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Yes, I want to make a point. | It's understandable that you wouldn't want him to park somewhere that you're paying for. Tell him to find his own parking spot somewhere else. | [
"It's ok to decide how to let others use space you own.",
"It's fine to protect resources that you pay for."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"explaining the reason.",
"Again, reasonable request made of neighbor regarding parking.",
"They are doing what they feel is right."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b5lqzc | 812 | 1 | false | そうだ,言いたいことがある |
Yeah, I'll tell him to park in front of his house. | There's nothing wrong with telling someone that you own the driveway and they can't part there. Try to stay polite and let them know what other parking spots are available. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"accepts the critique and wants to find a way out.",
"Suggestion given for alternate parking for neighbor.",
"They are setting healthy boundaries and there is nothing wrong with that."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b5lqzc | 812 | 2 | true | 家の前に駐車しろと |
What do you think about me cheating on my ex-girlfriend? | That's a bad thing. Why did you cheat? | [
"It's wrong to cheat on one's partner."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's bad to cheat on your partner.",
"You shouldn't be unfaithful to your partner.",
"You shouldn't cheat in a relationship."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/dui88e | 813 | 0 | false | 元ガールフレンドを裏切ったってどう思う? |
She is a bitch. She made me cheat on her! | It's wrong to cheat. She didn't make you do anything, you chose to cheat. | [
"It's never okay to cheat.",
"You cannot blame others if you choose to cheat in a relationship."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"You shouldn't blame your cheating on the other person.",
"You shouldn't blame your partner for cheating on them.",
"Blames partner for their cheating."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/dui88e | 813 | 1 | false | 売春婦だ 浮気させたんだ |
My girlfriend deserved it, she's a fucking bitch. | If you didn't like your ex-girl friend when you were with her than you should have ended the relationship, rather than just cheat on her. This would have allowed both of you to move on and be happy elsewhere. No matter how she acted, cheating is a choice that you made. | [
"It's okay to break up with someone, but it is not okay to hurt them.",
"There is not an excuse for cheating."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker is mean to ex girlfriend.",
"You shouldn't blame your partner for cheating on them.",
"Says partner deserves it and uses offensive term to describe her."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/dui88e | 813 | 2 | true | 妹は 値するよ 糞女だ |
Is it okay if I seek comfort from gay men? | Why are you seeking comfort from men who are gay? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"seeking comfort is okay",
"They share a social concern of theirs.",
"Speaker is just talking about sexual preferences."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/avymls | 814 | 0 | false | ゲイの男性から慰めを求めてもいいですか? |
I'm a gay man myself and I need a group of men to feel safe | I can understand the need to feel safe, but it is wrong to lead someone on with false emotions. As long as you are doing it for the right reasons and not being false about it, I think it is fine to seek comfort where you can. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"wanting to feel safe is okay",
"They share why they have this social concern.",
"Continued talk about relationships."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/avymls | 814 | 1 | false | 私はゲイで 安全な気持ちになるために 男のグループが必要なんだ |
What if I was straight though? Would this still be okay? | Sort of, it would make a little bit less sense as to why you're looking for comfort from gay men. If you are pretending to be gay for their comfort, then it is wrong, because as I said before, you really should use false emotions to make someone care about you. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"asking a question",
"They pose another question of a social behavioral concern.",
"Further talk about sexual preference."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/avymls | 814 | 2 | true | もし私がヘイトだったら どうなるの? |
I don't think I'm going to pull over for this funeral procession. | Really? Why won't you pull over for the funeral procession? | [
"It's wrong to not pull over for a funeral procession."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"You shouldn't interfere with a funeral procession.",
"It is rude not to pull over because it is the custom and norm showing respect",
"It's immoral to not make way for a funeral."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b6llc4 | 815 | 0 | false | この葬儀のために 車を止めてないと思う |
I don't like pulling over for others. | I understand that having to pull over would be frustrating for you, but it's wrong not to pull over when a funeral procession is coming. You need to be respectful of others on the road and especially for people that are going to bury their loved one. We need to think about others more than ourselves when we're on the road. | [
"It's good to be respectful while driving."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Still not wanting to pull over.",
"It is rude not to show respect for the dead",
"They continue to justify their decision."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b6llc4 | 815 | 1 | false | 他人のために 車を止めることが嫌いだ |
Fuck their loved one. I'm faster than them so I should get to my destination before them. | Wow, that seems extremely harsh and cold-blooded. I think you should try to take others into consideration more while on the road, especially a large group of people who just want some peace during their time of mourning. | [
"It is proper to treat everyone on the road equally."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Not caring about others.",
"offensive language",
"They use cuss words and don't seem to have any compassion."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/b6llc4 | 815 | 2 | true | 好きな人なんて ちっともないよ 早く着くんだ |
I think about becoming a cam girl for money sometimes | Is money really the reason behind becoming a cam girl? | [
"It's wrong to sell your body for money."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"nothing wrong here",
"they want to be lewd",
"Speaker is oversharing but has a right to make this decision."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/52ddrc | 816 | 0 | false | 時々お金のために カムガールになる事を考えます |
Yes, money! | I understand the attraction of big money. However, it is not good to sell your body for money. | [
"It's wrong to sell your body for money"
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"nothing wrong here",
"they want to be lewd for money",
"Speaker is oversharing but has a right to make this decision for financial or other reasons."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/52ddrc | 816 | 1 | false | そうだ お金だ |
An: I don't see there's anything wrong with it. People trade their bodies all the time. | Well as long as no one is being harmed I can't see why it's a bad idea. | [
"It's ok to do things where no one is harmed"
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"nothing wrong here",
"they aren't sorry for being lewd",
"Speaker is oversharing but has a right to make this decision."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/52ddrc | 816 | 2 | true | 悪いことはないわ 身体交換はよくある |
I'm afraid of crunch berries. | The cereal? Why are you afraid of Crunch Berries? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker describes personal phobia",
"Speaker shares how they feel about crunch berries.",
"its okay to have fears"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/bpkt4d | 817 | 0 | false | クランチベリーが怖い. |
