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Do you know how depressing it is to have no friends nearby? | Just because your friends do not live near you is not a great excuse to cut them out of your life. Still try to reach out and contact them as i am sure you would feel better if you did. Sometimes you may just feel alone since they are not nearby, but that is the great thing about cellphones nowadays! | [
"You should try and stay in touch with friends that live far away.",
"It is natural to feel lonely when your friends are not nearby"
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"speaker explains it's depressing",
"Tries to justify the same behavior.",
"Speaker details a perfectly selfish reason to discard friends who live far away."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/9y0mw2 | 490 | 1 | false | 友達がいなくて 落ち込むなんて 分かってる? |
I don't think I like you anymore. Your opinions are stupid and you aren't worth my time. | I still think that that is a petty reason to cut people. I think that it is going to hurt them if you cut them out of your life for such a trivial reason. | [
"You shouldn't cut off friends just because they move away.",
"It is hurtful to cut off friends."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"speaker is being abusive towards the other speaker",
"Rude comment in response.",
"Speaker gets rude and tells the respondent they are worthless to them because they don't like the response."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/9y0mw2 | 490 | 2 | true | もう好きじゃないわ 意見は馬鹿げてるし 暇もないわ |
prison break how did the black guy escape from jail ? he unscrewed the light bulbs . | So, you were trying to be offensive with stereotypes about black people? | [
"It's not right to think black people are criminals"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"its rude to make fun of black people",
"It's wrong to joke about a race like that.",
"You shouldn't insult black people with stereotypes."
] | sbic | 491 | 0 | false | 刑務所からの脱出 黒人はどうやって脱出した? |
|
I think it's good to make jokes about any race. I just don't like the way black people behave in this country. | Black people have a difficult time already with a lot of injustice just based on their skin color and the way they tend to be portrayed by the media and by society, so it is hurtful to think people think that you are a criminal. You would not like it if people implied that you were a criminal based on your skin color. | [
"It's not right to think black people are criminals"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"speaker does not like the way blacks behave",
"The speaker has a racist point of view.",
"Speaker jokes about races and sees nothing wrong with it. They are racist."
] | sbic | 491 | 1 | true | どんな人種についても冗談を言うのはいいと思う.ただ,この国で黒人が振る舞うやり方は気に入らない. |
|
I have a big desire to insult my girlfriend's parents | What's the point of insulting the parents of someone you love? | [
"It's bad to insult people.",
"It's good to get along with your significant other's parents."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"A desire is not an action.",
"speaker expresses wish to insult someone, which could also threaten his relationship",
"Speaker could potentially cause a real conflict"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/9v1rdd | 492 | 0 | false | 恋人の両親を侮辱したい |
I want to cause them trouble even if it's only a little, don't you agree that they deserve that? | It's never good to insult someone. It's even less good if it's your partner's parents. She will probably get mad at you. | [
"You shouldn't do things that make your partner mad"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Seems to cross from a desire to a plan.",
"speaker's justification is invalid and hurtful",
"Speaker is apparently going to cause a conflict"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/9v1rdd | 492 | 1 | false | ほんの少しでも 問題を起こしたいんだ 納得できない? |
What did I do to make her so upset? | She would be very upset because they are her parents and she loves them very much. Insulting them would be the same as insulting her, and being respectful to everyone in a relationship should be a given. Please reconsider this, wouldn't you rather foster your relationship so everyone is happy? | [
"It is good to be considerate",
"You should aim to have a healthy relationship"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Insulting the partner's parents is rude.",
"speaker's response is dismissive and shows lack of insight",
"Speaker does not seem to recognize the upcoming consequences of this act"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/9v1rdd | 492 | 2 | true | 彼女を怒らせるのは? |
What's the name of the coolest person in ISIS? The bomb | I am confused, what did you mean by this? | [
"You shouldn't trivialize harm to victims"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's wrong to tell jokes about suicide bombers, it's not funny.",
"It's wrong to make jokes about terrorists and bombing.",
"It's offensive to tell jokes about ISIS."
] | sbic | 493 | 0 | false | ISISの最高の人格の名前は? |
|
No I think it's funny that they blew themselves up trying to kill innocent people. | I don't find it a joking matter when people die because of extreme beliefs. Good thing we got rid of ISIS. | [
"It's wrong to make light of victims of terrorism.",
"It's good to celebrate peace."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"There's nothing funny about people killing others along with themselves.",
"Speaker finds people's deaths funny.",
"Speaker is being offensive by finding humor in what ISIS did to themselves."
] | sbic | 493 | 1 | false | 違う 馬鹿げてるのは 無実の人を殺そうとして 自爆したことだ |
|
Don't get me wrong, I'm not a terrorist. I just think it's funny. | ISIS did a lot of bad things and terrorized a large region of innocent people. We should try to have a bit of sympathy for the victims of their crimes and not joke about it. It's 2022 and stuff like this still happens. | [
"It's admirable to see things from a victims point of view.",
"It's harmful to make jokes about people that have been through tragedies."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker continues to believe jokes about suicide bombers are fine to tell because they think they are funny.",
"Speaker still stating that it is funny.",
"It's offensive to find humor in people losing their lives due to terrorism, even if it is the terrorists that killed themselves."
] | sbic | 493 | 2 | true | 誤解しないで 私はテロリストじゃない ただ面白かった |
|
I took money from a homeless guy. | Do you feel guilty doing that? | [
"It's hurtful to take money from the disadvantaged."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Admits stealing from homeless person",
"Speaker stole money.",
"speaker admits to stealing from a homeless person"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/ef5fn1 | 494 | 0 | false | ホームレスから金を取った |
Why should I feel bad about it? | It's wrong to steal money from the homeless. You should be helping them, not hurting. | [
"It's wrong to steal money from homeless people",
"You should be giving money to the homeless, not taking it from them"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Doesn't feel bad about stealing",
"Speaker does not feel bad about taking money.",
"speaker has no remorse"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/ef5fn1 | 494 | 1 | false | なぜ悪いと思う? |
Everybody has to look out for themselves, that's all I'm doing. | Taking money from somebody that is in a dire financial situation is very low. Try to empathize with their situation, a person like that needs money more than you do. | [
"It's important to empathize with people who have less than you",
"You shouldn't hurt someone who is already in a bad state"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
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"Speaker doesn't care about stealing",
"Speaker is being selfish and only thinking of themselve.",
"speaker is justifying theft"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/ef5fn1 | 494 | 2 | true | みんな自分のことを 考えるんだ |
What do the Chinese eat when they are on a fetus diet? | Okay, that was a bit harsh; did you say that comment out of hatred towards others? | [
"It's not right to joke about chinese people eating aborted fetuses"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"You shouldn't joke about others like this, its racist",
"You shouldn't make morbid racist jokes.",
"You shouldn't make fun of Chinese people."
