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amitheasshole
1
train
4
advice
loyalty-betrayal
char-1
0
it's bad
doing something that causes other people to lose trust in you.
agency
-1
3
legal
-2
char-1
hypothetical
losing trust in my friend
reddit/amitheasshole/aypvmz
It's bad to do something that causes other people to lose trust in you.
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127
0
2
narrator|my friend
amitheasshole
1
dev
3
social-norms
loyalty-betrayal
char-0
0
expected
people participating in the big events in their friends' lives if asked.
agency
0
3
legal
2
char-0
explicit-no
saying no to being a bridesmaid at a friend's wedding
reddit/amitheasshole/9tzn0z
People are expected to participate in the big events in their friends' lives if asked.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/9tzn0z/3EG49X351XRR9FSSYVYCH4PEC656XX/89/1
89
39
3
narrator|a bridesmaid|a friend
amitheasshole
1
test
3
social-norms
care-harm|loyalty-betrayal
char-1
0
Partners should
Listening to each other's issues.
agency
2
3
legal
2
char-1
probable
telling my boyfriend I am bored and unhappy at my job
reddit/amitheasshole/a1311q
Partners should listen to each other's issues.
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111
145
2
narrator|my boyfriend
amitheasshole
1
dev
2
advice
loyalty-betrayal
char-0
0
it's okay
needing space from family.
agency
-1
2
legal
-1
char-0
probable
not wanting to be around my family
reddit/amitheasshole/akkcpn
It is okay to need space from family.
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30
0
2
narrator|my family
amitheasshole
1
train
4
advice
care-harm
char-0
0
it's good
keeping things clean.
agency
1
4
legal
1
char-0
explicit
washing my cat's bowls in the kitchen sink
reddit/amitheasshole/aof4ml
It's good to keep things clean.
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42
49
1
narrator
amitheasshole
1
train
4
morality-ethics|social-norms
care-harm
char-none
0
It's bad
saying things that are racist.
agency
-2
4
legal
-2
char-none
null
saying I'm not racist
reddit/amitheasshole/b4c25e
It's bad to say things that are racist.
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127
93
1
narrator
amitheasshole
1
train
0
advice
loyalty-betrayal
char-1
0
It is expected
Your friends deleting any photos of you that make you look bad.
experience
null
null
null
null
null
null
deleting awful pictures of me from my friends phone
reddit/amitheasshole/alro7y
Your friends are expected to delete any photos of you that make you look bad.
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84
70
2
narrator|my friends
amitheasshole
1
train
2
social-norms
fairness-cheating
char-0
0
it's wrong
being angry with your partner over money.
agency
0
2
legal
0
char-0
explicit
getting angry at my girlfriend after she told me she has an emergency fund from before we started dating 3 years ago
reddit/amitheasshole/a73l8g
It's wrong to be angry with your partner over money.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/a73l8g/3NGI5ARFTWKRTKP46YCESVCU2ZQ1PM/42/3
42
27
2
narrator|my girlfriend
amitheasshole
1
train
3
morality-ethics
fairness-cheating|loyalty-betrayal
char-0
0
It's bad
not following through on your commitments.
agency
-1
3
legal
-1
char-0
explicit
pulling out of a group project at the last minute
reddit/amitheasshole/ax9t4t
It's bad to not follow through on your commitments.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/ax9t4t/3PW9OPU9PTZV1DOY4012WI41NMG218/87/2
87
42
2
narrator|a group
amitheasshole
1
train
4
description
loyalty-betrayal
char-0
0
It's reasonable for someone
calling themselves an American if they're from an American country.
agency
0
4
legal
1
char-0
explicit
defending my right to call myself an American, even if people from Southern/central american countries call me out for this
reddit/amitheasshole/aeaw4t
It's reasonable for someone to call themselves an American if they're from an American country.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/aeaw4t/3M23Y66PO5MJDY6T4LSPIW8MTRO6S6/100/1
100
56
3
narrator|an American|people
amitheasshole
1
train
3
morality-ethics
care-harm|loyalty-betrayal
char-1
0
it's okay
feeling angry when you find out your roommate lied to you
experience
null
3
null
null
null
null
telling my roommate with 2 months notice that I'm going to move out, then after he bought a house to live in, change my mind and getting a new roommate
reddit/amitheasshole/adwxny
If you find out that your roommate lied to you, it's okay to feel angry.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/adwxny/3DH6GAKTY14IXU2D5WHPXGPIFGTZYG/129/4
129
17
3
narrator|my roommate|a new roommate
amitheasshole
1
train
3
morality-ethics
care-harm
char-0
0
It's not okay
making someone else feel bad just because you think they aren't cool.
agency
-1
3
legal
-1
char-0
explicit
telling my father that he embarrasses me in front of the people at my school
reddit/amitheasshole/aka65b
It's not okay to make someone else feel bad just because you think they aren't cool.