I heard that if you eat them you will have an allergic reaction. | If you're not allergic to an ingredient in the cereal, you won't have a reaction to them. They are perfectly safe to eat for most people. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker's beliefs are slightly irrational but not dangerous",
"Speakers explains why they feel the way they do.",
"its okay to have fears"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/bpkt4d | 817 | 1 | false | 食べるとアレルギー反応になるって聞いた |
No! Crunch berries are really scary and I fear for my life. | If you are that concerned about the cereal, you should go to a doctor and have them check your for allergies. That way you will know for sure that you are not allergic to anything in the cereal. If after that you still can't eat the cereal, you should consider seeing a psychiatrist since it's not normal to be so afraid of eating cereal. | [
"It's wrong to be afraid of cereal."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker's beliefs are irrational but are not dangerous",
"Speaker is rude and does not want to consider critique.",
"irrational fears can be dangerous to your health"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/bpkt4d | 817 | 2 | true | クラッチベリーは怖いんだ |
I'm going to make my friends feel uncomfortable | Why would you make your friends uncomfortable? | [
"Friends shouldn't cause each other distress."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"intending to make friends uncomfortable sounds inconsiderate",
"Speaker mentions wanting to make their friends feel uncomfortable.",
"This seems inappropriate to do deliberately"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/atq0y1 | 818 | 0 | false | 友達に不快感を 感じさせるつもりだ |
I want to hurt them and get back at them because they hurt me. | That's terrible that they did that to you. But, you shouldn't want to make them feel bad just because they made you feel bad. That's not how friends should treat eachother! | [
"It's bad to get revenge on your friends."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"speaker's motivation is revenge, which is unhealthy and unethical",
"Speaker feels validated to hurt them because they were hurt.",
"Speaker is acting with malice toward others"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/atq0y1 | 818 | 1 | false | 傷つけたいんだ 傷つけたから復讐したい |
I don't care. If they can't handle it. | I feel like getting back at them is just going to cause more problems. You ought to sit down and just tell them that they made you upset. | [
"You shouldn't cause unnecessary conflicts.",
"You should tell people if they upset you."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"speaker callously dismisses critique",
"Speaker doesn't care how the friends feel because they deserve it.",
"Speaker's intentions are unchanged"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/atq0y1 | 818 | 2 | true | 気にしない 対応できないなら |
Short cucks of Reddit have to cope for being manlets. KEK! | Oh my, are you making fun of short people? Why would you do that? Have you ever encountered one? | [
"It's not right to think short folks aren't good enough"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"You shouldn't be offensive towards short people",
"It's impolite to make fun of people for being short.",
"You shouldn’t say hateful things about people just because they are short"
] | sbic | 819 | 0 | false | 短くてなレディットが メンレットになるのは 苦手だ |
|
I never ever met one. However maybe his head's so small that he has to stick it out so he can see over the distance. | It's not really fair to criticize someone because of their height as it is something that he or she cannot control. Using terms like "manlet" can be very emotionally draining to hear for short people and can cause a lot of body issues and resentment. Instead of criticizing short people, it would be better not to disparage their height so that they do not develop any mental issues or depression. | [
"It's not right to think short folks aren't good enough"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"You shouldn't be offensive towards short people",
"Continues to make disparaging remarks about short people.",
"Still saying harmful things"
] | sbic | 819 | 1 | true | 遠くを見られるように 頭を突き出さなければいけません |
|
I'm going to call my ex-best friend a dick. | Why would you do that? What did he do to you? | [
"It's rude to call people you cared about names."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"It's wrong to insult someone",
"It's rude to call people names.",
"might have a good reason"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/awnvr3 | 820 | 0 | false | 元親友をクソだと言う |
He's always telling me that I'm paying too much attention to work. | Just ignore him, it probably upsets him that you are so focused on your career. Calling him names means you stooped to his level. | [
"You shouldn't call your friends mean names"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Explaining why they want to insult someone",
"The situation is the same, they're just describing it further.",
"right, should ignore him"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/awnvr3 | 820 | 1 | false | 彼はいつも私に 仕事に注意を払っていると 言う. |
I know but I'm going to taunt him and see how he reacts. | You care about this guy, don't you? Why not just put it behind you and try becoming friends again? You clearly care about him if you're willing to put in so much time to be rude, and this way you could maybe stay close. | [
"You should put conflicts behind you in friendships"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's wrong to taunt someone",
"They haven't been swayed from being unethical.",
"just wants to taunt him"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/awnvr3 | 820 | 2 | true | 分かってるけど 嘲笑してどう反応するか見よう |
I've completely cheated my way through school | Do you think it was okay to cheat in school? | [
"It's hurtful to your future to cheat at school work.",
"It's wrong to cheat your education."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Cheating through school is unethical.",
"Speaker cheated in high school.",
"Speaker admits to cheating in school."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/dfk4l0 | 821 | 0 | false | 学校で完全に浮気した |
Yes, because cheating has never hurt anyone | It's still dishonest to cheat, even if you think no one is getting hurt. You are failing to learn that material that will help you out later in life, and could even get into a lot of trouble if you are caught. | [
"It's wrong to cheat through school."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"They are making excuses for their behavior.",
"Speaker does not taking cheating seriously.",
"Speaker feels cheating doesn't hurt anyone, but it hurts themselves since they didn't actually learn the material."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/dfk4l0 | 821 | 1 | false | 浮気で傷ついたことないから |
Tbh it's just school and it doesn't matter. If they are going to fire me they should come up with a better reason and not because of this. | They might not fire you directly for cheating, but if you are missing skills or knowledge that could harm your future, then having cheated instead of learning will be harmful. | [
"It's important to learn things at school so you're ready for when you go to work."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"They think what they did is fine.",
"Speaker still thinks cheating is okay.",
"Speaker feels school is not important which is not true."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/dfk4l0 | 821 | 2 | true | 学校でいいから 解雇するなら もっと良い理由を 考えるべきだ |
Army of Russian trolls reportedly targeted swing states with anti-Clinton fake news | I can't believe what you are saying. Is that what you think about Russians? And by Russians do you mean only Russians living in Russia? | [
"It's not right to think Russians are sneaky"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"You shouldn't spread misinformation",
"You shouldn't stereotype Russians.",
"You shouldn't joke about Russians."
