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[ { "content": "I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one.\n\nSo my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares.\n\n'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). \n\nCop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. \n\nBut the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous...\n\nSo I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge.\n\nMy guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? \n\nThanks.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " My GF gets into a fight in New Orleans, gets arrested after some girl gets assaulted, and misses the flight back. What's the court process?", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one.\n\nSo my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares.\n\n'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). \n\nCop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. \n\nBut the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous...\n\nSo I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge.\n\nMy guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? \n\nThanks.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " Friend's girlfriend got into a fight in another state, she gets in some trouble and arrested by security, but just charges her with assault because she's claiming assault. \n\nedit: grammar", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one.\n\nSo my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares.\n\n'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). \n\nCop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. \n\nBut the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous...\n\nSo I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge.\n\nMy guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? \n\nThanks.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " Someone alleges my GF assaulted her at a concert in Mississippi, from which she's flying back home today, which is total BS and she hit my GF first and even cop believes her. She is supposed to show up in court next week and plead her case, which is ridiculous", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one.\n\nSo my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares.\n\n'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). \n\nCop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. \n\nBut the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous...\n\nSo I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge.\n\nMy guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? \n\nThanks.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " My GF gets into a fight in New Orleans, gets arrested after some girl gets assaulted, and misses the flight back. What's the court process?", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one.\n\nSo my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares.\n\n'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). \n\nCop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. \n\nBut the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous...\n\nSo I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge.\n\nMy guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? \n\nThanks.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " Someone alleges my GF assaulted her at a concert in Mississippi, from which she's flying back home today, which is total BS and she hit my GF first and even cop believes her. She is supposed to show up in court next week and plead her case, which is ridiculous", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one.\n\nSo my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares.\n\n'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). \n\nCop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. \n\nBut the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous...\n\nSo I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge.\n\nMy guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? \n\nThanks.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " GF and her military buddy get into a fight and get into trouble, if they don't go to court, they'll have to plead their case before a judge.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one.\n\nSo my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares.\n\n'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). \n\nCop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. \n\nBut the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous...\n\nSo I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge.\n\nMy guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? \n\nThanks.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " Friend's girlfriend got into a fight in another state, she gets in some trouble and arrested by security, but just charges her with assault because she's claiming assault. \n\nedit: grammar", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one.\n\nSo my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares.\n\n'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). \n\nCop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. \n\nBut the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous...\n\nSo I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge.\n\nMy guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? \n\nThanks.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " GF and her military buddy get into a fight and get into trouble, if they don't go to court, they'll have to plead their case before a judge.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one.\n\nSo my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares.\n\n'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). \n\nCop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. \n\nBut the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous...\n\nSo I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge.\n\nMy guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? \n\nThanks.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " My GF gets into a fight in New Orleans, gets arrested after some girl gets assaulted, and misses the flight back. What's the court process?", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one.\n\nSo my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares.\n\n'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). \n\nCop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. \n\nBut the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous...\n\nSo I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge.\n\nMy guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? \n\nThanks.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " Friend's girlfriend got into a fight in another state, she gets in some trouble and arrested by security, but just charges her with assault because she's claiming assault. \n\nedit: grammar", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one.\n\nSo my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares.\n\n'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). \n\nCop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. \n\nBut the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous...\n\nSo I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge.\n\nMy guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? \n\nThanks.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " My GF gets into a fight in New Orleans, gets arrested after some girl gets assaulted, and misses the flight back. What's the court process?", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one.\n\nSo my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares.\n\n'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). \n\nCop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. \n\nBut the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous...\n\nSo I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge.\n\nMy guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? \n\nThanks.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " Someone alleges my GF assaulted her at a concert in Mississippi, from which she's flying back home today, which is total BS and she hit my GF first and even cop believes her. She is supposed to show up in court next week and plead her case, which is ridiculous", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one.\n\nSo my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares.\n\n'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). \n\nCop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. \n\nBut the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous...\n\nSo I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge.\n\nMy guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? \n\nThanks.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " Someone alleges my GF assaulted her at a concert in Mississippi, from which she's flying back home today, which is total BS and she hit my GF first and even cop believes her. She is supposed to show up in court next week and plead her case, which is ridiculous", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one.\n\nSo my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares.\n\n'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). \n\nCop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. \n\nBut the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous...\n\nSo I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge.\n\nMy guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? \n\nThanks.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " GF and her military buddy get into a fight and get into trouble, if they don't go to court, they'll have to plead their case before a judge.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one.\n\nSo my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares.\n\n'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). \n\nCop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. \n\nBut the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous...\n\nSo I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge.\n\nMy guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? \n\nThanks.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " GF and her military buddy get into a fight and get into trouble, if they don't go to court, they'll have to plead their case before a judge.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one.\n\nSo my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares.\n\n'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). \n\nCop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. \n\nBut the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous...\n\nSo I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge.\n\nMy guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? \n\nThanks.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " Friend's girlfriend got into a fight in another state, she gets in some trouble and arrested by security, but just charges her with assault because she's claiming assault. \n\nedit: grammar", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one.\n\nSo my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares.\n\n'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). \n\nCop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. \n\nBut the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous...\n\nSo I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge.\n\nMy guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? \n\nThanks.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " My GF gets into a fight in New Orleans, gets arrested after some girl gets assaulted, and misses the flight back. What's the court process?", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one.\n\nSo my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares.\n\n'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). \n\nCop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. \n\nBut the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous...\n\nSo I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge.\n\nMy guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? \n\nThanks.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " Friend's girlfriend got into a fight in another state, she gets in some trouble and arrested by security, but just charges her with assault because she's claiming assault. \n\nedit: grammar", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one.\n\nSo my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares.\n\n'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). \n\nCop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. \n\nBut the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous...\n\nSo I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge.\n\nMy guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? \n\nThanks.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " Someone alleges my GF assaulted her at a concert in Mississippi, from which she's flying back home today, which is total BS and she hit my GF first and even cop believes her. She is supposed to show up in court next week and plead her case, which is ridiculous", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one.\n\nSo my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares.\n\n'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). \n\nCop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. \n\nBut the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous...\n\nSo I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge.\n\nMy guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? \n\nThanks.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " My GF gets into a fight in New Orleans, gets arrested after some girl gets assaulted, and misses the flight back. What's the court process?", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one.\n\nSo my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares.\n\n'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). \n\nCop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. \n\nBut the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous...\n\nSo I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge.\n\nMy guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? \n\nThanks.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " GF and her military buddy get into a fight and get into trouble, if they don't go to court, they'll have to plead their case before a judge.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one.\n\nSo my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares.\n\n'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). \n\nCop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. \n\nBut the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous...\n\nSo I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge.\n\nMy guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? \n\nThanks.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " Someone alleges my GF assaulted her at a concert in Mississippi, from which she's flying back home today, which is total BS and she hit my GF first and even cop believes her. She is supposed to show up in court next week and plead her case, which is ridiculous", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one.\n\nSo my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares.\n\n'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). \n\nCop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. \n\nBut the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous...\n\nSo I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge.\n\nMy guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? \n\nThanks.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " GF and her military buddy get into a fight and get into trouble, if they don't go to court, they'll have to plead their case before a judge.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one.\n\nSo my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares.\n\n'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). \n\nCop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. \n\nBut the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous...\n\nSo I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge.\n\nMy guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? \n\nThanks.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " Friend's girlfriend got into a fight in another state, she gets in some trouble and arrested by security, but just charges her with assault because she's claiming assault. \n\nedit: grammar", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one.\n\nSo my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares.\n\n'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). \n\nCop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. \n\nBut the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous...\n\nSo I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge.\n\nMy guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? \n\nThanks.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " Friend's girlfriend got into a fight in another state, she gets in some trouble and arrested by security, but just charges her with assault because she's claiming assault. \n\nedit: grammar", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one.\n\nSo my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares.\n\n'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). \n\nCop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. \n\nBut the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous...\n\nSo I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge.\n\nMy guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? \n\nThanks.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " My GF gets into a fight in New Orleans, gets arrested after some girl gets assaulted, and misses the flight back. What's the court process?", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one.\n\nSo my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares.\n\n'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). \n\nCop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. \n\nBut the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous...\n\nSo I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge.\n\nMy guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? \n\nThanks.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " Someone alleges my GF assaulted her at a concert in Mississippi, from which she's flying back home today, which is total BS and she hit my GF first and even cop believes her. She is supposed to show up in court next week and plead her case, which is ridiculous", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one.\n\nSo my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares.\n\n'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). \n\nCop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. \n\nBut the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous...\n\nSo I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge.\n\nMy guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? \n\nThanks.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " My GF gets into a fight in New Orleans, gets arrested after some girl gets assaulted, and misses the flight back. What's the court process?", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one.\n\nSo my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares.\n\n'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). \n\nCop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. \n\nBut the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous...\n\nSo I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge.\n\nMy guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? \n\nThanks.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " Someone alleges my GF assaulted her at a concert in Mississippi, from which she's flying back home today, which is total BS and she hit my GF first and even cop believes her. She is supposed to show up in court next week and plead her case, which is ridiculous", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one.\n\nSo my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares.\n\n'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). \n\nCop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. \n\nBut the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous...\n\nSo I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge.\n\nMy guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? \n\nThanks.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " GF and her military buddy get into a fight and get into trouble, if they don't go to court, they'll have to plead their case before a judge.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one.\n\nSo my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares.\n\n'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). \n\nCop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. \n\nBut the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous...\n\nSo I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge.\n\nMy guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? \n\nThanks.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " GF and her military buddy get into a fight and get into trouble, if they don't go to court, they'll have to plead their case before a judge.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one.\n\nSo my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares.\n\n'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). \n\nCop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. \n\nBut the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous...\n\nSo I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge.\n\nMy guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? \n\nThanks.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " Friend's girlfriend got into a fight in another state, she gets in some trouble and arrested by security, but just charges her with assault because she's claiming assault. \n\nedit: grammar", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one.\n\nSo my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares.\n\n'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). \n\nCop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. \n\nBut the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous...\n\nSo I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge.\n\nMy guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? \n\nThanks.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " My GF gets into a fight in New Orleans, gets arrested after some girl gets assaulted, and misses the flight back. What's the court process?", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one.\n\nSo my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares.\n\n'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). \n\nCop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. \n\nBut the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous...\n\nSo I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge.\n\nMy guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? \n\nThanks.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " Friend's girlfriend got into a fight in another state, she gets in some trouble and arrested by security, but just charges her with assault because she's claiming assault. \n\nedit: grammar", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one.\n\nSo my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares.\n\n'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). \n\nCop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. \n\nBut the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous...\n\nSo I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge.\n\nMy guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? \n\nThanks.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " My GF gets into a fight in New Orleans, gets arrested after some girl gets assaulted, and misses the flight back. What's the court process?", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one.\n\nSo my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares.\n\n'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). \n\nCop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. \n\nBut the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous...\n\nSo I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge.\n\nMy guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? \n\nThanks.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " Someone alleges my GF assaulted her at a concert in Mississippi, from which she's flying back home today, which is total BS and she hit my GF first and even cop believes her. She is supposed to show up in court next week and plead her case, which is ridiculous", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one.\n\nSo my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares.\n\n'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). \n\nCop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. \n\nBut the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous...\n\nSo I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge.\n\nMy guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? \n\nThanks.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " GF and her military buddy get into a fight and get into trouble, if they don't go to court, they'll have to plead their case before a judge.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one.\n\nSo my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares.\n\n'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). \n\nCop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. \n\nBut the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous...\n\nSo I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge.\n\nMy guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? \n\nThanks.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " Someone alleges my GF assaulted her at a concert in Mississippi, from which she's flying back home today, which is total BS and she hit my GF first and even cop believes her. She is supposed to show up in court next week and plead her case, which is ridiculous", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one.\n\nSo my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares.\n\n'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). \n\nCop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. \n\nBut the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous...\n\nSo I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge.\n\nMy guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? \n\nThanks.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " GF and her military buddy get into a fight and get into trouble, if they don't go to court, they'll have to plead their case before a judge.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one.\n\nSo my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares.\n\n'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). \n\nCop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. \n\nBut the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous...\n\nSo I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge.\n\nMy guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? \n\nThanks.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " Friend's girlfriend got into a fight in another state, she gets in some trouble and arrested by security, but just charges her with assault because she's claiming assault. \n\nedit: grammar", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one.\n\nSo my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares.\n\n'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). \n\nCop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. \n\nBut the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous...\n\nSo I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge.\n\nMy guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? \n\nThanks.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " My GF gets into a fight in New Orleans, gets arrested after some girl gets assaulted, and misses the flight back. What's the court process?", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one.\n\nSo my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares.\n\n'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). \n\nCop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. \n\nBut the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous...\n\nSo I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge.\n\nMy guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? \n\nThanks.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " Friend's girlfriend got into a fight in another state, she gets in some trouble and arrested by security, but just charges her with assault because she's claiming assault. \n\nedit: grammar", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one.\n\nSo my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares.\n\n'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). \n\nCop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. \n\nBut the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous...\n\nSo I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge.\n\nMy guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? \n\nThanks.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " Someone alleges my GF assaulted her at a concert in Mississippi, from which she's flying back home today, which is total BS and she hit my GF first and even cop believes her. She is supposed to show up in court next week and plead her case, which is ridiculous", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one.\n\nSo my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares.\n\n'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). \n\nCop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. \n\nBut the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous...\n\nSo I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge.\n\nMy guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? \n\nThanks.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " My GF gets into a fight in New Orleans, gets arrested after some girl gets assaulted, and misses the flight back. What's the court process?", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one.\n\nSo my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares.\n\n'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). \n\nCop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. \n\nBut the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous...\n\nSo I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge.\n\nMy guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? \n\nThanks.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " Someone alleges my GF assaulted her at a concert in Mississippi, from which she's flying back home today, which is total BS and she hit my GF first and even cop believes her. She is supposed to show up in court next week and plead her case, which is ridiculous", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one.\n\nSo my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares.\n\n'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). \n\nCop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. \n\nBut the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous...\n\nSo I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge.\n\nMy guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? \n\nThanks.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " GF and her military buddy get into a fight and get into trouble, if they don't go to court, they'll have to plead their case before a judge.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one.\n\nSo my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares.\n\n'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). \n\nCop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. \n\nBut the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous...\n\nSo I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge.\n\nMy guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? \n\nThanks.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " GF and her military buddy get into a fight and get into trouble, if they don't go to court, they'll have to plead their case before a judge.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one.\n\nSo my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares.\n\n'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). \n\nCop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. \n\nBut the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous...\n\nSo I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge.\n\nMy guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? \n\nThanks.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " Friend's girlfriend got into a fight in another state, she gets in some trouble and arrested by security, but just charges her with assault because she's claiming assault. \n\nedit: grammar", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one.