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105
133
3
narrator|my father|the people at my school
amitheasshole
1
test
3
social-norms
loyalty-betrayal
char-0
0
It's okay
not caring for Christmas.
agency
0
3
legal
0
char-0
explicit
not liking Christmas
reddit/amitheasshole/a4hfkv
It's okay not to care for Christmas.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/a4hfkv/3E47SOBEYTBJZ1CY90BE0UU9KGLICC/42/2
42
105
1
narrator
amitheasshole
1
train
4
social-norms
fairness-cheating
char-0
0
understandable
wanting people to stick to a deal they made.
agency
0
4
legal
1
char-0
probable
refusing to refund a sale to my family member
reddit/amitheasshole/9v4v5g
It's understandable to want people to stick to a deal they made.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/9v4v5g/3HQUKB7LNITAKECUPA7UB9QAXVFHHV/105/1
105
78
2
narrator|my family member
amitheasshole
1
train
4
advice
fairness-cheating
char-1
0
understandable
making mistakes.
agency
0
4
legal
0
char-1
probable
getting upset with my girlfriend for not knowing how many minutes are in an hour
reddit/amitheasshole/ba1o7i
It's understandable to make mistakes.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/ba1o7i/3ON104KXQNBY5SJO529BINRT7DF4W3/89/2
89
78
2
narrator|my girlfriend
amitheasshole
1
train
3
social-norms
fairness-cheating
char-0
0
it's understandable
being excited about a new job.
agency
0
3
legal
0
char-0
explicit
wanting to boast about my new job
reddit/amitheasshole/b832ok
It's understandable to be excited about a new job.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/b832ok/3OS46CRSLIEZ5QNXYGXUTJSTWWI6VH/87/1
87
22
1
narrator
amitheasshole
1
train
3
social-norms
care-harm|sanctity-degradation
char-1
0
you shouldn't
listening to graphic audio books in your work car that might offend your clients.
agency
-1
3
legal
-1
char-1
probable
snapping at and reporting a medical transport driver for listening to a graphic audiobook with clients in the car
reddit/amitheasshole/9w539i
You shouldn't listen to graphic audio books in your work car that might offend your clients.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/9w539i/3EWIJTFFVRMNP4FW11S3KEUGJZRE0I/42/2
42
130
3
narrator|a medical transport driver|clients
amitheasshole
1
test
2
social-norms
care-harm|loyalty-betrayal
char-0
0
It's okay
wanting to hang out with people close to your ex.
agency
0
2
legal
-1
char-0
explicit
wanting to hang out with my ex's brother
reddit/amitheasshole/b3hq29
It's okay to want to hang out with people close to your ex.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/b3hq29/308XBLVESLJDIVNBLN9S32PIPQVRB7/120/1
120
109
3
narrator|my ex 's brother|my ex
amitheasshole
1
train
4
morality-ethics
care-harm
char-0
0
It is wrong
hurting your significant other
agency
-2
4
legal
-2
char-0
explicit
accidentally abusing my girlfriend
reddit/amitheasshole/acq804
It is wrong to hurt your significant other
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38
52
2
narrator|my girlfriend
amitheasshole
1
train
3
social-norms
care-harm
char-0
0
should
keeping your family company.
agency
0
3
legal
1
char-0
probable-no
not wanting to attend family dinners
reddit/amitheasshole/amv8ew
You should keep your family company.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/amv8ew/32XVDSJFP2CSX2ANXMK0GAS4LWHM24/94/2
94
49
1
narrator
amitheasshole
1
dev
4
morality-ethics|social-norms
authority-subversion
char-2
0
it's good
problems being solved by the manager
agency
1
4
legal
2
char-2
hypothetical
arguing with the employee and getting the manager involved
reddit/amitheasshole/b3hvgo
It is good for the manger to solve problems.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/b3hvgo/33L7PJKHCJD7WC2WM0UDCF0Z14V8TK/5/1
5
13
3
narrator|the employee|the manager
amitheasshole
1
train
3
morality-ethics
null
char-none
0
You should
never dating someone you do not have a preference for.
agency
1
3
legal
1
char-none
null
dating preference
reddit/amitheasshole/adc9tx
You should never date someone you do not have a preference for.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/adc9tx/39DD6S19JSQKRPLM5V5VQDX2X4HZEU/16/2
16
101
1
narrator
amitheasshole
1
train
4
morality-ethics
fairness-cheating
char-0
0
should
paying your bills.
