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TITLE: Red flag? Or is this normal....
POST: My SO(M26) and I(F21) have a great relationship. Very Minsk argument and are very open when it comes to things that have bothered one another. We live together and theyr is really nothing bad that I can say about him. I love him. The only thing that is extremely weird to me is his phone. He runs a business and is typically always busy with work although I completely support whatever he wants to do. He takes his phone every where with him. Literally every where. Bathroom when he's going to shower, never leaves home with out it. Is typically on the phone %80 of the time whether it be texting or calls. Yes it does get on my nerves at times but I understand since he is a busy person. But is the phone thing normal. I almost want to bring it up but don't want to sound like a nosy/attached Gf. Any input? Of any experience in this situation?
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] | 259 | My SO(M26) and I(F21) have a great relationship. Very Minsk argument and are very open when it comes to things that have bothered one another. We live together and theyr is really nothing bad that I can say about him. I love him. The only thing that is extremely weird to me is his phone. He runs a business and is typically always busy with work although I completely support whatever he wants to do. He takes his phone every where with him. Literally every where. Bathroom when he's going to shower, never leaves home with out it. Is typically on the phone %80 of the time whether it be texting or calls. Yes it does get on my nerves at times but I understand since he is a busy person. But is the phone thing normal. I almost want to bring it up but don't want to sound like a nosy/attached Gf. Any input? Of any experience in this situation?
• I'm not sure what you mean by "red flag" but I think you're just looking for reassurance that it's normal. – user253751 May 31 '17 at 0:00
• @user253751 I'm not sure what you mean by "red flag" but I think you're just looking for reassurance that it's normal. – user253751 May 31 '17 at 0:01
• @user253751 I'm not sure what you mean by "red flag" but I think you're just looking for reassurance that it's normal. – user253751 May 31 '17 at 0:01
• @user253751 I'm not sure what you mean by "red flag" but I think you're just looking for reassurance that it's normal. – user253751 May 31 '17 at 0:01
• @user253751 I'm not sure what you mean by "red flag" but I |
t3_uqhjv | Dogtraining | Successfully taught a loose leash walk but he still stays a little in front of me | My dog successfully walks on a loose leash, no question. However, he is still walking slightly ahead of me. So far I've done a lot of follow mes and heeling training but on the walk he's still just a bit too excited. I've taken him out to 7 different areas of varying excitement and trained him in them for about 15 minutes 3 times each. He listens well outside but when we walk he just has to stay that extra 2 feet in front of me. What I've been doing so far is clicking those odd times he's next to me and giving plenty of reward but I can tell he's still a bit overstimulated as he doesn't seem all that interested in the cheese or chicken or whatever I'm using. I don't mind him walking like this but I would love to have him stay right by my side. Any ideas? I've tried the kikopup method but he just circles me and sits next to me. I also used this to teach him how to walk on a loose leash to begin with. | dog isn't overstimulated in new areas UNLESS we're walking and walks slightly in front of me. I'd like to get him right by my side. ideas? | [
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TITLE: Successfully taught a loose leash walk but he still stays a little in front of me
POST: My dog successfully walks on a loose leash, no question. However, he is still walking slightly ahead of me. So far I've done a lot of follow mes and heeling training but on the walk he's still just a bit too excited. I've taken him out to 7 different areas of varying excitement and trained him in them for about 15 minutes 3 times each. He listens well outside but when we walk he just has to stay that extra 2 feet in front of me. What I've been doing so far is clicking those odd times he's next to me and giving plenty of reward but I can tell he's still a bit overstimulated as he doesn't seem all that interested in the cheese or chicken or whatever I'm using. I don't mind him walking like this but I would love to have him stay right by my side. Any ideas? I've tried the kikopup method but he just circles me and sits next to me. I also used this to teach him how to walk on a loose leash to begin with.
TL;DR: | dog isn't overstimulated in new areas UNLESS we're walking and walks slightly in front of me. I'd like to get him right by my side. ideas?<|endoftext|> | [
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TITLE: Successfully taught a loose leash walk but he still stays a little in front of me
POST: My dog successfully walks on a loose leash, no question. However, he is still walking slightly ahead of me. So far I've done a lot of follow mes and heeling training but on the walk he's still just a bit too excited. I've taken him out to 7 different areas of varying excitement and trained him in them for about 15 minutes 3 times each. He listens well outside but when we walk he just has to stay that extra 2 feet in front of me. What I've been doing so far is clicking those odd times he's next to me and giving plenty of reward but I can tell he's still a bit overstimulated as he doesn't seem all that interested in the cheese or chicken or whatever I'm using. I don't mind him walking like this but I would love to have him stay right by my side. Any ideas? I've tried the kikopup method but he just circles me and sits next to me. I also used this to teach him how to walk on a loose leash to begin with.