\n\nSo my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares.\n\n'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). \n\nCop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. \n\nBut the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous...\n\nSo I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge.\n\nMy guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? \n\nThanks.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " My GF gets into a fight in New Orleans, gets arrested after some girl gets assaulted, and misses the flight back. What's the court process?", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one.\n\nSo my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares.\n\n'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). \n\nCop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. \n\nBut the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous...\n\nSo I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge.\n\nMy guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? \n\nThanks.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " Friend's girlfriend got into a fight in another state, she gets in some trouble and arrested by security, but just charges her with assault because she's claiming assault. \n\nedit: grammar", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one.\n\nSo my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares.\n\n'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). \n\nCop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. \n\nBut the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous...\n\nSo I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge.\n\nMy guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? \n\nThanks.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " Someone alleges my GF assaulted her at a concert in Mississippi, from which she's flying back home today, which is total BS and she hit my GF first and even cop believes her. She is supposed to show up in court next week and plead her case, which is ridiculous", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one.\n\nSo my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares.\n\n'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). \n\nCop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. \n\nBut the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous...\n\nSo I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge.\n\nMy guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? \n\nThanks.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " My GF gets into a fight in New Orleans, gets arrested after some girl gets assaulted, and misses the flight back. What's the court process?", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one.\n\nSo my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares.\n\n'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). \n\nCop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. \n\nBut the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous...\n\nSo I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge.\n\nMy guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? \n\nThanks.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " Someone alleges my GF assaulted her at a concert in Mississippi, from which she's flying back home today, which is total BS and she hit my GF first and even cop believes her. She is supposed to show up in court next week and plead her case, which is ridiculous", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one.\n\nSo my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares.\n\n'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). \n\nCop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. \n\nBut the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous...\n\nSo I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge.\n\nMy guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? \n\nThanks.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " GF and her military buddy get into a fight and get into trouble, if they don't go to court, they'll have to plead their case before a judge.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one.\n\nSo my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares.\n\n'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). \n\nCop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. \n\nBut the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous...\n\nSo I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge.\n\nMy guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? \n\nThanks.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " GF and her military buddy get into a fight and get into trouble, if they don't go to court, they'll have to plead their case before a judge.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one.\n\nSo my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares.\n\n'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). \n\nCop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. \n\nBut the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous...\n\nSo I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge.\n\nMy guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? \n\nThanks.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " Friend's girlfriend got into a fight in another state, she gets in some trouble and arrested by security, but just charges her with assault because she's claiming assault. \n\nedit: grammar", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one.\n\nSo my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares.\n\n'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). \n\nCop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. \n\nBut the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous...\n\nSo I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge.\n\nMy guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? \n\nThanks.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " My GF gets into a fight in New Orleans, gets arrested after some girl gets assaulted, and misses the flight back. What's the court process?", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one.\n\nSo my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares.\n\n'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). \n\nCop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. \n\nBut the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous...\n\nSo I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge.\n\nMy guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? \n\nThanks.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " Friend's girlfriend got into a fight in another state, she gets in some trouble and arrested by security, but just charges her with assault because she's claiming assault. \n\nedit: grammar", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one.\n\nSo my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares.\n\n'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). \n\nCop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. \n\nBut the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous...\n\nSo I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge.\n\nMy guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? \n\nThanks.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " Someone alleges my GF assaulted her at a concert in Mississippi, from which she's flying back home today, which is total BS and she hit my GF first and even cop believes her. She is supposed to show up in court next week and plead her case, which is ridiculous", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one.\n\nSo my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares.\n\n'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). \n\nCop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. \n\nBut the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous...\n\nSo I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge.\n\nMy guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? \n\nThanks.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " My GF gets into a fight in New Orleans, gets arrested after some girl gets assaulted, and misses the flight back. What's the court process?", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one.\n\nSo my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares.\n\n'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). \n\nCop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. \n\nBut the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous...\n\nSo I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge.\n\nMy guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? \n\nThanks.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " Someone alleges my GF assaulted her at a concert in Mississippi, from which she's flying back home today, which is total BS and she hit my GF first and even cop believes her. She is supposed to show up in court next week and plead her case, which is ridiculous", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one.\n\nSo my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares.\n\n'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). \n\nCop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. \n\nBut the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous...\n\nSo I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge.\n\nMy guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? \n\nThanks.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " GF and her military buddy get into a fight and get into trouble, if they don't go to court, they'll have to plead their case before a judge.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one.\n\nSo my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares.\n\n'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). \n\nCop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. \n\nBut the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous...\n\nSo I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge.\n\nMy guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? \n\nThanks.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " GF and her military buddy get into a fight and get into trouble, if they don't go to court, they'll have to plead their case before a judge.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I'm no lawyer, but I am pretty familiar with the law (friends in trouble, self defense and gun laws, drug/privacy law, etc). However I'm quite confused on this one.\n\nSo my girlfriend and her military friend (just finished basic) in Mississippi, go to see PANTyRAiD in New Orleans. Now the military guy wasn't given permission to leave base. My gf and the guy, drunk or whatever, cut some line in front of a guy, who doesn't care, but his fat girlfriend rages and punches my GF. They get into it, she says they both swing about 4 times, my gf lands a solid in her face and that's that. Everyone goes on partying, whatever, who cares.\n\n'Suddenly' a few minutes later, she is put in the back of a cop car by security, where the military guy already is (he wasn't even doing anything), and see the fat girl going on about how they the big black dude and the girl ganged up on her (and the boyfriend just nodding in agreement). \n\nCop drops them off at the hospital, says he believes my GF/friend in that they didn't do anything, but because she's claiming assault, they gotta go to court. He doesn't call the friend's military superiors, but he has to go to court too. \n\nBut the problem is my GF is flying back today, Mississippi is halfway across the country. She doesn't have the vacation to fly back, nor the money. I'm sure she can get a lawyer to represent her in absentia (that's what people do in these types of situations, right?) but that's a bit expensive and ridiculous...\n\nSo I don't know what this is. They weren't charged, they weren't arrested. What kind of court is this? They have to plead their case before a judge.\n\nMy guess is the fat girl won't even show up to court, but what is she supposed to do in this situation? \n\nThanks.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " Friend's girlfriend got into a fight in another state, she gets in some trouble and arrested by security, but just charges her with assault because she's claiming assault. \n\nedit: grammar", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "My original post is [here](\n\nA few days after posting this, I received a call at work from a neighbor, my fiance was trying to fill a forged prescription at Jewel. He told her he was going back to fill the prescription but instead called me hoping I would be able to remedy the situation without him having to call the police on her. I am eternally grateful for nice neighbors. I left work and went there, found her in the waiting area and explained the situation at hand. She started screaming at me and was causing a big scene for the twelve people that were there shopping at noon on a Wednesday. I was able to convince her to leave with me, telling her we'd find another way to get the pills. \n\nWhen we got home I gave her the ultimatum of get help or get out. She still claimed she has no problem so I started packing up her shit for her. Cue lots more screaming and her calling the police on me, she arrived at a much better decision. She would go to rehab as long as it was a place of her choosing. \n\nYesterday morning we arrived here and parted ways in the afternoon when we checked her in. Right now they have a 90 day program set in place and then I guess we go from there. I am apparently not allowed to have contact with her for the first week as she goes through the withdrawal process. I'm not thrilled about that or that I won't be able to come back to visit her until the first 30 days are up. \n\nWith that said, does anyone have any experience flying with big dogs? I know Garda is going to be even more distraught without her than I am, so I'd like to take him out there with me next month. Also, if anyone has any rehab success stories I'd love to hear them, my hotel room has become a very lonely place this evening.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " Asked my fiance to get help for an imaginary problem, miraculously she gets help for herself. Is it really possible to fly with a dog?", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "My original post is [here](\n\nA few days after posting this, I received a call at work from a neighbor, my fiance was trying to fill a forged prescription at Jewel. He told her he was going back to fill the prescription but instead called me hoping I would be able to remedy the situation without him having to call the police on her. I am eternally grateful for nice neighbors. I left work and went there, found her in the waiting area and explained the situation at hand. She started screaming at me and was causing a big scene for the twelve people that were there shopping at noon on a Wednesday. I was able to convince her to leave with me, telling her we'd find another way to get the pills. \n\nWhen we got home I gave her the ultimatum of get help or get out. She still claimed she has no problem so I started packing up her shit for her. Cue lots more screaming and her calling the police on me, she arrived at a much better decision. She would go to rehab as long as it was a place of her choosing. \n\nYesterday morning we arrived here and parted ways in the afternoon when we checked her in. Right now they have a 90 day program set in place and then I guess we go from there. I am apparently not allowed to have contact with her for the first week as she goes through the withdrawal process. I'm not thrilled about that or that I won't be able to come back to visit her until the first 30 days are up. \n\nWith that said, does anyone have any experience flying with big dogs? I know Garda is going to be even more distraught without her than I am, so I'd like to take him out there with me next month. Also, if anyone has any rehab success stories I'd love to hear them, my hotel room has become a very lonely place this evening.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " My fiance is addicted to pain pills, I am going to find her a rehab and I'm going to fly her with me.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "My original post is [here](\n\nA few days after posting this, I received a call at work from a neighbor, my fiance was trying to fill a forged prescription at Jewel. He told her he was going back to fill the prescription but instead called me hoping I would be able to remedy the situation without him having to call the police on her. I am eternally grateful for nice neighbors. I left work and went there, found her in the waiting area and explained the situation at hand. She started screaming at me and was causing a big scene for the twelve people that were there shopping at noon on a Wednesday. I was able to convince her to leave with me, telling her we'd find another way to get the pills. \n\nWhen we got home I gave her the ultimatum of get help or get out. She still claimed she has no problem so I started packing up her shit for her. Cue lots more screaming and her calling the police on me, she arrived at a much better decision. She would go to rehab as long as it was a place of her choosing. \n\nYesterday morning we arrived here and parted ways in the afternoon when we checked her in. Right now they have a 90 day program set in place and then I guess we go from there. I am apparently not allowed to have contact with her for the first week as she goes through the withdrawal process. I'm not thrilled about that or that I won't be able to come back to visit her until the first 30 days are up. \n\nWith that said, does anyone have any experience flying with big dogs? I know Garda is going to be even more distraught without her than I am, so I'd like to take him out there with me next month. Also, if anyone has any rehab success stories I'd love to hear them, my hotel room has become a very lonely place this evening.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " Fiance finally realizes extent of drug problem after nearly being arrested. Checked her into rehab yesterday.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "My original post is [here](\n\nA few days after posting this, I received a call at work from a neighbor, my fiance was trying to fill a forged prescription at Jewel. He told her he was going back to fill the prescription but instead called me hoping I would be able to remedy the situation without him having to call the police on her. I am eternally grateful for nice neighbors. I left work and went there, found her in the waiting area and explained the situation at hand. She started screaming at me and was causing a big scene for the twelve people that were there shopping at noon on a Wednesday. I was able to convince her to leave with me, telling her we'd find another way to get the pills. \n\nWhen we got home I gave her the ultimatum of get help or get out. She still claimed she has no problem so I started packing up her shit for her. Cue lots more screaming and her calling the police on me, she arrived at a much better decision. She would go to rehab as long as it was a place of her choosing. \n\nYesterday morning we arrived here and parted ways in the afternoon when we checked her in. Right now they have a 90 day program set in place and then I guess we go from there. I am apparently not allowed to have contact with her for the first week as she goes through the withdrawal process. I'm not thrilled about that or that I won't be able to come back to visit her until the first 30 days are up. \n\nWith that said, does anyone have any experience flying with big dogs? I know Garda is going to be even more distraught without her than I am, so I'd like to take him out there with me next month. Also, if anyone has any rehab success stories I'd love to hear them, my hotel room has become a very lonely place this evening.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " got accused of being addicted to pain pills and now my dog is being taken to rehab.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "My original post is [here](\n\nA few days after posting this, I received a call at work from a neighbor, my fiance was trying to fill a forged prescription at Jewel. He told her he was going back to fill the prescription but instead called me hoping I would be able to remedy the situation without him having to call the police on her. I am eternally grateful for nice neighbors. I left work and went there, found her in the waiting area and explained the situation at hand. She started screaming at me and was causing a big scene for the twelve people that were there shopping at noon on a Wednesday. I was able to convince her to leave with me, telling her we'd find another way to get the pills. \n\nWhen we got home I gave her the ultimatum of get help or get out. She still claimed she has no problem so I started packing up her shit for her. Cue lots more screaming and her calling the police on me, she arrived at a much better decision. She would go to rehab as long as it was a place of her choosing. \n\nYesterday morning we arrived here and parted ways in the afternoon when we checked her in. Right now they have a 90 day program set in place and then I guess we go from there. I am apparently not allowed to have contact with her for the first week as she goes through the withdrawal process. I'm not thrilled about that or that I won't be able to come back to visit her until the first 30 days are up. \n\nWith that said, does anyone have any experience flying with big dogs? I know Garda is going to be even more distraught without her than I am, so I'd like to take him out there with me next month. Also, if anyone has any rehab success stories I'd love to hear them, my hotel room has become a very lonely place this evening.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " Fiance finally realizes extent of drug problem after nearly being arrested. Checked her into rehab yesterday.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "My original post is [here](\n\nA few days after posting this, I received a call at work from a neighbor, my fiance was trying to fill a forged prescription at Jewel. He told her he was going back to fill the prescription but instead called me hoping I would be able to remedy the situation without him having to call the police on her. I am eternally grateful for nice neighbors. I left work and went there, found her in the waiting area and explained the situation at hand. She started screaming at me and was causing a big scene for the twelve people that were there shopping at noon on a Wednesday. I was able to convince her to leave with me, telling her we'd find another way to get the pills. \n\nWhen we got home I gave her the ultimatum of get help or get out. She still claimed she has no problem so I started packing up her shit for her. Cue lots more screaming and her calling the police on me, she arrived at a much better decision. She would go to rehab as long as it was a place of her choosing. \n\nYesterday morning we arrived here and parted ways in the afternoon when we checked her in. Right now they have a 90 day program set in place and then I guess we go from there. I am apparently not allowed to have contact with her for the first week as she goes through the withdrawal process. I'm not thrilled about that or that I won't be able to come back to visit her until the first 30 days are up. \n\nWith that said, does anyone have any experience flying with big dogs? I know Garda is going to be even more distraught without her than I am, so I'd like to take him out there with me next month. Also, if anyone has any rehab success stories I'd love to hear them, my hotel room has become a very lonely place this evening.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " My fiance is addicted to pain pills, I am going to find her a rehab and I'm going to fly her with me.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "My original post is [here](\n\nA few days after posting this, I received a call at work from a neighbor, my fiance was trying to fill a forged prescription at Jewel. He told her he was going back to fill the prescription but instead called me hoping I would be able to remedy the situation without him having to call the police on her. I am eternally grateful for nice neighbors. I left work and went there, found her in the waiting area and explained the situation at hand. She started screaming at me and was causing a big scene for the twelve people that were there shopping at noon on a Wednesday. I was able to convince her to leave with me, telling her we'd find another way to get the pills. \n\nWhen we got home I gave her the ultimatum of get help or get out. She still claimed she has no problem so I started packing up her shit for her. Cue lots more screaming and her calling the police on me, she arrived at a much better decision. She would go to rehab as long as it was a place of her choosing. \n\nYesterday morning we arrived here and parted ways in the afternoon when we checked her in. Right now they have a 90 day program set in place and then I guess we go from there. I am apparently not allowed to have contact with her for the first week as she goes through the withdrawal process. I'm not thrilled about that or that I won't be able to come back to visit her until the first 30 days are up. \n\nWith that said, does anyone have any experience flying with big dogs? I know Garda is going to be even more distraught without her than I am, so I'd like to take him out there with me next month. Also, if anyone has any rehab success stories I'd love to hear them, my hotel room has become a very lonely place this evening.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " Asked my fiance to get help for an imaginary problem, miraculously she gets help for herself. Is it really possible to fly with a dog?", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "My original post is [here](\n\nA few days after posting this, I received a call at work from a neighbor, my fiance was trying to fill a forged prescription at Jewel. He told her he was going back to fill the prescription but instead called me hoping I would be able to remedy the situation without him having to call the police on her. I am eternally grateful for nice neighbors. I left work and went there, found her in the waiting area and explained the situation at hand. She started screaming at me and was causing a big scene for the twelve people that were there shopping at noon on a Wednesday. I was able to convince her to leave with me, telling her we'd find another way to get the pills. \n\nWhen we got home I gave her the ultimatum of get help or get out. She still claimed she has no problem so I started packing up her shit for her. Cue lots more screaming and her calling the police on me, she arrived at a much better decision. She would go to rehab as long as it was a place of her choosing. \n\nYesterday morning we arrived here and parted ways in the afternoon when we checked her in. Right now they have a 90 day program set in place and then I guess we go from there. I am apparently not allowed to have contact with her for the first week as she goes through the withdrawal process. I'm not thrilled about that or that I won't be able to come back to visit her until the first 30 days are up. \n\nWith that said, does anyone have any experience flying with big dogs? I know Garda is going to be even more distraught without her than I am, so I'd like to take him out there with me next month. Also, if anyone has any rehab success stories I'd love to hear them, my hotel room has become a very lonely place this evening.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " got accused of being addicted to pain pills and now my dog is being taken to rehab.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I've (26M) been with my (23F) gf for four months. We've had mostly protected sex but the the past few times I ended up putting on a condom a few minutes after starting sex. \n\nAnyway, up until four days ago, I had never given her oral sex (she mentioned before she wasn't super into it or something).\n\nYesterday I started having std symptoms, more specifically a red spot on my throat and genital itching. \n\nI know this is something that might have been dormant in either of us, and I don't think she cheated on me or anything. I'm going to get checked but it's Saturday night and they aren't open until Monday. I want her to get checked as well. \n\nHow should I approach her with this? I don't want it to affect the relationship, and I don't want to seem like I'm blaming her, it happens. \n\nI'm kind of thinking the 'honesty is the best policy' route. Thanks!", "role": "user" }, { "content": " Girlfriend gave me a STD, want to know what to do next", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I've (26M) been with my (23F) gf for four months. We've had mostly protected sex but the the past few times I ended up putting on a condom a few minutes after starting sex. \n\nAnyway, up until four days ago, I had never given her oral sex (she mentioned before she wasn't super into it or something).\n\nYesterday I started having std symptoms, more specifically a red spot on my throat and genital itching. \n\nI know this is something that might have been dormant in either of us, and I don't think she cheated on me or anything. I'm going to get checked but it's Saturday night and they aren't open until Monday. I want her to get checked as well. \n\nHow should I approach her with this? I don't want it to affect the relationship, and I don't want to seem like I'm blaming her, it happens. \n\nI'm kind of thinking the 'honesty is the best policy' route. Thanks!", "role": "user" }, { "content": " Went from unprotected sex to oral sex with gf. Most likely STD. How to approach?", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I've (26M) been with my (23F) gf for four months. We've had mostly protected sex but the the past few times I ended up putting on a condom a few minutes after starting sex. \n\nAnyway, up until four days ago, I had never given her oral sex (she mentioned before she wasn't super into it or something).\n\nYesterday I started having std symptoms, more specifically a red spot on my throat and genital itching. \n\nI know this is something that might have been dormant in either of us, and I don't think she cheated on me or anything. I'm going to get checked but it's Saturday night and they aren't open until Monday. I want her to get checked as well. \n\nHow should I approach her with this? I don't want it to affect the relationship, and I don't want to seem like I'm blaming her, it happens. \n\nI'm kind of thinking the 'honesty is the best policy' route. Thanks!", "role": "user" }, { "content": " STD, first time giving oral sex, one red spot on throat, itching on genitalia. Not sure what to do.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I've (26M) been with my (23F) gf for four months. We've had mostly protected sex but the the past few times I ended up putting on a condom a few minutes after starting sex. \n\nAnyway, up until four days ago, I had never given her oral sex (she mentioned before she wasn't super into it or something).\n\nYesterday I started having std symptoms, more specifically a red spot on my throat and genital itching. \n\nI know this is something that might have been dormant in either of us, and I don't think she cheated on me or anything. I'm going to get checked but it's Saturday night and they aren't open until Monday. I want her to get checked as well. \n\nHow should I approach her with this? I don't want it to affect the relationship, and I don't want to seem like I'm blaming her, it happens. \n\nI'm kind of thinking the 'honesty is the best policy' route. Thanks!", "role": "user" }, { "content": " Went from unprotected sex to oral sex with gf. Most likely STD. How to approach?", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I've (26M) been with my (23F) gf for four months. We've had mostly protected sex but the the past few times I ended up putting on a condom a few minutes after starting sex. \n\nAnyway, up until four days ago, I had never given her oral sex (she mentioned before she wasn't super into it or something).\n\nYesterday I started having std symptoms, more specifically a red spot on my throat and genital itching. \n\nI know this is something that might have been dormant in either of us, and I don't think she cheated on me or anything. I'm going to get checked but it's Saturday night and they aren't open until Monday. I want her to get checked as well. \n\nHow should I approach her with this? I don't want it to affect the relationship, and I don't want to seem like I'm blaming her, it happens. \n\nI'm kind of thinking the 'honesty is the best policy' route. Thanks!", "role": "user" }, { "content": " Think I got an std from my gf, don't want it to affect the relationship.