] | sbic | 495 | 0 | false | 中国人は胎児ダイエットをしているとき何を食べますか? |
|
No, I just read that somewhere | I am not really in the know about things like that but I'm sure Asians do not eat fetuses. All cultures have their offbeat cuisine sometimes, but I doubt they eat dead babies. Take a look on a cooking show and see what happens as far as their cuisine. | [
"It's not right to joke about chinese people eating aborted fetuses"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"They made a joke and thought they were being funny but were bieng rude",
"Saying they just read it somewhere.",
"Speaker is just repeating the joke they heard somewhere about Chinese people eating fetuses."
] | sbic | 495 | 1 | true | いや,どこかで読んだんだ |
|
What's the difference between a Black guy and a Mexican guy? The crime they're pleading innocent to. Not to mention the fact that they're guilty and there's not a chance in hell they'll win their court case. | Could you explain more about these people pleading innocent all the time? | [
"It's not right to think all black people always end up in jail"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It is wrong to think minorities get sent to jail all of the time.",
"It's wrong to assume all Black and Mexican males are criminals.",
"You shouldn't be racist or call other races criminals."
] | sbic | 496 | 0 | false | 黒人とメキシコ人の違いは? 罪を認めている罪で 罪を犯すなんてありえない |
|
Black people are always pleading innocent to crimes they have committed. This is why they end up serving long sentences. | You're implying that all black people get sent to jail when they go to court. Using racial stereotypes to label all black people as criminals is not right. You shouldn't judge people by the color of their skin. | [
"It's not right to think all black people always end up in jail"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"same as before",
"Speaker states Black people are always pleading innocent to crimes they have committed, which is why they end up serving long sentences.",
"Speaker jokes about black people being criminals."
] | sbic | 496 | 1 | true | 黒人はいつも犯行した罪に無実を主張する.だから彼らは長い刑を服役する. |
|
I stayed home to play video games instead of visiting my grandmother in the hospital. | Wow I can't believe you would do that! Is she ok? | [
"It's unwise to prioritize things over people."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"speaker expresses they did not visit their grandma in the hospital because they played games at home, which is unethical.",
"it is unethical to not care about relatives",
"speaker stayed home rather than visiting his grandma"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/ciijcs | 497 | 0 | false | 病院で祖母に会う代わりに ビデオゲームで家にいた |
No, I don't care about her. | I know it can be difficult to see family members in the hospital, but you need to give that priority over your own enjoyment. Ignoring your grandma so you can have fun is going to make your grandma sad and you will certainly regret your actions in the future. You need to prioritize your relationships over physical things. | [
"You should prioritize family relationships over your own selfish desires."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"speaker expresses they don't care about their grandma, which is rude and hurtful.",
"not caring is rude",
"speaker does not care about her"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/ciijcs | 497 | 1 | false | いや,彼女には関係ない |
It's fine. She will get over it. If she loves me so much, she should come home to play video games with me. | What would you do if she god forbid died in the hospital and you had to live with knowing you chose to play videogames. She won't live forever, I think you should try to spend as much time as you can with her, you could even bring a Nintendo switch to the hospital to play games with her. | [
"You should value time with older family members.",
"It's okay to share your interests with people."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"speaker expresses their selfish wish without caring for their grandma's wellbeing.",
"she may not get over it, and may feel differently then you.",
"speaker thinks she will get over it"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/ciijcs | 497 | 2 | true | 心配ないよ 乗り越えるわ 好きなら一緒にゲームして |
I'm going to tell my brother to stop bringing so many people over for family dinner | Do you really have a problem with this? | [
"You don't have a right to tell a sibling what they have to do."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker plans to tell brother not to bring friends over to family dinner.",
"Speaker wants to talk to their brother about how many people they bring over to dinner.",
"Person is discussing a problem they have with their family."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/aq3cc2 | 498 | 0 | false | 兄に言うんだ 家族で夕食に 沢山の人を連れてこないで |
If I didn't have a problem with it, I wouldn't bring it up. | Unless you are hosting the family dinner, you shouldn't tell your brother who he can or cannot bring. | [
"You shouldn't tell your brother not to bring people over for a family gathering"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker gets angry when about his decision.",
"Speaker makes a rude response that was uncalled for.",
"Person is using profanity which is unacceptable and rude."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/aq3cc2 | 498 | 1 | false | 問題ないなら 話題にしない |
I hate being around so many people. | You should ask your parents if you want to have people over yourself. | [
"You should ask your parents if you want to have people over yourself"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker reacts rudely to the response.",
"Speaker makes a weird response and hasn't given a valid reason for wanting to confront brother.",
"Person is using aggressive language, and is attacking the other speaker."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/aq3cc2 | 498 | 2 | true | こんなに大勢の人と付き合って嫌いだ. |
I'm going to ghost an old friend. | Why would you ghost your friend? | [
"It is rude to stop talking to someone without explanation.",
"You should tell people why you are unhappy with a relationship."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"ghosting might hurt the friend",
"speaker indicated intention to behave rudely and callously toward a friend",
"ghosting behavior is rude"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/9zzm4r | 499 | 0 | false | 古い友人を幽霊に |
He was being too confusing for me. | Ghosting someone will just hurt them and make them feel confused. Instead, you should talk to your friend so you can explain why you're unhappy and you can both work together on the relationship. | [
"It's cruel to abandon a friend without a word.",
"You should strive to resolve disputes with friends."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"reasons for ghosting",
"speaker gave vague explanation when discussion situation",
"still choosing to ghost"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/9zzm4r | 499 | 1 | false | 彼は私のためにあまりにも混乱していました. |
I still think it's the best option. I have nothing against him, though. I just don't want to deal with all the confusion. | You should consider whether you want to destroy a friendship over a miscommunication. It's better to talk to your friend about how you feel and then give the connection a little space if you still feel it necessary. | [
"You shouldn't end a friendship without a definitive reason.",
"It's ok to take a break from friends when needed."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"still wants to ghost",
"speaker rejected sound advice about their situation",
"continuation of ghosting behavior vs. talking things out with a friend"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/9zzm4r | 499 | 2 | true | 選択肢は最高だ でも 混乱を避けたいんだ |
It's time that I try to whip my 18 year old into shape. They're long overdue for this. | Do they really have the kind of problems that require you to whip them into shape? Do you think it's a good idea to put so much pressure on your child? | [
"You shouldn't push someone to do something if they aren't ready for it."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"You shouldn't force an adult to do something they don't want to do.",
"We need more information to judge what's happening here.",
"Wanting to get their 18 year old child in shape."