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• I would try to get him to walk on a loose leash in a place where he is not going to be distracted by anything. I would also try to get him to walk on a loose leash in a place where he is not going to be distracted by anything. I would also try to get him to walk on a loose leash in a place where he is not going to be distracted by anything. I would also try to get him to walk on a loose leash in a place where he is not going to be distracted by anything. I would also try to get him to walk on a loose leash in a place where he is not going to be distracted by anything. I would also try to get him to walk on a loose leash in a place where he is not going to be distracted by anything. I would also try to get him to walk on a loose leash in a place where he is not going to be distracted by anything. I would also try to get him to walk on a loose leash in a place where he is not going to be distracted by anything. I would also try to get him to walk on a loose leash in a place where he is not going to be distracted by anything. I would also try to get him to walk on a loose leash in a place where he is not going to be distracted by anything. I would also try to get him to walk on a loose leash in a place where he is not going to be distracted by anything. I would also try to get him to walk on a loose leash in a place where he is not going to be distracted by anything. I would also try to get him to walk on a loose leash in a place where he is not going to be distracted by anything. I would also try to get him to walk on a loose leash in a place where he is not going to be distracted by anything |
t3_1zonpj | loseit | I have no idea what I am doing, TBH | I am new to both this subreddit and dieting, so I am not really sure what I am doing on either, but I am floundering around with great determination!
I have started a diet for heath reasons (been having some digestive problems) and because I have always been overweight. Technically, at 5'4'' and 210 pounds, I am obese.
My highest weight was 230 pounds (lowest 190), but I need to get serious about losing. I understand that this is not a diet so much as a lifestyle change but, I am just...not really sure if I am going about it right.
I have constricted my calorie intake to 1200 per day (MyFitnessPal). I have never been a soda drinker, and prefer coffee, tea, and water. I have cut sugar out of my coffee and am working towards drinking it black. I am also going for 45 minute walks, six days a week with the hope that in a few weeks I can up it to a jog.
My question is.....well, I am a little confused about cheat days. I was hoping to have one cheat day per week, in which I did not exercise, and relaxed when it came to counting calories. What is the best way to do a cheat day? I have done some research, and some sources say, Don't do it at all! some say Eat whatever you want! and some say Have one indulgence but otherwise stick to your diet.
I want to do this right, but I think if I never have a cheat day ever, I will not keep the weight off in the long run. Any advice? | I am a infant when it comes to the world of diets and healthy lifestyles. What exactly should a "cheat day" be? | [
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TITLE: I have no idea what I am doing, TBH
POST: I am new to both this subreddit and dieting, so I am not really sure what I am doing on either, but I am floundering around with great determination!
I have started a diet for heath reasons (been having some digestive problems) and because I have always been overweight. Technically, at 5'4'' and 210 pounds, I am obese.
My highest weight was 230 pounds (lowest 190), but I need to get serious about losing. I understand that this is not a diet so much as a lifestyle change but, I am just...not really sure if I am going about it right.
I have constricted my calorie intake to 1200 per day (MyFitnessPal). I have never been a soda drinker, and prefer coffee, tea, and water. I have cut sugar out of my coffee and am working towards drinking it black. I am also going for 45 minute walks, six days a week with the hope that in a few weeks I can up it to a jog.
My question is.....well, I am a little confused about cheat days. I was hoping to have one cheat day per week, in which I did not exercise, and relaxed when it came to counting calories. What is the best way to do a cheat day? I have done some research, and some sources say, Don't do it at all! some say Eat whatever you want! and some say Have one indulgence but otherwise stick to your diet.
I want to do this right, but I think if I never have a cheat day ever, I will not keep the weight off in the long run. Any advice?
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TITLE: I have no idea what I am doing, TBH
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I have started a diet for heath reasons (been having some digestive problems) and because I have always been overweight. Technically, at 5'4'' and 210 pounds, I am obese.
My highest weight was 230 pounds (lowest 190), but I need to get serious about losing. I understand that this is not a diet so much as a lifestyle change but, I am just...not really sure if I am going about it right.
I have constricted my calorie intake to 1200 per day (MyFitnessPal). I have never been a soda drinker, and prefer coffee, tea, and water. I have cut sugar out of my coffee and am working towards drinking it black. I am also going for 45 minute walks, six days a week with the hope that in a few weeks I can up it to a jog.