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I've (26M) been with my (23F) gf for four months. We've had mostly protected sex but the the past few times I ended up putting on a condom a few minutes after starting sex. \n\nAnyway, up until four days ago, I had never given her oral sex (she mentioned before she wasn't super into it or something).\n\nYesterday I started having std symptoms, more specifically a red spot on my throat and genital itching. \n\nI know this is something that might have been dormant in either of us, and I don't think she cheated on me or anything. I'm going to get checked but it's Saturday night and they aren't open until Monday. I want her to get checked as well. \n\nHow should I approach her with this? I don't want it to affect the relationship, and I don't want to seem like I'm blaming her, it happens. \n\nI'm kind of thinking the 'honesty is the best policy' route. Thanks!", "role": "user" }, { "content": " Girlfriend gave me a STD, want to know what to do next", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I've (26M) been with my (23F) gf for four months. We've had mostly protected sex but the the past few times I ended up putting on a condom a few minutes after starting sex. \n\nAnyway, up until four days ago, I had never given her oral sex (she mentioned before she wasn't super into it or something).\n\nYesterday I started having std symptoms, more specifically a red spot on my throat and genital itching. \n\nI know this is something that might have been dormant in either of us, and I don't think she cheated on me or anything. I'm going to get checked but it's Saturday night and they aren't open until Monday. I want her to get checked as well. \n\nHow should I approach her with this? I don't want it to affect the relationship, and I don't want to seem like I'm blaming her, it happens. \n\nI'm kind of thinking the 'honesty is the best policy' route. Thanks!", "role": "user" }, { "content": " Think I got an std from my gf, don't want it to affect the relationship.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I've (26M) been with my (23F) gf for four months. We've had mostly protected sex but the the past few times I ended up putting on a condom a few minutes after starting sex. \n\nAnyway, up until four days ago, I had never given her oral sex (she mentioned before she wasn't super into it or something).\n\nYesterday I started having std symptoms, more specifically a red spot on my throat and genital itching. \n\nI know this is something that might have been dormant in either of us, and I don't think she cheated on me or anything. I'm going to get checked but it's Saturday night and they aren't open until Monday. I want her to get checked as well. \n\nHow should I approach her with this? I don't want it to affect the relationship, and I don't want to seem like I'm blaming her, it happens. \n\nI'm kind of thinking the 'honesty is the best policy' route. Thanks!", "role": "user" }, { "content": " STD, first time giving oral sex, one red spot on throat, itching on genitalia. Not sure what to do.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "When I was 16, I had somehow managed to convince my parents to buy me a bimmer that was a few years old. I loved the shit out of that car, it was absolutely beautiful and way too cool for 16 year old me to have. \n\nThe thing about this car was that it was stick. Now I had never been training in driving manual transition, so I pretty much taught myself how to do it on that car (Horrible Idea)\n\nFast forward a month: My friends and I had been recruited by the mother of a girl from a local all girls school to be prom dates for her daughter + her friends. We arrived at the girl's house on gameday only to find out that there were 2 too many people for the Limo. I said its alright, I'll drive my own car. So my buddy and I are driving in my car to the location. **This is where dumbness takes over.**\n\nI figured if we were driving separately, we should have some fun by getting a little speed going. Generally when driving stick, people will shift down a gear to get a little speed increase. I decided 1 wasn't enough, and to shift down 2 gears from 5th to 3rd. However, things get dumber. I make the shift.... and end up going from 5th-1st. You never go from 5th to 1st. Cue intense shaking and loud noises and me thinking \"WTF WTF WTF WTF\".\n\nIn the end, I blew out the transition on this newish bimmer I had just received. \n\nBut we made it to the Prom still...", "role": "user" }, { "content": " fixed a new car, blew it out of the water, and almost didn't make it to the Prom.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "When I was 16, I had somehow managed to convince my parents to buy me a bimmer that was a few years old. I loved the shit out of that car, it was absolutely beautiful and way too cool for 16 year old me to have. \n\nThe thing about this car was that it was stick. Now I had never been training in driving manual transition, so I pretty much taught myself how to do it on that car (Horrible Idea)\n\nFast forward a month: My friends and I had been recruited by the mother of a girl from a local all girls school to be prom dates for her daughter + her friends. We arrived at the girl's house on gameday only to find out that there were 2 too many people for the Limo. I said its alright, I'll drive my own car. So my buddy and I are driving in my car to the location. **This is where dumbness takes over.**\n\nI figured if we were driving separately, we should have some fun by getting a little speed going. Generally when driving stick, people will shift down a gear to get a little speed increase. I decided 1 wasn't enough, and to shift down 2 gears from 5th to 3rd. However, things get dumber. I make the shift.... and end up going from 5th-1st. You never go from 5th to 1st. Cue intense shaking and loud noises and me thinking \"WTF WTF WTF WTF\".\n\nIn the end, I blew out the transition on this newish bimmer I had just received. \n\nBut we made it to the Prom still...", "role": "user" }, { "content": " Tried to crack into the limo of a girl at the school prom, ended up having a loud sex scene and blowing out the transition on my new car.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "When I was 16, I had somehow managed to convince my parents to buy me a bimmer that was a few years old. I loved the shit out of that car, it was absolutely beautiful and way too cool for 16 year old me to have. \n\nThe thing about this car was that it was stick. Now I had never been training in driving manual transition, so I pretty much taught myself how to do it on that car (Horrible Idea)\n\nFast forward a month: My friends and I had been recruited by the mother of a girl from a local all girls school to be prom dates for her daughter + her friends. We arrived at the girl's house on gameday only to find out that there were 2 too many people for the Limo. I said its alright, I'll drive my own car. So my buddy and I are driving in my car to the location. **This is where dumbness takes over.**\n\nI figured if we were driving separately, we should have some fun by getting a little speed going. Generally when driving stick, people will shift down a gear to get a little speed increase. I decided 1 wasn't enough, and to shift down 2 gears from 5th to 3rd. However, things get dumber. I make the shift.... and end up going from 5th-1st. You never go from 5th to 1st. Cue intense shaking and loud noises and me thinking \"WTF WTF WTF WTF\".\n\nIn the end, I blew out the transition on this newish bimmer I had just received. \n\nBut we made it to the Prom still...", "role": "user" }, { "content": " I blew out the stick on my new car.**", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "When I was 16, I had somehow managed to convince my parents to buy me a bimmer that was a few years old. I loved the shit out of that car, it was absolutely beautiful and way too cool for 16 year old me to have. \n\nThe thing about this car was that it was stick. Now I had never been training in driving manual transition, so I pretty much taught myself how to do it on that car (Horrible Idea)\n\nFast forward a month: My friends and I had been recruited by the mother of a girl from a local all girls school to be prom dates for her daughter + her friends. We arrived at the girl's house on gameday only to find out that there were 2 too many people for the Limo. I said its alright, I'll drive my own car. So my buddy and I are driving in my car to the location. **This is where dumbness takes over.**\n\nI figured if we were driving separately, we should have some fun by getting a little speed going. Generally when driving stick, people will shift down a gear to get a little speed increase. I decided 1 wasn't enough, and to shift down 2 gears from 5th to 3rd. However, things get dumber. I make the shift.... and end up going from 5th-1st. You never go from 5th to 1st. Cue intense shaking and loud noises and me thinking \"WTF WTF WTF WTF\".\n\nIn the end, I blew out the transition on this newish bimmer I had just received. \n\nBut we made it to the Prom still...", "role": "user" }, { "content": " Tried to crack into the limo of a girl at the school prom, ended up having a loud sex scene and blowing out the transition on my new car.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "When I was 16, I had somehow managed to convince my parents to buy me a bimmer that was a few years old. I loved the shit out of that car, it was absolutely beautiful and way too cool for 16 year old me to have. \n\nThe thing about this car was that it was stick. Now I had never been training in driving manual transition, so I pretty much taught myself how to do it on that car (Horrible Idea)\n\nFast forward a month: My friends and I had been recruited by the mother of a girl from a local all girls school to be prom dates for her daughter + her friends. We arrived at the girl's house on gameday only to find out that there were 2 too many people for the Limo. I said its alright, I'll drive my own car. So my buddy and I are driving in my car to the location. **This is where dumbness takes over.**\n\nI figured if we were driving separately, we should have some fun by getting a little speed going. Generally when driving stick, people will shift down a gear to get a little speed increase. I decided 1 wasn't enough, and to shift down 2 gears from 5th to 3rd. However, things get dumber. I make the shift.... and end up going from 5th-1st. You never go from 5th to 1st. Cue intense shaking and loud noises and me thinking \"WTF WTF WTF WTF\".\n\nIn the end, I blew out the transition on this newish bimmer I had just received. \n\nBut we made it to the Prom still...", "role": "user" }, { "content": " I blew out of the transmission on my car shifting from 5th-1st by accident.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "When I was 16, I had somehow managed to convince my parents to buy me a bimmer that was a few years old. I loved the shit out of that car, it was absolutely beautiful and way too cool for 16 year old me to have. \n\nThe thing about this car was that it was stick. Now I had never been training in driving manual transition, so I pretty much taught myself how to do it on that car (Horrible Idea)\n\nFast forward a month: My friends and I had been recruited by the mother of a girl from a local all girls school to be prom dates for her daughter + her friends. We arrived at the girl's house on gameday only to find out that there were 2 too many people for the Limo. I said its alright, I'll drive my own car. So my buddy and I are driving in my car to the location. **This is where dumbness takes over.**\n\nI figured if we were driving separately, we should have some fun by getting a little speed going. Generally when driving stick, people will shift down a gear to get a little speed increase. I decided 1 wasn't enough, and to shift down 2 gears from 5th to 3rd. However, things get dumber. I make the shift.... and end up going from 5th-1st. You never go from 5th to 1st. Cue intense shaking and loud noises and me thinking \"WTF WTF WTF WTF\".\n\nIn the end, I blew out the transition on this newish bimmer I had just received. \n\nBut we made it to the Prom still...", "role": "user" }, { "content": " I blew out the stick on my new car.**", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "When I was 16, I had somehow managed to convince my parents to buy me a bimmer that was a few years old. I loved the shit out of that car, it was absolutely beautiful and way too cool for 16 year old me to have. \n\nThe thing about this car was that it was stick. Now I had never been training in driving manual transition, so I pretty much taught myself how to do it on that car (Horrible Idea)\n\nFast forward a month: My friends and I had been recruited by the mother of a girl from a local all girls school to be prom dates for her daughter + her friends. We arrived at the girl's house on gameday only to find out that there were 2 too many people for the Limo. I said its alright, I'll drive my own car. So my buddy and I are driving in my car to the location. **This is where dumbness takes over.**\n\nI figured if we were driving separately, we should have some fun by getting a little speed going. Generally when driving stick, people will shift down a gear to get a little speed increase. I decided 1 wasn't enough, and to shift down 2 gears from 5th to 3rd. However, things get dumber. I make the shift.... and end up going from 5th-1st. You never go from 5th to 1st. Cue intense shaking and loud noises and me thinking \"WTF WTF WTF WTF\".\n\nIn the end, I blew out the transition on this newish bimmer I had just received. \n\nBut we made it to the Prom still...", "role": "user" }, { "content": " I blew out of the transmission on my car shifting from 5th-1st by accident.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "When I was 16, I had somehow managed to convince my parents to buy me a bimmer that was a few years old. I loved the shit out of that car, it was absolutely beautiful and way too cool for 16 year old me to have. \n\nThe thing about this car was that it was stick. Now I had never been training in driving manual transition, so I pretty much taught myself how to do it on that car (Horrible Idea)\n\nFast forward a month: My friends and I had been recruited by the mother of a girl from a local all girls school to be prom dates for her daughter + her friends. We arrived at the girl's house on gameday only to find out that there were 2 too many people for the Limo. I said its alright, I'll drive my own car. So my buddy and I are driving in my car to the location. **This is where dumbness takes over.**\n\nI figured if we were driving separately, we should have some fun by getting a little speed going. Generally when driving stick, people will shift down a gear to get a little speed increase. I decided 1 wasn't enough, and to shift down 2 gears from 5th to 3rd. However, things get dumber. I make the shift.... and end up going from 5th-1st. You never go from 5th to 1st. Cue intense shaking and loud noises and me thinking \"WTF WTF WTF WTF\".\n\nIn the end, I blew out the transition on this newish bimmer I had just received. \n\nBut we made it to the Prom still...", "role": "user" }, { "content": " fixed a new car, blew it out of the water, and almost didn't make it to the Prom.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "When I was 16, I had somehow managed to convince my parents to buy me a bimmer that was a few years old. I loved the shit out of that car, it was absolutely beautiful and way too cool for 16 year old me to have. \n\nThe thing about this car was that it was stick. Now I had never been training in driving manual transition, so I pretty much taught myself how to do it on that car (Horrible Idea)\n\nFast forward a month: My friends and I had been recruited by the mother of a girl from a local all girls school to be prom dates for her daughter + her friends. We arrived at the girl's house on gameday only to find out that there were 2 too many people for the Limo. I said its alright, I'll drive my own car. So my buddy and I are driving in my car to the location. **This is where dumbness takes over.**\n\nI figured if we were driving separately, we should have some fun by getting a little speed going. Generally when driving stick, people will shift down a gear to get a little speed increase. I decided 1 wasn't enough, and to shift down 2 gears from 5th to 3rd. However, things get dumber. I make the shift.... and end up going from 5th-1st. You never go from 5th to 1st. Cue intense shaking and loud noises and me thinking \"WTF WTF WTF WTF\".\n\nIn the end, I blew out the transition on this newish bimmer I had just received. \n\nBut we made it to the Prom still...", "role": "user" }, { "content": " Tried to crack into the limo of a girl at the school prom, ended up having a loud sex scene and blowing out the transition on my new car.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "When I was 16, I had somehow managed to convince my parents to buy me a bimmer that was a few years old. I loved the shit out of that car, it was absolutely beautiful and way too cool for 16 year old me to have. \n\nThe thing about this car was that it was stick. Now I had never been training in driving manual transition, so I pretty much taught myself how to do it on that car (Horrible Idea)\n\nFast forward a month: My friends and I had been recruited by the mother of a girl from a local all girls school to be prom dates for her daughter + her friends. We arrived at the girl's house on gameday only to find out that there were 2 too many people for the Limo. I said its alright, I'll drive my own car. So my buddy and I are driving in my car to the location. **This is where dumbness takes over.**\n\nI figured if we were driving separately, we should have some fun by getting a little speed going. Generally when driving stick, people will shift down a gear to get a little speed increase. I decided 1 wasn't enough, and to shift down 2 gears from 5th to 3rd. However, things get dumber. I make the shift.... and end up going from 5th-1st. You never go from 5th to 1st. Cue intense shaking and loud noises and me thinking \"WTF WTF WTF WTF\".\n\nIn the end, I blew out the transition on this newish bimmer I had just received. \n\nBut we made it to the Prom still...", "role": "user" }, { "content": " fixed a new car, blew it out of the water, and almost didn't make it to the Prom.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "When I was 16, I had somehow managed to convince my parents to buy me a bimmer that was a few years old. I loved the shit out of that car, it was absolutely beautiful and way too cool for 16 year old me to have. \n\nThe thing about this car was that it was stick. Now I had never been training in driving manual transition, so I pretty much taught myself how to do it on that car (Horrible Idea)\n\nFast forward a month: My friends and I had been recruited by the mother of a girl from a local all girls school to be prom dates for her daughter + her friends. We arrived at the girl's house on gameday only to find out that there were 2 too many people for the Limo. I said its alright, I'll drive my own car. So my buddy and I are driving in my car to the location. **This is where dumbness takes over.**\n\nI figured if we were driving separately, we should have some fun by getting a little speed going. Generally when driving stick, people will shift down a gear to get a little speed increase. I decided 1 wasn't enough, and to shift down 2 gears from 5th to 3rd. However, things get dumber. I make the shift.... and end up going from 5th-1st. You never go from 5th to 1st. Cue intense shaking and loud noises and me thinking \"WTF WTF WTF WTF\".\n\nIn the end, I blew out the transition on this newish bimmer I had just received. \n\nBut we made it to the Prom still...", "role": "user" }, { "content": " I blew out the stick on my new car.**", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "When I was 16, I had somehow managed to convince my parents to buy me a bimmer that was a few years old. I loved the shit out of that car, it was absolutely beautiful and way too cool for 16 year old me to have. \n\nThe thing about this car was that it was stick. Now I had never been training in driving manual transition, so I pretty much taught myself how to do it on that car (Horrible Idea)\n\nFast forward a month: My friends and I had been recruited by the mother of a girl from a local all girls school to be prom dates for her daughter + her friends. We arrived at the girl's house on gameday only to find out that there were 2 too many people for the Limo. I said its alright, I'll drive my own car. So my buddy and I are driving in my car to the location. **This is where dumbness takes over.**\n\nI figured if we were driving separately, we should have some fun by getting a little speed going. Generally when driving stick, people will shift down a gear to get a little speed increase. I decided 1 wasn't enough, and to shift down 2 gears from 5th to 3rd. However, things get dumber. I make the shift.... and end up going from 5th-1st. You never go from 5th to 1st. Cue intense shaking and loud noises and me thinking \"WTF WTF WTF WTF\".\n\nIn the end, I blew out the transition on this newish bimmer I had just received. \n\nBut we made it to the Prom still...", "role": "user" }, { "content": " Tried to crack into the limo of a girl at the school prom, ended up having a loud sex scene and blowing out the transition on my new car.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "When I was 16, I had somehow managed to convince my parents to buy me a bimmer that was a few years old. I loved the shit out of that car, it was absolutely beautiful and way too cool for 16 year old me to have. \n\nThe thing about this car was that it was stick. Now I had never been training in driving manual transition, so I pretty much taught myself how to do it on that car (Horrible Idea)\n\nFast forward a month: My friends and I had been recruited by the mother of a girl from a local all girls school to be prom dates for her daughter + her friends. We arrived at the girl's house on gameday only to find out that there were 2 too many people for the Limo. I said its alright, I'll drive my own car. So my buddy and I are driving in my car to the location. **This is where dumbness takes over.**\n\nI figured if we were driving separately, we should have some fun by getting a little speed going. Generally when driving stick, people will shift down a gear to get a little speed increase. I decided 1 wasn't enough, and to shift down 2 gears from 5th to 3rd. However, things get dumber. I make the shift.... and end up going from 5th-1st. You never go from 5th to 1st. Cue intense shaking and loud noises and me thinking \"WTF WTF WTF WTF\".\n\nIn the end, I blew out the transition on this newish bimmer I had just received. \n\nBut we made it to the Prom still...", "role": "user" }, { "content": " I blew out of the transmission on my car shifting from 5th-1st by accident.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "When I was 16, I had somehow managed to convince my parents to buy me a bimmer that was a few years old. I loved the shit out of that car, it was absolutely beautiful and way too cool for 16 year old me to have. \n\nThe thing about this car was that it was stick. Now I had never been training in driving manual transition, so I pretty much taught myself how to do it on that car (Horrible Idea)\n\nFast forward a month: My friends and I had been recruited by the mother of a girl from a local all girls school to be prom dates for her daughter + her friends. We arrived at the girl's house on gameday only to find out that there were 2 too many people for the Limo. I said its alright, I'll drive my own car. So my buddy and I are driving in my car to the location. **This is where dumbness takes over.**\n\nI figured if we were driving separately, we should have some fun by getting a little speed going. Generally when driving stick, people will shift down a gear to get a little speed increase. I decided 1 wasn't enough, and to shift down 2 gears from 5th to 3rd. However, things get dumber. I make the shift.... and end up going from 5th-1st. You never go from 5th to 1st. Cue intense shaking and loud noises and me thinking \"WTF WTF WTF WTF\".\n\nIn the end, I blew out the transition on this newish bimmer I had just received. \n\nBut we made it to the Prom still...", "role": "user" }, { "content": " fixed a new car, blew it out of the water, and almost didn't make it to the Prom.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "When I was 16, I had somehow managed to convince my parents to buy me a bimmer that was a few years old. I loved the shit out of that car, it was absolutely beautiful and way too cool for 16 year old me to have. \n\nThe thing about this car was that it was stick. Now I had never been training in driving manual transition, so I pretty much taught myself how to do it on that car (Horrible Idea)\n\nFast forward a month: My friends and I had been recruited by the mother of a girl from a local all girls school to be prom dates for her daughter + her friends. We arrived at the girl's house on gameday only to find out that there were 2 too many people for the Limo. I said its alright, I'll drive my own car. So my buddy and I are driving in my car to the location. **This is where dumbness takes over.**\n\nI figured if we were driving separately, we should have some fun by getting a little speed going. Generally when driving stick, people will shift down a gear to get a little speed increase. I decided 1 wasn't enough, and to shift down 2 gears from 5th to 3rd. However, things get dumber. I make the shift.... and end up going from 5th-1st. You never go from 5th to 1st. Cue intense shaking and loud noises and me thinking \"WTF WTF WTF WTF\".\n\nIn the end, I blew out the transition on this newish bimmer I had just received. \n\nBut we made it to the Prom still...", "role": "user" }, { "content": " I blew out of the transmission on my car shifting from 5th-1st by accident.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "When I was 16, I had somehow managed to convince my parents to buy me a bimmer that was a few years old. I loved the shit out of that car, it was absolutely beautiful and way too cool for 16 year old me to have. \n\nThe thing about this car was that it was stick. Now I had never been training in driving manual transition, so I pretty much taught myself how to do it on that car (Horrible Idea)\n\nFast forward a month: My friends and I had been recruited by the mother of a girl from a local all girls school to be prom dates for her daughter + her friends. We arrived at the girl's house on gameday only to find out that there were 2 too many people for the Limo. I said its alright, I'll drive my own car. So my buddy and I are driving in my car to the location. **This is where dumbness takes over.**\n\nI figured if we were driving separately, we should have some fun by getting a little speed going. Generally when driving stick, people will shift down a gear to get a little speed increase. I decided 1 wasn't enough, and to shift down 2 gears from 5th to 3rd. However, things get dumber. I make the shift.... and end up going from 5th-1st. You never go from 5th to 1st. Cue intense shaking and loud noises and me thinking \"WTF WTF WTF WTF\".\n\nIn the end, I blew out the transition on this newish bimmer I had just received. \n\nBut we made it to the Prom still...", "role": "user" }, { "content": " I blew out the stick on my new car.**", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "When I was 16, I had somehow managed to convince my parents to buy me a bimmer that was a few years old. I loved the shit out of that car, it was absolutely beautiful and way too cool for 16 year old me to have. \n\nThe thing about this car was that it was stick. Now I had never been training in driving manual transition, so I pretty much taught myself how to do it on that car (Horrible Idea)\n\nFast forward a month: My friends and I had been recruited by the mother of a girl from a local all girls school to be prom dates for her daughter + her friends. We arrived at the girl's house on gameday only to find out that there were 2 too many people for the Limo. I said its alright, I'll drive my own car. So my buddy and I are driving in my car to the location. **This is where dumbness takes over.**\n\nI figured if we were driving separately, we should have some fun by getting a little speed going. Generally when driving stick, people will shift down a gear to get a little speed increase. I decided 1 wasn't enough, and to shift down 2 gears from 5th to 3rd. However, things get dumber. I make the shift.... and end up going from 5th-1st. You never go from 5th to 1st. Cue intense shaking and loud noises and me thinking \"WTF WTF WTF WTF\".\n\nIn the end, I blew out the transition on this newish bimmer I had just received. \n\nBut we made it to the Prom still...", "role": "user" }, { "content": " fixed a new car, blew it out of the water, and almost didn't make it to the Prom.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "When I was 16, I had somehow managed to convince my parents to buy me a bimmer that was a few years old. I loved the shit out of that car, it was absolutely beautiful and way too cool for 16 year old me to have. \n\nThe thing about this car was that it was stick. Now I had never been training in driving manual transition, so I pretty much taught myself how to do it on that car (Horrible Idea)\n\nFast forward a month: My friends and I had been recruited by the mother of a girl from a local all girls school to be prom dates for her daughter + her friends. We arrived at the girl's house on gameday only to find out that there were 2 too many people for the Limo. I said its alright, I'll drive my own car. So my buddy and I are driving in my car to the location. **This is where dumbness takes over.**\n\nI figured if we were driving separately, we should have some fun by getting a little speed going. Generally when driving stick, people will shift down a gear to get a little speed increase. I decided 1 wasn't enough, and to shift down 2 gears from 5th to 3rd. However, things get dumber. I make the shift.... and end up going from 5th-1st. You never go from 5th to 1st. Cue intense shaking and loud noises and me thinking \"WTF WTF WTF WTF\".\n\nIn the end, I blew out the transition on this newish bimmer I had just received. \n\nBut we made it to the Prom still...", "role": "user" }, { "content": " Tried to crack into the limo of a girl at the school prom, ended up having a loud sex scene and blowing out the transition on my new car.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "When I was 16, I had somehow managed to convince my parents to buy me a bimmer that was a few years old. I loved the shit out of that car, it was absolutely beautiful and way too cool for 16 year old me to have. \n\nThe thing about this car was that it was stick. Now I had never been training in driving manual transition, so I pretty much taught myself how to do it on that car (Horrible Idea)\n\nFast forward a month: My friends and I had been recruited by the mother of a girl from a local all girls school to be prom dates for her daughter + her friends. We arrived at the girl's house on gameday only to find out that there were 2 too many people for the Limo. I said its alright, I'll drive my own car. So my buddy and I are driving in my car to the location. **This is where dumbness takes over.**\n\nI figured if we were driving separately, we should have some fun by getting a little speed going. Generally when driving stick, people will shift down a gear to get a little speed increase. I decided 1 wasn't enough, and to shift down 2 gears from 5th to 3rd. However, things get dumber. I make the shift.... and end up going from 5th-1st. You never go from 5th to 1st. Cue intense shaking and loud noises and me thinking \"WTF WTF WTF WTF\".\n\nIn the end, I blew out the transition on this newish bimmer I had just received. \n\nBut we made it to the Prom still...", "role": "user" }, { "content": " I blew out the stick on my new car.**", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "When I was 16, I had somehow managed to convince my parents to buy me a bimmer that was a few years old. I loved the shit out of that car, it was absolutely beautiful and way too cool for 16 year old me to have. \n\nThe thing about this car was that it was stick. Now I had never been training in driving manual transition, so I pretty much taught myself how to do it on that car (Horrible Idea)\n\nFast forward a month: My friends and I had been recruited by the mother of a girl from a local all girls school to be prom dates for her daughter + her friends. We arrived at the girl's house on gameday only to find out that there were 2 too many people for the Limo. I said its alright, I'll drive my own car. So my buddy and I are driving in my car to the location. **This is where dumbness takes over.