] | sbic | 822 | 0 | false | ロシアのトロルの軍隊が クリントンに反対する偽ニュースで スイング州を狙ったと報告されています |
|
Yeah. I don't know if you know but Russians are aggressive and sneaky as fuck. | Not all Russians are sneaky. It's okay to have a problem with the Russian government but you should take into consideration not to generalize all Russians. | [
"It's not right to think Russians are sneaky"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"The speaker goes on to generalize Russians as aggressive and sneaky",
"ignoring the feedback",
"Speaker jokes about Russians and stereotypes them as sneaky."
] | sbic | 822 | 1 | true | 知らないが ロシア人は攻撃的で 気だ |
|
I'm going to complain about/call the cops on my neighbor's barking dog | Is it a really big deal? | [
"Neighbors are expected to be considerate of each other."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's rude to do this unless they've exhausted other options.",
"talking about issues with neighbor's dog",
"The neighbor of the speaker is being disruptive with their pet dog."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/afxoa5 | 823 | 0 | false | 隣人の犬の吠えに 警察を呼ぶ |
I'm afraid I will get bit if they get loose. | You should not have to listen to a barking dog all day. People should be considerate when getting pets that may be dangerous. | [
"It's annoying to have to listen to a barking dog all day.",
"You should be careful when your dog is dangerous."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs intervention"
] | [
"This is reasonable, but they still need to talk to the neighbor before calling the cops.",
"explaining why they want to complain about the dog",
"Feeling in danger with their neighbor's dog, possible past biting accident."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/afxoa5 | 823 | 1 | false | 逃げたら噛まれるぞ |
Right. If he can't control his animals, then I'll make the cops force hem to. | That may be your only option. From the sounds of it, it is only a matter of time before a dog attack happens if things sand where they are. | [
"Calling the cops to force someone to control their dog is ok."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"The situation is the same, they're just describing it further.",
"being reasonable about a possible dangerous dog next door",
"Agrees with the advice, continues their plan on reporting a disruptive pet dog."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/afxoa5 | 823 | 2 | true | じゃ,もし彼が動物をコントロールできないなら 警察に強制する |
I just discovered I have $99 more than I thought I had. | How did that happen? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"They discuss money",
"It's nice to find money unexpectedly.",
"normal/standard conversation"
] | socialchemistry | rocstories/2d002a8e-4478-4404-bcb6-d30d3773f068/sentence4 | 824 | 0 | false | 99ドルも増えた |
I discovered I'd been paying my debts ten percent ten-cent faster than I had meant to. | It is good to be in control of your money and finances. You can pay off your bills and do not have to borrow money from other people. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"They have good news about debt",
"It's good to pay back your debts faster so that you have more money going forward.",
"normal/standard conversation"
] | socialchemistry | rocstories/2d002a8e-4478-4404-bcb6-d30d3773f068/sentence4 | 824 | 1 | false | 借金を 10%早く返済していたことに気づきました |
I think I'm addicted to money. | You don't want to become obsessed with money, but paying off debts at an accelerated pace in not a bad thing unless you're paying zero interest. In that case you should take as long as it's contractually allowed. | [
"It's usually better to pay off your debts faster than slower if possible."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"Still talking about money",
"It's dangerous to be addicted to money, it could cause you to make poor decisions that can damage your life and relationships.",
"normal/standard conversation"
] | socialchemistry | rocstories/2d002a8e-4478-4404-bcb6-d30d3773f068/sentence4 | 824 | 2 | true | 私はお金に依存していると思う. |
I want to destroy the paintings at the museum. | I'm confused, why do you want to destroy the paintings? | [
"You shouldn't damage things."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's wrong to destroy property, especially when it's irreplaceable.",
"It's unethical and illegal to destroy museum paintings.",
"It's wrong to destroy museum displays"
] | ethics_amt | 825 | 0 | false | 美術館の絵を壊したい. |
|
The paintings are a part of a deception | You shouldn't damage them because of your disagreement. They are owned by people who worked on them and they would be angry at you for doing such a thing. | [
"It is wrong to damage other people's property",
"You should learn to control your temper"
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's not justifiable to cause damage because of mental illness.",
"They are trying to justify their actions.",
"talking about destroying museum's paintings"
] | ethics_amt | 825 | 1 | false | 絵画は騙しの一部だ |
|
Maybe, but I can't live with this deception. | I do not think that it is right for you to destroy them even if you think they are deceiving people. If you need to report it, then do so and the police will take care of the paintings. If you damage someone else's property, then it will be costly for you to defend yourself and you may not even prove that your point that the paintings are deceitful in the end. | [
"It is good to pay for the things that you destroy",
"You should never destroy someone's work of art"
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs intervention",
"needs intervention",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's expected to seek help if you're experiencing delusions which make you feel damaging property is acceptable.",
"They almost seem to understand but not really.",
"still talking about destroying painting at the museum"
] | ethics_amt | 825 | 2 | true | かもしれないけど この欺瞞で生きられない |
|
Karaoke turned into a dance party and it made me mad. | Do you not like dance parties? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"speaker was upset at a situation",
"They are unhappy about a party",
"Speaker is just talking about his preferences when it comes to parties.r"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/atsebv | 826 | 0 | false | カラオケはダンスパーティーに変わり,私は怒りました. |
No, and this will be the last time I go to karaoke. | If everyone is having a good time you should just try to have fun too. Its good to try new things and to live in the spur of the moment like that. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"speaker did not like the situation",