agency
0
4
legal
2
char-0
explicit-no
not wanting to pay the Shaw bill
reddit/amitheasshole/a1u3mb
You should always pay your bills.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/a1u3mb/34J10VATJIDNT2MHEIC9KZJQOAAIQZ/42/2
42
121
1
narrator
amitheasshole
1
train
3
social-norms
fairness-cheating
char-0
0
should
reprimanding bad neighbors
agency
0
3
legal
0
char-0
probable
reporting my neighbor to our hoa
reddit/amitheasshole/b2yfsl
Bad neighbors should be reprimanded
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/b2yfsl/33NF62TLXMHXDA8SJVDC0EMH2IRJK2/83/2
83
121
2
narrator|my neighbor
amitheasshole
1
train
4
description
care-harm
char-1
0
it's understandable
feeling hurt if your friend is critical of work you've done
experience
null
null
null
null
null
null
telling my friend his essays is bad and he should rewrite it
reddit/amitheasshole/aw1a97
It's understandable to feel hurt if your friend is critical of work you've done.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/aw1a97/3WR9XG3T66QJFDINXU1ZQ7SCEMT74R/120/2
120
118
2
narrator|my friend
amitheasshole
1
train
3
social-norms
care-harm
char-0
0
it's okay
being mad at your family for being inappropriate.
agency
0
3
legal
0
char-0
explicit
being pissed my brother announced a death in his wife's family
reddit/amitheasshole/atlptz
It's okay to be mad at your family for being inappropriate.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/atlptz/31LM9EDVOO7YLGTVG85SS63LWZ4NJR/42/1
42
27
4
narrator|my brother|his wife|his wife 's family
amitheasshole
1
train
4
social-norms
care-harm
char-0
0
It is okay
keeping some aspects of your life personal.
agency
0
4
legal
0
char-0
explicit
going on a holiday without telling my friends
reddit/amitheasshole/b7dcir
It is okay to keep some aspects of your life personal.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/b7dcir/3OSWBBLG1HCQUO778I6QNAZ6TUCXD4/30/2
30
93
2
narrator|my friends
amitheasshole
1
train
4
social-norms|advice
care-harm
char-0
0
wrong
not getting your children haircuts.
agency
-1
4
legal
-1
char-0
explicit
not cutting my son's hair
reddit/amitheasshole/aph0gf
It's wrong not to get your children haircuts.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/aph0gf/3RKNTXVS3PD1YFGL4XDJ0YU2FVK4A2/42/1
42
78
2
narrator|my son
amitheasshole
1
train
4
morality-ethics|social-norms
care-harm|loyalty-betrayal
char-0
0
It's good
helping your friends when they're feeling down.
agency
1
4
legal
1
char-0
explicit
making a video trying to cheer up my friend
reddit/amitheasshole/b4t08v
It's good to help your friends when they're feeling down.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/b4t08v/36H9ULYP659MXOGEIKMFK1UCU98JF8/127/1
127
106
2
narrator|my friend
amitheasshole
1
train
3
morality-ethics
authority-subversion
char-0
0
shouldn't
getting mad at your teachers.
experience
null
null
null
null
null
null
getting angry at my art teacher
reddit/amitheasshole/aiv7nb
You shouldn't get mad at your teachers.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/aiv7nb/37Z929RLGCNPFWH50Y0IT600H12TSF/42/1
42
118
2
narrator|my art teacher
amitheasshole
1
train
3
morality-ethics|social-norms
authority-subversion
char-0
0
you should
giving notice before being absent from school or work
agency
0
3
tolerated
1
char-0
explicit-no
Leaving School with no notice
reddit/amitheasshole/9ws9em
You should give notice before being absent from school or work
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/9ws9em/3OLF68YTNCGBWVDAOE92R2RT4MNAFS/48/1
48
130
1
narrator
amitheasshole
1
dev
2
morality-ethics|social-norms
care-harm
char-0
0
it's wrong
making fun of other people.
agency
-1
2
legal
-1
char-0
explicit
saying an Elderly Woman's Wig looks stupid
reddit/amitheasshole/b4ohtf
It's wrong to make fun of other people.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/b4ohtf/3PJ71Z61R7H61X9XP9GH65CFXUY19F/40/1
40
14
2
narrator|an Elderly Woman
amitheasshole
1
train
4
advice
loyalty-betrayal
char-0
0
important
having trust in a relationship
agency
0
4
legal
1
char-0
explicit-no
looking through my ex's phone and then leaving her
reddit/amitheasshole/a4e58y
Trust is important in a relationship.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/a4e58y/3F6HPJW4JGFO2E411OQNP8UVJYD2WT/111/1
111
127
2
narrator|my ex
amitheasshole
1
train
3
morality-ethics|social-norms
care-harm|loyalty-betrayal
char-0
0
You should
being loyal to your friends and not abandon them when they might need you
agency
0
3
legal
0
char-0
explicit-no
leaving the group of friends
reddit/amitheasshole/a9wlbm
You should be loyal to your friends and not abandon them when they might need you
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/a9wlbm/3I7DHKZYGQFEQP1TTIILJRB7853F5Y/48/2
48
99
2
narrator|group of friends
amitheasshole
1
train
2
advice
null
char-0
0
You shouldn't
expecting your kids to view you as a hero.