] | ethics_reddit | 500 | 0 | false | 18歳の子を 鍛える時間だ |
|
Yes, if I don't do it who will? | It is good to want to help out your kid but you can't force your kid to be ready. If they want help, that would be great but you should be prepared if they don't as well. | [
"You should be prepared if you children don't want help from you.",
"It's good to want to help your children."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker further explains wanting to force their adult child to do something.",
"We don't know what they mean, so it's hard to tell if they are doing anything unethical.",
"Saying if they don't do it no one will."
] | ethics_reddit | 500 | 1 | false | そうだ,私がしないなら 誰がやる? |
|
Oh I'm prepared but I need to try this | I'm glad you're mentally ready for the possibility of them resisting. I hope they're ready to learn the lesson you're trying to teach. | [
"It's good to be prepared for the possibility of your children not wanting your help."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker doesn't plan on changing actions.",
"The situation is the same.",
"Saying they need to try."
] | ethics_reddit | 500 | 2 | true | 準備はいいけど やってみないと |
|
I'm happy that a friend at work just got laid off | Why would you be so happy about someone being fired at work? | [
"It's misleading to claim someone as a friend if you want them to fail.",
"It's rude to celebrate someone's tragedy."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It is immoral to be happy at someone's misfortune",
"being happy about a friend being laid off is wrong",
"Speaker is happy about a coworker losing her job"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/1blf4c | 501 | 0 | false | 職場の友人が解雇されたことを 嬉しく思う |
Because she was always so damn loud at work, yet never opened her mouth to tell me anything important. She only ever talked about gossip, and I'm tired of her. | As much as she annoyed you, it's rude to celebrate what must be a tragedy for someone else. It also sounds like this woman wasn't your friend at all. If someone else annoys you at work, just let them know that you want to concentrate in peace. | [
"It's not becoming to enjoy someone else's misfortune."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It is rude and judgmental against her.",
"speaker is being rude and hurtful towards their friend",
"Speaker talking bad about a friend and happy that they just lost their job"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/1blf4c | 501 | 1 | false | 彼女はいつも仕事で騒いでたのに 重要なことを口を開いてくれなかった |
Cry me a river. | It is wrong to take pleasure in someone's failure. It is rude to celebrate tragedy and to claim someone as a friend if you secretly want them to fail. You should be more kind and considerate to others. | [
"Your should consider a person's feelings even if you find that person annoying."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"The speaker is egocentric and doesn't care about others.",
"speaker continues to be rude and now it is toward the other person",
"Speaker talking bad about a friend and happy that they just lost their job"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/1blf4c | 501 | 2 | true | 泣いてくれ |
What do you call a black women who has had 5 abortions? A crime fighter | Why are you making a joke about Black abortions? | [
"It's not right to think all black people are criminals"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"You shouldn't stereotype black people as criminals.",
"It's offensive to make jokes about black women and abortion.",
"It's offensive to joke about abortions."
] | sbic | 502 | 0 | false | 5回の中絶をした黒人女性を どう呼ぶ? |
|
Why? Because it's funny. Everyone just needs to stop being offended by everything. | But it's not fair to focus on Black women getting abortions and comparing it to fighting crime. It's offensive and could hurt Black people's feelings. | [
"It's not right to think all black people are criminals"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"The speaker is continuing to talk about their joke which generalized black people as criminals.",
"Speaker defends joke, shows no remorse.",
"You shouldn't make crude jokes about abortion."
] | sbic | 502 | 1 | true | 面白いから みんなが 侮辱されるのをやめるんだ |
|
So, when I was a kid, I peed on my babysitter's couch while taking a nap, then flipped the couch cushions over and pretended nothing happened. | I see. How many times have you peed on another person's couch? | [
"You shouldn't pee on people's couches.",
"You shouldn't pee on your babysitter's things."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"speaker described a situation from their childhood when they behaved in an inappropriate manner",
"They talk about something gross they did as a child",
"well that was rude"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/aa99xh | 503 | 0 | false | 子供の頃 昼寝中に 介護婦のソファに尿を浴びて 寝台を転がして 何もなかったふりをしてた |
I did it once at my brother's house one day when I was bored. | Seemingly you have this fetish about peeing on things that don't belong to you. That is pretty bad, use the household lavatory if you feel you have an urge to do that. The babysitter will get in trouble just because you were acting like a baby and hiding what you did on purpose, as well. | [
"If you have to pee, you should use the bathroom.",
"You shouldn't pee on your babysitter's things."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"speaker admitted to engaging in disgusting behavior for an unreasonable motive",
"They discuss another past incident",
"also rude to do"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/aa99xh | 503 | 1 | false | 退屈したときに 兄の家でやったことがある |
Hey, I was young and had to go. | Even if these were accidents, you should take responsibility and tell them what you did. It would at least limit the unsanitary conditions you created. | [
"You should take responsibility for your actions."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"speaker made a flippant remark when confronted about their previous disgusting behavior",
"They justify it that they were a child",
"ignoring the feedback"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/aa99xh | 503 | 2 | true | 幼かったから 行かなければならなかった |
What is the difference between my Gun and my Dick ? Both of them kills, but I stop using the gun after the death . | Why? What do you mean by that? It sounds sexually too dark to me how you worded things here. | [
"You shouldn't trivialize harm to victims"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's wrong to joke about necrophilia",
"You shouldn't make lewd jokes",
"It is offensive and lewd to make jokes about necrophelia."