**\n\nI figured if we were driving separately, we should have some fun by getting a little speed going. Generally when driving stick, people will shift down a gear to get a little speed increase. I decided 1 wasn't enough, and to shift down 2 gears from 5th to 3rd. However, things get dumber. I make the shift.... and end up going from 5th-1st. You never go from 5th to 1st. Cue intense shaking and loud noises and me thinking \"WTF WTF WTF WTF\".\n\nIn the end, I blew out the transition on this newish bimmer I had just received. \n\nBut we made it to the Prom still...", "role": "user" }, { "content": " Tried to crack into the limo of a girl at the school prom, ended up having a loud sex scene and blowing out the transition on my new car.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "When I was 16, I had somehow managed to convince my parents to buy me a bimmer that was a few years old. I loved the shit out of that car, it was absolutely beautiful and way too cool for 16 year old me to have. \n\nThe thing about this car was that it was stick. Now I had never been training in driving manual transition, so I pretty much taught myself how to do it on that car (Horrible Idea)\n\nFast forward a month: My friends and I had been recruited by the mother of a girl from a local all girls school to be prom dates for her daughter + her friends. We arrived at the girl's house on gameday only to find out that there were 2 too many people for the Limo. I said its alright, I'll drive my own car. So my buddy and I are driving in my car to the location. **This is where dumbness takes over.**\n\nI figured if we were driving separately, we should have some fun by getting a little speed going. Generally when driving stick, people will shift down a gear to get a little speed increase. I decided 1 wasn't enough, and to shift down 2 gears from 5th to 3rd. However, things get dumber. I make the shift.... and end up going from 5th-1st. You never go from 5th to 1st. Cue intense shaking and loud noises and me thinking \"WTF WTF WTF WTF\".\n\nIn the end, I blew out the transition on this newish bimmer I had just received. \n\nBut we made it to the Prom still...", "role": "user" }, { "content": " I blew out of the transmission on my car shifting from 5th-1st by accident.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "When I was 16, I had somehow managed to convince my parents to buy me a bimmer that was a few years old. I loved the shit out of that car, it was absolutely beautiful and way too cool for 16 year old me to have. \n\nThe thing about this car was that it was stick. Now I had never been training in driving manual transition, so I pretty much taught myself how to do it on that car (Horrible Idea)\n\nFast forward a month: My friends and I had been recruited by the mother of a girl from a local all girls school to be prom dates for her daughter + her friends. We arrived at the girl's house on gameday only to find out that there were 2 too many people for the Limo. I said its alright, I'll drive my own car. So my buddy and I are driving in my car to the location. **This is where dumbness takes over.**\n\nI figured if we were driving separately, we should have some fun by getting a little speed going. Generally when driving stick, people will shift down a gear to get a little speed increase. I decided 1 wasn't enough, and to shift down 2 gears from 5th to 3rd. However, things get dumber. I make the shift.... and end up going from 5th-1st. You never go from 5th to 1st. Cue intense shaking and loud noises and me thinking \"WTF WTF WTF WTF\".\n\nIn the end, I blew out the transition on this newish bimmer I had just received. \n\nBut we made it to the Prom still...", "role": "user" }, { "content": " I blew out the stick on my new car.**", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "When I was 16, I had somehow managed to convince my parents to buy me a bimmer that was a few years old. I loved the shit out of that car, it was absolutely beautiful and way too cool for 16 year old me to have. \n\nThe thing about this car was that it was stick. Now I had never been training in driving manual transition, so I pretty much taught myself how to do it on that car (Horrible Idea)\n\nFast forward a month: My friends and I had been recruited by the mother of a girl from a local all girls school to be prom dates for her daughter + her friends. We arrived at the girl's house on gameday only to find out that there were 2 too many people for the Limo. I said its alright, I'll drive my own car. So my buddy and I are driving in my car to the location. **This is where dumbness takes over.**\n\nI figured if we were driving separately, we should have some fun by getting a little speed going. Generally when driving stick, people will shift down a gear to get a little speed increase. I decided 1 wasn't enough, and to shift down 2 gears from 5th to 3rd. However, things get dumber. I make the shift.... and end up going from 5th-1st. You never go from 5th to 1st. Cue intense shaking and loud noises and me thinking \"WTF WTF WTF WTF\".\n\nIn the end, I blew out the transition on this newish bimmer I had just received. \n\nBut we made it to the Prom still...", "role": "user" }, { "content": " I blew out of the transmission on my car shifting from 5th-1st by accident.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "When I was 16, I had somehow managed to convince my parents to buy me a bimmer that was a few years old. I loved the shit out of that car, it was absolutely beautiful and way too cool for 16 year old me to have. \n\nThe thing about this car was that it was stick. Now I had never been training in driving manual transition, so I pretty much taught myself how to do it on that car (Horrible Idea)\n\nFast forward a month: My friends and I had been recruited by the mother of a girl from a local all girls school to be prom dates for her daughter + her friends. We arrived at the girl's house on gameday only to find out that there were 2 too many people for the Limo. I said its alright, I'll drive my own car. So my buddy and I are driving in my car to the location. **This is where dumbness takes over.**\n\nI figured if we were driving separately, we should have some fun by getting a little speed going. Generally when driving stick, people will shift down a gear to get a little speed increase. I decided 1 wasn't enough, and to shift down 2 gears from 5th to 3rd. However, things get dumber. I make the shift.... and end up going from 5th-1st. You never go from 5th to 1st. Cue intense shaking and loud noises and me thinking \"WTF WTF WTF WTF\".\n\nIn the end, I blew out the transition on this newish bimmer I had just received. \n\nBut we made it to the Prom still...", "role": "user" }, { "content": " fixed a new car, blew it out of the water, and almost didn't make it to the Prom.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "A few weeks ago I asked this subreddit for some relationship advice and I recieved some good advice and I was hoping I could come back for some more. [This is my first post]( \n\nThe advice to my first post was almost exclusively try to date my wife, and I've started to do just that. Since then, I've become more invested in our marriage and I'm trying to do small things and we've had some success here and there. Its no where near as fun as some of the things in my past, and its actually a bit of hard work, but I'm hoping it'll pay off. \n\nWe've started up watching shows and movies together. We watch movies in our native tongue together and that is fun, and we've enjoyed some fun cuddling (PG, I know but its an improvement for us) and I've tried to be romantic with her... like kissing her neck, playing with her hair, and she has been into it, but she hasn't tried anything on her own still. \n\nThere has been some progress for us, and its been small but it is progress none the less. She has been more happy to see me, and we both seem to be happier together. Its small things, but I recognize its a start. I woke up this morning and she was running her hands over my chest and cuddled up with me, which might be the most romantic she has ever been with me. \n\nThe issue is I am struggling to stay content. I want more, and I've been unbelievably horny (for lack of a better word). I don't think I can continue to stay celibate, and I don't want to try to force sex and ruin the progress we are making. I'm not keen on the idea of cheating again, but its something I've already done and its tempting when I'm not thinking things through clearly. I'm kind of hoping people can give me some encouragement or advice on what to do to improve things faster with my wife, and what I can to do to work on my emotions. \n\nAges and Relationship Length are same as before.... I am 26/m and my wife is 24/f and married 2.5 years.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " Things are improving with my wife and I, but the progress is slow and I'm feeling tempted to make poor decisions again. Would appreciate some advice on how to improve things more with my wife.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "A few weeks ago I asked this subreddit for some relationship advice and I recieved some good advice and I was hoping I could come back for some more. [This is my first post]( \n\nThe advice to my first post was almost exclusively try to date my wife, and I've started to do just that. Since then, I've become more invested in our marriage and I'm trying to do small things and we've had some success here and there. Its no where near as fun as some of the things in my past, and its actually a bit of hard work, but I'm hoping it'll pay off. \n\nWe've started up watching shows and movies together. We watch movies in our native tongue together and that is fun, and we've enjoyed some fun cuddling (PG, I know but its an improvement for us) and I've tried to be romantic with her... like kissing her neck, playing with her hair, and she has been into it, but she hasn't tried anything on her own still. \n\nThere has been some progress for us, and its been small but it is progress none the less. She has been more happy to see me, and we both seem to be happier together. Its small things, but I recognize its a start. I woke up this morning and she was running her hands over my chest and cuddled up with me, which might be the most romantic she has ever been with me. \n\nThe issue is I am struggling to stay content. I want more, and I've been unbelievably horny (for lack of a better word). I don't think I can continue to stay celibate, and I don't want to try to force sex and ruin the progress we are making. I'm not keen on the idea of cheating again, but its something I've already done and its tempting when I'm not thinking things through clearly. I'm kind of hoping people can give me some encouragement or advice on what to do to improve things faster with my wife, and what I can to do to work on my emotions. \n\nAges and Relationship Length are same as before.... I am 26/m and my wife is 24/f and married 2.5 years.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " I went from no sex, to having sex, to having sex, to having sex... I just can't stay content with the amount of sex it is taking. I'm not sure how to deal with the stress. Help?", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "A few weeks ago I asked this subreddit for some relationship advice and I recieved some good advice and I was hoping I could come back for some more. [This is my first post]( \n\nThe advice to my first post was almost exclusively try to date my wife, and I've started to do just that. Since then, I've become more invested in our marriage and I'm trying to do small things and we've had some success here and there. Its no where near as fun as some of the things in my past, and its actually a bit of hard work, but I'm hoping it'll pay off. \n\nWe've started up watching shows and movies together. We watch movies in our native tongue together and that is fun, and we've enjoyed some fun cuddling (PG, I know but its an improvement for us) and I've tried to be romantic with her... like kissing her neck, playing with her hair, and she has been into it, but she hasn't tried anything on her own still. \n\nThere has been some progress for us, and its been small but it is progress none the less. She has been more happy to see me, and we both seem to be happier together. Its small things, but I recognize its a start. I woke up this morning and she was running her hands over my chest and cuddled up with me, which might be the most romantic she has ever been with me. \n\nThe issue is I am struggling to stay content. I want more, and I've been unbelievably horny (for lack of a better word). I don't think I can continue to stay celibate, and I don't want to try to force sex and ruin the progress we are making. I'm not keen on the idea of cheating again, but its something I've already done and its tempting when I'm not thinking things through clearly. I'm kind of hoping people can give me some encouragement or advice on what to do to improve things faster with my wife, and what I can to do to work on my emotions. \n\nAges and Relationship Length are same as before.... I am 26/m and my wife is 24/f and married 2.5 years.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " Things are improving with my wife and I, but the progress is slow and I'm feeling tempted to make poor decisions again. Would appreciate some advice on how to improve things more with my wife.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "A few weeks ago I asked this subreddit for some relationship advice and I recieved some good advice and I was hoping I could come back for some more. [This is my first post]( \n\nThe advice to my first post was almost exclusively try to date my wife, and I've started to do just that. Since then, I've become more invested in our marriage and I'm trying to do small things and we've had some success here and there. Its no where near as fun as some of the things in my past, and its actually a bit of hard work, but I'm hoping it'll pay off. \n\nWe've started up watching shows and movies together. We watch movies in our native tongue together and that is fun, and we've enjoyed some fun cuddling (PG, I know but its an improvement for us) and I've tried to be romantic with her... like kissing her neck, playing with her hair, and she has been into it, but she hasn't tried anything on her own still. \n\nThere has been some progress for us, and its been small but it is progress none the less. She has been more happy to see me, and we both seem to be happier together. Its small things, but I recognize its a start. I woke up this morning and she was running her hands over my chest and cuddled up with me, which might be the most romantic she has ever been with me. \n\nThe issue is I am struggling to stay content. I want more, and I've been unbelievably horny (for lack of a better word). I don't think I can continue to stay celibate, and I don't want to try to force sex and ruin the progress we are making. I'm not keen on the idea of cheating again, but its something I've already done and its tempting when I'm not thinking things through clearly. I'm kind of hoping people can give me some encouragement or advice on what to do to improve things faster with my wife, and what I can to do to work on my emotions. \n\nAges and Relationship Length are same as before.... I am 26/m and my wife is 24/f and married 2.5 years.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " I am trying to stay content, but I am experiencing a lot of intense and exciting sex. I know that when I try to stay celibate I will ruin the progress we are making. I am sorry for the trouble I have caused and I hope I can get some advice on how to make it better.**", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "A few weeks ago I asked this subreddit for some relationship advice and I recieved some good advice and I was hoping I could come back for some more. [This is my first post]( \n\nThe advice to my first post was almost exclusively try to date my wife, and I've started to do just that. Since then, I've become more invested in our marriage and I'm trying to do small things and we've had some success here and there. Its no where near as fun as some of the things in my past, and its actually a bit of hard work, but I'm hoping it'll pay off. \n\nWe've started up watching shows and movies together. We watch movies in our native tongue together and that is fun, and we've enjoyed some fun cuddling (PG, I know but its an improvement for us) and I've tried to be romantic with her... like kissing her neck, playing with her hair, and she has been into it, but she hasn't tried anything on her own still. \n\nThere has been some progress for us, and its been small but it is progress none the less. She has been more happy to see me, and we both seem to be happier together. Its small things, but I recognize its a start. I woke up this morning and she was running her hands over my chest and cuddled up with me, which might be the most romantic she has ever been with me. \n\nThe issue is I am struggling to stay content. I want more, and I've been unbelievably horny (for lack of a better word). I don't think I can continue to stay celibate, and I don't want to try to force sex and ruin the progress we are making. I'm not keen on the idea of cheating again, but its something I've already done and its tempting when I'm not thinking things through clearly. I'm kind of hoping people can give me some encouragement or advice on what to do to improve things faster with my wife, and what I can to do to work on my emotions. \n\nAges and Relationship Length are same as before.... I am 26/m and my wife is 24/f and married 2.5 years.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " Got a lot of advice, and I'm trying to stay happy with her and my wife is working hard to meet the expectations I have. Not sure what to do.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "A few weeks ago I asked this subreddit for some relationship advice and I recieved some good advice and I was hoping I could come back for some more. [This is my first post]( \n\nThe advice to my first post was almost exclusively try to date my wife, and I've started to do just that. Since then, I've become more invested in our marriage and I'm trying to do small things and we've had some success here and there. Its no where near as fun as some of the things in my past, and its actually a bit of hard work, but I'm hoping it'll pay off. \n\nWe've started up watching shows and movies together. We watch movies in our native tongue together and that is fun, and we've enjoyed some fun cuddling (PG, I know but its an improvement for us) and I've tried to be romantic with her... like kissing her neck, playing with her hair, and she has been into it, but she hasn't tried anything on her own still. \n\nThere has been some progress for us, and its been small but it is progress none the less. She has been more happy to see me, and we both seem to be happier together. Its small things, but I recognize its a start. I woke up this morning and she was running her hands over my chest and cuddled up with me, which might be the most romantic she has ever been with me. \n\nThe issue is I am struggling to stay content. I want more, and I've been unbelievably horny (for lack of a better word). I don't think I can continue to stay celibate, and I don't want to try to force sex and ruin the progress we are making. I'm not keen on the idea of cheating again, but its something I've already done and its tempting when I'm not thinking things through clearly. I'm kind of hoping people can give me some encouragement or advice on what to do to improve things faster with my wife, and what I can to do to work on my emotions. \n\nAges and Relationship Length are same as before.... I am 26/m and my wife is 24/f and married 2.5 years.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " I went from no sex, to having sex, to having sex, to having sex... I just can't stay content with the amount of sex it is taking. I'm not sure how to deal with the stress. Help?", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "A few weeks ago I asked this subreddit for some relationship advice and I recieved some good advice and I was hoping I could come back for some more. [This is my first post]( \n\nThe advice to my first post was almost exclusively try to date my wife, and I've started to do just that. Since then, I've become more invested in our marriage and I'm trying to do small things and we've had some success here and there. Its no where near as fun as some of the things in my past, and its actually a bit of hard work, but I'm hoping it'll pay off. \n\nWe've started up watching shows and movies together. We watch movies in our native tongue together and that is fun, and we've enjoyed some fun cuddling (PG, I know but its an improvement for us) and I've tried to be romantic with her... like kissing her neck, playing with her hair, and she has been into it, but she hasn't tried anything on her own still. \n\nThere has been some progress for us, and its been small but it is progress none the less. She has been more happy to see me, and we both seem to be happier together. Its small things, but I recognize its a start. I woke up this morning and she was running her hands over my chest and cuddled up with me, which might be the most romantic she has ever been with me. \n\nThe issue is I am struggling to stay content. I want more, and I've been unbelievably horny (for lack of a better word). I don't think I can continue to stay celibate, and I don't want to try to force sex and ruin the progress we are making. I'm not keen on the idea of cheating again, but its something I've already done and its tempting when I'm not thinking things through clearly. I'm kind of hoping people can give me some encouragement or advice on what to do to improve things faster with my wife, and what I can to do to work on my emotions. \n\nAges and Relationship Length are same as before.... I am 26/m and my wife is 24/f and married 2.5 years.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " Got a lot of advice, and I'm trying to stay happy with her and my wife is working hard to meet the expectations I have. Not sure what to do.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "A few weeks ago I asked this subreddit for some relationship advice and I recieved some good advice and I was hoping I could come back for some more. [This is my first post]( \n\nThe advice to my first post was almost exclusively try to date my wife, and I've started to do just that. Since then, I've become more invested in our marriage and I'm trying to do small things and we've had some success here and there. Its no where near as fun as some of the things in my past, and its actually a bit of hard work, but I'm hoping it'll pay off. \n\nWe've started up watching shows and movies together. We watch movies in our native tongue together and that is fun, and we've enjoyed some fun cuddling (PG, I know but its an improvement for us) and I've tried to be romantic with her... like kissing her neck, playing with her hair, and she has been into it, but she hasn't tried anything on her own still. \n\nThere has been some progress for us, and its been small but it is progress none the less. She has been more happy to see me, and we both seem to be happier together. Its small things, but I recognize its a start. I woke up this morning and she was running her hands over my chest and cuddled up with me, which might be the most romantic she has ever been with me. \n\nThe issue is I am struggling to stay content. I want more, and I've been unbelievably horny (for lack of a better word). I don't think I can continue to stay celibate, and I don't want to try to force sex and ruin the progress we are making. I'm not keen on the idea of cheating again, but its something I've already done and its tempting when I'm not thinking things through clearly. I'm kind of hoping people can give me some encouragement or advice on what to do to improve things faster with my wife, and what I can to do to work on my emotions. \n\nAges and Relationship Length are same as before.... I am 26/m and my wife is 24/f and married 2.5 years.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " I am trying to stay content, but I am experiencing a lot of intense and exciting sex. I know that when I try to stay celibate I will ruin the progress we are making. I am sorry for the trouble I have caused and I hope I can get some advice on how to make it better.**", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I broke down in front of you last night. You looked at me like I was pathetic. All I want in the world is for you to love me. The way you used to. I know you are pissed at me for betraying your trust, but I did it for the right reasons. I wish you understood that.\n\nYou can't tell someone who truly loves you that you tried to kill yourself and tell them not to tell anyone. Yes, I know I told the one person you didn't want me to tell, but it was because he was there when it happened. You also tell me to keep our private lives private and not tell anyone else. I was just trying to listen to you. So I told the person I thought we could both trust to make sure you really were ok. \n\nI know I keep fucking up. I just want us to work so badly. Every time I fuck up, and I just want to be perfect for you. The way I used to be... I still can be. I'm not ever trying to hurt you. Sometimes I just can't deal with all these situations on my own, and now I feel like I don't have your support because you are always upset with me. \n\nAll my friends think it's YOU, that YOU cause all these problems. But it's not. It's me. And I'm trying SO FUCKING HARD to make it easier for you to be with me. To WANT to be with me again. \n\nI've said it before and I've said it again: you are worth fighting for. If we can get passed this we can have smooth sailing in the near future. I'm not trying to force you or rush you... I just hate this game and I want us to both commit to each other so we can get passed this month and hopefully have a happy life together. That's all I want... to be an \"us\" again. To feel secure. \n\nI can't give up. I hate when people tell me I should. I don't want to be without you.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " I want to be the best for you and help you.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I broke down in front of you last night. You looked at me like I was pathetic. All I want in the world is for you to love me. The way you used to. I know you are pissed at me for betraying your trust, but I did it for the right reasons. I wish you understood that.\n\nYou can't tell someone who truly loves you that you tried to kill yourself and tell them not to tell anyone. Yes, I know I told the one person you didn't want me to tell, but it was because he was there when it happened. You also tell me to keep our private lives private and not tell anyone else. I was just trying to listen to you. So I told the person I thought we could both trust to make sure you really were ok. \n\nI know I keep fucking up. I just want us to work so badly. Every time I fuck up, and I just want to be perfect for you. The way I used to be... I still can be. I'm not ever trying to hurt you. Sometimes I just can't deal with all these situations on my own, and now I feel like I don't have your support because you are always upset with me. \n\nAll my friends think it's YOU, that YOU cause all these problems. But it's not. It's me. And I'm trying SO FUCKING HARD to make it easier for you to be with me. To WANT to be with me again. \n\nI've said it before and I've said it again: you are worth fighting for. If we can get passed this we can have smooth sailing in the near future. I'm not trying to force you or rush you... I just hate this game and I want us to both commit to each other so we can get passed this month and hopefully have a happy life together. That's all I want... to be an \"us\" again. To feel secure. \n\nI can't give up. I hate when people tell me I should. I don't want to be without you.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " I need you to be my everything. I can't do it alone. Please help.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I broke down in front of you last night. You looked at me like I was pathetic. All I want in the world is for you to love me. The way you used to. I know you are pissed at me for betraying your trust, but I did it for the right reasons. I wish you understood that.\n\nYou can't tell someone who truly loves you that you tried to kill yourself and tell them not to tell anyone. Yes, I know I told the one person you didn't want me to tell, but it was because he was there when it happened. You also tell me to keep our private lives private and not tell anyone else. I was just trying to listen to you. So I told the person I thought we could both trust to make sure you really were ok. \n\nI know I keep fucking up. I just want us to work so badly. Every time I fuck up, and I just want to be perfect for you. The way I used to be... I still can be. I'm not ever trying to hurt you. Sometimes I just can't deal with all these situations on my own, and now I feel like I don't have your support because you are always upset with me. \n\nAll my friends think it's YOU, that YOU cause all these problems. But it's not. It's me. And I'm trying SO FUCKING HARD to make it easier for you to be with me. To WANT to be with me again. \n\nI've said it before and I've said it again: you are worth fighting for. If we can get passed this we can have smooth sailing in the near future. I'm not trying to force you or rush you... I just hate this game and I want us to both commit to each other so we can get passed this month and hopefully have a happy life together. That's all I want... to be an \"us\" again. To feel secure. \n\nI can't give up. I hate when people tell me I should. I don't want to be without you.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " I need you to be my everything. I can't do it alone. Please help.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I broke down in front of you last night. You looked at me like I was pathetic. All I want in the world is for you to love me. The way you used to. I know you are pissed at me for betraying your trust, but I did it for the right reasons. I wish you understood that.\n\nYou can't tell someone who truly loves you that you tried to kill yourself and tell them not to tell anyone. Yes, I know I told the one person you didn't want me to tell, but it was because he was there when it happened. You also tell me to keep our private lives private and not tell anyone else. I was just trying to listen to you. So I told the person I thought we could both trust to make sure you really were ok. \n\nI know I keep fucking up. I just want us to work so badly. Every time I fuck up, and I just want to be perfect for you. The way I used to be... I still can be. I'm not ever trying to hurt you. Sometimes I just can't deal with all these situations on my own, and now I feel like I don't have your support because you are always upset with me. \n\nAll my friends think it's YOU, that YOU cause all these problems. But it's not. It's me. And I'm trying SO FUCKING HARD to make it easier for you to be with me. To WANT to be with me again. \n\nI've said it before and I've said it again: you are worth fighting for. If we can get passed this we can have smooth sailing in the near future. I'm not trying to force you or rush you... I just hate this game and I want us to both commit to each other so we can get passed this month and hopefully have a happy life together. That's all I want... to be an \"us\" again. To feel secure. \n\nI can't give up. I hate when people tell me I should. I don't want to be without you.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " Broke down in tears in front of my off-and-on boyfriend last night. Feeling embarrassed and sad.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I broke down in front of you last night. You looked at me like I was pathetic. All I want in the world is for you to love me. The way you used to. I know you are pissed at me for betraying your trust, but I did it for the right reasons. I wish you understood that.\n\nYou can't tell someone who truly loves you that you tried to kill yourself and tell them not to tell anyone. Yes, I know I told the one person you didn't want me to tell, but it was because he was there when it happened. You also tell me to keep our private lives private and not tell anyone else. I was just trying to listen to you. So I told the person I thought we could both trust to make sure you really were ok. \n\nI know I keep fucking up. I just want us to work so badly. Every time I fuck up, and I just want to be perfect for you. The way I used to be... I still can be. I'm not ever trying to hurt you. Sometimes I just can't deal with all these situations on my own, and now I feel like I don't have your support because you are always upset with me. \n\nAll my friends think it's YOU, that YOU cause all these problems. But it's not. It's me. And I'm trying SO FUCKING HARD to make it easier for you to be with me. To WANT to be with me again. \n\nI've said it before and I've said it again: you are worth fighting for. If we can get passed this we can have smooth sailing in the near future. I'm not trying to force you or rush you... I just hate this game and I want us to both commit to each other so we can get passed this month and hopefully have a happy life together. That's all I want... to be an \"us\" again. To feel secure. \n\nI can't give up. I hate when people tell me I should. I don't want to be without you.