My question is.....well, I am a little confused about cheat days. I was hoping to have one cheat day per week, in which I did not exercise, and relaxed when it came to counting calories. What is the best way to do a cheat day? I have done some research, and some sources say, Don't do it at all! some say Eat whatever you want! and some say Have one indulgence but otherwise stick to your diet.
I want to do this right, but I think if I never have a cheat day ever, I will not keep the weight off in the long run. Any advice?
TL;DR: I am new to both this subreddit and dieting, so I am not really sure what I am doing on either, but I am floundering around with great determination!
I have started a diet for heath reasons (been having some digestive problems) and because |
t3_1hmat1 | relationships | I [18f] found out my best friend [18f] was using me to get at a guy [18m]. I have a chance to make her life hell...do I take it? | Within the past year, I've joined a new friend group. This was mainly due to 3 people, who I'll call M, S, and C. M is/was my best friend who introduced me to S and C. S is her crush/obsession and one of my close friends, and C is my boyfriend of 8 months. While I love the whole group, they are extremely clique-y and there is a clear hierarchy.
S and C are best friends and at the top. They are the leaders who everyone else pretty much follows. Since I'm dating C, I have a lot of "power," you could say. Yes, it's stupid, but it's high school and this is just how it is. M is near the bottom because of her obsessive crush on S. Seriously, this crush is out of control and he has told her repeatedly that he doesn't like her.
I began to notice that she was always using me to hang out with S. Since he's my boyfriend's best friend, I'm often with him. So I got her into multiple parties/hangouts with S. A while back, S went on vacation for a week and M ignored me the whole week. Long story short, I found out recently that she's only been friends with me to get to S.
I'm very upset by this. I loved this girl like a sister and she's been using me this whole time. I know if I tell S and C about this, they will be angry and will probably refuse to hang out with her anymore, leading the rest of the group to cut back on time with her. I know this will happen because I (accidentally) turned everyone against her this way a few months ago. Once again, I know this is very immature and stupid, but that's the way the group works. I'm so pissed. I can't believe she did this to me. I want to show her that she shouldn't have messed with me. I know I'm a total bitch but I don't really care. I'm beyond mad and I want revenge. | My "best friend" has only been friends with me to get to the uninterested guy she has an obsessive crush on. I know I can turn the whole friend group against her if I want to. Should I do it? | [
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TITLE: I [18f] found out my best friend [18f] was using me to get at a guy [18m]. I have a chance to make her life hell...do I take it?
POST: Within the past year, I've joined a new friend group. This was mainly due to 3 people, who I'll call M, S, and C. M is/was my best friend who introduced me to S and C. S is her crush/obsession and one of my close friends, and C is my boyfriend of 8 months. While I love the whole group, they are extremely clique-y and there is a clear hierarchy.
S and C are best friends and at the top. They are the leaders who everyone else pretty much follows. Since I'm dating C, I have a lot of "power," you could say. Yes, it's stupid, but it's high school and this is just how it is. M is near the bottom because of her obsessive crush on S. Seriously, this crush is out of control and he has told her repeatedly that he doesn't like her.
I began to notice that she was always using me to hang out with S. Since he's my boyfriend's best friend, I'm often with him. So I got her into multiple parties/hangouts with S. A while back, S went on vacation for a week and M ignored me the whole week. Long story short, I found out recently that she's only been friends with me to get to S.
I'm very upset by this. I loved this girl like a sister and she's been using me this whole time. I know if I tell S and C about this, they will be angry and will probably refuse to hang out with her anymore, leading the rest of the group to cut back on time with her. I know this will happen because I (accidentally) turned everyone against her this way a few months ago. Once again, I know this is very immature and stupid, but that's the way the group works. I'm so pissed. I can't believe she did this to me. I want to show her that she shouldn't have messed with me. I know I'm a total bitch but I don't really care. I'm beyond mad and I want revenge.
TL;DR: | My "best friend" has only been friends with me to get to the uninterested guy she has an obsessive crush on. I know I can turn the whole friend group against her if I want to. Should I do it?<|endoftext|> | [
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TITLE: I [18f] found out my best friend [18f] was using me to get at a guy [18m]. I have a chance to make her life hell...do I take it?
POST: Within the past year, I've joined a new friend group. This was mainly due to 3 people, who I'll call M, S, and C. M is/was my best friend who introduced me to S and C. S is her crush/obsession and one of my close friends, and C is my boyfriend of 8 months. While I love the whole group, they are extremely clique-y and there is a clear hierarchy.