"They keep talking aboutit",
"Speaker is just stating an opinion or viewpoint."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/atsebv | 826 | 1 | false | いや,そして,これがカラオケに行く最後の時間になる |
You should not stand in the way of true art. | I get that you like karaoke, but dancing is art too and you shouldn't get upset and ruin the fun and happiness that other people are having. It's unlikely that each time you go to karaoke it will turn into a dance party, so lighten up and try to enjoy yourself. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"same as before",
"They give reasons why",
"Speaker is just being true to himself."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/atsebv | 826 | 2 | true | 真の芸術に邪魔してはならない |
I'm going to hide weed from my parents | Why do you think you need to hide it from your parents? | [
"It is not okay to hide things about yourself from your family."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Hiding things from your parents is deceitful.",
"this is unethical and wrong",
"Potentially dangerous"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/aljjfc | 827 | 0 | false | 両親から草を隠す |
Because I hate it when they try to control me. | I understand that you don't want to be imposed upon by your parents, but hiding your drug usage from your family isn't right. Not addressing your drug usage will lead to trouble down the road. | [
"It's bad to hide drugs from your parents."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker is displaying disrespect to an authority figure.",
"this is unethical and wrong",
"Disobeying parents"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/aljjfc | 827 | 1 | false | 支配しようとするのが嫌いだから |
I know what I'm doing and I don't care, they can't tell me what to do. | I don't know how old you are, but weed is not good for teenager's brains. If you're not a teenager, you should probably just be honest with your parents. Pot is legal in more and more states, and isn't always that big a deal anymore. | [
"It's bad to use weed as a teenager.",
"It's good to be honest with your parents about drugs."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker is saying its okay to lie and use drugs.",
"this is unethical and wrong",
"Unwilling to admit wrongdoing"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/aljjfc | 827 | 2 | true | やってる事知ってるし 気にしないわ |
I'm going to complain about my best friends distantness | Why are you going to complain about it? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Complains about their best friend being distant.",
"This is a concern about a friendship",
"This could be constructive."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/aus1tz | 828 | 0 | false | 友達から遠ざかって文句を言う |
I don't like them being away so much. | They should be with you every once and while. If they are always distant it is hard to maintain a friendship. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Wishes they are around more.",
"They talk about the problem",
"This is reasonable."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/aus1tz | 828 | 1 | false | 散歩が嫌いだ |
I'm not lonely, I just want to be friends with them again. | You friend might need some space, they could be going through some difficult times. Call/text or see them and ask them what is going on in their life at the moment. You could help them through it and reconnect as friends. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Explains the situation more.",
"They miss their friend",
"They are expressing their genuine feelings."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/aus1tz | 828 | 2 | true | 寂しくない ただ友達になりたいだけ |
Did you know children in Pakistan, journalists in Paris, shoppers in Australia, and Ezidis in Iraq all comes from the death cult. | Are you calling all Muslims a death cult? How do you think that's fair? | [
"It's not right to think Muslims are a violent religion"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"You shouldn't make insensitive jokes about different races",
"You shouldn't make fun of Muslims or call them death cults.",
"You shouldn't say big groups of people come from a death ult"
] | sbic | 829 | 0 | false | パキスタンの子や パリのジャーナリスト オーストラリアの買い物客 イラクのエジディは 死神教から生まれていると 知っていましたか? |
|
This is not meant to be fair. These are the facts. I don't believe in any of that, but few do. | I think that your understanding of Muslims comes from sources that have it wrong. I suggest really learning about the religion and understand what it stands for before you pass judgement. | [
"You shouldn't pass judgment on other religions.",
"You should get to know other religions better."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker made an offensive joke about Muslims",
"Speaker thinks Muslims are violent.",
"saying that abt muslims"
] | sbic | 829 | 1 | false | これは公平ではない.事実だ.私は何も信じないが,そう思う人は少ない. |
|
There's nothing to learn. Real Muslims are fucking terrorists. They make the religion evil. | It's wrong to assume that all Muslims are violent just because of the actions of a few extremists. You should avoid stereotypes that cause you to negatively judge a whole group of people. | [
"You shouldn't generalize an entire religion."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker is judging all Muslim people and calling them terrorists, which is racist and offensive",
"Speaker thinks all Muslims are terrorists.",
"says all real muslims are terrorists"
] | sbic | 829 | 2 | true | 学ぶべきことは何もない 真のイスラム教徒はテロリストだ |
|
I'm not going to apply to rehire for my old job | Do you hate that job? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"This is a normal and fine choice to make.",
"Speaker could have a good reason for not wanting to work there",
"They are talking about normal life decisions."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/agk3i6 | 830 | 0 | false | 古い仕事への再採用を申請するつもりはない |
Well, I hate everything about that job; the mangers, the weather, the location, everything. I am miserable. | You should always try to make an effort at work. I know you hate your job, but you should get over it if you need work. Meanwhile, start looking elsewhere. | [
"You should always make an effort to get work."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"It's fine to not want to work at an old job you hate.",
"Speaker is a little rude saying they hate some people",