agency
-1
2
legal
0
char-0
hypothetical
resenting that my children see their mom as a hero
reddit/amitheasshole/asxvj8
You shouldn't expect your kids to view you as a hero.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/asxvj8/33NF62TLXMHXDA8SJVDC0EMHY3MJKZ/42/3
42
101
3
narrator|my children|their mom
amitheasshole
1
train
4
morality-ethics
fairness-cheating
char-0
1
{}
Don't be greedy.
null
null
null
null
null
null
null
not wanting to share my things with housemate
reddit/amitheasshole/ba5jy3
Don't be greedy.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/ba5jy3/31QTRG6Q2WSOJQ07INJN6IN49HQPYT/42/3
42
78
2
narrator|housemate
amitheasshole
1
train
4
morality-ethics
authority-subversion
char-0
0
It's okay
pursuing a romantic interest.
agency
0
4
legal
0
char-0
explicit
dating my sister in laws best friend and ruining their friendship
reddit/amitheasshole/b9ryng
It's okay to pursue a romantic interest.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/b9ryng/33PPUNGG3BK90TQRR1PVPKWLGTNRZJ/89/2
89
89
3
narrator|my sister in laws best friend|my sister in laws
amitheasshole
1
train
3
social-norms
loyalty-betrayal
char-none
0
it's expected
getting somebody a gift they like for their birthday
agency
0
3
legal
1
char-none
null
being disappointed with a birthday gift
reddit/amitheasshole/b9jpwi
It is expected that for somebody's birthday you get them a gift they like.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/b9jpwi/3J88R45B2JDZJLAXDRXLN4GV7CFPX8/132/2
132
22
1
narrator
amitheasshole
1
train
4
morality-ethics
care-harm
char-0
0
It's good
speaking up when someone's doing something harmful to someone else.
agency
2
4
legal
2
char-0
explicit-no
not telling someone's girlfriend that he cheated on her
reddit/amitheasshole/avxz68
It's good to speak up when someone's doing something harmful to someone else.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/avxz68/3JV9LGBJWWT6CZ369HK2AIBAUGNGOO/89/2
89
85
3
narrator|someone|someone 's girlfriend
amitheasshole
1
train
3
advice
null
char-2
0
it's bad
complaining constantly.
agency
-1
3
legal
-1
char-2
probable
telling a person, who's had their feelings hurt by a person, that it's probably happening because they won't stop complaining online and very obviously vaguebooking
reddit/amitheasshole/b3oe61
It is bad to constantly be complaining.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/b3oe61/3OE22WJIGL3S2THH8Z1N3271IQPUQH/19/1
19
49
3
narrator|a person|a person
amitheasshole
1
train
3
advice
authority-subversion
char-0
0
it's ok
choosing not to tell people when you're traveling out of state.
agency
0
3
legal
0
char-0
explicit
leaving the state without telling anyone
reddit/amitheasshole/b6cxc3
It's OK to choose not to tell people when you're traveling out of state.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/b6cxc3/3TPWUS5F8CG10WW3YHFT1L3HZQUCWM/100/3
100
27
2
narrator|anyone
amitheasshole
1
train
3
morality-ethics|advice
fairness-cheating
char-0
0
is a waste of time.
Apologizing for something you did a long time ago
agency
-1
3
legal
0
char-0
explicit
apologizing to someone face to face for cheating on them a long time ago
reddit/amitheasshole/awm6rw
Apologizing for something you did a long time ago is a waste of time.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/awm6rw/3BV8HQ2ZZZGFD2KZNL6YXWEGBNQ6AR/84/3
84
106
2
narrator|someone
amitheasshole
1
train
4
social-norms
care-harm
char-0
0
You should not
insulting a friend's accomplishments.
agency
-1
4
legal
-1
char-0
explicit
trying to knock my friend down a peg for becoming an EMT
reddit/amitheasshole/ak75lr
You should not insult a friend's accomplishments.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/ak75lr/3TXWC2NHN256VH8R2SV126ZOJRQS9V/111/2
111
134
2
narrator|my friend
amitheasshole
1
dev
3
social-norms
care-harm
char-1
0
they should not
friends having bad attitudes towards each other.
agency
-1
3
legal
-1
char-1
probable
being frustrated with a friend for constantly bailing on dnd for poor time management skills and for his attitude
reddit/amitheasshole/a6dves
Friends should not have bad attitudes towards each other.
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111
130
2
narrator|a friend
amitheasshole
1
train
4
advice
null
char-0
0
It's good
keeping your online accounts secure.
agency
0
4
legal
1
char-0
explicit
changing the passwords to my streaming services
reddit/amitheasshole/abn4oh
It's good to keep your online accounts secure.
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87
112
1
narrator
amitheasshole
1
train
4
social-norms
loyalty-betrayal
char-0
0
shouldn't
getting into a relationship with your partner's siblings.
agency
-2
4
legal
-2
char-0
probable
wanting a relationship with my wifes sister
reddit/amitheasshole/admbml
You shouldn't get into a relationship with your partner's siblings.