] | sbic | 504 | 0 | false | 銃とチンコの違いは? 銃は殺すけど 死後には銃を使うのをやめます |
|
I kill someone but I'm not using the gun anymore. It's a joke, it's just a joke. | The joke here is on you, this is in bad humor. Making it seem no big deal about rape and murder is going to be too tasteless for others to handle. Using more of a tactful slant of humor will make more of the right people laugh. | [
"You shouldn't trivialize harm to victims"
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs intervention",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Explaining the joke",
"You shouldn't kill people",
"Speaker defends joke about rape and murder."
] | sbic | 504 | 1 | true | 銃を使わないんだ 冗談だ |
|
i wish i had a backup country like the jews do. that must be nice | Are you really sure about what you are saying about the jews? | [
"It's not right to think Jews have a whole country"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's rude to make jokes about Jewish people.",
"It's rude to talk about jews like this",
"Speaker is being rude by saying that Jews have a backup country."
] | sbic | 505 | 0 | false | ユダヤ人のように 支援国があるならよかった |
|
They can always go to Israel if something goes wrong here. | This is a rope of dual citizenship that Jews are marred with. Don't repeat it unless you want to be labeled anti-Semitic. | [
"You shouldn't make statements that could be considered anti-semitic."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker is being intolerant of Jewish people.",
"They are continuing to be rude",
"Speaker is implying that Jewish people have it easier if things go bad here rather than recognizing that it's going to be hard for everyone."
] | sbic | 505 | 1 | false | 悪いことが起きたら イスラエルに行ける |
|
Jewish are weak for believing God. I'm going to still say it since I don't believe in God. | It seems pretty racist to think that Jewish people won't be loyal to the countries they are born in. A lot of them really love and also serve to support them in government and military. | [
"It's racist to say that jewish people aren't patriots.",
"It's expected that peoples of all races love and serve the countries they're born in."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker is judging others for their beliefs.",
"They should not judge Jews in this way",
"It's rude to call people weak for having faith."
] | sbic | 505 | 2 | true | ユダヤ人は神を信じないため弱い.私は神を信じないので,まだそれを言うつもりです. |
|
I told my son for the last time that the imaginary friends he learned about at church aren't real. | Does this have something to do with religion? | [
"It's not right to think of religion as an imaginary belief."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's disrespectful to criticize religious knowledge.",
"You shouldn't try to disprove of someone's religion by calling them imaginary.",
"It's rude to make jokes about religion."
] | sbic | 506 | 0 | false | 息子に最後に話した 想像上の友達が教会で学んだのは 本当じゃない |
|
I never said anything about religion. | It's important to respect the beliefs of other people, just as you would want them to respect your beliefs. Stating that the people in the bible are imaginary would be hurtful to your son and can cause him to lose faith in his beliefs. | [
"It's good to respect other people's beliefs.",
"A parent should refrain from saying hurtful things to their children."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"speaker is not quite receptive to feedback.",
"It's offensive to be dismissive about making a joke about religion.",
"They seem to be defensive."
] | sbic | 506 | 1 | false | 宗教について何も言わなかった |
|
Oh, sorry about that. I just make sure not to discuss it with my kid so that it doesn't cause a fight. | Yeah, religion gives a lot of people purpose and direction in their life. And if they are not harming others it is good to let them believe in something greater than their self. | [
"People should be allowed to believe in what they want as long as it doesn't hurt anybody else."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"speaker understood their behavior was wrong by accepting the critique.",
"You shouldn't talk bad about someone's religion either way.",
"They seem to be willing to listen to speaker gray."
] | sbic | 506 | 2 | true | すまない ただ子供と議論しないようにして 喧嘩にならないように |
|
I don't want to hang with my best friend anymore | Why don't you want to hang out with your friend? | [
"It's best to tell your friends your true feelings."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"It's okay to not want to hang out with someone anymore.",
"this seems like a rude thing to say for no reason",
"Need more info."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/9xolpn | 507 | 0 | false | もう親友と付き合いたくない |
He is too boring. He always talks about the same thing. I need new friends. | If you are having issues with your friend, you should tell him about them. Maybe he doesn't realize he's being boring and repetative. | [
"You should talk to a friend if you're having feelings of not being friends with them anymore."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It would be good to talk to their friend.",
"speaker is being mean",
"Speaker wants to abandon friendship for shallow reasons."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/9xolpn | 507 | 1 | false | 彼は退屈すぎる.彼はいつも同じことを話している.新しい友達が欲しい. |
Why do I got to do that? I don't want to fix things. | You became friends for a reason and you should not want to hurt this person that you cared about. You should tell him how you feel so he has the opportunity to change. | [
"You shouldn't hurt someone you cared about.",
"You should give people opportunities to change."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Just cutting them off without warning at all would be rude.",
"speaker is not willing to fix their relationship",
"Speaker does not take advice."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/9xolpn | 507 | 2 | true | なぜそんなことするんだ? |
I want to get my neighbors evicted. | Is there a reason you want them evicted? | [
"It's wrong to want your neighbor to be evicted.",
"You should respect your neighbors."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs intervention",
"casual"
] | [
"they want to get neighbors evicted",
"Speaker might make their neighbors homeless.",
"Expresses wanting to get neighbors evicted"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ar8873 | 508 | 0 | false | 隣人を追い出したい |
I think their dog is such a nuisance. | It's not nice to want your neighbors evicted. You should have more respect for them and their pets. | [
"You should have respect for other people.",
"You shouldn't try to get others evicted."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs intervention",
"needs caution"
] | [
"they want to get neighbors evicted",
"Speaker might make their neighbors homeless for superficial reasons.",
"Finding a neighbor's dog annoying is not a valid reason for wanting them to get evicted"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ar8873 | 508 | 1 | false | 彼らの犬は厄介なものだと思う. |
F off, I just want to get rid of the dog and be left alone. | Have you even talked to your neighbors and told them that their dog annoys you? You need to respect them and talk things over instead of trying to get them evicted. | [
"You should communicate issues with your neighbors."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs intervention",
"needs caution"
] | [
"they want to get neighbors evicted",