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I began to notice that she was always using me to hang out with S. Since he's my boyfriend's best friend, I'm often with him. So I got her into multiple parties/hangouts with S. A while back, S went on vacation for a week and M ignored me the whole week. Long story short, I found out recently that she's only been friends with me to get to S.
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TL;DR: My "best friend" has only been friends with me to get to the uninterested guy she has an obsessive crush on. I know I can turn the whole friend group against her if I want to. Should I do it?<|endoftext|> | [
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] | 549 | I'm a 18 year old girl who is dating a 18 year old boy. I'm friends with a 18 year old girl who is dating a 18 year old boy. She's been using me to get to him. I'm so mad. I want to show her that she shouldn't have messed with me. I know I'm a total bitch but I don't really care. I'm beyond mad and I want revenge.
I'm not sure what to do. I don't want to hurt her, but I want to show her that she shouldn't have messed with me. I know I'm a total bitch but I don't really care. I'm beyond mad and I want revenge.
I'm not sure what to do. I don't want to hurt her, but I want to show her that she shouldn't have messed with me. I know I'm a total bitch but I don't really care. I'm beyond mad and I want revenge.
I'm not sure what to do. I don't want to hurt her, but I want to show her that she shouldn't have messed with me. I know I'm a total bitch but I don't really care. I'm beyond mad and I want revenge.
I'm not sure what to do. I don't want to hurt her, but I want to show her that she shouldn't have messed with me. I know I'm a total bitch but I don't really care. I'm beyond mad and I want revenge.
I'm not sure what to do. I don't want to hurt her, but I want to show her that she shouldn't have messed with me. I know I'm a total bitch but I don't really care. I'm beyond mad and I want revenge.
I'm not sure what to do. I don't want to hurt her, but I want to show her that she shouldn't have messed with me. I know I'm a total bitch but I |
t3_1x8vcq | relationships | My father [45M] is giving my family and I [19M] a hard time | so my family and I have been long awaiting for my father to return from prison. When he finally came several months ago, we were happy.
But then for some reason he changed, he suddenly started acting like a total jerk to my family. One thing is he's been really selfish with my sister, and their relationship is pretty bad. He always complains that she sits around texting when she actually helps my mom clean around the house, while he does nothing.
I don't understand why he's been treating my sister this way.
My dad has also been giving me a hard time. When I have to drive him somewhere to run an errand, he's always criticizing my driving and how I'm terrible at it, yet he doesn't put an effort to go to the DMV to get his permit to have a driving license to get a job.
He has also promised my family that he wouldn't drink again and broke that promise 2 weeks ago, when he decided to drink with his cousins.
He's been treating us like this for months now and I don't know what to do, he's always calling my family lazy and doesn't put effort in looking for a job. Because of this, he's been having constant arguments with my mom. I don't want him to argue with her anymore. I've had enough. What could I do to make the relationship between my father and family, better again? | dad started acting horrible with my family, a few months after he came back from prison. How can I make our relationship good again? | [
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TITLE: My father [45M] is giving my family and I [19M] a hard time
POST: so my family and I have been long awaiting for my father to return from prison. When he finally came several months ago, we were happy.
But then for some reason he changed, he suddenly started acting like a total jerk to my family. One thing is he's been really selfish with my sister, and their relationship is pretty bad. He always complains that she sits around texting when she actually helps my mom clean around the house, while he does nothing.
I don't understand why he's been treating my sister this way.
My dad has also been giving me a hard time. When I have to drive him somewhere to run an errand, he's always criticizing my driving and how I'm terrible at it, yet he doesn't put an effort to go to the DMV to get his permit to have a driving license to get a job.
He has also promised my family that he wouldn't drink again and broke that promise 2 weeks ago, when he decided to drink with his cousins.
He's been treating us like this for months now and I don't know what to do, he's always calling my family lazy and doesn't put effort in looking for a job. Because of this, he's been having constant arguments with my mom. I don't want him to argue with her anymore. I've had enough. What could I do to make the relationship between my father and family, better again?
TL;DR: | dad started acting horrible with my family, a few months after he came back from prison. How can I make our relationship good again?<|endoftext|> | [
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TITLE: My father [45M] is giving my family and I [19M] a hard time
POST: so my family and I have been long awaiting for my father to return from prison. When he finally came several months ago, we were happy.
But then for some reason he changed, he suddenly started acting like a total jerk to my family. One thing is he's been really selfish with my sister, and their relationship is pretty bad. He always complains that she sits around texting when she actually helps my mom clean around the house, while he does nothing.