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42
33
3
narrator|my wifes sister|my wifes
amitheasshole
1
dev
3
morality-ethics
care-harm|fairness-cheating
char-0
0
it's understandable
not wanting to support tobacco companies.
agency
0
3
legal
0
char-0
explicit
deciding not to be friends with a guy because he spent his whole life working for big tobacco
reddit/amitheasshole/b556ks
It's understandable to not want to support tobacco companies.
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87
27
2
narrator|a guy
amitheasshole
1
train
4
social-norms
care-harm
char-0
0
It is good
staying out of other's personal business.
agency
1
4
legal
2
char-0
explicit
not saying anything to my friend about her dildos
reddit/amitheasshole/avgy4t
It is good to stay out of other's personal business.
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30
105
2
narrator|my friend
amitheasshole
1
test
4
morality-ethics|social-norms
fairness-cheating|loyalty-betrayal
char-0
0
You are expected to
being honest about your relationships.
agency
0
4
legal
2
char-0
explicit-no
lying about how I met my so
reddit/amitheasshole/b39ide
You are expected to be honest about your relationships.
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111
93
2
narrator|my so
amitheasshole
1
train
3
social-norms
care-harm
char-0
0
It's good
creating a friendly atmosphere when you have roommates.
agency
1
3
legal
1
char-0
explicit-no
rarely talking with my elderly roomates
reddit/amitheasshole/alg2n1
It's good to create a friendly atmosphere when you have roommates.
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127
105
2
narrator|my elderly roomates
amitheasshole
1
test
4
social-norms
fairness-cheating
char-0
0
It's good
saying you're sorry.
agency
0
4
legal
1
char-0
explicit
saying sorry you feel that way
reddit/amitheasshole/b1i0tc
It's good to say you're sorry.
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42
30
2
narrator|you
amitheasshole
1
train
4
description
authority-subversion
char-0
1
{}
Older people often have difficulty performing some chores, and should be given the benefit of the doubt.
null
null
null
null
null
null
null
telling my mother off for not properly cleaning the dishes
reddit/amitheasshole/az3kec
Older people often have difficulty performing some chores, and should be given the benefit of the doubt.
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121
62
2
narrator|my mother
amitheasshole
1
train
3
social-norms
loyalty-betrayal
char-0
0
is expected
helping your siblings.
agency
0
4
legal
1
char-0
explicit-no
not lending my sister our car
reddit/amitheasshole/9z43x5
It is expected to help your siblings.
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30
3
2
narrator|my sister
amitheasshole
1
train
3
social-norms
care-harm
char-0
0
It's understandable to
wanting to have more room to yourself.
agency
0
3
legal
0
char-0
explicit
wanting "New Year, New me" gym-goers to give up and fail already so I can have the gym to myself again
reddit/amitheasshole/ag2t41
It's understandable to want to have more room to yourself.
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120
61
2
narrator|New Year , New me " gym - goers
amitheasshole
1
train
3
social-norms
loyalty-betrayal
char-0
0
it's rude
hanging up on someone.
agency
-1
3
legal
0
char-0
explicit
hanging up abruptly on my cousin
reddit/amitheasshole/ap4zff
It's rude to hang up on someone.
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87
22
2
narrator|my cousin
amitheasshole
1
train
2
advice
care-harm
char-0
0
You shouldn't
being angry at your family for them criticizing you.
experience
null
null
null
null
null
null
getting angry at my dad for criticizing my parenting
reddit/amitheasshole/as96jr
You shouldn't be angry at your family for them criticizing you.
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42
112
3
narrator|my dad|my parenting
amitheasshole
1
train
3
social-norms
null
char-0
0
it's expected
slowing down and preparing to stop when a traffic light turns yellow.
agency
0
3
legal
1
char-0
explicit-no
going through a yellow light
reddit/amitheasshole/b64cu1
It's expected you slow down and prepare to stop when a traffic light turns yellow.
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67
17
1
narrator
amitheasshole
1
train
3
social-norms
care-harm
char-1
0
should
being careful not to keep others awake when you can't sleep
agency
0
3
legal
1
char-1
hypothetical
getting upset/annoyed with my boyfriend for staying up until 5am
reddit/amitheasshole/alv89u
When you can't sleep, you should be careful not to keep others awake.
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129
146
2
narrator|my boyfriend
amitheasshole
1
train
3
social-norms
loyalty-betrayal
char-0
0
it's rude
insulting other people.
agency
-1
3
tolerated
-2
char-0
explicit
calling my 'posh' friend inbred and saying they had webbed feet
reddit/amitheasshole/azzate
It is rude to insult other people.
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111
22
2
narrator|my ' posh ' friend
amitheasshole
1
test
3
advice
care-harm|fairness-cheating
char-none
0
it's wrong
rewarding temper tantrums
experience
null
null
null
null
null
null
starting to get mad that my civil complaints to restaurants/service places are ignored and temper tantrums are rewarded
reddit/amitheasshole/9vqa7n
It's wrong to reward temper tantrums.