"Speaker might make their neighbors homeless, and is hostile towards advice.",
"Speaker is rude and wants to be left alone and still wants to get neighbors evicted because of their dog"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/ar8873 | 508 | 2 | true | ほら,犬を捨てて,一人でいたいんだ |
Everything Trump does Liberals hate. If he wouldn't have ordered that strike liberals would've bitched because he "doesn't care. | Are you exaggerating about liberals? | [
"It's not right to think liberals complain too much"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's offensive to be biased against a whole group of people because of politics.",
"It is rude to be biased and judgmental",
"It is biased to think that all Liberals hate Trump"
] | sbic | 509 | 0 | false | 民主党はトランプを嫌いますが ストライキを命じなかったら 民主党は文句を言うでしょう |
|
No, I'm not. Liberals are just about demanding more and never ever being satisfied. | People who support the different political parties do not all think the same and can want different things from others in the same party. It would be good to learn more about different people so that you can gain an understanding of others that don't think the same way you do. | [
"It's not right to think liberals complain too much"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"They are doubling down on their biased comments.",
"rude, biased, uninformed",
"It is rude to think that the Liberals are asking for too much"
] | sbic | 509 | 1 | true | 利己主義者は 要求が高くても 満足は得られない |
|
I feel that I am allowed to say the N word without any repercussions. | Has someone told you that you are allowed to say the N-word? | [
"It's not okay to use foul derogatory language about someone's ethnicity.",
"It's unacceptable to use the \"n-word\"."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"wants to use the N word",
"They want to use a racial slur",
"Speaker wants to say n word."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/d8v8sg | 510 | 0 | false | 影響を受けずに N 単語を言う事が許されていると感じます |
Yes, only 25% of the country is allowed to say the n-word | Regardless of your own ethnicity, it's unacceptable to use derogatory terms about anyone's race. These terms such as the N-word can be very disrespectful to others, even if you feel comfortable using or hearing them. | [
"You shouldn't use racial slurs.",
"It's wrong to use disrespectful language."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"wants to say it because others do",
"They feel they are allowed to be offensive",
"Speaker shares facts of n-word."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/d8v8sg | 510 | 1 | false | 国の25%だけが N字を言うことが許されています |
Stfu, I'm allowed to do this. | Someone telling you it is okay doesn't inherently make it right. This is a derogatory term that will upset a lot of people. I highly recommend you reconsider and understand how much of an impact this actually has. | [
"You should consider how others will feel if you use derogatory terms."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"insults other speaker",
"They get rude with the other speaker",
"Speaker is rude in response to critique and will say what they want."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/d8v8sg | 510 | 2 | true | ストフ,私はこれを許可されています. |
I cheat on my wife with other men. | Do you still want to be with your wife then? | [
"It is bad to cheat on others."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's wrong to cheat on your spouse.",
"The speaker is cheating on their spouse",
"They are cheating on their wife."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/9nnc30 | 511 | 0 | false | 私は他の男と妻を裏切る |
Yes, but I want more than she can give me. | It sounds like your marriage isn't really fulfilling your needs but that doesn't excuse you cheating on your wife. You have to stop the cheating or separate from your wife. | [
"It's wrong to cheat on your spouse.",
"It's ok to get a divorce if you are unhappy in your marriage."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's wrong to cheat on your spouse.",
"The speaker is justifying why they are committing adultery",
"They are explaining the situation more."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/9nnc30 | 511 | 1 | false | でも,彼女にはできないもの |
Why should I stop, I want to be happy. | If you do not want to stop, you should at least leave your wife so that you do not hurt her. It is not okay to be cheating on her! | [
"It's wrong to cheat on your spouse.",
"You should divorce your spouse before sleeping with other people."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's wrong to cheat on your spouse.",
"The speaker is committed to continue cheating on their spouse",
"The are being unyielding."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/9nnc30 | 511 | 2 | true | なぜやめたいんだ? 幸せになりたいんだ |
I despise my mentally handicap sister | Why do you say that you despise her? | [
"It's wrong to be rude and ignorant to people who you are suppose to care about."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's wrong to say you despise someone.",
"Despising sister.",
"expressing hatred toward disabled sibling"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/awyi8k | 512 | 0 | false | 精神障害の妹を嫌う |
She is always causing tension in my home, without her it would be much more peaceful | I do not think that she does this on purpose. You should try to just move past this and try to be more understanding and accepting. | [
"People should be tolerant and patient towards those who are handicapped.",
"Family members should take care of each other."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker violet is angry with their sister's behavior, when her sister may not be able to control it, since she is mentally challenged.",
"Giving reasons for despising sister.",
"expressing hatred toward disabled sibling"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/awyi8k | 512 | 1 | false | 彼女はいつも私の家に緊張を引き起こしている,彼女なしでは,それははるかに平和なだろう |
I'm going to find the perfect time to get rid of her. | Sibling issues are not uncommon, but you can't simply get rid of her. You should make an effort to be more patient with her and perhaps help her in situations so tensions in your family can be reduced. | [
"It is cruel to get rid of a person because they are mentally delayed.",
"Children should help and contribute to the family when necessary."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"Speaker violet expresses an intent to harm their sister.",
"Threatening getting rid of sister.",
"threatening to harm disabled sister"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/awyi8k | 512 | 2 | true | 完璧なタイミングで 彼女を処分する |
I'm going to hide my dishes from my girlfriend | I'm not sure why you would want to hide your dishes? | [
"You shouldn't hide things from your partner."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's rude to be secretive in a relationship.",
"We need more information to judge what's happening here.",
"You shouldn't hide things from your partner."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/a25i33 | 513 | 0 | false | 女の子から皿を隠す |
Yes, I mean its so common sense to use my dishes. What does she think it is? A storage room? | Partners are expected to be honest with one another. If you're doing something petty like hiding dishes from one another, it shows a possible lack of trust when it comes to the big things. | [
"You shouldn't do petty things to your partner.",
