regardlesss of anyone. I like that it reminds me of me :happy: and quite easy to look after than a dog such as no walking in...|||i am not a perfectionist really, if i can make an attempt thats good enough for me :cool: im essentially world's worst procrastinator like a lazy cat :happy: i suppose the only thing that my mind...|||i think i'm ok as far as attracting people, i just have problems getting beyond that. I take relationships very seriously and my tender heart gets easily crushed at times. I also take my time getting...|||my mum is an ESFJ, dad is an ISFJ and my sister an ISFP, i live in world of sensors:crazy:|||when you secretly wish every person could be easily identified by their myers briggs personality type on their forehead so you'd know how to deal with them better or just go and find your own kind lol|||oh ok i'll admit i really like prince from beauty and the beast in human form :crazy:|||Just have to say i love these films:-) brings me back to my childhood 1.Beauty and the Beast (like going into an infp mind, most romantic and by god the beast is hot when he becomes human...|||hey welcome to the forum, love your username, i love tea as i'm from england :happy:|||ENFJ - The Teacher You scored 75 I versus E, 0 N versus S, 20 F versus T, and 100 J versus P! Your ideal partner is known as the Teacher. This type needs to feel a deep and meaningful connection to...|||i definitely had a dark side in my teens, was sarcastic,cynical about everything, harsh to judge people and much less bothered about people, this was a bit of depression and as a reaction to getting...|||My dream job is to probably be a full time actress and writer, ii can dream pretty big for an infp :crazy:|||Here is a list of some of my most favorite films of all time (not in any order ) 1. The Dark knight- tons of really cool action, one of the best acting performance;s ever as Heath ledger as the...