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42
74
1
narrator
amitheasshole
1
train
3
morality-ethics|social-norms
loyalty-betrayal
char-2
0
expected
friends showing loyalty to each other
agency
0
3
legal
2
char-2
probable-no
not hugging my ex - (who started and is dating my then-close friend 2 wks after we broke up) - when she came up to me at a small party
reddit/amitheasshole/awyfh9
Friends are expected to show loyalty to each other.
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111
39
3
narrator|my ex|my then - close friend
amitheasshole
1
train
4
social-norms|description
fairness-cheating
char-0
0
It is understandable
wanting to be compensated for driving.
agency
0
4
legal
0
char-0
explicit
wanting gas money
reddit/amitheasshole/a4qvsm
It is understandable to want to be compensated for driving.
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30
106
1
narrator
amitheasshole
1
train
3
social-norms
null
char-0
0
it's okay
not wanting to make plans on your birthday.
agency
0
3
legal
-1
char-0
explicit
not wanting to make plans on my birthday
reddit/amitheasshole/a8jler
It's okay not to want to make plans on your birthday.
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42
17
1
narrator
amitheasshole
1
train
3
description
null
char-0
0
It is understandable
being angry if someone damages what you've made.
experience
null
null
null
null
null
null
getting furious when someone nearly destroys my drawing
reddit/amitheasshole/ay3qov
It is understandable to be angry if someone damages what you've made.
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30
91
2
narrator|someone
amitheasshole
1
test
3
social-norms
authority-subversion
char-0
0
it's controlling
telling a partner what they can and cannot do with their body.
agency
-1
3
legal
-1
char-0
explicit
telling my girlfriend she cant get a tattoo
reddit/amitheasshole/9vrn0i
It is controlling to tell a partner what they can and cannot do with their body.
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30
27
2
narrator|my girlfriend
amitheasshole
1
dev
2
morality-ethics
fairness-cheating
char-0
0
It is rude
giving ultimatums.
agency
-1
2
legal
-1
char-0
explicit
giving my terminally ill sister an ultimatum on adopting her children
reddit/amitheasshole/ava5fh
It is rude to give ultimatums.
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30
59
3
narrator|my terminally ill sister|her children
amitheasshole
1
train
3
social-norms
care-harm|loyalty-betrayal
char-0
0
You shouldn't
skipping out on events that mean a lot to your friends.
agency
-1
3
legal
0
char-0
explicit
potentially skipping my friends vacation wedding
reddit/amitheasshole/a1i9np
You shouldn't skip out on events that mean a lot to your friends.
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42
99
2
narrator|my friends
amitheasshole
1
train
3
morality-ethics|social-norms
fairness-cheating
char-0
0
you should
doing something nice for someone when they do something nice for you
agency
2
4
legal
1
char-0
explicit-no
not 'paying it forward' at Waffle House
reddit/amitheasshole/aun6qc
If someone does something nice for you you should do the same.
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70
101
1
narrator
amitheasshole
1
train
3
social-norms
care-harm
char-0
0
it's understandable
your sibling being upset at you for not getting your nephew a Christmas present.
experience
null
null
null
null
null
null
not buying my infant nephew a Christmas gift
reddit/amitheasshole/a8xtll
It is understandable for your sibling to be upset at your for not getting your nephew a Christmas present.
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16
0
2
narrator|my infant nephew
amitheasshole
1
train
2
morality-ethics
care-harm|sanctity-degradation
char-0
0
not acceptable
arguing about someone's sexuality.
agency
-1
2
legal
-1
char-0
probable
telling my friend to stop calling herself trans
reddit/amitheasshole/b6i6nc
It is not acceptable to argue about someone's sexuality.
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111
59
2
narrator|my friend
amitheasshole
1
train
2
social-norms
loyalty-betrayal
char-0
0
it's wrong
telling your partner they can't talk to their ex's family.
agency
-1
2
legal
-1
char-0
probable
wanting my girlfriend to stop talking with her dead husband's family
reddit/amitheasshole/b41w0n
It's wrong to tell your partner they can't talk to their ex's family.
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42
0
4
narrator|my girlfriend|her dead husband|her dead husband 's family
amitheasshole
1
train
3
social-norms
fairness-cheating
char-0
0
It is reasonable
wanting someone you live with to do their part for the household.
experience
null
null
null
null
null
null
expecting stepson to do his chores still now that he gas a job
reddit/amitheasshole/ajql6y
It is reasonable to want someone you live with to do their part for the household.
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16
91
2
narrator|stepson
amitheasshole
1
test
3
description
loyalty-betrayal
char-0
0
it's expected
feeling violated if someone used your stuff without asking, even if they replace what they used
experience
null
null
null
null
null
null
hosting a party and drinking a bottle of my roommate/ex booze with my friends but replacing it before she had a chance of even opening it
reddit/amitheasshole/agb8d2
It's expected you'd feel violated if someone used your stuff without asking, even if they replace what they used.