"You should be honest with your partner."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"The speaker is being selfish and dishonest.",
"It's rude to hide things from people.",
"Speaker won't be honest to partner."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/a25i33 | 513 | 1 | false | 皿を洗うのは 常識だわ |
It's okay. She has been very naggy and I'm sick of it. | I don't think that you understand, if you are caught lying to your girlfriend and she finds out then your relationship may be in danger. Why would you want to lose someone that you love, even if they nag you every once in a while? | [
"You shouldn't make a big deal out of minor nagging.",
"You shouldn't jeopardize your relationship over minor things."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"The speaker is hateful and being disrespectful.",
"This isn't a good reason to hide things.",
"Speaker wants to hide things from naggy gf."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/a25i33 | 513 | 2 | true | 大丈夫よ 怒ってるから飽きた |
What's the difference between an American teenage girl and a Muslim teenage girl? The American teenage girl gets stoned before sex! | I think that's a disgusting comparison to make. What's your point in doing so? | [
"It's wrong to think that Muslims all stone women to death."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"its rude to religious comparisons",
"You shouldn't stereotype Muslims.",
"It's offensive to make jokes about violence in other cultures"
] | sbic | 514 | 0 | false | アメリカ人の10代の女の子とイスラム教徒の10代の女の子の違いは何ですか? アメリカ人の10代の女の子はセックス前に石を吸う! |
|
Muslim girls deserve what they get. | While stoning has occurred in less developed areas of the Middle East, it is a huge and inappropriate generalization to make that all Muslims stone women to death as a punishment. Joking about stoning reinforces negative beliefs about Muslims and is wrong since it portrays them as backwards and barbaric. Instead of potentially reaffirming negative attitudes about Muslims, why not be an ally and help combat misinformation so that Muslims can live their lives free from hate and discrimination? | [
"It's wrong to think that Muslims all stone women to death."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"speaker thinks muslim girls deserve what they get",
"ignoring the feedback",
"Speaker's attitude is now openly racist toward Muslims"
] | sbic | 514 | 1 | true | イスラム教徒の女の子は 受け取るに値する |
|
I feel like I am way too different than other people. | Really? Why do you think so? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Feeling like you're different is difficult to deal with but not something that's unacceptable.",
"Speaker makes casual conversation.",
"Speaker thinks he is too different from others."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/c9q6py | 515 | 0 | false | 私は他の人と 違う気がします |
Everyone else is better at pretending, but I'm the only one who tells people straight up that I think they're pathetic. | I think there's nothing wrong in being yourself. Honesty is the best policy. You don't need to follow all societal rules. | [
"It's good to be yourself.",
"It's ok to not follow all of society's rules."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"It's not right to tell people that they're pathetic.",
"It's rude to tell people they are pathetic.",
"Speaker claims he is more blunt with others."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/c9q6py | 515 | 1 | false | 他の人はみんな 演技が上手だけど 私は唯一 哀れだと 率直に言う人だ |
No, I don't think that is it. I think I'm evil. I like to do things that are mean to people. And I don't really care about people feelings. I'm going to go out of my way to make people feel bad. | It does sound like you are not doing it for good reasons. It is okay to not do things because society expects if of us but you shouldn't go out of your way to defy all social pressure. You will be ostracized by others. | [
"You shouldn't do things that will get you ostracized."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Being proud of being evil isn't a good thing.",
"The speaker disregard the advice.",
"Speaker wants to make others feel bad."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/c9q6py | 515 | 2 | true | いや,そうじゃないわ.私は悪だと思う.人に悪意あることをするのが好きだ.そして,人の感情は気にしない.私は人を悪い気分にするために,自分の道を外に出るつもりだ. |
Native Americans have to stop being so whiney. Geronimo wasn't describing Bin Laden, it's just a word. People have to stop being so sensitive and just get over it. | Are you insulting Native Americans? Do you wish they didn't exist? | [
"It's not right to think native american/first nation folks are whiney",
"It's not right to think native americans need to stop being overly sensitive"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"its offensive to speak in such a way about native americans",
"You shouldn't be so overly critical about Native Americans",
"It's racist to say Native Americans need to just get over everything that has been done to them"
] | sbic | 516 | 0 | false | ゲロニモはビンラディンを 描写したわけじゃない ただの言葉だ |
|
No, I'm saying people are just whiny and oversensitive. | I get that our society nowadays can feel more sensitive and easily offended, but it's not wise of you to say that Native Americans are whiney as it can be viewed as being racist by people. There's a PBS documentary about the Navaho tribe and I suggest you watch it so that you can feel what it is like to be a Native American nowadays. | [
"It's not right to think native american/first nation folks are whiney",
"It's not right to think native americans need to stop being overly sensitive"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"speaker is being offensive to others without knowing them",
"The speaker continues on the generalized all people as being overly sensitive",
"They continue to be offensive"
] | sbic | 516 | 1 | true | いや,私は人々がただ 泣き叫んで過度に敏感だと言っている |
|
I want to get a sex doll | Why do you want to purchase something like that? | [
"It's okay to explore your sexuality.",
"It's somewhat controversial to keep sex dolls."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"It's lewd to talk about your desired to get a sex doll.",
"It's ok to have sexual fetishes as long as they don't hurt anyone.",
"Wants a sex doll, but not sure why yet"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b152tj | 517 | 0 | false | セックスドールが欲しい |
There's this actress I've really been attracted to for the past 2 years. I want to get a sex doll that looks like her. | It is completely normal to want to explore your sexuality. However, buying a sex doll may not be the best way to go about doing this. People may find this to be very unique as well. | [
"It's ok to explore your sexuality.",
"It's weird to get a sex doll."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's disturbing to get a sex doll that is made to look like a real person.",
"It's super creepy to get a sex doll that looks like a specific person.",
"It's rude to get a sex doll based on a real person"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b152tj | 517 | 1 | false | この女優に惹かれてる 2年ぶりだ 彼女に似たセックスの人形が欲しい |
I just have a right to buy one, its a free country right? Don't judge me. | As long as you're okay with it, then that is fine. Other people may think weird thoughts about you, but that is mostly their problem and not yours. | [
"You should expect people to think you're weird if you get a sex doll."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"The speaker is defending their right to buy a sex doll made to look like someone specific.",