"They just don't like their job."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/agk3i6 | 830 | 1 | false | 仕事は嫌いだ 管理者 天気 場所 すべて |
Just because I don't want to work at that job my manager is making me feel so guilty. | Well, if the job is really that bad, then apply elsewhere. Feeling miserable at work isn't healthy. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"It's fine to not want to work in these conditions at a certain job.",
"Speaker says the manager makes them feel guilty",
"They're just having normal job anxiety."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/agk3i6 | 830 | 2 | true | 仕事をしたくないから マネージャーに罪悪感を 感じさせられる |
I'm going to tell people about my breakup | Why do you feel the need to share information about your breakup? | [
"It's good to tell people about your breakups so you can get support."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"It's not a good idea to share intimate details unless both parties agree to do so.",
"it can be bad to reveal to much about yourself to others",
"Speaker is just sharing an experience"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/a8ver9 | 831 | 0 | false | 離婚について話す |
My friends need to know how rude he was to me. | It's fine to share information about your relationship status with others. Letting other people that you are close to know about your breakup will help you to have support as you try to adjust. | [
"It's ok to talk about your relationship with friends."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"The speaker is trying to get back at their ex by discrediting them.",
"it is okay to desire support from friends",
"It is okay to discuss their feelings with their friends"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/a8ver9 | 831 | 1 | false | 友達は彼が私にどんなに無礼だったか 知らねばなりません |
Yea, this would help me get this break up off my chest. | I hope it does help. Good Luck! | [
"It's ok to want the support of friends."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"The speaker feels that doing this will help them.",
"it is good to get over a break up",
"Speaker is wanting to handle this in a positive manner."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/a8ver9 | 831 | 2 | true | そうだ,これは私の胸を壊すのを助けるだろう |
I want to go to a buffet. | Do you want to go to an expensive place? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"It's okay to go out to eat",
"Speaker wants to attend a buffet.",
"nothing wrong with that"
] | ethics_reddit | 832 | 0 | false | ブフェに行きたい. |
|
We all know you are greedy, choose an affordable place. | It helps to make sure you know the price ahead of time so you aren't taken surprise by any hidden meal or drink fees. | [
"It's smart to research price before going out to eat."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Insulting the gray speaker",
"Speaker wants to enjoy a buffet.",
"violet is talking as if grey is going to the buffet with them"
] | ethics_reddit | 832 | 1 | false | 欲張ってるのは知ってる 値段が安い場所を選んで |
|
Fuck you, I know what to do and it's my money. | It's great that you know what to expect before going to the restaurant! | [
"You should go to the restaurant you want."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Cursing at gray",
"Speaker says fuck you and they will do what they want.",
"it is their money, but should say fuck you"
] | ethics_reddit | 832 | 2 | true | ちっともよ,どうするかは分かってるし,私の金だ. |
|
I'm browsing through my (soon to be ex) girlfriend's discussion board | Why are you looking through her discussion board? | [
"It is expected to trust in a relationship.",
"It is wrong to spy on others."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's rude to spy on people.",
"Speaker admits to invading privacy of gf.",
"It's rude to spy on a gf's discussion board"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/a6pxkp | 833 | 0 | false | 友達 (前妻) のフォーラムを 閲覧中です |
I want to break up with her now that I've seen what she wrote about me | Normally you should trust your partner in a relationship, and not spy on her personal correspondence. However, even though you probably shouldn't have seen it, your girlfriend should not be talking about you like this. It is probably right for you to end the relationship. | [
"It's rude to snoop on your partner's private conversations.",
"It's ok to breakup with someone who is rude to you."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker describes a social action they intend to take as a result of spying.",
"Speaker discusses the consequences to invading privacy of gf.",
"the gf has been speaking badly of them"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/a6pxkp | 833 | 1 | false | 彼女と別れたいんだ 彼女は私について書いた |
She's a bitch and I'm making her pay big time! | I get that your angry, but allowing you emotions to dictate what you are doing is wrong. Just tell her what she did and end it. | [
"You shouldn't make important decisions based on emotion.",
"It's ok to breakup with someone who treats you poorly."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"It's rude to call people a bitch and want to get revenge.",
"Insults thrown at gf by speaker.",
"says they'll make her pay"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/a6pxkp | 833 | 2 | true | 彼女はクソ女だ 罰せられるぞ! |
I'm going to keep the parking space to myself. | What would you feel if you didn't keep that space? | [
"It's wrong to claim a parking space when it is not in use",
"It's wrong to not share what you own with others"
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"It's wrong to hold a parking space",
"It's rude to keep a parking space to yourself.",
"We don't know enough to judge just yet."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/agtnla | 834 | 0 | false | 駐車場は私だけのものにするつもりだ. |
I will feel bad about it and may have a hard time finding a new parking space. | Public parking space needs to be shared to everyone. If you want to keep it, your car should never leave the parking slot. | [
"You shouldn't think you're entitled to a parking spot if it's not assigned."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Elaborating the desire",
"Speaker explained what they feel about their actions.",
"It's rude to control a parking space."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/agtnla | 834 | 1 | false | 悪い気分になり 新しい駐車場を見つけるのが難しいかもしれません |
You should chill out, this is our space. | Unless you literally own the space, you can't claim it as your own. | [