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " I broke down in front of you last night. I want you to love me and tell others but I can't because YA is always upset with me for causing all these problems.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I broke down in front of you last night. You looked at me like I was pathetic. All I want in the world is for you to love me. The way you used to. I know you are pissed at me for betraying your trust, but I did it for the right reasons. I wish you understood that.\n\nYou can't tell someone who truly loves you that you tried to kill yourself and tell them not to tell anyone. Yes, I know I told the one person you didn't want me to tell, but it was because he was there when it happened. You also tell me to keep our private lives private and not tell anyone else. I was just trying to listen to you. So I told the person I thought we could both trust to make sure you really were ok. \n\nI know I keep fucking up. I just want us to work so badly. Every time I fuck up, and I just want to be perfect for you. The way I used to be... I still can be. I'm not ever trying to hurt you. Sometimes I just can't deal with all these situations on my own, and now I feel like I don't have your support because you are always upset with me. \n\nAll my friends think it's YOU, that YOU cause all these problems. But it's not. It's me. And I'm trying SO FUCKING HARD to make it easier for you to be with me. To WANT to be with me again. \n\nI've said it before and I've said it again: you are worth fighting for. If we can get passed this we can have smooth sailing in the near future. I'm not trying to force you or rush you... I just hate this game and I want us to both commit to each other so we can get passed this month and hopefully have a happy life together. That's all I want... to be an \"us\" again. To feel secure. \n\nI can't give up. I hate when people tell me I should. I don't want to be without you.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " I want to be the best for you and help you.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I broke down in front of you last night. You looked at me like I was pathetic. All I want in the world is for you to love me. The way you used to. I know you are pissed at me for betraying your trust, but I did it for the right reasons. I wish you understood that.\n\nYou can't tell someone who truly loves you that you tried to kill yourself and tell them not to tell anyone. Yes, I know I told the one person you didn't want me to tell, but it was because he was there when it happened. You also tell me to keep our private lives private and not tell anyone else. I was just trying to listen to you. So I told the person I thought we could both trust to make sure you really were ok. \n\nI know I keep fucking up. I just want us to work so badly. Every time I fuck up, and I just want to be perfect for you. The way I used to be... I still can be. I'm not ever trying to hurt you. Sometimes I just can't deal with all these situations on my own, and now I feel like I don't have your support because you are always upset with me. \n\nAll my friends think it's YOU, that YOU cause all these problems. But it's not. It's me. And I'm trying SO FUCKING HARD to make it easier for you to be with me. To WANT to be with me again. \n\nI've said it before and I've said it again: you are worth fighting for. If we can get passed this we can have smooth sailing in the near future. I'm not trying to force you or rush you... I just hate this game and I want us to both commit to each other so we can get passed this month and hopefully have a happy life together. That's all I want... to be an \"us\" again. To feel secure. \n\nI can't give up. I hate when people tell me I should. I don't want to be without you.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " I broke down in front of you last night. I want you to love me and tell others but I can't because YA is always upset with me for causing all these problems.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I broke down in front of you last night. You looked at me like I was pathetic. All I want in the world is for you to love me. The way you used to. I know you are pissed at me for betraying your trust, but I did it for the right reasons. I wish you understood that.\n\nYou can't tell someone who truly loves you that you tried to kill yourself and tell them not to tell anyone. Yes, I know I told the one person you didn't want me to tell, but it was because he was there when it happened. You also tell me to keep our private lives private and not tell anyone else. I was just trying to listen to you. So I told the person I thought we could both trust to make sure you really were ok. \n\nI know I keep fucking up. I just want us to work so badly. Every time I fuck up, and I just want to be perfect for you. The way I used to be... I still can be. I'm not ever trying to hurt you. Sometimes I just can't deal with all these situations on my own, and now I feel like I don't have your support because you are always upset with me. \n\nAll my friends think it's YOU, that YOU cause all these problems. But it's not. It's me. And I'm trying SO FUCKING HARD to make it easier for you to be with me. To WANT to be with me again. \n\nI've said it before and I've said it again: you are worth fighting for. If we can get passed this we can have smooth sailing in the near future. I'm not trying to force you or rush you... I just hate this game and I want us to both commit to each other so we can get passed this month and hopefully have a happy life together. That's all I want... to be an \"us\" again. To feel secure. \n\nI can't give up. I hate when people tell me I should. I don't want to be without you.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " Broke down in tears in front of my off-and-on boyfriend last night. Feeling embarrassed and sad.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "Last summer I worked with a girl, who was 20 at the time, at a supermarket, the first time I saw her I knew I wanted to date her. I mulled over it for a few weeks, decided that I wanted to attempt to go forward with it. As soon as I had decided that she had become a front end manager and not wanting to make it awkward I decided to not go forward with it.\n\nFast forward to September, I was drunk, added her on Facebook, messaged her, that didn't go anywhere. I messaged her again in November asking if she'd want to come to a neighboring FD's fundraiser, she never answered back.\n\nFast forward again to mid-February, I was drunk again and asked my college roommate (I live on campus down the street from my house, my moms idea, don't ask) to text her from his iPod (in case it didn't go too well so she didn't get his actual number). I didn't see the actual conversation but supposedly she said something like I wasn't her type because I had to have a friend text her instead of doing it myself.\n\nI told him to back off and that I'd figure something out.\n\nAny suggestions what I should do? I've been thinking about messaging her on Facebook telling her that I know I should've just texted her myself but the past 2 times I've done that the conversation didn't get anywhere and I figured that if I had my friend tell her that she'd message me on Facebook or whatever but clearly that didn't work out as I had hoped.\n\nSide Note: I am a volunteer fireman, we have our annual installation dinner where all the new officers get sworn in and awards are given out in a little less than a month, I really want to ask her to be my +1 for that. I've had that in mind since I was working with her (she left the supermarket sometime in august so I haven't seen her in person since then)\n\nAny suggestions??\n\nWill update if I get some good suggestions and one of them works.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " Never talked to a girl in my life. I've been texting her on Facebook asking if she'd like to be my friend but she never has responded. I've been thinking about trying to ask her to my fireman's annual installation dinner but I want to make sure I've got the right person in front of me.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "Last summer I worked with a girl, who was 20 at the time, at a supermarket, the first time I saw her I knew I wanted to date her. I mulled over it for a few weeks, decided that I wanted to attempt to go forward with it. As soon as I had decided that she had become a front end manager and not wanting to make it awkward I decided to not go forward with it.\n\nFast forward to September, I was drunk, added her on Facebook, messaged her, that didn't go anywhere. I messaged her again in November asking if she'd want to come to a neighboring FD's fundraiser, she never answered back.\n\nFast forward again to mid-February, I was drunk again and asked my college roommate (I live on campus down the street from my house, my moms idea, don't ask) to text her from his iPod (in case it didn't go too well so she didn't get his actual number). I didn't see the actual conversation but supposedly she said something like I wasn't her type because I had to have a friend text her instead of doing it myself.\n\nI told him to back off and that I'd figure something out.\n\nAny suggestions what I should do? I've been thinking about messaging her on Facebook telling her that I know I should've just texted her myself but the past 2 times I've done that the conversation didn't get anywhere and I figured that if I had my friend tell her that she'd message me on Facebook or whatever but clearly that didn't work out as I had hoped.\n\nSide Note: I am a volunteer fireman, we have our annual installation dinner where all the new officers get sworn in and awards are given out in a little less than a month, I really want to ask her to be my +1 for that. I've had that in mind since I was working with her (she left the supermarket sometime in august so I haven't seen her in person since then)\n\nAny suggestions??\n\nWill update if I get some good suggestions and one of them works.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " I'm officially dating an unresponsive girl after 2 failed attempts and I don't know what to do.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "Last summer I worked with a girl, who was 20 at the time, at a supermarket, the first time I saw her I knew I wanted to date her. I mulled over it for a few weeks, decided that I wanted to attempt to go forward with it. As soon as I had decided that she had become a front end manager and not wanting to make it awkward I decided to not go forward with it.\n\nFast forward to September, I was drunk, added her on Facebook, messaged her, that didn't go anywhere. I messaged her again in November asking if she'd want to come to a neighboring FD's fundraiser, she never answered back.\n\nFast forward again to mid-February, I was drunk again and asked my college roommate (I live on campus down the street from my house, my moms idea, don't ask) to text her from his iPod (in case it didn't go too well so she didn't get his actual number). I didn't see the actual conversation but supposedly she said something like I wasn't her type because I had to have a friend text her instead of doing it myself.\n\nI told him to back off and that I'd figure something out.\n\nAny suggestions what I should do? I've been thinking about messaging her on Facebook telling her that I know I should've just texted her myself but the past 2 times I've done that the conversation didn't get anywhere and I figured that if I had my friend tell her that she'd message me on Facebook or whatever but clearly that didn't work out as I had hoped.\n\nSide Note: I am a volunteer fireman, we have our annual installation dinner where all the new officers get sworn in and awards are given out in a little less than a month, I really want to ask her to be my +1 for that. I've had that in mind since I was working with her (she left the supermarket sometime in august so I haven't seen her in person since then)\n\nAny suggestions??\n\nWill update if I get some good suggestions and one of them works.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " I'm a really shy guy, met a girl at work, wanted to ask her out, she became a manager, didn't want to make it awkward so I didn't, she left the supermarket unrelated to me, had a friend text her, didn't work out, need suggestions moving forward.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "Last summer I worked with a girl, who was 20 at the time, at a supermarket, the first time I saw her I knew I wanted to date her. I mulled over it for a few weeks, decided that I wanted to attempt to go forward with it. As soon as I had decided that she had become a front end manager and not wanting to make it awkward I decided to not go forward with it.\n\nFast forward to September, I was drunk, added her on Facebook, messaged her, that didn't go anywhere. I messaged her again in November asking if she'd want to come to a neighboring FD's fundraiser, she never answered back.\n\nFast forward again to mid-February, I was drunk again and asked my college roommate (I live on campus down the street from my house, my moms idea, don't ask) to text her from his iPod (in case it didn't go too well so she didn't get his actual number). I didn't see the actual conversation but supposedly she said something like I wasn't her type because I had to have a friend text her instead of doing it myself.\n\nI told him to back off and that I'd figure something out.\n\nAny suggestions what I should do? I've been thinking about messaging her on Facebook telling her that I know I should've just texted her myself but the past 2 times I've done that the conversation didn't get anywhere and I figured that if I had my friend tell her that she'd message me on Facebook or whatever but clearly that didn't work out as I had hoped.\n\nSide Note: I am a volunteer fireman, we have our annual installation dinner where all the new officers get sworn in and awards are given out in a little less than a month, I really want to ask her to be my +1 for that. I've had that in mind since I was working with her (she left the supermarket sometime in august so I haven't seen her in person since then)\n\nAny suggestions??\n\nWill update if I get some good suggestions and one of them works.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " Girl I worked with at a supermarket didn't talk to me for 2 months. Been thinking about messing with my roommate telling him I know I should've texted her myself to measure my interest.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "Last summer I worked with a girl, who was 20 at the time, at a supermarket, the first time I saw her I knew I wanted to date her. I mulled over it for a few weeks, decided that I wanted to attempt to go forward with it. As soon as I had decided that she had become a front end manager and not wanting to make it awkward I decided to not go forward with it.\n\nFast forward to September, I was drunk, added her on Facebook, messaged her, that didn't go anywhere. I messaged her again in November asking if she'd want to come to a neighboring FD's fundraiser, she never answered back.\n\nFast forward again to mid-February, I was drunk again and asked my college roommate (I live on campus down the street from my house, my moms idea, don't ask) to text her from his iPod (in case it didn't go too well so she didn't get his actual number). I didn't see the actual conversation but supposedly she said something like I wasn't her type because I had to have a friend text her instead of doing it myself.\n\nI told him to back off and that I'd figure something out.\n\nAny suggestions what I should do? I've been thinking about messaging her on Facebook telling her that I know I should've just texted her myself but the past 2 times I've done that the conversation didn't get anywhere and I figured that if I had my friend tell her that she'd message me on Facebook or whatever but clearly that didn't work out as I had hoped.\n\nSide Note: I am a volunteer fireman, we have our annual installation dinner where all the new officers get sworn in and awards are given out in a little less than a month, I really want to ask her to be my +1 for that. I've had that in mind since I was working with her (she left the supermarket sometime in august so I haven't seen her in person since then)\n\nAny suggestions??\n\nWill update if I get some good suggestions and one of them works.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " Girl I worked with at a supermarket didn't talk to me for 2 months. Been thinking about messing with my roommate telling him I know I should've texted her myself to measure my interest.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "Last summer I worked with a girl, who was 20 at the time, at a supermarket, the first time I saw her I knew I wanted to date her. I mulled over it for a few weeks, decided that I wanted to attempt to go forward with it. As soon as I had decided that she had become a front end manager and not wanting to make it awkward I decided to not go forward with it.\n\nFast forward to September, I was drunk, added her on Facebook, messaged her, that didn't go anywhere. I messaged her again in November asking if she'd want to come to a neighboring FD's fundraiser, she never answered back.\n\nFast forward again to mid-February, I was drunk again and asked my college roommate (I live on campus down the street from my house, my moms idea, don't ask) to text her from his iPod (in case it didn't go too well so she didn't get his actual number). I didn't see the actual conversation but supposedly she said something like I wasn't her type because I had to have a friend text her instead of doing it myself.\n\nI told him to back off and that I'd figure something out.\n\nAny suggestions what I should do? I've been thinking about messaging her on Facebook telling her that I know I should've just texted her myself but the past 2 times I've done that the conversation didn't get anywhere and I figured that if I had my friend tell her that she'd message me on Facebook or whatever but clearly that didn't work out as I had hoped.\n\nSide Note: I am a volunteer fireman, we have our annual installation dinner where all the new officers get sworn in and awards are given out in a little less than a month, I really want to ask her to be my +1 for that. I've had that in mind since I was working with her (she left the supermarket sometime in august so I haven't seen her in person since then)\n\nAny suggestions??\n\nWill update if I get some good suggestions and one of them works.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " I'm officially dating an unresponsive girl after 2 failed attempts and I don't know what to do.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "Last summer I worked with a girl, who was 20 at the time, at a supermarket, the first time I saw her I knew I wanted to date her. I mulled over it for a few weeks, decided that I wanted to attempt to go forward with it. As soon as I had decided that she had become a front end manager and not wanting to make it awkward I decided to not go forward with it.\n\nFast forward to September, I was drunk, added her on Facebook, messaged her, that didn't go anywhere. I messaged her again in November asking if she'd want to come to a neighboring FD's fundraiser, she never answered back.\n\nFast forward again to mid-February, I was drunk again and asked my college roommate (I live on campus down the street from my house, my moms idea, don't ask) to text her from his iPod (in case it didn't go too well so she didn't get his actual number). I didn't see the actual conversation but supposedly she said something like I wasn't her type because I had to have a friend text her instead of doing it myself.\n\nI told him to back off and that I'd figure something out.\n\nAny suggestions what I should do? I've been thinking about messaging her on Facebook telling her that I know I should've just texted her myself but the past 2 times I've done that the conversation didn't get anywhere and I figured that if I had my friend tell her that she'd message me on Facebook or whatever but clearly that didn't work out as I had hoped.\n\nSide Note: I am a volunteer fireman, we have our annual installation dinner where all the new officers get sworn in and awards are given out in a little less than a month, I really want to ask her to be my +1 for that. I've had that in mind since I was working with her (she left the supermarket sometime in august so I haven't seen her in person since then)\n\nAny suggestions??\n\nWill update if I get some good suggestions and one of them works.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " I'm a really shy guy, met a girl at work, wanted to ask her out, she became a manager, didn't want to make it awkward so I didn't, she left the supermarket unrelated to me, had a friend text her, didn't work out, need suggestions moving forward.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "Last summer I worked with a girl, who was 20 at the time, at a supermarket, the first time I saw her I knew I wanted to date her. I mulled over it for a few weeks, decided that I wanted to attempt to go forward with it. As soon as I had decided that she had become a front end manager and not wanting to make it awkward I decided to not go forward with it.\n\nFast forward to September, I was drunk, added her on Facebook, messaged her, that didn't go anywhere. I messaged her again in November asking if she'd want to come to a neighboring FD's fundraiser, she never answered back.\n\nFast forward again to mid-February, I was drunk again and asked my college roommate (I live on campus down the street from my house, my moms idea, don't ask) to text her from his iPod (in case it didn't go too well so she didn't get his actual number). I didn't see the actual conversation but supposedly she said something like I wasn't her type because I had to have a friend text her instead of doing it myself.\n\nI told him to back off and that I'd figure something out.\n\nAny suggestions what I should do? I've been thinking about messaging her on Facebook telling her that I know I should've just texted her myself but the past 2 times I've done that the conversation didn't get anywhere and I figured that if I had my friend tell her that she'd message me on Facebook or whatever but clearly that didn't work out as I had hoped.\n\nSide Note: I am a volunteer fireman, we have our annual installation dinner where all the new officers get sworn in and awards are given out in a little less than a month, I really want to ask her to be my +1 for that. I've had that in mind since I was working with her (she left the supermarket sometime in august so I haven't seen her in person since then)\n\nAny suggestions??\n\nWill update if I get some good suggestions and one of them works.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " Never talked to a girl in my life. I've been texting her on Facebook asking if she'd like to be my friend but she never has responded. I've been thinking about trying to ask her to my fireman's annual installation dinner but I want to make sure I've got the right person in front of me.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "Sorry but I am a mobile user blablabla. \n\nIt wasn't always like that . I know her since I was in the first grade and we ended up being in the same class in elementary , medium and high school . She went from friend to crush real fast this summer . We both chose the same university to go to after we finish high school ( Incidentally as I didn't Base my choice on her ) and also incidentally we are going to the same teachers to prepare us for the admission . My self confidence regarding relationships and looks Is close to 0 . I always found her attractive but I didn't consider her a real opportunity as she either had a boyfriend or I was too much of a wimp to ask her out ( which in hindsight was probably the right choice ) but that changed last week . \n\nShe broke up with her boyfriend ( he was quite a lot older and I kinda knew he didn't really like her and was expecting a break-up but I am known to be quite insensitive so I let that pass ) and after that she asks me every day if I want to hang out ( not only me but she always asks me first ) which I usually say yes .\n\n I drive her from and to the parties we are going as she doesn't have a car nor a license and we live quite close . Well I can say with a surtain confidence than I am her \"best friend \"right now . \n\nNow where the place where the real advice comes in .Should I ask her out and hope for a positive outcome as I changed a lot over this year ( for the better I hope - lost weight , put some muscle , read a lot , learned a lot more ) and how much should I wait if I am going the kamikaze route to not look like an opportunistic asshole? \n\nKeep In mind I can't really deal with a rejection as I am sitting in the same room withing 1 meter of each other and averege of 40hours a week give or take .", "role": "user" }, { "content": " Long time friend , short time crush who has recently broken up with her BF and thinking about asking her out .", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "Sorry but I am a mobile user blablabla. \n\nIt wasn't always like that . I know her since I was in the first grade and we ended up being in the same class in elementary , medium and high school . She went from friend to crush real fast this summer . We both chose the same university to go to after we finish high school ( Incidentally as I didn't Base my choice on her ) and also incidentally we are going to the same teachers to prepare us for the admission . My self confidence regarding relationships and looks Is close to 0 . I always found her attractive but I didn't consider her a real opportunity as she either had a boyfriend or I was too much of a wimp to ask her out ( which in hindsight was probably the right choice ) but that changed last week . \n\nShe broke up with her boyfriend ( he was quite a lot older and I kinda knew he didn't really like her and was expecting a break-up but I am known to be quite insensitive so I let that pass ) and after that she asks me every day if I want to hang out ( not only me but she always asks me first ) which I usually say yes .\n\n I drive her from and to the parties we are going as she doesn't have a car nor a license and we live quite close . Well I can say with a surtain confidence than I am her \"best friend \"right now . \n\nNow where the place where the real advice comes in .Should I ask her out and hope for a positive outcome as I changed a lot over this year ( for the better I hope - lost weight , put some muscle , read a lot , learned a lot more ) and how much should I wait if I am going the kamikaze route to not look like an opportunistic asshole? \n\nKeep In mind I can't really deal with a rejection as I am sitting in the same room withing 1 meter of each other and averege of 40hours a week give or take .", "role": "user" }, { "content": " she broke-up with her bf and I want to ask her out .", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "Sorry but I am a mobile user blablabla. \n\nIt wasn't always like that . I know her since I was in the first grade and we ended up being in the same class in elementary , medium and high school . She went from friend to crush real fast this summer . We both chose the same university to go to after we finish high school ( Incidentally as I didn't Base my choice on her ) and also incidentally we are going to the same teachers to prepare us for the admission . My self confidence regarding relationships and looks Is close to 0 . I always found her attractive but I didn't consider her a real opportunity as she either had a boyfriend or I was too much of a wimp to ask her out ( which in hindsight was probably the right choice ) but that changed last week . \n\nShe broke up with her boyfriend ( he was quite a lot older and I kinda knew he didn't really like her and was expecting a break-up but I am known to be quite insensitive so I let that pass ) and after that she asks me every day if I want to hang out ( not only me but she always asks me first ) which I usually say yes .\n\n I drive her from and to the parties we are going as she doesn't have a car nor a license and we live quite close . Well I can say with a surtain confidence than I am her \"best friend \"right now . \n\nNow where the place where the real advice comes in .Should I ask her out and hope for a positive outcome as I changed a lot over this year ( for the better I hope - lost weight , put some muscle , read a lot , learned a lot more ) and how much should I wait if I am going the kamikaze route to not look like an opportunistic asshole? \n\nKeep In mind I can't really deal with a rejection as I am sitting in the same room withing 1 meter of each other and averege of 40hours a week give or take .", "role": "user" }, { "content": " I am the best friend of a girl I really like but she broke up with her boyfriend and now wants to hang out with me.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "Sorry but I am a mobile user blablabla. \n\nIt wasn't always like that . I know her since I was in the first grade and we ended up being in the same class in elementary , medium and high school . She went from friend to crush real fast this summer . We both chose the same university to go to after we finish high school ( Incidentally as I didn't Base my choice on her ) and also incidentally we are going to the same teachers to prepare us for the admission . My self confidence regarding relationships and looks Is close to 0 . I always found her attractive but I didn't consider her a real opportunity as she either had a boyfriend or I was too much of a wimp to ask her out ( which in hindsight was probably the right choice ) but that changed last week . \n\nShe broke up with her boyfriend ( he was quite a lot older and I kinda knew he didn't really like her and was expecting a break-up but I am known to be quite insensitive so I let that pass ) and after that she asks me every day if I want to hang out ( not only me but she always asks me first ) which I usually say yes .\n\n I drive her from and to the parties we are going as she doesn't have a car nor a license and we live quite close . Well I can say with a surtain confidence than I am her \"best friend \"right now . \n\nNow where the place where the real advice comes in .Should I ask her out and hope for a positive outcome as I changed a lot over this year ( for the better I hope - lost weight , put some muscle , read a lot , learned a lot more ) and how much should I wait if I am going the kamikaze route to not look like an opportunistic asshole? \n\nKeep In mind I can't really deal with a rejection as I am sitting in the same room withing 1 meter of each other and averege of 40hours a week give or take .", "role": "user" }, { "content": " Should I tell her I want to hang out ?", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "Sorry but I am a mobile user blablabla. \n\nIt wasn't always like that . I know her since I was in the first grade and we ended up being in the same class in elementary , medium and high school . She went from friend to crush real fast this summer . We both chose the same university to go to after we finish high school ( Incidentally as I didn't Base my choice on her ) and also incidentally we are going to the same teachers to prepare us for the admission . My self confidence regarding relationships and looks Is close to 0 . I always found her attractive but I didn't consider her a real opportunity as she either had a boyfriend or I was too much of a wimp to ask her out ( which in hindsight was probably the right choice ) but that changed last week . \n\nShe broke up with her boyfriend ( he was quite a lot older and I kinda knew he didn't really like her and was expecting a break-up but I am known to be quite insensitive so I let that pass ) and after that she asks me every day if I want to hang out ( not only me but she always asks me first ) which I usually say yes .