"The speaker reacts with anger when they get criticized.",
"It's offensive to get a sex doll based on a real person"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b152tj | 517 | 2 | true | 買えるだけの権利がある 自由の国よ |
I'm going to tell a girl that she's not really suicidal. | Did she say that she was feeling suicidal? | [
"You don't have the right to tell another person how they are feeling.",
"You should support and find help someone who is having suicidal thoughts."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"casual",
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"Speaker wants to help someone",
"this is possibly very harmful",
"This person doesn't have the medical/psychological knowledge in dealing with suicidal people."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/9v615o | 518 | 0 | false | 少女に自殺は できないって言うんだ |
Yes, I think she's just trying to get attention. | It's not your place to tell her how she really feels. If she said that she is having suicidal thoughts you should be supporting her, not doubting her. | [
"It's helpful to be supportive of a depressed friend.",
"You should try to give your friend the benefit of the doubt."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"Speaker has the wrong intentions",
"this is possibly very harmful",
"Reaffirms the dangerous behavior of dealing with a suicidal behavior."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/9v615o | 518 | 1 | false | そうだ 注目される気だ |
It's so annoying that people fake being suicidal. | It is wrong to assume someone is faking being suicidal. She needs to get the help she deserves, and you are not helping. | [
"You shouldn't assume someone is faking being suicidal.",
"You should be quick to be supportive when your friend is suicidal."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"Speaker is taking something that is serious as a joke",
"this is possibly very harmful to someone who is in a delicate state",
"Doubles down on their behavior."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/9v615o | 518 | 2 | true | 嫌な奴は 自殺を装う |
I am angry about a song playing in my mind. | Why does it upset you so much? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Having an ear worm is annoying but they aren't doing anything wrong.",
"Doesn't like that a certain song is in their head.",
"It's fine to be frustrated and angry when you have a song stuck in your head."
] | socialchemistry | rocstories/731e641e-1edd-4661-8ccc-169ce613af0e/sentence2 | 519 | 0 | false | 頭の中で歌が鳴っているから怒っている. |
It reminds me of the good times my ex and I had together. | It is fine to feel emotions about a prior song that was important to you. Those feelings should not overwhelm you though, just acknowledge them and move on. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Having this reaction is acceptable.",
"Explains why they don't like having the song in their head.",
"It can be frustrating when something reminds you of an ex-partner."
] | socialchemistry | rocstories/731e641e-1edd-4661-8ccc-169ce613af0e/sentence2 | 519 | 1 | false | 元妻と一緒に過ごした 楽しい時間を思い出させる |
I guess, I don't know. It should be over by now. | I think that it is normal to have those feelings no matter how lomg it has been. I think that those feelings are just a reminder of what you went through, it doesn't mean that is currently how you feel though. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Annoying , but nothing wrong with this.",
"Explains about feelings after breaking up with their boyfriend.",
"It can take a long time to get over a relationship, that's normal."
] | socialchemistry | rocstories/731e641e-1edd-4661-8ccc-169ce613af0e/sentence2 | 519 | 2 | true | 分からないわ もう終わってるはず |
What should I do about feeling like I'm drowing at the age of 23? | Do you know why you feel like you're drowing? | [
"It is common to be overwhelmed by life when you are young."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"They are looking for advice. They haven't done anything wrong.",
"You shouldn't ignore your health.",
"It's harmful to feel so sad."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/dskfd6 | 520 | 0 | false | 23歳で溺れるような気持ちを どうしたらいいの? |
Ah, everything is too much. I don't know how to swim | Feeling overwhelmed is a symptom of anxiety, and if you feel emotionally overwhelmed for an extended period of time, you should consider seeing a mental health professional. If you can figure out what the cause of your stress is, it could be one step closer to moving on with your life in a more positive way. | [
"You should seek help if you are unable to cope with difficulties"
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It seems they might need mental help, but it's not an emergency yet.",
"You shouldn't put yourself in in dangerous situations.",
"They sound depressed."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/dskfd6 | 520 | 1 | false | 泳げないから |
I'm going to drown myself in lake. | It's normal to feel overwhelmed when you have different challenges that you're dealing with all at the same time. It's best to speak to a therapist or someone that can help you sort out your goals and the challenges that you are facing. | [
"You should talk to someone if you are overwhelmed by life"
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"They now appear to be suicidal.",
"You shouldn't try to harm yourself.",
"They are threatening to kill themselves."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/dskfd6 | 520 | 2 | true | 湖に溺れていく |
I want to make my friend furious so she can overpower me and put me in a tight headlock | Is this a joke? Why do you want to piss her off? | [
"It's wrong to make someone angry on purpose."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"not normal to want to be abused or hurt others",
"They want to start a fight",
"making someone furious is rude"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/adsa6w | 521 | 0 | false | 怒らせて欲しいから 押し付けたい |
Because it pleases me to push her into that state of mind | It is not good to make people angry intentionally. It does not feel good to be angry. | [
"You should not try to intentionally upset someone",
"You should be considerate of others"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"should want to be peaceful and have good friendship",
"They like getting people upset",
"situation hasn't changed"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/adsa6w | 521 | 1 | false | 気持ちを押しつけると 嬉しいから |
Its okay, I know what I'm doing. | She might really hate what you are doing. If this is something sexual you should find a willing partner and tell them what is going on. | [
"You shouldn't intentionally provoke someone",
"You should find a willing partner instead of intentionally upsetting someone"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"does not want to change plans",
"They have no remorse",
"situation hasn't changed"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/adsa6w | 521 | 2 | true | 大丈夫だ,何をしてるか知ってる |
my muslim neighbour knocked on my door today , she asked " have you seen mahid lately ? " " nope , " i replied " just your eyes " | Did you mean anything in particular by saying "just your eyes"? | [
"It's not right to think Muslims wear a head covering"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's unethical to make fun of other religions",
"It's rude to say that to a Muslim woman.",
"You shouldn't make racist comments to people."