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TL;DR: dad started acting horrible with my family, a few months after he came back from prison. How can I make our relationship good again?<|endoftext|> | [
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• I'm not sure what you mean by "he's been treating us like crap for months now." – user253751 May 31 '19 at 0:00
• @user253751 I mean that he's been treating us like crap for months now. He's been treating my sister like crap and my family like crap. He's been treating us like crap for months now. What could I do to make the relationship between my father and family, better again? – user1234567890 May 31 '19 at 0:01
• I'm not sure what you mean by "he's been treating us like crap for months now." – user253751 May 31 '19 at 0:02
• @user253751 I mean that he's been treating my sister like crap and my family like crap. He's been treating us like crap for months now. What could I do to make the relationship between my father and family, better again? – user1234567890 May 31 '19 at 0:03
• I'm not sure what you mean by "he's been treating us like crap for months now." – user253751 May 31 '19 at 0:04
I'm not sure what you mean by "he's been treating us like crap for months now." I'm not sure what you mean by "he's been treating us like crap for months now." I'm not sure what you mean by "he's been treating us like crap for months now." I'm not sure what you mean by "he's been treating us like crap for months now." I'm not sure what you mean by |
t3_4wgy0l | relationships | Me [20M] having trouble making friends that are girls. | Hello Reddit,
I don't even know where to start I'm just going to jump into it. Lately I've been very depressed, and I'm very alone. I have such a small group of friends that I actually talk to.
Being in the depressive state that I am in I really want to me someone to talk to, and be friends with and hangout with. Yes, I'm single so I'm not against the idea of meeting someone that I would also have a chance with. But I know that stuff takes time, you're not going to meet someone and just start dating.
But it seems like everyone I meet I can't stay friends with. I care about people immensely, I love talking, I love listening about people's day and I love helping people with problems.
Only thing is, I can't seem to help myself with my problem. It seems I just can't get an emotional connection with anyone, at all. No one wants to talk to me.
Could there be something I'm blinded to? Such as I'm just not deeply accepting anyone because of my previous relationship and how it ended on my part? Could I just have trust issues and be blind to it. I really don't know and it's depressing me even more. | Having a really tough time making friends with girls, guys aren't really a problem. But I feel like there's something more to it. | [
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TITLE: Me [20M] having trouble making friends that are girls.
POST: Hello Reddit,
I don't even know where to start I'm just going to jump into it. Lately I've been very depressed, and I'm very alone. I have such a small group of friends that I actually talk to.
Being in the depressive state that I am in I really want to me someone to talk to, and be friends with and hangout with. Yes, I'm single so I'm not against the idea of meeting someone that I would also have a chance with. But I know that stuff takes time, you're not going to meet someone and just start dating.
But it seems like everyone I meet I can't stay friends with. I care about people immensely, I love talking, I love listening about people's day and I love helping people with problems.
Only thing is, I can't seem to help myself with my problem. It seems I just can't get an emotional connection with anyone, at all. No one wants to talk to me.
Could there be something I'm blinded to? Such as I'm just not deeply accepting anyone because of my previous relationship and how it ended on my part? Could I just have trust issues and be blind to it. I really don't know and it's depressing me even more.
TL;DR: | Having a really tough time making friends with girls, guys aren't really a problem. But I feel like there's something more to it.<|endoftext|> | [
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TITLE: Me [20M] having trouble making friends that are girls.
POST: Hello Reddit,
I don't even know where to start I'm just going to jump into it. Lately I've been very depressed, and I'm very alone. I have such a small group of friends that I actually talk to.
Being in the depressive state that I am in I really want to me someone to talk to, and be friends with and hangout with. Yes, I'm single so I'm not against the idea of meeting someone that I would also have a chance with. But I know that stuff takes time, you're not going to meet someone and just start dating.
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Could there be something I'm blinded to? Such as I'm just not deeply accepting anyone because of my previous relationship and how it ended on my part? Could I just have trust issues and be blind to it. I really don't know and it's depressing me even more.
TL;DR: Having a really tough time making friends with girls, guys aren't really a problem. But I feel like there's something more to it.<|endoftext|> | [
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I'm 20 years old, and I'm a male. I'm not against the idea of meeting someone that I would also have a chance with. But I know that stuff takes time, you're not going to meet someone and just start dating.
I'm not against the idea of meeting someone that I would also have a chance with. But I know that stuff takes time, you're not going to meet someone and just start dating.
I'm not against the idea of meeting someone that I would also have a chance with. But I know that stuff takes time, you're not going to meet someone and just start dating.
I'm not against the idea of meeting someone that I would also have a chance with. But I know that stuff takes time, you're not going to meet someone and just start dating.
I'm not against the idea of meeting someone that I would also have a chance with. But I know that stuff takes time, you're not going to meet someone and just start dating.