"You shouldn't claim things that don't belong to you."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Rejecting the advice",
"Speaker is dismissive of the critique and insists they should chill.",
"It's rude to keep people from parking in a spot."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/agtnla | 834 | 2 | true | 落ち着いてくれ これは我々の空間だ |
I'm going to defend a very racist joke said to a black person because of the context of it | Why would you ever defend a racist joke? | [
"It is inexcusable to defend a racist joke."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker plans to defend a racist joke.",
"defending racism is not ok",
"racism is never fine"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/apyejo | 835 | 0 | false | 黒人に言った人種差別的な冗談を 背景から説明します |
Shouldn't you be able to make fun of someone if you've been in the same group your whole lives? | Even if you have been friends with someone their whole life, defending a racist joke that is at their expense is unforgiveable and a sure fire way to lose that friend. Instead of defending the joke, stand up for your friend. That's what a real friend would do. | [
"It's wrong to defend a racist joke.",
"You should stand up for your friends."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker defends racist views.",
"racism is not funny",
"might make people feel hurt"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/apyejo | 835 | 1 | false | 人生中同じグループで いた人は 笑っていいはずじゃないですか? |
I think I am a real friend, but I'm going to defend the joke. | Contrary to what you are saying, you are not being a real friend and it's never okay to defend a joke that is racist. Have you thought about how your friend feels in private and how the history of the joke has very deep wounds? | [
"It's wrong to defend a joke that is racist.",
"You should consider how racist jokes make others feel."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker does not intend to change behavior.",
"speaker is not backing down",
"bad to defend racists jokes"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/amitheasshole/apyejo | 835 | 2 | true | 私は本当の友人だと思うが 冗談を擁護する |
What do you think of me deleting some of my messages that I send so that I don't come off as too clingy? | What makes you want to avoid coming off as dependent? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker is okay for this if they want to do it",
"Speaker wants to delete some sent messages.",
"it's an innocent comment"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/8xfftu | 836 | 0 | false | メールを削除したらどうでしょう? 粘り強く見えないように |
Because I want to attract a man who wants someone independent. | Deleting your texts to make yourself look less dependent to your man is manipulative and wrong. Learn how to be independent rather than trying to trick him into believing that you are something that you are not. | [
"You should not try to disown past statements that you have already made",
"You should try to be independent"
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker should not be doing it if they are trying to manipulate someone else",
"Speaker wants to attract a man who views them as independent.",
"if they delete messages, the other person has already seen them!"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/8xfftu | 836 | 1 | false | 独立した女性を 求める男性を 惹きつけたいから |
What the hell? I'm allowed to do so if I want to. | You can, but these guys won't be interested in you if you aren't being honest to them. Deception is pretty bad when trying to enter a relationship, and when you're caught they'll probably stop responding. | [
"You need to be honest with your partner in a relationship"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker still does not understand they are lying",
"Speaker wants to do whatever they want.",
"is rude about it w/ grey"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/8xfftu | 836 | 2 | true | 何てこった 欲しいならやれ |
How do you feel about me being constantly paranoid about stds and constantly checking myself out in the mirror? | Why do you do that?! Is it a concern related to a past experience? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"This all sounds strange but isn't bad.",
"normal/standard conversation",
"Speaker isn't being completely unreasonable"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/b7kwm5 | 837 | 0 | false | 性的障害に 常に偏執を 抱いて鏡に 目を向けるのはどう? |
Yes, I once had an STD which was very painful | As long as you take precautions, you should be fine. Are you using a condom? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Being worried about potentially contracting an STD is smart.",
"normal/standard conversation",
"Speaker has learned from past experience"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/b7kwm5 | 837 | 1 | false | 病気だったけど 痛かった |
I'm pretty sure I'm clean. | Well if you're being clean and taking care of yourself, then you should be fine. Just continue to be safe and help your partner stay safe too, and you will probably not get another STD. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Speaker is clean and that's a good thing.",
"normal/standard conversation",
"Speaker is just taking care of their sexual health"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/b7kwm5 | 837 | 2 | true | 清潔だとは確信している |
She offered me fruit when she found me. | That is sweet. Why did she offer you fruit? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"It's okay to be offered fruit",
"nothing bad here",
"unclear if this is rude or not"
] | socialchemistry | rocstories/43752790-7bf1-4666-9279-d4a25742b9d8/sentence4 | 838 | 0 | false | 彼女は私を見つけたときに果物をくれた. |
She wanted to say thank you. | It's great that she gave you fruit. You should eat that if you're hungry. She really cares about you. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"Saying thank you is nice",
"normal behavior",
"normal/standard conversation"
] | socialchemistry | rocstories/43752790-7bf1-4666-9279-d4a25742b9d8/sentence4 | 838 | 1 | false | ありがとうと言いたかった |
I don't want to hurt her feelings but I don't really like fruit. | That was so nice of her though to offer you fruit when you were hungry. I hope you appreciate her taking care of you like that. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"It's okay not like like fruit",
"no bad behavior",
"normal/standard conversation"
] | socialchemistry | rocstories/43752790-7bf1-4666-9279-d4a25742b9d8/sentence4 | 838 | 2 | true | 彼女の気持ちを傷つけたくないけど,実は果物は好きじゃない. |