\n\n I drive her from and to the parties we are going as she doesn't have a car nor a license and we live quite close . Well I can say with a surtain confidence than I am her \"best friend \"right now . \n\nNow where the place where the real advice comes in .Should I ask her out and hope for a positive outcome as I changed a lot over this year ( for the better I hope - lost weight , put some muscle , read a lot , learned a lot more ) and how much should I wait if I am going the kamikaze route to not look like an opportunistic asshole? \n\nKeep In mind I can't really deal with a rejection as I am sitting in the same room withing 1 meter of each other and averege of 40hours a week give or take .", "role": "user" }, { "content": " she broke-up with her bf and I want to ask her out .", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "Sorry but I am a mobile user blablabla. \n\nIt wasn't always like that . I know her since I was in the first grade and we ended up being in the same class in elementary , medium and high school . She went from friend to crush real fast this summer . We both chose the same university to go to after we finish high school ( Incidentally as I didn't Base my choice on her ) and also incidentally we are going to the same teachers to prepare us for the admission . My self confidence regarding relationships and looks Is close to 0 . I always found her attractive but I didn't consider her a real opportunity as she either had a boyfriend or I was too much of a wimp to ask her out ( which in hindsight was probably the right choice ) but that changed last week . \n\nShe broke up with her boyfriend ( he was quite a lot older and I kinda knew he didn't really like her and was expecting a break-up but I am known to be quite insensitive so I let that pass ) and after that she asks me every day if I want to hang out ( not only me but she always asks me first ) which I usually say yes .\n\n I drive her from and to the parties we are going as she doesn't have a car nor a license and we live quite close . Well I can say with a surtain confidence than I am her \"best friend \"right now . \n\nNow where the place where the real advice comes in .Should I ask her out and hope for a positive outcome as I changed a lot over this year ( for the better I hope - lost weight , put some muscle , read a lot , learned a lot more ) and how much should I wait if I am going the kamikaze route to not look like an opportunistic asshole? \n\nKeep In mind I can't really deal with a rejection as I am sitting in the same room withing 1 meter of each other and averege of 40hours a week give or take .", "role": "user" }, { "content": " I am the best friend of a girl I really like but she broke up with her boyfriend and now wants to hang out with me.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "Sorry but I am a mobile user blablabla. \n\nIt wasn't always like that . I know her since I was in the first grade and we ended up being in the same class in elementary , medium and high school . She went from friend to crush real fast this summer . We both chose the same university to go to after we finish high school ( Incidentally as I didn't Base my choice on her ) and also incidentally we are going to the same teachers to prepare us for the admission . My self confidence regarding relationships and looks Is close to 0 . I always found her attractive but I didn't consider her a real opportunity as she either had a boyfriend or I was too much of a wimp to ask her out ( which in hindsight was probably the right choice ) but that changed last week . \n\nShe broke up with her boyfriend ( he was quite a lot older and I kinda knew he didn't really like her and was expecting a break-up but I am known to be quite insensitive so I let that pass ) and after that she asks me every day if I want to hang out ( not only me but she always asks me first ) which I usually say yes .\n\n I drive her from and to the parties we are going as she doesn't have a car nor a license and we live quite close . Well I can say with a surtain confidence than I am her \"best friend \"right now . \n\nNow where the place where the real advice comes in .Should I ask her out and hope for a positive outcome as I changed a lot over this year ( for the better I hope - lost weight , put some muscle , read a lot , learned a lot more ) and how much should I wait if I am going the kamikaze route to not look like an opportunistic asshole? \n\nKeep In mind I can't really deal with a rejection as I am sitting in the same room withing 1 meter of each other and averege of 40hours a week give or take .", "role": "user" }, { "content": " Long time friend , short time crush who has recently broken up with her BF and thinking about asking her out .", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "Sorry but I am a mobile user blablabla. \n\nIt wasn't always like that . I know her since I was in the first grade and we ended up being in the same class in elementary , medium and high school . She went from friend to crush real fast this summer . We both chose the same university to go to after we finish high school ( Incidentally as I didn't Base my choice on her ) and also incidentally we are going to the same teachers to prepare us for the admission . My self confidence regarding relationships and looks Is close to 0 . I always found her attractive but I didn't consider her a real opportunity as she either had a boyfriend or I was too much of a wimp to ask her out ( which in hindsight was probably the right choice ) but that changed last week . \n\nShe broke up with her boyfriend ( he was quite a lot older and I kinda knew he didn't really like her and was expecting a break-up but I am known to be quite insensitive so I let that pass ) and after that she asks me every day if I want to hang out ( not only me but she always asks me first ) which I usually say yes .\n\n I drive her from and to the parties we are going as she doesn't have a car nor a license and we live quite close . Well I can say with a surtain confidence than I am her \"best friend \"right now . \n\nNow where the place where the real advice comes in .Should I ask her out and hope for a positive outcome as I changed a lot over this year ( for the better I hope - lost weight , put some muscle , read a lot , learned a lot more ) and how much should I wait if I am going the kamikaze route to not look like an opportunistic asshole? \n\nKeep In mind I can't really deal with a rejection as I am sitting in the same room withing 1 meter of each other and averege of 40hours a week give or take .", "role": "user" }, { "content": " Should I tell her I want to hang out ?", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "So I am dating this girl going on for about two years now and she is pretty nice and incredibly attractive but honestly we have near nothing in common and she has been disloyal in the past then swore to never do it again when I confront her about it. \n\nSo with this all going on my best friend (I will refer to him as John) has a sister that is one year younger than us that is really attractive and we have a lot more in common and she is really cool! \n\nAlso, she is really good friends with my girlfriend as of late which basically creates this massive loop of just off limits for me I feel like but I really like her and I feel like I would be much happier with her. I never thought like this before but this has been going on for the past several months and I just need to figure all of this out. \n\nI am kind of worried that \"John\" will be upset but not really because he is really chill and I think would be cool with it. The real problem is 1. I have no idea even what to do and 2. my SO and \"John's\" sister are kind of friends.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " I have a pretty big crush on my best friends little sister and she is friends with my girlfriend. I have no idea what to do!", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "So I am dating this girl going on for about two years now and she is pretty nice and incredibly attractive but honestly we have near nothing in common and she has been disloyal in the past then swore to never do it again when I confront her about it. \n\nSo with this all going on my best friend (I will refer to him as John) has a sister that is one year younger than us that is really attractive and we have a lot more in common and she is really cool! \n\nAlso, she is really good friends with my girlfriend as of late which basically creates this massive loop of just off limits for me I feel like but I really like her and I feel like I would be much happier with her. I never thought like this before but this has been going on for the past several months and I just need to figure all of this out. \n\nI am kind of worried that \"John\" will be upset but not really because he is really chill and I think would be cool with it. The real problem is 1. I have no idea even what to do and 2. my SO and \"John's\" sister are kind of friends.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " wondering what to do with my relationship with my best friend's sister and if we should break up.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "So I am dating this girl going on for about two years now and she is pretty nice and incredibly attractive but honestly we have near nothing in common and she has been disloyal in the past then swore to never do it again when I confront her about it. \n\nSo with this all going on my best friend (I will refer to him as John) has a sister that is one year younger than us that is really attractive and we have a lot more in common and she is really cool! \n\nAlso, she is really good friends with my girlfriend as of late which basically creates this massive loop of just off limits for me I feel like but I really like her and I feel like I would be much happier with her. I never thought like this before but this has been going on for the past several months and I just need to figure all of this out. \n\nI am kind of worried that \"John\" will be upset but not really because he is really chill and I think would be cool with it. The real problem is 1. I have no idea even what to do and 2. my SO and \"John's\" sister are kind of friends.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " wondering what to do with my relationship with my best friend's sister and if we should break up.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "So I am dating this girl going on for about two years now and she is pretty nice and incredibly attractive but honestly we have near nothing in common and she has been disloyal in the past then swore to never do it again when I confront her about it. \n\nSo with this all going on my best friend (I will refer to him as John) has a sister that is one year younger than us that is really attractive and we have a lot more in common and she is really cool! \n\nAlso, she is really good friends with my girlfriend as of late which basically creates this massive loop of just off limits for me I feel like but I really like her and I feel like I would be much happier with her. I never thought like this before but this has been going on for the past several months and I just need to figure all of this out. \n\nI am kind of worried that \"John\" will be upset but not really because he is really chill and I think would be cool with it. The real problem is 1. I have no idea even what to do and 2. my SO and \"John's\" sister are kind of friends.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " I am dating a girl that I am really into and I don't know what to do.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "So I am dating this girl going on for about two years now and she is pretty nice and incredibly attractive but honestly we have near nothing in common and she has been disloyal in the past then swore to never do it again when I confront her about it. \n\nSo with this all going on my best friend (I will refer to him as John) has a sister that is one year younger than us that is really attractive and we have a lot more in common and she is really cool! \n\nAlso, she is really good friends with my girlfriend as of late which basically creates this massive loop of just off limits for me I feel like but I really like her and I feel like I would be much happier with her. I never thought like this before but this has been going on for the past several months and I just need to figure all of this out. \n\nI am kind of worried that \"John\" will be upset but not really because he is really chill and I think would be cool with it. The real problem is 1. I have no idea even what to do and 2. my SO and \"John's\" sister are kind of friends.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " I am dating a girl that has a sister that is really attractive and I have a crush on her.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "So I am dating this girl going on for about two years now and she is pretty nice and incredibly attractive but honestly we have near nothing in common and she has been disloyal in the past then swore to never do it again when I confront her about it. \n\nSo with this all going on my best friend (I will refer to him as John) has a sister that is one year younger than us that is really attractive and we have a lot more in common and she is really cool! \n\nAlso, she is really good friends with my girlfriend as of late which basically creates this massive loop of just off limits for me I feel like but I really like her and I feel like I would be much happier with her. I never thought like this before but this has been going on for the past several months and I just need to figure all of this out. \n\nI am kind of worried that \"John\" will be upset but not really because he is really chill and I think would be cool with it. The real problem is 1. I have no idea even what to do and 2. my SO and \"John's\" sister are kind of friends.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " I am dating a girl that I am really into and I don't know what to do.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "So I am dating this girl going on for about two years now and she is pretty nice and incredibly attractive but honestly we have near nothing in common and she has been disloyal in the past then swore to never do it again when I confront her about it. \n\nSo with this all going on my best friend (I will refer to him as John) has a sister that is one year younger than us that is really attractive and we have a lot more in common and she is really cool! \n\nAlso, she is really good friends with my girlfriend as of late which basically creates this massive loop of just off limits for me I feel like but I really like her and I feel like I would be much happier with her. I never thought like this before but this has been going on for the past several months and I just need to figure all of this out. \n\nI am kind of worried that \"John\" will be upset but not really because he is really chill and I think would be cool with it. The real problem is 1. I have no idea even what to do and 2. my SO and \"John's\" sister are kind of friends.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " I have a pretty big crush on my best friends little sister and she is friends with my girlfriend. I have no idea what to do!", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "So I am dating this girl going on for about two years now and she is pretty nice and incredibly attractive but honestly we have near nothing in common and she has been disloyal in the past then swore to never do it again when I confront her about it. \n\nSo with this all going on my best friend (I will refer to him as John) has a sister that is one year younger than us that is really attractive and we have a lot more in common and she is really cool! \n\nAlso, she is really good friends with my girlfriend as of late which basically creates this massive loop of just off limits for me I feel like but I really like her and I feel like I would be much happier with her. I never thought like this before but this has been going on for the past several months and I just need to figure all of this out. \n\nI am kind of worried that \"John\" will be upset but not really because he is really chill and I think would be cool with it. The real problem is 1. I have no idea even what to do and 2. my SO and \"John's\" sister are kind of friends.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " I am dating a girl that has a sister that is really attractive and I have a crush on her.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "My ex and I have known each other for ten years. We dated for five years, grew apart and broke up (but stayed friends), and are on the verge of getting back together. We've been through a lot, and I truly love and care for him. What's keeping me from fully committing is something he shared that happened when we weren't together. \n\nBasically, he had a couple of threesomes with a different GF and his brother's then-GF. When he initially told me about this (long before we worked on getting back together), he seemed almost proud of it. He shared details with me that I wish I never knew. His brother doesn't know, of course. Unfortunately, I do. It disgusts me, not because he had a threesome, but because it was with his brother's GF. I'm not sure if I'm overreacting or what. On the one hand, the past is the past. People can grow and change. On the other hand, I can't help but wonder: If he's capable of doing something like that to his own younger brother and keeping it a secret from him, what could he do to me?", "role": "user" }, { "content": " My potential boyfriend is secretly eskimo brothers with his own brother.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "My ex and I have known each other for ten years. We dated for five years, grew apart and broke up (but stayed friends), and are on the verge of getting back together. We've been through a lot, and I truly love and care for him. What's keeping me from fully committing is something he shared that happened when we weren't together. \n\nBasically, he had a couple of threesomes with a different GF and his brother's then-GF. When he initially told me about this (long before we worked on getting back together), he seemed almost proud of it. He shared details with me that I wish I never knew. His brother doesn't know, of course. Unfortunately, I do. It disgusts me, not because he had a threesome, but because it was with his brother's GF. I'm not sure if I'm overreacting or what. On the one hand, the past is the past. People can grow and change. On the other hand, I can't help but wonder: If he's capable of doing something like that to his own younger brother and keeping it a secret from him, what could he do to me?", "role": "user" }, { "content": " I'm curious what would happen if he ever got back with his ex-girlfriend.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "My ex and I have known each other for ten years. We dated for five years, grew apart and broke up (but stayed friends), and are on the verge of getting back together. We've been through a lot, and I truly love and care for him. What's keeping me from fully committing is something he shared that happened when we weren't together. \n\nBasically, he had a couple of threesomes with a different GF and his brother's then-GF. When he initially told me about this (long before we worked on getting back together), he seemed almost proud of it. He shared details with me that I wish I never knew. His brother doesn't know, of course. Unfortunately, I do. It disgusts me, not because he had a threesome, but because it was with his brother's GF. I'm not sure if I'm overreacting or what. On the one hand, the past is the past. People can grow and change. On the other hand, I can't help but wonder: If he's capable of doing something like that to his own younger brother and keeping it a secret from him, what could he do to me?", "role": "user" }, { "content": " My ex-bf was a fucking bastard. What do I do?", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "My ex and I have known each other for ten years. We dated for five years, grew apart and broke up (but stayed friends), and are on the verge of getting back together. We've been through a lot, and I truly love and care for him. What's keeping me from fully committing is something he shared that happened when we weren't together. \n\nBasically, he had a couple of threesomes with a different GF and his brother's then-GF. When he initially told me about this (long before we worked on getting back together), he seemed almost proud of it. He shared details with me that I wish I never knew. His brother doesn't know, of course. Unfortunately, I do. It disgusts me, not because he had a threesome, but because it was with his brother's GF. I'm not sure if I'm overreacting or what. On the one hand, the past is the past. People can grow and change. On the other hand, I can't help but wonder: If he's capable of doing something like that to his own younger brother and keeping it a secret from him, what could he do to me?", "role": "user" }, { "content": " My potential boyfriend is secretly eskimo brothers with his own brother.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "My ex and I have known each other for ten years. We dated for five years, grew apart and broke up (but stayed friends), and are on the verge of getting back together. We've been through a lot, and I truly love and care for him. What's keeping me from fully committing is something he shared that happened when we weren't together. \n\nBasically, he had a couple of threesomes with a different GF and his brother's then-GF. When he initially told me about this (long before we worked on getting back together), he seemed almost proud of it. He shared details with me that I wish I never knew. His brother doesn't know, of course. Unfortunately, I do. It disgusts me, not because he had a threesome, but because it was with his brother's GF. I'm not sure if I'm overreacting or what. On the one hand, the past is the past. People can grow and change. On the other hand, I can't help but wonder: If he's capable of doing something like that to his own younger brother and keeping it a secret from him, what could he do to me?", "role": "user" }, { "content": " My ex-bf had a threesome with his brother's GF when we were together. I'm not sure if I'm overreacting or if I should be worried.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "My ex and I have known each other for ten years. We dated for five years, grew apart and broke up (but stayed friends), and are on the verge of getting back together. We've been through a lot, and I truly love and care for him. What's keeping me from fully committing is something he shared that happened when we weren't together. \n\nBasically, he had a couple of threesomes with a different GF and his brother's then-GF. When he initially told me about this (long before we worked on getting back together), he seemed almost proud of it. He shared details with me that I wish I never knew. His brother doesn't know, of course. Unfortunately, I do. It disgusts me, not because he had a threesome, but because it was with his brother's GF. I'm not sure if I'm overreacting or what. On the one hand, the past is the past. People can grow and change. On the other hand, I can't help but wonder: If he's capable of doing something like that to his own younger brother and keeping it a secret from him, what could he do to me?", "role": "user" }, { "content": " My ex-bf was a fucking bastard. What do I do?", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "My ex and I have known each other for ten years. We dated for five years, grew apart and broke up (but stayed friends), and are on the verge of getting back together. We've been through a lot, and I truly love and care for him. What's keeping me from fully committing is something he shared that happened when we weren't together. \n\nBasically, he had a couple of threesomes with a different GF and his brother's then-GF. When he initially told me about this (long before we worked on getting back together), he seemed almost proud of it. He shared details with me that I wish I never knew. His brother doesn't know, of course. Unfortunately, I do. It disgusts me, not because he had a threesome, but because it was with his brother's GF. I'm not sure if I'm overreacting or what. On the one hand, the past is the past. People can grow and change. On the other hand, I can't help but wonder: If he's capable of doing something like that to his own younger brother and keeping it a secret from him, what could he do to me?", "role": "user" }, { "content": " My ex-bf had a threesome with his brother's GF when we were together. I'm not sure if I'm overreacting or if I should be worried.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "My ex and I have known each other for ten years. We dated for five years, grew apart and broke up (but stayed friends), and are on the verge of getting back together. We've been through a lot, and I truly love and care for him. What's keeping me from fully committing is something he shared that happened when we weren't together. \n\nBasically, he had a couple of threesomes with a different GF and his brother's then-GF. When he initially told me about this (long before we worked on getting back together), he seemed almost proud of it. He shared details with me that I wish I never knew. His brother doesn't know, of course. Unfortunately, I do. It disgusts me, not because he had a threesome, but because it was with his brother's GF. I'm not sure if I'm overreacting or what. On the one hand, the past is the past. People can grow and change. On the other hand, I can't help but wonder: If he's capable of doing something like that to his own younger brother and keeping it a secret from him, what could he do to me?", "role": "user" }, { "content": " I'm curious what would happen if he ever got back with his ex-girlfriend.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "My boyfriend currently works maintenance at a hotel and goes to the same university as me. I will soon be graduating with honors, though. I have been planning on getting another job in addition to the second shift, part time job I already have while I am taking a gap year before applying to graduate school.\n\nAs it turns out, an opening for a receptionist/server/bartender just opened up at the hotel BF works at. He mentioned me to the managers and told me about the job. I was initially told that I would be able to keep my current part time job, but, after interviewing, found out I'd have to quit it.\n\nBF really wants me to take the job. He doesn't have a car, so he usually has to get a ride from me to work and get a ride from his coworker back home. If I worked there, we could just carpool.\n\nI've been waiting for a week to hear back from the managers as to whether or not I get the job. However, they sent me an email today saying they wanted me to do a working interview. I think that this is absolute bullshit. I'm overqualified for the job, and the position doesn't even require any particular skills for which a working interview would be necessary. It's only an $8 per hour job AND it requires working nights, weekends, and holidays. There's no upward mobility and I wouldn't be overseeing anyone else. Additionally, it's not related to my long term goals and wouldn't help me build my resume. Them asking me to do a working interview for such a position has just completely turned me off from working there.\n\nI want to tell them I'm no longer interested in the position, but I'm not sure how to break the news to my BF. I'm also not sure if I'm being snooty and unreasonable about not wanting to do a working interview for such a low-level position when I'm so overqualified (in both educational and work experience).", "role": "user" }, { "content": " My boyfriend wants me to take a job I think is wrong for me and I'm not sure how to tell him.\n\nEdit: typo", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "My boyfriend currently works maintenance at a hotel and goes to the same university as me. I will soon be graduating with honors, though. I have been planning on getting another job in addition to the second shift, part time job I already have while I am taking a gap year before applying to graduate school.\n\nAs it turns out, an opening for a receptionist/server/bartender just opened up at the hotel BF works at. He mentioned me to the managers and told me about the job. I was initially told that I would be able to keep my current part time job, but, after interviewing, found out I'd have to quit it.\n\nBF really wants me to take the job. He doesn't have a car, so he usually has to get a ride from me to work and get a ride from his coworker back home. If I worked there, we could just carpool.\n\nI've been waiting for a week to hear back from the managers as to whether or not I get the job. However, they sent me an email today saying they wanted me to do a working interview. I think that this is absolute bullshit. I'm overqualified for the job, and the position doesn't even require any particular skills for which a working interview would be necessary. It's only an $8 per hour job AND it requires working nights, weekends, and holidays. There's no upward mobility and I wouldn't be overseeing anyone else. Additionally, it's not related to my long term goals and wouldn't help me build my resume. Them asking me to do a working interview for such a position has just completely turned me off from working there.\n\nI want to tell them I'm no longer interested in the position, but I'm not sure how to break the news to my BF. I'm also not sure if I'm being snooty and unreasonable about not wanting to do a working interview for such a low-level position when I'm so overqualified (in both educational and work experience).", "role": "user" }, { "content": " I'm overqualified for a low-level server/bartender position. BF won't give me the job. Is this snooty? Should I tell him?", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "My boyfriend currently works maintenance at a hotel and goes to the same university as me. I will soon be graduating with honors, though. I have been planning on getting another job in addition to the second shift, part time job I already have while I am taking a gap year before applying to graduate school.\n\nAs it turns out, an opening for a receptionist/server/bartender just opened up at the hotel BF works at. He mentioned me to the managers and told me about the job. I was initially told that I would be able to keep my current part time job, but, after interviewing, found out I'd have to quit it.\n\nBF really wants me to take the job. He doesn't have a car, so he usually has to get a ride from me to work and get a ride from his coworker back home. If I worked there, we could just carpool.\n\nI've been waiting for a week to hear back from the managers as to whether or not I get the job. However, they sent me an email today saying they wanted me to do a working interview. I think that this is absolute bullshit. I'm overqualified for the job, and the position doesn't even require any particular skills for which a working interview would be necessary. It's only an $8 per hour job AND it requires working nights, weekends, and holidays. There's no upward mobility and I wouldn't be overseeing anyone else. Additionally, it's not related to my long term goals and wouldn't help me build my resume. Them asking me to do a working interview for such a position has just completely turned me off from working there.\n\nI want to tell them I'm no longer interested in the position, but I'm not sure how to break the news to my BF. I'm also not sure if I'm being snooty and unreasonable about not wanting to do a working interview for such a low-level position when I'm so overqualified (in both educational and work experience).", "role": "user" }, { "content": " BF wants me to take a job that is not right for me at that time. I'm overqualified and so am the job. I'm not sure if I should tell him.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "My boyfriend currently works maintenance at a hotel and goes to the same university as me. I will soon be graduating with honors, though. I have been planning on getting another job in addition to the second shift, part time job I already have while I am taking a gap year before applying to graduate school.\n\nAs it turns out, an opening for a receptionist/server/bartender just opened up at the hotel BF works at. He mentioned me to the managers and told me about the job. I was initially told that I would be able to keep my current part time job, but, after interviewing, found out I'd have to quit it.\n\nBF really wants me to take the job. He doesn't have a car, so he usually has to get a ride from me to work and get a ride from his coworker back home. If I worked there, we could just carpool.\n\nI've been waiting for a week to hear back from the managers as to whether or not I get the job. However, they sent me an email today saying they wanted me to do a working interview. I think that this is absolute bullshit. I'm overqualified for the job, and the position doesn't even require any particular skills for which a working interview would be necessary. It's only an $8 per hour job AND it requires working nights, weekends, and holidays. There's no upward mobility and I wouldn't be overseeing anyone else. Additionally, it's not related to my long term goals and wouldn't help me build my resume. Them asking me to do a working interview for such a position has just completely turned me off from working there.