I'm not against the idea of meeting someone that I would also have a chance with. But I know that stuff takes time, you're not going to meet someone and just start dating.
I'm not against the idea of meeting someone that I would also have a chance with. But I know that stuff takes time, you're not going to meet someone and just start dating.
I'm not against the idea of meeting someone that I would also have a chance with. But I know that stuff takes time, you're not going to meet someone and just start dating.
I'm not against the idea of meeting someone that I would also have a chance with. But I know that stuff takes time, you're not going to meet someone and just |
t3_2rizt6 | relationships | Me [24 M] just talked with my SO [22 F] and learned that she cheated on me | Hi,
Just had a phone call with my girlfriend. She was in bad mode for last few days, turned out she cheated on me last summer. It was a one night stand someone from her summer house and wanted to tell me but it did not mean anything to her so she decided to keep for herself. It seems she failed to cope with this preassure anymore and called me.
"I dont deserve you" and "Please breake up with me if you broke up with me I understand and cannot argue with you since you are quite good for me" were most used sentences by her during our little chat. I considered it for a brief movement yet said "No!". I want to continue our relationship, she is about to finish her bachelor degree and I am looking for possible Phd programs for myself. Our plan was to apply same universities or at least universities in same cities to live together.
Problem is that I know she cares about me. Maybe because of guilt she tracked down comic books for me, spent stupidly more time with me more than we usually did. I see in her eyes the spark when she looks at me which makes me want to forget everything.
Dont know what to do, I am freezing and I have gastritis so probably will lose some weight as well after months of struggling to gain some. | My SO cheated on me last summer as one night stand, never spoke with him again and confessed me now. Dont know what to do, just want to continue this relationship since I was preparing my proposal. | [
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TITLE: Me [24 M] just talked with my SO [22 F] and learned that she cheated on me
POST: Hi,
Just had a phone call with my girlfriend. She was in bad mode for last few days, turned out she cheated on me last summer. It was a one night stand someone from her summer house and wanted to tell me but it did not mean anything to her so she decided to keep for herself. It seems she failed to cope with this preassure anymore and called me.
"I dont deserve you" and "Please breake up with me if you broke up with me I understand and cannot argue with you since you are quite good for me" were most used sentences by her during our little chat. I considered it for a brief movement yet said "No!". I want to continue our relationship, she is about to finish her bachelor degree and I am looking for possible Phd programs for myself. Our plan was to apply same universities or at least universities in same cities to live together.
Problem is that I know she cares about me. Maybe because of guilt she tracked down comic books for me, spent stupidly more time with me more than we usually did. I see in her eyes the spark when she looks at me which makes me want to forget everything.
Dont know what to do, I am freezing and I have gastritis so probably will lose some weight as well after months of struggling to gain some.
TL;DR: | My SO cheated on me last summer as one night stand, never spoke with him again and confessed me now. Dont know what to do, just want to continue this relationship since I was preparing my proposal.<|endoftext|> | [
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TITLE: Me [24 M] just talked with my SO [22 F] and learned that she cheated on me
POST: Hi,
Just had a phone call with my girlfriend. She was in bad mode for last few days, turned out she cheated on me last summer. It was a one night stand someone from her summer house and wanted to tell me but it did not mean anything to her so she decided to keep for herself. It seems she failed to cope with this preassure anymore and called me.
"I dont deserve you" and "Please breake up with me if you broke up with me I understand and cannot argue with you since you are quite good for me" were most used sentences by her during our little chat. I considered it for a brief movement yet said "No!". I want to continue our relationship, she is about to finish her bachelor degree and I am looking for possible Phd programs for myself. Our plan was to apply same universities or at least universities in same cities to live together.
Problem is that I know she cares about me. Maybe because of guilt she tracked down comic books for me, spent stupidly more time with me more than we usually did. I see in her eyes the spark when she looks at me which makes me want to forget everything.
Dont know what to do, I am freezing and I have gastritis so probably will lose some weight as well after months of struggling to gain some.
TL;DR: My SO cheated on me last summer as one night stand, never spoke with him again and confessed me now. Dont know what to do, just want to continue this relationship since I was preparing my proposal.<|endoftext|> | [
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But what I don't support is the adoption of your bullshit-hyper-liberal-hipster-white-guilt attitude with your new home.
Your "heart broke" for the city. You didn't understand why people would destroy their own city. You helped clean up the streets with your other ultra-privileged brethren. And you, you of all people, proclaimed the only thing to fear is the police, "the pigs" as you so succinctly put it, time and time again.
You don't live in Sandtown.