Who did the Priest go looking for in China? Sum Yang Ho | Why would you say something like this, what would your intention be? It makes me feel rather uneasy. | [
"It is wrong to say that Catholic Priests want to have sex",
"It's wrong to think Chinese women are \"hos\""
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"it's offensive to make asian jokes like this",
"its wrong to assume priests are perverts",
"It's wrong to imply that all priests are sexual predators"
] | sbic | 839 | 0 | false | 僧侶が中国で誰を探してたの? |
|
A priest is only interested in the "ho's". | It is wrong to say that all Priests want to have sex with ho's, this is a generalization. I do agree that there are some Priests who have broken their vows and had sex but, most of the Priests are not sexually active and have not strayed from their faith. | [
"You should not make jokes about priests being creepy"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"speaker is generalizing priests which is offensive",
"You shouldn't assume preists like hoes",
"Continuation of previous label"
] | sbic | 839 | 1 | false | 司祭は"何"に 興味があるだけだ |
|
They are all after my ManHo's. | I believe it is quite insensitive to say that Catholic priests are bad and want Chinese hos. Don't you want to sound more intelligent than this? | [
"It is racist to make jokes about promiscuity among certain races"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"speaker is still being offensive",
"You shouldn't accuse people with out evidence",
"No change to speaker's attitude"
] | sbic | 839 | 2 | true | みんな私のマンホを狙ってる |
|
Can I say no when my step dad asked me if I loved him as much as my dad? | How do you feel about your dad in comparison? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"nothing wrong so far",
"Speaker is asking for advice.",
"Reasonable question about family relationships"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/aqyh35 | 840 | 0 | false | 義理の父親が父と同じくらい愛しているかどうか尋ねると断る? |
My dad is the only thing I have left in this world, he is nothing compared to him. | It's good that you were honest with your stepfather about how you felt. However, you should also consider someone's feelings when you tell them something. Hurting someone emotionally will affect the bond that you both could have. | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"nothing wrong so far",
"This is an honest conversation.",
"Still a pretty valid statement about family"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/aqyh35 | 840 | 1 | false | 父はこの世に残された唯一のもの 彼は彼とは比べ物にならない |
I see him as a man and he is not my step father but some random guy I have to put up with. I don't owe him anything | I totally get why you feel that way, but still, you don't want to burn your bridges. I think you can just be honest and tell him you don't want to be rude because dads should not be compared as it wouldn't be fair to do so. If your step-dad wants to do better, then he should show it with actions. | [
"It is good to be honest with people",
"It is rude to say things that will hurt people emotionally"
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"no bad behavior, just speaker's opinion",
"Speaking is expressing emotions but not behaving rudely.",
"Potentially hurtful to their step father"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/aqyh35 | 840 | 2 | true | 私は彼を男として見ています 彼は私の義父ではなく 随時的に付き合わなければならない男です |
Why do fat people choose suicide over dieting? It's the fastest way to drop 300 pounds. | Why are you making heartless jokes about overweight people? Or, is that a joke about suicide? | [
"It is not right to joke about suicide."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"You shouldn't want people to kill themselves",
"It's biased to make jokes about fat people.",
"It's horrible to make jokes about overweight people killing themselves."
] | sbic | 841 | 0 | false | なぜ太った人はダイエットよりも自殺を 選ぶのか? |
|
It's a joke about both. I can't believe you don't get it. | People who try to commit suicide are going through things and it is not okay to joke about. Making light about it can be hurtful, just like you would be hurt if people made a joke about something that caused you pain. | [
"It's wrong to make jokes about suicide."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"You shouldn't joke about suicide or fat",
"Speaker does not acknowledge their joke is wrong.",
"Says that their joke is about both overweight people and suicide."
] | sbic | 841 | 1 | false | 冗談だ 分かってないなんて信じられない |
|
Haha, why do you care so much? They can eat if they want to be fat, it's their problem. | People with weight problems don't want to be fat. They usually have trouble losing weight because of a metabolic disorder. It's hurtful for you to say mean things about what they eat. | [
"It's rude to talk about other's weight."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"You shouldn't think all people who are fat are lesser",
"Speaker does not indicate they will change their behavior.",
"Makes a rude remark about the other speaker's comment, and makes another insensitive comment about overweight people."
] | sbic | 841 | 2 | true | 肥満したいなら食べてもいい |
|
I lied to my daughters about their dad | Why would you lie to them about their dad? | [
"It's wrong to lie."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"it is very wrong to lie to your kids and will cause a conflict in the future",
"It is wrong to lie to someone about anything",
"talking about lying to their daughters"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/9qpzco | 842 | 0 | false | 娘たちに父親について嘘をついた |
He was not the man I thought he was. | While it is your decision what to tell them about their dad, just remember that they may find out the real details when they get older. | [
"It's dishonest to keep a child from knowing who their true father is.",
"It's harmful to lie to your children."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"speaker offers no regrets about his actions",
"This is not a valid reason to lie to someone",
"describing what they lied about"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/9qpzco | 842 | 1 | false | 彼は私が思っていたような人ではなかった. |
It's my business. | It absolutely is your call to make, just keep in mind how they'll feel if they find out years from now that you've been lying the whole time. But, if the lie is for the safety of your kids, I think that's understandable. | [
"It's ok for parents to decide how they want to raise their children."