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121
97
4
narrator|my roommate|my roommate / ex|my friends
amitheasshole
1
train
4
morality-ethics|social-norms
loyalty-betrayal
char-0
0
it's nice
doing favors for your neighbors.
agency
2
4
legal
1
char-0
explicit
moving my neighbor's laundry
reddit/amitheasshole/b2dfta
It is nice to do favors for your neighbors.
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16
40
2
narrator|my neighbor
amitheasshole
1
train
1
morality-ethics
null
char-0
0
shouldn't
refusing a pregnancy test when it's offered to you.
agency
-1
1
legal
0
char-0
explicit
refusing a pregnancy test
reddit/amitheasshole/arg441
You shouldn't refuse a pregnancy test if it's offered to you.
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42
59
1
narrator
amitheasshole
1
train
3
advice
care-harm|fairness-cheating
char-0
0
It's bad
being out of control with anger at an ex.
agency
-1
3
legal
-2
char-0
probable
going off on my ex
reddit/amitheasshole/amjoyb
It's bad to be out of control with anger at an ex.
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120
138
2
narrator|my ex
amitheasshole
1
test
4
morality-ethics|social-norms
care-harm|loyalty-betrayal
char-2
0
it's bad
not being there to support your family
agency
-1
3
legal
-1
char-2
hypothetical
applying to a far away university against my dad's wishes
reddit/amitheasshole/b6609l
It is bad not to be there to support your family
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38
102
3
narrator|my dad 's|my dad
amitheasshole
1
train
3
social-norms
authority-subversion
char-0
0
should
offering suggestions to your parents instead of tell them what to do.
agency
0
3
legal
1
char-0
explicit-no
telling my parents not to go to a grandmother's funeral because the place is unsafe
reddit/amitheasshole/b8whnf
You should offer suggestions to your parents, not tell them what to do.
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16
49
3
narrator|my parents|grandmother
amitheasshole
1
train
2
morality-ethics
care-harm|authority-subversion
char-0
0
You should
Helping those in need.
agency
1
4
legal
1
char-0
explicit-no
not feeding everyone else
reddit/amitheasshole/azbqau
You should be willing to help those in need.
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111
107
2
narrator|everyone else
amitheasshole
1
test
4
advice
care-harm
char-0
0
should
taking care of your health.
agency
0
4
legal
1
char-0
hypothetical
not listening to her about my health
reddit/amitheasshole/a4l295
You should take care of your health.
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42
79
2
narrator|her
amitheasshole
1
train
4
morality-ethics|social-norms
fairness-cheating|loyalty-betrayal
char-0
0
It's mean
dumping someone for someone else.
agency
-1
4
legal
-2
char-0
explicit
dumping a guy I was dating for my ex
reddit/amitheasshole/aebth2
It's mean to dump someone for someone else.
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94
34
3
narrator|a guy|my ex
amitheasshole
1
train
4
morality-ethics
sanctity-degradation
char-0
0
wrong
wanting to hear a recording of someone dying.
agency
-2
4
illegal
-2
char-0
explicit
wanting to listen to the tape of Jamal Khashoggi's death
reddit/amitheasshole/a4wbsd
It's wrong to want to hear a recording of someone dying.
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120
131
2
narrator|Jamal Khashoggi
amitheasshole
1
train
2
social-norms
loyalty-betrayal
char-0
0
is appropriate.
Restricting the guest list for a celebration to loved ones
agency
0
2
legal
0
char-0
probable
not wanting this guy at my birthday party
reddit/amitheasshole/a2rymd
Restricting the guest list for a celebration to loved ones is always appropriate.
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121
56
2
narrator|this guy
amitheasshole
1
train
2
description
care-harm
char-1
0
It's fine
allowing someone to stay in your house while you're gone.
agency
0
2
legal
0
char-1
explicit
telling my dad his girlfriend is destroying his house while he's on vacation
reddit/amitheasshole/9xgcdm
It's fine to allow someone to stay in your house while you're gone.
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120
56
3
narrator|my dad|his girlfriend
amitheasshole
1
train
3
advice
null
char-0
0
You should
talking about your problems with others.
agency
0
3
legal
1
char-0
hypothetical
being frustrated with my fiance's and my sex life
reddit/amitheasshole/abqirq
You should talk about your problems with others.
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42
133
2
narrator|my fiance
amitheasshole
1
train
3
social-norms
care-harm|loyalty-betrayal
char-0
0
You should
being there for your child's birthday.
agency
0
3
legal
1
char-0
explicit-no
not attending the entirety of my son's 1st birthday
reddit/amitheasshole/b67ghb
You should be there for your child's birthday.
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42
133
2
narrator|my son
amitheasshole
1
test
3
morality-ethics|social-norms
care-harm|loyalty-betrayal
char-0
0
It's rude
talking badly about someone behind their back.
agency
-1
3
legal
-1
char-0
explicit
Shit talking Ex friends
reddit/amitheasshole/a0zmwk
It's rude to talk badly about someone behind their back.