You don't know "the struggle."
You have never in your life been the victim of police brutality or systematic oppression.
But Baltimore burned and you're suddenly a member of NWA?
Please tell me again why you've "never been more proud to live in this city." | You've lived in Baltimore for approximately one week. Shut the fuck up and go to the indie tea shop across the street. | [
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TITLE: You may live in Baltimore City, but you in no way know struggle.
POST: Baltimore was a convenient move for you. It is close to all of the things you love and to the friends you've made. That's great. I support your decision to explore. I supported your apartment search. I even agreed to design your space despite being inundated with work. I've supported every single whim, dream, and scheme of yours for years.
But what I don't support is the adoption of your bullshit-hyper-liberal-hipster-white-guilt attitude with your new home.
Your "heart broke" for the city. You didn't understand why people would destroy their own city. You helped clean up the streets with your other ultra-privileged brethren. And you, you of all people, proclaimed the only thing to fear is the police, "the pigs" as you so succinctly put it, time and time again.
You don't live in Sandtown.
You don't know "the struggle."
You have never in your life been the victim of police brutality or systematic oppression.
But Baltimore burned and you're suddenly a member of NWA?
Please tell me again why you've "never been more proud to live in this city."
TL;DR: | You've lived in Baltimore for approximately one week. Shut the fuck up and go to the indie tea shop across the street.<|endoftext|> | [
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TITLE: You may live in Baltimore City, but you in no way know struggle.
POST: Baltimore was a convenient move for you. It is close to all of the things you love and to the friends you've made. That's great. I support your decision to explore. I supported your apartment search. I even agreed to design your space despite being inundated with work. I've supported every single whim, dream, and scheme of yours for years.
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t3_xzb2n | AskReddit | So what do Redditors think of murderers who are able to use the insanity plea | I know this is probably a controversial subject. Maybe? I'm not actually sure how people feel about this but give me your opinions on it. Today as I read an article by YahooNews! here's the link if you're curious... it really had me questioning the entire approach and method that the justice system uses. The title is "Woman Removed After Outburst During James Holmes' Court Appearance." As I read it there were only actually two lines on the woman mentioned in the title... and they make the woman seem like a raving lunatic. She stood up and said these things, "I tried to deliver information vital to the defense of James Holmes to the public defender... It will do the victims' families justice to have this information." As I looked further into Allison Ernst I learned a few strange things... through her linkedin profile
What is strange is that Allison is in fact an attorney in Colorado. Maybe it's a different Allison Ernst. Who knows maybe there are hundreds of other Allison Ernst's in Colorado but then I looked at where she worked Pueblo, Colorado... very close to where Holmes has his trial. These are all theories but what if this Allison Ernst has information that would make James Holmes unable to plead not guilty by reason of insanity. That's the kind of information that would help the victims families and friends find justice. This was a tragedy and it would be unfair to watch the justice system allow another senseless murderer take the easy way out. Another odd thing is that I posted a comment on yahoo... not once but three times and each time it was immediately removed within seconds. Well maybe it will get some of my fellow redditors thinking. Sorry for the long post. What are your thoughts? | James Holmes is being allowed to plead not guilty by reason of insanity. Strange woman appears in court may or may not be an attorney in Colorado who has vital information that could help victims families find justice... | [
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TITLE: So what do Redditors think of murderers who are able to use the insanity plea
POST: I know this is probably a controversial subject. Maybe? I'm not actually sure how people feel about this but give me your opinions on it. Today as I read an article by YahooNews! here's the link if you're curious... it really had me questioning the entire approach and method that the justice system uses. The title is "Woman Removed After Outburst During James Holmes' Court Appearance." As I read it there were only actually two lines on the woman mentioned in the title... and they make the woman seem like a raving lunatic. She stood up and said these things, "I tried to deliver information vital to the defense of James Holmes to the public defender... It will do the victims' families justice to have this information." As I looked further into Allison Ernst I learned a few strange things... through her linkedin profile
What is strange is that Allison is in fact an attorney in Colorado. Maybe it's a different Allison Ernst. Who knows maybe there are hundreds of other Allison Ernst's in Colorado but then I looked at where she worked Pueblo, Colorado... very close to where Holmes has his trial. These are all theories but what if this Allison Ernst has information that would make James Holmes unable to plead not guilty by reason of insanity. That's the kind of information that would help the victims families and friends find justice. This was a tragedy and it would be unfair to watch the justice system allow another senseless murderer take the easy way out. Another odd thing is that I posted a comment on yahoo... not once but three times and each time it was immediately removed within seconds. Well maybe it will get some of my fellow redditors thinking. Sorry for the long post. What are your thoughts?