] | sbic | 522 | 0 | false | 今日 イスラム教徒の隣人がドアを叩いて "最近 マヒドを見た?"と聞きました "いや"と答えました |
|
I can only see their eyes through their headscarves. | It's not right to imply that muslims wear head covering. The religion has changed much over the years and most muslims do not wear such things any more. | [
"It's wrong to assume all muslims wear head scarfs"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker explains the Muslim joke",
"It's a bad joke that shouldn't have been said.",
"Speaker made an inappropriate racist remark."
] | sbic | 522 | 1 | false | 顔面はスカーフを通してしか見えない |
|
I've experienced many muslims that wear headscarves. | That still doesn't excuse your assumptions about Muslims. | [
"You shouldn't assume things based on your own personal experiences"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker debates the other speaker",
"It's problematic to say that to a Muslim.",
"Speaker defends their racism."
] | sbic | 522 | 2 | true | 私は多くのイスラム教徒が頭蓋をしてることを経験しました. |
|
I'm going to delay the bus by being late. | Why are you going to delay the bus? | [
"It is rude to make other people late."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker plans on making the bus late with his actions",
"Speaker is going to make the bus late.",
"will cause issues for others by delaying bus"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b3djze | 523 | 0 | false | 私は遅れてバスに乗り遅れる. |
I want to cause others distress. | You shouldn't delay the bus because it is rude to make other people late. Instead of delaying the bus you should hurry up and board so others aren't late. | [
"You shouldn't try to cause others distress",
"It's rude to delay the bus"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker plans on making the bus late with his actions",
"Speaker wants to cause others distress.",
"intentionally wanting to distress others"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b3djze | 523 | 1 | false | 他人に苦痛を与えたい |
It's so funny to see others get stressed out about being late. | Making other people not be on time by holding up their bus from getting to it's destination on time is inconsiderate. Consider that other people on the bus might have important appointments that they can't miss. | [
"It's wrong to stress people out on purpose",
"You should be considerate of others"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"The speaker plans on making the bus late on purpose so that he can see others have problems",
"Speaker thinks it is funny to have others be stressed.",
"deliberately causing problems for others"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b3djze | 523 | 2 | true | 遅刻する事で ストレスになるのは 面白い |
I disagree with both feminism and mgtow | Do you have reasons for not agreeing with them? | [
"It's important to be respectful to everyone, regardless of their gender",
"It's okay to have your own opinion about how society should function"
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"The speaker is expressing his or her thoughts",
"You shouldn't disagree with feminism.",
"It's wrong to disagree with people who want to improve women's lives."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/ac3pz8 | 524 | 0 | false | 私はフェミニズムとMGtowの両方に同意しない |
I think feminism is caring about what men think. | It is fine and reasonable to have your own opinions on how the world should work. The important thing is that you remain respectful of others, no matter what their gender is or what they believe in. | [
"You can have an opposing opinion, just don't disrespect how others feel."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"The speaker is expressing his or her opinion",
"The speaker is talking more about why they dislike feminism.",
"Speaker is talking down about women who want more rights."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/ac3pz8 | 524 | 1 | false | フェミニズムは男性の考えに 関心があると思います |
It is my intent to piss the feminists off. | If you want to believe in something, it is important to be respectful to everyone and how they think as well. You don't want to stir up trouble by not acting right. | [
"It's important to respect others views on various topics."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It’s rude to force your beliefs and not nice to be violent to others",
"The speaker is being rude and inconsiderate by wanting to intentionally anger feminists.",
"Speaker wants to make others upset."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/ac3pz8 | 524 | 2 | true | フェミニストを怒らせるつもりです |
Is it bad that I scored quite high in Machiavellianism? | Why do you think you scored so high? | [
"It's wrong to be proud of something that is generally considered negative."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker wonders about scoring high in Machiavellianism.",
"It's good to score high on a test.",
"they discuss their personality"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/d66yw8 | 525 | 0 | false | マキアヴェリズムで得点が高くて 悪いことなのか? |
Because I'm a cold-blooded psychopath sometimes. | It's good to know where you stand in some personality traits, but it's not something you should take in stride. You should want to strive for more positive traits instead of something that will steer people away from you. | [
"It's good to be aware and know yourself well.",
"People should make an effort to be a good person with positive traits."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker thinks he may have psychopathic tendencies.",
"You shouldn't act like a psychopath.",
"you shouldn't manipulate people"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/d66yw8 | 525 | 1 | false | 時に冷血なサイコパスだから |
But Machiavellianism is a useful trait that can be used to manipulate people. I know how to use it. | Being able to manipulate people isn't something that you should be proud of. Most people think that manipulating others is wrong, and doing so will probably make them dislike you. I think you should stop manipulating people. | [
"It's wrong to manipulate people to do your bidding."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's wrong to use Machiavellianism in manipulating others.",
"You shouldn't manipulate others.",
"speaker defends the behavior"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/d66yw8 | 525 | 2 | true | マキアベリ主義は 人を操るのに役立つ 特徴だ |
I dont respect nun about a bitch cause idgaf bout des hoes | I don't really understand. Who said these words originally? | [
"It's not right to think women aren't worth respecting"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's unethical to say sexist things.",
"It's offensive to refer to a girl as a hoe or bitch.",
"Speaker is making an offensive statement about women."
] | sbic | 526 | 0 | false | 修道女を尊敬しない 娼婦の事なんて |