\n\nI want to tell them I'm no longer interested in the position, but I'm not sure how to break the news to my BF. I'm also not sure if I'm being snooty and unreasonable about not wanting to do a working interview for such a low-level position when I'm so overqualified (in both educational and work experience).", "role": "user" }, { "content": " I'm overqualified for a low-level server/bartender position. BF won't give me the job. Is this snooty? Should I tell him?", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "My boyfriend currently works maintenance at a hotel and goes to the same university as me. I will soon be graduating with honors, though. I have been planning on getting another job in addition to the second shift, part time job I already have while I am taking a gap year before applying to graduate school.\n\nAs it turns out, an opening for a receptionist/server/bartender just opened up at the hotel BF works at. He mentioned me to the managers and told me about the job. I was initially told that I would be able to keep my current part time job, but, after interviewing, found out I'd have to quit it.\n\nBF really wants me to take the job. He doesn't have a car, so he usually has to get a ride from me to work and get a ride from his coworker back home. If I worked there, we could just carpool.\n\nI've been waiting for a week to hear back from the managers as to whether or not I get the job. However, they sent me an email today saying they wanted me to do a working interview. I think that this is absolute bullshit. I'm overqualified for the job, and the position doesn't even require any particular skills for which a working interview would be necessary. It's only an $8 per hour job AND it requires working nights, weekends, and holidays. There's no upward mobility and I wouldn't be overseeing anyone else. Additionally, it's not related to my long term goals and wouldn't help me build my resume. Them asking me to do a working interview for such a position has just completely turned me off from working there.\n\nI want to tell them I'm no longer interested in the position, but I'm not sure how to break the news to my BF. I'm also not sure if I'm being snooty and unreasonable about not wanting to do a working interview for such a low-level position when I'm so overqualified (in both educational and work experience).", "role": "user" }, { "content": " BF wants me to take a job that is not right for me at that time. I'm overqualified and so am the job. I'm not sure if I should tell him.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "My boyfriend currently works maintenance at a hotel and goes to the same university as me. I will soon be graduating with honors, though. I have been planning on getting another job in addition to the second shift, part time job I already have while I am taking a gap year before applying to graduate school.\n\nAs it turns out, an opening for a receptionist/server/bartender just opened up at the hotel BF works at. He mentioned me to the managers and told me about the job. I was initially told that I would be able to keep my current part time job, but, after interviewing, found out I'd have to quit it.\n\nBF really wants me to take the job. He doesn't have a car, so he usually has to get a ride from me to work and get a ride from his coworker back home. If I worked there, we could just carpool.\n\nI've been waiting for a week to hear back from the managers as to whether or not I get the job. However, they sent me an email today saying they wanted me to do a working interview. I think that this is absolute bullshit. I'm overqualified for the job, and the position doesn't even require any particular skills for which a working interview would be necessary. It's only an $8 per hour job AND it requires working nights, weekends, and holidays. There's no upward mobility and I wouldn't be overseeing anyone else. Additionally, it's not related to my long term goals and wouldn't help me build my resume. Them asking me to do a working interview for such a position has just completely turned me off from working there.\n\nI want to tell them I'm no longer interested in the position, but I'm not sure how to break the news to my BF. I'm also not sure if I'm being snooty and unreasonable about not wanting to do a working interview for such a low-level position when I'm so overqualified (in both educational and work experience).", "role": "user" }, { "content": " Am I a pretentious, butthead for not wanting this job? How do I talk to my boyfriend about not wanting the job, even though it'll make his life a lot more difficult if I don't take it?", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "My boyfriend currently works maintenance at a hotel and goes to the same university as me. I will soon be graduating with honors, though. I have been planning on getting another job in addition to the second shift, part time job I already have while I am taking a gap year before applying to graduate school.\n\nAs it turns out, an opening for a receptionist/server/bartender just opened up at the hotel BF works at. He mentioned me to the managers and told me about the job. I was initially told that I would be able to keep my current part time job, but, after interviewing, found out I'd have to quit it.\n\nBF really wants me to take the job. He doesn't have a car, so he usually has to get a ride from me to work and get a ride from his coworker back home. If I worked there, we could just carpool.\n\nI've been waiting for a week to hear back from the managers as to whether or not I get the job. However, they sent me an email today saying they wanted me to do a working interview. I think that this is absolute bullshit. I'm overqualified for the job, and the position doesn't even require any particular skills for which a working interview would be necessary. It's only an $8 per hour job AND it requires working nights, weekends, and holidays. There's no upward mobility and I wouldn't be overseeing anyone else. Additionally, it's not related to my long term goals and wouldn't help me build my resume. Them asking me to do a working interview for such a position has just completely turned me off from working there.\n\nI want to tell them I'm no longer interested in the position, but I'm not sure how to break the news to my BF. I'm also not sure if I'm being snooty and unreasonable about not wanting to do a working interview for such a low-level position when I'm so overqualified (in both educational and work experience).", "role": "user" }, { "content": " My boyfriend wants me to take a job I think is wrong for me and I'm not sure how to tell him.\n\nEdit: typo", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "My boyfriend currently works maintenance at a hotel and goes to the same university as me. I will soon be graduating with honors, though. I have been planning on getting another job in addition to the second shift, part time job I already have while I am taking a gap year before applying to graduate school.\n\nAs it turns out, an opening for a receptionist/server/bartender just opened up at the hotel BF works at. He mentioned me to the managers and told me about the job. I was initially told that I would be able to keep my current part time job, but, after interviewing, found out I'd have to quit it.\n\nBF really wants me to take the job. He doesn't have a car, so he usually has to get a ride from me to work and get a ride from his coworker back home. If I worked there, we could just carpool.\n\nI've been waiting for a week to hear back from the managers as to whether or not I get the job. However, they sent me an email today saying they wanted me to do a working interview. I think that this is absolute bullshit. I'm overqualified for the job, and the position doesn't even require any particular skills for which a working interview would be necessary. It's only an $8 per hour job AND it requires working nights, weekends, and holidays. There's no upward mobility and I wouldn't be overseeing anyone else. Additionally, it's not related to my long term goals and wouldn't help me build my resume. Them asking me to do a working interview for such a position has just completely turned me off from working there.\n\nI want to tell them I'm no longer interested in the position, but I'm not sure how to break the news to my BF. I'm also not sure if I'm being snooty and unreasonable about not wanting to do a working interview for such a low-level position when I'm so overqualified (in both educational and work experience).", "role": "user" }, { "content": " Am I a pretentious, butthead for not wanting this job? How do I talk to my boyfriend about not wanting the job, even though it'll make his life a lot more difficult if I don't take it?", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "The new owner has gradually made his presence and authority more known at the office where he works. My SO told me that he is not allowed to call me until 5:00 pm, and from what it sounds like is not being given a break during the day. He tells me that taking breaks in general are frowned upon at the office. In the past, they have not let him leave for lunch so that someone could be there to \"handle the phones\" while everyone else leaves. The new boss chewed out my SO for doing some personal work at the office (i.e. checking banking), but there are other people who take excessive smoke breaks and display other unprofessional behavior (e.g. showing up for work late) that goes without consequence. Today, my SO was asked by the new boss to prepare his job description over the weekend so that he, the current owner and the future owner can \"sit down and discuss some things.\" What does this mean? Is his job at risk?\n\nSpecifically, what are his rights as a current employee of 5 years, and do you have any advice for him? We just got engaged a month ago, and our lives have really just started to take off. Is there anything he should or should not do as someone in this position?? Furthermore, is there anything that I should know so that I can be as supportive and helpful to him as possible? The last thing I want is to make him feel worse by saying or doing the wrong thing.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " my SO is scared that he might lose his job of 5 years when the company changes ownership. What should he know, and what can I do to help?", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "The new owner has gradually made his presence and authority more known at the office where he works. My SO told me that he is not allowed to call me until 5:00 pm, and from what it sounds like is not being given a break during the day. He tells me that taking breaks in general are frowned upon at the office. In the past, they have not let him leave for lunch so that someone could be there to \"handle the phones\" while everyone else leaves. The new boss chewed out my SO for doing some personal work at the office (i.e. checking banking), but there are other people who take excessive smoke breaks and display other unprofessional behavior (e.g. showing up for work late) that goes without consequence. Today, my SO was asked by the new boss to prepare his job description over the weekend so that he, the current owner and the future owner can \"sit down and discuss some things.\" What does this mean? Is his job at risk?\n\nSpecifically, what are his rights as a current employee of 5 years, and do you have any advice for him? We just got engaged a month ago, and our lives have really just started to take off. Is there anything he should or should not do as someone in this position?? Furthermore, is there anything that I should know so that I can be as supportive and helpful to him as possible? The last thing I want is to make him feel worse by saying or doing the wrong thing.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " My SO is getting a bad vibe about his job. What should he do as an employee of 5 years?**\n\nEDIT: Thank you, everyone!\n\n\nEDIT 2: Thanks for the support everyone! As soon as we talk it will be a relief.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "The new owner has gradually made his presence and authority more known at the office where he works. My SO told me that he is not allowed to call me until 5:00 pm, and from what it sounds like is not being given a break during the day. He tells me that taking breaks in general are frowned upon at the office. In the past, they have not let him leave for lunch so that someone could be there to \"handle the phones\" while everyone else leaves. The new boss chewed out my SO for doing some personal work at the office (i.e. checking banking), but there are other people who take excessive smoke breaks and display other unprofessional behavior (e.g. showing up for work late) that goes without consequence. Today, my SO was asked by the new boss to prepare his job description over the weekend so that he, the current owner and the future owner can \"sit down and discuss some things.\" What does this mean? Is his job at risk?\n\nSpecifically, what are his rights as a current employee of 5 years, and do you have any advice for him? We just got engaged a month ago, and our lives have really just started to take off. Is there anything he should or should not do as someone in this position?? Furthermore, is there anything that I should know so that I can be as supportive and helpful to him as possible? The last thing I want is to make him feel worse by saying or doing the wrong thing.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " My SO is getting a bad vibe at work, what are his rights as a current employee of 5 years, and do you have any advice for him?", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "The new owner has gradually made his presence and authority more known at the office where he works. My SO told me that he is not allowed to call me until 5:00 pm, and from what it sounds like is not being given a break during the day. He tells me that taking breaks in general are frowned upon at the office. In the past, they have not let him leave for lunch so that someone could be there to \"handle the phones\" while everyone else leaves. The new boss chewed out my SO for doing some personal work at the office (i.e. checking banking), but there are other people who take excessive smoke breaks and display other unprofessional behavior (e.g. showing up for work late) that goes without consequence. Today, my SO was asked by the new boss to prepare his job description over the weekend so that he, the current owner and the future owner can \"sit down and discuss some things.\" What does this mean? Is his job at risk?\n\nSpecifically, what are his rights as a current employee of 5 years, and do you have any advice for him? We just got engaged a month ago, and our lives have really just started to take off. Is there anything he should or should not do as someone in this position?? Furthermore, is there anything that I should know so that I can be as supportive and helpful to him as possible? The last thing I want is to make him feel worse by saying or doing the wrong thing.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " My SO is getting a bad vibe about his job. What should he do as an employee of 5 years?**\n\nEDIT: Thank you, everyone!\n\n\nEDIT 2: Thanks for the support everyone! As soon as we talk it will be a relief.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "The new owner has gradually made his presence and authority more known at the office where he works. My SO told me that he is not allowed to call me until 5:00 pm, and from what it sounds like is not being given a break during the day. He tells me that taking breaks in general are frowned upon at the office. In the past, they have not let him leave for lunch so that someone could be there to \"handle the phones\" while everyone else leaves. The new boss chewed out my SO for doing some personal work at the office (i.e. checking banking), but there are other people who take excessive smoke breaks and display other unprofessional behavior (e.g. showing up for work late) that goes without consequence. Today, my SO was asked by the new boss to prepare his job description over the weekend so that he, the current owner and the future owner can \"sit down and discuss some things.\" What does this mean? Is his job at risk?\n\nSpecifically, what are his rights as a current employee of 5 years, and do you have any advice for him? We just got engaged a month ago, and our lives have really just started to take off. Is there anything he should or should not do as someone in this position?? Furthermore, is there anything that I should know so that I can be as supportive and helpful to him as possible? The last thing I want is to make him feel worse by saying or doing the wrong thing.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " my SO is scared that he might lose his job of 5 years when the company changes ownership. What should he know, and what can I do to help?", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "The new owner has gradually made his presence and authority more known at the office where he works. My SO told me that he is not allowed to call me until 5:00 pm, and from what it sounds like is not being given a break during the day. He tells me that taking breaks in general are frowned upon at the office. In the past, they have not let him leave for lunch so that someone could be there to \"handle the phones\" while everyone else leaves. The new boss chewed out my SO for doing some personal work at the office (i.e. checking banking), but there are other people who take excessive smoke breaks and display other unprofessional behavior (e.g. showing up for work late) that goes without consequence. Today, my SO was asked by the new boss to prepare his job description over the weekend so that he, the current owner and the future owner can \"sit down and discuss some things.\" What does this mean? Is his job at risk?\n\nSpecifically, what are his rights as a current employee of 5 years, and do you have any advice for him? We just got engaged a month ago, and our lives have really just started to take off. Is there anything he should or should not do as someone in this position?? Furthermore, is there anything that I should know so that I can be as supportive and helpful to him as possible? The last thing I want is to make him feel worse by saying or doing the wrong thing.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " My SO's boss is starting to change his job license, and he is afraid that he will lose his job. We just got engaged, and our lives have just started to take off. What should I think about him moving to another job? How do I be supportive and helpful to him?", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "The new owner has gradually made his presence and authority more known at the office where he works. My SO told me that he is not allowed to call me until 5:00 pm, and from what it sounds like is not being given a break during the day. He tells me that taking breaks in general are frowned upon at the office. In the past, they have not let him leave for lunch so that someone could be there to \"handle the phones\" while everyone else leaves. The new boss chewed out my SO for doing some personal work at the office (i.e. checking banking), but there are other people who take excessive smoke breaks and display other unprofessional behavior (e.g. showing up for work late) that goes without consequence. Today, my SO was asked by the new boss to prepare his job description over the weekend so that he, the current owner and the future owner can \"sit down and discuss some things.\" What does this mean? Is his job at risk?\n\nSpecifically, what are his rights as a current employee of 5 years, and do you have any advice for him? We just got engaged a month ago, and our lives have really just started to take off. Is there anything he should or should not do as someone in this position?? Furthermore, is there anything that I should know so that I can be as supportive and helpful to him as possible? The last thing I want is to make him feel worse by saying or doing the wrong thing.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " My SO is getting a bad vibe at work, what are his rights as a current employee of 5 years, and do you have any advice for him?", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "The new owner has gradually made his presence and authority more known at the office where he works. My SO told me that he is not allowed to call me until 5:00 pm, and from what it sounds like is not being given a break during the day. He tells me that taking breaks in general are frowned upon at the office. In the past, they have not let him leave for lunch so that someone could be there to \"handle the phones\" while everyone else leaves. The new boss chewed out my SO for doing some personal work at the office (i.e. checking banking), but there are other people who take excessive smoke breaks and display other unprofessional behavior (e.g. showing up for work late) that goes without consequence. Today, my SO was asked by the new boss to prepare his job description over the weekend so that he, the current owner and the future owner can \"sit down and discuss some things.\" What does this mean? Is his job at risk?\n\nSpecifically, what are his rights as a current employee of 5 years, and do you have any advice for him? We just got engaged a month ago, and our lives have really just started to take off. Is there anything he should or should not do as someone in this position?? Furthermore, is there anything that I should know so that I can be as supportive and helpful to him as possible? The last thing I want is to make him feel worse by saying or doing the wrong thing.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " My SO's boss is starting to change his job license, and he is afraid that he will lose his job. We just got engaged, and our lives have just started to take off. What should I think about him moving to another job? How do I be supportive and helpful to him?", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "It has just dawned on me, why not phase out metal/alloy/etc bullets and replace them with rubber / other non-lethal projectiles. They're non-lethal, but still pretty damn hurtful and useful for subduing dangerous persons.\n\nTo me, it seems like the perfect solution, so why do I never hear it raised when people are arguing over gun control? I don't claim to be the smartest or most abstract thinker in the world, surely I can't be alone in coming to this idea, so what is wrong with it?\n\nI thought at first that maybe the notion of rubber bullets isn't usually raised due to the injuries that they can cause, but then I realised death is usually a fatal injury. Also, I don't imagine tasers would necessarily be orgasmic for the victim, albeit less fatal than metal bullets.\n\nSo, why are we not discussing this? Why are rubber bullets not a good idea?", "role": "user" }, { "content": " Why aren't rubber bullets being discussed at gun control debates?", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "It has just dawned on me, why not phase out metal/alloy/etc bullets and replace them with rubber / other non-lethal projectiles. They're non-lethal, but still pretty damn hurtful and useful for subduing dangerous persons.\n\nTo me, it seems like the perfect solution, so why do I never hear it raised when people are arguing over gun control? I don't claim to be the smartest or most abstract thinker in the world, surely I can't be alone in coming to this idea, so what is wrong with it?\n\nI thought at first that maybe the notion of rubber bullets isn't usually raised due to the injuries that they can cause, but then I realised death is usually a fatal injury. Also, I don't imagine tasers would necessarily be orgasmic for the victim, albeit less fatal than metal bullets.\n\nSo, why are we not discussing this? Why are rubber bullets not a good idea?", "role": "user" }, { "content": " Why can't the gun control debate be resolved for both sides of the argument by rubber bullets?", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "It has just dawned on me, why not phase out metal/alloy/etc bullets and replace them with rubber / other non-lethal projectiles. They're non-lethal, but still pretty damn hurtful and useful for subduing dangerous persons.\n\nTo me, it seems like the perfect solution, so why do I never hear it raised when people are arguing over gun control? I don't claim to be the smartest or most abstract thinker in the world, surely I can't be alone in coming to this idea, so what is wrong with it?\n\nI thought at first that maybe the notion of rubber bullets isn't usually raised due to the injuries that they can cause, but then I realised death is usually a fatal injury. Also, I don't imagine tasers would necessarily be orgasmic for the victim, albeit less fatal than metal bullets.\n\nSo, why are we not discussing this? Why are rubber bullets not a good idea?", "role": "user" }, { "content": " Why can't the gun control debate be resolved for both sides of the argument by rubber bullets?", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "It has just dawned on me, why not phase out metal/alloy/etc bullets and replace them with rubber / other non-lethal projectiles. They're non-lethal, but still pretty damn hurtful and useful for subduing dangerous persons.\n\nTo me, it seems like the perfect solution, so why do I never hear it raised when people are arguing over gun control? I don't claim to be the smartest or most abstract thinker in the world, surely I can't be alone in coming to this idea, so what is wrong with it?\n\nI thought at first that maybe the notion of rubber bullets isn't usually raised due to the injuries that they can cause, but then I realised death is usually a fatal injury. Also, I don't imagine tasers would necessarily be orgasmic for the victim, albeit less fatal than metal bullets.\n\nSo, why are we not discussing this? Why are rubber bullets not a good idea?", "role": "user" }, { "content": " Why is no one raising the issue of rubber bullets?", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "It has just dawned on me, why not phase out metal/alloy/etc bullets and replace them with rubber / other non-lethal projectiles. They're non-lethal, but still pretty damn hurtful and useful for subduing dangerous persons.\n\nTo me, it seems like the perfect solution, so why do I never hear it raised when people are arguing over gun control? I don't claim to be the smartest or most abstract thinker in the world, surely I can't be alone in coming to this idea, so what is wrong with it?\n\nI thought at first that maybe the notion of rubber bullets isn't usually raised due to the injuries that they can cause, but then I realised death is usually a fatal injury. Also, I don't imagine tasers would necessarily be orgasmic for the victim, albeit less fatal than metal bullets.\n\nSo, why are we not discussing this? Why are rubber bullets not a good idea?", "role": "user" }, { "content": " Why aren't rubber bullets being discussed at gun control debates?", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "It has just dawned on me, why not phase out metal/alloy/etc bullets and replace them with rubber / other non-lethal projectiles. They're non-lethal, but still pretty damn hurtful and useful for subduing dangerous persons.\n\nTo me, it seems like the perfect solution, so why do I never hear it raised when people are arguing over gun control? I don't claim to be the smartest or most abstract thinker in the world, surely I can't be alone in coming to this idea, so what is wrong with it?\n\nI thought at first that maybe the notion of rubber bullets isn't usually raised due to the injuries that they can cause, but then I realised death is usually a fatal injury. Also, I don't imagine tasers would necessarily be orgasmic for the victim, albeit less fatal than metal bullets.\n\nSo, why are we not discussing this? Why are rubber bullets not a good idea?", "role": "user" }, { "content": " Why are we not discussing the idea of rubber bullets?", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "It has just dawned on me, why not phase out metal/alloy/etc bullets and replace them with rubber / other non-lethal projectiles. They're non-lethal, but still pretty damn hurtful and useful for subduing dangerous persons.\n\nTo me, it seems like the perfect solution, so why do I never hear it raised when people are arguing over gun control? I don't claim to be the smartest or most abstract thinker in the world, surely I can't be alone in coming to this idea, so what is wrong with it?\n\nI thought at first that maybe the notion of rubber bullets isn't usually raised due to the injuries that they can cause, but then I realised death is usually a fatal injury. Also, I don't imagine tasers would necessarily be orgasmic for the victim, albeit less fatal than metal bullets.\n\nSo, why are we not discussing this? Why are rubber bullets not a good idea?", "role": "user" }, { "content": " Why are we not discussing the idea of rubber bullets?", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "It has just dawned on me, why not phase out metal/alloy/etc bullets and replace them with rubber / other non-lethal projectiles. They're non-lethal, but still pretty damn hurtful and useful for subduing dangerous persons.\n\nTo me, it seems like the perfect solution, so why do I never hear it raised when people are arguing over gun control? I don't claim to be the smartest or most abstract thinker in the world, surely I can't be alone in coming to this idea, so what is wrong with it?\n\nI thought at first that maybe the notion of rubber bullets isn't usually raised due to the injuries that they can cause, but then I realised death is usually a fatal injury. Also, I don't imagine tasers would necessarily be orgasmic for the victim, albeit less fatal than metal bullets.\n\nSo, why are we not discussing this? Why are rubber bullets not a good idea?", "role": "user" }, { "content": " Why is no one raising the issue of rubber bullets?", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I originally was expecting to move into my new apartment in August, but due to some instability at the time, I was forced to stay with a friend and wait until this month to move in. Today, I received a message from them asking if I was still moving in, and responded that I was since I was receiving my bi-weekly paycheck that would give me enough to pay this month's rent of about $350 (along with a few necessities).\nThey then proceeded to tell me that if I did move in, I would also have to pay the whole first month's rent on top of that, even though I wasn't even living there. I would understand a holding fee, but paying $350 just to hold a spot is utterly ridiculous. I've done the math, and by the time I do get the full $700 or so, it would be time for next month's rent, which would add another $350 on top of that. That means I would essentially have to earn over $1000 in less than a month, literally impossible for someone on my salary.\nAnd here's the icing on the cake; if I decide NOT to move in, they still want to charge me full rent for August AND September. Regardless of what I do, I'll still be down at least $700.\n\nI could really use some help/advice, guys. I'm at a loss at this point. I do NOT want to take out any loans.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " I'm being charged $350 for a place I haven't even moved into yet. I'm looking for any advice or advice of any kind, because I want to get out of this.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I originally was expecting to move into my new apartment in August, but due to some instability at the time, I was forced to stay with a friend and wait until this month to move in. Today, I received a message from them asking if I was still moving in, and responded that I was since I was receiving my bi-weekly paycheck that would give me enough to pay this month's rent of about $350 (along with a few necessities).\nThey then proceeded to tell me that if I did move in, I would also have to pay the whole first month's rent on top of that, even though I wasn't even living there. I would understand a holding fee, but paying $350 just to hold a spot is utterly ridiculous. I've done the math, and by the time I do get the full $700 or so, it would be time for next month's rent, which would add another $350 on top of that. That means I would essentially have to earn over $1000 in less than a month, literally impossible for someone on my salary.\nAnd here's the icing on the cake; if I decide NOT to move in, they still want to charge me full rent for August AND September. Regardless of what I do, I'll still be down at least $700.\n\nI could really use some help/advice, guys. I'm at a loss at this point. I do NOT want to take out any loans.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " Can't afford to move in, and they're charging me for it.