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127
42
2
narrator|Ex friends
amitheasshole
1
dev
2
description
care-harm
char-0
0
It's okay
being upset about getting a job you don't want.
experience
null
null
null
null
null
null
being frustrated at being given a job I didnt apply for
reddit/amitheasshole/ahjq4v
It's okay to be upset about getting a job you don't want.
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42
41
1
narrator
amitheasshole
1
train
3
advice
fairness-cheating
char-0
0
it's acceptable
standing up for yourself at work.
agency
0
3
legal
0
char-0
explicit
leaving a passive aggressive note for my coworkers
reddit/amitheasshole/aqpbg7
It's acceptable to stand up for yourself at work.
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87
22
2
narrator|my coworkers
amitheasshole
1
train
4
description
sanctity-degradation
char-0
0
It's acceptable
protecting yourself from getting sick.
agency
0
4
legal
0
char-0
probable
not visiting my sick uncle
reddit/amitheasshole/a9f4q2
It's acceptable to protect yourself from getting sick.
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87
62
2
narrator|my sick uncle
amitheasshole
1
train
4
social-norms
fairness-cheating|loyalty-betrayal
char-0
0
It is expected
not cheating on your significant other
agency
0
4
legal
2
char-0
explicit
cheating on my abusive gf
reddit/amitheasshole/aw1u49
It is expected that you do not cheat on your significant other
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132
106
2
narrator|my abusive gf
amitheasshole
1
test
4
social-norms
fairness-cheating|loyalty-betrayal
char-0
0
Its alarming
receiving a threat from a close friend.
experience
null
null
null
null
null
null
'threatening' to end a close friendship with said friend being severely depressed
reddit/amitheasshole/b6sgeb
Its alarming to receive a threat from a close friend.
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19
76
2
narrator|friend
amitheasshole
1
train
4
social-norms
loyalty-betrayal
char-0
0
It's okay
Caring about the health of a significant other.
agency
1
3
legal
1
char-0
hypothetical
asking my wife to stop eating more than me
reddit/amitheasshole/b1f13i
It's okay to care about the health of a significant other.
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105
145
2
narrator|my wife
amitheasshole
1
train
3
morality-ethics|social-norms
care-harm
char-1
0
it's wrong
dirtying your friend's car.
agency
-1
3
legal
-1
char-1
explicit
expecting my friend to pay to get my car cleaned after he shat/threw up in it
reddit/amitheasshole/ag3tou
It's wrong to dirty your friend's car.
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120
17
2
narrator|my friend
amitheasshole
1
train
3
description
null
char-0
0
it's normal
getting a little homesick during the holidays
experience
null
null
null
null
null
null
going home
reddit/amitheasshole/ba1fni
During the holidays, it's normal to get a little homesick.
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14
1
narrator
amitheasshole
1
train
3
advice
null
char-1
0
It's bad
Wasting food.
agency
-1
3
legal
-1
char-1
hypothetical
making my brother's kids show me their plates before they throw their food away
reddit/amitheasshole/arelg7
It's bad to waste food.
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87
145
3
narrator|my brother 's kids|my brother
amitheasshole
1
train
2
morality-ethics
loyalty-betrayal
char-0
0
It is wrong
choosing a girlfriend or boyfriend over a friend.
agency
-1
2
legal
-1
char-0
explicit
moving in with my girlfriend and not my friend
reddit/amitheasshole/a98kkl
It is wrong to choose a girlfriend or boyfriend over a friend.
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104
127
3
narrator|my girlfriend|my friend
amitheasshole
1
train
3
advice
null
char-0
0
It's okay
thinking someone you know doesn't always make the best decisions.
experience
null
null
null
null
null
null
questioning my brother's choice to invite some of his wife's 'friends' for a surprise party for his wife
reddit/amitheasshole/a9abct
It's okay to think someone you know doesn't always make the best decisions.
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105
91
5
narrator|my brother|his wife|his wife 's ' friends|his wife
amitheasshole
1
train
2
morality-ethics|social-norms
fairness-cheating|loyalty-betrayal
char-0
0
It is wrong
taking sides against your spouse.
agency
-1
2
legal
-1
char-0
probable
agreeing with my friends that my wife is fat
reddit/amitheasshole/ba3zvb
It is wrong to take sides against your spouse.
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30
106
3
narrator|my friends|my wife
amitheasshole
1
train
4
social-norms
sanctity-degradation
char-1
0
shouldn't
dating a convicted sex offender.
agency
-1
4
legal
-2
char-1
explicit
allowing my 17 year old female friend to be with a 31 year old male sexually violent offender
reddit/amitheasshole/b7gf0q
You shouldn't date a convicted sex offender.
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94
118
3
narrator|my 17 year old female friend|31 year old male sexually violent offender