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POST: I know this is probably a controversial subject. Maybe? I'm not actually sure how people feel about this but give me your opinions on it. Today as I read an article by YahooNews! here's the link if you're curious... it really had me questioning the entire approach and method that the justice system uses. The title is "Woman Removed After Outburst During James Holmes' Court Appearance." As I read it there were only actually two lines on the woman mentioned in the title... and they make the woman seem like a raving lunatic. She stood up and said these things, "I tried to deliver information vital to the defense of James Holmes to the public defender... It will do the victims' families justice to have this information." As I looked further into Allison Ernst I learned a few strange things... through her linkedin profile
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t3_2s0dl2 | relationships | Girlfriend (21f) is costing me (21m) a lot of money, and i dont know what to do about it. | Okay so this has been really hard on me lately because it just makes me feel like an asshole.
So me and my girlfriend have known eachother since sophomore year of highschool. We've been great friends and she's an amazing girlfriend and an awesome human being, we've dated 3 times now (there's always bumps in the road), and its been serious this time (almost 6 months) But as of recently, as in since november, shes become really pricey. Always wanting to go out to eat. Or planning trips, last one costed more than $100 dollars, which is fine but the.next weekend she wants to go out and eat again before I've even recovered. We've agreed to switch on and off (she has a good job as well), but its not good enough. I have rent to pay, and i feel like she doesn't really understand i.cant be doing things all the time. She used to be all for nights in watching shows and movies. But now its just wanting to go out. She always gets an attitude too when i tell her i dont really want to go out; If we could have a quiet night. Shes fine once we get comfortable and its always a great time. I just feel like i cant afford the lifesyle she wants right now.
Im sorry this is all over the place and probably riddled with typos, im on mobile and im seeing her tonight. I just need advice, because tonight i really want to talk to her about it, and decide of we need to take a break for a while. I dont want to lose her, but maybe its best if we try again when im more financially secure. Thanks for your time and input. | my gf likes going out on a lot of dates all of a sudden. Hurting my wallet. Plan on talking to her tonight about it. Would love some advice. | [
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TITLE: Girlfriend (21f) is costing me (21m) a lot of money, and i dont know what to do about it.
POST: Okay so this has been really hard on me lately because it just makes me feel like an asshole.
So me and my girlfriend have known eachother since sophomore year of highschool. We've been great friends and she's an amazing girlfriend and an awesome human being, we've dated 3 times now (there's always bumps in the road), and its been serious this time (almost 6 months) But as of recently, as in since november, shes become really pricey. Always wanting to go out to eat. Or planning trips, last one costed more than $100 dollars, which is fine but the.next weekend she wants to go out and eat again before I've even recovered. We've agreed to switch on and off (she has a good job as well), but its not good enough. I have rent to pay, and i feel like she doesn't really understand i.cant be doing things all the time. She used to be all for nights in watching shows and movies. But now its just wanting to go out. She always gets an attitude too when i tell her i dont really want to go out; If we could have a quiet night. Shes fine once we get comfortable and its always a great time. I just feel like i cant afford the lifesyle she wants right now.
Im sorry this is all over the place and probably riddled with typos, im on mobile and im seeing her tonight. I just need advice, because tonight i really want to talk to her about it, and decide of we need to take a break for a while. I dont want to lose her, but maybe its best if we try again when im more financially secure. Thanks for your time and input.
TL;DR: | my gf likes going out on a lot of dates all of a sudden. Hurting my wallet. Plan on talking to her tonight about it. Would love some advice.<|endoftext|> | [
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TITLE: Girlfriend (21f) is costing me (21m) a lot of money, and i dont know what to do about it.
POST: Okay so this has been really hard on me lately because it just makes me feel like an asshole.
So me and my girlfriend have known eachother since sophomore year of highschool. We've been great friends and she's an amazing girlfriend and an awesome human being, we've dated 3 times now (there's always bumps in the road), and its been serious this time (almost 6 months) But as of recently, as in since november, shes become really pricey. Always wanting to go out to eat. Or planning trips, last one costed more than $100 dollars, which is fine but the.next weekend she wants to go out and eat again before I've even recovered. We've agreed to switch on and off (she has a good job as well), but its not good enough. I have rent to pay, and i feel like she doesn't really understand i.cant be doing things all the time. She used to be all for nights in watching shows and movies. But now its just wanting to go out. She always gets an attitude too when i tell her i dont really want to go out; If we could have a quiet night. Shes fine once we get comfortable and its always a great time. I just feel like i cant afford the lifesyle she wants right now.
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