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I originally was expecting to move into my new apartment in August, but due to some instability at the time, I was forced to stay with a friend and wait until this month to move in. Today, I received a message from them asking if I was still moving in, and responded that I was since I was receiving my bi-weekly paycheck that would give me enough to pay this month's rent of about $350 (along with a few necessities).\nThey then proceeded to tell me that if I did move in, I would also have to pay the whole first month's rent on top of that, even though I wasn't even living there. I would understand a holding fee, but paying $350 just to hold a spot is utterly ridiculous. I've done the math, and by the time I do get the full $700 or so, it would be time for next month's rent, which would add another $350 on top of that. That means I would essentially have to earn over $1000 in less than a month, literally impossible for someone on my salary.\nAnd here's the icing on the cake; if I decide NOT to move in, they still want to charge me full rent for August AND September. Regardless of what I do, I'll still be down at least $700.\n\nI could really use some help/advice, guys. I'm at a loss at this point. I do NOT want to take out any loans.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " Haven't moved into apartment yet, getting charged full price for past two months. If I cancel, still getting charged $700. If I don't cancel, I'll have to come up with $1,000 by next month.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I originally was expecting to move into my new apartment in August, but due to some instability at the time, I was forced to stay with a friend and wait until this month to move in. Today, I received a message from them asking if I was still moving in, and responded that I was since I was receiving my bi-weekly paycheck that would give me enough to pay this month's rent of about $350 (along with a few necessities).\nThey then proceeded to tell me that if I did move in, I would also have to pay the whole first month's rent on top of that, even though I wasn't even living there. I would understand a holding fee, but paying $350 just to hold a spot is utterly ridiculous. I've done the math, and by the time I do get the full $700 or so, it would be time for next month's rent, which would add another $350 on top of that. That means I would essentially have to earn over $1000 in less than a month, literally impossible for someone on my salary.\nAnd here's the icing on the cake; if I decide NOT to move in, they still want to charge me full rent for August AND September. Regardless of what I do, I'll still be down at least $700.\n\nI could really use some help/advice, guys. I'm at a loss at this point. I do NOT want to take out any loans.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " Am I being charged for an apartment I've not even moved into yet?\n\nEDIT: Thanks for the responses guys. I had no idea this would get so much attention. I really appreciate it. I'll have to see if I can get in contact with them again next week.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I originally was expecting to move into my new apartment in August, but due to some instability at the time, I was forced to stay with a friend and wait until this month to move in. Today, I received a message from them asking if I was still moving in, and responded that I was since I was receiving my bi-weekly paycheck that would give me enough to pay this month's rent of about $350 (along with a few necessities).\nThey then proceeded to tell me that if I did move in, I would also have to pay the whole first month's rent on top of that, even though I wasn't even living there. I would understand a holding fee, but paying $350 just to hold a spot is utterly ridiculous. I've done the math, and by the time I do get the full $700 or so, it would be time for next month's rent, which would add another $350 on top of that. That means I would essentially have to earn over $1000 in less than a month, literally impossible for someone on my salary.\nAnd here's the icing on the cake; if I decide NOT to move in, they still want to charge me full rent for August AND September. Regardless of what I do, I'll still be down at least $700.\n\nI could really use some help/advice, guys. I'm at a loss at this point. I do NOT want to take out any loans.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " I'm being charged $350 for a place I haven't even moved into yet. I'm looking for any advice or advice of any kind, because I want to get out of this.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I originally was expecting to move into my new apartment in August, but due to some instability at the time, I was forced to stay with a friend and wait until this month to move in. Today, I received a message from them asking if I was still moving in, and responded that I was since I was receiving my bi-weekly paycheck that would give me enough to pay this month's rent of about $350 (along with a few necessities).\nThey then proceeded to tell me that if I did move in, I would also have to pay the whole first month's rent on top of that, even though I wasn't even living there. I would understand a holding fee, but paying $350 just to hold a spot is utterly ridiculous. I've done the math, and by the time I do get the full $700 or so, it would be time for next month's rent, which would add another $350 on top of that. That means I would essentially have to earn over $1000 in less than a month, literally impossible for someone on my salary.\nAnd here's the icing on the cake; if I decide NOT to move in, they still want to charge me full rent for August AND September. Regardless of what I do, I'll still be down at least $700.\n\nI could really use some help/advice, guys. I'm at a loss at this point. I do NOT want to take out any loans.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " Can't afford to move in, and they're charging me for it.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I originally was expecting to move into my new apartment in August, but due to some instability at the time, I was forced to stay with a friend and wait until this month to move in. Today, I received a message from them asking if I was still moving in, and responded that I was since I was receiving my bi-weekly paycheck that would give me enough to pay this month's rent of about $350 (along with a few necessities).\nThey then proceeded to tell me that if I did move in, I would also have to pay the whole first month's rent on top of that, even though I wasn't even living there. I would understand a holding fee, but paying $350 just to hold a spot is utterly ridiculous. I've done the math, and by the time I do get the full $700 or so, it would be time for next month's rent, which would add another $350 on top of that. That means I would essentially have to earn over $1000 in less than a month, literally impossible for someone on my salary.\nAnd here's the icing on the cake; if I decide NOT to move in, they still want to charge me full rent for August AND September. Regardless of what I do, I'll still be down at least $700.\n\nI could really use some help/advice, guys. I'm at a loss at this point. I do NOT want to take out any loans.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " Haven't moved into apartment yet, getting charged full price for past two months. If I cancel, still getting charged $700. If I don't cancel, I'll have to come up with $1,000 by next month.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I originally was expecting to move into my new apartment in August, but due to some instability at the time, I was forced to stay with a friend and wait until this month to move in. Today, I received a message from them asking if I was still moving in, and responded that I was since I was receiving my bi-weekly paycheck that would give me enough to pay this month's rent of about $350 (along with a few necessities).\nThey then proceeded to tell me that if I did move in, I would also have to pay the whole first month's rent on top of that, even though I wasn't even living there. I would understand a holding fee, but paying $350 just to hold a spot is utterly ridiculous. I've done the math, and by the time I do get the full $700 or so, it would be time for next month's rent, which would add another $350 on top of that. That means I would essentially have to earn over $1000 in less than a month, literally impossible for someone on my salary.\nAnd here's the icing on the cake; if I decide NOT to move in, they still want to charge me full rent for August AND September. Regardless of what I do, I'll still be down at least $700.\n\nI could really use some help/advice, guys. I'm at a loss at this point. I do NOT want to take out any loans.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " Am I being charged for an apartment I've not even moved into yet?\n\nEDIT: Thanks for the responses guys. I had no idea this would get so much attention. I really appreciate it. I'll have to see if I can get in contact with them again next week.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I originally was expecting to move into my new apartment in August, but due to some instability at the time, I was forced to stay with a friend and wait until this month to move in. Today, I received a message from them asking if I was still moving in, and responded that I was since I was receiving my bi-weekly paycheck that would give me enough to pay this month's rent of about $350 (along with a few necessities).\nThey then proceeded to tell me that if I did move in, I would also have to pay the whole first month's rent on top of that, even though I wasn't even living there. I would understand a holding fee, but paying $350 just to hold a spot is utterly ridiculous. I've done the math, and by the time I do get the full $700 or so, it would be time for next month's rent, which would add another $350 on top of that. That means I would essentially have to earn over $1000 in less than a month, literally impossible for someone on my salary.\nAnd here's the icing on the cake; if I decide NOT to move in, they still want to charge me full rent for August AND September. Regardless of what I do, I'll still be down at least $700.\n\nI could really use some help/advice, guys. I'm at a loss at this point. I do NOT want to take out any loans.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " I'm being charged $350 for a place I haven't even moved into yet. I'm looking for any advice or advice of any kind, because I want to get out of this.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I originally was expecting to move into my new apartment in August, but due to some instability at the time, I was forced to stay with a friend and wait until this month to move in. Today, I received a message from them asking if I was still moving in, and responded that I was since I was receiving my bi-weekly paycheck that would give me enough to pay this month's rent of about $350 (along with a few necessities).\nThey then proceeded to tell me that if I did move in, I would also have to pay the whole first month's rent on top of that, even though I wasn't even living there. I would understand a holding fee, but paying $350 just to hold a spot is utterly ridiculous. I've done the math, and by the time I do get the full $700 or so, it would be time for next month's rent, which would add another $350 on top of that. That means I would essentially have to earn over $1000 in less than a month, literally impossible for someone on my salary.\nAnd here's the icing on the cake; if I decide NOT to move in, they still want to charge me full rent for August AND September. Regardless of what I do, I'll still be down at least $700.\n\nI could really use some help/advice, guys. I'm at a loss at this point. I do NOT want to take out any loans.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " Can't afford to move in, and they're charging me for it.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I originally was expecting to move into my new apartment in August, but due to some instability at the time, I was forced to stay with a friend and wait until this month to move in. Today, I received a message from them asking if I was still moving in, and responded that I was since I was receiving my bi-weekly paycheck that would give me enough to pay this month's rent of about $350 (along with a few necessities).\nThey then proceeded to tell me that if I did move in, I would also have to pay the whole first month's rent on top of that, even though I wasn't even living there. I would understand a holding fee, but paying $350 just to hold a spot is utterly ridiculous. I've done the math, and by the time I do get the full $700 or so, it would be time for next month's rent, which would add another $350 on top of that. That means I would essentially have to earn over $1000 in less than a month, literally impossible for someone on my salary.\nAnd here's the icing on the cake; if I decide NOT to move in, they still want to charge me full rent for August AND September. Regardless of what I do, I'll still be down at least $700.\n\nI could really use some help/advice, guys. I'm at a loss at this point. I do NOT want to take out any loans.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " I'm being charged $350 for a place I haven't even moved into yet. I'm looking for any advice or advice of any kind, because I want to get out of this.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I originally was expecting to move into my new apartment in August, but due to some instability at the time, I was forced to stay with a friend and wait until this month to move in. Today, I received a message from them asking if I was still moving in, and responded that I was since I was receiving my bi-weekly paycheck that would give me enough to pay this month's rent of about $350 (along with a few necessities).\nThey then proceeded to tell me that if I did move in, I would also have to pay the whole first month's rent on top of that, even though I wasn't even living there. I would understand a holding fee, but paying $350 just to hold a spot is utterly ridiculous. I've done the math, and by the time I do get the full $700 or so, it would be time for next month's rent, which would add another $350 on top of that. That means I would essentially have to earn over $1000 in less than a month, literally impossible for someone on my salary.\nAnd here's the icing on the cake; if I decide NOT to move in, they still want to charge me full rent for August AND September. Regardless of what I do, I'll still be down at least $700.\n\nI could really use some help/advice, guys. I'm at a loss at this point. I do NOT want to take out any loans.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " Haven't moved into apartment yet, getting charged full price for past two months. If I cancel, still getting charged $700. If I don't cancel, I'll have to come up with $1,000 by next month.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I originally was expecting to move into my new apartment in August, but due to some instability at the time, I was forced to stay with a friend and wait until this month to move in. Today, I received a message from them asking if I was still moving in, and responded that I was since I was receiving my bi-weekly paycheck that would give me enough to pay this month's rent of about $350 (along with a few necessities).\nThey then proceeded to tell me that if I did move in, I would also have to pay the whole first month's rent on top of that, even though I wasn't even living there. I would understand a holding fee, but paying $350 just to hold a spot is utterly ridiculous. I've done the math, and by the time I do get the full $700 or so, it would be time for next month's rent, which would add another $350 on top of that. That means I would essentially have to earn over $1000 in less than a month, literally impossible for someone on my salary.\nAnd here's the icing on the cake; if I decide NOT to move in, they still want to charge me full rent for August AND September. Regardless of what I do, I'll still be down at least $700.\n\nI could really use some help/advice, guys. I'm at a loss at this point. I do NOT want to take out any loans.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " Haven't moved into apartment yet, getting charged full price for past two months. If I cancel, still getting charged $700. If I don't cancel, I'll have to come up with $1,000 by next month.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I originally was expecting to move into my new apartment in August, but due to some instability at the time, I was forced to stay with a friend and wait until this month to move in. Today, I received a message from them asking if I was still moving in, and responded that I was since I was receiving my bi-weekly paycheck that would give me enough to pay this month's rent of about $350 (along with a few necessities).\nThey then proceeded to tell me that if I did move in, I would also have to pay the whole first month's rent on top of that, even though I wasn't even living there. I would understand a holding fee, but paying $350 just to hold a spot is utterly ridiculous. I've done the math, and by the time I do get the full $700 or so, it would be time for next month's rent, which would add another $350 on top of that. That means I would essentially have to earn over $1000 in less than a month, literally impossible for someone on my salary.\nAnd here's the icing on the cake; if I decide NOT to move in, they still want to charge me full rent for August AND September. Regardless of what I do, I'll still be down at least $700.\n\nI could really use some help/advice, guys. I'm at a loss at this point. I do NOT want to take out any loans.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " Am I being charged for an apartment I've not even moved into yet?\n\nEDIT: Thanks for the responses guys. I had no idea this would get so much attention. I really appreciate it. I'll have to see if I can get in contact with them again next week.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I originally was expecting to move into my new apartment in August, but due to some instability at the time, I was forced to stay with a friend and wait until this month to move in. Today, I received a message from them asking if I was still moving in, and responded that I was since I was receiving my bi-weekly paycheck that would give me enough to pay this month's rent of about $350 (along with a few necessities).\nThey then proceeded to tell me that if I did move in, I would also have to pay the whole first month's rent on top of that, even though I wasn't even living there. I would understand a holding fee, but paying $350 just to hold a spot is utterly ridiculous. I've done the math, and by the time I do get the full $700 or so, it would be time for next month's rent, which would add another $350 on top of that. That means I would essentially have to earn over $1000 in less than a month, literally impossible for someone on my salary.\nAnd here's the icing on the cake; if I decide NOT to move in, they still want to charge me full rent for August AND September. Regardless of what I do, I'll still be down at least $700.\n\nI could really use some help/advice, guys. I'm at a loss at this point. I do NOT want to take out any loans.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " I'm being charged $350 for a place I haven't even moved into yet. I'm looking for any advice or advice of any kind, because I want to get out of this.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I originally was expecting to move into my new apartment in August, but due to some instability at the time, I was forced to stay with a friend and wait until this month to move in. Today, I received a message from them asking if I was still moving in, and responded that I was since I was receiving my bi-weekly paycheck that would give me enough to pay this month's rent of about $350 (along with a few necessities).\nThey then proceeded to tell me that if I did move in, I would also have to pay the whole first month's rent on top of that, even though I wasn't even living there. I would understand a holding fee, but paying $350 just to hold a spot is utterly ridiculous. I've done the math, and by the time I do get the full $700 or so, it would be time for next month's rent, which would add another $350 on top of that. That means I would essentially have to earn over $1000 in less than a month, literally impossible for someone on my salary.\nAnd here's the icing on the cake; if I decide NOT to move in, they still want to charge me full rent for August AND September. Regardless of what I do, I'll still be down at least $700.\n\nI could really use some help/advice, guys. I'm at a loss at this point. I do NOT want to take out any loans.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " Can't afford to move in, and they're charging me for it.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I originally was expecting to move into my new apartment in August, but due to some instability at the time, I was forced to stay with a friend and wait until this month to move in. Today, I received a message from them asking if I was still moving in, and responded that I was since I was receiving my bi-weekly paycheck that would give me enough to pay this month's rent of about $350 (along with a few necessities).\nThey then proceeded to tell me that if I did move in, I would also have to pay the whole first month's rent on top of that, even though I wasn't even living there. I would understand a holding fee, but paying $350 just to hold a spot is utterly ridiculous. I've done the math, and by the time I do get the full $700 or so, it would be time for next month's rent, which would add another $350 on top of that. That means I would essentially have to earn over $1000 in less than a month, literally impossible for someone on my salary.\nAnd here's the icing on the cake; if I decide NOT to move in, they still want to charge me full rent for August AND September. Regardless of what I do, I'll still be down at least $700.\n\nI could really use some help/advice, guys. I'm at a loss at this point. I do NOT want to take out any loans.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " I'm being charged $350 for a place I haven't even moved into yet. I'm looking for any advice or advice of any kind, because I want to get out of this.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I originally was expecting to move into my new apartment in August, but due to some instability at the time, I was forced to stay with a friend and wait until this month to move in. Today, I received a message from them asking if I was still moving in, and responded that I was since I was receiving my bi-weekly paycheck that would give me enough to pay this month's rent of about $350 (along with a few necessities).\nThey then proceeded to tell me that if I did move in, I would also have to pay the whole first month's rent on top of that, even though I wasn't even living there. I would understand a holding fee, but paying $350 just to hold a spot is utterly ridiculous. I've done the math, and by the time I do get the full $700 or so, it would be time for next month's rent, which would add another $350 on top of that. That means I would essentially have to earn over $1000 in less than a month, literally impossible for someone on my salary.\nAnd here's the icing on the cake; if I decide NOT to move in, they still want to charge me full rent for August AND September. Regardless of what I do, I'll still be down at least $700.\n\nI could really use some help/advice, guys. I'm at a loss at this point. I do NOT want to take out any loans.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " Haven't moved into apartment yet, getting charged full price for past two months. If I cancel, still getting charged $700. If I don't cancel, I'll have to come up with $1,000 by next month.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I originally was expecting to move into my new apartment in August, but due to some instability at the time, I was forced to stay with a friend and wait until this month to move in. Today, I received a message from them asking if I was still moving in, and responded that I was since I was receiving my bi-weekly paycheck that would give me enough to pay this month's rent of about $350 (along with a few necessities).\nThey then proceeded to tell me that if I did move in, I would also have to pay the whole first month's rent on top of that, even though I wasn't even living there. I would understand a holding fee, but paying $350 just to hold a spot is utterly ridiculous. I've done the math, and by the time I do get the full $700 or so, it would be time for next month's rent, which would add another $350 on top of that. That means I would essentially have to earn over $1000 in less than a month, literally impossible for someone on my salary.\nAnd here's the icing on the cake; if I decide NOT to move in, they still want to charge me full rent for August AND September. Regardless of what I do, I'll still be down at least $700.\n\nI could really use some help/advice, guys. I'm at a loss at this point. I do NOT want to take out any loans.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " Haven't moved into apartment yet, getting charged full price for past two months. If I cancel, still getting charged $700. If I don't cancel, I'll have to come up with $1,000 by next month.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I originally was expecting to move into my new apartment in August, but due to some instability at the time, I was forced to stay with a friend and wait until this month to move in. Today, I received a message from them asking if I was still moving in, and responded that I was since I was receiving my bi-weekly paycheck that would give me enough to pay this month's rent of about $350 (along with a few necessities).\nThey then proceeded to tell me that if I did move in, I would also have to pay the whole first month's rent on top of that, even though I wasn't even living there. I would understand a holding fee, but paying $350 just to hold a spot is utterly ridiculous. I've done the math, and by the time I do get the full $700 or so, it would be time for next month's rent, which would add another $350 on top of that. That means I would essentially have to earn over $1000 in less than a month, literally impossible for someone on my salary.\nAnd here's the icing on the cake; if I decide NOT to move in, they still want to charge me full rent for August AND September. Regardless of what I do, I'll still be down at least $700.\n\nI could really use some help/advice, guys. I'm at a loss at this point. I do NOT want to take out any loans.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " Am I being charged for an apartment I've not even moved into yet?\n\nEDIT: Thanks for the responses guys. I had no idea this would get so much attention. I really appreciate it. I'll have to see if I can get in contact with them again next week.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I originally was expecting to move into my new apartment in August, but due to some instability at the time, I was forced to stay with a friend and wait until this month to move in. Today, I received a message from them asking if I was still moving in, and responded that I was since I was receiving my bi-weekly paycheck that would give me enough to pay this month's rent of about $350 (along with a few necessities).\nThey then proceeded to tell me that if I did move in, I would also have to pay the whole first month's rent on top of that, even though I wasn't even living there. I would understand a holding fee, but paying $350 just to hold a spot is utterly ridiculous. I've done the math, and by the time I do get the full $700 or so, it would be time for next month's rent, which would add another $350 on top of that. That means I would essentially have to earn over $1000 in less than a month, literally impossible for someone on my salary.\nAnd here's the icing on the cake; if I decide NOT to move in, they still want to charge me full rent for August AND September. Regardless of what I do, I'll still be down at least $700.\n\nI could really use some help/advice, guys. I'm at a loss at this point. I do NOT want to take out any loans.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " I'm being charged $350 for a place I haven't even moved into yet. I'm looking for any advice or advice of any kind, because I want to get out of this.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I originally was expecting to move into my new apartment in August, but due to some instability at the time, I was forced to stay with a friend and wait until this month to move in. Today, I received a message from them asking if I was still moving in, and responded that I was since I was receiving my bi-weekly paycheck that would give me enough to pay this month's rent of about $350 (along with a few necessities).\nThey then proceeded to tell me that if I did move in, I would also have to pay the whole first month's rent on top of that, even though I wasn't even living there. I would understand a holding fee, but paying $350 just to hold a spot is utterly ridiculous. I've done the math, and by the time I do get the full $700 or so, it would be time for next month's rent, which would add another $350 on top of that. That means I would essentially have to earn over $1000 in less than a month, literally impossible for someone on my salary.\nAnd here's the icing on the cake; if I decide NOT to move in, they still want to charge me full rent for August AND September. Regardless of what I do, I'll still be down at least $700.\n\nI could really use some help/advice, guys. I'm at a loss at this point. I do NOT want to take out any loans.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " Can't afford to move in, and they're charging me for it.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I originally was expecting to move into my new apartment in August, but due to some instability at the time, I was forced to stay with a friend and wait until this month to move in. Today, I received a message from them asking if I was still moving in, and responded that I was since I was receiving my bi-weekly paycheck that would give me enough to pay this month's rent of about $350 (along with a few necessities).\nThey then proceeded to tell me that if I did move in, I would also have to pay the whole first month's rent on top of that, even though I wasn't even living there. I would understand a holding fee, but paying $350 just to hold a spot is utterly ridiculous. I've done the math, and by the time I do get the full $700 or so, it would be time for next month's rent, which would add another $350 on top of that. That means I would essentially have to earn over $1000 in less than a month, literally impossible for someone on my salary.\nAnd here's the icing on the cake; if I decide NOT to move in, they still want to charge me full rent for August AND September. Regardless of what I do, I'll still be down at least $700.\n\nI could really use some help/advice, guys. I'm at a loss at this point. I do NOT want to take out any loans.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " I'm being charged $350 for a place I haven't even moved into yet. I'm looking for any advice or advice of any kind, because I want to get out of this.", "role": "assistant" } ]

[ { "content": "I originally was expecting to move into my new apartment in August, but due to some instability at the time, I was forced to stay with a friend and wait until this month to move in. Today, I received a message from them asking if I was still moving in, and responded that I was since I was receiving my bi-weekly paycheck that would give me enough to pay this month's rent of about $350 (along with a few necessities).\nThey then proceeded to tell me that if I did move in, I would also have to pay the whole first month's rent on top of that, even though I wasn't even living there. I would understand a holding fee, but paying $350 just to hold a spot is utterly ridiculous. I've done the math, and by the time I do get the full $700 or so, it would be time for next month's rent, which would add another $350 on top of that. That means I would essentially have to earn over $1000 in less than a month, literally impossible for someone on my salary.\nAnd here's the icing on the cake; if I decide NOT to move in, they still want to charge me full rent for August AND September. Regardless of what I do, I'll still be down at least $700.\n\nI could really use some help/advice, guys. I'm at a loss at this point. I do NOT want to take out any loans.", "role": "user" }, { "content": " Haven't moved into apartment yet, getting charged full price for past two months. If I cancel, still getting charged $700. If I don't cancel, I'll have to come up with $1,000 by next month.", "role": "assistant" } ]