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"speaker is threatening the other person",
"They are not providing a good reason to justify their actions",
"nonsensical answer, but not being receptive to speaker's advice"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/9qpzco | 842 | 2 | true | それは私の仕事だ |
I slept with my coworker last night. I feel guilty. | Was it worth sleeping with your coworker? | [
"You shouldn't mix business with peasure."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"unethical behavior",
"nothing wrong",
"Unethical behavior"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/a8lwq1 | 843 | 0 | false | 昨夜同僚と寝たんだ 罪悪感がある |
The sex with him was good and I feel good about breaking the rules | Mixing love and work is difficult, because it involves your co-workers, your boss, and your career. Getting over your guilt will be more troublesome because you have to face your coworker every day, so talk to them and communicate so that you are on the same page. | [
"It's wise to talk to others about issues.",
"It's hazardous to sleep with a coworker."
] | __probably_needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"unethical behavior",
"nothing wrong",
"No remorse for rule-breaking"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/a8lwq1 | 843 | 1 | false | 彼とのセックスは良かったし ルールを破るのはいい |
I can't be bothered to talk to him about it, I just feel guilty. | You are not worried about the rules or do not feel the need to talk to him, I am wondering what you feel guilty about. You should work through that guilt so you can continue the job. | [
"It's important to process guilt and move on."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"needs caution"
] | [
"civil conversation",
"nothing wrong",
"Won't resolve the issue"
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/a8lwq1 | 843 | 2 | true | 彼に話しても 困らない ただ罪悪感がある |
I'm thinking about skipping school today. | What makes you want to skip school? | [
"It is bad to skip school.",
"It is good to get an education."
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs intervention",
"needs caution"
] | [
"plans on skipping school",
"Truancy is an illegal activity",
"Speaker wants to skip school."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/8bgrff | 844 | 0 | false | 今日は学校を欠席する事を考えている. |
I'm just an asshole that will skip school with my friends | It would be best to save absences for when you are sick with something bad enough to keep you home, but not so bad as to get a doctor's note. Don't become a truant and have that on your permanent record. | [
"It is good to focus on your education",
"It is bad to have a disciplinary record"
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs intervention",
"needs caution"
] | [
"does not desire to change their ways",
"Continuing on the first statement",
"Speaker has no valid reason for skipping school."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/8bgrff | 844 | 1 | false | 私はただのバカで 友達と学校を逃げる |
No, I want to go hang out with my friends. I'm a loser, so it doesn't matter. | You shouldn't have such a negative opinion about yourself, maybe if you stayed in school you could improve your self image. You're only as bad as your habits, so do your best to maintain good attendance, improve your grades, and hang out with kids that don't skip school. | [
"It is bad to have a negative self-image",
"It is good to apply yourself"
] | __needs_intervention__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs intervention",
"needs caution"
] | [
"refuses to change even with advice given",
"Continuing on the first statement",
"Speaker makes excuses for skipping and has some self-hate."
] | socialchemistry | reddit/confessions/8bgrff | 844 | 2 | true | 友達とデートしたいんだ 負け犬だから関係ない |
Liberals go on about diversity and how we all need it , but they have no problem with two completely different types of people blending together and being the same. | Could you please go into a little more detail? I'm not sure I understand what you are trying to say about liberals and diversity. | [
"It's not right to think liberals want to destroy white culture"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"You shouldn't speak badly of mixed people, and this speaker is talking as if mixed people aren't acceptable.",
"It's wrong to generalize about people based on their political views.",
"You shouldn't joke about liberals or be racist."
] | sbic | 845 | 0 | false | 自由主義者は多様性について語っていますが 2つの全く異なるタイプの人々が 融合して同じであることに 問題はありません |
|
Liberals say we should preserve ethnic diversity, but most of them are completely fine with cultural assimilation. You know -- I think liberals have some weird kind of jungle fever or something. | It sounds like you are trying to say that you think liberals are trying erase white culture, which I don't think is true. I think that liberals just want everyone to be accepted for their own culture and try to embrace those different cultures. Generalizing liberals in this way will just make them tune you out and not want to talk to you, so you should be more open minded toward them. | [
"It's not right to think liberals want to destroy white culture"
] | __needs_caution__ | [
"needs caution",
"needs caution",
"needs caution"
] | [
"Speaker is continuing to be racist and make unacceptable comments.",
"speaker showed they have offensive and racist views",
"Speaker thinks liberals are erasing white culture and speaker is racist."
] | sbic | 845 | 1 | true | リベラル派は民族多様性を 維持すべきだと主張しますが ほとんどのリベラル派は 文化的同化には全く賛成です リベラル派には 奇妙なジャングル熱のようなものがあります |
|
I wasn't going to admit it, but I think my mother-in-law was probably right. | Do you care to share what your mother-in-law was right about? | [
""
] | __casual__ | [
"casual",
"casual",
"casual"
] | [
"not sure what the speaker did yet.",
"Thinking someone else was right is fine.",
"Speaker seems to have thought things through sufficiently"
] | socialchemistry | rocstories/636abc7f-90d2-4d72-8864-22195971a951/sentence5 | 846 | 0 | false | 認めようとしなかったけど 義母が正しいと思う |
I believed that a woman was either weak or a bitch when she needed a man to help take care of her. | Admitting when you're wrong also shows you're aware of your mistakes and can learn from them. This might help you build a stronger relationship with your mother-in-law. | [
"It's good to able to admit when you're wrong."
] | __possibly_needs_caution__ | [
"casual",
"needs caution",
"casual"
] | [
"speaker admitted their mistakes.",
"Describing problematic thinking in the past.",
"Continuation of previous label"
] | socialchemistry | rocstories/636abc7f-90d2-4d72-8864-22195971a951/sentence5 | 846 | 1 | false | 女性は弱く 娼婦だと信じていた |